Nice_Olive568 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
25	What’s something oddly specific a girl did to flirt with you on a date that was memorable ?	Outer Game	Nice_Olive568	/r/seduction	15/10/25 10:22 PM
1	Trouble communicating physical boundaries without ruining the chemistry (F21)	Logistics	Nice_Olive568	/r/seduction	30/03/25 11:57 PM

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2	50 first dates, they all say no "spark" No, it’s definitely not that clear cut. I may still give the guy another chance despite having no ‘spark’ if we are otherwise very compatible. The expectation is though that the guy will make the move sooner rather than later (if I am attracted to him that is). After all, compatibility is much more valuable and more difficult to find. As to the second scenario, yes taking initiative on physical escalation while not being pushy (respecting boundaries) would make me more attracted to him if there …	/r/seduction	26/06/25 05:44 PM
2	50 first dates, they all say no "spark" Honest answer is that a lot of us (I can’t speak for every woman) want a leader. Sexually or otherwise. This doesn’t necessarily mean a dom, just someone who is confident enough to initiate (even though there is a chance of rejection). But you also have to bear in mind that we are much more cautious than men when dating. We have way more to lose with casual sex.. so a lot of us are hesitant to show this side of us in the first few dates. Also not sure what you mean by aggressive sexuality. Do I …	/r/seduction	26/06/25 04:58 PM
3	50 first dates, they all say no "spark" I would say it’s highly context-specific. Try to gauge their interest/ attraction to you based on how they behave during the first half of the date. If they’re not planning an escape route, appearing visibly bored, and instead showing interest in who you are and what you have to say.. try to take the lead and start light physical escalation. If they are attracted to you generally this will be reciprocated. If anything she might make a move on you herself.. maybe indirectly. For example, if you’r…	/r/seduction	26/06/25 04:27 PM
2	Why do women like older guys so much 2-3 years older is the sweet spot	/r/seduction	26/06/25 03:42 PM
11	50 first dates, they all say no "spark" Just don’t treat the date like an interview or worse.. a chance to only talk about yourself without asking any questions. Don’t be afraid of pauses in conversation while maintaining eye contact. Don’t be afraid of physical escalation on the first date with consent ofc (ex. holding her hand, hugging her by the waist.. all of which should ideally lead to a kiss). Equally, create a safe environment and try to build trust. From personal experience as a girl, my attraction grows tenfold when the guy …	/r/seduction	26/06/25 03:11 PM
1	I (22M) struggles to find the balance between being available and being more distant Respond whenever you have the time. Keep yourself occupied with other things and have a busy life, but don’t purposefully wait X number of hours because these games will not lead you anywhere. Seek an authentic connection (whether that is short-term or long-term)	/r/seduction	20/06/25 07:46 PM
2	What’s the best thing to say to slide into a girls dm without reacting to a story Anything. She is already interested so don’t stress	/r/seduction	07/06/25 08:16 PM
2	Dont know if I want to continue or sould i stop From a woman’s perspective- how was your communication during this time? If you were busy did you reassure her that you will get back to her as soon as you can? I tend to move on if someone is taking too much time to respond without explanation. Signals disinterest	/r/seduction	12/04/25 01:19 PM