Nightwynd Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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14	Do people have to be so pissed about NASA picking all men for their mission? If hiring a man over a woman is mysoginy, then hiring a woman over a man is misandry. Both 'crimes' are equal. Therefore only by hiring the best or most qualified person for the job is the most viable metric. Gender should never be a consideration. I don't care if the firefighter carrying me out of a burning building is more, female, non-binary or whatever. Sex, gender, idiology doesn't mean jack. I care if that person can do the job, and save my life. I thitk if we could all take a breath and s…	/r/MensRights	14/06/26 02:06 PM
3	As a curious outsider, I have 10 questions for MRAs. It's not that they're being threatened. It's more that in some cases the bias against men is blatant. Typically in family court. It's not just the USA either, Indian men have it extremely rough. British men can't be sexually assaulted by women (no forced to penetrate laws, despite many many appeals). Zero support structure for the many, many male victims of abuse, whenever a men's shelter opens a feminist group shows up and complains so loudly, or outright threatens them and they're forced to sh…	/r/MensRights	09/05/26 12:47 PM
-9	Is "Women And Children" Hate Speech? I wouldn't classify it as such, no. It is outdated, for the moment. It's an evolutionary thing. To perpetuate the species, children must be born. Before modern medicine that meant having as many as you typically could because many would die. Men fought, and died to protect their families. After major conflicts, you only need a few surviving men to repopulate. If the women died though, especially childbearing ones, the societal losses were worse. Its not a saying based on hate. It's a saying born…	/r/MensRights	30/04/26 02:03 AM
23	Asked ai to cite sources to see if it was true All the AI's I've used do similar and it's extremely frustrating. You have to be very explicit in your prompts to it, tell it to cite all sources, not hallucinate or make assumptions. If you want to web search with it, you have to tell it to do that. Remember, LLM'S use their training data. Calling out it's biases and BS is good, but honestly... Don't pay for it. Please. And if you engage in these manners, proof, screenshots, peer reviewed studies, etc are your bread and butter.	/r/MensRights	29/04/26 12:50 AM
5	How to deal with your SO letting themselves go after marriage? Have you tried honest communication with her? That's usually a great place to begin. Start it from a place of love and care, but lay it out, man. You want get anywhere by asking Reddit. You'll either get alpha male types or feminist types telling you what to do, all armchair back seat driving. It's your relationship, your life. Communicate and move forward. See a couples therapist. Encourage her to see her own. Or start by getting one for yourself and tell her why and let professionals help, not…	/r/MensRights	23/04/26 01:49 PM
6	why don't men in western countries just open men's only gym ? Not my point though. If Ontario as a province allows women's only gyms, it must also allow men's only gyms. That's my point.	/r/MensRights	13/04/26 10:49 AM
8	why don't men in western countries just open men's only gym ? Don't we have women's only gyms though? 🤷	/r/MensRights	13/04/26 03:43 AM
28	Proposed changes to Divorce Act in Canada exclude input from any male organizations. It would impose new requirements on lawyers to screen for signs of family violence during divorce cases, give judges new tools to identify the existence and impact of coercive control on children, and ensure that, in some circumstances, children can express their preferences to a judge in a custody dispute. Coercive control is a pattern of abusive behaviour in which one individual attempts to control another through measures like limiting their interactions with friends and family, spying on the…	/r/MensRights	29/01/26 12:48 PM
1	Weird scene from Letterkenny \| Pap Smear Probably. The writing in Letterkenny is great. And this is also a gender difference thing, pap smears are objectively worse than prostate exams. The whole scene is actually about encouraging men to get checked. Sure, they make it funny, but the message is clear too. PSA: get your prostotes checked lads. It's not that bad.	/r/MensRights	11/01/26 04:23 PM
5	Why is it so frowned upon for a man to have boundaries in a relationship, and even if he has them he’s scrutinized and forced to justify them? I dated a girl far a little while that didn't enjoy oral. I said that was okay and tried to make things work for a while. I discovered that sex with a starfish is terrible, that a relationship without oral wasn't one I was interested in. Sexual compatibility matters. Now that you know what you want and need, it's okay to have that discussion with your partner early in the relationship. Set boundaries and expectations early and the clarity af it is a breath af fresh air. If she freaks out about t…	/r/MensRights	11/01/26 03:23 PM
44	I'm choosing pronouns for my book, and feminists are impossible to please, so screw it. You can't please everybody. It's impossible. Write the book you want, tell the story you want to tell. If the reader doesn't like it, that's okay. You can't control what others think.	/r/MensRights	30/12/25 11:02 PM
27	Dating a much younger woman and going out in public, we get a ton of "opinions" from older women Just say yes and keep walking. Funnier if you're holding hands. Stop giving them room to talk. If they start chirping, start making out in the street.	/r/MensRights	11/10/25 01:31 PM
6	I am 22, this subreddit is so refreshing tbh I'm Canadian, not American. I don't watch CNN. What I see of the guy is how he interacts with my country, and how his actions are screwing with the economies of both countries. Consertaves are blue up here, liberals are red, and we also have green, orange, and more. This is why I dislike colour coding your parties and speaking like it's the same everywhere, because the USA isn't the centre of the universe.	/r/MensRights	08/06/25 08:55 PM
10	I am 22, this subreddit is so refreshing tbh Red vs Blue is 100% an American thing. Also thanks for voting in Trump and allowing him to shit on literally everything, congratulations. Just because the guy talks a good game doesn't mean he deserved your vote, or that he cares at all about you, or men in general. It's a power grab, and he's destroying your country. Quickly. Is feminism out of control? Yes. Is voting Conservative the answer? Not necessarily. Just because someone says something nice doesn't mean they aren't running a hustle on …	/r/MensRights	08/06/25 03:27 PM
18	Wife called Cops on Me What country is this, and why does it read like a legal statement? Also, lawyer. The answer is always lawyer in this type of situation. Don't ask reddit legal questions, call a lawyer. Hey mods, can we make it mandatory to list the country in question for this type of post? I know the USA is super prevalent, but it's not the only country on here, and legal advice for one country could land you in prison in another.	/r/MensRights	07/06/25 08:55 PM
9	r/interestingasfuck Wants Me to Stop Advocating for Equality—What do you Think, Should I? /S I got perma banned from r/dating for daring to suggest that guys have to be careful when dating. 🙄 I don't participate openly on most subs anymore.	/r/MensRights	28/04/25 12:17 AM
8	Would a man seek a lifelong relationship with a woman who has kids? I'm a single dad with an autistic kid. Yes I'd date a single mom. Take a year or two to get yourself right and ready to date. See a therapist. Wish I had, but didn't have anybody to push me to it. I've learned.	/r/MensRights	03/04/25 04:16 AM
16	Why is it required for men's hobbies to be inclusive to women but the same is not expected. What are women's hobbies? You present your case with predominantly men in 3 areas, but give no clear examples of what you consider to be a women's hobby. One other poster mentioned nursing, but that's a career path, not a hobby. This isn't bait, I'm actually asking.	/r/MensRights	26/03/25 11:19 PM
2	UK Men Under Attack Again As Femcel Wants “Men Banned From Gyms” Hey, OP... why not start a private club that happens to have gym equipment and only allow men to join for a flat monthly fee. Do not advertise, nor have a store front... Open it in a basement or something. Being a private, members only club should let you skirt a lot of gender rules, even in the UK... But I could be wrong. Food for thought for you or other entrepreneurs that might read this. It's kinda like prohibition, if the government says no, do it anyway, just hide it.	/r/MensRights	04/02/25 04:57 PM
40	Women’s Justice Board begins plans to send fewer women to prison Why is it ok to have a women's and not a men's?	/r/MensRights	22/01/25 12:08 AM
125	22yo Man attacked for being a "predator" for setting up Tinder date with 18yo Woman. - This is a "social media trend"? Sorry, when is this a social media trend now? What... The... Fuck... If I had a daughter that was 18,id be happy to see her with a 22 year old. That's a reasonable age gap. If she was 17, pretending to be 18 and pulling shit like that... Grounding would be the smallest of the shit storm fallout. My God... These kids all need jail time.	/r/MensRights	08/01/25 05:39 PM
2	so called male privilege Why does it matter who joins? Why does what's between their legs matter to you? If they're here to contribute or learn in good faith all should be welcome, wherever gender.	/r/MensRights	04/01/25 06:10 AM
2	Guys i seriously need some feedback because i feel i'm going crazy, thanks. Yeah, I get you. I guess it depends on how willing you are to rock the proverbial boat. If negative fallout is ok, then keep pushing back, keep calling out the bs. Family is a tricky situation, so I totally get not wanting to rock the boat too hard.	/r/MenSupportMen	25/11/24 12:20 AM
2	Guys i seriously need some feedback because i feel i'm going crazy, thanks. If you're a teenager, what you can do while living at home is vastly different than if you're on your own as an adult. I try not to make assumptions. I didn't say you can't hold them accountable, I said you can't change them. Is it your responsibility to ensure the behavior of your mother and sister? If you were in Canada, my answer is certainly not, if you're in a different country or have a different culture, those values and expectations could be wildly different. Point is I don't know you, o…	/r/MenSupportMen	24/11/24 10:57 PM
-2	Guys i seriously need some feedback because i feel i'm going crazy, thanks. How old are you, what's your living situation, and what country are you in? All these are factors in how to handle this. Basics: you can't control other people, only yourself. Don't call out their behaviour, just let them self destruct. If they try to rope you into their shit, politely decline and go about your life. Get male friends.	/r/MenSupportMen	24/11/24 08:59 PM
–	need some advice; my wife wont make a decision on anything that involves us Ask her straight out if she wants you to make the decisions. If she says yes, make the plans, and do them. If she says no, or if she wants input, involve her in the decision making process. It sounds like you have a naturally submissive wife. That isn't a bad thing, but it means you need to understand what that all entails. It starts with a conversation with her about EXACTLY what decisions she wants you to make, what she wants to have input on, and what she wants to decide for herself. Consent …	/r/MenSupportMen	08/11/24 05:31 PM
49	Mob of feminists attack a random biker, he fights back against all of them. TIL than mobbing a guy and beating an him with a crowd of people is a "Lighthearted response". 🙄 Out of curiosity, what were they chanting?	/r/MensRights	08/11/24 03:58 PM
5	Don't ask for relationship advice on Reddit Listen, when heart.org says it's a thing, it's a thing. My own opinions on the matter aside, it's a fear that many have. Fears are often irrational and unreasonable. I wasn't putting my own opinion on things, merely pointing out that it's an actual fear that gynocentrism is the cause of. If you can't see and acknowledge that, why are you in this sub?	/r/MensRights	24/10/24 04:32 PM
12	Don't ask for relationship advice on Reddit https://www.heart.org/en/news/2020/11/23/why-people-fear-performing-cpr-on-women-and-what-to-do-about-it It's not reaching. It's a legit fear that men carry now. We can't do anything some Karen or white knight might deem inappropriate.	/r/MensRights	24/10/24 11:08 AM
7	Please help. Firstly, invest in a therapist to help you process things. You've been through a lot, brother. No shame in therapy. Secondly, you gotta change your definition of success. Don't define your success by the validation of women. Delete the apps, they're worthless. What brings you any sort of happiness or joy? If you don't know then it's time to try new things to figure it out. I know exactly what it's like to just exist. It's depressing as hell, and that's no way to live. Get more social somehow. Sp…	/r/MensRights	05/10/24 06:21 AM
30	Seeking Advice: How to Handle False Accusations from an Angry Spouse during an outbursts of anger? Pretty sure that's just straight up emotional abuse. If you want the marriage and relationship to work out, I'd highly recommend couples therapy, because y'all need to learn how to talk and listen to each other again. If you don't want the marriage/relationship to continue, tread carefully. False accusations have a nasty habit of sticking in the worst way. Start documenting and recording everything and you might have a shot in a courtroom... Maybe. FWIW I absolutely detest when someone tells me …	/r/MensRights	17/06/24 09:43 PM
1	Man vs. Bear is a divisive talking point and it just hit me in a vulnerable place. Thanks for your current and future efforts. I can do this all day, I'm Canadian 😎😂	/r/MensRights	12/06/24 10:17 PM
3	Man vs. Bear is a divisive talking point and it just hit me in a vulnerable place. You're right in that it is a female dominated space. However once you're past school, and actually practicing, you don't need to worry about the drama so much. Let's of guys out there that could really use the help, and an actual kind ear. Thanks for your efforts, I appreciate you.	/r/MensRights	12/06/24 08:57 PM
3	Man vs. Bear is a divisive talking point and it just hit me in a vulnerable place. I find guys are generally a much safer outlet to talk about emotional things. Too many girls engage in weaponizing emotion, where guys tend to keep these things close to the chest. Generalizations both, and there are always exceptions. What do you want to study, if you don't mind my asking?	/r/MensRights	12/06/24 07:20 PM
4	Man vs. Bear is a divisive talking point and it just hit me in a vulnerable place. I think most men choose the dog now a days. I know I would. Having your emotions weaponized against you feels real bad.	/r/MensRights	12/06/24 05:07 PM
10	Man vs. Bear is a divisive talking point and it just hit me in a vulnerable place. Have you ever seen any of the videos that ask men 'who would you rather talk to about your feelings, a woman or a dog?' My honest advice is to spell it out for her in a long text/email/written whatever. How the inane argument is stupid, how it's driven a wedge between you two, everything. Then at the end put the ball firmly in her court. Don't engage further until she's ready to come to the proverbial table and actually talk, instead of spouting feminist talking point bs. Because you're right, t…	/r/MensRights	12/06/24 09:25 AM
3	How true is the statement, 'Men benefit more from marriage'? To be totally fair, I didn't read the 'study'. I got lost in the question asking about marriage and arguing divorce=bad and got a little annoyed that the answer was for something other than the question. Marriage used to mean something. I'm mid 40's,i remember. Had and still have a great example with my parents. I've been there, and divorced, and seen both sides personally. I wish marriage still meant until death do you part, I wish the vows still mattered. Now it's till she's unhappy. Should di…	/r/MensRights	04/06/24 05:29 AM
1	How true is the statement, 'Men benefit more from marriage'? You ask if men benefit from marriage more, then make arguments about divorce... I don't disagree here, but your question is about something other than your statements. So I an, in good faith, do men benefit more from marriage? (excluding the possibility of divorce). I think a good, healthy marriage and relationship benefits both rather equally. That does depend on the good and healthy qualifiers though.	/r/MensRights	04/06/24 05:06 AM
49	Be careful when commenting on InterestingAsFuck It doesn't matter what you post. If you've commented here at all, the second you comment there you get the ban. I got it for completing a Monty Python quote in a comment chain 🙄.	/r/MensRights	28/05/24 12:25 PM
0	Male Contraception Not sure how saying you need to be accountable and responsible for your own actions is a bad thing. Hormone treatments such as 'the pill' have a very long host of side effects, and cause all manner of problems. Not taking it means you can get pregnant, and avoid the problems. Not wearing a seatbelt is just a plain safety hazard. Wearing a seatbelt doesn't cause issues, nor does it alleviate you of risk nor responsibility. If you aren't ready to be a parent (I am one), don't have sex. Or be prepa…	/r/MensRights	23/04/24 08:25 PM
0	Male Contraception Honestly, I'd rather see chemical solutions like this disappear entirely. For both genders. Everyone needs to face the consequences of their actions, and this basically removes a fairly major consequence that has shaped our societies. Having sex comes with responsibility. It used to mean the willingness to become a parent. That used to mean a family unit. Humans are, and have always been better off with strong family units. Birth control has subverted that and turned sex into a social activity m…	/r/MensRights	23/04/24 12:50 PM
5	'Disney's biggest flop yet': Star Wars fans say female-led next installment is destined to fail after 2015 comments from feminist director said her goal 'is to make men uncomfortable' I don't care if the main character is female. I had hopes for Rey. I had hopes for Disney. Where they lost me is in TERRIBLE writing. They had the golden opportunity to pass on the torch to the next generation, but no.... They thought having Luke attempt to murder his nephew and ultimately become a milk guzzling hermit was better. Rey could have been a Palpetine, a Skywalker, a Kenobi... Or a random kid spawned by the galaxy, and it wouldn't have mattered. Terrible writing, terrible choreography…	/r/MensRights	04/01/24 04:59 PM
7	Got into a quarrel with a feminist about dangers of generalisation. Looks at the news... The cycle of violence continues.	/r/MensRights	22/12/23 03:08 PM
9	Are all women Gaslighters? For anyone concerned, especially OP: this is what gaslighting means. OP, what she was doing was not gaslighting. From Merriam Webster Dictionary: gaslight verb gaslighted or gaslit; gaslighting; gaslights 1 : to psychologically manipulate (a person) usually over an extended period of time so that the victim questions the validity of their own thoughts, perception of reality, or memories and experiences confusion, loss of confidence and self-esteem, and doubts concerning their own emotional or me…	/r/MensRights	08/11/23 08:24 PM
3	I need a little perspective. Pain tolerance has nothing to do with gender. There's also a large facet of mental abuse/trauma/conditioning here.	/r/MenSupportMen	08/09/23 12:39 PM
6	I need a little perspective. No. You have trauma. Go get a therapist, real professional help. Nobody deserves to be beaten, and your masculinity has zero bearing on this issue.	/r/MenSupportMen	08/09/23 10:48 AM
1	What can a man do? You're right. They're not for everyone. Keep trying to find what DOES work for you, preferably things that aren't self destructive. Build something with your hands, go for a long ass hike, ride a motorcycle, whatever gets you to zen. You're not only overthinking this, you're hyper focused on it and letting that negative to colour everything else. Maybe it'd help to see if there are hsv2 groups to talk with others? Considering how many people have it, I'd be astounded if there aren't groups aroun…	/r/MenSupportMen	02/09/23 04:16 PM
3	What can a man do? You'll have to find a new happiness. If it's a partner you're worried about, consider 26% of women in the US have hsv2 (18% of men). Will it limit your dating pool? Yes. Will it eliminate it? No. (numbers are from Wikipedia and not personally verified https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Epidemiology_of_herpes_simplex) The rest sounds like a depression spiral. Tell your therapist that you're depressed thinking about it, and it's getting worse. There are medications that can help, but be aware that it…	/r/MenSupportMen	01/09/23 08:55 PM
6	What can a man do? What a man can do is start by asking for help when he needs it. This is a good first step, but honestly I'd be looking for a professional. There is no stigma against seeing a therapist. The hardest part is finding one that works best with you to help you sort yourself out. You know what you want, where you want to be. Now you just have to figure out how to get there. Quitting bad habits is different for everyone, and it's easy to just say go cold turkey... But your situation has so much going on…	/r/MenSupportMen	01/09/23 08:36 PM
0	She said I’m too much to handle Friends and family aren't therapists. Sounds to me like you really needed somebody to talk to to help you process. That's what therapists do, and are there for. Your co-worker/'friend' was likely interested in you and thought she could 'fix' you and make you happy. It sounds like a brief about of co-dependance that ended on her side when her unspoken needs went unmet. (This is purely my opinion and 100% speculation. I am not a therapist.)	/r/MenSupportMen	29/08/23 12:14 PM
5	What are your thoughts on the 27% assault rate? It' 's a different study so it might have more merit than the other ones. Flip the script and let all the male presenting students fill out the exact same survey. See what that does to their 'results'.	/r/AntiFeminists	25/08/23 02:06 AM
49	Suddenly reddit says being a stay at home spouse isn't a job anymore because it's a man That was my take on it too. The takeaway is something I've been preaching for a long time: people need to learn to communicate better. Why leave things so long they fester into resentment? If you just leave things the way they are, the other person is going to just assume you're cool with things, then get blindsided months later. Note that all of this is gender neutral. Applies to everyone, regardless of what's between your legs.	/r/MensRights	15/08/23 09:54 PM
29	Rise In Female Incarceration Must Be Addressed! I'd argue that financial punishments (fines, etc) should be tied to your income, or access to funds. As it stands, most small crime is perfectly fine if you're wealthy enough. Gender should never be a consideration to justice.	/r/MensRights	18/07/23 12:07 AM
14	Are Women Oppressed? It was more than 'tradition'. You're talking about pre-modern medicine times, where making babies was basically essential for the survival of the species. That was the beginning of it, survival. Women didn't fight in wars because they needed to rebuild the population after. You could afford to lose the majority of the males, but the women /had/to be protected. That was also why 'women and children first'. Men were always more expendable. These things were true for the vast majority of human hist…	/r/MensRights	16/06/23 09:13 AM
10	How would you know if you are discriminating against men? — The Centre for Male Psychology You only have 100% of effort to give. If 100% goes to one gender, you aren't helping the other. You can't add more, because you only have so much time and effort. Also... Take a look at what people say about the rare few that do advocate for men. It's not pretty.	/r/MensRights	23/04/23 01:31 PM
17	How would you know if you are discriminating against men? — The Centre for Male Psychology If you only ever help women, and never help men, you aren't harming men, you just aren't helping them. What he's saying is that men need help too, and if you spend 100% of your effort on female victims, the male victims continue to get sidelined.	/r/MensRights	23/04/23 12:31 PM
4	Abusive mother and relationships have destroyed my mental health and grades Bro, why are you putting this out to the world on Reddit? You know what to do already. GO SEE A PRO. You need to see a therapist, help you process everything. Pet out an email to your professors and just blanket apologize without saying why, and due to recent events in your personal life causing a lot of stress and anxiety, whatever. Basically beg for time and understanding, ask for a way to make up the lost grades once the dust settles. Because it WILL settle. Breathe. Then go call a therapist.…	/r/MenSupportMen	23/04/23 12:26 PM
16	I just spent 12 hours straight playing Destiny 2 Brother, sometimes you just gotta slow down and chill. Binge a show, watch a movie. You worked super hard, so you gotta take a bit of time to unwind and relax. If that's a 12hr marathon of a game then so be it! You deserved those 12 hours of not dealing with life and work. If you're wanting new friends to hang out with sometimes... May I recommend finding a local ttrpg group? A board game cafe is good too if there is one. Gets you out of the house, dressed reasonably well, having a good time wit…	/r/MenSupportMen	09/04/23 06:59 AM
5	I seriously don't know how to move on Oof. That's a rough one, my friend. The loss of someone you love isn't easy, regardless of the circumstances. My best advice is to mourn her passing. You can choose what parts of her you remember and carry forward with you. What did she teach you? What did you learn, about life, women, and yourself? What were the best parts? What were the worst parts? Accept that you're human, you aren't perfect, and neither was she. Your emotions are valid. Examine them, and let them run their course, and then …	/r/MenSupportMen	08/03/23 05:02 AM
3	My sister (46F) tried to kill me (37M) and then lied saying I attacked her Terrifying, really.	/r/MenSupportMen	18/01/23 08:36 PM
5	My sister (46F) tried to kill me (37M) and then lied saying I attacked her 'can't be properly licensed' : go over to r/mensrights and read some stories about advice from feminist therapists. It's horrifying. Even OP's insane sister that tried to murder him is licensed and practicing. About Peterson: Do I agree with everything he says? No. Do I respect him for standing up for free speech, and holding to his ideals in the face of overwhelming criticism? Yes. Should he be stripped of his license for going against feminist ideology? No. The man has opinions, but argues fro…	/r/MenSupportMen	18/01/23 08:35 PM
4	My sister (46F) tried to kill me (37M) and then lied saying I attacked her Lots of new school therapists are pushing feminist ideology, which is part of the problem. Hell, even Jordan Peterson is fighting to keep his lisence. Older women, and male specialized therapists are more likely to help and be sympathetic/empathetic to male issues.	/r/MenSupportMen	18/01/23 07:05 PM
23	My sister (46F) tried to kill me (37M) and then lied saying I attacked her Your mistake was in fleeing. Let the cops show up. You have stranger marks and blood coming out of your mouth. She was slightly damp. Also... A double handed choke hold is very easy to get out of unless the attacker is extremely stronger that you. Get yourself a good therapist. Either male, that specializes in helping men, or a woman that's over 60 or so. Older women are a treat to deal with compared to the new wokeness.	/r/MenSupportMen	18/01/23 08:15 AM
3	It's been years & I still can't let her go. I feel you. It's not that you can't let her go, or the idea (good that you see that) of her... You don't want to. It might not hurt to find yourself a therapist and get a professional to take a look under the hood. Zero shame in it, we all need a pro sometimes.	/r/MenSupportMen	14/01/23 06:27 PM
1	(How) do men protect themselves against assault? Beer goggles are a thing, mate. Not every guy has iron self control, especially when drunk.	/r/MensRights	03/01/23 11:59 PM
2	(How) do men protect themselves against assault? Worst case scenario: You're drunk, and drinking more. She invites you to a private place (hers, hotel, whatever), and you go. Drink there is drugged. You pass out. Next morning cops arrest you for raping her. 9 months later, you're in prison, and get informed that you're now a father, but will never see your child, but you do get to pay for it for the next 18 years.	/r/MensRights	03/01/23 10:07 PM
5	(How) do men protect themselves against assault? You can still get an erection, and ejaculate while asleep or drugged.	/r/MensRights	03/01/23 05:15 PM
10	I have autism and I Hate r/Autism Father with an autistic son here. Most people don't really understand autism, or how it can impact someone's life. I get it. I get you. Advice, if I may be so bold: Take your time. You don't owe it to anybody to be beholden to their idea of 'standards'. When trying to find a girl/boyfriend, be upfront and honest about being autistic, and how it affects you. Sure, most people will nope out, but you didn't really want to be with them anyway. You're not an incel, you just haven't met your partner y…	/r/MensRights	26/12/22 07:08 AM
12	Thoughts? This is true. It also tells you a lot about the person using the word. I hear anyone using incel, patriarchy, etc as a form of argument, i'm out.	/r/AntiFeminists	24/12/22 04:20 PM
1	How would you have handled this rude store clerk? Tabletop RPG. I'm a nerd, and proud of it 😁	/r/MenSupportMen	07/12/22 01:57 AM
1	How would you have handled this rude store clerk? I have a few friends, 2 that might as well be family. I have a kid, an ex wife, and a handful of failed attempts at finding a partner. Social life currently consists of work, work, more work, sleep, and a dnd game I host 1 night a week. Now, I lay fault to most of that with my new job, so looking to change that to get a better work/life balance. You don't have to be confrontational to prove yourself. Especially with a phone store... They're everywhere. Just go to a different one. Drop a 1 star r…	/r/MenSupportMen	06/12/22 10:07 AM
2	How would you have handled this rude store clerk? I'd walk out of the store, and over to one that actually wants my business. I dislike confrontation when it can be avoided (for my own stress management). Drop a negative google review, likely.	/r/MenSupportMen	06/12/22 01:16 AM
5	I'm sorry, but the idea that men's rights and feminism can "unite" is an absurdity. The solution lies elsewhere. Easy, tiger. I know. I was responding to op, and his idea of 'loveism' or whatever he called it, which was another name for egalitarian. Hence my post saying it doesn't need another name. My head isn't up my ass, and my eyes are open, thank your for your concern.	/r/MensRights	31/10/22 06:58 AM
31	I'm sorry, but the idea that men's rights and feminism can "unite" is an absurdity. The solution lies elsewhere. We don't need a new name for egalitarian. We need feminists to just realise that they are not an egalitarian movement. We don't need women's rights, men's rights, trans rights.... We need human rights. Strike gender from laws, period.	/r/MensRights	30/10/22 01:36 PM
4	Georgia men come to pick up their daughter from school, realize it's the same girl: report Fox news, reported by tiktok, and written by a 7 year old. 🙄	/r/MensRights	23/10/22 03:32 PM
15	Georgia men come to pick up their daughter from school, realize it's the same girl: report The whole thing was a literary travesty.	/r/MensRights	23/10/22 03:30 PM
4	Help I think my mum is a feminist There's also saying "Mom, I love you. The actual data shows domestic violence isn't a gender issue. I don't want to argue though, so can we agree to disagree?" If it sparks discussion, that's a good thing. Show your sources if she asks (plenty around this sub, or a quick google), otherwise just avoid the topic.	/r/MensRights	17/10/22 01:41 PM
4	Girlfriend beating her boyfriend because he talked to another girl. Where's here?	/r/AntiFeminists	09/07/22 01:25 PM
5	I don’t understand why sexual assault cannot be gender-inclusive these days, why is it still seen as a women’s problem? Honestly, I don't care if a disproportionate number of one gender has a problem over the other. If it's possible for both (all) genders to perpetrate, or be a victim of a crime, said crime should not be gendered at all. Anyone can experience sexual assault, rape, abuse, etc. I can't think of ANY law that should be gender exclusive. Same with consequences for breaking said laws.	/r/MensRights	19/06/22 01:44 PM
23	Over 20 million falsely accused Whatever happened to innocent until proven guilty? 😓	/r/MensRights	29/05/22 04:46 AM
-1	Spanish parliament approves ‘only yes means yes’ consent bill, which means women can now falsely accuse men of sexual assault without needing to provide evidence The concern is that they're removing the need for evidence. Girl says yes, you have a great night, next day she regrets it, rescinds her yes and now he's in jail. Literally gives every woman the legal authority to claim rape or attempted rape and all due process is thrown out the window. Rape is serious, and should be treated as such. Rape allegations to destroy people is despicable thing. Where is the balance? What's the better option? Questions nobody's really asking because feminists #believe…	/r/MensRights	29/05/22 04:07 AM
2	Banned for asking “What is a woman? 🤦🏻‍♂️ We need more women like you. I'm glad you said birth a child and not raise one, it really does take both sides to do it right and I'm a single father with custody. Feminine energy is as difficult to define as masculine, but you know it when you see it.	/r/AntiFeminists	26/05/22 12:45 PM
3	Banned for asking “What is a woman? 🤦🏻‍♂️ Alternatively, the biological ability to give birth to children.	/r/AntiFeminists	26/05/22 12:38 PM
3	Poll: what's with women wanting equality but expect the man to pay for the first date Treat your date like you would your best friend. You invite her out, you pay. She invites you out, she pays. If income divide is large split by percentage, or do home cooked stuff... Point in if you can communicate past this 'who pays' hurdle you're doing great. For us guys the most important thing a girl can do is offer or make the effort. The first date is the point at which this girl is going to be the most polite... If she's rude now it's only going to get worse later.	/r/AntiFeminists	14/05/22 01:53 AM
3	SPOILERS Top Gun sequel climaxes with a WOMAN proving she's better than all the men. Wooh. Yet another movie bends to being a feminist appeaser. Equal yes, but also different. It's important to embrace our differences instead of pigeonholing everyone into the same mould. It's better to be different.	/r/MensRights	12/05/22 11:29 PM
2	Why is it accepted that only men are disposable in the form of conscription? Thanks for a well reasoned argument. I tried looking up historical reasons but was curious as to why everything was only talking as far back as ww1. This makes sense, thanks.	/r/MensRights	05/05/22 11:21 PM
0	Why is it accepted that only men are disposable in the form of conscription? So, if my observations are all wrong, why were primarily men conscripted, and not women? I'm looking for any legitimate information that shows my observations to be incorrect here. I'm actively asking for better info. Telling me I'm wrong is part of it, but give me something other than just that. Give me historical context, something, anything to work with. I'm trying to learn here.	/r/MensRights	04/05/22 10:33 PM
0	Why is it accepted that only men are disposable in the form of conscription? I'm happy to be proven wrong. Where was I incorrect? What is the actual reason?	/r/MensRights	04/05/22 04:04 PM
-4	Why is it accepted that only men are disposable in the form of conscription? I'm always happy to be proven wrong so I can learn and adopt a better position. Within a historical context, why was it mostly males sent to fight in most cultures? Let's limit the discussion to pre agriculture civilization. If I'm wrong about preserving the ability to repopulate, then why weren't women sent out more often? Back then they had zero clue about genetics or genetic diversity... That wasn't even a concept until Darwin as I understand it. Or is there some other reason that men are alw…	/r/MensRights	04/05/22 03:36 PM
-8	Why is it accepted that only men are disposable in the form of conscription? Edit: So I'm being down voted to hell, and in some ways I get it. If my observations are wrong, if my opinion is wrong... Please tell me what's correct or provide information to go on. Simply downvoning, claiming pseudo science, and the like doesn't help me learn or improve my outlook on this one particular issue. I'd actively love to be taught here. I'm leaving my original comment up in the hopes of meaningful and informative information, but fear it'll just get down voted to oblivion. Such is …	/r/MensRights	04/05/22 01:06 PM
1	My girlfriend is trying to get me to get a vasectomy I got mine at 24 after having 1 kid. 1 was enough for me and the wife (divorced 12ish yrs later) didn't want more either. She had medical complications and I didn't mind, and never regretted it. For you though... Don't. If you want a kid or two, do not do it. It might be reversible later, might not. Never allow someone to pressure you into it. If she presses it, press her right back about getting her tubes tied.	/r/MensRights	03/05/22 10:07 PM
2	My girlfriend is trying to get me to get a vasectomy I got mine at 24, no regrets, 1 kid.	/r/MensRights	03/05/22 10:04 PM
3	“Sex for money is coercion.” Yes it's easy to find, which is why I marvel at the success of OF. Why are so many people paying for something they can see for free? I think it's because OF has a degree of interactivity, and a lot of guys are desperate for human contact and the illusion of a relationship. On the other hand, putting a pay wall online is about the best way to ensure age of consent. Yes, kids can steal payment methods, but determined kids have been subverting age restrictions since forever. I'd rather a kid see p…	/r/MensRights	23/04/22 05:30 PM
3	Did you know that someone created a sub that hates, on this sub? 😂 I'm at the point where I want the government to strike any and all mention of gender from everything legal. Family court isn't mom vs dad, it's parent a vs b. Homosexual couples can get married, adopt, divorce and have 100% the same issues as hetero, and once you add in language accepting the dender fluid spectrum it just gets rediculous. Strike it all. I don't want to be known as husband, father, man of the house, etc when it comes to legal proceedings, rather the single parent with current cus…	/r/MensRights	08/04/22 05:38 PM
3	Did you know that someone created a sub that hates, on this sub? 😂 Sad part is that those men that say it's a compliment are just incredibly desperate for human contact. Imagine being denied the touch of another for so long that you rationalize molestation into being a compliment. Take one of those guys, put them in a good relationship and see how their opinion of being groped by a random changes. Sure some would still be ok with it, but then the same is true of the other gender(s) as well. Guess it's a human issue, more than a mens issue.	/r/MensRights	08/04/22 05:29 PM
1	What is your opinion on the new Oklahoma abortion law. On your last point, I can only agree if we're considering atheists that we're always atheist. Those that have deconverted though have had to think about it a lot. I know I did.	/r/MensRights	07/04/22 06:02 PM
2	Since 4 November 2019 feminists can no longer deny that mainstream feminism advocates for violence against men. These women are feminists invited to speak at a feminist conference and invited to appear on national television in Australia as leading feminists. Well, insane laws require insane responses. Literally no male should choose to live in a place where any female can have him arrested on zero grounds for a sexual assault charge that he must disprove. The law is asinine, so my response, as unrealistic as it is is literally the only way to protect yourself from potential legal repercussions. Did you read what those laws state? Women there can withdraw consent at any point without informing a male partner. It is up to him to determine if she is st…	/r/MensRights	08/01/22 08:04 AM
11	Since 4 November 2019 feminists can no longer deny that mainstream feminism advocates for violence against men. These women are feminists invited to speak at a feminist conference and invited to appear on national television in Australia as leading feminists. What. The. Hell. Wow, that's insane. If that ever becomes a law around here every woman is basically forced to chant 'I'm consenting' while engaging in a sexual act with a male. Note the laws don't apply to f/f relations. Guys would basically have to record every sex act for proof of consent being given so that decades later they can't be accused of rape. I hope every guy in those states ropert their girlfriends for rape every time their privates are touched without consent. Every time. Flood th…	/r/MensRights	07/01/22 12:53 AM
1	What do you think That's great! Keep the communication open and honest. I'm rooting for you! And yeah, my case is an outlier in these things but I figure some guys need to hear that things can end in a healthy way and divorce doesn't need to be a bad thing. My ex and I joked about throwing each other divorce parties. We started as friends, and ended friendly 15 years later.	/r/MensRights	04/01/22 04:26 PM
3	What do you think Depends on what country, laws, etc. I had a successful divorce here in Canada that was amicable. I'm in a very distinct small minority though. Have a separation agreement written, signed and notarized. Spell out EXACTLY how you're handling child care splits, financial aid, etc. Be detailed. The court ideally should be looking out for the best interest of the child, and your separation agreement should be reflective of that. This process is a lot harder if lawyers are involved, but this is what m…	/r/MensRights	04/01/22 06:04 AM
14	Men can also be victims of sexual Harassment, Assault and groping Report to the school in writing. Verbal complaints of harassment can be hand-waived away, but written ones need to be addressed. Whe writing the complaint be specific, make it a report of sexual harassment, name the people, times, places, and acts. State at the bottom that you expect action to be taken within 48 hours of the written statement. If zero action is done, feel free to forward this to local police. Keep written records of everything.	/r/MensRights	01/01/22 05:46 PM
2	Say it with me: kids! Can’t! Consent! So by your own words if I wrap my hand around your throat, tell you that if you make a sound I'll murder you, then proceed to rape you, if you don't say no or struggle you gave me willing consent. Rape victims rarely struggle or say no. There are a bajillion reasons why. Threat of death, threat of harm, threat of social repercussions, abuse of power, etc etc etc. Hell, just go watch Law&Order SVU and maybe you'll learn something.	/r/MensRights	20/12/21 04:45 PM
3	Say it with me: kids! Can’t! Consent! So my friend wasn't raped as a child because he got hard? Girls aren't raped because they don't say no? Fuck off and go learn what it means to be raped by actual rape victims. Talk to them, learn their circumstances. I don't just mean female rape victims either, male ones too.	/r/MensRights	20/12/21 04:33 PM
1	Say it with me: kids! Can’t! Consent! Yeah... He really did and its triggering af. I'm male and this guy has me seething. Also, thanks for being awesome 👊	/r/MensRights	20/12/21 04:21 PM
1	Say it with me: kids! Can’t! Consent! Age of consent (AoC) in Canada is technically 12, assuming there's a difference in ago of 2 years. AoC at 14 allows a 5 year age gap. After that legal AoC is 16, the above are allowed ONLY IF: the older person is not in a position of authority or trust and there is no exploitation or dependency. Source: https://www.rcmp-grc.gc.ca/en/brochure-respect-sexual-consent So no... Adults having sex with children is not ok if the child doesn't say no. Your last paragraph is entirely triggering. Most rape…	/r/MensRights	20/12/21 04:18 PM
10	Should a woman lying to a man about being on birth control be considered rape/entrapment? Yeah no. I hate it. I'm of the rather novel idea that courts shouldn't be able to see or talk about gender, race or role, especially in family court. Parent A and parent B are sufficient labels to determine legalities.	/r/MensRights	18/10/21 04:54 PM
2	Should a woman lying to a man about being on birth control be considered rape/entrapment? I had 2 days of bed rest after, then I could walk around slowly for about 20 minutes or so before things got painful. Luckily I had a wheelchair at work I could zoom around in for a few days lol. All I know from research before I went in was to take it easy and excessive movement was a bad idea.	/r/MensRights	18/10/21 04:52 PM
3	Should a woman lying to a man about being on birth control be considered rape/entrapment? It's breach of consent. Doesn't matter what you consented to, having someone violate that feels really awful, and in many cases it can be illegal. I agree that rape should be the wrong term though. Rape (my opinion) is forcing intercourse on a non-consenting person (note the lack of gender labels!), which isn't a breach of consent, it's a disregard of it. The thing with consent is that it can be removed at any time, which muddies the waters a bit, especially when one person tries to remove conse…	/r/MensRights	18/10/21 01:44 PM
18	Should a woman lying to a man about being on birth control be considered rape/entrapment? But is the woman charged with rape if she's the one who put the hole there?	/r/MensRights	18/10/21 01:34 PM
6	Should a woman lying to a man about being on birth control be considered rape/entrapment? In the end, it's an operation where you walk in, and are able to walk back out an hour or less later (mine was 30 minutes). Couple pieces of advice: shave yourself before going in... Nurse held up a disposable single blade Bic, and the urologist said "the shave is good" to my great relief. Secondly, take 4-5 days after to recover. Yes, you can walk around, no you won't be in much discomfort, but you walk too fast/far/long it starts aching hard, and that's when infections etc can happen. Take it …	/r/MensRights	18/10/21 01:27 PM