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Nicolas44001/r/seduction14/05/20 12:02 AM
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yup. You can say no even if you're a man. You are allowed to have standards.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/23 03:44 PM
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I don't know if you've read Models by Mark Manson but he says that almost litterally. So if you haven't, congratulations that's a very precise and clear analysis!
/r/TheRedPill23/09/20 10:50 PM
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Reading you i imagine a good guy who got hurt in the past because of his body, and now you got success but you still carry your wounds. Which is why i'm worried you might crash at the first heartbreak. I suggest you read Models by Mark Manson. It will give you what you need to keep being fine even if things don't work well emotionally with women. Godspeed bro!
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 07:06 AM
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I have trouble concluding if you're sarcastic or not..
/r/TheRedPill03/09/20 05:19 PM
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I dont really get where the issue is though...she lived her life, decided to stop, stuff surfaced and she demanded nothing from him, she could have emotionally blackmailed him, manipulated with "if you don't like me it's because you're mysoginist blablabla", but on the contrary she understood and gave him space and now she's trying to make things work....i don't know what more you want guys. Or you're just jealous she could get in gangbangs when not even 18 when most of us, me included, don't ge…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/20 08:16 AM
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You're doing a great job and inspiring others!
/r/seduction10/06/20 12:08 PM
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soooo many things wrong with your mindsets. First of all it's not about fairness, girls don't owe you a relationship, but i do understand your pain. It's better to tell yourself that life doesnt owe you shit, no one owes you shit, however there is what you can do for yourself. It puts the locus of control back in your hands and that's great. Your race doesnt play either. If you're ugly, you can still hit the gym. Girls like looks. They do. Get big, and get lean. Now as for approaching you're obv…
/r/seduction08/06/20 12:49 PM
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When you hit a dog enough times, it ends up believing he must have done something to deserve it. You believing you did something is valid, your feelings are valid, who wouldnt after all this. But it doesnt necessarily mean it's true. One cannot deliberately be mean, manipulative and bully and be still and at peace inside. One doesn't inflict harm onto others when one feels love inside. People who are toxic to you are hurting inside. It says more about them than about you. I think a few people to…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 08:17 PM
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I had exactly that (i'm a guy), cured it, but it took a lot of time and relapses. In short: you have death grip and porn desensitization, ie your brain is conditioned to get aroused with the use of porn and heavy physical touch which isnt replicable irl. The good news is it is totally reversible, quite quickly for the mechanical part, but slower for the brain part... i kindly suggest you visit r/nofap for that, a lot of men and women are in this situation and you will find their questions and st…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/20 05:17 PM
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Total.red.flag. Imagine a friend of yours wrote what you wrote, what would you tell him/her?
/r/seduction01/06/20 05:29 AM
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My bad, i read maybe i can change his mind/ maybe he can change his mind. So i thought you went in there with a "i'll say yes but try to change his mind" approach. So that's not leading him on. You're right that was actually nice from you. However then saying stuff like you're my type would be leading him on, especially if you had zero feelings for him. So my apologies, you did lead him on but not to the extent i thought you did, just a bit.
/r/seduction31/05/20 08:37 PM
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I appreciated his honesty and though I wasn't interested, I thought maybe he can change my mind. I told him "ok we'll get to know each other better and if all goes well, we'll take the next step for sure" noooo that's definitely not leading him on..... ​ Over a period of 3 months, we would text every single day, attend some college lectures together and we went on a couple of dates, and we just started getting closer and closer still not leading him on... told him things like "you're my type" to…
/r/seduction31/05/20 08:07 PM
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If there’s a genuine connection there, you might both get old and ugly but at least you still have fun! Hahaha exactly ^^ keep screening for the guys, sure they may come for your looks first, i'm totally guilty of that, but there are some girls i genuinely would have wanted to continue and discover them, even though i came for looks first. Find the romantic one :p good luck to you
/r/seduction31/05/20 11:29 AM
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Amazing comment👌
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 11:17 AM
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On the other hand, you both do want to end up with someone who is genuinely a cool person, too. Someone you’d hang out with even if they were taken Yes and these are the nice life encounters, for me the only way that can happen is if i meet a girl i'm absolutely not attracted to, even maybe find her ugly at first, but after spending some time with her and laughing so much, then i develop feeling and start wanting her. Then if she's single, let's see, but if she's taken, then i cannot keep the fr…
/r/seduction31/05/20 10:58 AM
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That's very interesting. I know i don't want to get in friendships because of past traumatic experiences, where i "agreed" to become friends in the hopes she would change her mind, invest for months with no results, only to watch her fuck a guy she'd met an hour before...I've had this happen so many times it broke my heart too. most men are becoming convinced that friendship is a dead end instead of a possible beginning Absolutely, i'd say that's because that's what has happened almost all the t…
/r/seduction31/05/20 10:35 AM
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I totally get you dude. I find myself in the same position as yours. I also think "damn where were they before i got massive jacked, was my personality not enough? was i so ugly? was i so average? all this just because of my physical appearance?" and it kind of makes me not want to do it. I'm really and have always been amazed at skinny guys who could score a loooot of women and not just one night stands, actual solid attraction and women chasing them to BE with them. But, there is also a positi…
/r/seduction31/05/20 09:09 AM
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Thank you for your comment. I find myself in the same position as OP, and i thought, if i reach a certain level where girls flock to me just because of my physical attraction, i think i will understand women a lot more. Hence all the shit tests and all you throw, as you want to screen the guy's motivations.
/r/seduction31/05/20 09:03 AM
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This is such a feminine move.
/r/seduction30/05/20 06:47 AM
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France. why?
/r/seduction15/05/20 08:00 AM
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FUCK YES!!!! Please baby love me, if only you saw blablabla fuck you!
/r/seduction14/05/20 12:20 AM
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did you ever ask your dad? He might be a natural but maybe he knows a trick or two. And deep down what do you suspect you're missing?
/r/seduction12/05/20 05:59 PM
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There is no ONE, there are several good oneS. Your time is precious, don't waste it on a woman who doesn't know what she wants. Meet more girls, screen them and challenge them to find the one that you like best. You actually going away might be the best thing to do.
/r/seduction12/05/20 01:54 PM
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if someone is interested, they won't ghost you. I know it hurts, i know it sucks, but try to find a positive in that. And i'm not saying ignore the pain, on the contrary, feel it, integrate it, let it know you find it valid. But how can you move on? well, see this as a girl who removed herself from your life and made you not waste time, unlike other girls who would have strung you along for weeks. What can you do for the future? Did you really like her? did you evaluate and make her qualify enou…
/r/seduction12/05/20 11:37 AM
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If you stay physically fit you won't have trouble finding people interested in you. As for the rest it's gonna be up to you to find the one who also sees things in a long term and not just players. I dated a 35 year old once and she was so fucking hot she looked like she was 28.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 01:00 PM
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this post gets a lof of bad reactions and i don't really understand why. People may disagree but to get so emotional about it.... I thought it was interesting, i like the part about nice guys getting laid more than we think, my roomate is nice to girl, but not the nice guy™ and he actually gets some action. A friend of my other roomate is very successful and again he is really nice, but again not the fake nice version. A lot of guys think they're nice when they're not, i was totally guilty of th…
/r/seduction05/05/20 07:37 PM
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You maybe won't find it helpful, but remember at the end of the day, no one is forcing you to pay for her. Instead of let me invite you, formulate it as let's meet up, let's grab a drink together.
/r/seduction02/05/20 07:57 AM
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i've no idea, either she didnt remember you, hence why she wasn't bothered standing next to you, or she did and who knows what went in her head for all this time, maybe she was in a mood to meet someone and she remembered you, i've no idea. Either she didnt remember you or if she did she wasn't against you talking to her this time. Maybe when she brushed you off, she gave a very self confident look from the outside but was not confident at all inside. Best choice you have is don't focus on one g…
/r/seduction01/05/20 04:14 PM
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Oooh nice, you're right!
/r/seduction28/04/20 04:19 PM
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Hahaha omg thank you! 284 upvotes on only now does someone tell me it's called an epiphany^
/r/seduction27/04/20 06:41 AM
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1+ week isnt that big...did you have problems like this even when just wanking?
/r/seduction26/04/20 11:13 AM
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I love moments like this, when you realise a simple switch, which triggers a waterfall of new outcomes. THanks for sharing! I resonate a lot with what you wrote.
/r/seduction26/04/20 11:05 AM
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I dont understand, the girls told you they wanted YOU, to take THEM on dates and YOU, buy THEM, stuff......am i the only one not finding that normal and recipe for disaster?
/r/seduction26/04/20 07:57 AM
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I don't remember much from it. But the book Mate related to them was good. His books are better I'd say.
/r/seduction25/04/20 04:53 PM
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Thanks. I needed to hear that. I'm reaching 31, and I too ask myself how do you even get a girlfriend. It brings me hope. I have to put in the work.
/r/seduction25/04/20 04:47 PM
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https://9gag.com/gag/azm7Mxx Answers your needs exactly^^
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:18 PM
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Well, here are my suppositions: case 1, she would have ghosted you again or played with you because she's actually an attention whore, so your move was good. case 2: se ghosted you because she was very unsure of her and it scared her, but after second thought she thinks why not give it a try hence her proposal again. However her not even mentioning the ghosting and apologizing for it means she could do it again.... If you said no but have feelings for her, i would have said, you know what part o…
/r/seduction26/03/20 07:18 PM
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