Nigellasativa9 Archive

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1	The red pill ruins everything and, also women actually want less than the top 10% of men. I don’t disagree with you and the situation is pretty bad for a lot of people I know. I got really lucky. My wife doesn’t share the views of most women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 07:48 PM
5	Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too: My dad is from an Asian country so it was acceptable and encouraged for me to live at home indefinitely, but my (white American) wife was so gracious in living with us for a few years until I got on my feet. We were at a point where we had to get married and didn’t want to wait any longer. Yes, it was tough and far from a perfect situation, but we stuck it out together and now thankfully have our own place. I’ll forever be grateful that she didn’t judge me for my economic situation and I am full…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 06:14 AM
1	The red pill ruins everything and, also women actually want less than the top 10% of men. Red pill helped me and my wife improve our marriage immensely. Not saying I subscribe to everything or want a threesome with Andrew Tate and Joe Rogan, but coming from a religious background, many of the ideas go hand and hand with my religion. The red pill movement and all the relationship podcasts as of late have brought these ideas into discussion. Wife and I started engaging and trading videos back and forth. We are intelligent enough to take the good out of red pill ideas and toss the stuff…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 05:56 AM
–	Approaching women is very possible, it's just not like fulfilling video game objectives where following a list of steps leads you to a definite reward. Your very last comment is so true. A lot of guys are so focused on the height and physical appearance and it’s really secondary to most women. My most successful friend in dating is the least conventionally attractive and the shortest guy in our group (5’6”). And yet he can meet women whenever and wherever he wants. He actually has to decide between multiple options because he clicks well with so many girls. He’s just an extremely neurotypical guy with an extroverted personality and common hobbi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 04:11 AM
2	A man expecting women to accept them when they are young and broke is like expecting men to accept a women when she fat lol. I was in this exact situation. My wife accepted me with my broke-ness. And guess what? We’re still semi broke but happy. Before someone asks, no, I didn’t marry someone desperate and unattractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 11:11 PM
1	Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to be I think a big factor that often isn’t mentioned in these debates (where the focus is on societal influence and social media) is the influence a person’s parents (I.e. did their parents have a good relationship and instill good relationship values in their children) have on their relationship attitudes. Oftentimes good and bad relationships are cyclical and passed down through the generations. After all, our parents tend to be our biggest role models. In my own case, as a man, of course like any …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 08:48 PM
1	The default view of men by American & Canadian women is horrible and bigoted. I say this more times than I can count, but we all (including me) have to remind ourselves how the internet can give us false perceptions. For example, you might observe that the loudest women on the internet are the hyper feminazis and the loudest men on the internet are hyper red pilled PUA types. A lot of people on Reddit are very opinionated and have very sharp intellectual and philosophical ideas. But in real life, “in the field”, I rarely encounter these types of women. They’re just regula…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 02:49 AM
2	Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too: 1 is huge. I’m married now, but when I was first stumbling into the dating world, I carried a forever alone vibe because of quite a few unsatisfactory interactions with women. However, I learned that my town just sucks and it’s very homogeneous and I don’t really fit in racially or politically. I learned this by clubbing with some friends in different cities and seeing how I was actually getting more women to talk to me than my more experienced friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 11:51 PM
1	Too many men conflate sexual frustration with depression I've been reading this post through and through and initially, I felt like you were being perhaps a little obtuse and/or trying to rile up sexually frustrated men (super meta lol). But I understand your perspective better, even though I may disagree a bit. I think you hit the nail on the head with that last sentence and sometimes debates come down to definitions/inclusions/exclusions. You've kind of inspired me to write a post based on my own unique experience with sex and relationships. As a ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 09:03 AM
2	Too many men conflate sexual frustration with depression I think it's like one of those things where you discover some truth in a conspiracy theory and go too far down the rabbit hole and come out with a tinfoil hat. If you go long enough without relationships/sex, you augment a general emotional immaturity and the longer you go without it, the more wild it becomes. I also think that sometimes it's simply a language thing. Men who have been frustrated for years express it in a raw way because it's so upsetting. Now, if you don't think sex is an actual…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 08:46 AM
6	Too many men conflate sexual frustration with depression I completely agree with you and find that the denial of sex as a need is generally a talking point utilized by certain women (and even some men who are successful in the relationship department) to denigrate the experience of men who are truly suffering. I think it's along the same lines as the modern use of the term "incel" to lump together and disparage all men who bring up sexual frustration or even traditional gender roles. It's just another one of those subtle oppressions within western s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 08:34 AM