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Quality post. Nothing makes me cringe more then guys who refuse to read or simply cannot read the obvious body language and social cues that people use when they are uncomfortable. Some girls will simply not be receptive to your approach. Take the hint, move on, and find one who is. Don't be that guy who doesn't.
/r/seduction20/01/16 10:30 AM
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You need to look at yourself from an objective point of view. You are not what you have been told you are. You are you. You are who you define yourself to be. No one else defines you unless you allow them to. Your life is yours to live how you choose. Do not simply accept the cards you have been dealt in life as a losing hand. You currently stand at a pivotal point in your life - the present moment. This moment is all that exists. You are who you are in this moment. You think you are who you hav…
/r/seduction20/01/16 10:16 AM
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Thanks brother, I'll look in to that! Glad I could be of assistance!
/r/seduction20/01/16 06:02 AM
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Your best bet is to lead by example. Most (if not all) men would love a chance to interact with those gorgeous girls you see from across the room and instantly start to fantasize about. But most guys simply don't have the balls to talk to these women unless they're incredibly inebriated or being egged on by their friends. So your friend spots a gorgeous girl and makes a comment about her? Great, now you've got reason and motivation to go talk to that girl. I guarantee your friend will be in awe …
/r/seduction19/01/16 09:40 AM
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Thanks for the laugh, OP. I really do hope you managed to seal the deal with your ladyfriend, however. Honestly.
/r/seduction19/01/16 09:23 AM
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It doesn't matter. Stop thinking about it. Hot girls get approached by a lot of guys. I guarantee a lot of those guys do it in the same way. I also guarantee more of them are drunk at the time. Do what feels natural to you. Attraction is based upon so much more then the first few words you say to a girl. Make the approach, say what comes to you and go with it. What other people are doing is irrelevant to your success.
/r/seduction19/01/16 09:20 AM
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Follow your gut instinct. You're a man. You have a biological imperative to mate with a women. Your body knows what to do. Fell like you want to hold her hand? Hold her hand. Feel like you want to put your arm around her waste? Do that. And when you feel the urge to kiss her arise within you then you best kiss her. Your subconscious mind is aware of cues your conscious mind completely overlooks. Trust your gut instinct, and it will lead you well. This I can guarantee.
/r/seduction19/01/16 08:04 AM
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You are basing your value and worth as a person on external variables outside of your control. You need to stop this. Your first step towards overcoming this problem (as you see it) is to realise that you cannot base your value as a person on external variables such as sex. Some people have sex more than others. Some have no sex. This does not make them better or worse than anyone else. Think of a Buddhist monk who has chosen to forgo the sexual experience in the pursuit of Nirvana. Do you think…
/r/seduction19/01/16 07:55 AM
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This is a post I wrote inspired by the topic of approach anxiety. In it I discuss the idea that the girl of your dreams is really just an approach away. A simple few steps and a defence or two could completely alter both your world and hers. I hope you enjoy it!
/r/seduction18/01/16 07:31 PM
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You cannot consciously control every subtle tell and movement of your body. Focus on maintaining open, positive and confident body language that demonstrates you're an open, positive and confident individual and thats all you really need. When you start trying to micromanage everything such as "what should I be doing with my hands right now" or "I've got to lean back/forward more" you'll just make things hard for yourself.
/r/seduction17/01/16 01:41 AM
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Scent, being one of the five basic senses, is incredibly powerful for creating connection and should never be underestimated. What happens every time you walk past a movie theatre? You smell the popcorn in the air and instantly you begin to crave it. You instantly start to think of the times you been at the cinemas enjoying a movie. Cultivate a unique scent for yourself and wear it every time you're with a girl. Eventually she begins to associate the scent with you. Pavlovian conditioning 101. G…
/r/seduction17/01/16 01:36 AM
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Yeah, use it liberally. Just don't be that guy who goes around staring everybody down because he feels the need to try and 'dominate' everyone from a social standing point of view. The ability to maintain eye contact and genuinely see into the eyes of another person is a great skill to have, don't get me wrong. But you don't need to have a staring contest with every person who you lock eyes with.
/r/seduction17/01/16 01:32 AM
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Bulbasaur is the the do nothing approach. If not getting girls is your goal then go Bulbasaur every time.
/r/seduction15/01/16 08:11 AM
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Go right up to her at your next track meet and say hi. Literally just do something. Anything. Say that you think she looks pretty today. Say you like her running shoes. Ask her what she had for breakfast. Just be a man and go say something to her. You literally have nothing to lose, and everything to gain. If what your friends say is true she'll be receptive to you. If thats the case ensure you get her number and start talking to her regularly. If what they say is not true then you've just prove…
/r/seduction15/01/16 03:29 AM
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I believe that what you and your friends feel is a condition of a deeper, more insidious problem currently plaguing society in this day and age. "Education" is nought but a system of conditioning, and it is preferential to actual knowledge. But that is a topic for another day. Socialising can be awkward after an extended period of time spent not doing it, but ultimately socialising is a skill. Charisma is something that can be learnt and obtained. Both of these just take practice. You need to wo…
/r/seduction15/01/16 01:54 AM
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Couldn't agree more man, and it's an idea I aim to begin building upon in my blog Live as the Hero. So many people get caught up in the smaller and rather irrelevant details of it all, like what to say or what to do when this happens etc. But the most game changing thing I ever did for myself was to release all expectation of whats going to happen and instead substitute it for the belief that whatever happens happens for the best. I have faith that I am on a journey to becoming the best possible…
/r/seduction15/01/16 01:42 AM
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Ultimately man it doesn't matter. All that matters is attraction. If you are attracted to a girl and she is attracted to you things will happen. The only difference is with a social circle you share a pre-existing connection and by default aren't strangers, you're friends of a friend of a friend etc. Automatically there's a level of comfort and rapport between you and the girl. On the other side of the coin we have cold approach. You're approaching a girl with no prior knowledge of anything abou…
/r/seduction15/01/16 01:35 AM
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Yeah bro, that's life. You miss 100% of the shots that you don't take. We're all guilty of it, I can't even begin to count the amount of times I've let opportunity slip because I overthought the moment or just plain bitched out. I mean ultimately you could have gone up to that girl and she could have told you to fuck off because she's busy. But on the other side of the coin you also could have also hit it off with her, went skating for your first date, finished it off with a smoothie from down t…
/r/seduction15/01/16 01:27 AM
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When you look this good it's hard not to smile. But when I smile it's hard not to look this good. Continuous positive feedback loop all 'round.
/r/seduction15/01/16 01:23 AM
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Honestly dude you have qualities that other people could only dream about. But the kicker is those other people are probably out there right now socialising and getting laid with qualities far below what you have to offer. You need to understand that you (by the sounds of it) are a high quality guy and have a lot to offer the world. Girls would love to meet a guy like you who has passions and hobbies that he truly cares about. Your problem seems to lie in your self identity, however. You are not…
/r/seduction15/01/16 01:20 AM
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Once you realise that 90% of this is just removing yourself from the opinions of other people and focusing solely on what you as a person want to gain from this life you'll never need to see another confidence quote again. The wolf does not concern itself with the opinions of sheep etc
/r/seduction14/01/16 08:21 PM
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Because I think you're cute and want to bang your brains out - delivered correctly and in the right circumstance , absolute gold. Because I want to show you my pokemon card collection - delivered correctly and in the right circumstance, absolute gold. Because I need somebody to help me take care of my pet goldfish named Steve - delivered correctly and in the right circumstance, absolute gold. Do you see where I'm going with this..?
/r/seduction14/01/16 08:55 AM
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I have to agree with you there, thankfully the fear that stops you from wanting to eat fire or play with lions is not specifically the fear that is being referred to in that article.
/r/seduction14/01/16 08:14 AM
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Might as well do all of them at the same time ;)
/r/seduction14/01/16 07:55 AM
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Couldn't agree more. Cultivating healthy relationships with woman is a by-product of having your shit together as a man. Build, and they will come.
/r/seduction14/01/16 07:53 AM
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Act like a stranger and you will stay a stranger. Act like a friend and you will be their friend. Act like their lover and you will be their lover (provided circumstance is right for this to happen). Women are receptive to the way you act. You do not make love with a woman who you are to scared to touch. It's all relative.
/r/seduction14/01/16 05:44 AM
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Success breeds complacency. Complacency breeds failure. Never stop improving, and never stop trying to be better than you are today. The day you think you 'get it' is the day that you truly know nothing at all.
/r/seduction14/01/16 05:41 AM
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You're missing the point. Be honest and be genuine. If you see a girl by herself who you think looks particularly beautiful today, it's your duty as a man to go up to her and tell her that. I'ts not rocket science, stop overthinking it. If she's not interested she'll take the compliment and make it known to you that she isn't interested (oh, thank you so much but I have a boyfriend). If she is interested then she'll take the compliment and create an opportunity for you to continue talking to her…
/r/seduction14/01/16 05:38 AM
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This, so much. For years I followed the gurus of seduction and their teachings religiously, but found that ultimately it was all just a facade to hide myself behind. It wasn't until I stopped obsessing over those insignificant details like what to say, or when to say it and start concentrating on improving myself as a person and just letting things flow naturally did I actually start experiencing real success with women. I also agree with the emotionally mature women part, too. I hooked up with …
/r/seduction14/01/16 05:31 AM
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