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| 6 | 35 year old single mom and her regrets. After 20 years in the friend zone, her backup plan used her for sex and dumped her.I’m not MGTOW. I’m just defending my understanding of what the core idea is, which is separating oneself from the dating market, free of any feelings about it, though there is plenty of crossover with Blackpilled sentiments. Maybe I’m wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/21 11:59 PM |
| 3 | 35 year old single mom and her regrets. After 20 years in the friend zone, her backup plan used her for sex and dumped her.Blackpilled*. MGTOW isn’t necessarily BP. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | 35 year old single mom and her regrets. After 20 years in the friend zone, her backup plan used her for sex and dumped her.We might also call it the product of a sinful world | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/21 11:37 PM |
| 6 | 35 year old single mom and her regrets. After 20 years in the friend zone, her backup plan used her for sex and dumped her.Well of course she was, that’s what she made the relationship. Women who provide value outside of being a sex object tend to see more in their past relationships | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/21 11:34 PM |
| 24 | 35 year old single mom and her regrets. After 20 years in the friend zone, her backup plan used her for sex and dumped her.Half of the problem is in her mindset. If she had realistic expectations and stopped thotting, she would be in non-ideal but much better circumstances. Believe it or not, men are kind of disgusted by women who are like her. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | 35 year old single mom and her regrets. After 20 years in the friend zone, her backup plan used her for sex and dumped her.Welcome to the modern world. Return to monke when | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/21 11:31 PM |
| 1 | How dare you want what you want?So your point is that wanting X thing out of a relationship is justified, but you apologized when she said no? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/21 06:25 AM |
| 4 | I can't believe we have steeped so low as menYeah, I keep seeing stuff about polyamorous relationships, etc. what do people think that is besides cuckoldry? | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 12:26 AM |
| 1 | What to text a girl you fucked and now have no interest in?If you don’t want to play the game, don’t be a horse on the cock carousel. You reap what you sow. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Just seeking adive if i'm doing right - Took the Red pill and stopped being the nice husband since a month and here is what happenedComfort tests? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Dating Scene in the ChurchI trust that God will lead me to the right woman as I follow His path. I’m not going to try hard, but I won’t turn down opportunities, either. | /r/askRPC | 06/03/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this argument between me (29M) and my (26) GF?Sounds about right. I think I’ll stick to reading. | /r/askRPC | 06/03/21 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this argument between me (29M) and my (26) GF?Drop Everything and Reading? I’ve never heard DEER used in this community before. | /r/askRPC | 06/03/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this argument between me (29M) and my (26) GF?Do you even have a frame? You seem more like a friend than a boyfriend, and way too openly touchy about stuff. | /r/askRPC | 06/03/21 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Why the fuck are women so broken mentally?Indeed, this is the major problem I see in this community, the men here become steeped in dogma and can’t make sense of anything besides “women are whores” | /r/askTRP | 06/03/21 05:50 PM |
| 2 | So now she wants to wait…While that is generally true, I don’t think it’s fair to discount a genuine shift in belief. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/03/21 03:02 PM |
| 1 | So now she wants to wait…Is there something wrong with this in concept? Sometimes experience changes your mind. Now, on the other hand, the opening sentence has me curious about this one. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/03/21 05:58 AM |
| 3 | What the point of getting married for men? M18Marriage means putting your wife first? Have you read the sidebar? | /r/RPChristians | 01/03/21 06:01 PM |
| 0 | Would you wear a mask in church?Why do you think you’re right? | /r/RPChristians | 15/02/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Would you wear a mask in church?And so we should strive to be oppressed to be favored by God? I think you’ve taken that point in too much stride. | /r/RPChristians | 15/02/21 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Would you wear a mask in church?Phew, time to pull out the old high school French buried deep in my brain. Thanks for the study though, I’ve never seen it. | /r/RPChristians | 15/02/21 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Would you wear a mask in church?I guess they don’t go. There’s no obvious answer to the question. | /r/RPChristians | 15/02/21 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Why are most girls I attract have divorced parents?I don’t know anything about you, but the reason you may not be attracting any quality women is because you lack quality yourself. Food for thought. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Would you wear a mask in church?Regardless of the science, perception matters. Even if the mask does nothing, prospective followers think it does. | /r/RPChristians | 15/02/21 05:52 PM |
| 2 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?People are shifting towards caring about sex more because they feel unfulfilled in normal things, like you. But this is not the answer. Just getting pussy will not make you happy, I’ve heard such from some of the older guys in the RP community. I think the issue is probably multi-faceted; it could have anything to do with the fact that millennial’s parents were often emotionally absent, it could be other factors causing an overfixation with sex. I’d even bet the hormones from sex drown out the p… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 08:43 PM |
| 1 | LTR removed me from instagram close friends featureStop being a bitch about it and leave. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel like their life is a little boringThere’s a women threshold that needs to be reached? Christians would wholeheartedly disagree. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Women beg for good dominating dickYeah, they’re not, they reflect a mindset that is incorrect when it comes to attracting and keeping women. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/21 02:46 PM |
| 7 | I have some questions!I’m a man so I didn’t intend to reply to this, but when I saw the first question, I couldn’t help myself. Alpha =/= captain. Alpha males are sexually dominant and appeal to women’s sense of attraction. That doesn’t make them good leaders in any sense. I think we’re all familiar with the fuckboys that get all the pussy but they’re very unreliable people in general and can never keep a relationship together. Being a captain is about leadership. Alphas get women, captains keep them. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/11/20 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Please help me figure out if my bf genuinely loves me or doesn't care about me at allNot what you asked for, but I highly suggest you get out of Islam. There’s a reason why your dad is the way he is. As for the content of your post: I can’t be for sure, but I don’t know what you expected your boyfriend to do. It seems like you weren’t very communicative then expected him to be an emotional rag for you. I’m sure he left you alone because he trusted in your individual strength to handle. Speaking as a man, I know we don’t always notice things unless we’re told, especially with the… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/20 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Struggling with roles (married 6 years, 1 kid)Clearly his phone has nothing to do with it. Don’t try to use band-aids to fix broken bones. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/20 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Guy thinks HE messed up after being emotionally ripped in half by fiancee. What do you tell this guy?I’d tell my friend to GTFO. She’s disrespected him beyond repair, he needs to start fresh with a new attitude about himself and about women. | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/10/20 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Value of Female Friendships in LTRsSometimes women can actually be interesting to talk to, also. Usually not, but who knows, right? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/20 02:09 AM |
| 4 | Serious: How is marriage different than prostitution?They’re not told to upgrade, it’s a biological imperative called hypergamy | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/09/20 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Serious: How is marriage different than prostitution?Blackpilled responses. The difference has to do with the commitment and emotional aspect of the relationship. Yeah, sure, the men give up there money and they get sex, but it’s not as if it’s necessarily a 1:1 exchange like that. Depends on the frame of the relationship. Even if we take a relationship involving a beta male, it’s still more than prostitution, because the woman exert controls the man. Prostitution is a service exchange solely. | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/09/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | I got dumped by a girl I liked. Months later she got pregnant by another guy. And the guy left her alone. Now she is a single mother, and wants me back.This situation is exactly why women’s liberation was a horrible idea | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/09/20 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Why women lie about n-countPretty sure you can tell indirectly through red flags and such. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 04:16 PM |
| -6 | the perfect lifeAre you solely describing him as a beta male, or is he a beta male? Security is nice, but it’s worse for both of you if he has no frame and maintains no tension (some lack of short term security there) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/08/20 08:14 AM |
| 3 | Guys, when a woman refuses to date you, accept her rejection in good faith and don’t fall into the temptation of insulting her. Doing that shows her that you lack manners and dating courtesy. Don’t try and persuade, coerce or manipulate a woman who is not interested in you into giving you a chance.That dude has some serious self esteem problems. Sorry for him. | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Why women lie about n-countThe solution to these problems is the masculine frame. Both interpersonally and societally. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 08:10 AM |
| 3 | Why women lie about n-countDo what’s best for you, don’t shame yourself too hard. N-count of 4 is nothing these days, could be worse. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 08:08 AM |
| 9 | Why women lie about n-countThe sexual revolution was a mistake | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Why women lie about n-countOn the positive side, people will start seeing a problem with this more and more. Hopefully we can reestablish a patriarchy and get things under control before the West is ruined by promiscuity, among other things. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 08:02 AM |
| 5 | Why women lie about n-countYou don’t. If it’s as high as what you’re checking for, she won’t say. That’s the entire idea. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 07:56 AM |
| 7 | Why women lie about n-countI don’t think it’s the carousel that messes up their brain, it’s their childhood that did that, and that brain says ride the carousel. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Why women lie about n-countYour continuous usage of the word “lol” makes me question whether you are quite as omega as you claim. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 07:50 AM |
| 4 | I have learned a lot in my life and I want to share.Lol. Thanks. I try to be, at least. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/20 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Proctor & Gamble loses $8 Billion, decides maybe war on men was a bad idea...A flicker of sanity in this crazy world. Glad so many men are standing up against this femoid bullcrap. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/20 05:30 AM |
| 2 | I have learned a lot in my life and I want to share.He clearly has no problem pulling women. That relationship could have been great, but he cheated on her. So it’s not as if he’s setting himself up for another Korean wife. It’s hard to find virtue these days, so I don’t blame him. The real test is whether he breaks it off if he needs to or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/20 05:27 AM |
| 13 | I have learned a lot in my life and I want to share.Lmao. The most unprivileged thing about being white has got to be that everyone thinks you’re privileged. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/20 05:23 AM |
| 1 | I have learned a lot in my life and I want to share.This thread and comment are so misguided. This guy is not bluepilled, and he’s not whining. He’s learned valuable truths that have made his life better, and he’s started valuing his goals over those of the women around him. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/20 05:21 AM |
| 0 | I have learned a lot in my life and I want to share.Thanks for dropping the red pill on plates. This sub focuses a little too much on game and getting women instead of the core concepts that lead to sexual success. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/20 05:17 AM |
| 2 | I have learned a lot in my life and I want to share.Maybe for the resources? She carried the kids to term, she can’t just kill them or whatever and maybe she’s kind of attached to them, but she doesn’t want to work, so she needs him to provide. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/20 05:07 AM |
| 8 | I have learned a lot in my life and I want to share.I would hope TRP ideas help those people let go of their resentment for women. When you start understanding what drives women to do what they do, you lose justification to hate them. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/20 05:02 AM |
| 3 | I have learned a lot in my life and I want to share.Precisely. I don’t think I would have ever gotten out of the fog if it weren’t for the internet and this community. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/20 05:00 AM |
| 5 | I have learned a lot in my life and I want to share.TRP is not about sex, that’s a byproduct of it. Getting laid doesn’t necessarily mean you’re chad, OP is a clear example of this. Just depends on what kind of beta you are. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/20 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Does Anyone Else Find It a Turnoff When Women Put You on a Pedestal?Them viewing you as high value is what keeps the relationship worthwhile to you. Per hypergamy, women marry up in value. I think you’re bothered by it because you think it seems wrong in some way, and surface-level, it does to me too, but intergender realities say otherwise. Women seeing you as higher value keeps them sexually willing, more respectful, and less likely to leave you. But as someone in another comment said, nobody likes desperate people. This phenomenon doesn’t mean all women are d… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 10:51 PM |
| 13 | What’s the most beta shit you’ve ever done/said to a girl?Can’t get on board with that. You do you, guys. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 12:27 AM |
| 1 | What’s the most beta shit you’ve ever done/said to a girl?Old foreigner on Instagram vibes 😂 | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 11:40 PM |
| 5 | What’s the most beta shit you’ve ever done/said to a girl?Been there myself | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 11:39 PM |
| 12 | What’s the most beta shit you’ve ever done/said to a girl?Eh, don’t think this is inherently beta. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 11:38 PM |
| 6 | What’s the most beta shit you’ve ever done/said to a girl?I would hope you make her clean them off first | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 11:36 PM |
| 23 | What’s the most beta shit you’ve ever done/said to a girl?Yeah, ending it by cheating is a pussy move | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 11:33 PM |
| 6 | Need some dating advice...You broke your no dating before job rule for her. You talk like she’s a once in a life time opportunity you couldn’t pass up. That’s the disease. Fix your mindset and see where she stands afterwards. | /r/RPChristians | 10/06/20 04:46 AM |
| -2 | Let it die? She’s gone cold, no contact for 7 days now.lmao | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Let it die? She’s gone cold, no contact for 7 days now.That’s what we’re talking about here. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 10:06 PM |
| -1 | Let it die? She’s gone cold, no contact for 7 days now.That’s just your anger and damaged pride. I know because I’ve been there myself. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Let it die? She’s gone cold, no contact for 7 days now.Not sure why you texted her that in the beginning | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Let it die? She’s gone cold, no contact for 7 days now.Could also just be a fitness test to make sure he’s not too attached. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Let it die? She’s gone cold, no contact for 7 days now.Patience is your best friend. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 09:31 PM |
| 3 | I'm 42, had sex with a 20 yr old Sat, now ghostedShe was testing you, and you failed. She gave you the cold shoulder in the beginning to make sure you weren’t desperate, etc, and you made yourself look desperate. You probably aren’t getting her back, but definitely don’t say another word to her until she does. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Why Men Hate Going To ChurchWait, I’m not the only one? | /r/RPChristians | 19/05/20 08:09 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach my husband about this issue?Yeah sure, but I think besides the needs issue it’s also important to highlight the unChristlike nature of his actions and how he should be handling it. TRP is about the actions of men, after all. | /r/RPChristians | 18/05/20 09:10 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach my husband about this issue?In general, sure, but in this context, should she have to pay her husband not to be a dick? | /r/RPChristians | 18/05/20 07:29 PM |
| 0 | How do I approach my husband about this issue?You shouldn't have to pay for somebody's fair treatment of you. | /r/RPChristians | 18/05/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Do men here realize that the women who post here "care" more about men's issues than like 99% of women do?Women don’t care about incels. That’s a fact. Doesn’t mean they’re evil, it’s just something that their biology influences them to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 10:18 PM |
| 7 | Is The Surrendered Wife the same as The Empowered Wife?Biblical rules have reasons behind them. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/05/20 06:38 PM |
| 19 | Is The Surrendered Wife the same as The Empowered Wife?Christianity’s ideas often align well with RP ideas, you shouldn’t deny it just because it’s Christian. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/05/20 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else always beta out of relationships intentionally?Don’t get into LTRs with women you won’t want to date for a long time? | /r/askTRP | 03/05/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Dating a girl with lots of past baggageThe miracle is that she’s willing to work through the trauma. I’ve run across a lot of women that don’t have any interest in doing that. | /r/RPChristians | 17/04/20 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Dating a girl with lots of past baggageBe the man she will be attracted to or leave. You need to be the new image of men she takes on in her head. You have a big responsibility on your hands here. Just keep TRP ideas in your head and don’t make unreasonable exceptions just because of her baggage. | /r/RPChristians | 17/04/20 09:29 PM |
| 2 | This is the red pill, why don’t you even try to establish its mindset before posting here?People aren’t as individual as they’d like to believe. And honestly, that’s lucky for them. We all have predictable problems that we can work together to solve. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Should I leave my LTR with a unicorn?ONS, plate sex, whatever. Same applies | /r/askTRP | 05/04/20 05:49 AM |
| 11 | Should I leave my LTR with a unicorn?One night stands will not make you happy. You are losing nothing by not throwing away such a gem. Monogamous sex is better in the long term. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Have you swallowed the Red Chewable Tablet?No, but I have taken the red suppository. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/04/20 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Social media deleters under 25 years old, what was the main reason you deleted?I haven’t fully stepped off yet, but I’m really on the border of doing so. Snapchat does all the things a phone number can do, except for it’s got a bunch of drama nobody asked for (with stories especially) and a whole load of degeneracy in the public stories. Instagram I haven’t had as many problems with, as long as I keep my following list short and relevant and don’t feel the constant urge to post it should be a good experience. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 07:31 AM |
| 1 | LTR no longer Christian. Next her?Yeah, well don’t try to debate her on it or even bother trying to transmit it through the spoken Word. Be an example of why the Word is right. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 07:01 AM |
| 1 | LTR no longer Christian. Next her?That’s odd. Pastor probably not worthy of any prizes. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 06:34 AM |
| 2 | LTR no longer Christian. Next her?Personally, I would give her time and see what happens. If her “break” does not turn into regret and a full and more committed return to the faith, then next her by all means. You might even want to ask her about her motivations for doing it to find out if she had some bad run in with a pastor or whatever. Who knows. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Are dating apps a good idea for someone who just sarted getting into the dating game?Absolutely not. Dating apps are a buffer unless you use them passively. That is, you’re trying to make it easier on yourself and hide from the fact that you’re too scared to approach. Once you are experienced with cold approach IRL, then you can go to dating apps for passive game. | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Insecure dancingDon’t address insecurities issue by issue. You need to confront your (in this case physical) insecurity in general first. I still struggle a little bit with it, but I’m mostly over it. There is no cure to insecure dancing that doesn’t include curing your general insecurity. | /r/seduction | 05/03/20 01:42 AM |
| 2 | I feel uncomfortable sometimes!!Don’t let it get to you. You’re right, your insecurities are affecting your game. You may need to take time to get over those insecurities personally before going into game. | /r/seduction | 03/03/20 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Giving up?If you give up, only give up temporarily. You may need to take some time to work on other stuff. As for the lifting thing, you are clearly doing something wrong. Doesn’t matter your body type or whatever. If you could describe your eating and lifting habits that could help us see the exact issue. Take some time to work on yourself. Work on your game theory. Make sure to make internal changes and let the outward changes flow from them, not just put on a façade. Remember that women should not be t… | /r/seduction | 03/03/20 01:59 AM |
| 9 | Q4RP: Has the dating market changed in the past decade? Is it easier / harder to get laid / relationships? Does game work the same as 10 years ago? How have you needed to adapt? Are the returns better or worse?Depends on how you use Snapchat & Instagram. It can be used to inflate women’s self image in exchange for dry pussy, or you can use it to talk to your friends and read actually good posts. Just like Reddit. It’s often super BP/gay excepting good subs like this one. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/20 09:42 PM |
| 6 | Q4RP: Has the dating market changed in the past decade? Is it easier / harder to get laid / relationships? Does game work the same as 10 years ago? How have you needed to adapt? Are the returns better or worse?I came from the two parent household situation. It is possible for most anyone to get in gear for TRP (or maybe other things in my life made it easier for me), but I had to get burned really hard before I finally realized I needed to swallow the pill in full. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/20 09:36 PM |
| 1 | One Approach Every Day Challenge - Day One 1️⃣Not necessarily. Could be a shit test | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 09:29 PM |
| 1 | 3️⃣One Approach Every Day Challenge - Day 3Don’t be friends with girls you approach. Especially if she LJBF rejects you. That’s submitting yourself to her will and you will lose in the long term. Why did you get her Instagram? Don’t use buffers. Accepting a friendship or any kind of contact in hopes that someday she’ll be interested in you is a waste of time. If she gives you a clear no, then you bid her farewell and move on to the next girl. Furthermore, you completely screwed yourself by failing what could have been a shit test. If she… | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 09:28 PM |
| 6 | Why do girl lose interest (apparently) after being super interested in the beginningYou are not letting her appreciate your attention. My guess is that you’re reciprocating her texts a lot and giving her a lot of attention. The fact is, if you are continually giving back attention, she will not be able to appreciate as much due to the oversupply. The way you act. Considering you kept her for 2/3 of a year, this may not be a problem, but some guys have really good starting game, but lose form later in the relationship. Just something you have to learn. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 05:56 PM |
| 5 | I would take a bullet for my girlfriendGood work, king | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Just a random question, If I get rejected 3 straight times in a club, should I continue approaching girls? I dont feel unconfident but I feel like girls will reject me because others are rejectjng me tootime and history bum rushes you That’s because you ignored the red flags. There’s no excuse for ending up in a bad relationship. | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Just a random question, If I get rejected 3 straight times in a club, should I continue approaching girls? I dont feel unconfident but I feel like girls will reject me because others are rejectjng me tooOnly if you let it happen. That assumes you’d even bother sticking around for a toxic woman. | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Just a random question, If I get rejected 3 straight times in a club, should I continue approaching girls? I dont feel unconfident but I feel like girls will reject me because others are rejectjng me tooNah. The man defines and keeps the frame of the relationship (lest it decay), so his character is the most important. | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Just a random question, If I get rejected 3 straight times in a club, should I continue approaching girls? I dont feel unconfident but I feel like girls will reject me because others are rejectjng me tooNah. The man defines and keeps the frame of the relationship (lest it decay), so his character is the most important. | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Just a random question, If I get rejected 3 straight times in a club, should I continue approaching girls? I dont feel unconfident but I feel like girls will reject me because others are rejectjng me tooThe means of attraction are different for women than men, the whole “being yourself” idea works a lot better for women than men. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Just a random question, If I get rejected 3 straight times in a club, should I continue approaching girls? I dont feel unconfident but I feel like girls will reject me because others are rejectjng me tooAre you new to approach? You ought to keep on with it and reflect on each scenario and change your method/try different things. Don’t give up, even the pros still get rejected sometimes. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 06:45 PM |
| 1 | The power of neg.Not quite. Negging works because it makes you look high value and less needy. It is actual game independent of looks (that said, game elements all work together to create the scene, nonetheless) | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 02:16 PM |
| 50 | Impressing womenNo matter if you’re a 3/10 or an 8/10, always conduct yourself like a 10/10. | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 11:15 PM |
| 2 | The power of neg.False, and the post was boring and shallow | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 08:17 PM |
| 2 | The power of neg.Boring and shallow. Why does negging even work? | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Think about thatI’m not sure how that contradicts anything I said. In fact, I completely agree. | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Think about thatYou missed the point. That was an example. | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Think about thatYou like to get told what to do by women I guess? | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Think about thatI agree it’s overloaded, but that’s far off from what an alpha actually is. An alpha is just someone who doesn’t care about consequences, and that can be harnessed in various positive ways. On a side note, “toxic masculinity” is the most emasculated type of “masculinity” out there anyway. | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Think about thatDefine alpha as you’re using it | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Think about thatThat is the cost of promiscuity | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Think about thatYes, but often alphas hold those traits. Also, I think attraction is a little more complex than that. | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 03:00 AM |
| -6 | Think about thatIndeed. Being alpha does not even mean being a leader or being good, what being alpha is is not caring about past, present, or future. That can be harnessed to some extent and be attractive. | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 02:59 AM |
| 5 | Think about thatYou have a point. That makes perfect sense considering how men determine a woman’s value... looks, speaking evolutionarily. | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 11:27 PM |
| 4 | Think about thatHello Mr. Dunning-Krueger. Good genes =/= good provider today. Back in hunter gatherer societies and for some time after that, having good genes meant you were a good provider (more muscle mass = more prey killed, etc). Unfortunately genes haven’t really caught up to post industrial society. | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 11:19 PM |
| 8 | Think about that“Cause they want to” Is not a reason worthy of actual respect or analysis. It’s shallow and doesn’t explain anything. Why do they want to? That is the real question. | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 08:53 PM |
| 18 | Think about thatNot to their own detriment. It’s a sexual screening process meant to increase the chances they breed with a male with good genes. | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 08:50 PM |
| 36 | Think about thatEmotionally needy, doesn’t hold frame, etc... | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 08:35 PM |
| 70 | Think about thatSomething I’ve noticed is that barring women who are really desperate, they don’t consider beta men as men at all, really. It’s the guy’s job to portray himself as a sexual option. | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Wrote a girl a note at my college, she texted back. Let's hope I get a date!Could have looked like a make up for bad game/insecurity If you held yourself confidently while doing it, then she’ll probably find it unique and cute. If you didn’t, she’ll think you’re a creep. It’s not what you say, it’s what you do. | /r/seduction | 19/02/20 11:53 PM |
| 7 | I fear social rejection. This Morning I woke up with a Poem in my Head.Pre-approach heart palpitations gang | /r/seduction | 19/02/20 06:30 PM |
| -5 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingIt’s generally easier to do IRL approach | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 06:43 PM |
| -12 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingOnline dating is a waste of time | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 06:42 PM |
| 6 | Making casual sex workNo matter what you want, make your intentions clear. The kind of idiots who hint at a relationship they don’t want to get the girl to fuck them are the very people critics of Game are looking at. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Everything I’ve read on seduction and PU focuses on hookup #1 or date #1. What about keeping women and encouraging them to pursue exclusive relationships?No, a woman’s value that is required for an LTR must be non-sexual. Your dinner example is a good one. You should never go into an LTR because she sucks well. | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Everything I’ve read on seduction and PU focuses on hookup #1 or date #1. What about keeping women and encouraging them to pursue exclusive relationships?You should never go into an LTR right away. Allow her to move up the ranks of your favor by demonstrating non-sexual value. Make sure you keep your frame and that your life is in order before you go after this. | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 12:54 PM |
| 1 | This is why you're freezing up when you see your dream girl:I have and still do struggle with this very thing. Believe me, it’s not as bad as it seems. Start by catching women in a low time situation like the hallway going to class or whatever, and just go up to them and say, “hey, I think you’re cute, we should go get coffee sometime” (obviously with some variation and response in between), then once you are over that confidence barrier work on talking to people in high time environments. Gentlemen’s Game (the YT channel) has a video on the SATIC princi… | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 12:51 PM |
| 1 | I need help with the focusing on one person mindsetDon’t be in a one person mindset. You are trying to filter for quality, but you can’t really tell a woman’s quality until you know her personally and she shows off that quality with action. I suggest you follow plate theory and be non-exclusive with women for a time before deciding on one to go into an exclusive dating relationship with. It’s just levels of vetting and there’s nothing wrong with it. Online dating is not the move for any guy, and my guess is especially not someone of your age. Wo… | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 12:48 PM |
| 4 | Asked out a girl in my class on TuesdayWomen’s words rarely reflect what they actually feel. Even if they were to tell you, you probably wouldn’t learn anything actually useful from it. I used to have the same mindset but I realized that the “advice” they were giving me when I got it was bad. If anything, post stuff in a space where more experienced guys will see it and can critique it. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 08:35 PM |
| 8 | Asked out a girl in my class on TuesdayWomen tend to try to be “nice” so they’ll ghost instead of giving a direct no. As if that’s any better. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 08:30 PM |
| 20 | Why do girls text with you, but when the time of the date is near, they suddenly cannot?If this is online dating, then that’s your mistake right off the bat. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 07:46 PM |
| 1 | No such thing as living amorallynot rationalize shit about them Well, maybe besides the part where you compare us to white supremacists and somehow can’t figure out there’s a difference between superiority/inferiority and differences. I do not intervene because one does not reason with the unreasonable And that’s why I’m not going to continue replying to this stupid thread. Shouldn’t have even bothered posting on this cringe subreddit in the first place, I have better things to do with my life. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/20 09:35 PM |
| 1 | When did you start to bloom?I finally dropped my oneitis 4 months ago, and I’ve been blooming ever since. | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 08:15 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Long time lurker, first time doer. 29M F-Close first date 25F.Not sure it’s a good way to establish a baseline. Women pretty much subconsciously assume that the fact that you’re online dating means you can’t get girls IRL (you need to hide behind a screen) In any case, good luck. | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 10:13 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Long time lurker, first time doer. 29M F-Close first date 25F.Just a tip for the long term, Tinder dating is a waste of time compared to where you could be getting approaching IRL. At most, wait for people to text you on there instead of the other way around. | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 02:18 PM |
| 1 | No such thing as living amorallyThere is a difference between normative and positive statements | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/20 08:52 PM |
| 1 | No such thing as living amorallyI totally agree. And thus not a system or proof of ethics. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/20 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Trying to improve, but trp/black pill view is impossible to shake offDude, red and black pill are not even the same thing. None of the theory you believe is TRP, it’s all black pill. The only remotely TRP thing you mentioned was lifting. The black pill phase (not even a real ideology, just a phase) is a dog shit place to be in, so if you conflate it with TRP, then of course you’re gonna be on this subreddit. Go actually read the subreddit sidebar, ask some questions, then once all your doubts are confirmed or dissipated, make your decision about TRP. Right now, y… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/20 11:31 PM |
| 1 | No such thing as living amorallyTRP is NOT an ethical system. Believe it or not, some concepts can exist and be discussed separately from ethics. Each person is free to take at their discretion what morality they want to apply to TRP. For example, there is Christianized Red Pill, which applies Christian (traditionalist) morality to TRP ideas. I'm not going to tell you you're a TradCon, Bluepilled, or anything, but I will say that you're being illogical. Do we apply ethics to math? No, of course not. At least I hope nobody is c… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Watch as these feminists tear a caring loving wife.Even speaking evolutionarily, this doesn’t make any sense. If women deterred men in general, there would be no reproduction. Take some responsibility for making your woman who you want her to be. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/20 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Watch as these feminists tear a caring loving wife.Is it just me that was thrown off by the cleavage in her profile picture? Looks more hypergamous to me at first glance than like a trad wife. Maybe I’m literally from the 1950s, who knows. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Watch as these feminists tear a caring loving wife.That was truly the most amazing part of the entire video | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/20 09:12 PM |
| 1 | I’m legally blind how do I sell myself to a woman knowing that I have a visual disadvantage and women may think I can’t take care of them or I can’t amount because I can’t drive or something and how do I handle not being able to say visual cues like a winkStop thinking about the long term right now. If you are having anxiety about this, you obviously haven’t focused on the getting dates part and are putting the cart before the horse focusing on money and long term provision. That’s beta. The best dates (occasions) are getting coffee (cheap) and the best dates (women) are ones who aren’t looking to gold dig you. | /r/seduction | 03/02/20 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Qualify Your DateGood thing I browse MRP occasionally anyway | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/20 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Is there a better feeling than women making the first move?Nobody said otherwise | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 12:10 PM |
| 0 | Is there a better feeling than women making the first move?Women are mostly all the same. Don’t expect large categorical exceptions in their behaviors and sexual strategies. | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Model who accused Real Madrid Player Theo Hernandez of raping her has been arrested for making it up. [Spanish]Huh. Not where I expected to put my high school Spanish to work. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/20 10:17 PM |
| 3 | I’ve 95% of the people I’ve slept with I wasn’t attracted to.Preferences are subjective. And in any case, don’t worry about what women think. That will dampen your confidence, a lot. Get ripped. Improve your game. Guys have a lot more flexibility with their looks than women do, so take that power in stride. Don’t mope on reddit, and don’t go for women you’re not attracted to. The fact that you’re selling yourself out like that makes you so much less attractive. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 08:30 PM |
| 1 | We all know girls are attracted to guys who don’t give a fuckDon't display indifference, BE indifferent | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Co-Parenting Sites Skip Love and Marriage, Go Right to the Baby CarriageMy thought was that it would amplify it, but that is true | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/20 01:06 PM |
| 7 | Co-Parenting Sites Skip Love and Marriage, Go Right to the Baby CarriageThis is a recipe for disaster. Kids learn how to love by watching their parents. These kids will never learn how to love, and turn into betas that might get lucky and swallow the redpill down the line, or get fucked like the majority of them do. Indeed, another failure of modern society. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/20 09:23 PM |
| 3 | The Paralysis of Analysis and the Fear of Rejection- Why You Are Lonely and Jacking OffI agree with most of this post, except the idea that your porn or drug consumption doesn’t matter. I think the loads and loads of anecdotal evidence I’ve seen indicates that quitting porn and addictions do a lot in terms of your own self improvement, and women like determined, goal-oriented men. | /r/seduction | 19/12/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Pussy Won’t Make you Alphago be a male stripper . people living useless hedonistic lifestyles Regardless of the mindset, isn’t being a male stripper still a useless hedonistic lifestyle? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/19 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Obama Says Women Are "Indisputably Better" Than Men, And Should Lead Every CountryWho’s cock is he sucking? He’s not even president anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/19 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Is it a good or bad thing that my women friends ask me about my dating life?It depends on how you act around them. Maybe they’re asking because they’re your mommy, or maybe because they’re trying to scope out your value. There’s a pretty clean and noticeable divide imo. | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Women are attracted to.....I don’t disagree, but the way you phrase that seems to say that guys shouldn’t put effort into getting women... not the case. You do need to be persistent to get what you want. | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else had their heart ripped out of their chest?Remember friend... moving on is not a thought, it’s an action. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 05:54 PM |
| 2 | When I realized the last year of my life has been a lieRead the sidebar if you haven’t... Rollo’s Rational Male too. I understand where you’re coming from, it’s hard growing up in a gynocentric polity. In any case, you’re in luck finding TRP. First mistake you listed is trying to please her by giving her attention. You don’t always want to “please” a woman, pull back, give her space, and make her chase you if she wants you. If you dump attention on her all the time and all at once, you will lose her attraction, and she will start seeing you as an em… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 08:37 PM |
| 2 | If one girl isnt working out, just move on to the next girl.At the same time, attraction is not completely looks. It’s attitude as well. | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 08:26 PM |
| 3 | If one girl isnt working out, just move on to the next girl.Don’t waste time on girls that aren’t receptive even if you’re looking for commitment. You play the game the same in the beginning. | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 08:25 PM |
| 1 | I have a date tonight with a higher SMV girl than I’m used to. More than likely will fail, so what are some “exercises” I can apply to this date so that I can develop a stronger frame in future dates?Relax Relax Relax Relax... it’s easier to be creative that way. Lift and get your shit together Finally... RELAX! You’ve got this. If you screw up on one date, it’s alright. Not the end of the world. There are thousands of women you will come in contact with, and by the fact that you have had enough dates to establish a pattern, I know you’re doing something right. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 04:04 AM |
| 1 | The Politics of the Manosphere, Part 1. Yes, The Red Pill is PoliticalIt seems to me that the 80% of males that are betas could become more alpha-like if TRP knowledge was directed to all of them. That’s probably optimistic, though. Women would have way less incentive to try to acquire a gynocracy if men would just dominate and lead them. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/19 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Have some self respect as menMeh. Being a female’s bitch is the pathetic thing. I’m on the edge about it, but I think you can be friends with a girl as long as you’re friend zoning her/she respects you, not the other way around. | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Have some self respect as menKeep in mind that getting friend zoned is a sign of your own shortcomings. I used to get friend zoned by everyone, because I was a beta. Only now am I starting to earn women’s respect. | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Sliding into dms just doesnt work guys. Quit it. Stop making it your main way of meeting girls.Lots and lots of internet resources that could explain it better than I. What I can say is that women are looking at your looks and bio besides your words. Get good at text game especially, this will help, even if you’re not looking to get sexual. | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 10:50 PM |
| -1 | Newbie shit testDepends | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Sliding into dms just doesnt work guys. Quit it. Stop making it your main way of meeting girls.Key mistake is that convincing girls of your value makes you look low value. Demonstrate value instead. | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 09:33 PM |
| 22 | Reminder: Reddit is not RealityIf you’re not willing to make moves and you’re caught up in the anxiety of what other people will think, you will get nowhere. Some people are so poorly socialized they will have to creep out some people before they figure out what they are doing. | /r/seduction | 16/11/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: Reddit is not RealityGamers rise up | /r/seduction | 16/11/19 11:13 PM |
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