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I guess a lot of young men are just bitches then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:04 AM
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Holy shit !! My man, you've cracked it. This is true wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:42 AM
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Yes. There is something extremely wrong with me. I don't know what it is. I am happy with my life. I think more men should find happiness by themself and quit this yearning for romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:02 AM
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A peaceful world, that will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:19 PM
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"A starving person will never be able to understand the person complaining about bad food" - A Nice Guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:47 AM
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I think it's alright. It's a matter of will power, to live on knowing that you'll never experience what billions of people experience throughout their lives. At least that's how I see it. Every generation has its losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:02 PM
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This is the way. At least the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:28 AM
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From personal experience, once you reach a certain stage as a below-average man, you don't have to decenter women. They'll move away from you on their own. Only your life, your interests will be there and you'll have no choice but to focus on yourself only.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:37 AM
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Ooooooh damn.....thats a good line.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:28 PM
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You know once you just accept that this is how women work and don't try to get justifications from them, life will get way easier. I don't understand why you are still asking for women's opinion on this. You know they will swear up and down on the other side. Is this some kind of a sadistic thing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:39 AM
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I have seen countless posts regarding this. At first, I was really intrigued and now I am living this truth. However, I'll say this. My inceldom is my own doing, my hardship in dating is my own fault. I am a boring man where Perl scripting is the most exciting thing I have going. Men, like me do have it harder because we are all boring to the average woman. It's high time we ended this discussion. Just accept and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:12 PM
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When it's an attractive man, obviously there's a higher chance of the woman being agreeable to it. Men, who are attractive and know about it, will always approach and be approached by women of all kinds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:07 AM
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I don't think women care about this. They're probably happy that unattractive men are leaving them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:55 PM
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Someone got dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:11 AM
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I'm pretty sure that was the effect of handsome guys in kpop, not guys who worry about a woman calling him husband material instead of hookup material. And the men did nothing to change what women felt. Some groups of the men sang amazing songs and women got attracted to it. Women's attraction wasn't the target, it was simply a side effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:42 PM
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That's the near part. There is no solution to this other than Men simply shrugging it off and walking away. You cannot change what women feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:57 PM
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Being lonely is far far far better than dying. Because cancer isn't a living breathing person with their own free will like women. If women don't like a particular man, his options are to stop pursuing women or become a rapist (do you want to?). You cannot change women's right to free will. A better example would be that you are in a supermarket and they don't want to sell anything to you, no matter how much you are willing to pay. Your only option is to leave the supermarket or become a thief (…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:25 AM
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Well, you can assume that woman isn't into that man as much as she should be. Since her bare minimum for him is a lot of work, he should leave out of self-respect. Even if women insist about it, at the end of the day, it doesn't have much effect on what men feel and do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:42 PM
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Simply put, if you feel like you are doing too much or she isn't that into you, you have the right to walk away. It doesn't matter how she feels or how she thinks she makes you feel. All this "hookup/husband material" discussion would become moot that day men get the will to leave a relationship no matter how lonely it'll get for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:53 AM
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Have you never seen the man women swoon for ? I have and I was truly amazed. I realised that women are capable of showing interest and if they don't show it to you, then you are simply meant for extinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:21 PM
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Alright. Cool. There's nothing wrong with women feeling that way just as there's nothing wrong with how you tick. Porn is a fantasy, it cannot be used as a benchmark for women's attraction. Media made by women could be used as a guide. Even then, being one's authentic self will make the person happier in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 04:20 AM
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That is my point. You feel differently for different men. If Idris Elba said Hi to you, you'd be like "oh, I dropped my panties". If Jesse Eisenberg said Hi to you, you'd be extending your hand for a handshake and saying hi back. It's safe to say that the men, who want to date you, should be making you feel like you feel for Idris and not Jesse. Conversely, if you don't drop your panties when you see a man, he shouldn't be trying to date you. Disclaimer: "Dropping your panties" is just a placeho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 11:58 PM
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Well, yes. Our superficial characteristics are what makes a woman insanely attracted in the beginning. Our personality and character keeps them there. All men ask is that initial attraction to be there to the point that the man doesn't have doubts. I know it's possible to find that woman with whom I will never doubt if she is attracted to me. I think that's what other men also mean by genuine desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:53 AM
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My friends also want my company so that cannot be a parameter for desire. I'm pretty sure that as a woman, you also would have felt different for different men. Some you couldn't keep your hands off, some you would do it if he did something about it. Men just want to be the first guy. There's nothing wrong with you feeling the second way for some men and there's nothing wrong with men not wanting to be that guy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:12 AM
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Not really. It means exactly what it is. "To be desired for who you are" is the best feeling ever. I've tasted that once and I'm never going back. I'm absolutely sure there are women out there who would feel the same for me, just as much as I desire them. I will keep saying this and hopefully find just one of the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:46 AM
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Zehahaha...."feminist white knight simps" you used every "insult" for men who are feminists in a single statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:41 AM
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Of course, I've talked to countless girls. I've always felt that my presence is unwanted, hence I've always backed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:16 PM
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I am 5'11, 85 kg, earning a middle-class salary for my country. In my 27 years on this planet, I have had one girl make the first move. She is an extrovert, unlike the majority of the women I've met who claimed they were introverts (maybe just to avoid talking to me). With the right girl, it won't be about who made the first move or who paid for the date. You'd never feel like you're making all the effort, you'd feel appreciated and generally happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:39 PM
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Well, women always prefer a man with experience to a man without. It makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:41 PM
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It's not about ego. Why should they approach ? The men of the world hand it to them in a platter to reject or accept. Why would ask someone for money if you have people unloading millions at your doorstep? As a side note, I sure wish men are as happy as women are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:32 AM
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Totally valid. On one hand, it sucks and on the other hand, it takes you towards true independence. Nothing you do would matter, who you are wouldn't matter. It sounds like it's bad but in actuality, it just means you can be whatever you want to be. For me personally, I have to look after my parents in their old age so I'm not independent yet. However, since I'll never have a wife or a family, once my parents' time is over, I'll be truly independent. You get my idea, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:47 AM
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Alright cool. To each their own. 👉👉
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:36 PM
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1% of a million is 10,000. That's 10000 men who are eligible according to your criteria. That's why I keep saying that it's a big number. All the guys (good and bad) I know fail at the porn criteria. Everything else is really easy to satisfy. Anyway, I'm just speaking of a mathematical standpoint that no matter what your filters are, there will always be some men who satisfy. You just haven't found them yet. Maybe you never will. That's up to you. Hope you find your prince charming...✌🏻✌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 03:59 AM
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Which country are you from? 3% would still be a significant number. I think most men fail the "no watching porn" criteria. Statistics won't really take the men who are willing to stop if a partner demands it into account. Then the age limit. Your criteria doesn't seem that difficult to satisfy and I'm surprised that you have stopped looking. Again, I repeat you haven't been lucky enough to meet at least one handsome man that satisfies all your criteria. I'm sure in time you will find him (or her…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:07 PM
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Not really. There are plenty. Maybe you just weren't physically attracted to them or you didn't find anything interesting about them. There is no fault with either parties, just no luck. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:11 PM
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Nah, it's kinda implied that the man is taller, handsome to her, charming, socially competent and not a bum. And not watching porn is pretty easy. I personally would stop watching if I get a girlfriend out of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:10 PM
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I'm sure there are plenty of guys who satisfy this. You just didn't have the luck meeting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:41 AM
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Demisexual until they meet the right man. I just want to be that right man for one woman. Till then, the search continues
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:52 PM
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He was a product of "a broken system that failed him". When he killed the girl, he became a monster. Don't try to justify the murder my dude, no amount of inceldom or loneliness or invisibility justifies the murder of that poor girl. He is evil and should be jailed just like all the incels who are just a second away from murdering women who don't acknowledge their own existence. By, An incel who doesn't blame women for his shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:09 AM
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As an incel, when I got rejected, I wanted to understand why she rejected me. I read through articles on the internet on why I should respect the girl's choice to not want me. I saw all the "man-hating" posts, I saw that they chose the bear. I didn't end up hating them. if you think men are radicalised by women say about their lives experience of gender discrimination and sexual harassment and not by the countless alpha-men youtube content, then you're too far gone to bring back to the normal. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:39 AM
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Aah. So, when a woman is a high achiever, you believe it's fake and those are all her husband's achievements. Come on mate, you're proving my point, especially with the women having no potential remark. Big uufff. Nowadays, almost all the people in power are bad. That's why pedophiles are accepted in the church but not trans people. That's why Russia is trying to annex Ukraine. Maybe you are right that there's never been good people in governments. It's just the most evil and less evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:34 PM
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Again, you're confusing the prosperity and the resource availability all as a result of patriarchy instead of the actions of certain amazing people. Patriarchy also added limits to the potential of women, assigning them only household duties. If patriarchy wasn't present, then there would be more women achievers like Marie Curie. Women got the right to vote in America in 1920 between the first and second world war. You again attribute that to political reasons instead of a few good men in power …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:39 PM
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You're confusing the success of some amazing men across time as the success of patriarchy. Newton would still figure out the laws of motion whether it was a patriarchal or egalitarian world. Almost every society has been patriarchal because men are stronger and patriarchy started crumpling with the industrial revolution when a man's strength was nullified by weapons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:18 PM
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Who decided that men are inherently disposable and women are inherently valuable against their wishes? Ah, that's men again. Some men decided that lesser men are disposable and all women are inherently valuable. Some men decided that they should be the decision makers of the world. After all, they are logical and always right. Never mind the wishes of the others. That's patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:14 PM
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So you, as a man, believe that a society that values you more than your sister or your mother is far better than anything else. Well, isn't that convenient?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 10:54 AM
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Come on now. Don't bring that stupidly incorrect quote about the number of killers remaining the same. The world can do a lot better without all the school shooters. You know it, we all know it. Morality of the innocent will result in the death of the innocent alone. Murderers operate outside that morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:52 AM
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That's alright. The world will be better without people who want to kill others aka murderers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:20 AM
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I'm saying that women don't have to say anything and men will still act as an antagonist. A woman could just post a picture of hers at the beach and there will be creepy men insulting her there. A woman could simply post her opinion and men will see it as an attack on them. That's what I meant by my original comment. From your own interpretation, why are men antagonizing women when they are going through a loneliness epidemic?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:43 AM
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This subreddit and its double negatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:39 AM
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Red pill ideology is bad for the most part. That is a 13 year old child and yes, he has been influenced by his peers. The second he kills her, all the sympathy is out. A person only has the right to take another's life in self-defense. But that's just me, people are allowed to feel different ways. The way some people justify his actions though, makes me worried for the people around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:31 PM
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I guess you're a better person than I am, seeing as you felt bad for him. I was on his side and had empathy for him until he got that knife.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:53 PM
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Me personally, when someone decides to end another's life, all sympathy goes out of the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:44 PM
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It felt real and uncomfortable. I was in his position once, I was rejected by a girl. I was angry and felt my ego bruised. I wanted to prove to everyone that it was her loss and that I am above her. The only difference was that I wanted to beat her in all the exams in my school, not end her life. I think the series highlighted a very real and dangerous issue that some people decided was again the fault of the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:35 PM
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What would you do then? What choices would you make in that scenario, considering that you're freshly out of college but haven't been able to find a job. What would you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:31 PM
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Let me give you a hypothetical. Your country's leaders decided all men without jobs should be killed as they don't serve any purpose. If you have a job, you could lose it tomorrow and get killed the day after that. If you're studying, then you need to have a job the moment you finish the education. You wouldn't be afraid of the government and would never raise your voice in any way, not even online ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:38 PM
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So, it's like this. Some men are dangerous to all women. Women are raising their voice against these men. Are you suggesting that instead, they should stop talking about and just accept those men's behaviour ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:31 PM
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Men's (and surprisingly, some women's) reaction to the recent UK series - the adolescence -tells you all you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:27 PM
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You mentioned various ways in which women show disrespect towards men online, whom they claim to be afraid of. Well, I am saying it takes so little to trigger men, women don't have to actually disrespect an individual. A woman can say that she prefers a bear over a man and look what happened, thousands of snowflakes got their fee-fees hurt and started threatening the women back, proving the woman's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:25 PM
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Nah, men have become snowflakes whose feelings get hurt when a woman breathes wrong at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:26 AM
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Eh...I don't think false accusations are that much of a threat. We already don't believe women when they come up with real accusations. False ones would just get thrown out. As far as suicides go, I don't see any situation where suicide is an answer. Not all women though. You staying away from the intern is alright. You do it to protect yourself without having any effect on that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:49 PM
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Come on now...what are they gonna do? Talk you into killing yourself? What exactly do you mean "getting eaten alive by sociopaths"?. Unless women pose a physical or financial threat to you, I don't think there's any issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:18 AM
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You had a good point but your mindset is too toxic for people to actually listen to. Being a feminist as a man has value only if the man himself matters to women. Men whom no one cares about, they don't have to be a feminist, their existence doesn't matter. As long as they don't actively hurt or cause hurt to women. You don't have to be a feminist if you believe that no woman cares about you. That's fine. Just don't be a negative influence on the lives of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:10 AM
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Dude, being a good person is its own reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:06 AM
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Come on now. Just because you don't see their struggles doesn't mean it's not there. Women are privileged in some ways compared to men. They have their own struggles like having to deal with periods for half of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:33 AM
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I'm a low tier man and I don't think women despise me. They just don't care about my existence. High tier men are men who actually matter to women. There aren't any rules imo. High tier men are free to do whatever they want. Low Tier are also free to do what they want. Women only care about the first and not the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:21 PM
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Generally, I don't think so. Far too many options to actually have a true struggle. Whatever struggles they have, are because of their own inaction. Far too many of them just take a seat back. The entire world will acknowledge and hell even help them with their struggles if they weren't so passive. That being said, I do hope each and every one of them finds their happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:24 PM
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Are you suggesting that women control "access" to both then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:47 AM
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Not unsafe, a little bit of danger and unpredictability brings out passion in a woman. Passion is the biggest difference between husband and hookup material in the minds of men. Safe eventually becomes boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:04 AM
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In your first bullet point, you meant responsive instead of responsible, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:34 AM
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It's a compliment from a woman I am dating and have been intimate with. Everyone else, it's either she's pitying me or she thinks I'm safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:48 PM
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I'll agree on the hot guy, not so much on the hook up material. Hotter the guy, better the treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:49 PM
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You said it yourself. It matters. Being handsome is the wall that most men don't get past. Nothing wrong with it. From my limited experience, a woman who finds you genuinely hot and a woman for whom the attraction grows over time, there's a world of difference in how they treat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:10 PM
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I can only speak to my experience. Most people I've met were surprised when they learnt that I was an introvert during my college days. They've only known me as an extrovert. I'm in the exact spot I found myself in college. Nobody wants to spend time with me and I don't blame them. All the people around me don't enjoy the things I do. My bros are not interested in spending time with me, so why would women be? I think a lot of guys simple have too much of niche interests to have any social groups…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:02 AM
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Hey, I am in the second point. Although, I don't hate her or anything. I think she's just exercising the power of being a woman and she should do anything that makes her happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:47 PM
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This is right here. For the longest time, I thought women don't approach men. Turns out, they didn't approach me and it's because I am unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:01 AM
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Her body, her choice. Shouldn't affect my perception of other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:29 AM
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Have a nice day ..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:39 AM
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Being humble enough to admit and correct one's mistake is a good quality so, I try.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:31 AM
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My understanding of English got better, so it wasn't a waste of time for me. It's a debate post, you and I debated and came to the conclusion that I was initially wrong. We came to an agreement and if this was a waste of time, then this entire subreddit is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:11 AM
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Huh. I see what you mean and I stand corrected. "Most women are more likely to be with a man in the top 10%".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:43 AM
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Alright. My understanding of "unless" is : "The first statement can be true ONLY IF the second statement is true" Most women would be attracted to you ONLY IF you are in the top 10% men. As explained by the arbitrary numbers example I gave, All 5 women are attracted to the man who is a 10 is equal to Most women would be attracted to you only if you are a 10. Lesser your attractiveness, lesser and lesser women are attracted to you. My claim isn't scientific, it's purely observational and as such,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:24 AM
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My statement doesn't mean that most women ONLY want to be with a top 10% man. It simply means more women would want to be with you if you are in the top 10%. Woman 1 only likes men who are 10 Woman 2 ---> men who are 9+ Woman 3 ----> men who are 8+ Woman 4 -----> men who are 7+ Woman 5 -----> men who are 6+. If you are 10, most women want to be with you. If you are 6, most women don't want to be with you (there is still one and it still holds true). That's what I meant with my original argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:01 AM
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I said "unless you are in the top 10%, most women wouldn't want to have sex with you". I didn't say "no woman", so I think you just read it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:05 AM
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How do? Being in the top 10% means you are really attractive, women want to have sex with attractive men. Combine those two and well, many women would want to have sex with you. Conversely, as you go down from that percentage, the amount of women who find you attractive goes down and well, most women wouldn't want to have sex with you. It's really simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:47 AM
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What is your disagreement with my actual argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:39 AM
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I meant the top 10%...should have just written that, my mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:47 AM
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Eyy bro, that is a valid statement. Women do love sex, like a lot. Unless you are <10%, most women probably wouldn't want to have sex with you. Don't take it personally, just shrug it off and say, "it is what it is." Edit: correction. It's not "unless you are in the top 10%, most women wouldn't want to have sex with you". It's "unless you are in the top 10%, no. of women attracted to you and wanting to have sex with you, are very less"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:32 AM
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That's a lot of icks and redflags. I don't even want to share the air around me with any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:22 PM
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Shows genuine interest in wanting to know me, tall, accept when she's made a mistake or is wrong, thick, is into superheroes/pro-wrestling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:32 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:53 AM
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You know, if you didn't take it to the extremes, I would have sided with you. I don't think a lot of women have options going up to pro-athletes and filmstars. But they do have way more than their male counterpart. Your advice is good though. Men should stop complaining like the bitch they are and just move on. positive_vibes_only
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:35 PM
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An optimus prime action figure...that's what all guys want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:12 AM
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Just saying what I've read over here. For example, if a woman steps out of a marriage because her partner doesn't want to, it's because she has needs. If a man steps out of a marriage because his partner doesn't want to, he's a disgusting pig and sex is just a want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:51 AM
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When it's a woman, yes. When it's a man, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 06:59 AM
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The men who practise it, are doing it to protect themselves. Right to protect oneself >>>> Some people's feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:54 PM
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More power to you. I hope one day I'll come across a girl like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:27 PM
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That's the neat part. I don't have to because I'm boring and hence, never dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:32 AM
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Paradise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:37 AM
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It’s not “casual” sex she’s not willing to have with you. It’s sex overall. What makes sex non casual? 3 dates? 3 months? A wedding? It is casual if there is no commitment or an expectation of it - having sex because one wants to have sex. If she doesn’t wanna bang you, it’s safe to assume she wouldn’t want a relationship either. I'm with you on this. But I think women would disagree with you - or at least the "make him wait" army does.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:29 AM
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Where are you getting this idea? Is it based in reality? Most women practice some form of serial monogamy. Pure speculation. Women can have sex whenever they want to, with (almost) anyone. There is less societal judgement and more sexual freedom. It is impossible to confirm a woman's sexual past. It simply leads to the conclusion that most women have had casual sex. This whole casual sex nonsense can be summed up as: “she’s just not that into you.” I'm just confirming an idea I had. "If a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:49 PM
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No one can tell the difference between the two kinds of women you mentioned other than their treatment of that specific man. It's 2024 and the second kind - ones who have never participated or did it once before realising it's not for them - are probably the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:01 PM
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So, a man would be doing himself a favor by avoiding women who don't want to have casual sex WITH HIM - since they don't find him sexually attractive, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:30 PM
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Just a question. So if a woman doesn't want to have casual sex with a man, then she doesn't find him sexually attractive, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:16 PM
1

What you said would only be a bad situation for an attractive man. For unattractive men with no options, that's a step up. Even then I guess, unattractive men wouldn't even be considered by women for sexual fun. I'll see myself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:11 PM
0

It only works against misogyny, desperation, boredom. It doesn't work against physical abuse and lying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:43 PM
1

That's one heck of an image.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:19 AM
1

I was 16 when I found out about how much looks matter. I felt like I was lied to by movies of my country and pop culture. I realised that it was just because I was living in a bubble. Once I expanded to a more modern culture, I understood. As for being lied to, I've accepted that I actually don't have the right to that kind of information.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:15 AM
0

It's only a matter of wanting for women. If they want it, they'll get it. If they don't want it, they'll remain single. As simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:38 PM
3

Nah, women don't have any issues in dating, age is not a factor at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:51 AM
0

I stop at "truth and justice" as I'm not American. I think some women are still oppressed in today's society, especially in third world countries. It's getting better though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:33 PM
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Redpill is everything Andrew Tate is without the sexual trafficking and other crimes associated with him. Bluepill is everything Superman is without the superpowers. I chose Bluepill because I look up to the ideology behind Superman - doing good for no reason other than doing good. I also think saying "you're a nice guy" or that "you're a male feminist" doesn't mean "you actually aren't any of those".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:59 PM
1

Huh. From my experience, men I'd consider ugly are not exactly excluded by women for friendship although I do find them more receptive and taking the initiative with men I'd consider good looking. They'd never initiate a conversation with me. If I don't start, we won't speak for months. If I do start, they'd only answer my questions or repeat my question back to me. If I stop talking, awkward silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:25 AM
1

Didn't know there's "friendly" flirting as well 🤝. I have point 1 covered. Point 2 is a 👎. Point 3 is also manageable but maybe not as much as is required. I do have to ask though, I don't have an issue with guys as friends - is this just women-specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:26 AM
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Nothing's wrong with it. It's just something to adapt to. If you're not in her top 20%, don't pursue further. Or If she wouldn't have casual sex with you, she's not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:45 AM
1

I wouldn't need flirtation skills as I just want them as friends. Treating women extra special in a way that doesn't come natural to me, seemed to work for friends of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:53 AM
1

I think that's the problem. I don't see gender in friendships. I treat women in the same way I treat men. I have seen some guys treat women extra special compared to their guy friends and saw the forming stronger bonds. It makes sense...so
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:16 PM
1

I have my boys until they get married so...After that, it's probably solo leveling for me. No issues though, I'll grow to like it. 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:53 AM
2

I don't think women really use men in the sense you describe - maybe I'm just not close enough to them for them to use me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:49 AM
1

I tried that but most women I know are not exactly interested in storywriting (which is an interest of mine) /superheroes/ pro-wrestling. I do have conversations surrounding cooking/skincare/haircare with both men and women. I've noticed the men are way more engaging and makes me feel like they actually want to talk to me. With women, it feels like they're conversing out of courtesy. Anyway, I believe that it's just how I am - not that good at conversing with the opposite gender. Now I just keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:48 AM
5

I've done it all and still failed. All I want is women as close friends, nothing romantic. I don't think I'd need the "redpill" for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:05 PM
17

I always found that, no matter what I am, disrespectful arrogant or respectful assertive - women never wanted to be my friend. I've tried it all and I've finally decided to just be me. It's sad because I do genuinely enjoy their company but they don't seem to enjoy mine. Well what can I do except accept it and move on?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:14 AM
1

0 and wait wait...+1 there +2 here....that amounts to 0. My life is all good otherwise. When it comes to women/romantic relationships, I'm an absolute zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:01 PM
1

Nothing wrong. It's just to identify who actually desires you for you and for what you can do. I've had experiences in both scenarios. The one where we waited and the one who even took the initiative. Needless to say, the latter one set the bar for any future relationship I have. It was an amazing feeling : being desired on such a visceral level and that's probably the core of this "af/bb" discussion is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:37 PM
2

Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:15 AM
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