Nighthaven- Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Tinder’s Algorithm is a scam Tinder got considerably worse after the new Norwegian CEO took over. But most of these apps are designed to 'milk' desperate men.	/r/seduction	19/04/22 03:42 PM
2	Do you need social media for modern dating? Good social media > none bad social media < none unlike the other self-delusion comments, social media is social proof & what you do - instead of what can be said through lies.	/r/seduction	05/04/22 10:46 AM
1	Getting shamed for dating women younger than me Women from age ~31 who haven't yet found a husband (or dumped late 30's) will often/ 50/50 start shaming men equal to her age for dating down when she most likely have chased men way superior to her (usually +5-10y older) all her life and can longer find peak men & equal men are no longer interested (-in what would be short remainder beauty-lasting relationships). In our species, women do age faster than men, but feminists generally do not acknowledge this. If she was closer in qualities beyond …	/r/seduction	31/03/22 09:42 PM
1	Girls have ZERO game No comment. I primarily focus on fundamental truth, regardless of how it feels. How you perceive the world is up to you.	/r/seduction	30/03/22 12:24 AM
1	Girls have ZERO game Older woman, younger man	/r/seduction	30/03/22 12:10 AM
2	If a women sees no value in you she will never respect you no matter good of a person you are or how good you treat her Technically, men do not benefit from men equal to them in any way (unless it's your friend) - cities become more clogged/ housing, dogshit jobs that's losers do will pay less, extra soldiers is moot due to today's lethal arsenal, you are the in comparison puddle for mating - ultimately men only benefit from men below them (soon as you can sell them product or a service, you'll be above). A losers who have shitty life, live in bad circumstances and will most likely remain so, does not live a happ…	/r/seduction	29/03/22 06:06 PM
-10	If a women sees no value in you she will never respect you no matter good of a person you are or how good you treat her IMO suicide is ok for stuck loser men, that's why they do it. yet the state (that wants tax slaves and demand goods & services + war resource prior) and empathy apes are obviously not ok with it - yet they can't relate.	/r/seduction	29/03/22 04:55 PM
0	When asked about my job I tell girls that I’m a male stripper If you are pale ginger afro, skinny, have freckles and have square glasses with thick frames: this line is not for you ... and you should put away the VR glasses.	/r/seduction	26/03/22 10:55 AM
1	Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at dating no. women speak purely from survivor bias. Most people in the world; for all things and topics do, actually. Know your data/ who is left to speak of it from the particular source. Women are also more enabled to judge opinions & statements based on feelings on topic (and not actual logic) - as it usually plays out ok for their life - ie. crying: women comfort, men = punishment. Thats why reddit and any other open anonymous internet forum is ridiculous for dating advice for (young) men: 1. 50% of …	/r/seduction	15/03/22 11:33 PM
0	Effects of Porn and Masturbation on Approaching Girls. Thoughts? porn doesn't change a thing. men who excessively consume porn generally are real life losers. They won't get laid anyway. Whether they spend their time looking at porn doesn't a change a thing for them - although they'll generally end up with less time to improve themselves (yet some of these are stuck on the floor anyway).	/r/seduction	09/03/22 02:08 PM
0	Do women treat men with no confidence like shit in general? the reason to more 'reverse age relationships' now (man with elder woman) is that they don't have other options. Urbanism and dating apps (find best mate within 100km radius; instead of local town prior) enables most women effectively rotate on the top 20% men since in a large enough city/ area: there's always a top 20% man available (as people drop relationships all the time). the proportion of loser men is effectively growing & and there are increasing amount of men than prior who never had a …	/r/seduction	28/02/22 12:12 AM
1	Unpopular opinion: This subreddit teaches 'fake' methods for desperate & insecure guys. Work on your inner confidence and i am sure you don't need this stupid subreddit. Actual useful post is about 25-33% (something useful to extract) here whereas quality posts are: 10-20%. This is however far better than the dating subs which is patrolled +33y old femcels - this is probably the most useful dating sub for men. The defective owerweight or ultra skinny (loser) men readers are everywhere though.	/r/seduction	24/02/22 11:41 PM
0	It drives me how wild how society raises men to be soft, but craves men with edge. internet has loser bias, internet advice vs real life advice (& observation) is wildly different. loser men and loser women - the rest of society is enjoying their lives, therefore advice from here is usually not good. The median age in western society is 42. This too should be very alarming for the bias you get. Basically, all the women who spent their younger years chasing their superiors but are now +33y (usually no longer desirable and no attention) and couldn't find someone to settle with -…	/r/seduction	23/02/22 01:52 PM
1	Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women? you're just being shamed by benched +33y (soft wall crash) old women who are angry at all men and are more likely to be on internet if you got r/AskWomen you'll notice that 1/3 of posts and replies are man hating posts (this is still a minority but signficicant portion) yet all these women patrol all the dating subs giving terrible advice all around (advice not remotely applicable to men).	/r/seduction	03/02/22 11:32 PM
2	A big misconception a lot of guys have about their looks some people (loser men) are perpetually stuck, that doesn't mean they can't find a way to enjoy life, but they'll never be considered an attractive partner. (stuck renting, can never afford a vacation, can't afford basic hobbies) - and they'll likely not enjoy life while they build themselves up (if they can). A man unable to gather resources/ status/ looks (gym) is the equivalent of woman not taking care of herself (or starting to do so in her late 30's): You didn't play your cards right, and w…	/r/seduction	03/01/21 07:23 PM
2	A big misconception a lot of guys have about their looks The true problem is there hasn't been a major war for quite some time (depletion of men and recovery period), so there's three times as many men as women in the dating pool (because men go for younger women and they want them/ instinct). Competition is fierce as a man; there's always most likely a better candidate than you. Our species isn't different from any other, except that ours has a gender birth ratio of 50/50 - unlike others. Most men literally exist to protect others (war resource), and…	/r/seduction	03/01/21 02:16 PM
1	What's with this double standard of hot girls wanting to be treated as normal people while acting like dating less attractive guys is below them? Categorizing women themselves, especially in the artificial vacuum of attractiveness, looks extremely weird. It makes you look petty, and shows the exact shallowness and complacency that OP is showing. The thing is, modern media is also reinforcing the idea that 3-7 woman is lasting match for 8-10 man. We do tell average men to not waste their time on OLD. If the top men weren't selected for 'mating' - how else would our species evolve positively? We'll never get rid of instinct (we shouldn't ei…	/r/seduction	15/12/20 03:44 PM
-2	What's with this double standard of hot girls wanting to be treated as normal people while acting like dating less attractive guys is below them? In our species, in the dating pool: since there's always more available men than women - (young & fertile) women have by default more value than you. As a woman why would you ever 'mate' with someone equal to you (some random exceptions) when you can always have someone better? (-and with an equal society even more men are 'disqualified'). (80% of men are competing for bottom 20% of women and 80% of women are competing for top 20% men) and that's why men put up with more dysfunctional relationsh…	/r/seduction	15/12/20 01:26 PM
1	Dating feels exactly like sales. Some sales tactics will only work on specific types of people, and if you decide to engage with your customer in a way that lacks ethics and principles, then you will only attract people who are either vulnerable, or who lack ethics and principles themselves. Problem is; if you don't you will never be in the market (on OLD) as you'll look bleak in comparison, so you have to join in on this pitch. .. and if there's three times as many men than woman on tinder / swipe/chat 5 more mins for a better candidate ...	/r/seduction	22/11/20 12:36 PM
1	Anyone else here deleted Instagram? Meh. Practically your fault. Stop following friends that you Envy in a miserable way. Rather follow: - Things that inspire you. - Things that you find fun/ cute/ creative. - People/ things you like. - Things you like to pursue. IG can be much more different than other social media if you want it to be.	/r/seduction	09/10/20 01:34 PM
1	How to attract a woman( and not a shallow girl) and maintain a good relationship Dating is not the same for men and women. You might be one of the less instinctive ones, but most people are instinctive - both men and women, but instinct doesn't favor the average man. Since there are more men in the dating pool (by virtue of older men going for younger women) - the 'market value' of the woman goes up, as men are competing with (most likely better) men older than them for the same age women which results in more competition for men but ALSO more 'acceptance' on how the woman b…	/r/seduction	06/10/20 08:46 AM
1	𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝 This post only says coming off as overely fake eventually kills the interest ... This post is mostly bullshit self-confidence is all good and all and necessary, but there are certain traits you absolutely cannot have - in which many people here struggle with (to realize (and because people never tell them)). Being boring - in any way is one of the more common ones, and this aside from the physical ones (in which many men are delusional about themselves).	/r/seduction	11/09/20 07:17 PM
6	Red flags to take serious at all times they prioritize short term feelings over long term goals. In this case, encourage them to get help. You can't, they're simply driven by instinct - and they are many.	/r/seduction	06/09/20 06:05 PM
1	Things a learnt from a very successful guy Think of it as what kind of behaviour in mate-seeking will most likely evolve the human species (for the evolutionary better, and not invidually - or simply produce most offspring). We're not different from animals, yet with our intelligence with might override basic instincts - yet that is not most people. ie. Most commonly: the okay+ looking woman who gets left in her ~30s - when her beauty has started to fade. -now with kid(s), and the man went to go look for someone else younger - but the ki…	/r/seduction	13/08/20 04:20 PM
1	Things a learnt from a very successful guy They would. There's obviously some delusional internet people who feel privileged to have a woman despite their mega-obvious shortcomings such as disaster-face (in which they do not do anything to treat it) or obviously out of shape, or is the mega-quiet awkward guy in a corner at party - yet for everyone normal/ average: it will just come down fakery. and if everyone fakes, we will just come down a 'pretend world'. Men lie about their status, connections, assets (also indirectly; ie. fake watch…	/r/seduction	13/08/20 03:56 PM
3	Things a learnt from a very successful guy Most humans you interact with in life are instinct apes (about 2/3). Instinctive women are all over men who play the 'status card' (the other two being wealth or exceptional looks). and Instinctive men seeks as many lays/ offspring as possible. but instinct doesn't favor the average man...	/r/seduction	13/08/20 09:53 AM
0	Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zone Are you going to tell me the wall isn't real as well? Basic instinct such as tits, ass, youth, beauty is very real, but for women it's wealth, status, muscles, and exceptional handsomeness. Call it primal desires, basic instinct or lizard brain - or whatever, it doesn't really matter. Keeping riding the carousel as toxic-feminists tells you to and get ditched in your 30s should you have no other qualities than beauty (that has started to fade).	/r/seduction	28/06/20 08:28 AM
6	Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zone bs. 2/3 of the population is not beyond their basic instincts. This applies to men too - but for men it's a wildly different thing. Generally how more educated social groups, the less primal they'll be (ie. more prestigous schools/ job circles have less of them). But the majority of people you interact with are indeed primal, particurarly in the random OLD 'market'.	/r/seduction	26/06/20 10:44 PM
0	Cold approach from a girl's perspective On the internet there are many clueless people giving clueless advice, but worse; is that in real life men view each other as competition and thus are not giving genuine solutions to either continue selling you the product/ (dating-) service or simply maintain status-quo. They don't understand that there's a difference between him and when an exceptionally good looking man says it (and also how he says it, dresses, and takes care of himself) versus the average (but not hideous) guy copying messa…	/r/seduction	26/06/20 08:36 AM
1	"Shes not yours but your turn" makes me not want to do anything with a woman Thing is, women* have always prefered to chase top 20% of men, it is just that today is wildly different due to interconnectivity and mobility - as well as life norms in western society. You can't just drive a nice car into a slightly retarded village (that is behind in development) and have every woman chase you anymore as the story of our parents (60y). - (As a western man you technically can by moving to Asia and getting gold-digger wife.) Imagine if there was no mobility, no advanced cellpho…	/r/seduction	09/06/20 07:56 AM
20	IRL vs Tinder (and dating apps in general) So... Alaska? 5:1	/r/seduction	02/06/20 09:59 PM
2	There is a "blind leading the blind" belief in this sub that's hiding in plain sight in short: don't be someone's frozen pizza - they might decide to never have you.	/r/seduction	15/05/20 03:05 PM
1	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it Indeed. In my observation, about 2/3 of the population is primal - both men and women alike. The remaining has logical rationale above instincts, but the majority you'll be interacting with let primal desires control them. This will probably change/ evolve in another thousand years.	/r/seduction	06/05/20 04:30 PM
1	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it and this is where many average guys fall short, if you have neither status (either situational (clubs and similar) or permanent (actual)), wealth or exceptionally good looks - even if you're not on the ugly/ poor side of the spectrum: you're not getting anywhere. Most women simply don't date 'equals' as primal-needs are inherited genetically from earlier societies. (although there are too many incels on the internet who delude themselves for what they really are). ... Now in college, you might b…	/r/seduction	05/05/20 10:44 PM
1	What Every Pretty Girl and Champ Guy Knows, But Can Never Tell You Have you been with women who are not primal though? (true defined wants in needs) When I didn't have status, wealth or extremely handsome looks, but slightly above average looks and I suppose 'potential' (through how I acted and what I said) - I had better candidates for potential partners on average (for long relationships), yet far less matches. Those who go straight for wealth are disgustingly obvious (and shallow), but some men still want to attract them (to fuck and ditch I guess). Your pos…	/r/seduction	01/01/20 12:43 AM
94	"If you like a girl and want her to date you, go talk to some other girls" Most people by about 70%, (men and women alike) are primal. 'I want what she has.' 'I want that product because everyone with 'elevated status' prefer it' there was some test were women were to judge pictures of the same men with or without partner in the picture. - the same men with partners in their picture came of as more attractive compared to to their single pics. - general products: I just want what 'people I look up to have, but I have no idea why' It's really significantly more difficult…	/r/seduction	17/09/19 05:11 PM
1	What personality do girls like? So basically, most people are primal. Most want things by instincts: whether it be looks by men, or money or status by women. If you have neither and within 'average' range of these parameters and below: - you basically have to be what most in your target group wants you to be/ what is ideal for them - even if it means not being yourself. because: you can have a really shitty personality: and then it is not liked - and you will not be successful. The reason why the statement: "being yourself" is…	/r/seduction	24/06/19 03:33 PM
6	The Basics Of Game Reward her with emotion when she gives you value. I think you should expand this one.	/r/seduction	16/05/19 12:05 PM