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This. Youll actually discover it by just ​trying different communication methods. Some gfs I found loved video chats, others liked receiving and sending video messages, and some voice texts over texting, ​​others liked to talk entirely by meme, but they usually preffered one and not the others. I went all else fails you know there's always actually just calling somebody
/r/seduction17/07/26 04:04 AM
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31 to 35 was epic.
/r/seduction12/07/26 11:15 PM
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It's not hard if you know what you're doing. Number 1 is being able to make her cum, then again, and again, and again. Also should be showing her once she's attracted that you're either interested in moving forward towards something concrete... Always be closing, providing some kind of higher value, or giving her an emotional Rollercoaster of a life time.
/r/seduction12/07/26 09:50 PM
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You're also in an age range thst is the peak sweet spot. 20 yr olds are attracted to you becusde you're more mature and financial stable than their age counter parts, but still young and fit enough to dste. Mid thirties are looking to settle down. Late 30s and early 40s re out of a divorce or single mom's and you're the new young hotness. 35 was my peak and prime. It's gone a bit downhill now thst I'm nearing 40. While this guy hits it on the head with things you should be doing, people are noto…
/r/seduction12/07/26 09:30 PM
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Same thing here. Imposter syndrome maybe? Easy to becoke jaded
/r/seduction01/07/26 04:25 AM
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Yes. One of 277 and a half. The half is for the midget.
/r/seduction17/06/26 05:16 AM
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It takes practice. The main thiigthat helped is to avoid OVERstimulaiton at all costs. OVERsimulaiton, ie any stimulation, immediately after ehaculating prolonges refractory period. Give it a rest and remove all input. Take that e time to focus on her, down on her, or manually stimulate her, make out,or whatever, sex doesn't have to end the moment you nut. Focus on making her come. For me drinking a full glass a water helps reset. Do things to her that turn you on. After about 5 minutes of no co…
/r/seduction16/06/26 02:51 AM
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Could be a million things. I have turned around successfully many cold ioi before. The seduction motto is "change her mood, not her mind" ​ If I sense she's walled off, I'll just go all gas not brakes like rsd recommends and literally just start cycling different types of emotional spikes. Humor, dhv, neg, freeze out, push pull, kino, questions, role playing, bullshiting, kino games, people watching, mental games,teasing, magic, engaging other people or women in front of her. Eventually one of t…
/r/seduction27/03/26 05:23 AM
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You sure about the one or two women? They say don't post pictures of yourself with other women.
/r/seduction06/03/26 03:53 AM
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Was this written by a high schooler? I'm not tryna ask you. My car been acting up? You've got good pointers but lose a lot of credibility (cred) when you don't prioritize basic grammar.
/r/seduction16/02/26 04:35 PM
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Yes but the flu in this instance is being attached to the outcome. The anxiety is from fear of loss for something that you don't even have. How can you lose something you never possessed and convince yourself to not to try posses it because of the possibility of not possessing it. It's Crazy. The mind is its own shroedingers cat.
/r/seduction09/02/26 05:31 AM
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Not necessarily to turn her on, but if she's freezing out, being icey, I'll wait till she qualifies something about herself that's not serious, it can be anything, like I was a cheerleader. And I'll get up and be like ooo, yyyea, cheerleader? I uh... I gotta go.. And fake get up to leave, like her being a cheerleader is a red flag, which obviously it's not, but it's just fun and instantly gets her to either qualify or realize it's a joke and laugh, smile, and be open to flirting and kino.
/r/seduction07/02/26 12:45 AM
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3 animals?
/r/seduction07/02/26 12:40 AM
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A good rule is she cums first, you cum second, she cums third. Most girls you continually give to after you're done come back. After csre is great. Good oral and finger game helps. Also having a niche, for me It WAS light to medium bDSM. Also 97% success rate and making a girl squirt. I actually had in my profile "can make you squirt if the connection is right." and got and least 6 lays just from the interest in that sentence. I feel a lot of what you said above. 31-37 basically the same experie…
/r/seduction06/02/26 04:52 PM
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Any girl that's done that smile turned out to be mentally unstable, a liar, or the kind of person thst would do some scary shit to keep you. Sorry, but if I see these eyes, I fucking run.
/r/seduction03/02/26 02:37 AM
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Sounds like a frame control issue. You should watch some rsd Julien videos, he's king at this. There were sets where the girl would roll her eyes, look away, not say anything and he would just keep talking, unphased. Hed try asking questions, if she rebuffed, he'd try different things. You'll see him getting stonewalled for a minute straight and then hill find a button "just be normal, like a girl on Xmas morning" and in an instant she went from cold hard bitch to "omg love that." Try different …
/r/seduction01/02/26 08:19 PM
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Well since you want to open with a disagreement, I'll disagree with you off the bat because I'm living proof of what you just said is both wrong and naive. 👎​
/r/seduction27/01/26 03:58 PM
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I agree this works but at its core it just is generalized detachment utilizing other women as a safety net. If you remove the other women, this comes flooding back. For instance how do you manage this once it starts going into a monogamous relationship? I think the solution has been presented many times before. That this feeling is a hole that's trying to be filled, and something in your life is missing and the woman becomes the focus of that. Whether it be family, friends, or healing a trauma e…
/r/seduction27/01/26 03:15 PM
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Realizing that you can experience the same wonderment at everything new you discovered as a child as you are now as an adult.
/r/seduction26/01/26 01:03 AM
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This needs to be higher. She was attracted because he set boundaries which is a high status move because at its core, it's frame control but then revealed his hand when he started making it a logical conclusion that her frame being different was an end to their relationship. The moment you get mad at girl for her frame, rather than standing by yours, overcoming hers, and bringing her in, you've actually lost frame.
/r/seduction24/01/26 10:18 PM
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And why would she?This dude would have come on here and called her a slut. You know it, she knows it. This dude is as overt in his dating as he is on here. Shes playing chess and dude above is playing checkers thinking he won by playing a few moves, hopping a couple pieces and saying draw.
/r/seduction24/01/26 10:02 PM
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Sounds like projection 😂. So tell me, do all the women that leonardo dicrapio dates have mental health issues? Theres 30+ well adjusted professional dimes there that will break your fragile little perception. Enjoy your bubble world so you can feel safe, brah. Just don't go on the internet and tell people what lane they gotta be in for you to feel secure about yourself.
/r/seduction19/01/26 09:58 PM
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Hard bet you got rejected by one of your crushes to an older dude. You got a real weird massive chip on your shoulder to older guys. Bet a girl you liked said she preferred mature men and rejected you. That's the only reason you'd be here so bent over it.
/r/seduction19/01/26 09:36 PM
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Weirdo coming from the kid white knighting in a seduction thread.
/r/seduction19/01/26 09:33 PM
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Enjoy your self consolation prize.
/r/seduction19/01/26 09:27 PM
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What are you, some kinda white knight. You're in the wrong sub my guy..
/r/seduction19/01/26 06:49 PM
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That's what you worry about? When a 20 yr old makes fun of you? If you can't get past that, then yes, YOU, specifically shouldn't approach them. You do realize that they do that to screen your type out specifically... For immature men who don't have the emotional capacity to overcome your, let alone their insecurity around age. If it's not a problem for you, they will follow your lead, which for you it clearly is. Don't bring your low vibration to others.
/r/seduction19/01/26 06:48 PM
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Lol gtfo with the shit attitude.
/r/seduction19/01/26 06:29 PM
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Then that's poor logistics on your part. Going out? Opt for the bar where you're adjacent rather than across a table. ​Choose a lounge with couches. An activity that puts you together physically like stretching or dancing rather than tennis.
/r/seduction06/01/26 05:00 PM
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Wrong, but just not from the right perspective. Get the girl comfortable my telling her to kino you first. Honestly even a simple "hey I curled 35s lbs today, feel my biceps" works. Egg her on to. Once she's touched you, women are genuinely more open to you touching her.
/r/seduction06/01/26 04:57 PM
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Calibrate calibrate calibrate. You're right. But above is also right because this guy sounds like he's socializing off the rip and they are saying it pretty near their first meeting. It's an exaggeration and a shit test. It's the same if you go up to a girl and go "omg you could be my wife." and she blinks twice and goes. "OK where's the nearest church?"... You'd smack your forehead. You wanted banter, and play and got eager puppy. Oof. You'd run too. If you've bantered or flirted for a while, y…
/r/seduction06/01/26 12:57 AM
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The I forgive you, and playful nepo teases are gold. Status, value, fun, polarizing. You probably could have escalated.
/r/seduction06/01/26 12:47 AM
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If they say sex and you start wagging your tail, you've lost. It's her frame and you followed. it's actually a shit test. Hoop theory: she held up a sexual hoop and you jumped through it. The secret to hoop theory is you grab the hoop out of her hand and make her jump through it. How? If she immediately sexually over invests, You immediately qualify. Then deem her worthy or not of sex if she passes your qualification. Continue kino escalation at your pace, push pull. When she invests so insanely…
/r/seduction05/01/26 10:32 PM
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Dude this is sales 101. What you're doing is going, I won't sell this product I designed because I'm scared people won't like it. That's the death k for any producr. Facebook started by people handing out cds to as many people as possible to on college campuses from day 1. Think of rejection not as rejection but as a not right now mentality. She's lucky to meet you. And you will find many times, women who you thought rejected you will come back around when they see you have value. Think of it li…
/r/seduction17/12/25 06:16 PM
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Honestly experiencing the same thing. Diminishing returns. Not getting the same high, motivation, excitement, or drive to improve from it. I see it as two things. One, it's addiction that you've exhausted and now you are just running the addiction on fumes. Time to see it for what it is and let your body reset. You need moderation and maintenance. It's not necessarily a bad thing. Youe're leveling up. You realize the juice isn't worth the squeeze, you've accomplished a lot of the sexual experien…
/r/seduction12/12/25 12:05 AM
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That's a very deep study. Rsd Tyler said it more susinctly. Men complaining about women being manipulative sluts is the conssellation prize for having no game.
/r/seduction10/12/25 09:36 PM
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Good. I'll take the ones you pass up. Even soft nos can be a yes. Can't tell you how many times I converted a lukewarm to a yes with patience, nderstanding, and mild persistence, and they ended up being a returning longtime fb, and some of the best experiences I've ever had and likely thanks to guys like you with a shrug mentality.
/r/seduction09/12/25 05:18 PM
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This. Throw in a second try. Say something like "I'm not trying to sell you something, you seemed cool and I wanted to meet YOU. I actually have to go in a second." it gives them a space to enter.
/r/seduction06/12/25 09:27 PM
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If you want to pick up women, you need game. If you want a relationship, you still need to be able to attract them with game, and then transition to boundaries, consistency, communication, respect, leadership, shared goals, all of which can start with game.
/r/seduction30/11/25 07:51 PM
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When women shame their slutty friend because part of their insecurity is they think she will steal their man. Different gender same vibe. If you're rich you don't flaunt your money in front of your poor friends. Its just bad taste. You might help them with self improvement in dating ​​cause that's giving, but to go yea I fucked 50 hlgirls last year is just taking validation. Better yet, whoo cares? Why do you need to tell them so bad? They should see the attractive girls you date and if they ASK…
/r/seduction19/11/25 05:33 PM
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You could play the strong silent type. You've got hard armor, and seething power, but have a lot of depth once they earn entry. Or you could play the observer. You notice things about people and things about her that she doesn't reveal or even know about herself and you can cold read her. You become her mirror for things about herself she doesn't realize or hasn't come out of her shell for yet. Both of those you can play into sexual scenes and frames.
/r/seduction19/11/25 01:01 AM
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Sounds like you need to update your profile. My profile had strong dominant frames and sexual overtones with thirst traps for photos​. At one point i experimented with my profile with things like can make you squirt if the connections right. And while that screened out a lot more women it got a couple of very hot hits. ​​ the dominant frame might be played out cuz there's a lot of women reporting fake Doms and so i don't play it up as much anymore.. I would swipe on every card and then filter af…
/r/seduction18/11/25 10:07 PM
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Find a social hobby. You should have a hobby for every facet of life. A Hobby for growing your mind, financials, body, social circle, dating circle, fun, career. Eg. Meditating, stocks/side hustle, skiing, dance class, night game, chess, professional development group. Bonus points if it hits on multiple categories. Like dance class is fun, social, dating, and body all in one. An entrepreneurship group is financial, career, social, and dating.
/r/seduction18/11/25 03:29 PM
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Just got out of a ltr. We were open and she loved women so lots of new dates during and previous gfs coming and going, a handful of 3 somes, and she had her own gfs. But she was also not settling down potential, and I am getting towards thst age. We split but she's still orbiting. You've got a huge leg up with your height. But it will only get you in the door. Keep working on your life, fake it til you make it, work out, grow your Financials, and keep your social circle lively, do things you lov…
/r/seduction18/11/25 03:19 PM
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Appreciate it bud. I get that a lot. Maybe in another life. Ha. Pua is a bunch of semi austistic people creating labeling acronyms and frameworks for amorphous dating dynamics, but alas ASD IS Anti Slut Defense. When escalating towards sex, women will suddenly break rapport, saying things like "I'm not going to sleep with you tonight," "I'm not that kinda girl," or "maybe on like date 7 if you play your cars right" counterintuivitely, this happens to come up more for older women, not younger, be…
/r/seduction18/11/25 08:24 AM
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CT as in Connecticut.
/r/seduction18/11/25 06:53 AM
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Nope. Southern CT
/r/seduction18/11/25 06:09 AM
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The kind that would submit to my dominant playful frame the quickest and that I found attractive. I was looking for women that responded quickly and I struck when the iron was hot. If she responded back quickly I would as well and got banter going, got her number, seeded, and planned a date by that evening or the next day. Any LMR I would connect via vid chats for comfort. I screened hard for women who submitted to my sexual frame and I knew I could sleep with on the first date. I screened hard …
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:08 AM
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Mostly it started on a basic tinder account. Idk if it's still the same though. The algorithm may have changed to be more pay to play...they always eventually do as companys are sold and buyers need profit so idk how it is now. I carved out a niche of being very dominant when 50 shades was the rage. It attracted a lot of freaky women. A fraction was preselection. She'd tell her friends about what I could do, or I'd make a comment about how cute their friend was, and their friends would sleep wit…
/r/seduction18/11/25 01:53 AM
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Dude 30 to 37 was my prime. I went from maybe a dozen lays to 80+ in a few short years. Later the count tapered becauseI had a strong base of women I saw on and off for the next 6 that kept coming back around when they'd get bored of their provider bf. Earlt thirties is where young 20s find you mature and know you have stuff guys their age are too broke to, women in their late twenties to early thirties are trying out freaky things and want to want try with you or they are ready to get married a…
/r/seduction18/11/25 01:28 AM
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Um self defeating/consllation prize talk. I'm 5'5" and had great success. Yes you have to be sharp and make up for it in personality. But it's not impossible. When I meet a girl and she mentions my height, especially if she's taller I reflect it back on her with "aww are you insecure about your height? Don't be." or "yes handsome, short, funny, sexy. What else do you like about me?"
/r/seduction30/10/25 06:42 PM
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Bro you could've saved everyone the trouble of just saying... Women will test saying no to sex, out of insecurity. They want to know you are with them for them and not sex. They say no to sex? Kiss them on the forehead. Say okay. Don't baby them. Get up and go do something you're passion about. Hell if you're not committed, hit up a girl that does want to have sex. Guaranteed she will jump your dick hard within the next 24 hours.
/r/seduction03/10/25 07:27 PM
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Combine it with emotional spikes. You tell a joke and you both laugh at the punch line, at that moment while you're laughing and looking into each other's eyes cup her shoulder from the side eye contact. You say something flirty? Lightly squeeze here hand. Do the same for connectkng moments and follow the kino ladder. Look it up. Shoulder,hand, elbow, upper arm, lower thigh, hip,lower back, upper thigh,neck, face, (semi private) lips, (fullprivacy) her breasts & nonobox. Slow down if she shows r…
/r/seduction02/10/25 04:06 PM
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I mean what resource, website, etc did you use to find these groups...
/r/seduction08/09/25 12:57 AM
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Yea finding that Old is giving diminishing returns 38M, compared to it being a gold mine when I was 32-36. What did you use for finding shared interest meet up groups?
/r/seduction07/09/25 11:10 PM
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How is blowing her a kiss NOT validation???
/r/seduction07/09/25 12:29 AM
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My go to is she reveals something inconsequential like she likes knitting. I overreact with a wow knitting, really? Say well it was lovely knowing you, kiss her on the cheek, say somdtng like this isnt just gonna work and something about knitting andget up to leave, to see her reaction. Hopefully she plays along. If not I lean in and tell her to grab my arm and fight for me. It's fun. Works most of the time.
/r/seduction28/08/25 05:40 AM
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I see. There was a miscommunication cuz when you said disqualify hard, I define that as something different. Hard disqualifiers are hard boundaries. "you seem like you thrive on drama. I don't do drama. That's a hard boundary to be with me." I don't break out hard disqualifieres unless we're getting into serious relationship territory. When you say disqualify hard you mean soft disqualifiers and soft qualifyers, in high frequency, I presume.
/r/seduction28/08/25 04:55 AM
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Do you use disqualifiers at all in online dating?
/r/seduction28/08/25 04:01 AM
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Can we talk about disqualify. So maybe it's beczuse it's text game but anytime I disqualify they usually cut out. What are your hard disqualifiers?
/r/seduction28/08/25 12:22 AM
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Lmao. I've had plenty of women say something along these lines and she did want to fuck. Novice is in your name for a reason.
/r/seduction01/05/25 08:26 PM
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No. Not this. Do not do this. If you change your persona to fit her frame, you lose. Any time a girl has said this it's Her insecurity and shit testing you. Hold frame. Be you. Throw it back at her. This is her voicing insecurity and lack of comfort in investing. It's tenseness. Do not suddenly try to be more masculine, you will look try hard. Do not qualify. Agree and exaggerate. Laugh at it. A woman's greatest fear is falling for a guy only to find out he will reject her... For a man. Somethin…
/r/seduction01/05/25 08:23 PM
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Shy is Russia impossible?
/r/seduction16/04/25 12:01 AM
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What's sad is you don't realize your own medicine. You keep trying... But you cant fix him. You probably can't be fixed either 🤣
/r/seduction02/04/25 08:23 PM
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You'd lose your mind over some of the bullshit convoys i've had with women. It doesn't make sense. In fact women don't make sense because emotions are not tied to logical. I've watched rsd videos where Tyler bullshit to her about sausages and pepper and how he lives in his mom's basement. And it works. He even says he did it to prove a point that this shit doesn't make sense and of course talking about sausage and peppers is bad game but it still works because it doesnt have to make sense. What …
/r/seduction12/03/25 04:37 PM
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Bullshitting is a huge one. Seeing how much bs you can say and get away with. It's also a shit test to see if they are perceptive. Chicks love bullshiting."let's sneak into this alleyway behind the bar and have hot sex... Actually we can't cuz if we get caught I'm on probation" *squeeze her ass*(push pull, sexualization, fear excitement) "that's hot. WTF did you do?" "I broke into the zoo and stole two monkeys, and let the rest go free." (humor, bullshit ting) "lmao stfu you're such a liar." "I …
/r/seduction12/03/25 04:22 PM
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Emotional spikes are foundation of all the methods as a lot of the examples above are all emotional spikes. There's far more emotional spikes you can do than what's listed above but those are some of my go tos. When going on dates I weive spikes between the lulls in conversation to give her a Rollercoaster. Things that triggers any form of emotional excitement: humor, awe, fear, lust. Small things even like just ​​strong unwavering piercing eye contact is an emotional spike. Physical contact and…
/r/seduction12/03/25 04:10 PM
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Some key terms are push pull, emotional spikes, false competition, freeze outs(only to be done when she does something you really don't like), role playing emotions(this one is huge because you can have fun fake exaggerated fights and arguments over trivial nothings and it satisfies that itch for her and the go have fun role played makeup sex) , pranks(jump scares, making her the butt of a joke), shit tests, qualifications. The above should all be done because they are enjoyable forms of playing…
/r/seduction12/03/25 03:40 PM
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Lmao. It's never a long shot. I cant tell you how many times a girl has left a date early or given me the cold shoulder, and I played it cool and continued on, like a train on a track, and ended up sleeping with her. If you botched the date it's one thing, if you played your cards right and she's just flakey, it's about creating connection through time and pressure, like water carving through a mountain, and also ​creating comfort. Outcome independence, is the name of the game my friends. If you…
/r/seduction05/03/25 07:40 AM
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Enjoy my dude! 29-35 was golden years for me and is just the age where both young 20s, and up to early 40s are far more attracted to you than their equal cohorts. You're old enough to be more mature, have status, game, and experience, and young enough to look good and be viable for mating in a biological sense. Past like 37, things will start to slow down.
/r/seduction20/01/25 03:08 PM
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Curious. What is your age and target age range? There is an age wall so to speak that as you gento your late thirties, women start to look for less hookups as they realize looks aren't forever.
/r/seduction20/01/25 03:00 PM
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You must seduce a lot of women.
/r/seduction10/11/24 02:19 PM
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What you're talking about is balance. Fulfillment comes in fulfilling all your needs, the 6 fs. Physical(health), financial, family, friends, females, fun. If you're focused on females and the others are lacking, you will get jaded very quickly. Your subconscious knows when you're depressed in other areas and that will translate to how you feel about the area you are too focused on.
/r/seduction22/10/24 02:03 PM
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Then how is she gonna know youre capable if she's not allowed to test you? It's like you're saying hey everybody come buy this car I'm selling. Then they're like I wanna take it for a test drive and look under the hood, and you're like piss off. Good luck selling your car there bud. The only people who are gonna buy your car and not look under the hood are people who have issues getting a car normally themselves cuz they have issues.
/r/seduction14/10/24 05:58 PM
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Have you heard of the billionaire and broke people club analogy? You're in a club and you're a billionaire and everyone else is broke. Every person knows you're a billionaire. Every person comes up to you, not to treat you like a person but to try to be your friend to ge at your money, conning you by being overly friendly, manipulative, berating or insulting you being even mean or pushy to give them some of your money. When you tell them no they call you a POS. So much so that every person comes…
/r/seduction03/10/24 12:04 AM
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As hold out your handnd take her by the hand where you are going, but don't hold onto it if she yanks it away.
/r/seduction20/05/24 09:21 AM
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It's a rule of attraction: assuming familiarity. Role playing you're already in a relationship cements in her mind the possibility of you two being together. You're no longer trying to climb a wall in, you're behind the wall already. If a girl is flaking on responding I'll say something like "babe the kids missed practice, the dog got the neighbors dog pregnant, ive been cooking dinner because frankly your casseroles sucked, when are you coming home?" Shes not stupid. She gets it's a role play. …
/r/seduction03/05/24 05:15 AM
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They are testing you because THEY are the ones insecure about your age, the age difference, and the social implication that someone else might judge them. So they project the insecurity at you. If you crumble, how on earth can they stay strong, when their supposed man can't stand in the face of someone busting theirs? Bust their chops. Laugh it off. Be carefree about it so they can too.
/r/seduction02/05/24 02:03 AM
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Your opinion is that way because you're a man and think through life logically. Women FEEL through life emotionally. Men are logically sensitive. Women are emotionally sensitive. Through millions of years evolution has allowed women to survive and thrive through heightened feeling. It's what for a physically weaker of the two genders time naturally selects for. What you think logically is childish, she FEELs is right. A masculine new man is exciting and feels alive. A routine relationship feels …
/r/seduction25/04/24 09:24 PM
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Love bomb her? Lmao Bro this whole comment is a prank.
/r/seduction01/04/24 07:58 PM
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Always take women as a microcosm for life. Henry Ford said if he had asked the average person what they want out of transportation, they would have said a faster horse. Don't ever listen to what people say they want, see how they react to what you generate. Rarely listen to what people say but see what their actions and also what their underlying intention is from what they are saying.
/r/seduction20/04/23 02:18 AM
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Deleted your comment because it wasnt useful.
/r/seduction21/10/22 01:34 PM
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It is difficult but enlightenment is never an easy task and yes you're right, some people never lose their dependance on others. We are social yes and that is an inherent need just like food, water, air, shelter, sex, and love. But the issues is when these are coming from places of taking VS giving. Enlightenment comes in replacing the need with giving. You must make connections from a place of giving value. Never taking. When someone says no to your giving, you are not offended and it is okay a…
/r/seduction21/10/22 12:04 PM
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Your use of sarcasm doesn't make your point right. It makes you sound pompous and masterbatory to your own point, whether externally it's right or not. Having friends and family in your life to build together is not the same as using people to provide "feel good chemicals." dont get the two conflated.
/r/seduction21/10/22 09:06 AM
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He is right but also wrong. While he is telling you the part of the wheel is broken, and while family friends may mend that part of the wheel, the only real solution is to break the wheel. Stop looking for feel good chemicals in others as eventually they will let you down, even family and friends. That is life. The only real solution is to meditate on the emotions you get from these people addictions and learn how to give them to yourself. It sounds narcissistic and feels weird, but you need to …
/r/seduction21/10/22 05:20 AM
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You've given her her fill of you, why would she need to see you on a date
/r/seduction25/09/22 09:00 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction22/09/22 04:48 AM
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The fake weakness should never actually be a true weakness. Like when applying for a job interview and they ask what's your greatest weakness, it shouldn't be 'I have a drug problem,' it should be "I am overly organized and it sometimes becomes an obsession to the point I need to become better at time management, which I have done so in creating a priority to do list." as you can see the fake weakness is actually a strength.
/r/seduction21/09/22 10:14 PM
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Showing weakness and being vulnerable are two very different but often confused things in game. Showing vulnerability will either receive a neutral unchanged response or work in your favor, showing weakness will always hurt you is the worst thing you can do.thus being vulnerable is okay. Being vulnerable is showing intent, interest while sticking to hard boundaries meaning ie you're willing to say I like you but will take the hit of losing you and walk away when you break a principle/boundary of…
/r/seduction21/09/22 09:01 PM
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And you can meet her hot friends and make her a wing woman, even better. Although typically it's less the friends and more the women Ive slept with and laid well without any relationship intention that will wing woman the hardest and even bring other friends or women interested in sleeping with you.
/r/seduction19/09/22 07:45 PM
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Lol you watched Mathew Hussey on women not paying for dates.
/r/seduction11/09/22 10:42 PM
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Get bored of having the same boring superficial conversations. Literally. You wanna stop smoking. Get disgusted by it. Like you want to blow your brains out the second you start talking about where you work. You wanna start clowning on girls pranking them, teasing them, and having fun and sex with them? Then get bored of the same old: how are you, what do you do conversation. Try new avenues, dig deep into their past and personality. Role play with them wild and fun scenarios outside of your nor…
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:59 PM
1

Don't get bitter, get better.
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:26 AM
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They communicate with the emotion in that very moment, not reason. She may be adamant about going on a date with you because in that moment she feels great, and later might not feel so great and the question of the date comes up and she applies that emotion to her decision. Men are logical so if we say we're gonna do something, 24 hours later, even if we broke a bone, it's still a commitment to us. understand that. So the question is how do you navigate that? You must create emotional anchors wi…
/r/seduction22/08/22 05:49 PM
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Eh there is a 3rd option. Pressing her and calling her out is not needy if it comes from a non needy place. There's a reason it's called sarging. You can illuminate the behavior as her being weird from a place of higher status trying to fix a poor social behavior and then her having to raise your standards by acting normal and engaging. This is a make or break stance and you have to stick to your guns. 100% of the women will shit test and resist this valuation. Push through. If you break at that…
/r/seduction21/08/22 06:38 PM
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One thing I've noted is that in all the pick up videos where they had success, they created an emotional Rollercoaster or an emotional connection... And they had to spend at least 30 minutes to an hour doing so. They are just faster at you at going through those motions. Gas pedal so to speak and their responses hit the nail on the head every time rather than missed the mark(which is where she Will take additional time to vet you). I've slept with women in the same night and either theyve picked…
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:01 PM
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Can confirm. I am Satan.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:00 PM
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Take your own advice, I don't need it.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:54 PM
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? You said it in this thread. Don't think so highly of yourself.
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:13 PM
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I get now why you're single.
/r/seduction14/08/22 06:41 AM
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Tool you say. Sounds like projection as you took the opportunity to comment on a completely different thread to act like you're an expert on the subject and give an incorrect anatomy lecture. Your ego needs a check.
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:23 AM
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Bro I'm 5'5" and got mad attention in college. Act like it doesn't matter. Eg they say "you're short" retort with a shrug and "yes short, handsome, funny, great in bed. Thanks." If they bring it up again, make it that THEY are the insecure one, call them out on it because it's a fact, and then just say along the lines of you dating women even taller than you who were secure and fine with it. Make it something that shows they are lower status for the insecurity and need to fix to get with you. Th…
/r/seduction14/08/22 01:53 AM
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Also there's your massive problem. Stop buying dinner for sex. That's massively incongruent with FWB and what you're openly communicsting. You're saying one thing and subcommunicating another. You're essentially calling her a whore. She won't trust you and will not stay a FWB for long. Cut that shit out.
/r/seduction13/08/22 02:03 PM
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Why is your social circle depleting while in an ltr. Relationships are a solid base to expand from not contract.
/r/seduction13/08/22 02:01 PM
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I have a ltr live in gf, and on average 2-3 fuck buddies that are essentially good friends. All are aware and cool with each other.
/r/seduction13/08/22 01:56 PM
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Of course you're right Mr online arm chair doctor!! Clearly you're an expert in anatomy as the only thing connected to it is a bladder and a 'piss hole.' damn. Look up skenes gland, hot shot. Also give a girl azo. It makes her urine bright orange. Then make her squirt and tell me if it's bright orange and you'll get your answer. Online doctor herp derp derp derp. Where you're confused is that their ARE women who are incontinent and will confuse peeing with squirting. I've been with both types of…
/r/seduction13/08/22 01:46 PM
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FWB really only works when yours sex game is 1000%. Always make her cum multiple times, and she'll gladly call you up: granted it will need to be on her time. Do not see her more than 2 times a week. Do not sleep over. Be fun, cool, aloof only. Connect only on a sexual level only. Tease like you're in a relationship only in a Playful way to satisfy that hole she will always have "I'm gonna marry you, have 7 kids, divorce you and marry a stripper in Vegas, and we'll both grow old and miserable" H…
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:36 PM
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Keep it normal and fun like you do with everything else. Essentially act like nothing happened and so will she. If you make a big deal out of it so will she. She's a woman. Who is following whose lead here? The door may reopen when she sees you're cool and don't let rejection get to you. If she digs on you for it make fun of her for being weird about it and move on. The social version of a shrug. If you treat her rejection like it means the world to you, she will treat you like a fan of a celebr…
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:48 PM
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Act like she a celebrity and she will treat you like a fan. You sound to have fetishized women having rule over your emotions and desire. Maybe you need a Domme... A woman to rule your emotions and body. They are rare but do exist although it may come at monetary cost. Something to explore.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:45 AM
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A break through for me was allowing myself to be tired to the point of being insanely bored of staple polite conversations and wanting to get to know people at their core and share in deep commonalities, making them light and fun, and fun unique experiences. What excites you and what excites you about other people? For me? Things that make me emotional(love, hate, annoy, passionate about)(for instance I'll ask "tell me what you love about your job without telling me what you do", ironies or weir…
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:05 AM
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Yes. Thats just asking for a fight. And you better be ready to weather the verbal assault coming your way. The takeaway from above is actually to get them reacting or qualifying to you, and then immediately re engage the girl and block the guy.
/r/seduction28/07/22 03:28 PM
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Right cuz I'm just some neckbeard redditor who doesn't have girlfriends and am a total virgin! And you're in no way projecting!
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:07 AM
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Then you played the game wrong. You somehow indicated he was higher status and you were just a mid status orbiter. A catfish. If you were Brad Pitt, different story.
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:03 AM
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You speak from experience I'm sure. Ask me of the last 4 women Ive slept with how many were married or 'had a boyfriend'... You know so much of this world my dude. Ah nm. You're a woman.
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:00 AM
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Yup and even then op would probably be like you have a bf! Wtf! Without realizing it's part of the game. She is saying this after hooking up to demonstrate competition/her higher value and seeing if you will bid up
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:55 PM
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This. Asking if she has a boyfriend indicates low status and that you are worried about barriers to entry of which you are telling her its the one you should worry about least and that's competition/OTHER men. That's the biggest turn off for a women, knowing that you will cow tow to another man and step aside for him. You're essentially a cuck in her eyes. If there is true attraction, a high value man doesn't give a fuck about chump Chester she's been dating for the last 2 months. There's a reas…
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:53 PM
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Just prob. A simple are you into women? Or do you like or brunettes?
/r/seduction18/07/22 09:57 PM
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Literally going through this rn and slowly coming back.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:18 AM
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Oh right, pardon me your highness. I'm but an innocent virgin peasant. Please allow me to deign for you and learn your magnificent ways. I'll try to not let you corrupt me. 😂😂
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:33 PM
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Whoa there Sparky, reading through my history. You're in a seduction reddit, did you forget you're supposed to buy me a drink or take me out to dinner first to find out more about me? You're rusty in an endearing kinda way.
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:18 PM
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He is right and he is helping other guys with correct blanket statements. How many women have you dated labyrinth? Never listen a woman for dating advise. She will tell you how to be a minivan for her. "omg I had no idea the minivan had automatic doors, that's so cool! You should be a minivan!" But she wants a ride in the Porsche although frankly has no clue how it works. She just thinks it's fun and exciting. And look above she got flirty and sassy with the guy telling her she doesn't know how …
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:06 PM
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The other one iveI've got is youreyou're young enough to be my son/grandson. ​ "Yes, young, energetic, mature, handsome, funny, great in bed..." *smirk*
/r/seduction04/07/22 02:23 PM
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This she's looking to see if you'll chase. Took a girl to a arcade. We shot basketball hoops and I lost. She says "wow you're lame I'm leaving" and walks away. I knew she was playing games so I kept shooting hoops and saw her keeping me in the corner of her eye as she walked away. Eventually she turned around and came smiling back and put her arm around mine. If I had chased she would have maintained the frame and walked out the door with me pleading to have her come back. Just continue doing yo…
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:46 PM
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Dumbest test ever. A self fulfilled test. You weren't even together. Perhaps there's a side of you that is into cuckholdry and humiliation. Explore with thorough understanding and foresight.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:22 PM
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If you knew you'd get upset then grow a pair and lay down boundaries. Until you mature and are either able to handle your partner doing so or set solid boundaries, then you're not ready for a relationship with this person or any other anyway.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:19 PM
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Eh this isnt truly correct. If you absolutely accept, embrace, and passionately engage and express that misery, a certain type of woman will be attracted, or a even not that type may follow your lead. You have to realize they will follow your lead and project it back to you so be fully aware of that. There's a reason emo and grunge, Marilyn Manson, metal, have such a strong following. They are leading and passionately giving emotion. they do all have a don't give a fuck vibe. If you have a I giv…
/r/seduction01/06/22 03:23 AM
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To add to this. Everything should be win win. So the realizing in reality is a leader should say the above to show he's not afraid to challenge the friends back, but then also recognize its really stemming from the friends being insecure and also wanting what he has (a otential girl). The thing is the situation is win for him lose for the friends. so what he should add is "so do you happen to have some sweet innocent friends of yours we can introduce them to?" and also introduce the girl to his …
/r/seduction20/05/22 07:11 PM
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You don't salivate for ass and tits? Perhaps balls and butt holes?
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:06 PM
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What? No. Work on your sales bro. Unless youre lookng for sluts who smile at the first guy that gives them attention... Now actually think about it and realize if thats how easy it is for every guy that gives her advances. The crazy thing is You call the flip gross, maybe go reread what your wrote and see it from the other side of having sex with a girl who is instantly open to your attention...
/r/seduction30/04/22 03:18 AM
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This is so so so wrong. Edit:I went through my list and counted and around 30% were not enthusiasticly interested from the start. Thats 1 every girls her could have closed that this dude above is missing out on. Also just off the cuff, i can tell that statistically a lot more of them were on the hottest side of the spectrum in my list. Also interestingly, most my ltrs are from this category
/r/seduction30/04/22 02:57 AM
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Well i definitely dont think i cant. I repeat to myself every second i dont think i cant i dont think i cant.
/r/seduction28/04/22 11:02 PM
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Damn who knew all it took was thinking i can get angelina jolie. Shiiiiit
/r/seduction28/04/22 10:58 PM
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I work 10-12 hour days and have 2-3 girlfirends whom i see regularly. There is time. make it.
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:33 PM
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I'm 5' 5". Studied pickup hard and had as high as 7 women women concurrently and half of them taller than I was. Not all super hot but it was fun for a while. The subject came up quite regularly only in the beginning even girls as far as saying things like "awww you're so short." don't get mad. shrug and agree and amplify "yup short, handsome, great in bed." and I would throw it back.. Make her pointing it out a projection of her own insecurity "and awww you're insecure about being taller than m…
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:05 AM
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Women say they love seeing a man's vulnerability is because it's getting the carfax. Of course shes confused here by her emotions because she does love getting the carfax for free, she feels extremely validated and that turns her on, she doesn't actually love the man more in fact it's possible she could love him less. The only time it works in your favor is if you safeguard and value your emotions so highly that when you do reveal them to her it is a high value gift that you have bestowed upon h…
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:50 PM
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Eh just as I do love it as well when a woman openly shows me all her red flags so I can reject her. Except women rarely do show them. It's like her saying play poker with me and show me your hand. The trick is to say you show your hand first and I'll show mine with the understanding that a lose situation is on the table. Safeguard your vulnerabilities until they show an equal willingness to show their's. Also with it comes an understanding that if you're all weakness and no value you will crash …
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:29 PM
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I mean you're not. Everyone is attributing all this to some woo woo you're right I can feel it shit. This explanation is simple. Hormones. Specifically testosterone. What makes you horny and agrssive and motivated? Testosterone. When you work out? Testosterone increases. Can testosterone be sensed by women? Absofuckinglutely they can. When you ejaculate, prolactin releases which does among many other things (including reduced interest in sex) puts a temporary feedback loop to reduce testosterone…
/r/seduction01/04/22 02:15 PM
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Read my reply to ouch Charlie.
/r/seduction11/03/22 01:48 AM
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Much of seduction is about Awareness of the subtle cues and observations disguised under the overt cues and being able to pick up on them and adjust course/calibrate. It shows massive value and survivability if you can do this. Adaptation is survival. He should have had enough awareness to see a ring. It's one of the first things I will silently check for. he was overtly and publicly escalating on her and she was giving clear overt rejection of escalation signals but also stayed which secretly/s…
/r/seduction11/03/22 01:43 AM
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Disagree. Avoid "do you have a bf" cuz it almost certainly triggers asd. Questions like what was your longest relationship, do you have kids, and ever been divorced can polorize her.
/r/seduction11/03/22 12:35 AM
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You missed the mark. She was dtf, but you have to have calibration to know that you can't publicly and openly be escalating on her. You showed you wanted it to be a visible and normal relationship so she passed.
/r/seduction11/03/22 12:30 AM
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This is the scoped in real life example of become a leader in a specific social circle. This also works for show value potential. Girls wanna get ion the ground floor.
/r/seduction08/03/22 02:25 AM
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Yep he overly invested his emotions in her, without commanding any equal emotional investment from her, and then dumped them in her lap hoping she would buy in like some sappy puppy love Hollywood movie. Yuck Buddy. It's sort of like a cheesy TV salesman at a store acting friendly to you and at the very end begging you to buy the overpriced banged up $10000 TV and crying about it when you run away and go to a nice TV store and buy one from a guy that didn't act overly friendly, they just got you…
/r/seduction15/02/22 02:54 PM
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Rsd Julien: embrace, exaggerate, laugh. Initially If you feel nervous around her have fun with it "idk... I uh... I think you're the one." clearly overact bumble around and ACT MORE shy. Suddenly she will laugh, your shyness will disappear and then the real you will come out. say you're joking but that really she does kind of excite you but she's also kind quirky too in a good way. Or convince yourself that nervous energy is energy to take and have her, which is actuality it really is, you've ju…
/r/seduction05/02/22 02:50 PM
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Isn't that the point 😂
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:31 AM
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You have to provide immense value. Be fun, sexual, emotionally spiking, adventurous, leading, commanding, dominant. So much value that she doesn't care you are seeing other women. Women would rather share a leading winner than be stuck with an optionless loser. Maintain a carefree unattached but sexually magnetic lover frame, not a long term lovey commitment oriented frame. Be flirtatious and sexually escalating but not needy or desperate for sex (with multiple fwbs u shouldn't ever be. Be open …
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:58 AM
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The made it home safe check in is an acceptable text. If we have a strong connection I always tell them to text me a got home safe text and I'll respond like you said in kind.
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:24 AM
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Keep it simple to a next morning text that isn't super needy, just a nice reminder to refresh her memory. "that was fun." it works for platonic dates and also ones where you had sex. Night of texts should really only be if you had an intense connection and sex "have fun dreaming about what we did tonight" Followup in a day or so with a d2.
/r/seduction10/01/22 12:33 AM
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You didn't sleep with her. Or make a move to. There were fuck me eyes signals. Because you didn't capitalize she doesn't see you as a man of action and it is no longer a primed doorway. Having sex with a girl on the first night does not preclude a relationship. Anyone that says you should wait is bullshitting you. What they mean is don't push for sex when you pickup signals that you are not at that level yet. But when there is a clear connection and opportunity do not blow it. in fact it bolster…
/r/seduction10/01/22 12:31 AM
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We all have both tendencies. Don't take it personally. I've been in this for several years And I do the same mistakes and get lovestruck with women. I just made the mistake myself last week. It's a learning process. Take criticisms as a foundation and not an attack
/r/seduction23/12/21 09:04 PM
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90% of this communication should be action based. See her less. Text her less. Don't reduce attraction and passion, but do reduce the pair bonding frame he has been clearly setting.
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:14 PM
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Also keep in mind if you decide to move forward with her as a gf, the drama might not stop. You already showed her an incongruence saying she is a fb while seeing her on a gf level, and that is weakness. That is manipulation. And a woman's worst fear is being manipulated and tricked into being with a man who is weaker than he says he is knowingly or even worse unknowingly and unaware (ie. can't enforce standards or boundaries upon himself to be consistent with his outwardly presented standards a…
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:00 PM
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Words are surface level to her and many other women. But you are telegraphing a needy provider which her subconscious is latching onto. If you had other girls and in abundance you wouldn't be seeing her so often. She would be a fb and you would have other girls. But you don't and are seeing her regularly. Again it's your fault. Her conversations with her gfs will be "he says we are just fb but we see eachother like every other night and the connection is so strong and the sex is great""girl you …
/r/seduction23/12/21 05:09 PM
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Maybe you're not aware and this is okay but It's not her fault. It's yours. The problem is you are saying she's a fuck buddy while seeing her multiple times per week and in contact with her what sounds like pretty regularly. You are the one leading and allowing it to be at a frequency that is congruent with her being a gf, not a fuck buddy while treating her like a fb. You took responsibility for making her feel incongruent and playing that game. That incongruence you are making her feel will re…
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:50 PM
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This right here. I'm 34 now and these last four years have been insane amounts of wild adventures with those exact 3 types of women, fwr beyond what I had in my 20s. Almost 35 and my age is starting to show a bit and the college age women aren't around as much, but the divorced and crazy, married, or single moms are stronger than ever.
/r/seduction09/12/21 02:11 AM
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There should be initial initiative. Show you can lead. Show you have value. But then there should be a pause or break that says... OK now your turn. Like a duet tap dance or jazz solo. You do yours then stop, and put your hand out for her to show she can do a sweet solo too and then pick back up Sales is also a good metapbor You can keep selling but at some point you must say it's time to make a decision, will you invest?
/r/seduction22/11/21 06:20 PM
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Apples and oranges. Here we are referring if she is responding but very coldly or one word answers. If you talk regularly and you haven't heard from her in a while it's a different story.
/r/seduction06/11/21 03:21 AM
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Of course they are defensive about it. Whoever the guy was wasn't man enough to be honest and upfront from the start, and then uses friendship to try and take from her instead. She reciprocates what he does and uses friendship to take from him and balances the scales. She's following his lead. But then he turns into a hypocritical bitch about what she's doing. Of course a feminine response would be to be upset and get shitty back. They? He reaps what he sows.
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:24 PM
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Trollolol
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:29 PM
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This is called a freeze out. But It should be used in person, in text you're letting a cold lead go to 0 kelvin. In person a freeze out is simply not giving her attention, removing it, or the threat of removing it.Even fake walking away works. But the reality why it works is misunderstood by op. It works because it spikes her emotions. anything that spikes her emotions works really. Just Don't become the clapping monkey/court jester doing more. Turn your back on her. Say something about "that yo…
/r/seduction14/10/21 08:52 PM
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Oh boy. Right to think Tips and "tricks" (great choice of words) as inauthentic and sleazy(sp? skeazy isn't a word). Just wow. You, as a man, bought into her negative emotional frame pretty hard here bud. Which means you actually failed her shit test and she probably would reject you. Now, If I were to see life from your buy into her negative emotional frame, coming from a masculine logic, couldn't it be argued that human authenticity is a learned sales trait. That being authentic buys the react…
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:46 AM
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True. Thing is the difference between a pickup basketball player and an NBA player, is that the NBA player practices the fundamentals 4-8 hours a day, corrects out their errors, and distills the fundamentals down to their most perfect implementation to the point it becomes automatic. The "training wheels" can also be the fundamentals. The point being at the cross roads, a weekend basketball player is still actively in his head during a game cursing that he's not holding the ball correctly at the…
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:13 AM
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I think it genuinely comes down to being present and truly enjoying what you're doing. Call it state. Call it flow. The intersection of knowledge and appropriate challenge level. Call it what you want. But when I have an inner joy where I'm sort of geeking out internally like when you're a kid enjoying your favorite passion or internally laughing like it's all an inside joke with myself while gaming and playing with this girl, the confidence comes naturally. And it also shines through in a devil…
/r/seduction02/10/21 06:14 PM
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Girls like you coming in here talking trash about it at its true fundamental basic element is from a FEAR that the sales tactics learned here will get you sold a LOWER value man, because he's just been taught to be a good used car salesman. Selling the product (himself) at a much higher value than it's actually worth. Thus she comes in here going no no make sure I get my money's worth, just improve the product I'm buying, don't learn sales. Thing is pickup is two pronged, sales and product R&D. …
/r/seduction02/10/21 02:43 PM
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Yup. cold approach at its Fundamentals is sales. Girls like this coming in here talking trash about it at its true fundamental basic element is from a FEAR that the sales tactics learned here will get them sold a LOWER value man, because he's just been taught to be a good used car salesman. Selling the product (himself) at a much higher value than it's actually worth. Thus she comes in here going no no make sure I get my money's worth, just improve the product I'm buying, don't learn sales. Thin…
/r/seduction02/10/21 02:33 PM
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The tips in the beginning are training wheels. At a certain point in the bike ride, the training wheels will hinder your growth. Being confident, assured, certain, charismatic, leading the interaction, being funny, knowing how to physically please a woman, so that naturally you're no longer concerned with the fundamentals and are relaxed into and free enough to just PLAY WITH HER and also be genuine too are what the so called tricks are eventually suppose to lead to. If you're too busy thinking …
/r/seduction02/10/21 02:13 PM
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There is one reason this works. These days it's hard for women to read if you are a valuable guy or not. Men lie. It's not obvious you rule the tribe etc. A strong indicator then for her is how the man values her to show his 'level' compared to her. If he's way above her, he will have no interest. She will not waste her time trying to buy something she can't afford. If he's way below her, he will supplicate and pour his love for her, hoping she will buy down simply for his simping. She will subc…
/r/seduction04/09/21 04:49 PM
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You're on the path bud. Keep learning.
/r/seduction22/08/21 01:56 AM
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that was not a she's not interested sign. That was a figure it out sign. A girl who is interested will continue to talk to you and is waiting for you TO CLUE IN to calibrate and DO THE RIGHT THING. ​ What she was saying in SUB COMMUNICATION was she wanted you to push pull her. Play with her emotions. make her feel. You missed the bus. I hate to say it but you may have pigeon holed her as slow to being sexual but certain people out there can certainly get her to do freaky shit on the first date o…
/r/seduction22/08/21 12:51 AM
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yet
/r/seduction22/08/21 12:15 AM
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eh this is a generality and a half mentality. I will play devils advocate. He's right up to a point of she's not interested but now what? I've gotten many of these "hints" this guy thinks are clear cut signs, and then I would throw in an emotional spike and they lit up and many became long term gfs. So do not accept what he's saying above as as she's not interested "SO MOVE ON". Rather accept that it is a sign that she is not CURRENTLY interested emotionally and you have to step up your game to …
/r/seduction22/08/21 12:13 AM
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People don't realize this is a gold mine of information. Problem is its not organized at all.
/r/seduction08/07/21 03:53 PM
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To women that value money* fixed that for you.
/r/seduction13/04/21 01:24 PM
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Inner ego talk. Sounds like you still have validation attachment to external things. The real solution is Dissolve it by dissolving ego entirely and creating your own state, happiness and validation no matter your situation. You decided to attach part of your self value to these things and educate the rest of us with your solution when really you're just shifting your attachment of validation to a more stable assett... So when you do lose them it's that much harder on you, you WILL state crash. …
/r/seduction13/04/21 01:22 PM
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Eh agree and disagree. You can make it by on outer and inner game alone. The other two just help to build a baseline of inner game. Most rsd coaches crushed it in game and were neither in shape or healthy, and were also getting paid shitty as interns
/r/seduction13/04/21 12:17 PM
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He can as long as he demonstrates his niceness is non supplicative. My old roommate is a "good" guy, he's kind but non supplicative, if you give him shit he has no problems laughing in your face and shrugging you off. A "nice guy" will get butt hurt and hurl obscenities at you and try to hurt you or get emotionally reactive, because his nice tactic to garner something was ineffective, and his expectations aren't met and his state crashes and he tries to crash yours. A respectful person is so bec…
/r/seduction12/04/21 11:05 PM
1

Aloof. Almost an uninterestedness to the point of distaste for. When you 'disqualify' a girl that is an active presentation of what passive aloofness is. Look a girl up and down "yikes how old are you?" "really? too young/old/basic/uninteresting" immediately turn your interest to another girl and engage her hard and watch as the girl you shut down either hard challenges you or openly qualifies with a "whaaaaat!?" kinda of mood. When guys give her validation for wanting to fuck her left and right…
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:11 PM
1

You're adorable.
/r/seduction08/04/21 12:36 AM
2

Leaving is punishment. It's removing your attention. Why do parents use "if you don't behave, we are leaving" does the denial stage take this long to get over? 😂😂😂
/r/seduction06/04/21 02:00 PM
2

Lol what you described is punishing and rewarding. You're in the hole and don't even know it lmfao.
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:59 PM
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Leading, commanding, challenging, testing, discerning/doubtful/questioning, strong eye contact, good posture, Confident, assured, ascertive, unyielding, passionate, strong presence, playful, opinionated, charismatic, carefree, unhindered, room reading, social centerpiece, self amused, mysterious, emotionally intelligent, sympathetic, just gets it/perceptive/predictive, unpredictable, understanding, forgiving yet stern, doesn't need external validation, unreactive, mentally stable, financially st…
/r/seduction21/03/21 04:35 AM
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Salad bar. Highly underrated. Obviously during covid times it's out. But You don't have to buy 300 dollars of groceries for one item. and you leave with a banging salad, a number or two, or even a lunch insta date.
/r/seduction20/03/21 09:19 PM
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Whole foods. More single fit put together women shopping small for personal health and fitness as opposed to bulk for 2 at a regular store.
/r/seduction20/03/21 12:57 PM
1

Yes. If you start getting emotional, needy, stop providing value, then eventually they will cut their losses and run. Also if someone else comes along with a more efficient value proposition, you're likely to get cut. Divorce rates are so high likely because of this. People sell a high value prop, then get married and get comfortable and stop providing value...that Or she is now able to see inside the money vault/your personality Leger and realizes the value prop is wayyy less than she thought. …
/r/seduction18/03/21 12:20 PM
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Plain and simple: people don't attach to you based on how much you invest in them but rather how much they have invested in you. If you want to earn affection from someone, encourage investment in you, whether that's time, emotions, money, gifts. I've placed them in that order for weights sake but for some people it may be different. Someone who doesn't have money, buying you a dinner is a huge investment. Etc. By encouraging to buy into you, it's based on your confidence in the product and what…
/r/seduction17/03/21 05:53 PM
1

Thing is majority of flings came back, and we had a good time. So yes you are right, she is bored and you are the one she thought of first... And gave you an open door by falsely 'just checking in on you.' thing is you portray her boredom and thinking of you as a negative and encourage nexting her. Elaborate on why you do that. That is unless you're having trouble closing. It's okay to have self awareness and work on it.
/r/seduction24/02/21 04:27 PM
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If you let a girl talk bad about her boyfriend to you then you're the emotional support friend. Please Don't ever do that.
/r/seduction24/02/21 04:15 PM
1

Meh. Bad advice. Majority of flings will come back if you're good, so really this just sounds like the advice from a guy who is kinda good who gets return customers but not good enough that he can't close 2nd time around. Maybe you just take the bait too early and look eager and she drops the second interest. Work on it bro.
/r/seduction24/02/21 04:11 PM
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Yup all this ditch the bitch ideology is just incel insecurity masked as manly value. Knowing when a woman is looking for attention vs trying to rekindle things really just takes some discerning ability and being able to pick up on what she's responding to(for the begginers and OP, is she responding to moving logistics forward, or just responding to validation). The catchall 'just say fuck em all' is really for chumps who lack the ability to discern between the two. Fail post.
/r/seduction24/02/21 04:08 PM
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Exactly. To a highly social woman, a highly social man with no job that can instantly make and attract friends, and/or be the life of the party has more value than a rich man with moderate social skills. OP deems the rich man as higher value, because he has potential to make OP money. It's all subjective.
/r/seduction16/02/21 03:49 PM
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Future value. It's way more profitable and worthwhile to buy a beat rug at a garage sale for no money that shows potential of being be a million dollar Navajo rug than what it takes to buy a regular household rug and try and get it to be worth a million dollars.... Confidence is that aforementioned potential.
/r/seduction15/02/21 05:28 AM
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I disagree with this onset advice at dropping her at the first sign of disinterest. Girls are shy. It's a jobs man to lead. His advice is missing a crucial part. Call her out once. Just once. You do have to dhv after. It's kinda like giving her a nudge saying hey, quit eenie-meenie-mynee-mohing, I'm the high value guy pick me. Push through token resistance and you'll have far more conversation and I bet this guy would have too. 40% of the time interest turns around, she apologizes and gives a go…
/r/seduction22/12/20 01:30 AM
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Nah this is just confirmation bias. When I was active ide get maybe 27 interesred. Of the ones I pursued only 3 really became real successes and the rest dropped off. When I stopped Id get maybe 9 messages. Looking back in my mind, when I was active it feels like I only got real attention from 3 women, whereas when I'm not engaging I'm falsely feeling like im getting attention from 9 and feel like it's more and I'm not doing anything, when really before I was actually getting more of that type o…
/r/seduction04/12/20 06:12 AM
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Mmm I very much used to feel like you. I am comfortable as me whoever I am so why should I change? Essentially for me it boiled down to adaptation is survival. I made it akin to product and wealth creation. To get what I wanted I had to create value for others. that I learned to deliver a product not meant for myself and what those customers needed. That product being myself. I'm still myself, I just now understand how to satisfy others wants as well as my own. Your ideal has its own credence - …
/r/seduction04/12/20 05:08 AM
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Non vernacular cues and body language are pretty universal. Happy, sad, nervous, upset, angry, excited, disinterest, curiosity, confusion/puzzled, understanding (head nod vs head shake), tone and volume, dominant and submissive. Perhaps what you meant to say is ethical Moores/personal boundaries can be different across cultures and thus should be careful when encountering someone that doesn't speak English, especially with kino which is very much the next language you can communicate in.
/r/seduction03/12/20 05:58 AM
1

But how to which part?
/r/seduction29/11/20 04:29 AM
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I mean what he said is good but it has nothing to do with what I said
/r/seduction28/11/20 11:11 PM
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Funny thing is the more you give it to yourself the more others will as well. And yet the irony is that the more you give it to yourself the less you need it from others. And then the beautiful part is when you show you don't need verbal validation... they will bring you other things, things that are truly valuable and that you actually value, when they realize your value isn't held up and retained with just a simple thank you or easily uttered word of praise.
/r/seduction28/11/20 04:45 PM
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Ten years to get good with women to where it comes as an unconscious competance, to be a good friend, being more sociable, being fun and funny for MYSELF, being a better flirt/banterer, more romantic and a good date planner, getting fit and well dressed/groomed, getting over insecurities and emotional roadblocks, becoming a leading and dominant man, being fantastic in bed, developing my own skillset, being a protective and supportive/encouraging partner. All those firsts you mentioned are just m…
/r/seduction28/11/20 08:15 AM
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Wow thanks for this. I'm at the apathy stage and let a lot of plates fly off so to speak. At first, my dopamine addicted brain found reward in the positive attention the skillet brought me. Then as it got better My brain found dopamine and validation in the end reward of copious amounts of sex and started to lose returns on the self amusement and positive attention. Then diminishing returns on the joy of the sex/success followed because I had so much and didn't need to invest more to get it. So …
/r/seduction27/11/20 08:24 PM
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Watch comedy. See what you find funny. The formula, not the joke itself. Then find comedy along those lines that involve or revolve around the other person. Also even better are things that involve physical touch. Pranks, brain teasers, kino pranks, physical ability tests (I'm a little teapot prank, can you do x physical funny thing, do you know how to x brain knowledge thing, how would you feel if you won the lottery tomorrow/what would you do?). Even better if that test/prank involves you and …
/r/seduction27/11/20 07:35 PM
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Underrated comment.
/r/seduction27/11/20 06:37 PM
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Lead. Forgive her and don't make it a big deal. Aka you flaked and need to make it up. But also make her make it up in a playful way. Don't tell her to make it up and her decide. Instead decide for her and be playful, and maybe involves something she's good at and or involving your date and or a preference of yours... "okay I can forgive you... This time! ;) we can go for a raincheck date, [x DHV activity or hobby or job ] keeps me pretty busy too. thing is you're buying the first round/will wea…
/r/seduction26/11/20 07:54 PM
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With the no offense primer seems more like you're projecting that you've taken offense. Like I'm the nemesis who is pointing out this prison, this place you've created. It's an illusion. Barriers you created for yourself. Your starting position is way back, no doubt, and your progress slower than most. But to say it's impossible is a barrier you have to push to overcome. I work daily to overcome my autistic tendencies and anxiety and depression. I had an awkward dating life stage. It took me TEN…
/r/seduction26/11/20 09:02 AM
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With conditions. She has to make it up. Don't say it outright, it's implied in what you tell her she must bring to the table.
/r/seduction24/11/20 01:24 AM
2

Okay so for this specific instance, I saw this Instagrammer vid. She was pretty and she said something along the lines that her having autism is rough, yet to me she seemed well adjusted and sociable off the bat. I was like?? She described how she felt weird with her autism around people and so she taught herself how to read reactions and mimic social cues and emotional expression just by watching other people. But then She went on to say that thinking constantly on how to properly react can be …
/r/seduction20/11/20 09:22 PM
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Correct. Women will choose from most to least in this order 1. Man with no insecurities 2. Man with insecurities - but honest and capable of dealing with them 3. Man with insecurities - but dishonest about it, and trying to look like #1 (because he might be hiding that he's incapable of dealing with them and actually a #4) 4. Man with insecurities - honest and incapable of dealing with them. Having insecurities and being dishonest about them just puts you as a disingenuous human being. Much lowe…
/r/seduction14/11/20 05:18 AM
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Highly underrated comment. Blonde dumb valley girls are the definition of this. Cannot convey knowledge so they convey what they can via emotion/facial and physical expression, and gossip stories. So many convos I've observed with large amounts of emotion with very little substance.
/r/seduction19/10/20 03:28 PM
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Somewhat right somewhat wrong. Breaking eye contact first shows submissiveness and or disinterest. And creepiness is the term woman use only for someone doing the same behaviors from someone they find unattractive. The same vibe given from someone they find attractive puts women in an emotional and submissive state. Old dude staring at you across the room... Creepy. Jason momoa hard eye smirking you across the room... Giggles and waves. Same behavior. Really they should break eye contact first. …
/r/seduction12/10/20 01:39 PM
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That ryhmed, party wiz.
/r/seduction01/10/20 07:52 PM
2

Ioi. Indicator of interest. You're giving her the tingles and she's reacting. This does not means she's knowingly doing it. It may be entirely subconscious. Girls can do it consciously or subconsciously. Consciously is eye locking you and playing with her hair overtly connected to the eye lock. Subconsciously is doing it while she reacts to something you do/say or going about her day in your presence. Just like breathing can be both.
/r/seduction22/09/20 09:32 PM
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Fixing hair and playing with her hair are two different things. Fixing is adjusting. Playing is she subconsciously will run her fingers through the strands of her hair in a recurring and fidgeting manner. She wants to be touched and is satisfying it either consciously or subconsciously herself. It will be on the right at this point you run your fingers up the back of her neck through her hair and gently grab/massage her scalp.
/r/seduction22/09/20 09:21 PM
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Also Playing with her hair is a big one. That's essentially a green light.
/r/seduction21/09/20 04:07 PM
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Best answer to this is not just revealing a weakness but how you dealt with a weakness and made yourself stronger, and how you have boundaries that you learned to set from that weakness. It shows you as a problem solver, because women love to bring you nothing more than all of their problems 😂😂😂. Never show a vulnerability that you are/were incapable of remedying yourself or worse are revealing it for them to solve it for you. That's taking and making a woman lead. Never do that. And although I …
/r/seduction20/09/20 04:42 PM
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Everyone has a right to feel the way they feel and set boundaries. Imo If it's the first date and it's also not super serious yet, and she is upset about this, the underlying frame is she is afraid of competition and not secure in herself to beat out the competition. It's a red flag. While it shows her intelligence of scarcity dynamics, it also means she can't be plussed to mildly invest in someone if she has a chance to lose, and if she feels anxious that outcome is likely, therefore demands ar…
/r/seduction08/08/20 01:13 AM
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Conditionally agreed. If I've had a relationship with this girl already and she throws a fit cuz she wants more and I don't, and leaves to go chase a guy who might give her more, she might ignore me or put it off, but i don't cut her off. I just let her continue her course. hell, I'll encourage it.... If it's one of her primary goal, and I've connected with her, I'll actually encourage her. And then if her relationships ends, I will hit her back up, and 90% she wants to rekindle things.
/r/seduction30/06/20 06:53 PM
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Make it a game of who wins. Like a staring contest. Essentially, whoever breaks eye contact first loses. Everytime someone breaks eye contact first, celebrate to yourself. Say to yourself, I WON. I'M FUCKING AWESOME and stand taller. Hold your gazes longer. Rinse and repeat. ​ *Don't dead faced death stare. Slight smirk is best. Think Mona Lisa. AKA smile with one side of your face and not the other. Squinch your eyes slightly to make them slightly smile. It shouldn't be a beaming overeager smil…
/r/seduction26/05/20 08:09 PM
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Dude
/r/seduction09/05/20 08:51 AM
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Asking for visual validation is error numero uno. You should have research, experience, and confidence under your belt. Second off you clearly haven't done much work on the first. These are terrible photos. Up your content game or don't expect to get any women online. Photos shouldn't be grainy. No mirror selfies. Fuck no selfies in general, get a stand and a Bluetooth clicker if you can't do timed. Fix your lighting. Watch some YouTube videos on posing, facial expressing, and framing. Look at a…
/r/seduction09/05/20 08:39 AM
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Be mysterious with hints of delicious secrets, qualify her - make it sounds like her actions and good answers are starting to win you over rather than selling all the things you already like about her, be teasing and not supplicative, if you MUST compliment always combo it with a playful push away, and if you compliment make it about portraying her sensed vibe as a personality type that you like and gives her standards and shoes to fill (adventurous/spontaneou , etc), sound busy and that your ti…
/r/seduction08/05/20 02:06 PM
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They already have and that's why they stopped. Julien got banned from Canada among other things.
/r/seduction29/03/20 02:11 PM
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Rarely take women's word on here. So often have I heard women say they would shoot something gamey like this down and yet in real life laugh or get even more playful. Things that sound gamey/linguistic programming on here women take as offensive because someone with a lower smv can use it to raise their SMV higher than it should be and that's just NOT OKAY! It's game shaming. so take a woman's word with a grain of salt. Instead delivery vibe and connection are the real thing here. If you use a d…
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:33 AM
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Oh by all means I agree with not tolerating the bitch part. You don't have to walk away the second she had a shield, you should whole heartedly smack down the bitch shield and make her realize you don't tolerate bullshit in your initial frame. If she's flat out verbally insulting, no thanks. By all means you should never tolerate it. just dont toss a connection out because she's distant at the get go.
/r/seduction20/02/20 10:18 PM
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Then you have a terribly wrong idea of the world. Imagine you have millions of dollars and you're in a club full of poor people with no money who know you have money and they all want it so they can buy themselves a drink. After the 20th person trying to trick, play, manipulate, and cheat you out of your money, you're probably going to say fuck off to the next poor person coming up to you with a big smile. That's what it's like to be an attractive woman with men desiring her sexually. If you can…
/r/seduction20/02/20 05:06 PM
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Tbh She sounds uneasy. She probably needs a protector. You can watch over her while she's sleeping to help her feel safe. Best to be armed in case you have to defend her. Kitchen knives are good for close quarters to repel an assailant/attacker. You should be in your underwear just like she is to make her feel more COMFORTABLE. Head rubs help her dream.
/r/seduction22/01/20 03:53 AM
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the secret is you don't have to HAVE abundance, it's better to encode that you simply deserve abundance and are entitled to abundance. You've worked hard. Feel and know that they deserve a man like you, and when they question that frame, and they will (aka shit tests), then you already know for a fact they are wrong and have no problems backing them down (its incredibly attractive for a woman to be put in her place and shown that you're a man that can lead without having to hurt or berate her li…
/r/seduction24/12/19 06:55 AM
2

Lots of ways. One is imagining you're always in abundance. You already have an abundance of women, wealth, health, value, fun in your life. That way if one girl rejects you, no big deal, you have 3 more waiting for your text (imaginarily at first but quite really once you've mastered it). You're no longer attached to an outcome with her, which is very attractive. You're no longer desperate for attention, you're just amusing yourself to see what she's like by playing with her and screening for co…
/r/seduction21/12/19 11:05 PM
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This all comes down to perceived and inherent value. By needing to feel that it's okay to hit on her, likely in the form of her accepting that you're hitting on her, you're actually asking UP for validation that you are allowed to do so and revealing your mental state that you actually feel lower value and need permission to do so. Also, if she rejects you, and you accept that, you are openly admitting and agreeing to her frame that you're not worthy. So now that you understand where the cringe …
/r/seduction21/12/19 05:08 PM
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That's called being AGGRESSIVE. That's screams desperation and scarcity. not the same thing. Knowing your sexual value, and actually feeling entitled, you're free to actually be sexual AND push her AWAY... To be sexually engaging and also disinterested, because you're in abundance. this is what is inherently extremely attractive.
/r/seduction17/12/19 11:37 PM
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Amping up her temperature beforehand. Being sexual, kino, eye contact, push/pull, take aways, playing hard to get, spiking her emotions, commanding, leading, playing with and having fun, making her laugh and feel good, making her feel comfortable, showing that you're not judgmental, being and talking sexual, Whispering in her ear, doing these and on constant rotation all the way to the bedroom. Also pre-empting her last minute resistance with your own "we probably shouldn't be doing this... But.…
/r/seduction29/11/19 04:19 AM
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You're taking her question logically, like all men logically do, ie literally are we going to go on another date? What she's really asking is please play with my emotions and keep me on my toes about if we are going to dance or not.
/r/seduction21/11/19 03:27 PM
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Men interpret coming on too strong differently than women. Coming on too strong in a man's eyes means you were too aggressive. To a woman, coming on to strong means you were too eager and into it and tried to turn her dial from 1 to 10 way too fast instead of pacing. One premise you should always take to heart is 2 steps forward one step back. You should never just make out continuously at the bar, instead brush your lips by hers and pull back. You should always be the first to break a kiss, tou…
/r/seduction21/11/19 02:34 PM
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No, he's probably right. Unless you've already fucked and had a serious sexual relationship, the come over and sex me is usually a shit test. She already got off on the validation that you were ready to come and fuck before you even got there. She got her rocks off before 10 even hit. That's not game, that's anti-game. Game is about her unsure whether she's truly won you as the prize yet, from making out at the bar all the way up to the point you're in her bed and taking her clothes off. Did you…
/r/seduction21/11/19 05:52 AM
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Heck, it's not a bad thing, I've gotten plenty of dates and hookups AFTER the fact of them saying something like a rejection because it turns into this breaking each other down and building each other back up Rollercoaster moment. Though it usually took some very hard sales tactics. It happens MORE often now that my game is better because the women see confidence and it can be a shit test in a way. Also used to Even ask some women for feedback when I was new and knew they were just being nice, t…
/r/seduction21/11/19 05:40 AM
2

Can also get yourself in state by laughing and accepting that you've gotten rusty. "damn 8 should have kept watching at least 5 hours a day of rsd videos."
/r/seduction20/11/19 11:54 PM
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Sometimes girls like a build up with teasing. Sometimes girls fall asleep. Sometimes shit gets in the way. Sometimes the 'let's fuck' text is a shit test to see how eager you are. Sometimes she texted the wrong person 😂😂😂
/r/seduction20/11/19 05:28 AM
1

Yes! Although I'm betting it's been reverbiaged by red pills because being called out implies you're already out and have to get back to where you were. Shit test, means if you pass you're NOT shit and stayed on top. LMAO
/r/seduction12/11/19 01:32 AM
1

That's cheeky and I like it, But the short answer is no. The long answer is that a question that automatically assumes she hasn't decided on you yet is coming from a position of non confidence. You should always assume it worked and that you're worthy enough, because a shit test in itself is a positive sign of interest. It's a good thing! Eg. A girl with no interest would roll her eyes and walk away. A girl with interest will be testing you. You just have to walk through them like the door was a…
/r/seduction11/11/19 06:29 PM
1

Separated the first paragraph. The second paragraph addresses flaking an entire date. Also if she's flaking AFTER a relationship is built, absolutely you're right, just go do you. You can hit her back up again after a week with some added value text like "omg just saw your doppleganger at x." or "was thinking about something you said earlier and made me curious." each work well as a conversation hook. and then you can build some value with fun adventures you've been on that would give her fomo a…
/r/seduction15/10/19 11:22 PM
2

Women are almost always late on the first date.. I almost always call her at the meeting time on the dot And say 'hey, x, where are you?' She will come up with an excuse at which point I'll say 'take your time, I got us a seat at the bar it's pretty crowded. Call me when you get here and I'll meet you out front.' This gives a chance to build comfort, greet her solo, make some rules like 'no boring questions,' and lead her into the restaurant. This is all leading in a man to woman vibe. Lead moth…
/r/seduction15/10/19 09:45 PM
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I agree with you on all point except the response. The one you've given is stereotypical and neutral. Business-like at best and one level above not responding. It's the akin to the introduction of "hi how are you, my name is x. So, What do you do?"
/r/seduction14/10/19 02:07 AM
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Yea I agree with you there. Been through the ringer with this more than a few times - this guy's surmising might be a misread where the reasoning is ACTUALLY coming from. Maybe he's very attractive which might have girls circling back. I'm not a bad looking dude but when a girl flakes, if I ignore her, not once do I ever hear back. He explains that it makes you seem non needy, but imo, ignoring her makes you almost seem butt hurt and will chase her away. Tbh I'm dominant and calling her out in a…
/r/seduction14/10/19 02:04 AM
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Essentially money can get you women but so can game. And game beats out money. When a rich chump comes to buy her a drink when I'm next to her I tell her to get him to buy her one and then buy me one too. She'll laugh and always come back to me. With game you can take a girl off a rich guy with no game. This is the bored trophy wife looking to fuck the pool boy. But she will rarely leave you to live with you. You're the fun, not the provider. She's with you because she likes you. The rich guy sh…
/r/seduction07/10/19 01:32 AM
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I think you hit the nail on the head. The freeze out you djd is an unexplained stop on attention to her(it's nothing she did). It is a close cousin of social proof (aka another girl taking interest makes her interested because it means another girl sees value in you that she missed and also means fomo). Literally tonight, a girl I used to fuck came to see me, even though she's in a relationship, because her sister hinted at wanting to fuck me, in front of her. instant Fomo and fear of losing me.…
/r/seduction05/10/19 04:38 AM
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You see it as messing up. She doesn't see it as a fuck up, she just doesn't see you as a sexual entity. It's more of a feeling than a logical formula in her mind. You no longer "excited" her.
/r/seduction03/10/19 02:27 AM
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Yup. One time a girl showed up more than 45 minutes late. When she showed up, flat out said "listen, if you're not excited to be here, I'd rather you just now show up so I can spend time with people who are." she was shocked at first but then apoligized and was instantly more sexually attracted, always showed up on time, and was way more "textually" active about when she could see me.
/r/seduction03/10/19 02:26 AM
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MET. morning excitement text. I'll usually text her that morning something intriguing or open ended. Eg. After saying "good morning, [cute nickname](Sunshine)." I'll say something like "I have a juicy little surprise/challenge/hidden gem Hotspot in store for you tonight." and a also reminder like "and don't forget to wear/bring x," that I had already told her about in the d prior date setup (seeding). Notice that Excitement refers to building excitement and intrigue in her, not excitement coming…
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:37 AM
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I hate this. Pedagogical op Ed at best. Totally disagree with the binary of experience vs results as equivolent to feminine and masculine. I can love the taste of whiskey, beer and cigars. That's experience, not results, and well established as masculine.
/r/seduction27/09/19 10:23 PM
1

Ah. Okay yes we can all see how many matches we have in the search bar. But yes can also see how many other people like you on tinder gold. Seemed like you were saying you could see from the outside. Keep in mind one of my girls has shown me her tinder profile and a bunch of convos from her thousands of matches. 99% of the conversations these men lead her through are boring and typical and it's easy to see why she quickly loses interest. It doesn't take much uniqueness to stand out. Just have to…
/r/seduction09/09/19 03:17 PM
1

How do you see how many likes they have?
/r/seduction06/09/19 04:52 PM
1

Yes sir!
/r/seduction21/08/19 01:36 AM
2

It should play off something she said. For instance one girl confessed to me both that she likes wine and never had a threesome and was curious but too shy. I was out wine tasting and one bottle was called menage e trois. Sent her a message with a picture of the bottle with something cheeky like "get over here, miss sweet and innocent! you can try that little thing you mentioned. Don't be shy." naturally she'll giggle at the play on a shared memory, ask where you are, and what you are doing, and…
/r/seduction19/08/19 05:10 PM
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Poe's law. All text intention and emotion can be misconstrued unless you put emojis or whatever else is needed to show humor or sarcasm. The fact you put "I think" shows even you're unsure and so would the girl. Being left in the air with intention, her brain will naturally side with the cringeworthy notion because it is far more of an emotional spike and the one that will garner her RAS/focus. Its much more common for a girl to say that to her friends and share the emotional spike "ew look how …
/r/seduction19/08/19 04:23 PM
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You're self qualifying. Like way over self qualifying. Which displays she's above you in leagues and you're trying to talk your way up to her - not show you're above her. Women can innately sense and smell this for miles and will run/forget about you the second you show any hint of it like sharks and blood. Women live by hypergamy, meaning they want to date up, not down. Remember that. OH yea ofc I'll help - too available and supplicative. You're a masculine self leading/devloping man, not her b…
/r/seduction19/08/19 06:15 AM
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That doesn't mean she didn't want to have sex. That meant "you haven't turned me on enough. Try harder/something different." I think out of the 30 women that I've been out with in the last 3 years only 3 didn't have sex on the first date, and that's because I Failed to turn them on. I know guys that try to make a move and get rejected the first time and simply take one step back and two steps forward within 30 minutes. 3-5 moves later and are having sex. You need to be in charge and help her rel…
/r/seduction18/05/19 03:20 PM
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Confused. When I click the link it's only a. Png picture of the list of videos
/r/seduction18/05/19 01:52 PM
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Incel territory? I think you think that means something other than what it actually means lol. No need to get defensive. Listen to what others are telling you if youre here for help. Otherwise it sounds like youre here for the validation youre not getting from women. Youve done a lot for the behind the scenes inner growth. Thats great for feeling secure in yourself enough to approach women but does nothing to sub communicate to a woman a dominant and sexually passionate man. Listen man, im short…
/r/seduction06/05/19 02:17 PM
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I can read people very well just on facial expressions. Ive found and read that women are neurologically far more evolutionarily adapted to read facial expressions than even men. Thing is Youve got this sweet affable character look about you. That is not attractive to women, its supplicative - aka 'please like me'. Makes them either feel like your mother and not your woman or that youre trying to suck up for something like sex. I know cuz i used to be that guy for 25 years. You have a very manly…
/r/seduction06/05/19 03:20 AM
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Yea. Just be cognizant they are there to sell you a very expensive bootcamp which entails basically one on one coached sarging out at clubs and will repeat it to you often. Q&A is great also. Guys just like you who have very relevant questions and they do usually get answered quite thoroughly. Most guys there also have some experience that they are willing to share. Its also just really good if its very local to you and you are looking to find wings/support. All the guys will basically mingle af…
/r/seduction28/04/19 06:12 AM
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I went to the free jeffy tour in nyc. It was fun. Mostly stories of 'this is what happens when you become a good pua' and some decent value given but obviously not the full package. Very much like a freemium content: here's some value but a fraction of the picture of what you can get and if you pay you get the whole picture. If youre a newb its very helpful. If youre intermediate or advanced its mostly stuff youve already heardt and youll just nod your head at and agree with.
/r/seduction28/04/19 04:16 AM
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Yea the direct sexual intent is usually bad. . Youre verbally skipping to home base and girls take that as guys that do the same in bed, no foreplay and leave them orgasmless. Indirect is better. Saw a youtube vid where a guy jokes about getting coke snorted off his dick in vegas (its all absurd so obviously a joke) and she laughed and he pulled. Basically gets her thinking about sex without directly linking the start of the convo on the fact you wanna fuck her and makes her think thats all you …
/r/seduction11/04/19 02:56 AM
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"If youre not enough without it(her) , youll never be enough with it(her)." - Irving Blitzer, Cool Runnings. Work on yourself and creating happiness for yourself. When you can do it for yourself, youll never need her, just want her. And the overflow of your self created happiness and giving the rest to her is what you should call love. Not the needy heart breaking feeling when shes gone. That's not love. Thats taking. Thats a vacuum youre demanding her to fill. Also The whole idea you have that …
/r/seduction06/04/19 08:54 PM
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I thought it was hilarious too when my friend said it. Then when i went i discovered it is a gold mine for super fit gorgeous girls that are well off professionals. Some are stuck up but most are awesome smart and health savvy. Plus they got a banging salad bar while I'm at it.
/r/seduction06/04/19 03:09 PM
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Maybe your problem isn't game but the type of girls you chase and locations you meet them. Try places where she shares something in common with your interests (bars and clubs are not an interest) such as whole foods, a yoga class, outdoor/athletics store (health, fitness), a group interest meetup such as dancing, etc. Initial interactions are a huge reflection on the relationship. They all create a narrative for the girl (how she sees the relationship and what she can also tell her friends) . If…
/r/seduction06/04/19 01:24 PM
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"Engage but do not expect. Want but do not need - Desire but do not demand. Attract but do not attach."
/r/seduction18/03/19 01:36 PM
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Thing is energy can come across in voice. Power, passion, dominance do come across. Ive been in game long enough to know i shared the same problem. You seem to be stuck on the ideology that this arguement above is thst fixing your voice is the key. Its not. And youre arguing the wrong point here. It is a piece of a larger puzzle and absolutely should be a practice point. I didnt realize myself until id been in the game for a while. Did alot of my gsme on online tinder game with strong passionate…
/r/seduction25/02/19 07:54 PM
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except tonality is a puzzle piece of being attractive. I had a deep sick voice and looked like shit and wasn't on my game but the waitress was totally into me anyway. Different side of the same coin, homeboy.
/r/seduction25/02/19 01:43 AM
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"if youre never enough without [her] , youll NEVER be enough with [her]."
/r/seduction19/12/18 09:07 PM
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They aren't the best specific subjects but the intent and subcommunicstion behind them is the right direction. The fastest I've seen people attach in a friendly way is going direct to their core, their feelings, something they might be a little nervous sharing, their ego and Id, not their superficial like what they do or think of the weather, but who they are at their core. Relating to subjects that are somewhat taboo but kind of relatable. In any situation a person has a wall that protects them…
/r/seduction11/05/18 04:34 PM
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You missed the whole point. She's not going to fuck you. It's a win win test for women. If you buy her a drink right off the bat, she sees you're submissive to her (pussy dehydrator unless she's a dominatrix), that you don't think you're valuable enough to talk to unless you spend your money on her(super pussy dehydrator), and that you expect her attention/body/positive emotion in exchange for your money(she's not a prostitute, gross)... Thus It's a win win for her: she gets a free drink(she doe…
/r/seduction01/05/18 01:28 AM
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Any girl worth her salt will shit test. It's the entry fee, the no shit bags bouncer, the interview for the position, built up from experience of a lifetime of shit bags lying on their resume, so they literally have to quiz you to see if your resume is true. If a company I'm interviewing for just says heres the job, it's yours if you want it without interviewing, I'm probably gonna high tail it out of there. It literally means it's either high turnover or not a good job so they will take anyone.
/r/seduction30/04/18 04:20 PM
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Listen I'm sure it felt great to do a Google search and a little digging to have that aha moment that you could bring back here and stick it to me. Though I am fully aware of the wolf author. Luckily dominance hierarchies are found more often elaborated in our primate cousins: capuchin, gorillas, bonobos as well as many many other social species, is well documented, and understood by scientists. Don't take my word for it, A quick Google search will help elaborate.
/r/seduction27/04/18 12:11 AM
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one method that I learned from RSD is to have fun with and celebrate the rejection or just act like it never happened. Law of state transference. Basically if you feel like people are judging you and if you feel bad for yourself, it will show, and they WILL feel bad for you. Instead, go back to your friends and play it up "haha omg did you just see that!? I got rejected so hard!" or even dramatize being butthurt "WHY!!? WHY DOES THE WORLD HATE ME!?" scrunch face fake cry then immediately laugh i…
/r/seduction25/04/18 06:13 AM
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Lol was that a bit of ego I just noticed... And here I thought you were a stoic. I get it all the time and love it. Remember, an afc takes the external communication as a hit to their ego "omg you come off as gay" . The real sub communication should be read as "well shit he's fun, understands women, is forward and open, is well groomed, well dressed, he's too good to be true, oh fuck I'm emotionally invested already. Fuck. It would be such a waste if hes gay because I'm kinda interested. But im …
/r/seduction24/04/18 12:24 AM
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Well that's interesting... You say that almost like humans don't live in a hierarchy based society and alpha/beta males arent replicated in every pack/societal species on earth. Sounds blissful.
/r/seduction23/04/18 02:36 AM
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Ohhhh.. Well, Im applying it regularly on every date now, I'm sure you can figure it out.
/r/seduction30/10/17 05:15 PM
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You don't ask to go back to her room. You're not a puppy she's taking back to take care of, especially when it comes to fucking. You're a man you should be leading her around. "Let's go outside for a bit, i think my friends are out there" "Hm they must have gone to another bar. There's a cool pizza place right around the corner, we'll be back in 15 minutes, tops" "damn that was good, say lets go back to your room for a quick shot of that stuff you say you had before we come back."
/r/seduction30/10/17 08:20 AM
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There is always slight discomfort. If you watch RSD- 10game, one of the things that they hammer is that making it slightly awkward, for the sake of having fun, even if it puts her on edge, is a GOOD thing. It means in the frame, she is the insecure one and you can tease and vibe on that. The only time it's bad is if she completely starts to wall you out, then you just apologize and acknowledge you were playing, down step and come back in.
/r/seduction17/06/17 03:04 AM
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Yea okay maybe. But think of it like your immune system, you have a general one that can hit most targets but isn't deadly, and a secondary system that targets and is extremely effective. You can trigger most girls emotions with generalities like challenging her, teasing, talking about emotionally and adrenaline spiking things like making out, getting in trouble, taking your clothes off, being naked, skinny dipping, play fighting, getting drunk and being bad, what she was really like in high sch…
/r/seduction15/06/17 12:00 AM
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Don't EVER ask. A girl has to deal with TONS of social stigma including being shamed for intentionally being a slut or having sex with someone not valuable enough in the eyes of her friends. By asking you put the DECISION on her, so that when her friends ask "WHY did you go back with him!?" she has nothing to say but "I decided to go sleep with him." commence slut shaming. No. Don't even do that to her. Just no. and it also shows you can't lead, as in she's now expecting you to ask her if she wa…
/r/seduction01/05/17 02:43 AM
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TL; DR?
/r/seduction25/04/17 10:58 PM
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Tl;Dr?
/r/seduction22/04/17 06:46 PM
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Coyly, James Bond like, jokingly?
/r/seduction06/04/17 03:43 PM
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Your situational analysis is good. Though you want her to feel comfortable right? Then, you should work on your response. The question of "do I seem suspicious," is a self laid trap. Her mind is given only one logical pathway: "yes you're suspicious, but I'm now responsible for your insecurity and will be polite and Dodge the question or coddle you and be forced to look down on you" (awkward feeling) or "yea you're suspicious." either way it cements you as someone she should avoid and you now ar…
/r/seduction06/04/17 02:28 PM
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I read this comment after doing the exact same.
/r/seduction02/04/17 02:52 PM
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and that's frankly your opinion. 90% of which is a reflection of your relationship with YOURSELF and how you deal with and feel about the girls who rejected you. I can see it because you've warped someone else's interjection into an argument against your feelings on YOUR secondary subject: that he is chasing the wrong girl still. Which is NOT what it was. In this situation I've discussed, he'd create an abundance REALITY, not just mentality.
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:18 PM
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Terrible advice is a little bit strong ... The getting back with her was kind of implied in the "find out the hard way." your tough love: bro you got rejected, beat it, is... not tough love, just a non positive. Agreed, he shouldn't fawn over her, of course, but the pack your bags and 'find a different tide' nonsense is just a different shade of 'ignorance is bliss' for the sake of self esteem and really is just a barren solution. for instance, I've liked and dated girls that ive said no to init…
/r/seduction28/03/17 04:48 AM
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Get her to come out with you. Have her wingman for you. Be flirty and cool with other girls in front of her. Have a blast. Watch her get loss aversion in front of your eyes. Watch as if it was slowmo as she comes crawling back to you hardcore. Relish the power to choose the girl you were originally flirting with or find out the hard way if she really does think you're cool NOW or just was high on the feeling of jealousy.
/r/seduction28/03/17 03:44 AM
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