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| 122 | The power of seduction without seducing | NickLee808 | /r/seduction | 07/05/11 02:07 AM | |
| 59 | Latch onto EVERY single compliment that comes your way. | NickLee808 | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 02:18 PM | |
| 53 | This was me before I found seddit (and I'm sure it applies to a lot of you folks as well). | NickLee808 | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 04:39 AM |
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| 51 | One sentence a girl told me that changed my whole perspective.Reddit is about 64% Breaking Bad, 13% Futurama, 11% Arrested Development, 7% cats, and 6% dogs. It's about 1% too many cats IMO. | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 02:22 AM |
| 21 | How should i go about calling a girl out on her texting while with me?You learned this from reddit, didn't you? | /r/seduction | 10/05/13 10:43 AM |
| 14 | Went in for the kiss with a girl I have known for a while. Rejected....but, I feel OKmight not have | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 11:00 PM |
| 7 | Went in for the kiss with a girl I have known for a while. Rejected....but, I feel OKWhen you finally get out of high school, you will see how calling people sheep is what makes you the sheep. | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 10:59 PM |
| 14 | The only line I use, and it's magic.Good Guy Girl | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 04:30 PM |
| 2 | The 20 Rules For First DatesIt has nothing to do with them taking offense (if they do, they're an overreacting bitch anyway). The problem is that when you compliment them, they have nothing left to chase for. You want her to be interested in you? Take the lead and give her something to work for. By complimenting her looks, you are telling her that you're easily impressed and not all that interesting. | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 08:47 PM |
| 13 | I'm a shy, awkward, average looking guy who has slept with over 50 women. I'm 27 and lost my virginity when I was 20. Here is my storyI like this philosophy better than that other crap I've been hearing here about never friending girls on Facebook. It's like they're old farts who think "friending" on Facebook is for literal, platonic friends only. Yours is much more practical and pragmatic. | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 05:56 PM |
| 11 | I'm a shy, awkward, average looking guy who has slept with over 50 women. I'm 27 and lost my virginity when I was 20. Here is my storySigh, that's not how the HB scale works. | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 05:20 PM |
| 4 | Using the word LIKE makes you sound uncertain and dumb. To my horror, my friend just pointed out I use the word 'LIKE' all the time. I found this guide on how to stop and thought it'd be useful to you sedditors.Basically OP is saying what? I CAN'T STAND THE SUSPENSE! | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 01:56 PM |
| 4 | Grabbed her ass and kind of regret it.Contrary to your comment, girls will actually play with your balls after you tell them about your boner. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 04:48 AM |
| 87 | Girl starts to talk about another guy, what do I do in this type of situation?DING DING DING DING DING DING DING DING DING! | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 08:14 PM |
| 3 | [FR] The moment you truly stop giving a single fuck about trying to get laid, you have the gravitational pull of 1,000 sunsAgreed. People come to this subreddit for a reason. | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 02:59 AM |
| 42 | Why Umbrellas are a useful seduction tool.This is /r/seduction, not /r/murder. Use chloroform instead. | /r/seduction | 28/09/12 11:44 PM |
| 28 | Cologne for a 21 year old college guy who does not know what is good out thereDon't wear YSL. I wear YSL. THERE CAN BE ONLY ONE. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 11:49 AM |
| 4 | [FR] After work dinner turns into 6am threesome + new F buddy. Also dealt with last minute IN BED cockblock.I did say 'erect'. | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 09:00 PM |
| 124 | [FR] After work dinner turns into 6am threesome + new F buddy. Also dealt with last minute IN BED cockblock.A man is measured not by the number of women he shags in one evening, but by the strength he commits to what he stands for. When you die, a statue shall be erected in your honour with multiple women surrounding you and a plaque at the bottom reading, "I don't do cheating." | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 10:41 AM |
| 89 | [FR] Lorded the wedding reception; threesome F-close with the bridesmaids.This is what a field report is all about. You noted what worked and gave plenty of tips. A field report is not about bragging and showing off, which is what this subreddit seems to have been filled with lately. I commend you and look forward to more of your contributions. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 02:13 PM |
| 6 | Girl flirting with my friend and I, at the same time, while were together. What is she doing, and why is she doing it?She wants to visit France with you and your friend, so show her the Eiffel Tower. | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 12:10 PM |
| 75 | [FR] Girl Sunning in Park, Lying on Her StomachThis isn't written like a field report. This is written like a piece of fiction. | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Hey /r/seduction, IAmA personal stylist for men. I teach men how to look attractive. AMA.I also have large quads (315lb 5x5 squats!) and for the longest time, I thought jeans were a lost cause on me so I always went baggy. After I discovered /r/malefashionadvice, I learned that there was no excuse to ever go baggy because it is virtually impossible to have calves that are thicker than your thighs (duh). You should definitely take the tapered advice. However, I find that the brands he listed are incredibly expensive (albeit of fairly good quality). Try opting for Levi's 501 Shrink-to… | /r/seduction | 31/05/12 03:14 AM |
| 4 | Rules of Attraction for BeginnersLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL, he said he smelled a PERIOD! OMG, that HAS to be nasty AMIRITE?! | /r/seduction | 26/05/12 04:37 PM |
| 2 | How to Internalize Seduction ConceptsAlternate title for this post: "How to get better at ANYTHING" | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 06:16 AM |
| 3 | First time going to an EDM concert/thing... need some info.That's the spirit! If you're going for a totally new experience, then by all means, take a roll. It's good to be open-minded and willing to try out new things, but be sure to do some research on the drug before you take it. You always want to know exactly what you're putting into your body. Also, try your best to make sure your source is clean and is giving you exactly what you're looking for. As for meeting girls, the advice provided here in the other comments are pretty good. Just focus on hav… | /r/seduction | 21/02/12 02:24 AM |
| 6 | First time going to an EDM concert/thing... need some info./r/aves Please don't go to these scenes to approach women. This should not be your mindset going in (you shouldn't ever let it be your mindset in general). Go to have fun and enjoy yourself. Dress comfortably, because you'll be dancing for hours (especially if you're rolling). Everyone's going to be too busy having fun that they won't care how you look. Ravers are some of the chillest and nicest people you could ever hang out with anyway, so do the same and try not to ruin the scene. As long as … | /r/seduction | 21/02/12 12:56 AM |
| 15 | [FR] Hookup on Plane FlightThis is what I thought too and it makes me sad to see that this is what seddit is like nowadays. The post is full of active voice, where the narrator is speaking as if the situation were unfolding right in front of him as he was imagining it. It's a great way to write creative fiction, but not for field reports. From what I've seen here, real field reports tend to be narrated with passive voice, with the narrator using a lot more past tense to describe events. It sounds a lot more technical and … | /r/seduction | 06/01/12 01:55 AM |
| 40 | Hey Seddit if you could, what would you tell the 16 year old version of yourself (keep it related to seddit)?I'd put on the cleanest, most successful-looking set of clothes I have, keep my shirt open to show off my pecs and abs, stuff my pockets full of hundreds till they overflow, and bring along at least two of the hottest girls I'm currently seeing. I'd walk through the time rift with them under my arms and make sure to appear right in the middle of one of my weekly masturbate-a-thons and say: "HEY. STOP THAT FOR JUST ONE SECOND. You want these girls? You like pussy? You like that one girl in your a… | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 09:38 AM |
| 3 | TofuTofu here to answer your questions...You need to show clear internet in her I love this line. | /r/seduction | 28/10/11 09:44 AM |
| 5 | Any other long time gamers start to find video games boring after getting involved in seddit and developing a extroverted and self amused personality?I feel the same way. Watching the pros play in tournaments and streams makes me wish I could have devoted more time into practicing my macro :\ | /r/seduction | 18/10/11 06:53 PM |
| 11 | Myths about Circumcision Some Likely BelieveOne of many. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/11 12:26 PM |
| 22 | Myths about Circumcision Some Likely BelieveEvery time I read articles like this, it just pisses me off knowing that my ex-girlfriend went ahead and circumsied my son despite my vocal objections. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/11 10:52 AM |
| 107 | First girl I smiled at on the street who responded positively was a prostitute. Go figure.Prostitutes are people too! | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 12:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Cigarettes got me laid.Technically, yes. That is how all pickups work. Unfortunately, this kind of thinking goes completely against what seddit preaches. If all the AFCs started thinking this way, they'd never stop blaming external factors on their failures. It'd be nothing but excuses after excuses such as "she thinks I'm ugly" or "that guy has more money than me". Self-attribution bias isn't necessarily a bad thing here, since it encourages guys to go in assuming attraction and dominating their actions. I'm not sayi… | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 01:42 AM |
| 4 | Balding SedditorsI once knew a guy who was a pushover for the longest time. Couldn't really provide for his family, never really applied himself, got picked on by high school kids, etc. One day, he found out he had cancer and had to go through chemo. Lost all his hair. People were either poking fun at him or feeling pity for him. His wife even wound up cheating on him. That was years ago. Today, he still chooses to remain bald and continues shaving his hair every day, despite the fact that he could easily grow b… | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 04:37 AM |
| 4 | Don’t Read This…....... Unless You are Serious.An unattractive guy who is happy and content with his own life will do whatever he wants and not let the opinions of others get in his way. An attractive guy who is insecure and unconfident about himself will come across as a pussy and be incredibly limiting to himself. Despite being-better looking, the second guy will be an absolute bore. He'll have less friends than the first guy and therefore, seem to have less value when girls look at him. Sure, he'll probably find the occasional lay because… | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 06:34 PM |
| 5 | Rudest thing I've ever heard from a girl"Get over it." | /r/seduction | 22/08/11 12:42 AM |
| 2 | [FR] here's a story in the female perspective.IMO, you're making it obvious to him what you are doing and he can easily interpret that you're being bitter about it. Just say "fuck it" and drop the whole thing. Go wherever you want because you want to be there. Be with whoever you want to be with because you want to be with them. Don't do things just to get back at the coffee guy. That just tells him that your entire life revolves around him. Show him—nay, show yourself—that you have a hell of a lot more going on. | /r/seduction | 09/08/11 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Don't ever waste your time on someone who doesn't appreciate you.Lately I've been pretty confused as to how I should define the term "friend" and whether or not it is because I am having friends "out of convenience". A lot of folks will tell you they value you, then go off and do something completely against what they just said. This usually happens when groups of friends don't get along... which I happen to be in the middle of, more often than not. | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 05:22 AM |
| 2 | The Napkin Rose, or how I got over AA and learned to love the gameHe does have that effect on women. | /r/seduction | 21/07/11 11:43 PM |
| 6 | The Napkin Rose, or how I got over AA and learned to love the gameThen set it on fire. | /r/seduction | 21/07/11 12:15 PM |
| 19 | [FR] First day of college class #-close on international HB9 Swedish chickAs an old film major myself, let me just say that falling into the whole "pretentious stereotype" is one of the worst things a new student can do. Professors hate it and fellow classmates will avoid working with you through fake smiles (and in a career where networking is so integral, this is basically suicide). I know seddit is all about being confident and having the balls to do something you and other people would have never thought about doing before, but I think you may have missed the bigg… | /r/seduction | 15/07/11 01:53 AM |
| 38 | Got laid last night, despite some hardcore LMR, because of Seddit advice I read a few days before.The "cumdumpster". | /r/seduction | 12/07/11 12:44 AM |
| 11 | How To Get Perfect '10' GirlsI'm not a virgin and I still have unrealistic expectations. I'm extremely shallow and frequently walk away and avoid talking to girls for an extended amount of time if I think they are anything less than an 8 in looks. I am incredibly ashamed of this fact, but reading seddit has helped me improve. I think the important thing to distinguish here is not on whether people are virgins, but whether they value people for who they are, which is what your second point was about. Being a virgin is perfec… | /r/seduction | 30/06/11 02:08 AM |
| 3 | How to I get a social life ... from scratch ?I don't mean to be critical, but look at the "value" of the things you've done these past three years. Of those, I would say that joining the swingers club, starting weightlifting, and accidentally walking into a BDSM dungeon were your most proactive activities. Most of the other ones on that list are composed of "walking into" places. Reading books and talking to people online will not help you meet new people fast enough. Unless you started as someone who has never left his house in his life, … | /r/seduction | 25/06/11 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Girl flaked because she's too poor.Cell phones. | /r/seduction | 09/06/11 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Starcraft Pick Up LinesSaw this on r/starcraft earlier and became confused as to which of my subscriptions posted this. | /r/seduction | 09/06/11 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Natural Advice - 8 Steps to Being in the MomentPretty accurate description, right there. | /r/seduction | 08/06/11 03:35 AM |
| 4 | Come on, guys! Where are all the field reports?Can I request the mods be a bit more strict about this rule, given the seemingly large influx of these posts in recent weeks? | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Flirting over text?There is nothing in this thread that belongs in seddit. | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Advanced Grooming Advice - Part 3There is an idea of... "the_kitten"... | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 08:46 AM |
| 5 | [FR]12 hour sarging marathon. 2 lays. pics. logistics and getting into state.Misogynist much? | /r/seduction | 19/05/11 06:11 AM |
| 8 | What do I do with a girl when I'm broke?Lots of people are like you, myself included. Except I don't have a new car nor do I have good grades. I do shower frequently though. Somewhat. | /r/seduction | 19/05/11 12:12 AM |
| 1 | The power of seduction without seducingLower back, above the ass. | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 09:08 AM |
| 3 | From PUA to socialite: Do any of the guidelines about pick up extend to people you aren't trying to pick up? Please read...Self plug! | /r/seduction | 15/05/11 11:00 PM |
| 3 | How your speech patterns affect your ability to influence others. (repost from r/cogsci)As someone who has worked two years at a call centre, I started my first few months being incredibly nervous and following a script where upon reviewing my calls, realised my voice sounded incredibly fake, despite using intonations (granted they were quite generic). However, once I had the script memorised, I became a lot more confident with the understanding of the material. Not only did I not need to look at the script anymore, I was running off complete improv and having actual conversations … | /r/seduction | 15/05/11 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Quote from non-PUA friend "Conclusion about picking up girls: be friendly, don't try too hard, and drink ALOT of tequila."I want to join this clan of warriors. | /r/seduction | 15/05/11 09:21 AM |
| 11 | The power of seduction without seducingSounds like a good idea. The only anchored stimulus I can think of is dancing. From now on, I'm going to do a little dance before I talk to people. | /r/seduction | 07/05/11 05:25 AM |
| 2 | I do great with most girls but as soon as I see one that I find really want, I crumble. What do?I'm actually going through the exact same thing right now with one of my classmates this semester. Found out a few months ago that she was a pretty successful model, which made it even harder. What has worked for me though, is seeing her as just another one of my female friends who I can easily neg and joke around with here and there. It doesn't seem as if she's used to this either, because I find her coming back to me and hitting me up despite the fact that I constantly see random guys try to f… | /r/seduction | 07/05/11 02:32 AM |
| 5 | The power of seduction without seducingDefinitely learned a lot of it from you, man. Keep up the great work. | /r/seduction | 07/05/11 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Latch onto EVERY single compliment that comes your way.Most definitely. In that case, I would like to refer to the other comment I made about taking compliments in context. | /r/seduction | 05/05/11 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Latch onto EVERY single compliment that comes your way.Commence stealing of brilliant idea. | /r/seduction | 05/05/11 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Latch onto EVERY single compliment that comes your way.Don't feel like you need them to feel confident though. As long as you are always looking for ways to improve yourself (in a non-critical manner), you are already awesome. Any future compliment that comes your way serves only as a tool to reinforce your confidence. By the way, congratulations on the bulk. From what I heard, it's a hell of a lot harder to turn lack of fat into muscle than excess of fat into muscle. | /r/seduction | 05/05/11 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Latch onto EVERY single compliment that comes your way.The compliment should only be reinforcing what you already know This is essentially summarising my entire post in one sentence. I completely understand your point, but I do wish to get across that it was not my intention to imply that one's self-image should feed off of compliments. This was meant more for people who were already on the track of self-improvement, but still suffering from low self-esteem. Yes, above all, it is more important to believe that you were already awesome to begin with.… | /r/seduction | 05/05/11 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Latch onto EVERY single compliment that comes your way.No problem. Just remember that getting fit and healthy is self-improvement and that you are doing this for yourself. Having a healthy body does wonders for your mind. I've found myself having lots more energy, enthusiasm, and positive thinking since I've changed my lifestyle. I don't do any of this to look good or attract chicks. Those are just byproducts. The compliments I receive serve only to reinforce the confidence I have in myself. Again, it's all about living confidence, not pretending. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Latch onto EVERY single compliment that comes your way.I think it's an Asian thing. Anything more than 0% body fat to them is considered "fat". Their standards of living are ridiculous. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 05:54 PM |
| 5 | Latch onto EVERY single compliment that comes your way.I think a big reason why lots of people don't accept compliments is because a lot of us have been taught to be humble and show humility—that being cocky is a bad thing because there will always be someone better than you at what you do. This was why I never believed the compliments I received. I remember having to showcase my artwork in one of my college classes as part of a presentation. I've received numerous state and national awards for my work throughout the years, but still dealt with conf… | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Latch onto EVERY single compliment that comes your way.Of course. I definitely have no plans on ever growing complacent. If anything, the compliments I receive drive my pride and encourage me to push even harder. I tell myself that in order to deserve these compliments, I have to work hard to keep them—knowing that if I slip again, I will lose them. I believe that anyone who ever does tell themselves "well, people are complimenting me, time to just leave it here" was never truly confident in the first place. They never believed it themselves and wer… | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Suggestions on how to ask out a girl that works clothing storer/Askseddit | /r/seduction | 20/04/11 11:05 AM |
| 2 | Quick and easy texting tipsAll the girls I've ever been with have complimented my wit. If a girl is hot but as dumb as a doorknob, she won't be able to keep up with my conversation. Such a girl is not worth the effort of "dumbing myself down" to their level. I can easily find someone more interesting who can keep up. | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 11:28 PM |
| 1 | This was me before I found seddit (and I'm sure it applies to a lot of you folks as well).You've come to the right place! | /r/seduction | 16/04/11 10:29 AM |
| 3 | The dangers of the game in untrained hands. The words of an older man.Wasn't my choice since my ex was the one to break up with me... but boy am I glad that happened. Thanks for the perspective, by the way. Totally helps. | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 09:38 AM |
| 8 | The dangers of the game in untrained hands. The words of an older man.I am in a similar situation as you. Have a kid with my ex, but never married. Having broken up with her, I feel relieved that I am no longer stuck with that bitch (who was controlling and had me bending over backwards to please her in an effort to maintain a faux happy relationship). But I still regret the fact that my son will now grow up without a stable family (also, pending my drug test results, may not even be allowed to see me). | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 04:55 AM |
| 15 | Just some general male advice you guys might find interesting.I have a kid already. WHOOPS. | /r/seduction | 12/04/11 10:24 AM |
| 128 | I did it seddit, I fucking did it!Regardless of when you decide to call her, just be sure you tell her to hang out with you instead of ask. "Come with me to the rave tomorrow night" sounds a hell of a lot better than "you wanna go to the rave tomorrow night?" | /r/seduction | 09/04/11 07:30 AM |
| 1 | How exercise helps your game in more than one wayIf you get yourself into a set schedule, even as little as one hour a day, every MWF, you'll start getting used to the momentum. After a few weeks of doing this over and over again, you could even find yourself being addicted to lifting and regret any days you may skip. | /r/seduction | 09/04/11 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Girl who has a lot of Guy FriendsSo she tells the other girl "You know what he told me the other night? He says 'Show me your tits'. He's so stupid! Can you believe that?" I would've assumed crazy from that second onwards. Crazy and a bitch. | /r/seduction | 09/04/11 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, I recently asked this girl if she would like to work on a project for a class together, she said yes, but i want to ask her out to dinner afterwards after the work.Better yet, "hey, I'm going to grab some lunch. Come join me." | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 04:59 AM |
| 3 | Being an assholebailing out on opportunities and not closing is often hiding deeper issues and insecurities. Sorry, but I'm gonna call bullshit on this one. It might be true for some people, but I highly doubt it happens as often as you say it does. You're gonna have to link me an article about this. Here's what OP said about his situation: Part of the mindset was not giving two shits if I got laid, so I had to keep my composure. He clearly wrote what was going through his head when he refused the opportunity. … | /r/seduction | 04/04/11 03:09 AM |
| 5 | Being an assholeOP gets the attention of all the girls in the room. These girls are completely down to fuck this guy wherever and whenever he wants. Why would he want to settle for a girl who is so desperate that she is willing to do it in a bathroom? She may be hot, but the mere fact that the OP said "maybe later" means that he's given even more power over her, which makes her want him even more. | /r/seduction | 04/04/11 12:57 AM |
| 1 | It's more important to dress congruently than to dress well.I've been shopping at Threadless for quite some years now. Usually I walk around campus with colourful, playful shirts that I bought because they either look pretty darn cool, or because I find them hilarious (usually just pictures. Don't care so much for texts on shirts). I don't think I own a single article of clothing that has a specific logo or brand stamped right in the middle for all to see. I get a couple girls coming up to me, saying how much they dig my shirts. Would this be an example … | /r/seduction | 03/04/11 07:58 AM |
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