| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Opinions on When she offers to pay? | Field Report | NightHawkDC2 | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Tactic to use when seemingly engaged chick stops replying? | NightHawkDC2 | /r/seduction | 07/05/16 11:58 PM | |
| 1 | Not sure WTF I'm doing wrong. | Conversation | NightHawkDC2 | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Chick I've been seeing 2 months all of a sudden stands me up | Conversation | NightHawkDC2 | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Call/Text to confirm a date? | NightHawkDC2 | /r/seduction | 13/11/16 12:43 PM | |
| 1 | Corresponding w/ girl met on Match.com -- "Shouldn't we get coffee, first?" | NightHawkDC2 | /r/seduction | 01/05/16 11:20 AM | |
| 1 | Online dating (Match) - building attraction | Fundamentals | NightHawkDC2 | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 03:47 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Online dating (Match) - building attractionUsually invite them out for drinks and hopefully on to another venue for food if there's a good vibe. Last couple of times, guess things weren't going well enough to continue on to another venue. 🤷 | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Online dating (Match) - building attractionI've ASSUMED attraction on the app, mentioned a date, and gotten numbers for setting it up. Then they flake. Or, I've had first date, and not a 2nd. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 09:18 PM |
| 3 | College professor.Until she's not YOUR professor. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Should I compliment a girl on her appearance when first seeing her, whether it be a cold approach or first date?A good way to do it would be to compliment their "look", or style. Compliment something they're wearing (they picked it out), etc. Or a detail of her outfit. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you think you're going to weed out flakey women on Match, you're incorrect. They all flake. Doesn't matter which app. Does a pay app lower the flakiness? Possibly....but it doesn't negate it. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Opinions on When she offers to pay?Well, a couple of texts with no reply seem to have given me my answer 🤷 | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Opinions on When she offers to pay?I don't think that was the reasoning. She offered to pay for next round before we ordered it. It was more of a "I've got the next round." Girl's a retired Colonel. Might classify her as Slightly independent. 😉 | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on When she offers to pay?Also, idk how it bears on the subject, she offered as we were polishing off the 1st round. So, seems to me she was wanting to stick around for a 2nd round....and she suggested apps at the bar as opposed to a 2nd locale. Seems the check came and she paid while I was in the bathroom. I planned on offering to pay for the apps, but she'd already had her card run. 🤷 I'm overanalyzing, I know. She seems like a pretty cool chick I'd like to get to know much better | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Opinions on When she offers to pay?Honestly, One can interpret it both ways. She wants to make it obvious she's not *using* you for drinks/food, or she wants to make it obvious she doesn't OWE you anything. It could go either way, IMO. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on When she offers to pay?Opinions on the mask/no kiss? I mean...we shared drinks. So....🤷 Not trying to get caught up in one-itis, but she's a pretty cool/accomplished chick. Her pics didn't do her justice. I went in Knowing nothing about her so I could ask questions and keep her talking. We just had a few light texts prior joking, etc. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Not sure WTF I'm doing wrong.I'm not sure how I didn't send direct signals on the first date. Felt like we had great conversation, etc. The kiss, I say was lame b/c it was just a closed mouth peck. She was like "Do it again next week?" Told her I'd like to and for her to let me know her schedule. Texted her after the date telling her I had a good time & was glad we were able to get together. She said "Definitely do it again" Couple days later, texted her while she was out of town. A few texts here & there the next week. Sai… | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Call/Text to confirm a date?Well, we got together. Went to get dinner, etc. Got back to my place, she fixed a drink & she wanted to get all deep & philosophical w/ discussion: "What is it you want?" Made out on the couch for a bit & she hit me with the "I can't do this...we're not going to have sex." Then, she says she thinks she'd better leave. I tell her I didn't want her to leave. As she's putting her shoes back on, she acts all disappointed. Seriously didn't know how to play it. Seriously, she's a cool chick & we had g… | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Call/Text to confirm a date?Texted her last night...told her I was looking forward to catching up & that I had a surprise for her. She got all intrigued & asked what it was. Told her she'd have to wait & "I'll see your smiling face here at 8:00." To which she replied "Okay". I was just hoping she took me seriously when I said that the 1st time. We do laugh & joke a bit. | /r/seduction | 14/11/16 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Call/Text to confirm a date?I'm only considering it because looking back on the interaction (which I delineated completely), doesn't have a FIRM commitment. THAT was a bit of a f*ckup on my part, I see that, now. Considering texting something like "Looking fwd to catching up on Friday. I've got a surprise for you (planning on taking her to a few different places for tacos -- i.e. "Let's go on an adventure!") I'll see you here @ 8:00. It's a confirmation, but phrased moreso as "Of course you're coming." | /r/seduction | 13/11/16 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Tactic to use when seemingly engaged chick stops replying?Curious...do you give her sh*t about leaving you hanging? Or do you just dismiss it? How do you let her know that's uncool w/o making it seem like you were lamenting over it? | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Tactic to use when seemingly engaged chick stops replying?Eh...admittedly, haven't had a whole lot of luck. Had a few that I'd hit up that SEEMED interested. Another said she'd like to get together & then blew me off (actually asked her for her #, but she shot me down). She's actually the only number I've gotten so far. Doesn't seem to be that many ACTIVE in my area. | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Corresponding w/ girl met on Match.com -- "Shouldn't we get coffee, first?"Seems inquiring on this was a waste of time. Hit her back countering w/ drinks. No reply. Waited a day, Shot her one. Zilch. Guess it's on to the next one... | /r/seduction | 02/05/16 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Corresponding w/ girl met on Match.com -- "Shouldn't we get coffee, first?"Not sure. Texted her last night & gots no reply. Blaaaaaah. | /r/seduction | 01/05/16 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Corresponding w/ girl met on Match.com -- "Shouldn't we get coffee, first?"huh? | /r/seduction | 01/05/16 03:03 PM |
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