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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Spending 50/50Where exactly am I doing that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:18 AM |
| 3 | Spending 50/50"But you aren’t in a relationship yet" You've almost got it! Almost. But you're making my point for me. You're not in a relationship yet. He doesn't owe you anything and you don't owe him anything. Having the expectation that he pays is just a roundabout way of staying that he owes you for your time. I'm not saying that he should, but I'm quite sure that you'd have an issue with him expecting a second date or anything else just because he paid for the first one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Spending 50/50"Well you can’t be mad at me !!" No one is upset with anyone here. "Yeah you shouldn’t feel like that in a relationship but that has nothing to do with the gesture of paying for the date." No, it has to do with the expectation. And the disqualification if it doesn't happen as expected. "But at the same time relationships aren’t based on someone just loving you" You're right. Relationships are transactional. I don't mean that maliciously. But nobody is going to stay in any kind of relationship th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 12:36 AM |
| 5 | Spending 50/50"but from my point of view it just means that you aren’t even trying" Why is he the only one who has to try? Neither one of you know each other. Why aren't both of you trying? You agreed to the date. Did you only agree for free food? "(I don’t ask men out)" That's pretty convenient for you, huh? "that makes me feel considered and appreciated" As a man, I feel considered and appreciated when I'm not automatically looked at as a wallet or just a benefit for a woman financially. In fact, that's pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 12:12 AM |
| 7 | Spending 50/50If she determines whether there's a second date based on whether or not the man pays, then she isn't worth going out with a second time anyway. Men are not wallets. He's not thinking backwards. That's called a boundary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 11:46 PM |
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