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I definitely for a fact have my issues, but I don't think this is one of mine that i am referring too. I definitely feel very liked / Loved in all my relationships... But i also feel burnt out and as if they put no effort into anything but themselves. I think its more like me and my friends pick the same kind of woman, so i wanted an outside perspective or is it just the dating market and woman these days are so fucked up its just impossible to get good quality relationships haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 05:49 PM
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Knowing that you're ultimately on your own and, as a man, people will view your failures with disdain and contempt rather than support and encouragement This one is the hardest, the rest don't bother me at all... but this one really pisses me the fuck off about the world. Show a moment of weakness and it's over for you with X or Y... I make it my mission these days to help guys in need and support them cause nobody else will...
/r/askTRP23/04/16 04:55 PM
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I am in the SEO business myself, I suspect something is off with your story. I totally believe your yearly income but I'm guessing how you actually make your money is kind of different then what you have actually written or you are leaving out a huge chunk... or you are legitimately breaking the normal. Take the chive for example, running off of millions of users per day the advertising on the website wasn't able to pay for the website hosting fee's because traffic became to much. http://thechiv…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 01:25 PM
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depends if you flaunt it or not, I can safely say i now own three cars, one of which is a basic ford Taurus for first dates and for when i go play sports etc,. I can literally see the opinion of me change if I bring a girl home. (I meet most of the ladies I date through co ed sports house league / Rock Climbing)
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 12:56 PM
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You need guy friends, not like this fake TRP bullshit but actual guy friends... go make guy friends.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 09:23 PM
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I think i'm just going to stick with being me and not a pill...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 12:40 PM
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interesting... im like the poster child for anti Black pill then, go me!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 01:37 AM
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Never, I barely enjoy sex let alone enough to hunt a rando... I much rather have a relationship :).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 12:13 AM
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The hell is black pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 12:11 AM
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I honestly think its going to be like 5% at a max but its just a guess... because lets be honest, the original statistic looks bad on men as a whole while if you apply both together you would see a more appropriate picture, and that its mostlikely just a few guys / girls ruining it for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 04:05 PM
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This fact would be much more interesting if it also had how many men have committed unwanted touching. and how many woman have committed unwanted touching. Anybody have the above statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 03:13 PM
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Its not but its a start to give to people before they find TRP!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 08:00 PM
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which is a requirement?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 06:05 PM
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Well the group would, but thats a small group of them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 06:04 PM
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Do share, i would love tocontribute... i have a bunch of posts that i De-Redded because i thought they were gems but i lost the ambition to go any further haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 05:32 PM
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Until somebody makes a better RP... because there are clearly people starving for it :P
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 04:06 PM
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Omg the world is doomed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 04:03 PM
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Yes but i would say that vast majority of my friends are miserable... dead bedroom... etc... I can count 2 couples i know who are just killing it long term and the rest are dead bedroom and complaining about it vocally :(...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 02:54 PM
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I have been on and off watching TRP for like 2-3 years... It use to be very diverse... people learned, and shared new things... Now its soo heavily moderated... I find a lot of posts i responded to before going ExRedPill were getting deleted... Anything that challenged the normal... Gone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 02:03 PM
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EXACTLY THANK YOU!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 03:29 PM
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As a regular guy, honestly i like it best when they just say im not interested... i realize there are crazy guys but a rejection is one thing but to be made to feel like im an asshole just because of my gender sucks far worse then any rejection and discourages me from legitimately trying to meet the right person. also a lot of the tactics woman use end up seeming like the dating game...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 03:09 AM
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All the god damn time... no joke...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 09:44 PM
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No clue but they always say sorry so much... seriously if you keep telling me sorry at work i am going to think you are incompetent. say it once and find a solution. Don't keep saying it..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 09:33 PM
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Honestly, almost no woman is a go getter, i have a company that was 2 staff members in 2011, its now going to be just under 100 staff in the spring of next year. ONLY one female employee has risen up to the challenge, the rest just don't... we employee 2 to 1 woman to men... The woman work over time, but they don't do anything extra to prove themselves, they think that over time is what gets a promotion rather then anything else. I am not even red pill, i hate the red pill woman hating side of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:21 PM
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This article is garbage, I will never accept the blame for rape culture on me or my gender. If somebody wants to blame me for something I am not part of they can screw off. Why am i so confident saying this? Because this is marketed fear, statics in my area show you are more likely to get mugged then a woman getting raped. I have a higher chance of being in a car accident then a woman getting raped. I have a higher chance of getting cancer from second hand smoke then woman in my area do of getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 03:40 PM
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So i thought of this more last night, and it got me thinking what is the correct counter. And that's the thing there is no correct counter until we find out why he went red pill on you. I can't answer this for you, but i can tell you I have never meet a guy who just wanted to become an asshole. Something has triggered him. Any ideas what this was? From there we can figure out the correct counter, The most likely correct counter is to partially embrace it and to crush the otherside. To start Do n…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/15 03:34 PM
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First off, you are headed for a fight no matter how you look at this, he made a bad decision and is sticking to it after your concerns. Have you tried doing the EXACT same tactics back at him?
/r/ExRedPill14/10/15 01:27 PM
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As bad as this is to say, start building your divorce case. Do not let her know about it just be ready for it, because my guess is if you are even considering, she is also considering it. As per not being ready for a next relationship... perfect that how you should be. You aren't a monster, you want to be the best you can be with out being a dick so these are the exact feelings you want. If you were ready for another relationship mentally / physically you wouldn't even be considering saving the …
/r/ExRedPill14/10/15 01:18 PM
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<--- This is my story exactly haha, I made 260,000 this year. My gf 3 or 4 years ago left me because i had nothing and was in my parents basement... I was just totally happy living at home. I did the wrong thing after she broke up with me i bought a really expensive car to show off that i actually had money and she didn't care... then about a year later i bought a huge house and that made her go insane cause that one i didn't do to spit her haha...
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 08:21 PM
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suggestions crop the photo and get an activity shot, anything while active makes shirtless ok
/r/askTRP08/10/15 11:12 PM
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two issues with online dating, it takes different skills you need to learn and 2. the woman who normally have lots of options now have UNLIMITED options so unless you are instantly amazing they will next you with out even realizing they did it.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 06:06 PM
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Frame: I think frame is incredibly important, but knowing when to show compassion and understanding can be so uplifting to another person. It will be a hard one to define but if we can i think this will be one of the best tools we could give somebody
/r/ExRedPill08/09/15 02:25 PM
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Fitness: Enough said on this one, your looks are so incredibly important /R/Fitness Style: Again same thing just learn the basics it will dramatically improve your social life if you fit in, Be unique with your style, your personality but don't look bad while doing it. /r/malefashionadvice
/r/ExRedPill08/09/15 02:21 PM
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Discussion request: No More Mr Nice Guy Is this book good for the majority of men or does it lead to negative results in behaviour? I personal feel as if this is a great tool this book, i do not feel as if it makes you an asshole and would recommend this book to most guys, and even girls to be honest. people can't make others happy if they themselves are not happy.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/15 02:19 PM
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I have been building a short list of the good advice they give, want to hear other peoples examples so you can just give that advice to people before they get corrupted by TRP
/r/ExRedPill01/09/15 09:09 PM
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I have never been TRP, but it is hilarious watching them defend parts of their code and rules. So question for you, you spit out the pill. What did you learn from them that you want to continue and are planning on keeping?
/r/ExRedPill01/09/15 12:43 PM
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You are just doing it better then the 99% of TRP . I agree that equality is important and that what most feminists want is not equality but equality where they want it and special treatment at the rest. (I have suddenly become a target for saying that :P)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 02:06 PM
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The Red Pill works because of 4 things. self improvement do new things the Fail hard, fail fast, fail cheap, fail often mentality Being strong and firm (this one is like a boss vs a leader) If you are a boss you are doing it wrong, come off like an asshole but it works. If you are a leader you are doing it right, come off strong, respectable well liked by everybody. Everything else about the red pill i have found to be horrible, it is hindering you from making real relationships that are worth i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 01:00 PM
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I had no clue who she is, but i googled her and i honestly wasn't that impressed, I would say legit she's a 7 - 8. Most people forget that super models are actually very terrifying when they aren't photo shopped and covered im makeup. They usually want super models and runway models to be skeletons and then just fix them up afterwards so that the clothing can hang perfectly https://fstoppers.com/fashion/super-models-without-makeup-hair-lighting-and-retouching-5880 and https://www.youtube.com/wat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 01:12 PM
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the whole make her go nuclear thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 09:11 PM
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I dunno why, but you seem very different then the rest of the TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 08:22 PM
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Nothing is, it was the only example i could think of to make friendlier hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 04:59 PM
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I assume that is a user?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 02:44 PM
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Second point to that, is i wonder if i actually have a chance of being more man then the average RP user. I am no "Wimp" but i honestly have no clue what an RP user is like as I have only ever meet one other RP user and he was a pathetic dick who I removed from the social circle quickly (not to be confused with all RP users of course just this one guy was)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 02:42 PM
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I did a little test to see if you are right... I posted a question i have actually been interested in seeing the answer too... There is no discussion in it... its all red pill and no discussion. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3g022v/can_you_put_a_positive_spin_on_rp_tactics/ Ohh somebody just finally posted something that is actually of merrit! This might get interesting now!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 02:33 PM
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no its not, have you read some of the tactics that are suggested? Make her cry? thats actually some suggested tactics that i have seen...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 02:27 PM
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I am thirty, so usually 26 area, lowest i have gone in the last two years was 22. Again, I realize this is more so because of looks and wealth then my personality but meh I am happy for the most part haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 02:20 PM
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I see results with out the TRP, and not from single mom's or fat chicks... then again being wealthy and having a good body is the reason not my personality haha...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 02:09 PM
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Point here is not to make it taste better, point here is to not be emotionally controlling or destructive and find quality tactics and improvement strategies for those who don't want to emotionally control other people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 01:57 PM
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Ok so find one that is better with out being emotionally manipulative destructive to the other human, Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 01:47 PM
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I removed all but this sub from my subscribe list because the other ones were just sooo horrible...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 12:50 PM
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The red pill offers nothing of value you can't do yourself if you are motivated. The red pill has good, and the red pill has bad. You can list the good in one paragraph or list, and would need a novel to list the bad. The Good "No More Mr Nice Guy" Frame exercise Self improvement Dress well Eat well Sleep properly drink less (but still drink) take up a hobby talk to everybody - period take risks Make yourself happy first and foremost realization that woman do not deserve to be on a pussy pedesta…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/15 03:37 PM
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I must be reading this wrong cause i can't understand it :(
/r/askTRP16/01/15 02:42 PM
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To all beginners, You fucking do it for yourself, nobody else. if you think for a moment you are improving for somebody else you have already failed the red pill... I am not even part of this "Red Pill" club and I know the rules of it. Everything is about making yourself better, if you go into it with hate and the idea of getting laid you are prob going to be a shitty alpha who can't keep frame and truly just emotionally damages other humans. Some of you might say "Blah blah red pill doesn't giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/15 08:40 PM
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Where do you live that 6.5 inches is average? https://www.promescent.com/penis-size Your above average which means she most likely will have to go through a lot of dudes to find your size again... Secondly http://www.webmd.com/women/features/vagina-size You should realize the difference here is most likely how you used the dildo rather then how big it was... Try repeating the results with a 6.5 inch dildo of 5.8 girth to see if it has same results.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 05:29 PM
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I like this post, this is what TRP should have been about... getting yourself into a good relationship and being a better you. No tricks, no bullshit lies or sleeping around. You being happy and just respecting everybody the way they deserve. The Red Pill to me is a society death spiral, as more and more people use it more and more people will become even more bitter towards everybody else!
/r/ExRedPill12/01/15 04:41 PM
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(Male Invader) All of my casual flings in life have been started by me, all serious relationships in my life have been started by the woman engaging me and being forward about wanting a relationship. I chase the tail I want, and I chase the relationships i want, but if the woman doesn't put back the exact same effort i put into something then it goes to a casual fling very quickly because i don't see or feel any effort back.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 06:21 PM
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I only have personal experience and watching my friends do stupid shit over and over and over again haha. I love the studies that TRP posts very few are actual studies and more just articles somebody wrote hahaha but some are studies of course :P
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 09:41 PM
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I think its both parts, more guys are open to the first part of course also haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 07:12 PM
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that's the thing i chose generalization from the start just like the red pill does. I am automatically immune to anything that doesn't fit the average. So you are right there are some girls who aren't damaged who will fall for PUA tricks but a lot less of them then girls who aren't damaged and won't fall for the tricks because they just see a PUA or asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 05:46 PM
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I read TRP enough to know they next girls before the sex haha all the time. i think rejection, nexting and success are 3 different things girls interested but not what you want or wont move fast enough - thats a next Girl flat out rejects you- thats a rejection success- SEX TOWN
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 05:45 PM
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They all use emotional mind game even if they aren't aware of it. call it knowledge, call it tricks, the end result is you are causing chemical reactions in another person. you are pushing the right buttons with out even realizing it a lot of times and remember always talk into the right ear if its something sexual never the left!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 02:51 PM
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A catholic college girl is just a slutty party girl waiting to discover her real potential :P. Jokes aside Realistically thought its about how easily ones emotions allow themselves to be manipulated. A slutty party girl with rock solid emotions will sleep with you cause your banging hot and shes horney not cause of your tricks. While that catholic college girl will sleep with you cause her emotions are all over the place and she believes your in love, even after only 3 hours. The second the cath…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 02:41 PM
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It is not that all TRP are interested in the same woman, its that the tricks they use work on the same woman, which essentially leads all PUA to end up with the same woman even though they may not actually desire the same woman. I would say that a great woman and great man are in terms about equal in numbers. They pair off quickly and have good relationships that don't fail. The few that remain to graze either are shy and not making the moves (in terms of men) or not falling for the standard tri…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 09:48 PM
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I find it funny because for woman its the same way, they think great men are unicorns because the only ones making the move are the PUA or assholes, the Great guys are taken either RIGHT AWAY or don't have the social confidence to make the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 09:46 PM
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You think pick up artists never next anybody? i think they next like 3-5 woman a night... no problem. that means that 2-4 are not under his radar of what she is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 09:43 PM
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nope because generalization is allowed, the second that lady falls for the PUA tricks she is now part of the AWALT in terms of being able to be picked up. Even if she does fall for it initially she would either not stick around to show him that she's not AWALT. This would mean to him he still thinks AWALT and one just went silent / made a mistake or she actually is part of the AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 09:42 PM
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Title Backwards! Simply put, quality guys will have their choice of woman, and poor quality guys will be rejected at an even higher rate as woman want somebody who can challenge or out preform them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 03:58 PM
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Let me make a very bold statement. AWALT who pick up artists go for. The second they don't fall into the AWALT category it means she won't fall for his tricks and he nexts her... rejection is incredibly high for guys and those who shrug it off and move on and use the same trick over and over again are tricking the same type of ladies. Thus the Idea that AWALT is very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 03:54 PM
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I think the TRP seduction is the part that is terrifying to the guy, many guys don't want to become what they hate about PUA and players which they think the red pill will make them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 01:54 PM
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Everything the red pill teaches about self improvement is great. Ignore everything else, you will have a very good impact on all aspects if you do that. Lift, Take care of yourself, don't be a wimp, read no more mr nice guy, take chances, make yourself happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 07:13 PM
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Not even red pill and i wouldn't give her another chance ever... No human is ever so out of control that they can make the mistake of cheating.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 06:24 PM
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https://chrome.google.com/webstore/search/stayfocusd?hl=en I think its stayfocused
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 03:56 PM
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To be honest, i don't know, i have no desire to go through the meaning constant relationships that they do. I just want one lovely lady to hold and cherish so i think they are crazy just like you haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 07:23 PM
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I've seen guys who pick up every night with out fail, I wouldn't be surprised if they are real :(, which terrifies me's.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 06:44 PM
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makes me wish we could put poles on TRP to find out whats the actual rate of success
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 05:00 PM
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haha the red pill is where good men go to die because years of rejection have made them bitter, once they become red pill they can never go back to being a good man. Then all these red pill men sleep with woman and harm their feelings which causes the woman to hate Men, so they become femnazi's or extreme feminist . Its a vicious cycle of everybody becoming a horrible person :P
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 03:26 PM
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ya but that's one short paragraph, with out going into a novel I can't really give my true point of views on the topic, thankfully my post history will show i am fairly against the whole being a dick to woman thing, and will clearly show the red pillers saying im not red pill hahaha and that my advice is bad :p.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 01:42 PM
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I would hope one is more intelligent then to fall for a self mind trap like that when talking about something. Sadly though, many will fall into self mind traps, but I at least am not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 06:41 PM
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A lot of people are subscribing to Red Pill with out believing in it at all or some of it like me. I love the red pill for the man up, its not them its you mentality, but i absolutely loath the woman hating that goes on. I hate the idea that they make woman cry and sleep around. I love the confidence they give to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 05:54 PM
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I got banned hahaha, I am giving it 1 month and she is back crying about it all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 02:44 PM
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I don't even know how to reply to this one, clearly you have no had any female friends who are clearly in a bad relationship. Have you ever seen a woman break down a cry for 45 minutes because she misses a guy who hit her on a regular basis? I have... (not this situation this one isn't nearly as bad). This situation is definitely not at that level but even if they are "the oldest teenager in the house" nobody deserves what she is going through right now... as an update she is sleeping with the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 12:47 PM
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I wasn't hear to encourage or discourage people, they can use it how they want.... i just want to know how to help my friend. She's talking to me again now but still doesn't want to hear anything from me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 08:17 PM
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Didn't seem odd to me. I would find it odd to bring it up with woman though, only talked to men about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 01:19 PM
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Hahahaha, im against manipulation other wise I would totally be Red Pill naturally hahaha, but seeing somebody crushed emotionally is horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 01:17 PM
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shes talking to me again today, her reunion with him yestarday must not have gone so well haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 01:16 PM
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her boyfriend 2 ago was a cake, he filmed her naked with out telling her hahaha that one was messed up the girl is very self destructive i won't lie about that hahaha getting in bed with the wrong boys constantly!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 07:36 PM
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He made a comment about not being a beta pussy, which in turn made me ask if he read the red pill and he confirmed, didn't really talk about it after that this was prob 2 months ago
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 07:34 PM
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I do not have those details i have meet him 4 times, yes i think he's an ass hole but until she broke down i didn't care to be involved in the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 07:24 PM
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Yes they are BF / GF but apparently she's only meet two of his friends who always hang out at his house. I see her as a plate who thinks shes dating him (really only can see him on a Saturday and a rare occasion another day (very rare)) and he just lying say he's dating her to keep her happy but i might be pessimistic about this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 07:22 PM
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just under 4 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 07:12 PM
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I will gladly fill in details, i have talked to him a few times before that is how i know he is the red pill, i figured it out when he said he ain't no beta pussy to the guys one time so after that i asked him if he read the red pill. I didn't think anything of it back then to be honest, I was in my busy season at work so worrying about somebody wasn't in the cards. (I run a pool company my business is really important to me) Fast forward now and pool season is over and i'm realizing the nightma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 07:09 PM
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Oh i know the guy, we have talked about it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 06:41 PM
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Oh i know the guy, we have talked about it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 06:39 PM
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I don't think a therapist is required (Im not therapist so i could be wrong of course haha) , i think she just a normal girl who missed out on the realization and awakening period from 16-24 when other girls are dating and having their hearts broken. hahah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 05:43 PM
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hahaha, they are, and Stockholm syndrome go go beast!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 05:27 PM
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I believe powerkick is referring to " thinking he is prince charming. She already wants him back and is worrying about him."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 05:22 PM
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She never dated till 25 because "guys were plenty and meant nothing", she then went in on 3 very alpha relationships and became a junkie, this is going to be her 4th and shes 29 now. She has hit the wall and the quality of the guy has been dropping with each guy. Yesterday she had the realization that she was actually a very boring person which i found hilarious timing to a post from yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 05:18 PM
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this is terrifying thought to me because of the mind games that the RP teaches, but im not sure if the mind games are alpha or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 01:14 PM
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problem is TRP runs off of average statics, and even though im not TRP kind of guy i will completely agree that they on average are right :(. You are better then the rest but that doesn't mean most aren't like that :(
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 08:45 PM
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Funny thing is here in Toronto if he has been working since 2005 he will be making approximately 34 dollars an hour with 40 hour weeks. That's 70k a year, which is well over the Canadian average.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 08:43 PM
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I think this is the issue with 98% of woman I meet, Great personality, nice looking, boring as shit. GL!
/r/askTRP20/10/14 07:25 PM
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this is so messed up haha
/r/askTRP20/10/14 12:50 PM
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There is no alpha or beta in this situation. There is no gender in this situation. There is only your friend who has bailed on you, multiple times. I don't even consider myself Red Pill or Alpha and I wouldn't accept this behaviour. How to handle it? No clue but i would do it this way. Tell them not to do it again on short notice, if they do it again i would just treat them as an acquaintance rather then a friend.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 05:48 PM
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In this situation I see two types of woman, Those who do not enjoy vulnerability in a Male companion Those who enjoy vulnerability in a Male companion Automatically showing any weakness to the first group is bad, so its pointless to look deeper into this group as we know the answer So we choose to focus on those who enjoy male vulnerability. I will break this group down into a oversimplified three scale system. Scale 1. Those who like vulnerability but for it to be private and only shared with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 05:12 PM
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Question, did you actually say anything like "hey I'm in the middle of something would you mind if we catch up later?"
/r/askTRP17/10/14 04:03 PM
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I just see that turning it around now as a challenge haha, i think i could do it. hahaha
/r/trpGAME17/10/14 12:37 PM
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I don't see how take a gamble that she's one of the 20% who don't fall for Red Pill stuff is hurting you. It's not like another girl is going to read the message and judge you because of something she can't see haha. Also it might be a good learning experience.
/r/trpGAME16/10/14 08:58 PM
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This post here is exactly what you do not want to do, you are building up emotional value to a girl you have not even meet yet. This will only lead you to defeat, you have two options at this point if she doesn't message you back by tomorrow. Send her a message again appologies and just saying you were being playful and she is the only girl (This shows weakness on your part, but this might be one of the 20% who are outside the normal and want this) or move on and find another one (majority on th…
/r/trpGAME16/10/14 08:23 PM
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Yes, but the system is not so broken that it screws people over like it does in the states http://www.commonlawrelationships.ca/ontario/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 06:34 PM
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Thats terrifying, i am so glad the horror stories from Canada are jokes compared to the american system
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 06:29 PM
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Massachusetts Alimony Reform Canadian! Thank god i don't have to deal with the ridiculousness of some of the states laws :P! So what if our caffeine beverages must be black and we can't drag dead horses down young street on Sundays!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 06:12 PM
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can you really label yourself RP if your in that situation :P?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 05:03 PM
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Funny you mention that, because in my circle of friends and family the woman are out earning the men. So its actually the man who is entitled to half her stuff :P. The tides are changing, HOUSE HUSBANDS ARISE!! :P.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 05:01 PM
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every relationship is unique, the problem is the morphing view of what marriage is. Me a very modern young man see's marriage COMPLETELY differently the a 55 year old man who grew up in a different era. He might feel as if marriage is a right he earned, where as I feel as marriage is just a title.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 04:50 PM
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I did college / University program in business finance. It was a complete waste, nothing i have learned has been used to date hahaha, but i would do it all over again for the experience :)
/r/askTRP16/10/14 12:44 PM
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Talk to him now, say this exactly just in the short version, tell him you will tell him when you are ready and that you are getting to that point but are not there yet. Keep it short and sweet and do it before hand. It will only be a put off and awkward if you blue ball him at a later point and he will think its some silly resistance he has to beat.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 07:40 PM
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Why not tell him exactly this?
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 07:20 PM
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No matter what the actual reason is, self improvement is always a huge positive on your life. so screw red pill, screw blue pill, screw your doctors ideas. Get fit for yourself. Get a hobby to be happy with. Do something new and exciting to break your bubble. You don't need to be alpha about any of it just be better then yourself yestarday.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 06:39 PM
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I am not the Idea guy, I am the make shit work guy. In both cases somebody else mentioned an idea they had but were to afraid to take the step and risk, so I held their hand and did the leg work and took the plunge with them. They had the expertise in the field and I had the guts and drive to succeed. I always researched into the field but im no expert
/r/askTRP15/10/14 05:53 PM
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I started a lawn care company when i was 21 with a friend. It was really successful (75k a year to each of us) but I sold my share to my buddy and started another company with a family friend when i was 24. To be honest, its really easy to start a company if you have a strong drive, it pays very well. nobody seems to understand that only the first 2-3 years are work... after that you just are bored and making good money. Why i am on reddit today 22 employee's nothing for me to do unless somebody…
/r/askTRP15/10/14 04:14 PM
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funny because its the thing i did for me that drove her crazy, and the thing i did out of being petty didn't phase her at all. Which really enforces a lot of red pill idea's haha
/r/askTRP15/10/14 04:04 PM
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for clarification, guy 2 has the same potential as guy one but hes doing everything wrong. Dress properly, hair properly, fitness a little. If you haven't even done the basics your just showing that your not ready :(.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 03:47 PM
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Guy 1, only because guy 2 has no confidence in himself to even talk to a woman, nothing to do with how they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 03:46 PM
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I wonder which future will actually happen... I have linked to this in my google calendar to revisit it in 20 years :) hahaha Message you then :P
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 03:33 PM
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I would be interested in hearing your opinions, might spark somebody to comment back and start a real debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 03:30 PM
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I am 100% purple pill. The short is I follow a lot of what red says but I have one extra rule which is do not harm another human physically or emotionally. If I make another human stress or cry over something I have done, then I have failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 02:01 PM
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Got bored and went into CSS seems like you can down vote via the CSS still if your smart enough... i am not apparently haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 01:54 PM
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I was in the Cayman island's a few years back, Walking six mile beach I crossed a man and his daughter and I was like sooo nice to see a family OH GOD THEY ARE MAKING OUT! I noticed this was a common theme on the beach. About 20 minutes later I jokingly said to myself that grandmother and her grand son are prob actually dating... They were hahaha...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 01:49 PM
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How do you have -1 point when down voting isn't allowed haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 01:45 PM
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I don't think anybody would make it very far... what do you mean after one post i need to take 200 shots cause SRS squad hit us up... FAWK
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 01:44 PM
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Follow up question, do you feel as if the input for somebody like a purple pill or blue pill has ever improved the red pill idea's?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 01:43 PM
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bahahahahahaha, hard to understand the argument in full from that but that response clearly shows who the victor was in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 01:41 PM
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i highly doubt this will affect anybody at all, the egg freezing is always a last resort for a woman, if she can go on maternity and have it while shes young why wait till she is older? This really is just a extra here you go this will cost us almost nothing but will give us a lot of good PR with woman.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 01:17 PM
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the minimum is never good, the only time you accept the minimum is when you know she has a desire to improve herself. No joke, 90% of woman are boring as shit but have been lead to believe they are amazing because of the attention they get. Did you know you don't actually make friends by just going to the beach? Become interesting, delightful and wonderful, almost every good trait you want in a guy is good for a woman to have also. No joke, any 8+ Woman who has a decent personality, they require…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 06:21 PM
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I posted a job this year with a 14 starting salary, girl walks in and I go so what do you expect to make. She says 12 dollars an hour so i agree to it. I read my post when im taking it off and it says right in it 14 dollars an hour. She talked her self out of 2 dollars an hour. I gave her a raise to 14 after 3 months and just took her to 16 this week because she's been so outstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 06:09 PM
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I only like two things about the Red Pill. The desire to constantly improve And the realization that if the same thing keeps happening its not them its you, fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 05:15 PM
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I right away noticed that the study was from 2005, that means data is most likely over 10 years old. I quickly started googling for other studies that are newer... the newest is the 2005 one. Any body have one from at least 2012, that i can read? I am a owner of a company so it would be interesting to see if i fall pray to the reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 04:59 PM
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How many i have had vs how many i want are two very different things. I want 1, to love and be mine for the rest of my life... but until then i am going to have all the fun I can take.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 04:51 PM
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based on my very small sample I think that not asking is doing more damage then any of the "explained" ones. I would give anybody who asks me for a reasonable raise, a raise. (I'm in Canada we like people here) Edit: If I haven't fired you, I won't fire you for asking for a raise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 04:49 PM
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I can explain the wage gap... I have 22 employee's only one woman has asked me for a Raise in 2 years... every man has asked me for a raise at least once a year. office is 7 guys 15 woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 04:32 PM
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There is clearly not enough information to make a decision about this girl in one paragraph. All you have is a single trend to compare it against, the conclusion from that would be she's either insecure and handling it wrong or she is cheating on you. Where the actual statistic falls I have no clue but I am guessing its some where in the 60% likely hood she is cheating or wanting to cheat. The Real tell to me is this registered so heavily on you that you are worried enough about it to ask the re…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 01:18 PM
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This to me seems like a warning sign of a bad relationship, money is usually the biggest issue your relationship will have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/14 02:52 PM
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Oh i still see her - just once a week i want more then that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 01:39 PM
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I would agree with you but she has really good reasons. when I meet her she got into a car accident and went through depression from that. Then she got back to work and fitness and things picked back up. Then she got mono from her younger sister so i stayed the F away haha. She now has every weekend book by her sisters wedding as she's the bridesmaid and her uncle died this past week. She keeps telling me wait till November and shes all mine but i heard that about when she got better twice now..…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 01:27 PM
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29 Done with Gaming woman I'm one of those forced myself to a red pill state and hated it kind of people. I like the idea of the middle ground of Purple where you still strive to be the best but actually care for something haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 01:20 PM
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See i want to avoid that one, i know how to Red Pill somebody already, quiet successful but i've grown tired of it and i hate hurting people's feelings. I disagree with the don't care about the other person mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 01:19 PM
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You could be right that is why i am looking for an advice location, where i will give the full details of the story to get proper responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 09:13 PM
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Excellent response, I know its not an advice form that's why I didn't give details. I asked where do I go to get that kind of advice, where I will give the full detail set.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 09:12 PM
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honestly, if she is ignoring you something is wrong. Fix the thing that is wrong and act like her ignoring you does not bother you even in the slightest!
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If they grew up on a farm they aren't a horse girl, they are a girl with horses. Its city girls with horses that become horse girls haha But always remember the 80 / 20 rule. hahah Either of us could be the 80 or the 20 :P
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This is right, but also to tame a horse you need to be master and commander and in complete control of the animal. This means they are super bossy and have to get their way. Just google horse girl
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My worst experiences in Dating have been with Lawyers and Horse girls... that is all
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I am Not red pill! From the sounds of it you have started down the path of an LTR with her unknowingly. :P but don't worry its not to late to correct. What happened here is she starting to get what she wants, she craves the idea of taming you to be an LTR. You are showing the first signs of weakness and this is an incredible turn on because it makes her feel like she is finally succeeding. Think of how happy you were when you first noticed your results from the Gym? Many would say the second she…
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Social media did nothing for my companies. Google adwords is king followed by word of mouth. Just service the shit out of everybody, don't be pushy but always ask for referrals.
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I am by no means Red pill, I will never make the transition beyond the constant self improvement and realization that if something keeps happening, its my fault and I need to fix it. I never told her in the 3 years dating that I made over $300,000.00 a year. She spent the entire relationship bugging me to buy a house with her so she could get out of her parents place. I never was willing to cause it wasn't what i wanted (at the time was living in a 1 bed room apartment and driving a rusty car.) …
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