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Social IssuesNienna92/r/MensRights27/05/19 12:08 AM
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DiscriminationNienna92/r/MensRights28/05/19 12:24 AM
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Nienna92/r/MensRights29/05/19 05:07 AM
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Nienna92/r/MensRights06/06/19 05:47 AM
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How would you describe chivalry?
/r/MensRights29/05/19 05:06 PM
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To answer your question, that is what some feminists think. I think they can be truly in denial about how abusive women can be too.
/r/MensRights29/05/19 03:32 PM
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Fair enough. Would it be different if it was a female loved one?
/r/MensRights29/05/19 03:15 PM
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Do you think men would be more willing to be protective if there were less backlash and more appreciation from women? It's such a shame that these things have to be gendered at all--because it's just doing a kind act for another human being. I'm always appreciative of everyone who helps me. I think there's a trap where if a woman gets help from a man, she thinks it's because he's being condescending and thinks she's an idiot who can't do anything "without a man's help."
/r/MensRights29/05/19 03:12 PM
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Those are interesting points you made and very well thought out. I agree with a lot of what you said. Do you think the idea of women taking on more protective roles and not "needing to be saved" has been beneficial in reducing the male pressure? *that's what she said, lol* Or has this newer idea of "women saving themselves" been more harmful because it leads to bitterness and lack of appreciation from women?
/r/MensRights29/05/19 03:07 PM
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Very good point, lol. It is unfair that men's issues have to be given the back burner. Not listening to other people's struggles is the perfect way to ensure those from the other side of the issue won't want to help. Also: "We're against gender roles until they benefit us."
/r/MensRights29/05/19 03:03 PM
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Would you still feel compelled to protect female loved ones? Or is it just hesitation towards strangers?
/r/MensRights29/05/19 03:00 PM
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Thanks for sharing! I was brainwashed into thinking that it would be "safer" emotionally and physically if I was in a relationship with a woman rather than a man. Hmm...ultimately it will just come down to who is kindest regardless of sex.
/r/MensRights29/05/19 03:19 AM
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Interesting. Do you think it's because of how much they still love their exes or because they relied on their exes to "take care of them"?
/r/MensRights28/05/19 08:23 PM
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Thanks for sharing your story. That took a lot of courage. Being used and abused is really traumatic. (I've been there, too, from other women.) ☹️
/r/MensRights28/05/19 08:19 PM
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Thanks for sharing. Statistics make the world seem more balanced.
/r/MensRights28/05/19 03:41 PM
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I agree. I think really crazy misandrists cling too strongly to the idea that they won't find love with a man, so they convince themselves men aren't worth having. (I'm speaking of straight women here, as opposed to same-sex attracted women.) It's easier to hate someone once they're dehumanized.
/r/MensRights28/05/19 03:05 AM
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Those are nice stereotype-busters! Thanks for dispelling each one with your own perspective.
/r/MensRights28/05/19 03:03 AM
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That's an interesting take. Ironically a lot of these comments came from lesbians--so, they really wouldn't know about relationships with men.
/r/MensRights28/05/19 03:02 AM
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Yeah, I'm definitely feeling freer after examining their outrageous claims and hearing other perspectives!
/r/MensRights28/05/19 03:01 AM
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Yeah, it's sad when we all can't see each other's humanity.
/r/MensRights28/05/19 02:59 AM
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That's so interesting, because a lot of women say the same about men as a sex. But, honestly, there are terrible people in all social groups. I take it that you had some abusive relationships from women. I need to do more research on how women perpetrate violence. (The reporting is very skewed against men I admit.)
/r/MensRights28/05/19 02:59 AM
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I don't believe these things myself. It's just further proof of dehumanization that modern-day radical feminists use against men. I can see how it would be hurtful. (Just as much as if some random men said women are incapable of love.)
/r/MensRights28/05/19 02:57 AM
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Very nicely said.
/r/MensRights28/05/19 02:55 AM
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Thank you! 😊
/r/MensRights27/05/19 11:49 PM
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That makes sense. A lot of the radfems I was exposed to had been abused in the past by men. So, it was much easier to alienate and dehumanize them.
/r/MensRights27/05/19 10:44 PM
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Exactly. It's so easy to fall into extremist thinking--especially in the age of the internet.
/r/MensRights27/05/19 10:42 PM
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Thanks. I hope for the sake of humanity that's so!
/r/MensRights27/05/19 10:41 PM
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That's interesting. I read somewhere that women are more likely to be emotionally abusive. I assume it's because we often don't have the physical girth to be threatening. Of course, there are physically abusive females too.
/r/MensRights27/05/19 10:40 PM
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In your opinion, what laws are based on feelings? I've heard that before, but I'm not sure I understand.
/r/MensRights27/05/19 10:38 PM
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Yep, it's the classic case of controlling through fear: always being wary of the "other."
/r/MensRights27/05/19 10:34 PM
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I'm not sure I'd say it's the appeal of feminism, but it's often seen in the opposite way too: that there's no point in talking to men because they're convinced they're right. There's a huge misconception that "men never listen" either.
/r/MensRights27/05/19 10:32 PM
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As fucked up as it is, radical feminists paint men so that when they say "not all men" they're just covering their own asses. The language there is very generalized: "All men are secretly pedophiles because they prefer younger women," "all men have had rapey tendencies," "all men were raised to do whatever they want." How I started shedding my ideology was to honestly read other people's perspectives. I learned more about false allegations against men, how men can be victimized as well, and how …
/r/MensRights27/05/19 04:08 PM
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I've been all over the spectrum. I used to be extremely conservative, believing strongly in gender roles, then becoming a moderate feminist, then a radical one (unfortunately), now more moderate again. I certainly have seen you all as "human beings" before the radical feminist movement, but just severely flawed human beings amidst those circles. You know, they spout statistics that at least one man you know has probably raped someone, you're going to be murdered by a man one day, etc. It is a hu…
/r/MensRights27/05/19 04:01 PM
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Oh yeah. There's a huge difference between common sense safety and looking over your shoulder constantly.
/r/MensRights27/05/19 03:18 AM
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Yeah, that would be interesting. Such simple things can alter our perceptions of the world. I would wager to guess that it's the second one. I've always had anxiety but it got worse when I became immersed in radical feminism. They would say that it's the price of being "woke" and that women "should be afraid." Ugh.
/r/MensRights27/05/19 03:17 AM
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I'm always willing to look at other sources of evidence from other viewpoints which have the capacity to change my worldview. For example, yesterday I first heard about the defamation case Johnny Depp is involved with. I examined the evidence further and came to my own conclusion that he was innocent and Amber is a lying sociopath. I agree with what you said about the idea of "all men" being similar to believing negative things about "all" black people, Muslims, gay people, etc.
/r/MensRights27/05/19 03:07 AM
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Yeah that's what I meant, lol.
/r/MensRights27/05/19 03:02 AM
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