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| 2 | If you struggle with dating, you are BELOW averageNah, they could just not get out much, or they could be in a bad area demographics wise. A handsome black doctor moves to a small town, where most of the attractive women are locked up by age 24, and many their parents would disown them for dating dating a black man, and the town has more men then women anyways because of the mixture of industries. It wouldn't be a surprise if mr doctor isn't doing well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVI find the manopshere obsession with height bizarre. Is it that big of deal? I'm 6ft and I've never felt like I had the cheat codes to dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests?Dude I wear short satin gowns with spaghetti straps and tiny panties daily and I live alone. That's not a "sexy dress" that we're talking about when it comes to going out to the club with girlfriends and you know it, but keep playing dumb to try a prove a point. Fashion is a hobby. There are a few women who obviously seek attention, but even those women don’t want attention from men, maybe a specific man or a specific type of men. A club isn't a fashion show. If you're going to club(which is mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests?Just because a woman dresses sexy doesn’t automatically mean she is vying for the attention of men. No, but it usually does. Enough for some men to feel uncomfortable with her doing it. Why not trust that your partner will not be flirtatious or act inappropriately with men Despite what she’s wearing? Why would I trust someone doing untrustworthy behavior? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 12:52 AM |
| -2 | Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests?Women wear tight loungewear type dresses around the house all the time. Women don't wear what you'd call a "sexy dress" around the house all the time. Nice bait and switch going from sexy dress to tight loungewear. Same thing goes for heels. Women wear heels around the house? What’s wrong with a woman feeling sexy and confident about herself? Nothing. But dressing a certain way in public could imply you're looking for male attention in a way that your partner may not be comfortable with. I perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests?Sweatpants are comfortables, yoga pants are comfortable, I don't think a tight dress and heels are particularly comfortable. I don't know many girls who wear them around them house on a lazy Sunday. Sexy dress, implies a dress that makes you seem sexually attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:50 PM |
| -1 | Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests?In your example, that’s fair because hinge is an app meant to facilitate communication between people who are single or are in open/polyamorous relationships. And dressing sexy is typically done to attract male attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:39 PM |
| 7 | Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests?I mean the expectations you have for someone when they're single is different the expectations when they're in a relationship. Just because I meet my girlfriend on hinge, doesn't mean I have to be ok with her having hinge after I left the relationship. In fact the very fact he was attracted her by the dress is exactly why he doesn't want her wearing it, it attracts attention from single men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:05 PM |
| 1 | “Go to Asia” is imprecise advice at bestIs that true? I can't imagine it being easier than the west. I slept with multiple girls in one night off tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 04:03 PM |
| 1 | “Go to Asia” is imprecise advice at bestI'm a black American and going to any country rapidly increases my success. Even rich cities Paris or Tokyo are like fish in a barrel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | “Go to Asia” is imprecise advice at best99% of the women there would be extremely reluctant to date us. lmao you got to be kidding me. 99 percent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 03:58 PM |
| 2 | “Go to Asia” is imprecise advice at bestYou know blacks guys aren't actually at the bottom, by how many insecure white guys you see posting stuff like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | “Go to Asia” is imprecise advice at bestRich black guys can only date single moms? What planet are you from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 03:55 PM |
| 0 | I think it’s painfully obvious that most women would rather be in a relationship with men that aren’t valued for their attractiveness.To be valued for your looks (to the point where you're turning heads when you walk into a room) as a man, you pretty much have to be model hot. disagree with this, im definitely not model hot, have been approached for my looks I think it has to do more with being that girls type and being dressed well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 07:25 PM |
| 0 | I think it’s painfully obvious that most women would rather be in a relationship with men that aren’t valued for their attractiveness.I'm with the girl I'm with because her positive quality,not her ability to deal with my negative qualities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 07:21 PM |
| 0 | I think it’s painfully obvious that most women would rather be in a relationship with men that aren’t valued for their attractiveness.So you're with any guy who would be loyal? lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 06:28 PM |
| 10 | I think it’s painfully obvious that most women would rather be in a relationship with men that aren’t valued for their attractiveness.It's not close enough to be the standard, I do photography and most couples I photograph are of similar levels of attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 06:27 PM |
| 23 | I think it’s painfully obvious that most women would rather be in a relationship with men that aren’t valued for their attractiveness.I'm sorry but this is just nonsense. There would be nothing more depressing than hearing a girl is with me because she thinks I'm too ugly to cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Men are far more obsessed with height than women arewhat do you think the real problem is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 10:07 PM |
| 14 | Men are far more obsessed with height than women areIf you're 6'5, white(or black even), and can't get tons of attention from women you have serious personality issue. Accept it and work on it. I'm guessing you have some form of anxiety or depression, and you should probably see someone. If you've tried and failed for 10 years you need help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Do you know anyone who is in a one-way open relationship?In truth I think there's alot more women than we realize that wouldn't mind if their bf fucked around on a trip as long as he used a condom and her friend didn't figure out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Gen Z dating habitsHe didn't say they made it worse, he said that they had it easier and don't realize it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Gen Z dating habitsConsider a large portion of the US population is obese or overweight, I don't know flexible. When I was single most of the women on the dating app were obese or fat. Most of the women in the city weren't, but the non fat ones were almost always paired up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 05:10 PM |
| 0 | I don't think a lot of TRP gurus are really on the side of the average guyMyron is to the point of fame he could get plenty of attractive women if he wants to. He succeeded in faking until you make it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 05:05 PM |
| 8 | I don't think a lot of TRP gurus are really on the side of the average guyThey absolutely give out advice that discourages men from settling down into any sort of real relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Do the men in here that struggle to get laid not have any women in there social circles?Online dating https://news.stanford.edu/2019/08/21/online-dating-popular-way-u-s-couples-meet/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 09:16 PM |
| 10 | Do the men in here that struggle to get laid not have any women in there social circles?That's not true at all in the modern age based on surveys of how couples met | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | The rise of Red Pill ideology in younger generations.It's a result on social status inequality that's brought on by the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | The rise of Red Pill ideology in younger generations.Disagree. There is alot of resentment in cope within the red pill community, but it's not what you're saying. PUA is marketing and sales applied to dating. It's treating social skills like any other skills. Like all marketing, it's a bit dehumanizing and manipulative. It can also be hard to say when exactly it's working. But what's definitely sure is that it does work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manI think the couple met in Texas, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | How are bigger women improving their dating game if even?yup, the germanic phenotype is thicker than the latin one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 01:10 PM |
| 3 | How are bigger women improving their dating game if even?I don't think you've spent much time in Europe, the stereotypical Spaniard/French/Italian girl is a skinny brunette | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 09:14 AM |
| 2 | How are bigger women improving their dating game if even?Is 5'9 really that much of a handicap? I'd much rather be 5'9 than fat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 09:11 AM |
| 3 | How are bigger women improving their dating game if even?What? Italy and Portugal have a lower obesity rate than Germany | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manNYC is the easiest in the US for men by far. Yes location is huge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manI'm very strict on weight in a women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manWhere do you meet so many women that you are having sex with 4 new women in 1 week? That was during a vacation in France. Not typical. I found them via online dating. I'm decent in the looks department, but I think being an African American in France is a bit of a halo also. Parisian attitudes for sex are quite casual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 07:12 PM |
| 6 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manA lot of men on the forum of have a very reductive view. I think that's a product of being very online/STEM focused, as those fields reward those who think think in very deterministic terms. Young men also have it very rough in that alot girls have preference for older guys, so competition for girls their age is very fierce. The girls I'm seeing just turned 21, and her dating app filter was for guys 25 to 33(im 28). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 06:30 PM |
| 8 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manNot all women reward bravado behavior. You're basing your world view on a YouTube video, which might not even be real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 06:16 PM |
| 18 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manLook my dude, I've been with around 50 women. None of them overweight. I used to be terrible with them. I only had sex with one women in college. Now, I'm 28 and I've had sex with 4 women in a week a few months ago. I realize this more this most because I'm a very unusual case. I'm a black guy, who doesn't fit any of the sterotypes Americans have of black culture. I'm very polarizing to girls. Alot of girls don't care for me. Some girls are into me but I have to work for it with good game. And s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 06:04 PM |
| -1 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manWomen are into all kinds of men, their preferences both for looks and behavior vary widely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | casual sex isn't as fun as I thoughthe's acting like he's an expert after he's fucked 4 girls, it's comical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Passport Bros. Discuss.I really don't. Even for casual sex, women are attracted to social status. A white American might have high social status in their eye. Plenty of women fuck rich celebrities even though they'll never get a dime for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 03:05 AM |
| 3 | casual sex isn't as fun as I thoughtIs that supposed to make you a sex god or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 02:42 AM |
| 7 | casual sex isn't as fun as I thoughtI agree it's overrated, but you're at 4 women, you're probably not even good in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Passport Bros. Discuss.So girls in France can't want sex for fun, but girls in SE Asia can't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Passport Bros. Discuss.Because your leveraging your socioeconomic status? That's not BB. BB is exchanging material commitment for romantic companionship you'd be otherwise unable to get. These girls are hoping that one day you might marry them or even support them via your US dollar? So all the girls I hooked up with in France on tinder were hoping to get to America? lmao not that many foreigners want to move to the us. alot just like the novelty of a foreign guy, especially since American culture is everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 01:05 AM |
| 5 | Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girlsBlack American men should go to Europe, it's like going from Very Very Hard mode, to Drop Dead Easy mode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girlsIt's alot more random that IMO. I've been pedestalized by beauty girls and ghosted by meh ones. Girls taste vary widely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 12:30 AM |
| 4 | Passport Bros. Discuss.Why? If I hookup with a French girls who on vacation in the US, how was her behavior predatory? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Passport Bros. Discuss.Do you assume foreigners in America are rejects from their own country? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Passport Bros. Discuss.How is it BB if you can have casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 12:21 AM |
| 10 | Passport Bros. Discuss.American women are some of the least attractive in the world due to their high obesity rate. The narcissism in modern American/Anglo culture makes dating them even worse. And the wealth in this country means you'll have a ton of impressive guys to compete with. That being said, America's a big country and there's many many quality women to be found here, but for an American man he could almost certainly get someone way better if he left, even to another wealthier country in Western Europe or Asi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of datingNothing is more loud and inconsiderate than a British stag party in Spain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of datingIs there something wrong with not wanting to date fatties? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 08:06 AM |
| 1 | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?Uhh most guys are picked...do you think most people spend their life as single? It's possible but it's rare. Usually if a guy is getting an attractive girl his personal charisma is in the very minority of men Not rare in my experience. Kind of right. But that doesn't mean most men should cold approach I don't like cold approach because im good looking enough to just get girls on the app, men that aren't should feel free to try other methods | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 08:04 AM |
| 1 | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?1) Most women aren't that bitchy when approached, and men use a small minority that are to excuse their cowdarice. 2) It's very possible for an average looking guy to get a pretty attractive girl with enough personal charisma 3) Vast majority of guys on here(and women also) massive underestimate the amount of variety in female preferences. 4) A large portion of the dating problem in America is due to the insane obesity problem. 5) Casual sex is massively overrated. Good to have a bit of it in yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 04:26 AM |
| 3 | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?I doubt this. If I hook up with 10 girls, maybe one of them would be down to raw dog, and those are usually the younger ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 04:21 AM |
| 2 | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?Agreed, compatibility is taught, but if you only get date with losers, you have big problems, especially in an age of dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 04:20 AM |
| 0 | Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of datingWhat projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of datingAnd an American or Canadian moving somewhere like Spain, France, or Germany would probably be even more fucked than staying in his native country in terms of dating. This is complete nonsense. In any population there's there's going to a group of girls that like Anglo culture, and they'll be all over a moderately attractive American/Canadian, especially if they can speak the language. Not to mention Spain, France, and Germany have much lower obesity rates and thus way more attractive girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 04:12 AM |
| 2 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?they're plenty of women dating abusive men, there's a reason battered women shelters are a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 04:35 PM |
| 2 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?They might get laid, but if they are assholes, they don't get to keep the girl. lmao. yeah girls would never date assholes. that why girls never get abused or cheated on by their spouse. what planet are you from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 04:29 PM |
| 2 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?Sure it is, and I'm the sure the cobalt in the battery in your phone totally isn't taking from the DRC where they have children working in mines exposed to deadly toxic substances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 03:40 AM |
| 6 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?There's a high rate of drug abuse among lawyers and investment bankers, clearly we should ban that. How can you possibly decouple rape from the porn industry? Even if we’re not talking about red herrings like human trafficking (which does exist): There's rape in Hollywood clearly we should never watch a movie again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 01:03 AM |
| 3 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?Women have closets full of clothes made in asian sweatshops, and you're telling me they're outraged because guys watch some porn(that they're not even paying for most of the time) that might have had an exploited girl? lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 12:46 AM |
| 0 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?This is like saying rape isn’t bad because murder and/or dismemberment exists Comparing the porn industry to rape or torture is precisely the type of hysterical nonsense that I'm talking about. On the other hand, that knowledge doesn’t diminish the actual sexual horrors of the porn industry. It isn’t a zero sum game, horror can be spread around I don't think girls would be in favor of the porn industry if it was ethnical. I think outside of few feminist activist, complaints about the porn indust… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 12:45 AM |
| -1 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?Probably because of the horrific stories porn actresses (and actors) have after leaving the industry They are alot worse industries out there. I just feel like it's a projection of alot of insecurities, and blaming it all on porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 12:13 AM |
| 10 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?lol whatever, im good looking and it's comical how little I have to try compared to alot of the guys on here. I know guys who have good social life, jobs, and personality, and occasionally they ok with one girl who's really into them, but on the whole they're nothing compared to guys with looks, who can just open up and dating app and have a new cute girl like nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?What does this even mean? A google engineer is going to code better if he's getting laid more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 10:57 PM |
| 11 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?Looks triumph most of that tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 10:57 PM |
| 9 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?I'll never get women's obsession with porn. They seem super fixated on it, as if the world would much different without pornhub and I just don't get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women.You cannot determine a stat like average sexual partner from sampling, due to sexual partners being a fat tailed variable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Your Personality is NOT the problem women here are making it to beYou're confusing being an enjoyable person to talk to be sexually attractive personality. It's understandable because most men look at them as the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I'm super envious of attractive, healthy women. How common and justified do you think this feeling is?Why do you care what people label you. My friends compliment each other, not everyday like girls do, because if we did it'd lose meaning, but definitely whenever we do something worthy of praise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 05:13 AM |
| 2 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesI think mixing can produce problems as well. Particularly when one gender in a racial group has an easier time dating interracially than the other. Take Asians for example. The women, for whatever reason, are by far the least likely to be fat in the United States. Because BMI is one of the, if not the most important part of female attractiveness, they tend to be able to date out of their group quite easily. Asian men on the other hand, have a harder time. Be skinner isn't really as big a determi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 04:58 PM |
| 2 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesIf income inequality is the cause of sexual inequality why do Asians and Indians report higher rates of celibacy than Blacks and Whites, while having higher incomes? My guess, is that the real reason you've seen a raise in sexlessness is 1) America's very car dependent culture, which is a natural social isolator 2) The rise of addictive electronic activity, from video games, to social media, to porn. 3) America's very multicultural society which imparts different social norms on the different pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t more men get sex bot?Because despite what most people think, guys don't really desire sex for physical purposes. It's validation that comes sex that they crave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Dating women as a woman has made me more sympathetic to the dating woes of men.I think a lesbian bar would be quickly swarmed by dudes thinking they could turn one straight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 12:20 AM |
| 6 | Any study that shows that money doesn't affect dating like women claim nowadays?Can a 50 year old man get a 25 year old woman if he makes 300k a year? Of course, and he will have a huge selection to choose from. This is complete nonsense, there's plenty of 25 year guys working at tech companies making 300k who struggle to find gfs, or at least don't feel like they have a huge selection to choose from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | How could OLD be improved?Actually limit the amount of likes guy can give out, they won't do that because they like the pay for version. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?Going to the gym is not the only way to exercise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Most of the men/boys on this sub need to start lifting and eating healthy. That alone will improve their health tremendously & in the long run help them attract women.I think the common expectation is BMI below 25, no kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 06:53 PM |
| 1 | The idea that education/profession puts you in the "beta" category is hilariousCute, plain, educated Amy with a master's degree isn't looking for retarded Chad who works at McDonalds. She's also not looking for a wealthy 5'4 doctor or engineer. She's looking for a regular guy or slightly above average guy who maybe also has a master's degree. Simply being a women who's not overweight in the US gives you tremendous leverage in the dating market. That being said, they're many girls with master degrees who don't really care about career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 06:07 AM |
| 1 | How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women ?You want to join clubs you have an actual passion for. All human organizations have a hierarchy, you'll get most of the social benefits the higher you are on the hierarchy. But getting to the top of the hierarchy takes effort, it takes time, and if you're not into what you're doing, you'll quit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?Those studies are complete nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?For young white/black men the average is really closer to 5'10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 07:08 PM |
| 4 | Education is the best dating strategyNo one wants to admit it but our social contract is such that if you’re “made”, women will be throwing themselves at you. You‘ll make doctors, lawyers, and other engineers look poor when you’re in a FAANG company. This was always in the back of our minds, at least those of us who got no play in college (me). Being a FAANG engineer is a terrible way to get women. It's laughable that consider it better than being a doctor and lawyer, and I say this as an engineer who works at NASA. First of all, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 07:04 PM |
| 7 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in America.Found the fat girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Has the pandemic changed everything for dating where you live?It's a measure of how well you did on a test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 05:18 AM |
| 2 | TV presenter Bill Maher discusses incels, virtual reality and the decline of people's social skillsThe vast majority of young single women in a big city have tried some dating app. Tinder has gotten a bad name due its association as a hookup app, but they just flee to Bumble or Hinge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 11:49 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.was confused by these traits because they seem to contradict every aspect that a woman would find attractive in a man(according to redpill that is). You're confused because the red pill is bullshit. Women are attracted to a wide variety of traits, both physical and behavioral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 04:06 PM |
| 1 | 80/20 rule and male attractivenessBro there's no equation. I'm a black guy, some girls go crazy over me. Some girls won't touch me. Women taste vary widely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Do men make terrible friends? Why is there a dependency on women fixing their loneliness?If this were the case, why do men get depressed for months sometimes when their girlfriend/wife break ups with them or passes away. Clearly if it were just sex, the only thing required to get over a breakup would be a trip down to the local brothel. Obviously that doesn't work for most heartbroken men. I've had breakups, where if you gave me the choice of having 5 victoria models as casual partner of having my gf back, I'd prefer my gf. You seem unusually emotionally stunted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Do men make terrible friends? Why is there a dependency on women fixing their loneliness?Men have a built in need for emotional intimacy from women. That fact that they can't get this from other men doesn't mean anything other than they're not attracted to men. Attraction isn't just physical, it's behavior, and emotional. Women provide certain emotional intimacy men are not capable of getting from men, regardless of how good a friend they are. Women clearly feel the same way about men, so I'm not sure why you're acting like this is a male only phonema. They're plenty of women who ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 07:49 PM |
| 8 | What’s causing decline in male sexlessness of recent?Increased availability of online activity to satiate ones need for socialization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Do you find women on dating apps are markedly different in SMV, or are the women you meet on OLD basically the same women you meet IRL?Not really. I've meet plenty of extremely attractive girls online. Most attractve girls IRL are in realtionships. Most of the girls I date online are doctors, engineers, or other successful careers, but that makes sense as I myself have my shit together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Is there a "secret underworld" of sex going on all the time?An N count is 30 is completely normal for decently attractive social guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 03:53 AM |
| 4 | Is there a "secret underworld" of sex going on all the time?Most i know will engage in one or two encounters of casual sex in their 20s. Some will have 0. A rare few will have 5 or up. I'm so glad I was born good looking enough so I don't have to be this naive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do men in trades cheat more?Relying on self survey data to draw conclusions is beyond idiotic. This could easily be men in the trades are more willing to admit to cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 05:54 PM |
| 0 | Objectively attractive guys/girls, what are your experiences on apps?The OP identified her friend as an attractive white guy with a good job, which is presumably the demographic that has the easiest time with online dating. I posted to show that I'm the black version of her friend on paper dating mostly non-black women, I can do fine, even though being a minority dating outside of your race is suppose to be hard on a dating app. As for why I date mostly non-black women? 82 percent of black women in America are overweight or obese, which I find repulsive. When I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Objectively attractive guys/girls, what are your experiences on apps?I can show you proof if you want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 02:17 AM |
| 5 | Objectively attractive guys/girls, what are your experiences on apps?This is nonsense, I'm 6 foot and I do fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Objectively attractive guys/girls, what are your experiences on apps?Black Male, fairly prestigious job, went to a top university in engineering, 6 foot, 26. Large American city. I'm not great at judging male looks, but I've been called handsome by female strangers when I go out, and it's not uncommon for girls to open me on bumble by calling me handsome. Using mostly hinge and bumble, I get a few matches a day, especially if I'm swiping frequently. Usually I can set up 2-4 dates a week, I'm swiping and messaging alot. Anywhere from 25-75% of those dates will fla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Is the rise of women in education and socioeconomic status causing severe problems in the dating scene or are is the crisis over it exxagerated?If women made the same career choices as men there'd be little to no wage gap. But they don't. So there is a wage gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Is the rise of women in education and socioeconomic status causing severe problems in the dating scene or are is the crisis over it exxagerated?I mean it's a basic fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:13 AM |
| 0 | Is the rise of women in education and socioeconomic status causing severe problems in the dating scene or are is the crisis over it exxagerated?Keep dreaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 01:27 AM |
| -1 | Is the rise of women in education and socioeconomic status causing severe problems in the dating scene or are is the crisis over it exxagerated?1st link doesn't say that there's not wage gap, rather it explains the wage gap away with life choices. 2nd link is saying single childless women make more than men in their 20s, which may be true, but is also irrevelant. Men who make good money are less likely to be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 12:19 AM |
| 0 | Is the rise of women in education and socioeconomic status causing severe problems in the dating scene or are is the crisis over it exxagerated?These articles are dumb. There's still a wage gap between men and women's earning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 11:56 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone seen Sex/Life on Netflix? It seems to incorporate many issues discussed on PPD.Do their wives not worry about their husband leaving them? I just don't get how a capable man would put up with that treatment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Is the rise of women in education and socioeconomic status causing severe problems in the dating scene or are is the crisis over it exxagerated?Any women who's very attractive and can't get a man has insane standards, or some kind of severe mental illness. Anyone who know or has dated an attractive girl knows this. If I take an attractive girl out to a bar and go to the bathroom, some guy will be hitting on her by the time I get back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 09:01 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone seen Sex/Life on Netflix? It seems to incorporate many issues discussed on PPD.It's fun, but I find it unrealistic. I know it's based off a true story, but the husband is too good looking for it to be believable. He works 60hrs a week at a high power job and has the body of a male model? And he's the perfect dad. Please, no one has that much time. Dude honestly seemed kinda lame, was more interested in watching the game than his wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Is the rise of women in education and socioeconomic status causing severe problems in the dating scene or are is the crisis over it exxagerated?Yeah but having a decent job isn't enough. "Why Smart, Beautiful Women May Have A Harder Time Finding A Husband" is that title of the article. Funny enough, my mom works in the medical field and its hilarious watching her nurse friends. They get blackout drunk and cry about not finding any men. How physically attractive are they? What's their BMI? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 07:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.No, that's with every profession. Send me your pictures. You can even blur your face, if you're shy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.OkCupid is the trashiest of the trash, im talking about girls on bumble and hinge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 07:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.Send me these pictures via DM, alot of photographers blow at their job, even professionals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 06:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.Yes I said both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.I never said that, if fact, I specifically said You can't see personality through an app | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.Bad lighting Not filling the frame Poor quality camera Bad style Uninteresting and distracting background/environment No action(fine for 2 or so shots, but a bunch of headshots get redundant) Awkward posing Camera placement higher than the the subject, making them look shorter. Posing with taller people, making them look shorter. Not showing teeth and full body and any of the pictures, leads the girls to decide he has bad teeth or is overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.When did I say pictures express personality? I mean they can to a limited extent, but that's not what I mean by good pictures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 06:05 PM |
| 19 | Women can predict a man’s interest in short-term uncommitted relationships just by looking at his faceThis is dumb. The more attractive men, are more interested in flings because they could get them, duh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.It can be summed up in a bio just as much as it can be in a picture. It can't be summed up that well in a picture. Picture are for checking physical attractiveness and style. Dates are for personality. So good-looking people look good and its not the photo that makes the difference. Alrighty then. Glad we could clear that up. If by good looking people, you mean non fat, than sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 05:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.You've listed one, a mirror selfie. I assume that's bad because it's (1) usually in a bathroom (gross) and (2) it doesn't showcase his personality, friends, hobbies, lifestyle, etc. but is basically a mugshot. Is that about right? Not to mention the camera is usually low quality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.The bio is where you talk about yourself, which is your personality. Your personality if your behaviors, that can't be summed up in a bio. Taking a good photo doesn't mean that the person in it is going to look good either. For most young people that aren't overweight, yes it actually does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.There's bios for a reason. A bios isn't personality. Most people don't get photographers to take pics for their social media or dating profiles. Point is, taking a good photo doesn't mean taking a deceptive photo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.If women care more about photos then they do about men's personalities, that signals a problem in itself You can't see personality through an app Also, photos can be done in a way that completely misrepresents how a person looks, so men not taking deceptively attractive photos (like women do) is not the problem. That's not how most photographers take photos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.You want proof of what, my matches? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.Yeah, I don't understand it, I always like getting feedback. Necessary to get better. Speaking of that, assuming you're female would you mind rating my profile via DM? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 04:25 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.A quality picture is actually a much better representation of how you actually look than a low quality picture. The human eye is just a really good camera, which is we need fancy lighting equipment to capture what it can see in natural lighting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.Well tinder and bumble have verification methods. A good photographer knows how to make a picture look candid, while being high quality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 04:04 PM |
| -4 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.Women put way more effort into their photos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 04:03 PM |
| -3 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.You're clearly physically below average. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 04:03 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.I'm not selling anything, it's unlikely anyone here lives close enough to me to get a shoot done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 03:53 PM |
| 0 | Is the rise of women in education and socioeconomic status causing severe problems in the dating scene or are is the crisis over it exxagerated?each kid costs about 300k to raise to HS I think. I bet that figure is way overestimated. How are parents spending 16k a year on their kids? Over 1000 a month? I find that hard to believe unless they're going to fancy private school. There's also economies of scale of having kids. 2 kids definitely don't cost 2600+ a month once they're out of daycare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 03:24 PM |
| 0 | Is the rise of women in education and socioeconomic status causing severe problems in the dating scene or are is the crisis over it exxagerated?If Stacy, means pretty girl, she can absolutely marry a guy who makes 200k+ (if that's what your idea of elite is) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 01:52 PM |
| 10 | Is the rise of women in education and socioeconomic status causing severe problems in the dating scene or are is the crisis over it exxagerated?It's massively over exaggerated. You think a cute medical student has a problem finding a smart guy to date her? Get real. Men still earn more than women. Most of the degrees they're getting aren't worth much. I got a BS in engineering and make more than my sisters who both have masters in socials sciences combined The problem if anything is that these careers are taking so much of their energy, they not staying in shape. A beautiful girl will never have trouble finding a guy with a decent job. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 01:48 PM |
| 1 | The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners.You're full of shit. Standards are higher but If you look like a model and have your shit together getting girls should be like shooting fish in a barrel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 05:28 AM |
| 4 | Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls?Which would you pick? I would pick a normal job. Not everything is about money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls?Went on a few dates with an only fans girls that was making 300k a year off it(I had seen proof). It's not digusting, so much as pathetic, they have to resort to selling pictures of their body to strangers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Ideal dating locationI don't understand how you could not like guys from houston. Houston is an insanely diverse city. There's not single archetypical guy from Houston, and alot of the people who live there aren't from there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Ideal dating locationThe south and most of the Midwest is for the birds and reserved for religious friendly people This is comically wrong, the most diverse city in the US is in the South(Houston), along with cities like Atlanta and Miama. Midwest has Chicago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Ideal dating locationI've lived there, I've never seen more bar fights in my life. I'm not aware of any huge cultural divisions where everyone's in groups that hate other groups and vice-versa. Australia is significantly more racist than America or Canada in my experience(I lived in all 3). Do you know anything about the aboriginals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 09:38 PM |
| -1 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?That doesn't mean the wage gap is false, it means the wage gap is caused by those things. The context of this discussion is women are less attracted to men because they are out earning their male counterparts, on average they're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Research shows people are truthful when self reporting past partner count and sexual historyNo they shouldn't. The distributions are different even if the means are the same. So sampling will reveal differences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Research shows people are truthful when self reporting past partner count and sexual historyThis seems to assume people can't lie consistently? Also, these samples sizes are much to small for fat tail disturbtions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Research shows people are truthful when self reporting past partner count and sexual historyIf men and women don't lie about n-count on surveys, why do men always report a higher n-count? Possibly because the samples sizes are not significant for a fat tail variable like n count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?I mean a women who's been married and hae kids is different from the vast majority of women we're talking about on this form. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 04:16 PM |
| -5 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?It’s both the fact that so many women are projected to outearn their male counterparts especially in my generation and the accessibility of Social Media. No they're not. The wage gap still favors men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?However, if I create a bunch of "how did we meet" categories, OLD might be at the top. This doesn't mean that it accounts for a majority of relationships. Majority of relationships were formed prior to online dating being a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 04:00 PM |
| 4 | Do people actually take Kevin Samuels seriously?Just because he's talking to the black community, does not mean he should not be taken seriously. You're correct the black community has certain gender dynamics that don't apply to other communities. Black women are way more likely to be overweight than black men. They're also more educated. This creates a weird dynamic of unattractive women that make decent money having trouble locking down a man who makes a similar amount of money, because they're relatively rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Is the growth of someone like Kevin Samuels indicative of the growth of TRP and its entry into the Mainstream?Do you really believe picking fruit is the only thing immigrants do? I live in a big city in Texas, and I see Mexicans doing plenty of construction, painting, roofing jobs were they're probably also competing with low income whites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 07:48 PM |
| 2 | A 50% Divorce Rate does not mean you have a 50% chance of divorceWHY don't they work out? Have you thought that maybe some people are not programmed to stay with one person for their entire life. Nothing just happens by chance. Things happen as a consequence of action. Therefore, by continually making good choices you are almost guaranteed to have success. It has almost nothing to do with luck, and everything to do with strategy. You can apply this philosophy to everything, relationships included. Yeah, that's just not how the way works, people are too comple… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 05:11 PM |
| 2 | A 50% Divorce Rate does not mean you have a 50% chance of divorceYou might also be confusing reddit garbage with original redpill ideas, which I'd advise you to do real research reading the actual books from established people on the subject. lmao no true red piller fallacy i love it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 05:08 PM |
| 11 | A 50% Divorce Rate does not mean you have a 50% chance of divorceWe do know... at least more now than ever. That's what the entire redpill has been disseminating for years now. The knowledge is out there, if you don't understand it that's on you. The redpill has never claimed there's a guaranteed way to keep a women's attraction through a marriage. In fact, according to red pill theory women find you less attracted the more committed you appear to them, which is why they say not to get married. Not saying they're right about that. Attraction is not opaque at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionThese problems are so vague.. Following attractive people on instagram is just standard for todays youth...hardly something to worry about. I understand women don't like porn but the anti porn movement just seems to be a silly mix of moral outrage and female insecurity. Anger is incredibly vague, but I guarantee men in the past probably had alot more anger problems then men of today | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 04:08 AM |
| 9 | A 50% Divorce Rate does not mean you have a 50% chance of divorceI agree that red piller massive overestimate the chance of divorce, but I think you're overestimating what vetting can do. People change. Maybe because we're just wired to get bored after being with the same person for a while. But the difference between a romantic relationship and a business relationship, is the motivations in a business relationship are more transparent. What makes you want to be with a business partner: They make you money. What makes you "want to be" with a spouse? We don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Young men and sexlessness: Why's this going on?How does this even happen? Are women just sharing the same guys? Or dating up in age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 06:49 PM |
| 10 | Young men and sexlessness: Why's this going on?That's a blog post with zero citations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 06:47 PM |
| 9 | Young men and sexlessness: Why's this going on?I don't think most women are ok being single, especially if they don't have kids. A woman can make her own money and get a sperm donor if she really wants kids. Raising a kid alone is much harder than raising a kid with a spouse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have a purely casual relationship with a hot high status man, or a loving faithful relationship with an average man, and why?In Europe women were actually more likely to start wars than men. https://qz.com/967895/throughout-history-women-rulers-were-more-likely-to-wage-war-than-men/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Steps with Online DatingNo, for anyone, I'm not denying there's such a thing as good text game, but there's a ton of information that's lost over text. Most communication is non-verbal, and things like voice tone, body language, and or subtleties that create charisma and connection are usually lost over text. But you're free to post some screenshots of these great conversations you're having to prove me wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Bloomberg - Fewer Young Men Are in the Labor Force. More Are Living at Home For 25- to 34-year-olds, the two trends add up to a failure to launch.There's plenty of modern day rebellion in countries that don't have those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Steps with Online Datingbut your ultimate weapon (personality + charisma These are massively overrated, plus good looking guys can have personality too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Steps with Online DatingConversation of a texting app can only be so good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 05:42 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All] Is Online Dating a Scam?Yeah I've suspected they've been doing something like this for a while. One of the reasons their so keen on keeping your notifications on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: top 20%Now control for college-education , and see those rates plummet further | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows!Birth rates are down in the east as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Study: Children of older fathers are less attractive. Maternal age has no effect on attractiveness.Most social sciences studies are like this, complete garbage methodlogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Study: Children of older fathers are less attractive. Maternal age has no effect on attractiveness.That's not true, what about people who had kids many years apart? Younger siblings can be a control group | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Most moderm women seem to think that the bar is set extremely low for men. What do you guys think?The women saying this are mostly unattractive. I never see young attractive women complaining about a lack of quality men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Most moderm women seem to think that the bar is set extremely low for men. What do you guys think?No one expects gen z men to know how to fix a car or work on a roof anymore, but women are still expected to not only know the "woman things," but frequently perform them. Completely depends on the culture of the area, many parts of the country men are still expected to do the handiwork. A father spends the slightest effort or time on his kids and he's a great father, a woman does it and she's not good enough. Hell, men are literally praised for not being absent in their child's life. Father con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Most moderm women seem to think that the bar is set extremely low for men. What do you guys think?This just isn't true bro. I know dudes with almost none of these that get women. I think most girls just need a personality she likes and not to be broke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Chase Excellence Not WomenDo girls start chasing you once you reach a certain level of success? No. Unless you mean become famous. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Feels weird seeing friends getting houses and babiesWell I don't live in Europe. Sounds pretty terrible. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Just found condoms in my LTR purse. WE DON’T USE CONDOMS.So if she hands over her phone and you don't see any conversation about sex with some guy you know she's innocent? Or is she just smart enough not to leave a digital trail? | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Just found condoms in my LTR purse. WE DON’T USE CONDOMS.What do you hope to achieve here? The truth? You won't get it by asking her Revenge? Breaking up with her for vague I'm not feeling reason will hurt her ego way more than a loud confronting will. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Black American society and Red pill vs Blue pill thinking, advice on how to navigate.This has nothing to do with sexual strategy? | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 02:48 AM |
| 0 | Just found condoms in my LTR purse. WE DON’T USE CONDOMS.the fact that she anticipated me from taking the thing she bought me from her bag was very suspicious can someone translate this to English? | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 02:40 AM |
| 30 | Just found condoms in my LTR purse. WE DON’T USE CONDOMS.Don't do that. Just give a vague "I'm not feeling it anymore" answer and break up with her. It'll make her feel a lot more shitty. The note thing she'll just rationalize that you were an overcontrolling freak and she's better of without you. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Anybody else feel like they don’t need this community anymore?Exactly, spinning plates get old quickly. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Feels weird seeing friends getting houses and babiesLOL. Sure. I will tell that to my lawyer buddy who has transferred over $US1M to his ex. They're both University educated btw, and have jobs. I am sure he will take great comfort in this knowledge. What state is he in? | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Feels weird seeing friends getting houses and babiesIf you're a guy paying 40% of his gross to his ex-wife so she can bang other guys and teach his kids to hate him, you might wish you were dead. Alimony is exceeding rare nowadays, and entirely avoidable by not marrying a loser who doesn't work. Even child support isn't that bad with split custody. Red pill lawyer have no idea what they're talking about when it comes to "divorce rape" 99% of the time. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 12:43 AM |
| 2 | The technological threat to relationships won't be sexbots, but artificial intelligence companionsWe can already bang robots, buy a fleshlight and some VR googles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Feels weird seeing friends getting houses and babiesIf I said to you, "Hey, let's go skydiving tomorrow, and don't worry, the parachutes work 80% of the time." Would you go? No. But that's of course of a dumb analogy, because you don't die if you get divorced. And you get more of marriage than a cheap thrill. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Feels weird seeing friends getting houses and babiesHow many marriages between two never previously married college educated people over age 25 end in divorce? | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 11:18 PM |
| -1 | Would you agree that the BF vs hookup is a much more useful conceptualization than is alpha vs beta?This sort of lame black pill defeatism is very popular amongst men who spend too much time on the internet and not enough time in the real world. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 10:01 PM |
| 5 | Feels weird seeing friends getting houses and babiesyes, for someone who's college educated and never married before it's less than a 20 percent chance of getting divorced. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 05:43 AM |
| 5 | Feels weird seeing friends getting houses and babiesThis is truth, TRP massively overestimates the chances of getting divorced or ending up in a sexless marriage. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 04:44 AM |
| 2 | The root of all unattractiveness is neediness; the root of all attractiveness is non-neediness.Women are naturally non-needy because beautiful women achieve abundance in everyday life via existing. Uh, no. First of not all not all women are beautiful. And even beautiful women pair bond to men, making them needy of his attention commitment. Especially if she wants a family. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 01:26 PM |
| 3 | CMV: There's not much proof behind the "80/20" rule.And this is exactly what happened via clan warfare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 03:32 PM |
| 0 | CMV: There's not much proof behind the "80/20" rule.it will massively help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 03:29 PM |
| -1 | CMV: There's not much proof behind the "80/20" rule.Who told you they were monogamous? They did? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 02:08 AM |
| 0 | CMV: There's not much proof behind the "80/20" rule.This is delusional, if it were 99/1 how would there be so many guys in monogamous relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 01:49 AM |
| 2 | CMV: There's not much proof behind the "80/20" rule.As I said, most men make terrible profiles because they know nothing about photography. And not every woman uses dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 01:47 AM |
| 3 | CMV: There's not much proof behind the "80/20" rule.Bro have you seen tyrones going after overweight white Stacey's ? I'm black, not a Tyrone and I've never slept with an overweight woman in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 01:44 AM |
| 2 | CMV: There's not much proof behind the "80/20" rule.Well first off you have to prove that women take better photos. Women do take way better photos on average. Secondly, Christian Rudder took photos off of a social networking site to see if okcupid's users were uglier or took worse photos than just the random people who never online dated. Source? Fact is most men are terrible at taking photos period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 01:43 AM |
| 3 | CMV: There's not much proof behind the "80/20" rule.There's a library, that begs to differ. ? Does the 80/20 rule exist or not? It exist on OkCupid. 80%? Probably more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 01:41 AM |
| 5 | CMV: There's not much proof behind the "80/20" rule.Those studies are based on Y chromosome diversity, which massively decreased during periods of clan warfare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 01:39 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's not much proof behind the "80/20" rule.Well evolution is studied by scientists, and the 80/20 rule is studied by incels, so I don't think they're comparable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 01:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's not much proof behind the "80/20" rule.80 percent of girls want the top 20 percent of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 01:37 AM |
| 7 | 33 y/o dateless virgin seeking advice on talking to girls at clubs/barsJust a simple “You smell good what perfume you got on? Oh really? Cool, i’m cologne guy myself so take it from me that’s sexy. Speaking of sexy, what’s your name?”. It dont have to be word for word, just keep a smooth voice and talk to women like they’re not that pretty even if they’re gorgeous. I disagree, that's an advance move and a 33 year old virgin will probably end up sounding really creepy saying it. It implies you've been sniffing her without her knowing which is weird. Just say, "Hey I… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Pussy/sex is overrated...?Exactly, sex with random is more about validations and giving you an in to eventually establish a meaningful connection to someone. The post sex cuddling sleep with someone you care about is one of the best feelings in the world. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Squeezing the lower back during lifts?You need to strength your transverse abdominis and tighten those during the lift | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Anybody know what to expect with Military chicksThey get around alot. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 10:58 PM |
| 6 | My only red pill esque friend stole a grand and then sent me a Machiavelli quote/said it wasn’t personal; have know the guy for years and he is a sociopath, but the way he disregarded me over such little money is so depressing. How do you move on from someone you saw as a brother backstabbing you?bro if you're in jail you're not intelligent or driven | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 06:40 AM |
| 7 | CMW: Most men (especially those who struggle with dating) vastly underestimate the importance of style and aesthetics in luring in women to date or have sex with.It makes evolutionary sense because older men are more of a proven product. The advantage a 30 year old has over a 25 year old is he's survived for 5 more years. Is that a big deal in modern society? No. But in the environment we in evolved in that's surviving 5 more years of hunting, disease, and interpersonal violence all of which shows his genes are more of a proven product than the 25 year old. And because men can inseminate quite a few women in 5 years that's a significant increase in fitne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 03:26 AM |
| 4 | CMW: Most men (especially those who struggle with dating) vastly underestimate the importance of style and aesthetics in luring in women to date or have sex with.lol wut? That's not even close to being true, men have no menopause. The difference is that men can still father children relatively easily but the risk of genetic abnormalities goes up Not nearly as much as does with women. Not close. from early 20s to 40s your odds of you kid having autism as a father go from 1.5 to 1.58. for a mother your risk of your kid having downsyndrome goes from 1 in 1667 ti 1 in 100. and that's with a lot more miscarriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 03:04 AM |
| 27 | CMW: Most men (especially those who struggle with dating) vastly underestimate the importance of style and aesthetics in luring in women to date or have sex with.Nothing women do is ever their fault, it's always someone else telling them what to do lol. I think many women are just naturally attracted to older men, makes evolutionary sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 02:49 AM |
| 7 | Girl who checks her phone constantly takes a day to reply. Next?Taking a long time to reply isn't a red flag. Looking at her phone while you're hanging out with her is a massive red flag. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 07:17 PM |
| -5 | It just feel like it's all about looks?lol cold approach is absurdly inefficient. With his looks he could do well with online game. he just probably sucks at it. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 08:15 PM |
| 8 | Why do women get to live like losers and no one calls them out on it?Every girl I know has a similar lifestyle. Meet better women? I don't know many women that lame. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Dentist told me to consider braces at the age of 35. Not confident about it.Dentists don't take out wisdom teeth, Oral Surgeons do. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Science: Education Assortative Mating proven false on Tinder: but women still want educated menYes...? They tend not to travel too far out of their own circles Based on what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 07:06 PM |
| 7 | What if I want a girl best friend?why? have you tried it | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 03:04 PM |
| 7 | Girl I thought wanted LTR doesn't want to be exclusiveStop listening to advice from austic neckbeards and start thinking for yourself. She opens up to you, gets the cold shoulder for 5 days, probably is a little depressed and rightfully decides you're not good for her. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Why don't more young guys do this during this time?By "do this" you mean have a girlfriend? | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 09:29 PM |
| 6 | Plate says we should just be friends after a girl spent the night at my place.You think she doesn't know that? | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 09:24 PM |
| 2 | How much does being born into a family with money influence a woman’s hypergamy?Money is by far the most overrated tool for attracting women. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Study: Women are more likely to forgive their partners bad behavior after being approached by an attractive manThe fact that it equates telling a survey you'd forgive someone, with actually forgiving someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 05:44 PM |
| 75 | Percentage of women and men having sex in collegesThere's def alot of celibate men in college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 05:41 PM |
| -1 | When is a girl “TOO drunk” to smash?Unless you're famous or have some status that would make you a target, this seems absurdly paranoid. Why would a woman who only had one drink want to go through a rape trial that probably won't end in conviction because some random dude didn't "act right after we fucked". | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 08:34 PM |
| -2 | Should I wait 48 hours before setting up another date with a girl?They're not bullshit, girls are constantly testing men for neediness, overaviablity is a signal of neediness. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 08:06 PM |
| 0 | She doesn't want to be monogamous with me but still wants me to court her.But then we have Performance/Sports Psych, an entire field focused on the internal, the mind. A primary aspect of Sports Psych is that when you believe you will succeed, you are more likely to do so. We have an excessive amount of studies to back this up— it’s a pretty basic research paper for Sports Psych. Psych is a bullshit field where half of studies don't even replicate. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Texting/OLD : how long do you take to respond to her? Do you "adapt" to the time she's taking to respond?If she's taken more than 30 minutes to get back to you, wait at least 10. Never respond instantly unless she's responding instantly. Besides that it doesn't really matter much. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 02:21 AM |
| 0 | She doesn't want to be monogamous with me but still wants me to court her.Only it's a book that tells you how to get laid I don't really see what's the point. TRP is some self help shtick. It's about sexual strategy | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 02:17 AM |
| 4 | She doesn't want to be monogamous with me but still wants me to court her.Actions make someone attractive. I don't care about some zen inner game bullshit. TRP is about strategy to get laid. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 06:12 PM |
| 1 | She doesn't want to be monogamous with me but still wants me to court her.I just wanted a chick to bang. Why do you need to be exclusive to do this? | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 05:26 PM |
| 1 | She doesn't want to be monogamous with me but still wants me to court her.This is just so comically wrong. Why would a high-value guy ask for exclusivity? | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 05:25 PM |
| 2 | She doesn't want to be monogamous with me but still wants me to court her.On the other hand, if a Man wants to be Exclusive, then that is his prerogative to initiate. No it's fucking not. Girls will initiate monogamy talks when they're ready. It's just as much their job to push for exclusivity as it is men's to push for sex. Doing want you want and having a IDGAF attitude is RP— this is internal, not external. Frame is about being your own Mental Point of Origin— if OP wants exclusivity, it’s fine to bring up. That's bullshit. The real red pill is this: Some behaviors… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Been thinking about doing some home porn with a plate, she has no clue yet. How to approach?i already have, but keep larping as a lawyer if that makes you feel like a big man | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Gf [23] meeting up friend she used to sleep with for walkText her and say, "Oh well this has been fun, good luck with everything". | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 02:15 PM |
| 0 | Been thinking about doing some home porn with a plate, she has no clue yet. How to approach?lmao taking a picture or video of a women sucking your dick is not a federal offense. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 06:31 PM |
| 1 | My therapist recommended cold approachYour therapist sounds like she's on your side. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Is models by Mark Manson really that good?His text game is very very basic and I got no results using it - I probably blew some good leads using his "Do you want to hang out this week" line as it's way to general and unspecific. Bad text game is a deal breaker in 2021. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Rule of Tommasi confirmedI wouldn't call monks fine, they spend their life worshiping an imaginary friend. And don't they have contact with other monks? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/21 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Is it worth to fuck below average woman?Your defintion of below average is aribitary it's not like there's a solid definition of what a 4 is. But no, I would not fuck what I consider to be a 4 because it would be hard to maintain an erection with a condom on. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 06:19 PM |
| 1 | "You cannot grasp female nature until you grasp your male nature"Accept that Christianity is designed to create a population of simps. It's a way of brainwashing men into being satisfied with only one women, by telling them that their reward for they will be rewarded with simpdom with everylasting life. And brainwashing women into being happy with their beta bob. It was good while it lasted, and does teach some good moral lessons but it's ultimately a tool of control. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Rule of Tommasi confirmedSocial isoslation will destroy the strongest of men, it's just not how people were made to live. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/21 02:29 PM |
| 0 | Is it usual to get ASD/LMR on the 3rd time after she's already put out on the 1st and 2nd?ask her why | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Rule of Tommasi confirmedLockdown isn't that bad where I am. You can't even go outside for a run? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/21 09:44 PM |
| 74 | Rule of Tommasi confirmedThere's plenty of cases of cohabitation where the sex doesn't drop off that quickly. Not saying the rule is bad/wrong, but typically the degradation of sex and the relationship takes much much longer than that. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/21 08:28 PM |
| 1 | How do you not let shit like this get to you?For once I'm happy with my life and with the girl I'm with. This is an extremely needy sentence. If she sensed she was becoming the source of your happiness she would find that extremely unattractive. Did you promise exclusivity after she promised to not see other guys. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you not let shit like this get to you?I'm a little confused here, you're spinning plates, yet you're saying she's cheating which implies exclusivity. Why did you give her exclusivity? How long did it take for her to get it? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 04:10 PM |
| 0 | I feel like women are different by race in terms of attractionit's alright bro, posting okcupid likes that mean something is embarrassing, but I'm sure you'll get over it | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 04:07 PM |
| 1 | I feel like women are different by race in terms of attractionhey man if you want to blame your lack of game or look on race that's chill | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 06:34 AM |
| 0 | I feel like women are different by race in terms of attractiononly a moron generalizes okcupid to the entire population | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Is models by Mark Manson really that good?He insists on pushing way too hard for the first date bang. Making out before the pull is not always advise His "I'm not a rapist routine" is just fucking weird His online game is super meh He doesn't talk enough about making the interaction man to women. He doesn't talk enough about body language. His text game is just god-awful. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Is models by Mark Manson really that good?The idea that oneitis comes from scarcity was already well recognized prior to models. What models highlighted was the danger of needy behavior, and how incredibly sensitive to it women are. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Is models by Mark Manson really that good?Roosh's Game is a mix of really good stuff with really bad stuff. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 04:23 PM |
| 9 | Is models by Mark Manson really that good?Models gets one thing right: Neediness is the absolute death of female sexual attraction to men. Everything else he says is just meh feel-good bullshit IMO. The idea that honesty or vulnerability is attractive is comical. But he zeros on the importance of avoiding neediness like no one else does, and he deserves credit for that. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Is anybody here in med school or have experience with it? (America)Yes, actually. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Is anybody here in med school or have experience with it? (America)Nah, attendings say this all the time. Most attendings haven't worked in anything out of medicine. Unless you're in one of the ROAD specialties, its hard to make more than 300k which granted is still 2-3x as much as someone in CS. Uhh, no https://imgur.com/gallery/ZQo6aKo#BP0eOYc The point is whether you want to give up 7+ years in your prime to make that much or if you can settle for a lower 6 figure salary straight out of college. Once again, I think people who have lived their entire life in … | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Is anybody here in med school or have experience with it? (America)Why would a physician need CS? Do you have any idea what you're talking about? | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 10:01 PM |
| 7 | Is anybody here in med school or have experience with it? (America)Don't do medicine for the money. Sure you'll have a 6 figure salary, but only after 4 years of med school and 3+ years of residency. You're essentially giving up your 20s to learn medicine.. if you just want money, go the CS/finance route instead. This is dumb shit repeated by med students with no real world experience. Medicine is a great gig for the money, doctors are massively overrepresented in the 1 percent. There are a handful of CS companies in which you can make anything close to doctor … | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Utah rejects bill that aimed to teach consent in sex education classesHe's probably trying to escalate, and when they say no he backs off. Then he waits a bit and starts again. That's very different than acting like you didn't hear no the first 3 times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Rules for Paying on DatesHow you can you consider yourself a long term follower of this sub but then actually pay for a date? Because buying a drink for a stranger isn't that big a deal? It must suck to be poor. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/21 06:00 PM |
| 5 | Whats the downside to being an attractive guy ?I'm decent looking, have had plently of girls open me on dating apps with "hey handsome" or something. In my experience the biggest downsides are 1) Some girls will auto reject out of insecuirty. Even hot girls will do this because they're used the leverage of beauty. 2) Learning game can be harder because you can make some pretty big mistakes and still get laid, so you don't have as good of a feedback loop. 3) Some girls will be kinda bitchy and rude to prove something. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so important to L I F T?Matching with them doesn't mean you are banging or plating them... Matching with them means my looks are good enough to bang them, which I do. Maybe I'd bang more if I was jacked, but I like what cardio does for my mental health more and I only have some much time and energy to exercise. I have a decent frame left over from when I lifted, so its not like I look like a skelator. holy shit, you are literally the poster child for option 1 in the comment you originally replied to above, ie the sort … | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so important to L I F T?Regarding cardio, it will keep you skinny, probably, but chicks don't dig skeletor. I'm not having trouble pulling chicks, I regularly match with 8's off dating apps so my looks aren't a problem. Yea I could get broader appeal if I got jacked, but I've been there and done that. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Dating for women is not as easy as men think it isObese women exist. Older women exists. Black women exist. Genuinely ugly women exist. It's entirely the fault of obese women that they're obese. Older women had their time. Black women do have it harder than a lot realize. Women who are THAT ugly in their 20s are rare, but i do feel sorry for them. When men say that dating is easier for women that are only speaking about young, conventionally attractive women. It's pretty easy to be that in your 20s, not as easy as a lot of men on here think, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 05:36 PM |
| 5 | Dating for women is not as easy as men think it isLooks are a very top priority they're just not enough(for a relationship, they're plenty enough for a hookup). They're the first screener, where most men will lose out on their chance to date a given woman. Yes, you need personality/game after that, but you won't get a chance to display personality if you don't have the looks. And when you don't get a chance, you have less time to optimize your personality for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobNot likely, the type of education occurring in a college classroom isn't worth much, in the age of the internet anyone who's mildly curious will learn more on their own. This BS about college making you well rounded is hilarious. Kids we hire fresh out of school suck, not because their dumb(they have great grades from great schools) but because the real world doesn't work anything like a classroom, college professors are usually mediocre people, and the whole university system is just a big filt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 01:09 AM |
| -5 | Why is it so important to L I F T?Really? I prefer cardio over lifting because I need to eat an insane amount to lift and not be exhausted. I've known a lot of people who have dropped out of lifting for the same reason. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobAgree, intelligence is a dubious notion. There are some people who are bad at pretty much everything, but I've never met anyone who's good at everything. I'm just tired of the "all engineerings are lonely incel sperg" stereotype. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 11:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobJob skills are just education that's applied towards something useful. And in immigrant families like degrees of practicality, medicine, engineering, maybe accounting and law, have the highest status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 11:26 PM |
| -4 | Why is it so important to L I F T?Lifting is not the only way of exercising, or even the most beneficial to your health. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 10:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobThey just have different strengths; look at all the STEM kids who struggle to write a basic essay or lack social/emotional intelligence. This doesn't actually happen. Look up the GRE results from STEM grad schools. Or SAT results from kids entering STEM undergrad. There's no struggling on the verbal or writing portion. Yeah there's more autistic kids in CS, but that's a small portion of STEM and they're relatively rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 09:54 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobHeidelberg is the Harvard of Germany. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 09:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobEducation doesn't only come from a degree. A FAANG engineer with a bachelor's has tons of education they've learned on that job that's far more valuable than doctorate research that the earner frequently doesn't even get to apply post graduation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 09:45 PM |
| 1 | The Married Man Wage GapSo you're telling me that he got an email one-day saying "Congrats, due to getting married we're giving you a raise". I can believe it happened, but not explicitly. No company would be that stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 09:39 PM |
| 1 | The Married Man Wage Gapmy ex-h got a raise when we got married, and it was explicitly tied to his marital status No, he didn't. The company would be sued to into oblivion. Even asking marital status during a job interview can get them in trouble. Married men don't make more because they're married, they get married because they make more. That's why men still make more after divorce. Broke men never get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 08:54 PM |
| 17 | Girlfriend of 3+ years, DM'ing some dude. Told her to stop. Immediately kept doing it ..on a week long trip right now.With some things, I'd agree but she obviously knows what she's doing is wrong. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 01:38 AM |
| 1 | My wife goes up to bed as soon as she puts down our son every night, because she doesn’t want to spend time with me as we had a huge argument a couple of months ago. What can I do to draw her out of herself?Slap the bitch and you'll go to jail. What are you 5? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 07:06 PM |
| 2 | How to teach a girl to suck dick?agreed So many noobs are posting garbage on this subreddit | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 06:45 PM |
| 1 | My wife goes up to bed as soon as she puts down our son every night, because she doesn’t want to spend time with me as we had a huge argument a couple of months ago. What can I do to draw her out of herself?Uh, what was the argument about. I have no idea how no ones asked that. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | My wife goes up to bed as soon as she puts down our son every night, because she doesn’t want to spend time with me as we had a huge argument a couple of months ago. What can I do to draw her out of herself?For 2 months? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | A little viagra for performance anxiety ?lmao at this investment in your broscience bs. truly lulz worthy that you thought id read a word. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 12:58 AM |
| 1 | A little viagra for performance anxiety ?Alright doctor, as much as I'd love to follow your bro science, I'd like to see real proof. If you spend years jerking it to a computer screen and a bunch of hand-picked virtual women you're going to struggle to get it up in the bedroom Real life girls will always turn you on more than a computer screen, a real life pussy will always turn you on more than your hand. Only time I've ever had trouble getting hard is after drinking. There's science backing that. There's no science backing "porn brok… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | A little viagra for performance anxiety ?Alcohol doesn't effect everyones nervous system the same way. I can pretty much never black out, I know friends who do so pretty much everytime they get drunk. I'm not sure there's even much evidence for this porn to ED thing. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASURENot sure how that proves that casual sex provides 0% pleasure to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREThat's not the point. The point is a lot of the time they put themselves alone with a guy because they want to have sex with them, because sex is something that feels really good for a lot of women. Not every women feels like you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREHow did they get alone with a guy who outweighed them by 70 lbs? Girl meets me up with me for drinks on a Saturday night, we make out at the bar, then I ask if she wants to come back to my house to hang a little maybe have one more. She says sure, ask if she can spend the night. We go back end up having sex. Where was the "pressure"? She clearly wanted to have sex. She eagerly tore my clothes off, said she lost track of how many times she came, cuddled with me afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREI know most guys do salsa dancing not because they like salsa dancing but because they can meet women there. I've been dancing for 4 years now and I think salsa is a terrible way to meet women, especially as a young guy. People who don't know anything about the scene always suggest it, but in reality the gender ratios are skewed, and many of the women in the scene are older. Salsa couples rarely last due to weird jealously issues. It takes months, sometimes almost a year for men become anything … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREA lot of them yes, especially if they're being unsafe about it. You see a lot of straight men have gay sex out of self loathing? I very much doubt this. However, lots of guys don't particularly care about themselves or what happens to them. I've had plenty one night stands of women insist that I don't need to use a condom and finish inside | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 03:49 PM |
| 3 | A little viagra for performance anxiety ?This is bullshit. Failure leads to lack of confidence. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | A little viagra for performance anxiety ?If you're drinking + condoms, which is a very common situation for first time sex, I think it's pretty natural to have some problems. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREWomen feel pressured to satisfy a stranger? By who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREI've had sex with quite a few women while on vacation who I have a zero percent chance of ever seeing again, much less having a relationship with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREThey're plenty of non lonely women who have casual sex. The self-loathing part makes no sense. Do you see straight guys having sex with men out of self-loathing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASURESo women's easy access to casual sex doesn't benefit them sexually: casual sex is often 0% pleasurable for them. This is obviously not true. You don't represent all women. Many have had multiple orgasms during casual sex, many times squirting. Many times initiating round two. Some of these women insist they cum easily, so I don't think it's them just rubbing my ego. It's not mentally pleasurable, as male sexual desire is not at all validating. And it's not socially beneficial, because it might g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Women outside of this sphere, discuss "What it is like to "date a Red Pill Man" Let's try it here.yea that's a pretty good way of putting it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Women outside of this sphere, discuss "What it is like to "date a Red Pill Man" Let's try it here.You have no idea how many TRP men you know, you only know the one that's I've been obvious enough to spot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 07:22 PM |
| 10 | I used to think spinning plates was a fantasyGirls in college love seeing a guy with good grades who cares about his future. lmao no | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 04:41 PM |
| 12 | What is up with guys in their mid-twenties with no previous sexual experience committing to “experienced” women without playing the field themselves?Are you not aware how most other men interact with the opposite sex or is this a humble brag? Option 3, he fucks ugly girls. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 03:25 AM |
| 3 | What is up with guys in their mid-twenties with no previous sexual experience committing to “experienced” women without playing the field themselves?I know checking is a lefty thing to do WTF does this mean. They do it because getting new pussy is a pain in the ass for most guys, so the easier thing to do is to settle down. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI don't think this is true at all. Men that are worth marrying certainly have standards, deadbedrooms are sometimes caused by men, and many men like sex with people they're emotionally attached to. Some men can't get it up for a one night stand. So yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI mean who makes the money, that pays for the house? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 06:48 AM |
| 1 | [Pre-Covid] Why are men drawn to online dating apps?lmao. if you're good looking enough they ask you to come over. ugly people live in a fantasy land. yea vibe and chemistry matters somewhat, looks are absolutely king in 2021. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 01:56 AM |
| 1 | [Pre-Covid] Why are men drawn to online dating apps?But where are all the women not on those platforms? Your mistake is thinking because they're not on those platforms that they've never been on those platforms. They do get on those apps, they just get off them quickly either getting a bf, or becoming a plate of some chad that won't commit. That chad is still on the app trying to get more and better plates skewing the stats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Is Black Pill full of shit?This is true, guys who swing way out of their leg are almost always doing it via social circle, and the girls are usually grabbed at a young age when they still pair bond strongly. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Is Black Pill full of shit?When I've had girls come over it took very little game. And rejection via text is hardly humiliating. That's why tinder and social media is fucking up average looking dudes. Alot of pretty boys used to be sidelined because they didn't have the balls to approach in person, now they don't need them. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Is Black Pill full of shit?Just become Bill Gates isn't a very good counter to the blackpill. Realistically social skills are the best compensator for bad looks. Yes, status will work, but it's extremely hard to get. I have a friend who's a short asian, worth 10 million and a virgin. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/21 06:02 PM |
| 8 | Is it impossible for an average looking guy to get a hot girlfriend?average height isn't 5'11 anywhere in the US | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it impossible for an average looking guy to get a hot girlfriend?Are you from denmark? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Is it impossible for an average looking guy to get a hot girlfriend?You're white, 6'1 with green eyes, that's already above average. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 04:36 PM |
| 25 | Did you notice a substantial increase in female attention as you passed your mid 20's?No to be honest. When you say girls are beating down your door, do you mean from online dating? A 23 and a 26 don't look that different. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 12:24 AM |
| 0 | anyone tried Sildenafil Citrate?You'd have to be a moron to consume anything that says not for human consumption. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 12:56 AM |
| -1 | Men are approaching way less than people here thinkwho cares? your ancestors hunted on the same land as lions, and you can't deal with a girl whinning to her friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 05:38 AM |
| 0 | Men are approaching way less than people here thinkThat eliminates you from the dating pool entirely. Make one "creepy" mistake and that shit will spread around and everywhere you'll go women will go Don't be absurd. You think women have time to go around and inform everyone in their gender everytime a creepy guy approaches them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Are you taking the COVID vaccine? If yes, why? If not, why?You could say the same about people who took the vaccine, we're talking about tail risk. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 10:36 PM |
| 2 | I recently hit my partner (LTR). What to do next?I will ask you though, to garner what type of person you are and answer truthfully here... If you were having said argument with a male same size and/or bigger than you... Would you have resorted to violence? And here's the crux of the answer, what he did was cowardly. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Are you taking the COVID vaccine? If yes, why? If not, why?There may be long term side effects of COVID infection. I know numerous young healthy people its sent to the ER | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Are you taking the COVID vaccine? If yes, why? If not, why?Elon musk is on record joking about how he could turn someone into a butterfly with the right RNA sequence. The same guy that said coronavirus would be over last April? | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (27 December 2020)7's is what I'd consider a good looking guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 11:16 PM |
| 5 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (27 December 2020)You think there’s 3’s and 4’s you see at McDonald’s are smashing good looking guys? They absolutely are with OLD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 09:14 PM |
| 3 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.It's also where most successful and attractive young people live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 09:01 PM |
| 7 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (27 December 2020)Most complaints aren't it's impossible to get laid, its that quality you get it low because of girls dating/sleeping up. Yea a normally weighted successful guy can fuck a fatty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 09:01 PM |
| 3 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.I think y'all forget that it's only a very small portion of women who are active on dating apps. This is BS in big cities. I've seen virtually all of my single yuppy female friends on a dating app at one time or another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 08:49 PM |
| 1 | What % of men make a girl orgasm in their life?How would we know the answer to that question? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 10:38 PM |
| 0 | What % of men make a girl orgasm in their life?What's retarded is asking men, what percentage of men make a women cum. How the hell would we know that? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 10:38 PM |
| 5 | What % of men make a girl orgasm in their life?Unless they've all been acting I think most girls I've had sex with have had orgasms, most are one nights stands. I've made some of these girls squirt so I doubt they're all faking. Why is it so hard for y'all? Just pound away and talk dirty af. Also learn to finger the gspot. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here read “Game” by Roosh V?It's alright, a bit simplistic IMO. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Have any of you experience a big increase in your SMV?Having a high paying job won't get a young man shit nowadays, it's a completely different game. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 04:39 PM |
| 1 | I know I get told often that height doesn’t matter but I deeply think otherwisethis isn't true at all. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Honestly whats all the fuss about Body counts?As do con men. Makes for the easiest marks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 10:43 PM |
| 2 | If you can’t get a relationship from your social group then it’s an indication you’re not attractive enough and something is wrong with youI've never been in a realtionship from my social circle since college simply because I never found any of the women in my social circle that were interested in me attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 08:21 PM |
| 7 | Are women actually better off in the modern sexual marketplace than men?They want white guys. They don't want to say it, but they don't look at single Asians and Indians as actually viable candidates, even if they went to Harvard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Is it sometimes better to not go for the f close on the first date?Indeed, I'm thinking of pulling this move with high value girls that give off relationship vibes especially during weeknight dates. I'm very high value via looks(my main pic on dating apps gets a 9.9 on photofeeler), career, and hobbies. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 03:52 PM |
| 6 | Is TikTok and OnlyFans creating a large future generation of porn starlets?There is literally no service on Earth I would pay $300/hr for. A surgeon to remove a life-threatening tumors? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Why are men called entitled for wanting their looksmatch?You must be lucky to only be around high value men who live fantastic lives of responsibility and fun. Similar people do tend to make friends with one another. I don't know anyone who doesn't have hobbies and a job. Some of my friends play video games but that's not all they do. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Is it sometimes better to not go for the f close on the first date?kclose is the worst of both world IMO, gives them validation and removes plausible deniability of going back to your place. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 12:39 AM |
| 4 | Is it sometimes better to not go for the f close on the first date?Ive be ghosted doing both. If you cut you cut it short, I don't think you're as likely to get ghosted because she hasn't received validation for you. It's when you have these 2 hours + dates that end in an awkward hug that girls decide you're just too scared to close. Also there's certain context...weekend nights vs week nights. How sexualized is the profile. What's her body language like. How eager is she for round two of drinks. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 12:35 AM |
| 5 | Is it sometimes better to not go for the f close on the first date?I'm getting better at reading the vibe of girls who just want one nights stands. If they're just in town for a bit, or seem super eager over text that's one thing. Weekend nights also are better for f closes. But weekday nights, with girls from bumble who live in town, and who's profile give off a relationship vibe...I don't think it's worth it. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 11:05 PM |
| 4 | Why are men called entitled for wanting their looksmatch?Attractive is subjective. If you can't get girls as attractive as you are physically, clearly you lack in some other areas. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Is it sometimes better to not go for the f close on the first date?The hard part is deciding if it's a night where you should go for it, or a night where you should cut it short. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 11:00 PM |
| 12 | Why are men called entitled for wanting their looksmatch?Because they are entitled. Your bone structure doesn't entitle you to anyone. No matter how good looking you are, people expect you to date down if you are a guy. Who are "people" and why do you give a shit what they're saying. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 09:35 PM |
| 8 | Why are men called entitled for wanting their looksmatch?Because most guys think that they deserve a girl of equal attractiveness even though they may be spending their days playing video games, jacking off, and just generally not being on a purpose of any kind I see people saying this but I don't know one guy like this? What type of losers do you guys hangout with? | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 09:34 PM |
| 9 | What do you guys think of younger (18-29) women vs older (30+) women in terms of attitude and friendliness ?Suprise people with options aren't as uncondtionally nice as people without them. One of the reasons women are instinctively repulsed by nice guys. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Getting rejected by mid-tier girls, what's your hypothesis?I do not use Tinder on principle. It's what redpilled me in the first place. The returns just aren't worth the time. Ugly girls don't give me the time of day when chicks a point or two higher would be begging for my attention irl. So not using that as a solution And this is all I needed to hear. Newflash: You're not that hot. If you can't get with cutish girls off online, you're not close too hot enough to rely on your look, especially if you have a six pack and are six foot tall. ESPECIALLY if … | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Wearing a condom with a girl with IUD?The good thing about the IUD is even if she somehow gets pregnant, the fetus won't be viable. She sounds way too slutty to raw dawg. I'd only cum in LTRs. If you're going to do strangers, make sure it's white/asian career women, from middle-class families who'd never want to raise a bastard. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone here or know of anyone that doesn't literally spend hours chit chatting and foreplaying before sex with 8-10's?No, if anything hotter girls sometimes come quicker because their confidence is high. What make a girl an 8 is subjective because they're definitely very attractive girls who fuck very quickly. Many don't, so don't feel bad if it takes you a long times as long as you succeed. And honestly, I don't get how any man fucks hookers considering 1) The worry about STDs and condoms killing a lot of the pleasure 2) The best part of sex is having a hot girl who genuinely and honestly has desire for you, s… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/20 06:01 PM |
| 1 | No, biology doesn't say that you "should" reproduce / spread your genesDesire for spreading your genes: nope. Did you ever wake up with the sudden urge to go masturbate at the sperm bank? But that's the most efficient way to spread your genes. That's because the sperm bank is too new for evolution to have evolved a response to it, just like birth control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Is there a shortage of "quality" marriage material men out there?I literally don't know one man like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Is there a shortage of "quality" marriage material men out there?If it's well recognized you won't have problems citing your sources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Is there a shortage of "quality" marriage material men out there?First off -- dating at work is hardly ever a good idea. Until recently it was one of the most common way for couples to meet. IOIs are not really that subtle. It's pretty easy to differentiate between a woman who is standing next to you at a club because there was open space there and a woman who is standing next to you because she's interested. 1) Not everyone goes to clubs. Most people probably don't. 2) Not really? A women standing is a women standing. The only true IoI is not stopping you wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 09:29 PM |
| 4 | Is there a shortage of "quality" marriage material men out there?Not really. First of all not all guys find themselves around available women that often. An engineering student or someone working in a male dominated field won't be exposed to enough women to even receive these IoI. And these IoI are a lot more subtle and misleading than you think. Sometimes women send them just because they want attention, sometimes they send them because they want to make their boyfriend jealous. And many times women who are very attracted to will act disinterested out of ins… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Is there a shortage of "quality" marriage material men out there?That's a ridiculously small and biased sample size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Is there a shortage of "quality" marriage material men out there?In some university towns with more females graduating, it is sort of a thing. This difference is there but it's not that big, and a lot of the majors women graduate with are kinda useless. My two closest female friends are PhD students with their masters with lab jobs dating guys who barely attended community college. That's their choice, they're plenty of guys with BS, MS degrees. There are still more men graduating with doctorate degrees than women. And just because they barely attended commun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Is there a shortage of "quality" marriage material men out there?I’m talking about the expectations of extreme, porn-ified acts. Anal is extreme, but young men seem to think it’s no more challenging than PIV and many expect it immediately these days Honestly, how could you possibly know this? Do you have survey data to back this up? I don't know any of my friends have expressed a desire to do anal. You seem to be basing your entire worldview on a few anecdotes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 03:07 AM |
| 3 | Is there a shortage of "quality" marriage material men out there?yea i have no idea where these people live that everyman is loser and all the women are wonderful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 03:05 AM |
| 4 | Is there a shortage of "quality" marriage material men out there?I disagree, since guys don't get approached they're a lot of guys who are good on paper but are single because they don't have the balls to put themselves out there. No matter how shy a women is, she will get asked out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 03:01 AM |
| -11 | Why do most young females insist "I'm happy" when their behavior suggests otherwise?Some are, some aren't. This isn't a question about sexual strategy, this covert bitching about "all women sucks". Go back to the incel fourms. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Are children the ultimate power play for women?For college educated people divorce is actually quite rare. You probably have a greater chance of getting cancer than having a college educated never married before wife divorce you, and if you don't lose your job, cheat, or fuck up your life in some other obvious way, chances are less than 15 percent. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Are children the ultimate power play for women?She will leave if she has better options and the current man doesn't offer enough value. You massively underestimate women's insecurity. She's knows that just because some dude who's not her husband will fuck her, doesn't mean he will date her, marry her, and be stepfather to her children. Leaving your husband is a massive risk for a woman. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Are children the ultimate power play for women?They can't get it from any man, having a kid depresses their value on the SMV, the states doesn't give enough support to keep a women's lifestyle where it was when she was married to the dad. The baby daddy doesnt really matter to them. They leave him as soon he shows weakness. They really don't. They may stop fucking him if he goes too beta, but this idea that women jump on another cock the minute they see this many as anything but 100 percent is BS. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 03:11 PM |
| 9 | Do Chicks Not Like Intellectual Conversations?It's worse, they like them but they don't get turned on by them. Making them a potential trap. You go on a date, have a great two hour "intellectual conversation" that she genuinely enjoys, but she doesn't see you as a man anymore because you took her too seriously and you get friend-zoned. Then I asked about how she managed to major in physics because I couldnt major in it in that it would be too difficult to me. Essentially a compliment, chick just ghosts. 1) Never self deprecate, especially r… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 03:06 PM |
| 7 | Are children the ultimate power play for women?Children create dread for women too, they need the man's support more than ever. Yea she can get divorced and get a check, but the check barely covers the cost of the kids, and not having a person around to help to raise the child is brutal and take care of the house it brutal. And while she can remarry, it's hard and men are more likely to remarry than women. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 07:51 AM |
| 3 | Doesn't the low participation of women on online dating apps actually prove that women care about personality more than they care about looks?If you have a degree in stats you understand that you can multiple probabilities only if they're are independent. Because social groups tend to share similar attractiveness and dating circles, the probability of one dating an attractive guy is not independent of another one dating an attractive guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Doesn't the low participation of women on online dating apps actually prove that women care about personality more than they care about looks?lol I think you need to take a stats class, that's not how that works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Doesn't the low participation of women on online dating apps actually prove that women care about personality more than they care about looks?why is it suddenly “modernity’s” fault? Modernity allows very attractive men to amplify their reach with ease. Prior to the smartphone really good looking guys would have to approach in real life to sleep with women, and because even Chad get rejected by most women in a given bar, and many Chad's don't have the social skill, time or motivation to cold approach, this limited how many women he could get. Now he can just sit at home on a Wednesday night, and setup multiple dates at ease. With girls… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 07:38 PM |
| 4 | Doesn't the low participation of women on online dating apps actually prove that women care about personality more than they care about looks?They may go to a new Chad, or they may find a guy who's a little less than Chad and willing to commit, if she's really lucky she might even get a Chad to commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Doesn't the low participation of women on online dating apps actually prove that women care about personality more than they care about looks?A good amount of people on these apps I’d guess are younger (18-25ish) and are much more shallow and focused on looks because that’s all many of them have to bring to the table. It takes time to establish yourself with career, hobbies, passions etc, cause those take time and money to see through. That’s why the older crowd (30 and up) will be pickier with their partners personality and lifestyle. That's such BS, as someone who had a successful, well-paying, decently high-status career right out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options?Not really. It's an outdated stereotype and only really true of high school girls and trashy dramatic types. lmao, how would you know if you've been successfully lied to? There's more women in these spaces than people usually believe. I attend a lot of comic/anime/game conventions and often the males are only slightly more prevalent - maybe a 60/40 balance, sometimes very close to 50/50 The point is, those are rather an niche interest. Also, I've meet gamers and anime watching girls on dating ap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | How often do you see a handsome man with an unattractive woman?I'll send you a PM if you're really interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options?Nerd spaces and religious spaces. Book clubs. DnD groups. Weeb and video game circles. Comicon attendees. Bible study. Those spaces aren't really representative of where typical young girls hangout. They tend to be very male heavily. I mean... In female circles we don't really have a reason to lie? Why would women lie to their church-going friend about using a hookup app? I think it's obvious. Women lie to other women all the time. Their social reputation is extremely important, and if I can alr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 07:06 PM |
| 8 | In most couples, is the woman more attractive than the man?I've honestly seen it all over the spectrum. I've seen big gaps in physical attractiveness on both sides. Hyper attractive women, rarely date very handsome male model men in my experience. Their men are good looking but not the stunners that they are. Female 10 typically are with a tall male 7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 07:01 PM |
| 1 | In most couples, is the woman more attractive than the man?Other than baldness all of those things hit women faster, women skin ages faster, their have less muscles and thus slower metabolism, so they gain weight easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options?You're not in the right spaces. What's the "right spaces"? I live in a very large US city and my social circles include college-educated young professionals. As I said we have survey data so we need not rely on anecdotes. None of my female friends have used it besides the one who went on a single date (that did not end in sex) before deleting it. Why are assuming your friends are necessarily telling you the truth? And why are you assuming your friends are a representative sample of young women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options?Only a minority of women use OLD. Bc, again, OLD as a whole is generally used by a certain type of person. Surveys show online dating has become the most popular way for young people to meet. In large city its quite rare to find a young girl who has been single for a significant amount of time and not even tried online dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 05:44 AM |
| 6 | What exactly is a desirable/marriageable man, anyway?You left out a big one: white, or the same race she happens to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 12:19 AM |
| 39 | CMV: The increasing gap in the dating world is more a narrative of increasing autism/aspergers syndrome than looksismActual autism is quite rare, the internet definition of autism is vague and broad to be meaningless. I knew a lot of guys who struggle with women, I think people on here massively overestimate how "weird" or "awkward" you have to be to do poorly with women. Most of those guys were perfectly normal to talk to they just weren't big risk-takers and too concerned with being creepy to make a move. I think alot of the "don't be a creep" we hear as young men, even proceeding the MeToo movement scared a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/20 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Who are girls fucking on tinder?Can you send me the PM | /r/askTRP | 14/11/20 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think young men gravitate to the redpill?Red pill is not about looks and money attracting women. Red pill is about what behaviors attract women. There's tons of nerds make 200K+ at FAANG companies doing poorly with women and tons of average looking bartenders with game doing great with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 04:05 AM |
| 1 | TRP is way too defeatist about marriage. They have the tools to succeed right in front of themI really don't understand how they can be so lax about those chances. Because the rewards are something they highly value? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 10:00 PM |
| 1 | TRP is way too defeatist about marriage. They have the tools to succeed right in front of themYou're much more likely to in a happy marriage then a pro athlete | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 09:56 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Men here ought to focus on not being in the bottom 20% before they focus on being in the top 20%Agreed, it's comical how terrible these women think you need to be in order to have trouble getting laid. Plenty of non fat, decently dressed, reasonably sociable guys that suck with women, especially if they're minorities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | First date went well, not sure where to go from here...yea i always thought that wait for her to reach out thing was bs 5 days seem kinda long to wait in the day of online dating | /r/askTRP | 21/10/20 06:27 PM |
| 9 | Are dating apps just impossible these days?21 might be the worst age to be for online dating, women younger than you are locked away in social circles, women older don't like dating down in age. And girls your age are in demand by everyone. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here already Super Boost on Tinder?Not worth it bro, that shit cost as much as a hooker. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 06:45 PM |
| 13 | Are dating apps just impossible these days?Honestly yea it is incredibly difficult in a large city, especially if you're not tall and white. Too many dudes that are good looking, successful, and looking to sleep with as many 7's and above as possible. Even relatively normal dudes are shelling out hundreds for photoshoots just to stay in the game. Covid murdered day and night game throwing more men and women into the meet grinder that is dating apps than ever before really makes it difficult. You either become a Chad, or figure out how to… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 06:43 PM |
| 4 | Women are 1,000x more sensitive than men to economic status cues when rating attractivenessThis is the truth. They don't want to say it but they want a WHITE guy with all those attributes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/20 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Women are 1,000x more sensitive than men to economic status cues when rating attractivenessWell yes, there's only so much time in a day and it's extremely hard to become a successful professional and be in amazing shape, and fulfill whatever other qualities you're talking about(likely race, height,etc). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/20 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Women are 1,000x more sensitive than men to economic status cues when rating attractivenessNo they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Men and women are both hypergamous but in different ways. Women marry up for wealth, power and social status while men marry up for looks.If you think a girl can be 5 an obese I really doubt you rating standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/20 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Does game exist?Overall, there's no science to this, but in general to consinsetly sleep with attractive girls you apperence needs to be good enough to get them interested and then your game needs to good enough to keep them interested. They blow off most average looking guys before they can even spit game, especially with more and more being online. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Does game exist?To get in an LTR with a 7+ You need either looks or game. To sleep casually with 7+s you need both. I've seen guys who aren't great looking get quality hookups because of game, but not with any consistency. They can sleep around and plates 5's. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 10:19 PM |
| 1 | 6'0, good looking, fashion-conscious, working on my way to becoming 10-12% BF. I am reading all the sidebar material (in the middle of TRM). But I am Indian- in what ways can I raise my SMV that are specific to my predicament such that my race will stop impeding it?What problem? Do you see me complaining about having problems? | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Said “meet me at xplace tomorrow at 8” she said “i’ll let you know tomorrow morning”Reason I would send a confirmation text is because I want to know if I should make alternative plans or not. I don't want to be wondering if she'll get back me the whole day, if she doesn't get back at noon I write her off, and don't have to think about her or our plans the rest of the day. Other guys may disagree, but there's nothing wrong with confirmation text in time sensitive situations. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 04:46 PM |
| 0 | 6'0, good looking, fashion-conscious, working on my way to becoming 10-12% BF. I am reading all the sidebar material (in the middle of TRM). But I am Indian- in what ways can I raise my SMV that are specific to my predicament such that my race will stop impeding it?You're delusional if you don't think they're girls who won't fuck guys of certain races regardless of what he look like. Attractive girls have no shortage of six packs and big arms to choose from, so they can afford to select on race. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Having an impossible time with OLD latelyI've had dates everyday of the week and I'm a minority dating mostly white girls. The scene has gotten brutal during the pandemic, make no mistake, you need to up your game with better pictures if you're not getting any dates. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 04:41 PM |
| 0 | 6'0, good looking, fashion-conscious, working on my way to becoming 10-12% BF. I am reading all the sidebar material (in the middle of TRM). But I am Indian- in what ways can I raise my SMV that are specific to my predicament such that my race will stop impeding it?That's bullshit, race is a massive factor in dating. Yes you can overcome it, but it's still a big handicap. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Said “meet me at xplace tomorrow at 8” she said “i’ll let you know tomorrow morning”If she just sent that I'd wait until the morning, send a confirmation text around noon. Option 1 is bad because you're accepting a bullshit wishwash answer Option 2 is bad because you look butthurt, and you're offering an alternative she never asked for. It only makes sense if you have another girl that you want to hang with tomorrow night | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Black/Africa Male late 20s, 5,6ft, Failing in Asian World.Nope, was just a tourist. More tinder matches than I had time to meet up with. I've fucked South Koreans on vacation in other countries too. I honestly don't think there's any country were women aren't physically attracted to black guys, there's just some cultural stigma that would stop dating one. But even indians FOBs have tried to get my dick. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 11:44 PM |
| 4 | Date ideas for girls under 21?I would be careful giving alcohol to an underage girl especially if you sleep with her while she's drunk, and you'd be a moron to do it in public. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Does finding sex get easier for a guy after 30?You went from saying college, to "his 20s" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Does finding sex get easier for a guy after 30?nd the more attractive college-aged women don't want to date some 30+ guy because they will be dating guys with their shit together closer to their age. College aged...maybe, but you'd be surprised at how many 22-28 prefer to date 30-35. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 03:47 PM |
| 0 | Do you think that most men on red pill forums are on the autism spectrum?They're really not. I went a T10 engineering school actual autism is quite rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Ghosted after a seemingly successful first dateThose girls have all probably tried dating apps. If you think good girls don't try dating apps you don't know a lot of girls. And day game has been hurt by covid. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Ghosted after a seemingly successful first dateWhere do you find realtionship material women? Everyones tried dating apps nowadays | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 08:29 PM |
| 19 | Ghosted after a seemingly successful first dateThis is probably the correct answer, it sucks. I don't like to be pushy or sleep with a girl really quickly either, but modern dating has create a world that women aren't attracted to men who take it slow. It's one of the reasons I can barely take women seriously when they complain about guys only wanting sex, they reap what they sow. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Black/Africa Male late 20s, 5,6ft, Failing in Asian World.Women in Japan are realtively easy for black guys in my experience. I'm 6 ft tho | /r/askTRP | 04/10/20 10:04 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men can't "be themselves" as women often offer as advice to datingThere's different degrees of being yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/20 09:33 PM |
| 4 | A lot of men can't "be themselves" as women often offer as advice to dating. However, we are told if we include that in our profile that our pool would significantly decrease. What? I guarantee you if I make a Bumble profile with looking in the relationship in the bio with an average looking young women you'll get 100 matches in a day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/20 05:35 PM |
| 3 | A lot of men can't "be themselves" as women often offer as advice to datingIf men don't act like themselves, they're not going to enjoy being in the relationship anyway. Disney bullshit. Yes, the ideal relationship is when men can be themselves, but it's possible to enjoy non-ideal relationships. I don't love everything about my job, but I still enjoy many benefits it provides me. If being yourself results in you getting no women or only ugly women, it very well may be better to just act to enjoy the benefits of validation and sex for a pretty girl. After a while it ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/20 05:32 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men can't "be themselves" as women often offer as advice to datingWomen are saying just be yourself because that's what works for them. Their dating success if based mostly on physical appearance so they can't appreciate the pressure on men to be behaviorally attractive. Likewise, men can't fully appreciate the pressure on women to look good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/20 05:28 PM |
| 6 | A lot of men can't "be themselves" as women often offer as advice to datingThis is obvious selective bias. The guys that are bad at the monkey dance are obvious frauds, if they were good at the monkey dance you'd think that was just their personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/20 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Hook-up culture and promiscuity is over-exaggerated, Women are more critical of high-count men, Gen Z is more conservative than previous generations on sexual partners and exclusivityDo what? "come closer to outlining a scientifically backed understanding" Social sciences, kind of like evo psych in a non-prestigious institution or University, is a mixed bag. If by mixed bag you mean not even half the studies can replicated in many fields, then sure. Personally I call that garbage science. I forgive you though because you do seem to be under the impression that the social sciences don't have methods outside of surveying. Yeah I totally said that. Most good data-analysis comes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/20 02:09 PM |
| 1 | In the West, Men Should Avoid Any Woman over 26 Who Wants Any type of LTR.are you actually arguing it isnt extremely uncommon for a women to have never been in a relationship by get 26. lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/20 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Hook-up culture and promiscuity is over-exaggerated, Women are more critical of high-count men, Gen Z is more conservative than previous generations on sexual partners and exclusivityIn the more liberal/coastal areas, I’d hazard a guess that your average person in their mid-20s has an N of 7 - 15 lmao no way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/20 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Hook-up culture and promiscuity is over-exaggerated, Women are more critical of high-count men, Gen Z is more conservative than previous generations on sexual partners and exclusivityYou don't? Some things simply can't be measured accurately. People sexual preferences and past is one of them. One of the reasons the social sciences is such a garbage field is because they think it's okay you use garbage tools simply because no better alternative exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/20 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadHow do you think they teach them? Why do you think neurosurgeons have 7 years of training after medical school? Because reading books isn't enough to teach you any skill worth learning, trial and error is how you actually internalize any given skillset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/20 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadYes, how do you think doctors learn how to perform brain surgery? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/20 02:55 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else have more success being a “natural” purple pill guy instead of a “forced” redpill guy?they're lame ass platitudes. focusing on your mission doesn't actually get you laid. holding frame is too vague to be useful. and spin more plates doesn't actually solve every problem, especially if the plates are medicore, which I'm willing to bet most of the are. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadYou can't say that about virtually anything. Including brain surgery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 08:36 PM |
| 45 | Does anyone else have more success being a “natural” purple pill guy instead of a “forced” redpill guy?Many of the posters are here are LARPing. You can tell they're full of shit because they don't have any actual advice to offer other than vague platitudes "spin more plates" "focus on your mission" "hold frame". Most of their plates are probably 5's at best. And you're way above average being 6'3 and jacked, unless you're face is miserable. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Any else been "zeroed out"?That's fine, but why did you say keep in mind all of us middle aged men who have had our lives destroyed by divorce and female hypergamy also felt we had found a woman who was the exception to the rule. Did you really think a high school drop out single mom was a unicorn? | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Any else been "zeroed out"?The numbers speak for themselves. 53% of all marriages end in divorce and virtually all divorces are initiated by women (80%+). If you're a never married college educated man marrying a never married college educated women,your chances of divorces are around 15%. If you never fuck up financially they're even lower. Not saying marriage is the answer for everyone, or that all marriages that don't end in divorces are happy, but your experience is not the norm among middle class educated persons. Al… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 04:11 PM |
| 4 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadJust because it's not rare doesn't mean there's not a lot of guys who can't get it. BMWs aren't rare but there's tons of people who can't afford them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 03:21 AM |
| 6 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadUhh, the point of TRP is that sex before 3 dates isn't rare, which is why you shouldn't wait. Girls who insist on paying for dates are in my experience rare, but it has nothing to do with whether you're a 10/10. My dates were always cheap though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | In the West, Men Should Avoid Any Woman over 26 Who Wants Any type of LTR.lmao, i've never meet a women who hasn't been a realtionship by age 26, not one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 03:54 PM |
| 3 | How Was She Supposed To Date You In Her Youth If She Didn't Know You Yet?Or you see the general women of who women date where they're younger and when they're older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 03:53 PM |
| 1 | In the West, Men Should Avoid Any Woman over 26 Who Wants Any type of LTR.I know this is incredibly difficult to wrap your mind around, but most women lead completely average lives where what you're talking about isn't a part of it. That average life includes a boyfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 02:46 PM |
| 2 | You guys are missing the whole point of FDS, the point of FDS is NOT to solely attract men. The strategy is to WEED out men they don’t want.The obsession TRP folk have with "looksmatch" is honestly scary. You've never heard a women talking about one of her friends boyfriends like "he's not that cute, she could have definitely done better"? Some of the posters on the subreddit act like they've never been outside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 08:32 PM |
| 2 | You guys are missing the whole point of FDS, the point of FDS is NOT to solely attract men. The strategy is to WEED out men they don’t want.I disagree. I used a similar strategy to FDS while dating— which my parents taught me. I’m happily married. These strategies work a lot better when you're younger, and before the dating app era. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 5 | You guys are missing the whole point of FDS, the point of FDS is NOT to solely attract men. The strategy is to WEED out men they don’t want.Disagree, FDS is a group women trying to rebel against their own sex drives. Let's be honest it's doesn't take a fucking subreddit to figure out how to weed out fuckboys. It's actually really simple. The problem is fuckboys produce the tingles that women crave. It's just like getting in good shape isn't complicated, but the will power to execute is hard. Quitting smoking isn't complicated but the willpower to execute is hard. These women are trying to quit Alpha dick in favor of easy to control … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (20 September 2020)Unless charges are being filled abusive is a subjective term, many girls describe those men as emotionally abusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 08:17 PM |
| 4 | In the West, Men Should Avoid Any Woman over 26 Who Wants Any type of LTR.There's no science going into this, it's just a useful heuristic. I've literally never meet a women who didn't date until age 26. Like not one. I know women who grow up in strict muslim families where they'd get in massive trouble for dating they didn't even wait until 21. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 08:16 PM |
| 0 | In the West, Men Should Avoid Any Woman over 26 Who Wants Any type of LTR.How is that not a valid question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | In the West, Men Should Avoid Any Woman over 26 Who Wants Any type of LTR.What if she was focused on her budding career in her early twenties? Why would that stop you from having a relationship? What if she was in a relationship and it didn't work out? Then you're dealing with a massive amount of baggage. When a women had an ex of 4+ years, there's no telling when she's going to running back to him. Unless "it didn't work out", means he died in a tragic accident or moved to another country I'd be very wary. Youre missing out on a lot of high quality women by doing thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 05:46 AM |
| 10 | In the West, Men Should Avoid Any Woman over 26 Who Wants Any type of LTR.It is completely normal for people to not even start dating now until around 26 It's really not. A women who hasn't started dating until age 26 clearly is not someone who has a preference or need for monogamy. She either has an extradionary low sex drive, a preference for sexual novelity(i.e a hoe), some mental issues that cause men dating her to leave, or she's ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 05:41 AM |
| 1 | In the West, Men Should Avoid Any Woman over 26 Who Wants Any type of LTR.Marry at older ages doesn't mean those relationship didn't begin years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (20 September 2020)As women we need to make sure to educate those vulnerable to falling into such a dynamic. I doubt that's possible. The young girl going for the older bad boy that everyone tells her not to go for is one oldest tropes of romances. And when he breaks her heart she's literally the only person in the world that didn't expect it. It's hormones. It's like getting young boys to not jack off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadThe problem isn't culture. The problem is their own sex drive. They're plenty of reliable dependable dudes who are poor with women. Their problem is they find these dudes boring. The guys they find exciting are going to inevitably treat them like shit, probably for the same reason they're attracted to them(unpredictability, charisma, mysterious vibe). These women are their own worst enemy. There might be a guy who's good on paper and charastimic in person and not an asshole, but those guys are r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadWanting a long term realtionship is extremely unattractive to many women. It's an indicator of low value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (20 September 2020)I can't read the main post but I find it good that some of the women in the comments seem to be introspective enough to understand tingles aren't the only thing in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Is the ultimate "male dating strategy" just lying?1) If you're fine with medicority red pill isn't for you 4) Time consumption is only irrevelant if your time isn't worth much. 5) Sure, I just don't know attractive guys who are into those character traits. 6) That's life. You think men never get ghosted by a girl they thought they had sometime going on with? Only reason you don't see the same post from men is that less people will put up with their bitching. I just don't see what the hell I would lie about that would make getting girls easier. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Is the ultimate "male dating strategy" just lying?Attractive women get into realtionships with whatever type of guy they want, sometimes it's the type of guy that eventually treats them poorly, but because attraction is nonnegitoable no amount of FDS post are going to change what she wants. The young attractive girl ignoring the advice of other not to date the older bad boy is one of the oldest dating tropes there is. She can be all analytical about it and pick some safe guy that she has low attraction to based of guidelines she read from FDS, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 05:19 PM |
| 10 | Is the ultimate "male dating strategy" just lying?None of us have problems getting boyfriends homie its just that 85% of men's commitment, and their sex, isn't worth much. Oh how the monkey convices itself the grapes it can not reach must be sour. Women who are of low quality tend to have trouble securing commitment from men who are of high quality. They may cope this by claiming all men are of low quality, because if all men are defective she can't be faulted for being dating failures. Those men just stick around hot women being insecure leech… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 05:42 AM |
| 9 | Is the ultimate "male dating strategy" just lying?What you get wrong: 1) Very few men's problem is being too playerish. The women on FDS aren't the women that most men want. Attractive young women have little problem getting commitment so they don't need to deprive themselves of dick for 3 months. 2) Being very forward works on some women. Obviously not the women on FDS, but once again who cares? Probably, not those dudes. In fact aggresive game can be a plus to filter out time wasters. 3) Men and women do lie plenty during the dating process, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Chatless online datingFind out disqualifying info before anyone wastes time -- if they want kids, if they are just looking for a hookup, if they say rude shit about people You're asking guys if they want kids on the first date... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Chatless online datingBut if there's no end game possible, why bother? You can't determine someones potential to pair bond based off their willingness to text for a few days. Most humans who have fallen in love have never texted each other. if I don't click over text I probably won't click in person. I honestly rarely text anyone for anything other than logistics, exchanging information, or maybe a little bit of humor. I think a surprising amount of people are like this. What would you even text about for 3-4 days? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Chatless online datingThere's nothing about texting that filters out attackers. It might filter out super thirsty dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Chatless online datingYou're not trusting someone to love you, you're trust someone to meet you out in public. Texting is a terrible form of communication, why invest time into it when you might not click in person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Is the most important factor for getting women actually money?That's beta buck, that's not genuine sexual attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 08:45 PM |
| 1 | The prenup myth - why does it exist?So I can ignore parts of my rental agreement because I didn't have a lawyer present? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 06:25 PM |
| 6 | The prenup myth - why does it exist?that summarizes most of the red pill marriage knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Is the most important factor for getting women actually money?It was the period in history where most of humanity behavior instincts, or what anthtropololgist call behavior modernity emerged. The human mind hasn't evolved since we left the savanna. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 06:21 PM |
| 6 | Is the most important factor for getting women actually money?Money is the most overrated aspect of sexual attraction. Money only matters if 1) its enough to give you significant power/status. fuck you money i.e 2) you use it buy enhancements to other attributes i.e braces, plastic surgery, status items 3) for beta bucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Is the most important factor for getting women actually money?In our ancestral lineage where males stockpiled resources BS. Hunter gathers don't stockpile anything they can't carry with with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 06:06 PM |
| 0 | Do you think stepping out of gender norms is more harmful for a man's dating life than a womans?Bassist Nikki Sixx and drummer Tommy Lee of Montely Crue bet on who could go on the longest no-shower streak and still bang a groupie. The wager ended when an unfortunate groupie threw up pasta on Sixx while giving head. This was two months into the bet You could take two things away from this: 1) You don't need to shower to get laid, and all the people who said women are repulsed by guys who don't shower are wrong....or.. 2) With high enough status you can do things regular guys could never dre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Do you think stepping out of gender norms is more harmful for a man's dating life than a womans?There are tons of people with more money and status than Harry Styles Uhh, no there's not? Out the 3 billion men on this earth maybe 1000 have a the combition of looks status and money that Harry Styles has, probably not even. Just about all of the most popular male celebrity crushes have a strong personality associated with them. No, their characters may have a strong personality associated with them, the celebrities themselves many times do not. Once again, you don't even know what their actua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Do you think stepping out of gender norms is more harmful for a man's dating life than a womans?There’s a reason why they’re collectively obsessed with Timothee chalamet or Harry Styles. Those women don't know Harry Styles, they're attractive to a nice face and ultra high status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 04:04 PM |
| 8 | Do you think stepping out of gender norms is more harmful for a man's dating life than a womans?Really, do you know anecdotes of women being repulsed by emotionally vulnerable men? Pretty much every women will be repulsed by men who are emotionally open at the start of the relationship, she wants to earn access to your emotions. A guy who to emotionally available is like a girl who's too sexually available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Do you think stepping out of gender norms is more harmful for a man's dating life than a womans?Have long hair and shaved arms isn't really what we're talking about when we say feminine. That behavior isn't even considered universally feminine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Wrong to focus solely on mission in 20s?Go your way. Women will follow. This is Red Pill Disney bullshit. Women only "follow" guys with extraordinary high status, status no man can count on achieving in his lifetime. Counting on being a steve jobs or elon musk is for retards. Focusing on solely your mission and expecting women to follow is how you end up a beta bucks. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 01:01 AM |
| 3 | How long does a good physique takeWhat? Why? Only reason I'd think so is more money for food. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 12:12 AM |
| 7 | How long does a good physique take4 months you'll be undoubtedly different if you've been doing everything right, although it may be more subtle. 10-12 months you'll be a completely different body type. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Almost never go on second datesI think it's partly selection bias. Most attractive girls who aren't insanely picky or nuerotic got locked down a few months into the pandemic which means the only girls that are still out there are out there because you need nigh perfect game to get them. It may also be dating during the pandemic may seem higher stakes, because there's less to do so you might expect to spend more time with each other. Also girls may have a lower threshold for going on dates because there's less to do. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Almost never go on second datesHonestly I'd avoid kissing in public in general, spikes ASD and gives too much validation. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Almost never go on second datesThey absolutely do this. 40 percent of women on Tinder have admitted to going on a “foodie” date just to get free dinner from some dude they’re not interested in. I doubt OP is taking them out for dinner, girls may go out dates for free dinner, but free drinks? Doubt it. I went on a “date” with one tinder chick who started feeling me up in the damn bar, whispering in my ear and all kinds of things and then when I went for the kiss she gave me the “I don’t kiss on the first date” spiel. I knew ri… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Almost never go on second datesI think ghosting has gotten worse in the covid era | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Almost never go on second datesI don't buy this, if you go on a date with a girl she likely see's you as a potential sexual partner. Girls don't doll themselves up and risk an encounter with a creep for someone they're not interested in at all. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 08:23 PM |
| 4 | Almost never go on second datesThis is BS. "Just be more of a man" isn't any advice. If you think advice can't make a man better with women, why are you on this subreddit? Women can't smell "faking" for shit. They deduce your value from your appearance, reputation, and behavior. It's relatively easy to fix bad behavioral habits once you know what they are, but figuring out what they can be hard, because the way female attraction works is not intuitiive to the modern man who's been raised on media diet of Disney fairytale bull… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 08:17 PM |
| 1 | If you make a lot of money, how do you use this to benefit your SMV?The only way women can know how much money you have is by your behavior, location, or object in your position. How you act, where you are, what you own. They can't read minds. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Almost never go on second datesmost of the time i don't even bother trying for the second date bc it's obvious they're not into it. if they won't kiss me on the first date, or if they're checking their phones multiple times, or looking around instead of making eye contact while we talk - i know the "save me" eyes when i see them - that's the signal that it aint happening. Yeah man, the checking phone thing is a really bad sign. I've literally never had a girl check her phone without apologizing and explaining the reason, and … | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Almost never go on second datesHonestly the best way to get a second date nowadays is sleep with her on the first date. How are you trying to follow up for the second date? How long do wait to contact them and what do you say? What are you saying at the end of the first date? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 05:01 PM |
| 1 | If you make a lot of money, how do you use this to benefit your SMV?Money is the most overrated tool in dating, especially the casual dating that TRP likes to do. It's only really matters in the extrema. Nice clothes are probably the best use of money. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 04:55 PM |
| 5 | If you make a lot of money, how do you use this to benefit your SMV?lmao, what bullshit. Noone can "smell" money on anyone. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Is dealing with baggage the price of admission for dating attractive women?Most men acquire dating related baggage much slower than women simply because women have such a myriad of oppurtunies. It's insane how experienced the average 18 year old is nowadays. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | What is your preferred method for getting plates and why?I’m worried about being catfished, yes. Why aren’t you? Because it's never happened to me. Most attractive girls on bumble are definitely verified, and every girl I've meet looks exactly like her photos. I'm also smart enough to only swipe right on girls that have full body pics and no sketchy angles. Usually they have an insta attached for more context. Seriously what would be the purpose of catfishing for a girl? It's mainly something done by bots, or incels who want to know what it's like to … | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 09:04 PM |
| 5 | What is your preferred method for getting plates and why?Tinder and Bumble both have built in verification. And why the hell are you worried about serial killers? You sound like a women. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: How often are you complimented for your looks?How good looking would you consider yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 10:44 PM |
| -1 | A lot of cynicism from men about dating revolves around the fact that most women are not consistent with how much effort the men they “let” sleep with puts into them, versus the men that are actually dating them. And why I like the 90 day rule.Now guys will object and say some shit like "he is a boss because he beds lots of chicks"! But the problem with that is the behavior is culturally damaging, sets a bad example for women to follow, and creates distortions in the dating market Just because someone's behavior has negative externalities does not make the person low value, at least in any meaningful way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadWhat am I lying about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadPersonal experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI've seen TRP advice work way more than I've seen FDS advice work, but that's just me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 09:59 PM |
| 0 | Does 80/20 happen due to unrealistic standards or due to men's inability to market themselves?I disagree, most people I know have interesting career, are relatively fit, and have some cool hobbies on the side. It's rare in my city to see fat guys out at the bars, they know better than to waste their time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 09:28 PM |
| 0 | Does 80/20 happen due to unrealistic standards or due to men's inability to market themselves?Honestly I don't know alot of fat young guys, if you're a young professional living in a big city with other young professionals you probably don't know many either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadThe biggest think that blows my mind is that they say to wait 3 months for sex. That seems like a great way to select for gay guys, players who dating other girls, and unattractive men with no options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Does 80/20 happen due to unrealistic standards or due to men's inability to market themselves?lol look at him, you think you need to juice to get that big? That's a year of lifting, without juice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 06:34 PM |
| 0 | Does 80/20 happen due to unrealistic standards or due to men's inability to market themselves?He’s not actually an outlier in terms the amount of muscle he’s carrying, they’re many many non professional athletes men who have more muscle than he does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadThe problem with FDS isn't moral, it's practical. Their advice straight up won't work for all but the most attractive women, who probably don't need it anyway. The majority of women's dating problem is either their lack of physical attractiveness or the type of man they're attracted to. They're very good at changing the former when they need to, but terrible at changing the latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Does 80/20 happen due to unrealistic standards or due to men's inability to market themselves?Why would any sane woman have sex with a stranger when there are men online bragging about having sex with sluts that they would never have a relationship with because they have casual sex? Men in my frat did the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Does 80/20 happen due to unrealistic standards or due to men's inability to market themselves?Go down to your local LA fitness, crossfit class, or running trail there are plenty of girls working their asses off just like men. Fat acceptance is just cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 03:11 PM |
| 0 | Does 80/20 happen due to unrealistic standards or due to men's inability to market themselves?That's completely wrong for men, here's a picture of malcom butler. https://networthheightsalary.com/malcolm-butler-bio-salary-net-worth-age-girlfriend-family-height/ He's a NFL cornerback, and you can see from his picture that while he's fit, he's not particularly muscular. He weights 190 lbs at 5'11. He could easily get to 200 lbs and still be considered healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Does 80/20 happen due to unrealistic standards or due to men's inability to market themselves?Where they in a frat, or some other venue that gave them social status? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Does 80/20 happen due to unrealistic standards or due to men's inability to market themselves?Most dating on here you hear about occurs in large cities with relatively educated fit professionals. The fat poor people America are mostly younger, less educated, and live in smaller cities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Is there a gender difference when it comes to male and women and how they feel about compliments on appearance?Askmen doesn't represent the typical man. And even if it did, I don't think that's even true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/20 03:24 PM |
| 0 | What's the consensus on how long to wait to set up a second date after a first date with no sex.Such alpha. Teach me wise one | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 04:49 AM |
| 0 | What's the consensus on how long to wait to set up a second date after a first date with no sex.Another non-answer faux alpha BS. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 04:27 AM |
| 1 | What's the consensus on how long to wait to set up a second date after a first date with no sex.And I'm saying this isn't about a specific date I went on, what triggered me to make this post was a friend ask me for advice on this. He said the date went well but I don't know how good he is at reading women. My advice was to wait at least 3 days, another guy in our friend group said to do it the day after. We discussed our views and I thought we both had good points so I thought it'd be interesting to ask here. Only thing the friend asking for advice told us was that he meet her up for drink… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 01:52 AM |
| 1 | What's the consensus on how long to wait to set up a second date after a first date with no sex.Not asking about my interaction so I have no idea. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 12:58 AM |
| 0 | What's the consensus on how long to wait to set up a second date after a first date with no sex.I'm actually in a realtionship so none of this is actually relevant to me right now. I was giving to advice a friend, and another friend disagreed, thinking this was an interesting argument I thought I'd bring both viewpoints here and see what everyone thought. I was the one who recommended he wait longer, but my other buddy had a interesting point. But if you want to spout this faux alpha "you should be so busy and awesome 24/7 it takes you weeks to get back to anyone" bullshit go ahead, LARPin… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 12:55 AM |
| 1 | What's the consensus on how long to wait to set up a second date after a first date with no sex.How much space? | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 11:57 PM |
| 1 | What's the consensus on how long to wait to set up a second date after a first date with no sex.Well yea, if you go out with a girl on Sunday, hit her up on Monday night asking to see her Wednesday, that's clearly a bit much. If you asked to see her on Friday, that's not a big deal IMO. Ideally dates should be around a week apart. But if you wait to Wednesday to hit her up, she may already have plans for her entire weekend. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 11:41 PM |
| 1 | What's the consensus on how long to wait to set up a second date after a first date with no sex.you should be busy with your mission and not have tons of time for chicks Let's be real, it's take less time to ask a girl out on a second date via text than it took you to write that post. Especially during covid, acting like you should be sooooo busy that it takes you days and days to get back to everyone is kinda BS. Now the perception may be useful for building attraction, but the reality is no one is that busy. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Does 80/20 happen due to unrealistic standards or due to men's inability to market themselves?Alot of this has to do with age, young men have to compete against older men for women their own age, and in many cases women prefer the older men and visa versa. Men who are 22-25 for example can't go younger because many those girls are locked away in college social circles. So they're stuck competing for the most pursued girls in the dating market, but with men who are more experienced, have more resources, and more advanced social circles established. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/20 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Does 80/20 happen due to unrealistic standards or due to men's inability to market themselves?Focus on yourself until quarantine is completely over ladies and gents Taking almost year off from dating in your prime is a good path to misery. Especially since your social skills will degrade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/20 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Is there a gender difference when it comes to male and women and how they feel about compliments on appearance?Nah, as a guy who get complimented way more often that type redditors, compliments are appreciated from women I have no intent of sleeping with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/20 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Is there a gender difference when it comes to male and women and how they feel about compliments on appearance?Yeah, I've never heard you're so smart as an excuse to butter me up, but the compliment doesn't really mean anything to me anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/20 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women's standards for men have become too high and their hypergamy has got out of control?Proven according to what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/20 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women's standards for men have become too high and their hypergamy has got out of control?A few of my favorite thinkers have recently been talking about how the U.S. has evolved into the ultimate "winner take all" society. There's nothing unique about this to the US, go look at the housing prices in London if you want to see winner take all. Things like public schools and public transportation are excellent in Western Europe because they decided to benefit a lot of ordinary people, and tax rich people more heavily, meaning it's not as good to be a superstar there. Public transportati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/20 02:37 AM |
| 4 | Men don’t seem to like it when women “try” to be attractive?If I had a hot ex doesn't mean I'm not going to get rejected by most hot women I approach. You seem to just be realizing the reality men live in: rejection is the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/20 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be.Lol and how do you suggest that? By sleeping with them on the first and second date? I think it’s quite obvious that man just wants sex if he is actively trying to get in a woman’s pants by the first and second date and hardly knowing anything about her. Worked for the girl I'm dating(second date in our case). I knew I wanted to sleep with her the first time I saw here(as would the vast majority of straight men), during the second date I knew I wanted to keep seeing her regardless of whether we … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be.There's a difference between "wants sex" and "just wants" sex. Many women cope that all men fall into the second caterogy, making them blamless for not having quality to inspire commitment in quality men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be.If a guy wants sex after 2 dates that means he's straight and attracted to you. Some guys are too scared to actually make the move, but all straight men want to have sex with an atttractive women they've spent 5 hours with one on one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Men don’t seem to like it when women “try” to be attractive?No, what men here are saying is that the men you are the most interested in trying to impress are less likely to into you then more you aren't trying to impress. Just like hot girls are less likely to go on dates with me then ugly girls. Do than me I stop trying to dating hot girls? No. It just means I have to deal with more rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Men don’t seem to like it when women “try” to be attractive?Hitting on a girl is predator mode? Who hurt you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 07:04 PM |
| 9 | Men don’t seem to like it when women “try” to be attractive?Because you've failed few times you think there's no point in putting in effort? Here are you options: 1) Make you're more attractive, either physically or behaviorally. 2) Keep trying until you get lucky 3) Lower your standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Men don’t seem to like it when women “try” to be attractive?The men you're trying to attractive are have more options. The ones you're friendzoning for have less, probably for the same you've friendzoned them. Either that or your femine behavior is coming across as blantly manipulative try hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 06:59 PM |
| 4 | As a man, a modern, equal, DINK, relationship is better for me in every way.I agree, marry a dentist and she can pull 200k yr while working 36 hours a week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/20 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Does moving in together spell doom for a relationship?Really? As a guy with really short hair I doubt I look much different 20 minutes after getting out of bed and splashing some water on my face then I'd look on a date, minus different clothes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 05:29 PM |
| 6 | Do you believe porn negatively affected modern dating?Most men can't just How would you know? In anycase, people suck at things they don't have practice with, surprise, there's so much realistic amateur porn out there now I don't think porn is what can blamed for unrealistic version of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/20 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do alpha personality traits make you someone that women will fuck rather than someone who provides?It's the alpha's can't provide, it's that being a loyal provider makes you by defination not alpha. If she has sons and they marry one women, and pop out a few kids, versus sons that sleep around with many women and have dozens of kids, which one is providing her with more offspring? It's the loyalty itself that makes the provider less sexuality attractive than the beta. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 11:32 PM |
| 1 | How real is hypergamy?Or it could be that they make people around feel good? Uhh, alot of extremely high status men are complete douchebags. If you want to see the real world effect of this...watch this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XYU1a0lTTTw He creates status by paying a small group of fake photographers, fans, and bodyguards to treat him as important, other people see this and assume he must be important and thus treat him as such. As his group grows, more people see this and it gets to a point where the entire… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 06:27 PM |
| 2 | How real is hypergamy?You couldn't be more wrong, status is the singular most important part of attracting women. Which is why popular kids who aren't that good looking can get laid. Status isn't about not being bullied, that's a bear mininium, status is about other women trying to sleep with and other men deferring and respecting you. There's a reason why physically unattractive famous guys can easily get one night stands with attractive women, but the same can't be said the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 2 | How real is hypergamy?What’s status? Like popularity? Status is how well other people treat you. Which is why its so context dependent. A surgeon is high status in an OR, but put him in a club and he's lower status than the bartender or DJ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 03:18 PM |
| 1 | A big problem with PPD is that they're too intelligentand don't have time to debate gender issues on an online forum. Bullshit, they just do it on facebook with memes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 04:31 AM |
| 1 | A big problem with PPD is that they're too intelligenthttps://www.mdlinx.com/physiciansense/the-biggest-career-mistakes-doctors-make/ Surpise people who are good at standardized test are good at becoming doctors. IQ is pretty much a useless past 100 for predicting anything worthwhile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 04:30 AM |
| 5 | Date bills should always be split equallyWhy the fuck do you date strangers?? As opposed to dating friends? Paying women for sex as dinner IS sociopathic. Uhh, what? Who's twisting words now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 02:40 AM |
| 9 | Date bills should always be split equallyYeah, not paying for a stranger's meal makes you a socipath, it's right there in the DSM-5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Date bills should always be split equallydo guys actually buy women dinner before sleeping with them? incredible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 02:07 AM |
| 7 | Online Dating has Changed Approaching and Women's Standards "in Real Life"Are you slow? By including all Americans in that group you're including a massive amount of people who locked down with their current partner before online dating was a thing. Ergo, that 12 percent figure is a poor representation the likelihood of a married or relationship that is formed today being the cause of online dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 7 | Online Dating has Changed Approaching and Women's Standards "in Real Life"A small share of Americans say they have been in a committed relationship with or married someone they met through a dating site or app. About one-in-ten U.S. adults say this (12%), though these shares are higher among LGB adults, as well as those ages 18 to 49. That's because you're including a ton of people who got married or into relationships before OLD was a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 03:50 PM |
| 4 | The change in beauty standards amongst womenEuropeans routinely tan themselves and get lip fillers. Big eyes non hooded eyes are definitely not unique to Europe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadSex after a month of dating isn't casual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI'd be willing to wait alot longer if I got enthusiastic blowjobs, I'd be a little concerned at what her hangup is(is there something wrong with her gentials, does she has some traumatic experience with PIV), but I wouldn't be worried about the attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadSo gay men? Very few men will be happy to wait three months, 1 month sure, 3? I'm betting he's a either very religious or gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadThat sounds good in theory in praticallity it seems it would select for guys who are desperate, dating multiple women, or gay. If it works for you it works for you, for 3 months is just absurd to me. As a man I wouldn't mind waiting 1 month, anything more than that and I'm starting to doubt there's attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 06:35 PM |
| 0 | Sex is the Driving Motivator for Men in the Dating Scene, and it Perpetuates Lib Fem IdeologyThat's not really true, some women don't have sex with a guy because they've been hurt and don't want to get pumped and dumped again. You should have eyes wide open for time wasters, but don't see the world as completely black and white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Sex is the Driving Motivator for Men in the Dating Scene, and it Perpetuates Lib Fem IdeologyA man that really likes a woman will happily wait for sex, buy her gifts, take her out on expensive dates and generally do whatever he can to please her. While this may be true that a guy that does this likes probably likes her, it's also a great way for men to get taken advantage of. From a man's perspective you could be dating 4 guys at the same time, so why would he treat you like you're so special when you haven't invested anything into the interaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Do you think there's little competition when it comes to dating?What do you consider "average" women? Is your goal average women? You go on Tinder, and all the average looking women will get FLOODED by hundreds of options--attractive options too. Why do you act like options on tinder aren't real options. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 12:00 AM |
| 5 | Do you think there's little competition when it comes to dating?Why do people say tinder doesn't reflect reality? They get fucked from guys on tinder, they date guys from tinder, so why are we acting like tinder is in a separate dimension? | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadOver what period of time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/20 09:34 PM |
| 3 | How to get a Girlfriend in the Modern Age of Social MediaBy the 3rd date, THEY SHOULD BE THE ONES REACHING OUT TO YOU. If not, HARD NEXT. You don't want to be in a relationship with somebody that has low interest in you right? This is dumb. Many girls are insecure, and won't reach out no matter how much they like you. They're programmed to think if a guy likes them he'll make the moves. Gaugue interest by how she responded to your text and how she treats you on a date. Rest is pretty spot on, but be careful about being too withdrawal. Make a women too… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/20 10:46 PM |
| 9 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadOne twitter post is proof women aren't worth it. Oh how the monkey convinces itself the grapes it can not reach must be sour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 04:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Raw GSS Data shows that Men's Sexlessness is Overstated.Do you have any proof of this? The only study I've seen suggest women changing their number when attached to a fake lie detector test while men's number remains the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Why is so much of history just trying to control the populations sexuality? Why do people care about the sex/degeneracy of other adults?No. They're shitholes. Japan's a shithole? It's one of the most advanced countries on earth. Regardless of their problems as a countries(partly due to western colonalism, but that's besides the point), there's a reason immigrants from those countries and their children massively outperform native born Americans in success. You can force people into roles, authoritarian-style, like China does, for example. The Chinese culture which has been around for thousands of years, is not the same as the Ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 02:14 AM |
| 0 | Does OLD Trick People Into Thinking Social Skills Aren't Still Necessary?If sending clever messages online is social skills to you, sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/20 04:00 PM |
| -1 | Why is so much of history just trying to control the populations sexuality? Why do people care about the sex/degeneracy of other adults?You’ve never heard of sodom and gommrah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/20 12:38 AM |
| 4 | Why is so much of history just trying to control the populations sexuality? Why do people care about the sex/degeneracy of other adults?They exist, they could have easily stomped out like a bug by civilizations like the British Empire. They exist at the good graces of others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/20 12:35 AM |
| 15 | Why is so much of history just trying to control the populations sexuality? Why do people care about the sex/degeneracy of other adults?Look at all the cultures and civilizations who been around for long time, notice how none of them practice free for all sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to the same traits at 30 as they were at 18. But they're TURNED OFF BY a whole host of traits at 30 which were neutral at 18.No, that’s not what conspiracy theory means. Pick up a dictionary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Studies are for people with no practical real-world instincts, and there aren't as many of them as you thinkYour post is basically telling everybody " The world is way too complex so don't bother trying to understand it. Just accept that ignorance in bliss" in five paragraphs. No, they're saying try and understand it with the inductive part of brain instead of the deductive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Studies are for people with no practical real-world instincts, and there aren't as many of them as you thinkThe more knowledge you have, the better your decision making is. This is definitely wrong. Lookup the green lumber fallacy. If you looked up the statistics about skydiving and saw that a jump carries a death rate of 0.001%, you could make the most informed decision about whether to jump or not. Once again a terrible analogy. If you compare skydiving to marriage, and dying to getting divorced, you're implicitly comparing not skydiving to not getting married, which is dumb. Deciding never to get m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Studies are for people with no practical real-world instincts, and there aren't as many of them as you think1) 50 percent of marriages don't end in divorce. 2) Certain demographics have much lower chances of divorce than others. 3) Information about how many marriages end in divorce are gleemed from previous generations, and may not be representative of your chances if you get married today | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Studies are for people with no practical real-world instincts, and there aren't as many of them as you thinkComparing wages, which is data that can easily and ethnically be captured by numerous agencies and dating habit and preferences which are impossible to both ethically and accurately capture is absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to the same traits at 30 as they were at 18. But they're TURNED OFF BY a whole host of traits at 30 which were neutral at 18.I don't think the claim is that it's a conspiracy theory, rather that it's a self delusion fueled by a desire to settle down. The fear is once they're secure in commitment, especially legal commitment like marriage and kids, the self delusion will be replaced by their original preferences, and her treatment towards you change for the worse. This is once you're in a situation with no real recourse that wouldn't be finically or emotionally painful. I don't know if I buy it completely, but's it alo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to the same traits at 30 as they were at 18. But they're TURNED OFF BY a whole host of traits at 30 which were neutral at 18.I think what you're really seeing is women are attracted to status, and her subjective evaluation of your status is a function of how well people in her social circle treat you or how she imagine they would if they meet you or someone like you. In high school the high status people are altheltic, funny, and good looking kids. In college it was athletes and frat stars. In the real world it starts to shift towards people who have money, fame, talents etc. In the real world the frat boy who was maj… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to the same traits at 30 as they were at 18. But they're TURNED OFF BY a whole host of traits at 30 which were neutral at 18.However, they do become genuinely turned off by traits such as "being lazy" "financial irresponsibility" "playing too much video games" "smoking weed all day" and so on and so forth. Things she didn't care at all about her college fling doing. They're women who aren't attracted to losers even when they're young. If women are attracted to "losers" when they're young, they may not marrying them, but they might cheat with them. I would probably even argue that in the courting and marriage honeymoon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Very common scenario: guy in his mid-twenties commits to his first girlfriend with a body count of 20+. How do they usually fare?No one benefits from a realtionship a promcious person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Women that give you mixed signals or aren't really too interested in you, or keep you waiting when you message them aren't worth your time.Bro if you want to feel what you feel go ahead but arguing with some of you guys is like trying to get blood from a stone, you actually want to believe**** that the dating market is that screwed and all women are getting pumped and dumped blah blah, then marry a "beta" then "divorce rape him" and all secretly with 1000 tinder matches that they suck ever 6 am. When did I ever say any of this? It doesn't matter what I saw tbh you're still going to find a way to work in the narrative of how there's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Women that give you mixed signals or aren't really too interested in you, or keep you waiting when you message them aren't worth your time.I do actually, I've known all these people since pre-pubescence and what happens in the group strays fast. Sure, maybe you have a few female friends that you're so close with you can say those things with high confidence about. But it's not going to be a large number, certainly not a large enough amount to generalize about the entire "decent" female population, no one knows that many people that well. They'd snag their top guy, that's dreamy, confident, outgoing comes from a well to do family an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | The red pill only teaches you how to attract Stacy, which does not work well on average women, and warps your perception of women.It's not that rare. I have two sister, the more attractive one never liked that much social media, she has some accounts but rarely uses them and is definitely not an addict. The less attractive one is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Women that give you mixed signals or aren't really too interested in you, or keep you waiting when you message them aren't worth your time.Who the hell has time to spin a dozen plates, I get your general idea, but sometimes the way red or purple pillers on here talk it's as if you have nothing else to do except chase ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Women that give you mixed signals or aren't really too interested in you, or keep you waiting when you message them aren't worth your time.If you are a man who needs to be fawned over or enveloped in attention in order to feel like someone is interested, that is something you need to communicate to the woman you are interested in. You're arguing against a strawmen, the OP isn't complaining about women who aren't fawning over them during the first date, the OP is talking about women who don't reply to a text for a day, who think you're needy for responding to their text immediately or during the weekend, and who constantly flake at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Women that give you mixed signals or aren't really too interested in you, or keep you waiting when you message them aren't worth your time.Seriously, most of the decent women I know hate tinder, they aren't getting "pumped and dumped by chad", they have barely had any one night stands, they just went on, talked for a bit and deleted it, maybe met one or two guys who pestered them for sex and they weren't having it or had a one night stand and regretted it and learnt from it. First of all, you have no idea what these women have actually done, only what they've told you. Secondly, many women are many their SO through dating apps, sur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 05:23 PM |
| 1 | What are your biggest fears and anxieties about the opposite sex in LTR or Marriage?Women will defintely cheat with men they have no emotional connection with, who are you kidding? I've been that other guy before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 03:50 AM |
| 1 | How will the pandemic and political chaos affect female preference?lmao @ gold and gun being safe. The pandemic is delivering the coup de grace to in person game. Online dating will be more and more prevalent. More first dates will be via video chat, which may actually be a good thing for both involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 07:48 PM |
| 3 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.Most studies in the field of psychology fail to replicate. But for more details see this https://www.researchgate.net/publication/338696030_Criticism_of_Attachment_Theory_2020 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 12:53 AM |
| 2 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.That's very different from being completely fine and unfazed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (26 July 2020)Good luck, everything's harder than it sounds when actually put into action. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (26 July 2020)Sure, there's just not many guys like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (26 July 2020)I repeat why would an attractive dude commit to exclusively having sex with you before you've even had sex with him once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (26 July 2020)My point is what guy would wait 6 weeks, and then commit to someone without so much as a blowjobs. The three dates thing is just the point where if the guy you're seeing hasn't gotten anything he's probably going to start dating other girls behind your back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (26 July 2020)How many hot, funny, awesome dudes are going to go for that? Most guys will be exploring other options after date 3 with no sex even if they don't break things off with you. The only guys that would go for that are guys without any options or guys that are gay and want a beard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 10:17 PM |
| 4 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.Bro, that's not how humans work. You can't date someone for 2 years and not blink when you breakup, unless you're a sociopath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 10:07 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that hard to be attractiveIt's not that hard to be good looking It's not that hard to have a good career It's not that hard to interesting hobbies It's not that hard to have game. Doing them all at the same time, however is kinda hard, not impossible, but hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 10:05 PM |
| 2 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.There should always be the idea in her mind that if the relationship stopped for any reason, you would be completely fine and unfazed. That's bullshit. Everyone in a LTR knows that their SO wouldn't be unfazed if they broke up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 09:56 PM |
| 0 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.Most of psyschology, including attachment styles, is pseudoscientific bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Disrespectful dateHow do you know this? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Disrespectful datePeople say this like 80% of women haven't tried a dating app. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 11:59 PM |
| 9 | Do You Think that Socially Interactive Jobs Make The Chick More Competitive?Yeah your job will inevitably leak into personal life. One of the reasons CS dweebs and engineers are so bad at game. Sitting in front a computer for 8 hours a day is not normal, none of your ancestors did anything remotely like it. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 06:36 PM |
| 3 | What does everyone here think of the ‘godfathers’ of redpill (Chateau Heartiste, Rollo Tomassi, Roosh v) now?I think Roosh had by far the best actual game related advice. When he talked about anything else he was a moron. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Creating a Sexual Vibe in Your Tinder Profile: Body Language Analysis1) Just don't setup food dates 2) Why the hell would a girl false accuse a tinder rando? False accusations tend to happen within social circles to avoid embarrassment or hid infidelity. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/20 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4A Gen Z guys and datingWhat does going places mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone get tired of chasing girls?The monkey convinces itself the grapes it can not reach must be sour. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone get tired of chasing girls?Morgan Freeman doesn't actually do that, he's been caught on camera shameless flirting. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 06:52 PM |
| 0 | How many men on here have ever been approach, asked out or pursued by another woman?Yeah I doubt this, one of my buddies is one of the best looking guys I know, absolutely kills it on tinder, but women don't ask him out all the time in person, if anything some of them get defensive. He's gotten a few numbers, but that's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 06:40 AM |
| 1 | How many men on here have ever been approach, asked out or pursued by another woman?lol that's def not true. there's literally channels on youtube dedicated to daygame | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 06:38 AM |
| 3 | The Guardian: Barely one third of Australian men 18-24 have sex even once a month.18-24 is a wide range, 18 year olds having trouble is not that big a deal, 24 year olds is more troubling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 06:37 AM |
| 4 | What’s with the trend of very attractive women being single compared to average women?This is such BS. Especially in the age of dating apps, everyone swipes right on pretty girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/20 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t women do wacky stupid shit as much as men?Men take risk more because risk allows them to differentiate themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | How old are the posters here and is betabucks really even a relevant option for them right now?Most women have at least hooked up with, if not dated, some guy who's obviously not stable. He may the leader of a band, in a top frat, a gang, sports team, or whatever. If you look at men who are most successful with women "stable" is not the adjective that'll pop into your head. Most women don't want to be a golddigger, that's correct. But they're not looking for stability, men who they're attracted tend to have financial stability because men who have status tend to be financially stable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/20 07:54 PM |
| 4 | How old are the posters here and is betabucks really even a relevant option for them right now?It’s one of many traits women like. lmao all those women fucking pro athletes because they're stable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There is not a single universally attractive trait other than good looksWomen (and men) do seek out these traits for mates. What proof of that do you have? They're plenty of people who don't fit many of those things that are in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 10:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There is not a single universally attractive trait other than good looksThats something that flies in the face of both research and what women say they want. Neither of those are particularly meaningful. There's a huge difference between what people say they want and what they actually want, and no research can really capture much about dating without dynamics because they rely on self reported data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4Bluepill: Is there a such thing as a man who can get sex but not commitment/relationships?Attractive minorities in majority areas could fall into this category. But mainly no. Anyone who can regularly sleep around with 5s can get a girlfriend if they're willing to lower their standards enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 11:43 PM |
| 2 | chads know that they don't age like fine winewhats the average age of marriage for a college-educated person in NYC? how many people in nyc never get married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 12:48 AM |
| 2 | chads know that they don't age like fine wineif stacy means very attractive white girl, then most of them do live in big cities. nyc and London aren't the only big cities in the west. i live in a large American city and women who are in their final relationship by age 25 is quite rare, especially in the college educated class | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 12:28 AM |
| 2 | chads know that they don't age like fine wineunless she lives in a megacity So most? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/20 10:22 PM |
| 1 | How important is money to women, really?No, being sensitive/attentive/yadda yadda yadda is. Yeah, I don't think most men actually believe that past the age of 18. For something to be overrated it has to be rated. But they are plently of grown ass men, even red pilled men, who think money is king when it comes to attracting women. isn't constantly touted as the nonplusultra Completely disagree. Anytime you see an attractive women with an unattractive dude most people jump to "I bet he has money". while people are often realistic about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 12:15 AM |
| 1 | How important is money to women, really?Money is the most overrated tool for attracting women in the West. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Women are not more attractive than men on averageNo, it's not. Most people have below average income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Women are not more attractive than men on averageOk, but my point is it's not mathematically impossible for 80% of men to have below-average attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Who has more power: Stacy or Chad?Chad is more desirable than Stacy because 1) he's rarer 2) other women don't mind sharing him with stacey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Who has more power: Stacy or Chad?Chad by far. Assuming Chad and Stacy means very physically attractive extroverted white people, or atleast western people, Chad is far far rarer. Chad can keep his attractiveness and in fact likely to increase it through status, while stacy peaks at age 21. Chad probably gets taken more seriously in a professional setting, Stacey gets taken less seriously at best, sexually harrassed at worst. Average dudes are alot less likely to try and backstab Chad, then average girls backstab Stacey. Average… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:05 AM |
| 1 | WGTOW: Why are so many women dissatisfied with men?That's not actually true, the gap between women who say they want to be married, and the women who actually are married has been growing for some time now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Women are not more attractive than men on averageWe have pretty good data that shows that women are pickier than men, and believe that something like 80% of men are below average. Which is mathematically impossible. 1) We don't have data. We have 1 OkCupid study which can hardly be extrapolated to the general population. 2) 80 percent of men can certainly be below average, you're mixing up mean(average) and median. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Why are a record number of millennial women not settling down, and what will be the resulting social implications of this in 10/20/30+ years time?Muslims come over here and still want to cover their women head-to-toe, You know Muslims approve of gay marriage more the evangicals in the US right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Why are a record number of millennial women not settling down, and what will be the resulting social implications of this in 10/20/30+ years time?Because it's wrong? On the GSS survey the amount of kids women desired hasn't changed, just the amount they actually have. Same with the percentage who want to be married and the percentage who are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Ending Child Support and Special Welfare Benefits Fixes the SMPThe trump tax cut did not give trillions to billionaires, the net worth of all the billionaires in the country doesn’t even add up to a trillion dollars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/20 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Ending Child Support and Special Welfare Benefits Fixes the SMPWhat trillion dollar tax brakes are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/20 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Ending Child Support and Special Welfare Benefits Fixes the SMPWe have the most in the world I believe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/20 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Ending Child Support and Special Welfare Benefits Fixes the SMPWelfare varies from state to state, we spend around half of a trillion on assistance to single parent household nation wide. So I kinda doubt the pittance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/20 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Men and women will NEVER be able to empathize with one another. Trying to get them to is stupid and futileI completely disagree with this and don’t see any research could prove it. As a man there’s some way women treat me better. There are some ways they treat me worse. And men’s preference for women is almost entirely limited to young pretty ones. Most women aren’t young and pretty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 05:34 PM |
| 0 | Where is all this discrepancy in how "bad" men are as a class coming from?Women don’t make generalizations about men? Ask how many women would feel comfortable dropping their kids off at a male babysitter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Where is all this discrepancy in how "bad" men are as a class coming from?I don’t think men would deny her fat friend is a good person though. I reject the premise of the thread though, most women seem to like men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 12:52 AM |
| 1 | There's no way to say this without sounding rude...but have the people on this sub ever met people before?Millennials having less sex than prior generations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 12:32 AM |
| 1 | There's no way to say this without sounding rude...but have the people on this sub ever met people before?Multitudes of surveys can tell you 20 plus is way above the median partner count. It’s at least 10th percentile, if not higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Are TheRedPill and similar movements going to make any difference, or is the rate of people happily married still going to drop and drop every year?He researched mice and extrapolated that to humans based off of zero evidenced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so common for men to belittle women after rejection?I’ve seen women act extremely childish when rejected. And by rejected I mean the guy they like didn’t hit on them enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 01:31 AM |
| -1 | Are TheRedPill and similar movements going to make any difference, or is the rate of people happily married still going to drop and drop every year?Why should I believe anything John Calhoun has to say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Are TheRedPill and similar movements going to make any difference, or is the rate of people happily married still going to drop and drop every year?Comparing mice to humans is the exact sort of stupidity that gives TRP a bad name | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 01:53 AM |
| 7 | Do you think that the manosphere underestimates the power of money in a man's SMV?This is so wrong. Buying a women a drink labels you a sucker. Bragging about going on a boat, labels you as an insecure loser who probably doesn’t actually own a boat. Women have had guys try to impress them with wealth since they hit puberty. Young pretty ones don’t give a shit about engineering salary wealth, which isn’t impressive at all. If you roll up to the club a Ferrari, yeah, you can probably get some gold diggers. But that’s not successful professional money, that’s multi millionaire m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 09:38 PM |
| 6 | Ok, TRP is bad, but how do we keep the young, immature, insecure, shy men away from TRP?It’s not that their dumb, it’s that you don’t have any idea of how to talk to them in terms of their interest. This is why a lot of women suck at getting their sons to do anything, they have no idea how to motivate a man without the benefit of sexual attraction. And women were recruited by ISIS as well btw, which is why even crazier considering how ISIS treats women. Women are more likely to fall into a cult then men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 09:02 PM |
| 3 | How can the sexual marketplace be “regulated” without basically forcing people to be intimate with those they don’t desire?Boomer men didn’t let anything happen, technology allowed women to enter the workforce by controlling when they pregnant and reducing the need for hard physical labor. Many boomer men tried to stop the change, but failed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 08:22 PM |
| 4 | Two evolutionary psychologist argue that Evo Psych should move from a MCFC(males compete females choose) model of human mate selection, and focus more on a MMC(Mutual mate choice) model.I agree, men are a lot choosier about who they seriously commit to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 11:36 PM |
| 6 | What do you think of the Jesus of Red Pill, Roosh V, disavowing all of his past work and unpublishing his red pill pick up books? Is he forgivable?He got tired of banging sluts and living abroad, especially after the death of his sister. I think it’s genuine, I just think it’s kinda sad it took him so long to figure it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 11:33 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the Jesus of Red Pill, Roosh V, disavowing all of his past work and unpublishing his red pill pick up books? Is he forgivable?I remember watching that interview and I think it was the opposite, the girl said that he approached her, and he said he had never seen her in his life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 11:29 PM |
| 4 | What do you think of the Jesus of Red Pill, Roosh V, disavowing all of his past work and unpublishing his red pill pick up books? Is he forgivable?That was a satire article, in the vain of a modest proposal. Now I don’t feel sorry for him that people ignored that it was satire, because it was an absurd attention grab. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (12 January 2020)this is why random casual sex is dumb its a matter of time until something bad happens and you're doing nothing except satiating your ego and getting 30 minutes of pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 12:47 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Average Guys Aren’t Struggling, They’re the Majority of Men In RelationshipsYeah, attempting suicide for attention is clearly a sign of a gender that's "holding it all together". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Men Need to Stop Comparing Their Physiques to Movie StarsYou don’t realise how much muscle is required to gets abs and v taper. Those skinny fit guys actually have a ton of muscle on their core | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Men Need to Stop Comparing Their Physiques to Movie StarsThere’s no where I world where 70 percent of men are obese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Average Guys Aren’t Struggling, They’re the Majority of Men In RelationshipsIndians are too small of a percentage of the population to be responsible for the sexless number. You're probably onto something in that Indians are raised in a way that makes them productive citizens(their median house income is 100k), but terrible womanizers. However, from my experience, most of my Indian friends figure shit out pretty quickly. They're probably overrepresented in the incelsphere, but I don't think they're close to a majority of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:35 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Average Guys Aren’t Struggling, They’re the Majority of Men In RelationshipsVast majority of people don't get married to someone they meet in college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:28 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Average Guys Aren’t Struggling, They’re the Majority of Men In RelationshipsCalling yourself a failure for not fucking insta models is picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:27 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Average Guys Aren’t Struggling, They’re the Majority of Men In RelationshipsThe distribution of weight is skewed making the average misleading. Median would be more useful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:26 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Average Guys Aren’t Struggling, They’re the Majority of Men In RelationshipsHow are Mexicans non-Western? Regardless, I don't think most of these incels are Mexicans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:21 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Average Guys Aren’t Struggling, They’re the Majority of Men In RelationshipsWhat non-western people are you talking about? Indians? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:19 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Average Guys Aren’t Struggling, They’re the Majority of Men In Relationships20 percent of women are on anti-depressants and they attempt suicide 3 times as much as men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:15 AM |
| 12 | CMV: Average Guys Aren’t Struggling, They’re the Majority of Men In RelationshipsLate 20s is very different to being in school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:14 AM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP's obsession with lifting is cringy, delusional and borderline autistic.Lifting helps with literally all of those, I got back into lifting to make my posture better while dancing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Is there a difference between redpill term "Betabucks" and Femaledatingstrategy's term "High Value Men"?Is that high value? I thought they're a dime a dozen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Is there a difference between redpill term "Betabucks" and Femaledatingstrategy's term "High Value Men"?Status is how other people treat you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 06:49 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] The Red Pill is literally encouraging men to become mentally ill; even if the process attracts women, it is extremely damaging to a man's psycheI'm a robotics engineers who's been published in multiple journals and conferences. Trust me I know how slow progress is in my own field | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do redpillers ignore the grimy side of getting a high N-Count?This seems like a strawmen, since when is TRP against partying and drinking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Why do redpillers ignore the grimy side of getting a high N-Count?My N count is mid twenties, as is my age and I don't think I've banged any girl I'd "never been seen with". Most of my friends with high n counts seem to be similar. Yeah these girls aren't wife material, but they're not fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Is height a source of asymmetry between men and women?Correct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 04:23 AM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (12 January 2020)A woman asking about a girlfriend is probably fishing to see if you're single. i.e she's interested. seriously man i figured that shit out in the 8th grade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 03:00 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] The Red Pill is literally encouraging men to become mentally ill; even if the process attracts women, it is extremely damaging to a man's psycheThe fact that a whole fuck-lot of job are about to be automated, being automated, already GOT automated is non-controversial, well-known, and would be stupid to try to debate against. No that's actually completely wrong, automation rates are actually slowing down, unemployment is lower than it's been in decades, we've already picked from all the low hanging fruits of automation. It's very little to do with offshoring that is making Red State flyover Hicks unemployed and everything to do with aut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 01:14 AM |
| 3 | [CMV] The Red Pill is literally encouraging men to become mentally ill; even if the process attracts women, it is extremely damaging to a man's psycheHe vastly overestimates how many jobs are going to be automated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 12:52 AM |
| 5 | TRP, FDS, the prisoner's dilemma, and the endgame.Less and less people think so, which is why more and more people are taking the selfish route. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 12:01 AM |
| 11 | TRP, FDS, the prisoner's dilemma, and the endgame.This is what religion is for, the solution to the prisoner's dilemma is to that both the suspects don't say shit, because even if they do get a shorter sentence, when they get out the cartel boss kills them for being a snitch. Replace "cartel boss" with "God", and replace "kill them", with "send them to hell" and you have religion. Of course, some people break the rules in religious societies, just like some people occasionally snitch on the Mexican cartels, but it doesn't mean that the overall … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 11:58 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] The Red Pill is literally encouraging men to become mentally ill; even if the process attracts women, it is extremely damaging to a man's psycheYou can be nice if you're good looking. You'll underperform, but you can definitely still get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 11:47 PM |
| 0 | [CMV] The Red Pill is literally encouraging men to become mentally ill; even if the process attracts women, it is extremely damaging to a man's psycheHis job is about to be automated in the next five years (read Andrew yangs book the war on normal people). Andrew Yang has no idea what he's talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Is height a source of asymmetry between men and women?Taller women require more calories, calories that could be used to develop their offspring. Men select for immunocompetence via beauty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Is height a source of asymmetry between men and women?I'm skeptical of those armpit studies. This has nothing to do with compatibility, it's just that short height can be a result of childhood illness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 11:39 PM |
| 1 | New video from Dr. Todd Grande: Is Intelligence Attractive? | Can Too Much Intelligence Decrease Attraction?Why don't you provide actually quotations instead of vague "he's wrong" Jonatan Pallesen, aka your first link, is beyond laughable. Some grad students who needs to run monte carlos for trivial math. Taleb responded to him on twitter, he's beyond incompetent. The NLSY79 data has been shown to be garbage. Study doesn't use real IQ test and does absurd adjustments for age. Completely invalid garbage The 3rd guys response makes numerous mistakes, and flat out lies about Taleb said. If you want me to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 06:29 AM |
| 1 | New video from Dr. Todd Grande: Is Intelligence Attractive? | Can Too Much Intelligence Decrease Attraction?He explains everything, including providing links to technical papers that explain the math. Just because you can't understand does not mean he didn't do provide it. plenty of people already did the math that he suggests shouldn't exist. What? Who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 05:52 AM |
| 1 | New video from Dr. Todd Grande: Is Intelligence Attractive? | Can Too Much Intelligence Decrease Attraction?Anything that would indicate this extends to IQ? Depends on what aspect of IQ you're talking about. Here's some background on why the math behind IQ is garbage https://medium.com/incerto/iq-is-largely-a-pseudoscientific-swindle-f131c101ba39 To summarize, IQ is only predictive of life outcomes(like income) on the low end of the spectrum, and that's assuming the person taking the test is actually trying(there's no way for them to control for motivation) and has been through a Western education sys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (12 January 2020)lol no. We don't have to put on makeup or do much to our hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 05:00 AM |
| -2 | Is height a source of asymmetry between men and women?Height helps, but it's not that big of a deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 02:19 AM |
| 0 | Is height a source of asymmetry between men and women?Female attraction to height is almost certainly due to it being a proxy for immunocompetence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Why do weeb Red Pillers fetishize Japan and Korea when these countries have many of the problems they complain about?The dude you're replying too is Eastern European. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 12:13 AM |
| 1 | New video from Dr. Todd Grande: Is Intelligence Attractive? | Can Too Much Intelligence Decrease Attraction?Intelligence is a vague concept. If you mean IQ, I doubt you can accurately guess someone's IQ by talking to them, unless it's particularly low. Everytime this topic comes up, the idea of intelligence is being as close to Sheldon from the Big Bang Theory as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 12:04 AM |
| 5 | New video from Dr. Todd Grande: Is Intelligence Attractive? | Can Too Much Intelligence Decrease Attraction?Same, except I'm black and 6'1 I kinda feel bad all the ugly guys who fall for "its you personality line", I've fucked girls who don't even speak English. It's such obvious bullshit. Yeah being a straight sperg will hurt you badly, but being good looking also gives you a ton of opportunity to learn social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Why do guys not want relationships as much as women?Your argument is that Bill Clinton is boring. I don't see what definition of boring fits Bill Clinton. That fact that he got a bj in the oval and people still give him shit for it is the opposite of boring. Mitt Romney is what I'd call "boring". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 11:46 PM |
| 0 | Why do guys not want relationships as much as women?Because correlation isn't causation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys not want relationships as much as women?Bill Clinton, Donald Trump, Jeff Bezos, Tiger Woods, David Letterman all got caught fucking women behind their wives backs. Id hardly call all those men boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys not want relationships as much as women?Plenty of men want relationships, so I'm not sure of the premise of the question. The men you might want a relationship with might not want one with you, that doesn't mean men don't want them in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 11:33 PM |
| 1 | New video from Dr. Todd Grande: Is Intelligence Attractive? | Can Too Much Intelligence Decrease Attraction?It's one of the most rigorously studied phenomena in psychology. Which is like being the smartest kid on the short bus. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Replication_crisis#In_psychology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 11:29 PM |
| -1 | New video from Dr. Todd Grande: Is Intelligence Attractive? | Can Too Much Intelligence Decrease Attraction?The concept of IQ and the WAIS have little scientific backing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Interracial RelationsWomen don't pursue men in general. Obviously most women have never dated a black guy, they're 5x times as many white women as black men in the country, and alot don't live near each other The huge majority of white women never have and never will want a black guy. Yeah, I completely disagree with that. There are women that would never sleep with a black guy, but they're not the vast majority. In fact, I'd say they're a minority, especially in bigger cities. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 07:02 PM |
| 8 | Interracial RelationsBlacks guys are better at game, the reasons hispanics are better at soccer. They come from a culture with it's encouraged and praticed from a very young age. I'm black and I would get in trouble with my parents for being shy, just like a white kid would get in trouble for having bad grades(my parents were also super strict about grades, but that's another story) The BBC thing is dumb, most girls aren't willing to commit fucking a guy because he might have a big dick. There's no evidence that bla… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Interracial RelationsThis isn’t an upward trend or something cultural or something that’s widespread. This is factually incorrect, the amount of interracial marriages has increased significantly over the last few decades, more than tripling https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2017/05/18/1-trends-and-patterns-in-intermarriage/ And that's just marriage when you talk about casual sex and non-martial dating the numbers probably up even more. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Interracial RelationsWhat's this study from? | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Interracial RelationsSome bishes do it to get token brownie points from their virtue signaling friends for shagging a Black. This is the dumbest cope I've ever heard. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Men clowning aroundIs this entire thread just a humble brag about how awesome you are? You would think an extrovert wouldn't need such validation from strangers online, but whatever floats your boat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Women find negative feminine traits unattractive.Just because fame can't overcome being 75, ugly, and short, doesn't mean it doesn't make you hotter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Men clowning aroundIt's weird that you're calling other people autistic, but you yourself clearly have trouble reading between the lines. "Clown game" basically means putting on an act, something that's unnatural. No one says dressing well, or getting out of the basement is clown game. They're talking about extroverted behavior that feels necessary but unnatural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Men clowning aroundI never really bought this, men choose plenty. They choose which girls to approach. They choose which girls to call back after fucking. They choose which girls to get into a relationship with. Which girls to marry. They're plenty of times where women are waiting to be chosen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 10:09 PM |
| 2 | What do you think are the best ways to gain status in college?Frat/Final Club Sports, especially if you're good and your school is well known for the sport. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Women find negative feminine traits unattractive.Being rich doesn't make you hotter Being famous certainly makes you hotter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Society’s preoccupation with and hatred for incels: just an excuse to bash male virgins in a socially acceptable way or well-earned contempt for a toxic “community?”Yeah, those two things are totally comparable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Women find negative feminine traits unattractive.Tom Holland is 5’8 and the fact he crossdressed as Rihanna didnt make him any less attractive. Tom Holland is famous. Stop using famous people to make a point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 05:01 AM |
| 1 | New tall guy theorySource? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 01:56 AM |
| 1 | New tall guy theoryWomen were catching up with men in height. When? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 01:54 AM |
| 3 | New tall guy theoryWhat? Height isn't determined by caloric intake unless you have a case of malnutrition. I'm saying evolution has made women shorter than men because they have to have kids and thus need to have a surplus of calories. Women are in general more energy efficient than men. That what they get for sacrificing peak power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Do women "really" hit the wall at 30?all women look worse without their makeup, older women look way worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 11:57 PM |
| 2 | New tall guy theoryWhy the fuck would there by a height difference between men and women then? 1) Because being taller requires more calories, and growing a human requires more calories. Do you even think about this stupid shit before you say it? No, it just comes naturally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Do women "really" hit the wall at 30?thanks, its real cold out here on the streets | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 11:50 PM |
| 1 | LTR hooked up with a much better looking Chad right before me. Doomed?No it isn't. Yeah it is. What's considered long term is subjective. An LTR is literally an agreement between two parties. What? No one says "we're officially a long term relationship", they say we're "officially dating", but just because you've decided it's exclusive doesn't make it a LTR. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 11:49 PM |
| 3 | New tall guy theoryBeing tall is a proxy for immouncomptence. The increased energy cost of being tall makes it harder for the immune system to function during childhood, hence if someone is tall it's shows their immune system was strong enough to deal with handicap and still survive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 10:53 PM |
| 1 | New tall guy theoryWrong. The most likely theory is that height is a proxy for immunocompetence and healthy development. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, Hang it up and delete your online dating profilesOut of curisoity do you think its fair that you have to send messages to women, or should you just swipe and they magically appear on your basement floor naked. I mean, I pretty much do have this, because I was born tall with a handsome face. But not everyone does and I feel bad for the little guy sometime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Do women "really" hit the wall at 30?literally admitting to beta bucks lmao wbu ? im homeless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Do women "really" hit the wall at 30?Tons of 40 year old professional Women in NY and Paris make more than half of your midwestern 25 year old hogs look like absolute shit Yeah, I call bullshit. Maybe when they're all dolled up, but wash off some of that make up, and take off those clothes and you'll clearly see the age difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Do women "really" hit the wall at 30?Once again, men don't need to rely solely on looks to get laid so even if men physically declined as quickly as women do, it wouldn't affect us as much. And men are more likely to get remarried after a divorce BTW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | LTR hooked up with a much better looking Chad right before me. Doomed?LTR is a vague word that means different things to different people. To me it means a relationship that I'm invested enough that I would be emotionally upset if it ended. And if I've been fucking a girl exclusively for 6 months, I'd probably feel that way, and I'm betting most men would too. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?The whole point is being successful isn't attractive to women until you're around 30. Prime women still prefer looks, games, and social status over moderate professional success. Now the famous part, you have a good point on. But most people who try to become famous crash and burn, and end up less successful than they would have if they took a safer route. It's kinda what happened in black community, we're extremely culturally productive. Look at how much music all over the globe is produced by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 10:28 PM |
| 0 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?Or does read things, but comes to dumb conclusion because he has a lack of understanding of human nature, particularly people who are outside of the narrow demographic he's familiar with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Society’s preoccupation with and hatred for incels: just an excuse to bash male virgins in a socially acceptable way or well-earned contempt for a toxic “community?”They literally call each other subhuman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Is marriage even worth it in 2020?Vetting won't save you. It will increase your odds, but people change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Society’s preoccupation with and hatred for incels: just an excuse to bash male virgins in a socially acceptable way or well-earned contempt for a toxic “community?”Most incels forms are filled with incels shitting on themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Q4all: Is marriage even worth it in 2020?Marriage is great when it works out well. The problem is it's one of the things that the longer it's been good, but the worse it's going to hurt when it goes bad. Imagine a happy marriage as taking out a loan on happiness from fate, except you don't know when the loan will need to repaid and how much the interest will be. If you're lucky the due date will be after you're dead, or that when it is due the interest won't be that bad, but most people aren't lucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 06:28 AM |
| 10 | Society’s preoccupation with and hatred for incels: just an excuse to bash male virgins in a socially acceptable way or well-earned contempt for a toxic “community?”Do all involuntary male virgins qualify or just the ones that are bitter at women about it? They would say the latter. Truth be told, I think alot of incel bashing is by people, both men and women, are just marginally more successful than incels in dating, and want to bash on an easy target to make themselves feel better. No shit incels suck, incels even think incels suck. But the idea that they're any real harm to society because 2 dudes killed a combined 15 people in some shooting is the left … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 06:21 AM |
| 1 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?He's a good life coach and not much else. 1) People on here say he's a good psychologist, but I don't think there really is such a thing because psychology is such a bust field. Half of their studies are failing to replicate and they haven't really contributed anything to humanity other than wasting undergrads tuition dollars. 2) He's a complete hypocrite about free speech, did you see him stand up for Colin Kapernick or any of the NFL players who were taking a knee during the national anthem? 3… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 06:17 AM |
| 1 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?Psychology is a joke field, half of the studies in their best journals have failed to replicate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 06:04 AM |
| 1 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?He gives people advice on how to raise kids while doing a shitty job himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 06:02 AM |
| 1 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?Because free markets in economics incentives people to productive, while free markets in sexuality incentives people to become sexy. Only one of those things is helpful to society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 06:00 AM |
| 1 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?If I would guess though, 22 or 23? He wouldn't be a millennial. Youngest millennials are 26 or 27, which is more than capable of having a serious long term relationship experience. Women are capable of logic, they're just more prone to being overemotional, which is why you need to help them, not shut down. She might have a good reason to be upset, she might not. You don't know unless you figure it out. If she does have a good reason, you help her fix it. If she doesn't, you help her see that ove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 05:57 AM |
| 1 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?He also said in one of his talks that the time for a woman to find a partner is between 22 to 35, which falls pretty neatly into the wall concept. That's a massively broad age range, almost all women would agree that it's ideal to find a partner before you're 35. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 05:48 AM |
| 1 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?Who's the left? He was on Bill Maher's show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 05:46 AM |
| 1 | TRP depresses me because it seems to say you can never trust a womanDuh, that's why you want a realtionship. You just have to realize to the risk you're exposing yourself to. It's not a risk that you can't recover from, at least in most cases. Not dating because of other people say you can't trust women is getting the worst of both worlds You're getting the cynism of someones whos been hurt, without any of the actual positive experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 06:37 AM |
| 3 | TRP depresses me because it seems to say you can never trust a womanYou can't completely trust anyone. People will even turn on their blood relatives. Relationships with women are more fragile than other relationships in our life because 1) It could be ruined in an instant(via cheating) 2) If she's even halfway attractive she's going to CONSTANTLY be tempted do number 1, or atleast monkey branch. 3) Your life decisions will become more intwined than any other realtionship in your life. You don't share bank accounts, children, and a bedroom with anyone else excep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 06:16 AM |
| 6 | Any other black men hate black woman?They can born in America as long as their parents weren't. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 06:07 AM |
| 4 | Looks get women quickly, but personality reels women OVER TIME.For many men, having women salivate over him and have non-exclusive casual sex with him is most certainly the "win" condition. This got boring after a few months for me and alot of men. It's good for the ego, but once your ego is satiated it's just alot of work for a quick of high of sexual novelty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Looks get women quickly, but personality reels women OVER TIME."Personality" is just a series of behavioral habits, like all habits they can be changed with time and practice. Especially since alot of "boring" personality is simply a result of someone not being comfortable around people they don't know well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Is online game ie Hinge/bumble a waste of time vs Daygame? (NYC)Online women are going to view most guys as disposable because to them most guys are. New York city is a terrible place for relationships from what I've heard, still being 6'2 and making that much money should put you a hair above the rest. Are you ugly? But yes, if you're looking for a relationship I'd stay clear of dating apps in a city that, the chance that those girls haven't been on the cock carousel is extremely low. Your goal should be to grab a young girl who literally just moved to the … | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 12:39 AM |
| 25 | Any other black men hate black woman?Black women are fine, American Black women from a certain culture are the problem. Their bar for alpha is so high that committing to one would be beyond pointless. Go for Africans, Carribeans, Latinos, and middle to upper class black women. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 12:32 AM |
| 1 | is anyone having a hard time finding male friends after you got muscular and better good looking ?Being good looking makes it easier to make friends with high quality men, and harder to make friends with low quality men. Do you actually have any hobbies? | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 12:28 AM |
| 1 | LTR hooked up with a much better looking Chad right before me. Doomed?Disagree, 6 months is when relationships begin to cross into the LTR stage | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 12:25 AM |
| 1 | How do you become financially successful?In fact don't get into debt ever unless you have ZERO other options (eg health things). So you're against buying a house? | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Is dominance really the only path to respect?Have you actually crawled up in a ball and cried for a week, or you just guessing that theyd put up with this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 12:11 AM |
| 7 | Is dominance really the only path to respect?You know an attractive young girl who would have respected you if curled into a ball in cried for a week? I'm sure they exist, but I don't think they're common enough to rely upon their existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 07:51 AM |
| 4 | Do women "really" hit the wall at 30?People are borderline autistic every time this question is asked. No the wall doesn't mean women turn into old hag, or can't get a boyfriend past age 30. But as alot of women approach 30 they don't just want boyfriends they want husbands, who have good incomes to support a middle class family. Problem is alot of other women want the same thing, and the guys know it. If I'm a 30 year old guy with a good income, why settle down with a 30 year old who's going to want a ring and kids pronto when I c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Do women "really" hit the wall at 30?what a well thought out argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Do women "really" hit the wall at 30?Bingo, and I think your timeline is optimistic. Who wants to get pregnant on their honeymoon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 12:21 AM |
| -1 | Do women "really" hit the wall at 30?didnt you say your dating an asian with dad bod just lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Do women "really" hit the wall at 30?Please, IRL women talk more about The Wall then men. Why do you think anti aging creams and treatment are a multi billion dollar business that markets mainly to women. If you live in a city like NY, LA, SF or Miami you’ll see countless people in their 40’s that are far hotter than just about any 25 year old from Tulsa Yeah this is bullshit, at for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 12:17 AM |
| 5 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.This would be fine if the goverment didn't forcibly take mens money and give it to women who made poor life description on who'd they have kids with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 06:46 AM |
| 3 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.If you want to understand it from an evo psych perspective, think of it as women like fucking the type of guys they'd want their sons to be like if their sole desire for their son was to fuck as many chicks as possible. That why beta becomes repulsive their subconcious doesn't want a son who's going to spend him time fucking one girl and raising her kids, which might not even be his. Their don't want their son to be a bitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Fellas, Hang it up and delete your online dating profilesThere are similar experiences in life for non university people. What do you think people goto university then retreat to the basement with a bag a cheeto's. No, but alot of people have trouble finding friends after university. No it isn't. But its the way the social dance generally starts. Ok, but it's like you're saying "unemployment can't be high, I saw a ton of people at the recent career fair" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 06:41 AM |
| 0 | Men Are Scared of Women Because of the Divorce Rates so It Makes Trying Hopelesshttps://money.com/alimony-reform-spousal-support/ It probably varies state by state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Fellas, Hang it up and delete your online dating profilesMost of these matches probably aren't with attractive women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Fellas, Hang it up and delete your online dating profilesI live in a city with two universities, so I get to see plenty of social events going on and even in shops I see students talking to each other. 1) Universities are not the real world. 2) Talking is not fucking. Overall you're right, black piller way overemphasis looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Fellas, Hang it up and delete your online dating profilesThis is dumb. Being good at things for your own sake, not to impress women. Lots of kids are hack sack champions and suck with women. I know doctors that suck with women. If you want to get laid, look good and know how to socialize with them in a way that turns them on. It's that simple. It takes alot of work, but it's not complicated. Trying to use to hobby to turn a girl on is retarded. Hobbies, if anything, are a good way to meet women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 12:53 AM |
| 0 | Men Are Scared of Women Because of the Divorce Rates so It Makes Trying HopelessAlimony is quite rare happens in 10 percent of cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 12:48 AM |
| 7 | Men Are Scared of Women Because of the Divorce Rates so It Makes Trying HopelessMen fear of being rejected for a date is more a fear of reputational and ego hit, not a fear of the women herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 12:47 AM |
| 7 | Men Are Scared of Women Because of the Divorce Rates so It Makes Trying HopelessMost men are manosphere men, they are scared of marriage but not scared of women. The reason they're scared of marriage is that it provides no benefit to them and alot of risk and responsibilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 12:43 AM |
| 1 | FDS is just a guide to blocking everyoneNah, I've known plenty of Chad who are just slightly above average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Rough percentage of men not attractive enough to use tinder?yea because bots and camgirls swipe right on everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 10:51 PM |
| 4 | FDS is just a guide to blocking everyoneAs a man the rules don't look too bad on the surface, other than a few things that would be outdated in the age of the smartphone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 10:38 PM |
| 5 | FDS is just a guide to blocking everyoneBeing Chad requires alot of practice socializing and some(not alot though) genetic luck with looks. Male attractiveness is usually a result of work. Female attractiveness is more luck, there's work involved in looking good, but your ceiling is mainly going to be genetics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Undesirability of High IQ MenWell if google says his IQ is 96 clearly it must be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Undesirability of High IQ MenAll of those people are mostly idiots who's BS has been debunked numerous times(lmao @ lynn and murray seriously?), and psychometry as a field has contributed virtually nothing to mankind, along with most of the field of psychology. If you want to know about humans work, ask a businessman, politican, or advertiser, not some academics who's studies fail to replicate more often than not. Academia is largely cancer on this country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Porn, FOMO and the romantically unsuccessfulI really don't get the obsession with porn as the enemy by women and social conservatives. Like, I just don't see it. If anything women should be grateful to porn for giving unfuckable guys an outlet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Undesirability of High IQ MenReally? Why don't you actually read up about Lil Wayne, or as he's legally known Dwayne Michael Carter Jr. Carter enrolled in the gifted program of Lafayette Elementary School and in the drama club of Eleanor McMain Secondary School.[11 Wayne attended McMain in the early 1990s for two years. He moved to the Marion Abramson Senior High School.[12] He wrote his first rap song at age eight.[14] In the summer of 1991, he met Bryan Williams, rapper and owner of Cash Money Records. Carter recorded fre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Undesirability of High IQ MenAshkenazi jews know lots of high IQ people lol we were discussing "women", again, not me Jews know alot of people who have complex professions. That doesn't mean they'd score high on an IQ test. Richard Feymann, one of the best minds of recorded history only gets a 125, not even qualifying from Mensa. If 125 can win the nobel prize in physics how many average doctors and lawyers do you know that probably are way lower? My childhood wechsler and stanford binet. Very likely you'd get a very differ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Undesirability of High IQ MenAnd I'm sure they'd invest millions of dollars into incompetent untalented rando rather than a talented one because recording companies don't care about return on investment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Undesirability of High IQ MenMeaningless verbalism. Intelligence can be defined by the ability to get what want with a given set of resources. If you can't get laid in 2019 and you run to incel forums to whine about women, you're not smart, no matter how many degrees or github commits you have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Undesirability of High IQ MenI think Lil Wayne is extremely competent in an extremely competitive field AND happened to be in the right place at the right time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Undesirability of High IQ MenITT everyone has the magical ability to read the IQ of everyone they're talking to, even though it's extremely rare for a person to have taken an actual IQ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Undesirability of High IQ Men"smart guy" here. gotten many women, some because of my smart guy job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 10:52 PM |
| 6 | Undesirability of High IQ MenWomen are almost certainly attracted to intelligence, if they weren't human wouldn't likely have become the most intelligent species on the planet by a mile. They just measure "intelligence" by your ability to climb dominance and social hierarchies, not write code. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Undesirability of High IQ MenIf they're so dumb, why don't you just take their jobs and become a multi-millionaire that has thousands of women chasing after him? Surely it can't that be that hard to outdo a bunch of idiots? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Undesirability of High IQ MenDo people where you live have their IQ test resulted in tatood on their forehead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Undesirability of High IQ MenWhat type of IQ test did you take, and why did you take it? They're quite expensive to take simply for curiosity and typically only given if someone's having learning problems, or being considered for some sort of gifted program. everyine on my fathers side has multiple degrees foung back generations. Having a degree, even many degrees doesn't mean you have a high IQ. Scoring high on IQ test doesn't even mean you'd score high on another one. My point remains, almost everyone has met someone who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Undesirability of High IQ MenThat's not my experience at all, when women hear what I do the first response is "wow, so you must be like really really smart". My field is not extroverted at all. I do fine with women, and because the place I work is famous and well known to almost all of them, my job actually helps me because it has some prestige attached to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Undesirability of High IQ MenWhat's your idea of highly correlated? And where's the evidence to back any of this up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 09:57 PM |
| 0 | Undesirability of High IQ MenIQ test are a recent invention, the word "intelligence" far predates that. The idea that the entire world thinks IQ = intelligence is absurd.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Undesirability of High IQ Menmind you it's very good for predicting academic success Not actual success Hence why IQ is correlated with income. That statement doesn't even make sense if you understand what correlation means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 09:52 PM |
| 4 | Undesirability of High IQ Menmost people will NEVER meet people in the 140+ range and are never talking about them IQ over 140 are just a little rarer than 1/100, you've almost certainly meet someone that was capable of scoring that high, especially if you went to college. It is around as common as a man who's as tall 6'7 or so. Of course there really no such thing as having an IQ of 140 because retest values varying widely. And while I've seen the assumption that high IQ would mean socially awkward or weird to talk to many… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 09:50 PM |
| 1 | How's Mark Mansons Models "Vulnerability" in par with trp?You can definitely benefit from red pill without lifting. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 09:38 PM |
| 1 | New Tinder study; approx 20% of Tinder users have had a one night stand, almost none had more than one ONSSeeing as most tinder users almost certainly aren't college student, I'd had to guess very different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Rural/City dating selection differences and how that effects your view of "All Women/Men"I guess not a surplus but there's relatively more than other other large metro area in the country, also more gay men in NY than gay women. https://www.citylab.com/life/2019/02/valentines-day-single-dating-best-cities-find-love/582667/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Rural/City dating selection differences and how that effects your view of "All Women/Men"Really? TRP is always about "its not your turn", spinnning plates, cold approaching, etc. All things that only work in an urban environment. If anything I think a valid criticism is their whole approach to dating is too tailored toward urban professionals. New York is one of the rare cities in the country that has a surplus of young women. So that makes it easier for men then almost anywhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 04:24 AM |
| 5 | How's Mark Mansons Models "Vulnerability" in par with trp?Manson was also living in asian when he wrote models, which honestly make me skeptical of alot of his personal ancedotes being relevant to a man living in the west. Truth be told, he seems to be similar to TRP in that he's trying to prevent men from becoming PUA approach monkey, throwing down lines and routines, getting girls into bed occasionally, but not knowing how to have a lasting relationship with them. Nowadays PUA advice is more red pill theory based than when he wrote his book. Back the… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Online Dating is to women as Strip Clubs are to menHonestly, I think strip clubs suck, you're effectively paying to be teased, the only time I've been is when I've been brought by someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 01:41 AM |
| 1 | FDS and TRP are for people who’ve seen the worst side of the opposite sex. What they went through or experienced varies by individual and dictates their level of anger towards the other side hence why there is sometimes a lack of willingness to see the other side’s point of view.Imagine two couples in their mid 20s, 1 month into dating they're doing typical couples shit, still going out dates, still putting on a bit of an act for the other person, still fucking like rabbits. Even if the people involved are very different, the nature of the relationships themselves is probably quite similar at this point. Fast forward 10 years, 1 of the couples has 2 young children, and the other has decided to forgo having children and is living a comfortable professional DINK lifestyle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 01:39 AM |
| 1 | FDS and TRP are for people who’ve seen the worst side of the opposite sex. What they went through or experienced varies by individual and dictates their level of anger towards the other side hence why there is sometimes a lack of willingness to see the other side’s point of view.Obviously they're different, but they become more different as time goes on due to: affairs, inlaws, finance issues, cohabitation, kids, illness. None of the above are a factor in a 1 day old relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Do people acknowledge that happy relationships exist? Or do you think it's reserved only for select few elite/chads/etcThe problem isn't that there isn't happy realtionships, it's how sustainable is that happiness is. Almost all relationships are happy in beginning. But the more time goes on the more stresses the relationships undergoes and the more devasting it is to when/if it ends because of the emotional investment. It's like you're taking out a happiness loan that will one day have to be paid back in full. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Do people acknowledge that happy relationships exist? Or do you think it's reserved only for select few elite/chads/etcThis is exactly correct. Time is the great eraser. A relationship that's been pretty good years can literally be destroyed in a day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Do people acknowledge that happy relationships exist? Or do you think it's reserved only for select few elite/chads/etc20 years isn't that great of a cut off, especially since they'll still have kids at home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Do people acknowledge that happy relationships exist? Or do you think it's reserved only for select few elite/chads/etcWhat do you consider upper middle class? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Online Dating is to women as Strip Clubs are to menI really really doubt it. The few times I've been to a strip clubs there girls weren't even that hot tbqh. Super trashy. You'll see hotter girls walking around any college campus. The main appeal of the girls in the strip is that they're naked, and they pretend to like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 01:01 AM |
| 1 | TRP has done innumerable harm to womenWhen do they ask to leave he lets them? He even said he'd call them a cab. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Online Dating is to women as Strip Clubs are to menI think there’s another way its apt: both OLD and strip clubs create a false sense of abundance mentality, make both genders assume that they can punch far above their SMV/RMV Does any man really raise his standards for a girlfriend based what he sees in strip club | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 12:51 AM |
| 1 | TRP has done innumerable harm to womenLiterally right below the part you quoted. Second, women have the choice not to have sex with me (duh) and they can act on that. No one is making a girl stay at my place and having sex with me instead of going home like she claimed she would 10 min ago...but they continue to do so over and over again. I can easily call her a cab and she can be on her way if she wanted. But we all know that's not what they're really seeking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 12:42 AM |
| 2 | FDS and TRP are for people who’ve seen the worst side of the opposite sex. What they went through or experienced varies by individual and dictates their level of anger towards the other side hence why there is sometimes a lack of willingness to see the other side’s point of view.The longer a relationship gets the less "typical" it becomes. So many factors begin to enter into a decade long realtionship, that there's isn't really such a thing as the typical or common couple that's been dating for that long, although many will appear so on the surface. Basically, if you take a group of couples that have been dating for 1 year and a group of couples that have been together for 10 years. The relationships of the first group are going to be more similar to each other than the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 12:40 AM |
| 6 | FDS and TRP are for people who’ve seen the worst side of the opposite sex. What they went through or experienced varies by individual and dictates their level of anger towards the other side hence why there is sometimes a lack of willingness to see the other side’s point of view.This has been literally been studied before the internet has existed. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Killology#The_problem_of_non-_or_mis-firing_soldiers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 12:29 AM |
| 1 | TRP has done innumerable harm to womenWell, I can't see the context since you've conveniently not linked to anything, but there's nothing in there about physically forcing yourself on women, or not letting her leave. It sounds like it's about issuing an ultimatum to women you're already in a serious relationship with. "Start fucking me more or I'm out". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 12:20 AM |
| 1 | FDS and TRP are for people who’ve seen the worst side of the opposite sex. What they went through or experienced varies by individual and dictates their level of anger towards the other side hence why there is sometimes a lack of willingness to see the other side’s point of view.Regardless of the ethics, women, in my experience have a hard time being attracted to men they see as doormats. I don't read FDS so I only know what they advocate for through second-hand accounts I see here, but it seems like it's useful if you're trying to extract attention and maybe resources from low-value guys. I don't think that's what alot of women want though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 12:13 AM |
| 1 | FDS and TRP are for people who’ve seen the worst side of the opposite sex. What they went through or experienced varies by individual and dictates their level of anger towards the other side hence why there is sometimes a lack of willingness to see the other side’s point of view.There's no 17 years relationship that's common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 12:09 AM |
| 3 | FDS and TRP are for people who’ve seen the worst side of the opposite sex. What they went through or experienced varies by individual and dictates their level of anger towards the other side hence why there is sometimes a lack of willingness to see the other side’s point of view.If men are killing machines why do so many get ptsd? Hell, why do we need bootcamp in the military. Even in wars like WWII and Vietnam, a significant minority of men refused to fire their weapons, even when engaged by the enemy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 12:08 AM |
| 3 | FDS and TRP are for people who’ve seen the worst side of the opposite sex. What they went through or experienced varies by individual and dictates their level of anger towards the other side hence why there is sometimes a lack of willingness to see the other side’s point of view.While a stupid amount of TRP is about how to spin plates, there is a non trival amount dedicated to how to handle medium to long term realtionships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 12:00 AM |
| 2 | TRP has done innumerable harm to womenStop changing the subject. This is about what TRP advocates. Where does TRP advocate not letting women leave? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Couples who split chores equally DON'T have less sex. The previously posted study was based on outdated data.affecting all research to the point it's barely worth saying It's certainly worth saying, it's a major problem with virtually all of the social sciences. In my experience the people who do social science research are not unaware of the 'messiness', or less coherent on the scientific method (generally they're more so, precisely because their area is so messy). I very much disagree. I've seen numerous stats mistakes in the social sciences that show many of these researchers fundamentally do not un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Couples who split chores equally DON'T have less sex. The previously posted study was based on outdated data.Because the social sciences are garbage filled with mediocre minds desperate to get tenure and thus will publish anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 11:41 PM |
| 1 | TRP has done innumerable harm to womenIn the last world wars millions of women were raped. Tinder fuckboys are preferable to rapist from the Red Army. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 11:39 PM |
| 1 | TRP has done innumerable harm to womenthen leave, and if he doesn't let you then its certainly rape, but you won't find anywhere on TRP that suggests stopping a girl from leaving your place under any circumstance. you're just mad because he's not letting you be a tease | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Dancing will get you laid - a list of things boys can do to be popular with girlsGo get some hobbies is hardly mind blowing advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Dancing will get you laid - a list of things boys can do to be popular with girlsYeah good follows that are hot are pretty much untouchable for anyone who hasn’t been dancing years. Your best bet is with newbies who are just trying it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 09:18 PM |
| 0 | CMV: I don't think trp is nothing more than projection of male thinking onto womenI’m on my phone so it’s hard to link, but both of Donald Trump older sons are below average, ignoring height and just focusing on face Edit: especially Eric, Donald trump juniors probably more around average, if ignore that he’s getting fat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 04:35 AM |
| 7 | Dancing will get you laid - a list of things boys can do to be popular with girlsAs a serious dancer, who spent thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours on my hobby. Dancing is good way to meet people if you really like it, but if you don’t, you’ll never get good enough to impress anyone. The overall idea of getting a hobby you will enjoy and put you around girls is a good one, but don’t imagine that if you go to dance class you’ll be surrounded with tons of gorgeous single women just longing for someone to dance with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 04:23 AM |
| 3 | CMV: I don't think trp is nothing more than projection of male thinking onto womenlol at the personality part. I’ve hooked up with girls who don’t speak English, or who spoke English so poorly there’s no way they’d be able to get a good read on my personality. Face is important but there’s plenty of mediocre looking jacked do who score with some horny chick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 03:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: I don't think trp is nothing more than projection of male thinking onto womenDepends on your definition of “bad”, I think you’d do fine with a guy that had a below average face and something like Zyzzs body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 02:50 AM |
| 3 | TRP has done innumerable harm to womenWe’ve already gone from calling it rape to coercion. Not that ignoring someone can be considered coercion by any reasonable person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 02:48 AM |
| 6 | TRP has done innumerable harm to womenThe correct action to dealing with last minute is to withdraw sexual attention from the girl completely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 12:13 AM |
| 12 | CMV: I don't think trp is nothing more than projection of male thinking onto womenYour first and third example can proved wrong by making a tinder account using a ripped male models pictures. For your second example, just look at the men the most attractive women in the world date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 12:07 AM |
| 7 | TRP has done innumerable harm to womenI stopped reading when you said trp advocated rape. Please stop making shit up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 11:48 PM |
| 13 | TRP has done innumerable harm to womenIn a modern peaceful society, relationship and dating take up an enormous amount of mental and emotional energy of both men and women. It’s not just weird reddits most people have been seriously hurt by someone of the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Study: Men who do more housework have less sexMen who are unemployed are more likely to do housework and less likely to have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 07:12 PM |
| 7 | Antisocial TRP and FDS strategies don't scale when adopted by a large population. The dating market becomes dysfunctional when too many individuals adopt the strategies they prescribe.A lot of dudes who have no idea what trp is are already effectively doing a lot of what’s it advocating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 12:58 AM |
| 5 | TRP gives men advice on how to get women to have sex with them (their imperative) so what's some real advice on how I can get guys and make them stay as a women?This is completely correct. Women who have managed to lock down high quality men are the best for taking advice on how to lock down high quality men. The only thing that sucks for women is that those girls that are good at getting and staying in relationships probably only have had a few realtionships, so they may not really know why their relationships works. And it kinda hard to give advice without experiencing a lot of failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 10:47 PM |
| 5 | From an Evo Psych perspective, beta males shouldn't existFor the last fucking time alpha and beta are not types of people they are types of behavior, that all men can exhibit in the proper situation. Bêta behaviors are useful for getting along with people and keeping your head down so no one kicked your teeth in alpha behaviors are useful once you’ve reached a position of strength and ready to exploit it. Generally we socialize young boys that alpha behavior is bad, so there are some men that will almost never show alpha behaviors even when they’re in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 10:07 PM |
| 1 | If LTRs are bad for men why do most studies say they are happier than single men?It’s impossible to control for confounding variables in a study like thiS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | If LTRs are bad for men why do most studies say they are happier than single men?What depends on the study? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 08:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men don't give a shit about woman's age, even for LTRs and marriage. If a woman is hot enough, they won't care if she's 25 or 50.You really shouldn’t ever use celebrities to make a point about the general population. Charlize Therron is attractive because she doesn’t look old, mainly due to makeup and good genetics. Very few women will age like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 08:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men don't give a shit about woman's age, even for LTRs and marriage. If a woman is hot enough, they won't care if she's 25 or 50.I think this a bit of projection from the female prospective. While guys do get something out of showing off hot girls, I don’t think they particularly get anything out of showing off younger girls. It just that younger girls tend to be hotter. If anything I think you’d get more status for getting a hot older women than a hot younger women, because older women tend to be more accomplished, and getting a women that’s accomplished + attractive is way more impressive than getting a 23 year hot bart… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 08:44 PM |
| 2 | If LTRs are bad for men why do most studies say they are happier than single men?Is everyone of this subreddit scientifically illiterate? Do you not understand what a confounding variable is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 05:01 PM |
| 1 | What is "average" in the matter of relationship marketplace value (RMV) and what can you attract with that?Yeah but once again guys who have those traits tend to all live in the same cities. Just like men in New York aren’t impressed a girl not being fat, the women aren’t going to impressed by a guy not being a total failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/19 11:23 PM |
| 1 | What is "average" in the matter of relationship marketplace value (RMV) and what can you attract with that?This is assuming that the occurrence of those traits are independent of each other, which they are not. A better point to make is guys who have those traits tend to all live in the same places, thus making their excellence a lot less relevant. No girls is going to impressed by a guy in NYC being in shape and having his shit together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | TRP biggest mistake is assuming women have same attraction pattern as menSherlock in his show is a unique genius who everyone runs to to solve his problem. The show demonstrates how important he is by having him treat most of his friends like crap, and still having them constantly come back asking for advice. Sherlock is the highest status man in his show. Thor is just one of the many super heroes in the Marvel series, he’s not even the most powerful person in most of the movies he stars in, and he doesn’t have a tv series to develop his character. Tony Stark is a be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | TRP biggest mistake is assuming women have same attraction pattern as menIt’s called game because most the involved skills in game have no practical application other than getting women to sleep with you. Game is a subsection of a charisma, but there are plenty of charmstic guys who don’t know how to sleep with women. Game is set of behavioral heuristics for what’s like to attract women, especially pretty ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/19 07:27 PM |
| 1 | TRP biggest mistake is assuming women have same attraction pattern as menI disagree, especially for a relationships or even fwb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | TRP biggest mistake is assuming women have same attraction pattern as menPartly right but this is incomplete. Status is how other people treat you. Being charismatic is one way to get high status, but your social power is just as important. Which is why status is context dependent. A surgeon will be a king in the OR, but a nobody in a loud nightclub. In the OR he has power, because of his skills not because of his personality. In the club he has none. Rock stars are an extreme examples but a lot of groupies would still fuck him even if he was kinda awkward in person,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/19 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (22 December 2019)Pretty much none, google some of the criticisms. There’s little empirical evidence behind it and the model was pretty made up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 12:27 AM |
| 1 | What do women mean when they say men should dress better and have better hairstyles?Yeah I’m 5’11 and probably above 7 on looks based on how women treat me. But at some points I literally had women complimenting me just for having my clothes ironed. Like wtf I’m a professional. Can you provide me some tips to stand out more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 12:20 AM |
| 1 | What do women mean when they say men should dress better and have better hairstyles?Honestly I’ve been shocked on how many women have commented extremely positively on my preppy outfit. Back when I was single every date was: Tailored OCBD Allen Edmonds Oxford and matching belt Bonobos Chinos. A monkey could put together my outfit and yet many women commented effusively on my dress style. It actually made me feel bad for them if the average man was dressing so poorly that I was able to impress them with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 12:07 AM |
| 1 | What do women mean when they say men should dress better and have better hairstyles?Clients? What do you do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (22 December 2019)I think you’re conflating ancedotes with personal experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (22 December 2019)When I hear “get involved in a scene”, I think of actually doing something. What you’re talking about is referred to as social circle game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (22 December 2019)Frats have fun parties with or without a band | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (22 December 2019)My N count is north of 20 and virtually all of it has come from tinder, if you want to have lots of casual sex, look good and get a good photographer. It’s absurdly more efficient than partying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (22 December 2019)Yeah and they were plenty of anecdotes about missles hitting the World Trade Center on 9/11. On a socially retarded moron takes ancedotes, especially from an stranger on the an anonymous ideologically charged Internet forum seriously without a massive grain of salt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do.How about you go read the Wikipedia page on Myers Briggs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Sexual narcissism predicts adversarial sexual beliefs and the use of pick-up artist techniques.No, the replication crisis has hit all parts of psychology. And the fact that medicine suffers from the same crisis albeit to a lesser degree doesn’t make psychology any better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Sexual narcissism predicts adversarial sexual beliefs and the use of pick-up artist techniques.It means many, if not most, of the papers in the field on psychology have failed to replicate whenever an attempt was made. I fail to see how the broadness of the field is relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 02:54 AM |
| 5 | Sexual narcissism predicts adversarial sexual beliefs and the use of pick-up artist techniques.1) The only way to determine anything useful about someone’s personality is to observe their behavior(while they’re not aware you’re doing so for an experiment), not ask them about their beliefs 2) I’m betting this study, like most psychological bullshit only samples college undergrads, a very narrow subset of the population.(I checked and it looks like I’m correct) Seriously these psychology studies are an utter disgrace. There is virtually no study about human sexuality that can be both accura… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 11:03 PM |
| 6 | Why do quite many red pillers seem incapable to love?Is literally nothing in your life your fault? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do.There’s nothing empirical about Myer Briggs, it’s a bullshit model, from a bullshit field. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 06:29 AM |
| 8 | How Do I Deal with Rising SMV Growing Pains?Black guy here, the above post is sperg bullshit. You’re not automatically considered threatening for being black by white people, in fact, I think successful black men have an easier time making friends with successful white people than than the average white guy does, purely for the novelty factor. If anything he needs be going after non-black girls more, that reponse he posted sounded like typical black girl bullshit. And black women have a higher standard for alpha than any other women, so i… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 02:42 AM |
| 3 | One of my better plates admitted to cheating on her exShit taste in men is one of the biggest red flags. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 02:27 AM |
| 11 | Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do.Post wasn’t a correction of your idea, just an addition. Similar things to the white feathers have been observed in other cultures. And it doesn’t surprise me that the order of the white feathers was started by a man. Women DO respond to socialization so if I were a man and wanted to get the young men in my civilization to do something I’d socialization to women to reward them for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/19 06:06 PM |
| 4 | Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do.I mean you believe in Myer Briggs so you might as well believe in Santa Claus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/19 05:54 PM |
| 25 | Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do.Socialization isn’t the best way to influence the action of men, female preference is. This is why during the world wars the allies had women going around and shaming any young man that wasn’t in uniform. If you want men to stop doing something get women to stop fucking men who do that thing. But that would mean feminist telling women what to do. You can see this happen in action with Stephen Milller, the White House guy that’s anti immigrant, when the world learned he had a somewhat attractive … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/19 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Most men are boring, not fit, not kinky, not ballsy and not that special. That is why women don't want to fuck with them.You’re right assholes never fuck women. That’s why battered women shelters aren’t a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/19 05:44 PM |
| 41 | Why do quite many red pillers seem incapable to love?lol no. If women were such geniuses at reading men, they wouldn’t all have asshole exes. Truth is women are similar to men in that they’re blinded by attraction, and willing to overlook massive and obvious red flags to be with a man they’re attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/19 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Most men are boring, not fit, not kinky, not ballsy and not that special. That is why women don't want to fuck with them.I know a guy who fits that definition to a tee, bitches about women, posts on manosphere subreddit, and his main hobby is getting laid. He constantly fucks some of the hottest chicks, and I believe it because he makes sex tapes or shows me the nudes they send him. MThe world isn’t just. “Bad” people sometimes get good things visa versa. Whiny sexist assholes, with not much going for them fuck girls, even attractive liberal feminist girls all the time, because when you make sometime your priority… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/19 08:20 AM |
| 7 | Are women aware of the wall, do they deny it, does it catch them off guard?For the last fucking time, the wall isn’t about sex. Sex with hot guys is cheap for women and will almost always be cheap for women, especially with online dating. Quit thinking like that women value dick like men value pussy. The wall is about commitment from a high status guy. That’s was expensive and valuable to women. These women are bemoaning their lost chance to have kids with a handsome, charismatic, upper middle class men. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the limit of involuntary single men before society turns disfunctional and starts degrading?Speed dating is already a thing and failed miserably. The thing people like about online is that is that it allows them to sample from a large amount of people quickly and easily. In-person events are limited by the amount people possible to fit into one space. It's also a much higher investment to go out in person to an event. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 02:21 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is the limit of involuntary single men before society turns disfunctional and starts degrading?I did wonder if we have a tinder burnout coming up, but honestly, I don't see any evidence for it, tinder revenues are highest of any app history, and other apps are exploding in userbase as well. All my single female friends are using Hinge or Bumble. For young working professionals in an urban environment, online dating seems to be the king for the foreseeable future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 01:53 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is the limit of involuntary single men before society turns disfunctional and starts degrading?What are you calling "dysfunctional"? And those sexless figures are for a wide age range, I'm betting most of those sexless men are on the younger end of the 18-30 spectrum. I think you're going to see more guys focusing on the gym and learning social skills instead of becoming productive members of society, and possibly more kids raised in single parents households. None of those things are good, none of those are going to destroy society alone. I think the real effect you're going to see is an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 01:39 AM |
| 0 | "Good genes" is a common explanation for sexual selection, despite scant scientific evidence that the most attractive mates predict offspring viability.TRP relies pretty heavily on fitness explanations for mate selection. However, this is not actually supported in evolutionary psychology and behavioral genetics - at least not anywhere near the degree TRP applies it. No TRP relies on the collective first-hand experience of its members to come up with a behavioral model of female behavior. While they sometimes try to explain the origin of this model in evo pysch, no one came up with the idea of how to deal with a shit test by reading an academic … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that women always push for cohabitation as early as possible? Do you think cohabitation benefits women more than men?Ok where did I disagree with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that women always push for cohabitation as early as possible? Do you think cohabitation benefits women more than men?Where did I imply that I think it's a crime that waitresses make less than loggers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that women always push for cohabitation as early as possible? Do you think cohabitation benefits women more than men?this reverse gender gap, as it's known, applies only to unmarried, childless women under 30 who live in cities. The rest of working women — even those of the same age, but who are married or don't live in a major metropolitan area — are still on the less scenic side of the wage divide. Of course, everyone knows that excluding married men means leaving out many of the highest-earning men, making this study BS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that women always push for cohabitation as early as possible? Do you think cohabitation benefits women more than men?Post a link. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that women always push for cohabitation as early as possible? Do you think cohabitation benefits women more than men?No they don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that women always push for cohabitation as early as possible? Do you think cohabitation benefits women more than men?Then why do they still make less money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 12:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP is not for relationships. Stop trying to force fit it.Yeah, but the husband didn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 03:46 AM |
| 5 | As you get older, does the importance women place on mens looks decrease?I think alot of the "dead bedrooms" are caused by women decreasing their look standards for marriage and kids, and then realizing that the father of their children isn't that hot once they have a kid or two that's old enough to walk around. I don't think they do any of this consciously BTW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that for most of human history women were held to higher beauty standards than men?Comparing humans to peacocks or any other animal is retarded. Human's children have a 10+ year dependency period, peacocks don't. This means human females need more than just genes for the males, hence they appeal to be attractive. You'll note that the less women need men to raise their children, the more women select for hyper attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Did the sexual revolution harm society?Men didn't sit on women's neck, a teenage girl lead France to victory over Britain in the 100-year war. Women didn't do much because they were pregnant and busy raising kids. Same reason most female doctors don't work nearly as much hours as male doctors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Men Often Exaggerate the Expenses of Everything in Dating or MarriageMaybe top ten percentile https://dqydj.com/income-percentile-calculator/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 07:56 PM |
| 6 | Do poor men have an easier time with women?As someone who's lived in lower class and now lives in upper middle class, let me explain 1) Those groups are completely unaffected by feminism. When you grown to learn that men and women are equal, like many middle class white boys do, it can be very confusing when you learn there actually are a lot of very gender specfic expectation of you as a man, hence all the "you were lied to crap" you see on RP. 2) The culture of those groups tends to be shit test constantly, bullying is pretty common so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Do poor men have an easier time with women?In what world is an IT worker making less than a full time McDonalds cashier? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Men Often Exaggerate the Expenses of Everything in Dating or MarriageThat’s the top 2% of earners, Uh no it's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Men Often Exaggerate the Expenses of Everything in Dating or MarriageMost of their wives quit working, everyone I work with makes low 6 figures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Men Often Exaggerate the Expenses of Everything in Dating or MarriageMost men I know that have young children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/19 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (08 December 2019)That seems kinda fake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (08 December 2019)Honestly shit like that is pretty normal for tinder, when I used it I had all my dates at a bar within walking distance from my house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 06:07 AM |
| 1 | If women are attracted to alpha men only, why do they still settle down and have children with "beta" types during an age where single motherhood is viable?Only desperate girls fuck guys in hostels. You can define any girl who doesn't act like you think they should as desperate if you want. The fact is they're perfectly attractive. It's exactly what it's suggesting. When offered dick women generally decline. There are several videos on youtube where guys go around and ask women for sex. Look them up. That doesn't mean they don't want to have sex. That means they don't want bang some random dude coming up and them for it. Because it provides women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 02:07 PM |
| 13 | Men don't "NEED" women, either.Judging by the number of women that stay with men who literally beat them, I'm going to disagree. I mean 20 % of you are on happy pills and you still try and kill yourself 3x as much as men. The amount of "neediness" in a person is situation-dependent and person-dependent, not gender-dependent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 02:02 PM |
| 4 | Men don't "NEED" women, either.Artificial womb's will soon be a thing. No they won't this is dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (08 December 2019)Everyone looks at the nazi camp guards (or the commie ones) and says "I would never do that". Or at a less extreme level, turn a blind eye to the death trains and whatnot. But the lesson of history is.... Yes, you don't think you would do that, but it turns out that put in that situation lots of people do that, plain, normal, boring people do that. Millions of them. That's very different, nazi guard would have faced consequences if they didn't do what they were told. That and they were raised an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (08 December 2019)Once again, where do you think all the law and order came from in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | If women are attracted to alpha men only, why do they still settle down and have children with "beta" types during an age where single motherhood is viable?Women don't want sex. Especially not casual sex with men that they don't know. Yes, this is why tinder is the highest grossing app in history. There's no such thing as "attractive men". There are men who are fuckable and men who are buxers. Meaningless verbalism. If you attract women for sex you sexually attractive. Exactly. Most people don't want to get fucked by men. That's not what their behavior is suggesting. Copity Cope. Sounds like a made up story to me. You're right, casual sex in Europe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:43 PM |
| 4 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?So personal experience got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Has the shift in average been affected by the rapid rise in obesity among women?The statistics are dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Has the shift in average been affected by the rapid rise in obesity among women?BMI is for idiots, it's correlations with body fat varies widely for individuals and different demographic groups. For men it's even worse due to muscle mass variance. Obesity is defined by excessive body fat, and sometimes BMI is used as a proxy for body fat, doesn't mean it's a good idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Has the shift in average been affected by the rapid rise in obesity among women?Not really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?yea, than I gotta agree with kandy, youre not nearly as pretty as you think you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | If women are attracted to alpha men only, why do they still settle down and have children with "beta" types during an age where single motherhood is viable?Absolutely. Luckily we can compare to the self-reported data of previous generations. That does nothing to get you closer to the truth. Or it means that women are lying. To seem sluttier than they are? If you like sex you get more and better sex by having a boyfriend. Not if hotter guys are out of league for a relationship but in your league for casual sex. Do you want to have sex with an attractive man? Also attractive men are usually taken. No, I'm a straight man, why would I want to have sex … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:32 AM |
| 7 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?If you're not getting your views from personal experience, where are you getting them from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Are men just not trying hard anymore?They would be bad with women in their twenties any way So you're saying only 10 percent of men will be good with women in their twenties? bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?Are you not white? Because if so that might explain it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?🤷🏻♀️ maybe I’m not, I’m going by the fact that I get complimented on my looks semi-regularly By who? Other women aren't going to honest with you, I see women I consider ugly get complimented by other girls all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:16 AM |
| 4 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?By very unattractive, I mean like he’s obese or smells terrible or is way shorter than me (I’m 5’6) or absolutely got fucked by the facial genetics lottery. I don’t think those are unreasonable standards to have regarding looks. Or isn't white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?This is why it can be easier to attract 8/10, 9/10 or 10/10 girls than 5-7 if you know what you're doing - the percentage of men willing to approach you is much, much lower. As someone who's dating an 8(at worst), this is complete and utter bullshit. If you're an 8 or above guys will hit on you in front of your boyfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:04 AM |
| 5 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?Studies show you're wrong. Meeting at bars and OLD is the most common way for couples to meet according to recent surveys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?How are you supposed to a bitch to someone if they're not even approaching you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 12:59 AM |
| 14 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?Or we know attractive women, or even unattractive women who are always telling us about how much they get hit on. Or we've had attractive girlfriends and see how much they get hit on in front of us. Last time I took my girl out to a cocktail bar, I went to the bathroom by the time I got back she was being approached. Not by a sloppy drunk guy, this guy went up and introduced himself in a perfectly respectable manner. This happens ALL THE TIME. Door men will tell her she doesn't have to pay cover… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 12:54 AM |
| 1 | If women are attracted to alpha men only, why do they still settle down and have children with "beta" types during an age where single motherhood is viable?I would know because I've seen lots of studies which show that sex is on the decline in couples. You can only imagine how much more it has declined among people who don't even have a partner. 1) Any study with self-reported data should be taken with a massive grain of salt. 2) Study showed sex rates decline for me more than women, which means women are having sex with small set of attractive men. Why would pretty girls sleep around? Because she likes sex? What would we get out of it? Sex with an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 01:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP is not for relationships. Stop trying to force fit it.In college maybe, alot of the kids are still virgins, hence why I put past the age of 21. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP is not for relationships. Stop trying to force fit it.Do you think her husband knew she would be having an affair before he married her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 01:28 PM |
| 0 | CMV: TRP is not for relationships. Stop trying to force fit it.Ive never heard of it, but a suckers born everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 05:24 AM |
| 3 | CMV: TRP is not for relationships. Stop trying to force fit it.How does tradtional dating even working? Do you actual commit before having sex? I can't imagine any man who isn't a complete sucker or extremely religious doing that past age 21. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 05:00 AM |
| 5 | CMV: TRP is not for relationships. Stop trying to force fit it.There's a reason they think all women are crazy, obese, single moms with multiple baby daddies, etc. -- because that's who they're getting. Yeah, no. I've never slept with or dated women with any of those attributes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 04:44 AM |
| 4 | CMV: TRP is not for relationships. Stop trying to force fit it.They don’t advise committing at all. And isn’t that kind of the point? The type of woman TRP tactics will get you for casual sex doesn’t necessarily make the best gf or wife. You're arguing with a strawmen, there's many many post on TRP about how to handle a LTR. The type of woman TRP tactics will get you for casual sex doesn’t necessarily make the best gf or wife. What "type" of women are you talking? The only specifics you've said is don't marry a "ho". As if sluts can't lie about being sluts.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 04:19 AM |
| 4 | Beauty standards that women have for men aren't as high as you think.I have a six pack and I just ate a 9 inch pizza by myself. lmao @ 7 intensive worksouts a week i love my black genetics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 04:02 AM |
| 5 | Beauty standards that women have for men aren't as high as you think.FaceAndLms is a troll, I'm black and I do extremely well with women, but according to him I should doomed because I'm an "ethnic". He's not an authority on attraction. He's a loser brit with a youtube. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 04:01 AM |
| 18 | Women aren't shooting out of their league; "Chad" is not hooking up with ugly women.Exactly, we don't fuck fatties, but a slim plain jane from tinder that will come over straight to our apartment and make life easy for us? Absolutely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 03:55 AM |
| 4 | CMV: TRP is not for relationships. Stop trying to force fit it.Case in point. I mean, you don't. You need to be attractive to do well with them. Do you agree or disagree that certain types of women are more HV for relationships? Sure, but I don't think TRP would disagree. That's why they don't advise committing to high n count women, or older women. They flat out discourage men from committing. They why do they have so much content on how to manage a LTR realtionship? Ima go old school. You cant turn a hoe into a housewife. True. What you don't understand i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 03:53 AM |
| 7 | CMV: TRP is not for relationships. Stop trying to force fit it.Nowadays that's pretty much how it happens. You haven't dated in decades, so you may have missed the shift. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 03:45 AM |
| 1 | If women are attracted to alpha men only, why do they still settle down and have children with "beta" types during an age where single motherhood is viable?I doubt it. Most women don't have casual sex. How would you know? Attractive women get boyfriends, they don't fuck random guys. Which is why tinder never took off. Plently of pretty girls sleep around, and as a women, espeically and older one, you're in a terrible position to understand what behavior is typical of young attractive women when they're alone with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 03:30 AM |
| 9 | CMV: TRP is not for relationships. Stop trying to force fit it.The ironic thing is TRP doesn’t know women that well. TRP knows men well. Depends on your definition of "knows". But this is hardly relevant. You don't need to "know" women to do well with them. It’s not a bad strategy per se, but what it leads to is a serious case of confirmation bias. Playing up your masculine traits increases your success with women. Which leads to “women only want masculine men.” Which leads to “everything women say or do is about them wanting masculine men.” Which leads to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Are men just not trying hard anymore?But most men would question you, and at that point it's your choice to be truthful. Guys who have had their fill of hookups do not care about the number you have, as long as it's not higher than theirs. Disagree, my n count is north of 20 and I'd be disgusted with a girl with an N count of more than 10. I'd honestly never ask about it though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 02:48 AM |
| 7 | Are men just not trying hard anymore?This is absurdly bad advice, any man that enters his 30s with no dating experience is going to be absurdly bitter and way behind the curve. Having a good career won't help him have good realtionships with women, if anything he's being setup for beta bucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 02:36 AM |
| 1 | If women are attracted to alpha men only, why do they still settle down and have children with "beta" types during an age where single motherhood is viable?I've had casual sex with some pretty attractive women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 02:13 PM |
| 4 | Are guys here expecting mothers to treat their sexually unsuccessful sons like mothers treat their romantically unsuccessful daughters?single mother are largely shit mothers, every statistic we have shows terrible life outcomes for kids of single parents, particularly sons. if she doesn't mind that then she's terrible at her job as a mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Are guys here expecting mothers to treat their sexually unsuccessful sons like mothers treat their romantically unsuccessful daughters?Unless he raped her, it's her fault for choosing a father for her kids that didn't stick around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Is it detrimental for males to increase their value past a certain point?Value is not 1 dimensional. In terms of physical attraction, social status or charisma? No. The more the better. If anything, being too good looking can put you in the NOT boyfriend category for some girls who can't handle the competition. In terms of having a good stable job, being an agreeable guy, and having some cool hobbies? Yes. Some women will peg you as commit material, and hold out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: what’s your mother like?My moms fucking awesome. Most selfless person I've ever known. She isn't very social though and doesn't like attention in general. Shes the reason I don't believe TRPs bullshit about all women being the devil. She's the only person I've known for any significant period time that I've never caught lying to me about anything, I still can't believe how honest she is. It's pretty much gives me trust issues because my standards for truth-telling are so absurdly high. Same reason why I'm repulsed by a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Are guys here expecting mothers to treat their sexually unsuccessful sons like mothers treat their romantically unsuccessful daughters?No, we expect her to be responsible enough so that her son has a good father figure growing up. Unfortunately, many women can't even handle that nowadays, even with abortion and reliable birth control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Did the sexual revolution harm society?How many inventions and companies would women have made over the centuries if they weren't restricted by society and men? Probably not many? They're not doing much now, and no one's preventing them in the West. In fact, they're getting scholarships to go into STEM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: How have your views on romance changed over the years?Romance in the classical Western sense was always built on a massive asymmetry in power between men and women, once you remove that power imbalance, romance dies with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 03:16 AM |
| 1 | If women are attracted to alpha men only, why do they still settle down and have children with "beta" types during an age where single motherhood is viable?Then why do so many women have causal sex with men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 12:30 AM |
| 2 | If women are attracted to alpha men only, why do they still settle down and have children with "beta" types during an age where single motherhood is viable?First of all most women aren't attracted to any men. You mean sexually? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 02:07 PM |
| 1 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?i posted some other studies in the thread but basically it boils down to this 1) we've seen decreased growth hormones in young children with high immune activity 2) weve seen growth hormones being responsible for facial growth 3) we've seen children with certain infections, like ear infections, have poor craniofacial development. i also posted a case study to a young girl with hiv. 4) we similar patterns with height in disease in childhood 5)we know disease resistance is highly heredity, hence i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 06:17 AM |
| 1 | The Biggest Issue with the Dating Market is the Men Hate the Women they want to datestill not seeing how it's relevant, do you remember what this thread is about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (01 December 2019)No, it's probably something like a lognormal distribution. The proper way to do it is to get a bunch of pictures of people, and pick two randoms pics at a time to compare, rate which one is more attractive and keep doing that over and over again, using the Elo ranking system, which is how facebook started actually. One you look at the distribution of the scores you'll notice there's a bunch of people who are slightly below average who have very little difference in how attractive they are and a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?No that's not what I'm talking about, see this case study of an immunocomprised girl https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2214541918300464 Since the TMJ is a major growth site of the mandible, inflammation within the joint may significantly affect craniofacial growth, development and function [7]. Chronic inflammatory conditions involving the TMJ before the age of 8 years have been reported to cause growth disturbance of the mandible in long term follow up studies More studies http… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 09:18 PM |
| 1 | South Korean Women reject dating, marriage, sex and child rearingwhy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | How is hookup culture in any way bad?Increase immigration and fund sexual health care services. Immigration not only produces political backlash, but also is a temporary solution as immigrates birth rates drop to native levels after a few generations. Sexual health care services aren't going to do anything if people don't listen to them. Condoms don't work on certain STDs anyways. What men won't do will be done by either women or automation. Rates of automation have actually slowed down, and plus who do you think is going to be doi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (01 December 2019)their scale is retarded, they assume attractiveness is normally distributed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 06:58 PM |
| 0 | The Biggest Issue with the Dating Market is the Men Hate the Women they want to datestill not seeing how that's relevant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | The Biggest Issue with the Dating Market is the Men Hate the Women they want to dateSome of them ya. What's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 05:36 PM |
| 7 | The Biggest Issue with the Dating Market is the Men Hate the Women they want to dateThis is the dumbest thing I've read today. Look up the survivorship bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 05:35 PM |
| 1 | What does PPD make of hentai?Nothing? Even if it's cheap to render, which I really doubt it would be, it would still take a ton of artistic skills to make a video, which almost certainly still be off in someways compared to the real thing. aka the uncanny valley Much cheaper to pay someone a few thousands | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 05:31 PM |
| 14 | The Biggest Issue with the Dating Market is the Men Hate the Women they want to dateIt's authentically masculine man versus TRP "learned" masculinity. "Authentically masculine" is vague bullshit verbalism. Women are either attracted to your behavior or not, why they're attracted is irrelevant. Whether it's authentic or not is irrelevant. Whether you learned your behavior from the internet, your father or you figured it on your own is irrelevant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 05:11 PM |
| 6 | The Biggest Issue with the Dating Market is the Men Hate the Women they want to datethe whole point of the post im responding too is thar incels are having problems because they're misogynistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 04:21 PM |
| 28 | The Biggest Issue with the Dating Market is the Men Hate the Women they want to dateWomen can tell, you know. lol no they can't. the men in my frat were the most misogynistic men Ive ever meet and we fucked way more girls than the wussy liberal arts "feminist" men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 02:42 PM |
| 11 | The Biggest Issue with the Dating Market is the Men Hate the Women they want to dateWhen they say online doesn't reflect reality, they're not saying what you see online isn't real, they're not it's not representative of the typical person you see in real life. The gone wild subreddit for example is full of women posting nudes, many times with their faces. Doesn't mean the typical women would do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Did the sexual revolution harm society?What about all the women who are working to solve society's problems? They're not good at it. Partly because they're too busy raising kids. Partly because solving problem typically involves risk tasking and women are naturally risk adverse. How many inventions have been made by women? How many startups? How many companies? How many discoveries? I'm not one to think women are less mentally capable then men, I do think they're less prone to take risk, or lock themselves in a lab for 10 hours a day… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 02:30 AM |
| 2 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?Women are attracted to "masculine features" because they're hard to develop without a surplus of energy. People who are constantly fighting diseases(either weak immune system or autoimmune disorder), will not have the surplus energy to develop masculine features. The inflammatory response itself may also cause damage that results in ugliness. instead of masculine features as indication of good immune system? They're only an indirect indicator of a good immune system, just like a nice car is an i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 02:04 AM |
| 2 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?The agriculture revolution had alot of effects. The increased in population and the decrease in quality of nutrition per person lead to a reproduction model that favored quantity over quality. Because hunter-gather tribes were always on the move and hunter-gather women could only carry one baby at a time, they would have wait until their current kid could walk to have the next one. This keeps their numbers down, giving each kid more attention. Quantity over quality. You can see this the fossil r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 01:05 AM |
| 2 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?Sexual selection is kinda fucked since the invention of modern birth control. The guys who's getting laid the most won't always being having the most the kids, especially with college educated women. But in general, I think the genes for ugliness and shortness are going to start dying out, but it's probably going to be an extremely long process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?There are three types of mutations, those that have no effect of fitness(most common), those that hurt fitness(second most common), and those which help fitness(rarest). Being ugly hurts fitness, and should be weeded out of the gene pool extremely quickly if it has no other hidden benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 11:29 PM |
| 1 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?That's fine, you're still wrong, though. Actually you're wrong, visible mutations are far rarer than ugly people. And bad mutations are weeded out over time. ugly women are universally reproducing ok, but 1) less women are ugly than men 2) chads are having more babies than ugly women, so the male population should approach chad like genes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?Exactly. Any signal of quality must be costly, or else everyone else will copy it. Chad had to invest metabolic energy growing his bone structure, energy he would not have been able to spend if he was fighting disease. Large of amount plagues, like smallpox and spanish flu probably selected for people who invested energy into immune system not bone growth. Which is why ugly genes are a thing, and why men are generally more ugly than women(men have higher metabolic requirements). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?I don't buy it. Mutations explain why some kids are born mentally retarded. Mutations are rare, and usually bad. However, I'd say a majority of men are not physically attractive. I think lifestyle + immunocompetence model of attraction makes way more sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 10:55 PM |
| 1 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?human evolved in hunter gather environment, which have less diseases due to much lower population density and lower rate of travel between groups. in a hunter-gather environment ugly kid = kid that had either problem with diseases in childhood or is having an autoimmune reaction. both are bad. our sexual insticts are still stuck in a hunter-gather environment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 10:44 PM |
| 1 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?why werent they(ugly women) weeded out of the gene pool, women with attractive sons would spread their genes father and outcompete them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?probably an adaption due to modern plagues and viruses, evolution began selecting for men that spent more metabolic energy on their immune system rather than growth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 09:59 PM |
| 2 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?Not in terms of physical changes, white skin only evolved 10,000 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?They definitely do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 09:23 PM |
| 4 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?no its not even the ancient egyptians ideas of beauty hasn't changed that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4319194/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 09:20 PM |
| 2 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?None of that explains why ugly guys weren't weeded out the gene pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 08:59 PM |
| 1 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?i literally just posted a study showing links between growth hormone and immune system activate in childhood | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 08:58 PM |
| 1 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?and he still had to resort to banging his sister | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 08:35 PM |
| 1 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?Oh, back when I was a kid I also was rarely ill. More often than now, sure, but still. Once again, irrelevant, you don't notice how hard your immune system is working most of the time. You can be "sick", and not actually feel anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?Most people are atleast that symmetrical, micheal cera is more symmetrical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 08:30 PM |
| 2 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?So why weren't all the ugly men weeded out of the gene pool? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 08:29 PM |
| 3 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?So why don't all men look manly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?O pry isn't that symmetrical at all, look at his fucking eyes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 07:21 PM |
| 2 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?Your immune system in adulthood is irrelevant, if you look at hunter gather tribes that most common cause of death is disease before the age of 15. To grow as a child your body needs surplus energy, your immune system takes a shit ton of energy to run, second only to your brain. So if you're sick alot as a kid(because shitty immune system), you take away alot of energy that would be going towards growing, and that inflammatory response shows in the adult appearance, which will sometimes be short… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 07:19 PM |
| 0 | Why is there a belief that less attractive men treat women better?Yeah, but I wouldn't want to be the cow it came from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 07:08 PM |
| 2 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?The whole symmetry thing is bullshit. Unless you're extremely asymmetrical it doesn't matter. Here's the highest-paid male model: https://www.google.com/search?q=sean+o+pry&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjMzcyxnaTmAhUPWq0KHZBMBOsQ_AUoAXoECBAQAw&biw=1280&bih=662#imgrc=cJXDg-_IIrd_aM Note the asymmetry in the eye. Ryan Gosling is even worse https://www.google.com/search?q=ryan+gosling&tbm=isch&source=iu&ictx=1&fir=B20AaPPgBwLy5M%253A%252CC9vEAQMSdqq7YM%252C%252Fm%252F03m6_z&vet=1&usg=AI4_-kT… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 07:06 PM |
| 19 | What kind of male facial aesthetics women favor the most?Most of male attractiveness seems to come from bone structure, particularly the forward growth of the face which is what gives you cheekbones, jawlines, wide smile, and narrow eyes. If you have that , and aren't bald, you're probably considered extremely attractive My theory is that a forward grown face is a proxy for immunocompetence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 06:02 PM |
| -1 | Why is there a belief that less attractive men treat women better?I just know most of my very attractive friends treat women like pieces of meats who's only purpose is male pleasure. Of course the women don't know this, because these men would never say this to their face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women or men are worse off by being single?How do you know? Are you reading their minds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 05:24 PM |
| 6 | What the research paper says about "Men rate themselves as more attractive than they really are"Thank you, this is the first time on this subreddit I've seen someone zero in on the bullshit that these social scientists like to pull. I especially like how you called out their bias sampling methods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 01:57 PM |
| 3 | What to you proves that your theory about modern day dating and mating strategy is correct?No they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 01:59 AM |
| 2 | What to you proves that your theory about modern day dating and mating strategy is correct?The one talking about women over 65? I don't know if anybody told you this, but most women aren't over 65. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 01:30 AM |
| 4 | What to you proves that your theory about modern day dating and mating strategy is correct?Do you have any proof for that assertion? My experience is that women tend to demand male attention way more than visa versa. There's a reason there's a cliche of a man kicking a woman out after sex, rather than visa versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 01:10 AM |
| 3 | What to you proves that your theory about modern day dating and mating strategy is correct?There are literally many studies that support my theory that men actually get more from women than women get from men. Many men literally have nothing to offer except for money. Not only did you fail to post the studies, but you also didn't even mention what it is women give men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 01:05 AM |
| 5 | What to you proves that your theory about modern day dating and mating strategy is correct?How does any of that go against TRP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 01:03 AM |
| 1 | RP Men of this sub: Are you actually successful and/or experienced romantically and sexually?Yeah, girls don't like when your only reason to talk to them is to get laid That's weird, in my experience some do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 12:59 AM |
| 1 | RP Men of this sub: Are you actually successful and/or experienced romantically and sexually?Assholes don't just "approach women" they grab them by the arm or hair I've heard plenty of women complain about approaches that weren't anything close to grabbing hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 12:58 AM |
| 1 | How does the gender ratio affect dating and gender relations in general?I didn't find engineers, men or women, to be particularly unattractive. I did find the super attractive people, especially women were almost always never engineers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Will the average person become increasingly red pilled in the coming years?Nate Silver gave him around 30%, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 12:52 AM |
| 1 | What is the deal with porn hate?A significant postulate of this commentary is that all addictions (of which porn is one) create, I like how you snuck in that line about porn that actually isn't in the study, did you think I wouldn't actually read the paper? You, also realize that the "postulate" has zero evidence behind it? The scientific illiteracy on this subreddit is stunning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Men rate themselves as more attractive than they really areNobody is as good looking as they think, including women. I seriously disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Men rate themselves as more attractive than they really areOnly if you go by BMI, which is complete bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 12:45 AM |
| 0 | Will the average person become increasingly red pilled in the coming years?Donald Trump lost the popular vote by 3 million. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 02:29 PM |
| 1 | What is the deal with porn hate?http://surgicalneurologyint.com/surgicalint-articles/pornography-addiction-a-neuroscience-perspective/ That says that nothing about porn causes frontal lobe damage, did you actually read the article? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 06:15 AM |
| 1 | What is the deal with porn hate?Is there any actual science on this porn induced ED theory? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me or has there been a major tone change when (beauty) standards stopped being something only men held women to?Usually, I'd take a shower after masturbating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me or has there been a major tone change when (beauty) standards stopped being something only men held women to?Who are you girls dating? I can't imagine showing up to a date without at least a nice oxford cloth button down, allen edmonds, and chinos. Most of friends dress like this as well when we go out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Do guys really struggle finding girls for either sex or LTR in real life?What does your mom do? I'm assuming something in medicine. I'd be interested in more details if you could provide them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 05:59 AM |
| 5 | Do guys really struggle finding girls for either sex or LTR in real life?. Most girls I've met have gone long periods in between partners because they don't necessarily enjoy just getting banged out by Chad without any connection. You have no idea what those girls are doing, you only know what those girls have told you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 05:53 AM |
| 6 | Do guys really struggle finding girls for either sex or LTR in real life?I was talking to a guy who doest have too much trouble getting one night stands on tinder and hes overweight and has a plain to below average face. How do you know he's telling the truth? Is it just unattractive guys on here saying how only hot guys get sex, whereas irl is it actually not too hard? Surveys show that 30% of men age 18-30 didn't even have sex last year, so I'm guessing it's pretty hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 05:51 AM |
| 1 | If a woman in a LTR finds a guy with higher SMV than the one she is with, is it sure she'll cheat?Most relationships do not last until death. Most marriages do. And that's without becoming rich and moving to another country. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Should fashion models (and models in general) be proud of their success?Keep in mind that the work doesn't begin and end with the photo shoot. You have to adhere to a very strict diet and work out for hours a day. Not really, most male model definitely don't have the body of someone who works out for hours a day, I doubt most female models do either. You have to go on auditions and maintain a social media presence and build a brand (this would be by far the hardest thing for me, I'm terrible at that sort of thing; I tried freelance writing and failed for this very r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Should fashion models (and models in general) be proud of their success?I've done a bit of modeling, nothing big, but just to try it out. It's definitely way trickier than I thought it'd be, knowing your angles, poses, etc. Especially as a man where photographers are generally not as good at giving you direction. However, it's still nothing compared to a real job. Being a part time model would be hard as hell, but full time doesn't really seem that bad in terms of workload and skill, assuming you have the genetics for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 12:28 AM |
| 2 | How does the gender ratio affect dating and gender relations in general?It's huge, what people really don't understand how AGE preference makes the effective gender ratios alot worse than they are. For a 22-year-old male who just graduated college he has to compete with men up to 30s and beyond for girls his age, this effectively makes the gender ratio 2:1 or maybe even 3:1, since most women don't want to date younger men, and women younger than him are usually locked away in a college social circle. And of course those men he's competing with have the benefit of ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 11:52 PM |
| 2 | How does the gender ratio affect dating and gender relations in general?Agree, MIT is almost 50/50. Schools with alot of men, tend to be engineering-focused schools and tend to attract a more conservative and studious student body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 11:45 PM |
| 3 | A Review of Research on Women’s Use of Violence With Male Intimate PartnersAre you too dumb to understand that if the problem is people lying on a survey, it doesn't matter how many surveys you have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 05:09 AM |
| 4 | Would you agree this post (from r/OKCupid) accurately represents the online dating experience for most women who are 5.1 or better?In what world is the average girl on tinder look for a husband? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Pics vs presenceWhy didn't you use a picture that showed Adam is 6'2 and musclar, or one that showed that Mark is short with a gut. Obviously, pictures can be deceptive, and duh someone with autism can fuck up a sure thing. But did anyone ever really disagree with those points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 04:02 AM |
| 1 | A Review of Research on Women’s Use of Violence With Male Intimate PartnersWould you recommend marriage knowing what you did now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 03:50 AM |
| 3 | A Review of Research on Women’s Use of Violence With Male Intimate PartnersThe finding are about what people answer on a survey, we have no idea how that maps to reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Pics vs presenceCan you tell the SMV of each guy? What would you rate them out of 10? Probably rate Mark a 6 and Adam a 4 based on those pictures alone, however those are bad pictures of Adam and a decent picture of mark. Adam is tall and has a good frame, Mark based on the video looks kinda chubby, and on the short side. It'd be alot of closer if you posted the best picture of Adam. Who do you think would be more attractive to women? Based on those pictures mark. Who do you think would get more swipes on tinde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 03:41 AM |
| 2 | The rise of Hating Women's Rights is correlated with the rise of Low Value Menlaw students are just nerds who suck at math, the idea of the ultra-masculine ultra suave lawyer is largely a myth. Suits isn't real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 11:13 PM |
| 1 | The rise of Hating Women's Rights is correlated with the rise of Low Value Men10 percent of India speaks English | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 11:08 PM |
| 2 | The rise of Hating Women's Rights is correlated with the rise of Low Value MenIt’s always strange to me how those who claim they’re so oppressed by whitey or men in general, refuse to leave. Leave for where? I know this’ll probably sound racist, but all they seem to do with their ‘free time’ and ‘liberation’ is what a lot of young black kids do where I’m from, which is study the history of slavery, and the literature of early black figures in American history. lol wut, some people can find a way to blame minorities for anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 11:03 PM |
| 1 | The rise of Hating Women's Rights is correlated with the rise of Low Value MenCan you show me one school that's dominated by women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Why Tinder isn’t working for guysI don't understand why the women on this subreddit seem so caught up on the idea that women can't want to fuck a guy just based off of looks, women I know in real life will fully admit to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | The rise of Hating Women's Rights is correlated with the rise of Low Value MenThe ratio becomes heavily skewed towards men in graduate programs, or so I've heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 08:53 PM |
| 1 | I want to know, do men have a harder time socialising?Why are you friends with people from work? My best friends are all from outside of work. Do you not have hobbies outside of work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 08:52 PM |
| 5 | Why Tinder isn’t working for guysWhen I'm able to convince women from tinder to come over to my apartment to have sex, I have a hard time believing women can't be just as visual as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Women are oversaturating themselvesIt's not just the women in porn, it's the sluts on tinder. You guys used to have la cartel de pussy, when you punished anyone who gave it out to easy and thus raised the price allowing you to buy male commitment with a vagina. Men were able to break up the cartel by inventing birth control and letting you have jobs, and now it's each girl for herself, trying to undercut the other. Many still make it out fine, but many don't, because most girls pussy alone isn't enough to lock down a quality guy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 07:19 PM |
| 12 | I want to know, do men have a harder time socialising?But we dont discuss deep topics like we used to, and we certainly have never asked each other how they are doing aside from just platitudes. I find my girl friends to be much better with that sort of thing. This is weird. I hear this on the time on this subreddit, but me and my male friends have talks about important shit all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Using the infamous OKCupid study to prove that women find 80 percent of men unattractive is dumb.Post the "evidence" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 10:57 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Using the infamous OKCupid study to prove that women find 80 percent of men unattractive is dumb.A random sample has a good chance of being representative, but you can choose a nonrandom sample which is still representative. Yes and I could win the lottery. Both are unlikely. Say you pick a person in the 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th... percentile of being difficult. You could be the 100th. Then this sample is entirely representative of the population, as we have the same exact distribution of difficult people as there are in the population. The chance of any sample having this particular distribution… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 10:57 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Using the infamous OKCupid study to prove that women find 80 percent of men unattractive is dumb.That's literally what this entire thread is about bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 06:52 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Using the infamous OKCupid study to prove that women find 80 percent of men unattractive is dumb.Here's a non-random but (probably) representative sample of students from a particular highschool; Select from each class the student whose birthdate is closest to June 3rd, 6am. Dumb design, and could well be unrepresentative. But probably not. If we are measuring IQ, then this could well be a representative sample, if IQ does not differ significantly by birthdate. Christ, you're bad at this. The distribution of birth dates is nearly uniform, therefore that is effectively a random sample. That'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 06:50 AM |
| 0 | The rise of Hating Women's Rights is correlated with the rise of Low Value MenIt's a collection of disciplines that attract smart but socially stunted men. some stem fields do, some don't. the ones that do have so few women in them that I don't think the men are "threatened" by them. If anything women would be less of a threat seeing as less likely to work insane hours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 05:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Using the infamous OKCupid study to prove that women find 80 percent of men unattractive is dumb.yeah maybe, do you have anything in mind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 05:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Using the infamous OKCupid study to prove that women find 80 percent of men unattractive is dumb.Like what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 05:08 AM |
| 1 | The rise of Hating Women's Rights is correlated with the rise of Low Value MenI'm using the word agreeable in its regular English usage, not in the personality test sense. Nerds are more likely to follow the rules and do as they're told. That's what I meant. And I think you're wrong. And I don't need proof that lawyers are higher T than stemboys. Of course you don't. I have 3 stem degrees and have worked in the field for 10 years. Once again "STEM" isn't a singular field, I'd think you'd learn that with your 3 degrees. I socialise with a lot of lawyers and other less nerd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 05:08 AM |
| 0 | The rise of Hating Women's Rights is correlated with the rise of Low Value MenWhat sets the nerds aside is that they tend to be low T, agreeable, passive kinda guys who actually listen when they're told to treat women a certain way. Uhh, STEM is filled with people who have below-average agreeableness. Where did you get the idea that nerds are agreeable from? The whole low T thing is a nice meme, but I don't really see any proof of it. Lawyers tend to have completely different personalities to stem guys, are typically more masculine and assertive and "normie" and socially … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 03:57 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Using the infamous OKCupid study to prove that women find 80 percent of men unattractive is dumb.Does it being nonrandom imply it's unrepresentative? No. Yes, this is stats 101. And a sample does not even have to be representative to be useful - you can use statistical methods (raking for example) to weight samples according to their representativeness. None of which was done here. Whether they did this matters only in so far as how useful it would have been - if their sample was representative enough (my claim) then it does not matter. Their sample is not representative, we know this becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 03:27 AM |
| 2 | The rise of Hating Women's Rights is correlated with the rise of Low Value MenThere is a cultural push to have women in male dominated white collar roles, notably stem. There is discourse about it and articles about it girls in STEM programs and it's a phenomenon that is changing how men in these areas view women. Law used to be male-dominated, do you think the advancement of women in law in the last decade had lead to the typical male lawyer to hate women's right? What about medicine? Accounting? Women compete with men more in EVERY white collar sector more than they use… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 03:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Using the infamous OKCupid study to prove that women find 80 percent of men unattractive is dumb.How do you know that? Gaze into your crystal ball? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 02:57 AM |
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