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| 1 | Girl really friendly at first, now she rarely initiates conversation?Maybe if you can get the girl to qualify herself. I was talking to a girl, about a 6.5 on the train home from uni, and she had braces and I asked her about them and of course she's sensitive about how they look but I don't know if she was hot enough for pointing out a flaw to make any real difference. Fact is I personally need to be able to get in my mind the right order of escalation and know what stage I am at and when to act a certain way. All these things are things to learn through reading … | /r/seduction | 29/02/16 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Girl really friendly at first, now she rarely initiates conversation?Keep in mind its good practice to mentally be ticking off "indicators of interest" such as her laughing, playfully hitting you, you leaning back and her leaning into you etc so you know when to escalate. | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Girl really friendly at first, now she rarely initiates conversation?I'd ask her for advice on other girls now and then, but REALLY casually amongst other things. Also talking about adventures on your night out (make some up even). The more you sell the idea that other girls are interested in you and raise your social value, and gain social proof of being confident around people while she can see you might gradually see her opinion of you change for the better (attraction point of view). | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Girl really friendly at first, now she rarely initiates conversation?"There's so many beautiful women in this area, it's getting really common. Beauty isn't really a unique thing anymore. But like you for example what makes someone want to get to know you, why do people want to be your friend." I don't think that would necessarily work in a "work" context more of a casual setting and don't quote it word for word. I'm just getting back into seduction so I'm listening to an audiobook of The Game again and downloaded the audio for this: https://www.youtube.com/watch… | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 10:16 AM |
| 1 | How to talk about your height if average or below without sounding insecure and letting it interrupt a cocky/confident frame?Sounds gimmicky talking about it like this but in practice no one is thinking it's a specific routine they are thinking it's funny and going with the flow. | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Girl really friendly at first, now she rarely initiates conversation?All I can gather is that you probably telegraphed that you were interested too much and didn't transition quickly enough into a routine based on her impressing you. Everything you did was all about impressing her and doing things right by her. You must have telegraphed too much interest so the only way you'll be able to make this better is by talking casually to her, letting her watch you demonstrate higher value while she is around so you look in control and popular. You should not focus on her… | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 08:00 AM |
| 1 | How to talk about your height if average or below without sounding insecure and letting it interrupt a cocky/confident frame?I don't think he was a troll as much as he's on a certain medication | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 07:55 AM |
| 2 | How to talk about your height if average or below without sounding insecure and letting it interrupt a cocky/confident frame?Thanks, but not gonna lie man that's not a very coherent paragraph. | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 06:13 PM |
| 2 | How to talk about your height if average or below without sounding insecure and letting it interrupt a cocky/confident frame?I'm literally asking about the nuances of a certain social dynamic that is meant to enable me to more fluidly and easily have sex with attractive women. It's just a micro-issue that I would like addressed at face value. You're telling a poor man asking for advice on how to save money that the best way to pay off his mortgage is to have shitloads of money. But yes you're not wrong, abundance is attractive. I just need to work on getting that abundance. I have two girls who want to date me, and on… | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 06:02 PM |
| 1 | How to talk about your height if average or below without sounding insecure and letting it interrupt a cocky/confident frame?Once you identify a mechanic to address an issue with everything becomes simple from there. I'm trying to identify the perfect mechanic for this particular sticking point. But yeah, you're goddamn right... simplicity is a working rule. However absolutely nailing the best psychological approach to me is rewarding sometimes because theres interesting psychological and social reasons why it works which I love. | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How to talk about your height if average or below without sounding insecure and letting it interrupt a cocky/confident frame?What do you think of disqualifying yourself to the extreme by exaggerating how short you are, really compounding that idea so the image is in her head, then qualifying yourself by saying your actual height and thereby juxtaposing a really short guy image with your taller image. Would not the juxtaposition be positive? Something like "I'm a midget but I'll be goddamned if I won't climb you though" then later "as the worlds tallest midget I am the authority on this matter". Or "I'm 5 foot tall but… | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 05:25 PM |
| 1 | How to talk about your height if average or below without sounding insecure and letting it interrupt a cocky/confident frame?I'm looking for something more than just saying my height though. Something like a technique or joke that shows you are confident about it and yourself. Something like saying "I'm 5 foot tall but I will climb you" or "I'm 5 foot tall but I wear 10 inch heels" so in that way it makes her compare you to 5 foot tall idea and then the fact that you're 10 inches taller than that is a positive seems like a small idea for some weird kind of damage control. All I mean is its better to say you're shorter… | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 04:33 PM |
| 1 | How to talk about your height if average or below without sounding insecure and letting it interrupt a cocky/confident frame?5'9. I'm starting to say 5'10 just because it's easy to get away with. I'm not so much insecure about it noticeably, but I just need help to figure out a way to talk about if confidently whenever it comes up in casual conversation. Would prefer some actual examples to start with than inner game recommendations no offence. I, and I would assume many other men, need to start with a way to talk about it confidently to base a solid inner game on. A foundation if you will. | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Every decision that had brought me happiness, is counter to Feminist values.This doesn't answer my question. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/13 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Every decision that had brought me happiness, is counter to Feminist values.OP, I have a question, what are the benefits of taking testosterone for a physically normal male? I am highly considering this. Would it help with muscle gaining too? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/13 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Just found this subreddit. How do I recalibrate myself? How do I recover from all the shitty situations my blue pill past self got me into?Where would I find more of this science ? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/13 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Ungrateful Woman Divorces Her Husband Because He's Too Nice! - this is too funnyWhat the fuck was that a link to? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/13 06:30 PM |
| 12 | Two women heckle/interrupt comedian. Comedian makes fun of them for being lesbians. Women sue. Comedian ordered to pay $15,000The late Christopher Hitchens also wrote a great article on "why women aren't funny" | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/13 07:22 AM |
| -1 | Two women heckle/interrupt comedian. Comedian makes fun of them for being lesbians. Women sue. Comedian ordered to pay $15,000Ban women? Really? Why not ask them if they are easily offended. Or get them to sign something on the way in to say they are not easily offended, that way it can be presented in court and men and women can both enjoy the show without hecklers having any legs to stand on. If something like this document was presented in the court case the comedian would be fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/13 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Height and seducing women?Are you me? | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Who's got Openers!! I'll tell you mine if you tell me yours.Social skills? If you are saying a solitary hi that is not going to do anything. Saying an opener after that will work wonders. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Who's got Openers!! I'll tell you mine if you tell me yours.Alright guys, enough 'funny' ones. Just saying hi or hey conveys no wit, no humour, no personality... A contextually relevant opener like the op's is great. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 03:30 AM |
| -3 | Who's got Openers!! I'll tell you mine if you tell me yours.Lol cuz its all about de confidence amirite guyz? | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Just got sent this in a text and without hesitation forwarded it to 2 girls. What is seddit's analysis?Hey I need to ask you something and I want you to be totally honest with me. It may be a little awkward between us after this but I have to know how you feel. I've kept it in for a while now but it 's time to be straight up and just confront you. I hope this doesn't ruin anything we have. I just need to know and I don't see any other way I could get over this. Just wouldn't seem fair if I don't get an answer. I want you to tell me truthfully, please, no matter how harsh it is I just want your ho… | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 09:33 AM |
| 2 | Just got sent this in a text and without hesitation forwarded it to 2 girls. What is seddit's analysis?Not saying it was funny at all. Its a shit joke that does its job. | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 09:32 AM |
| 3 | Just got sent this in a text and without hesitation forwarded it to 2 girls. What is seddit's analysis?That's where the fact that it is a 'chain message' comes in handy. The idea that not much effort was made to send the text and it was merely forwarded implies less responsibility on your part and more focus on the joke. You seem very judgemental :\ and a lot of girls are like that. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Just got sent this in a text and without hesitation forwarded it to 2 girls. What is seddit's analysis?Thanks! I'm not particularly up to the PUA standard as of yet. I haven't seen a few of the girls for a while because I don't go out and go to school most of the time (all boys, nearly finished). I try and maintain rapport through engaging text and facebook conversation. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Just got sent this in a text and without hesitation forwarded it to 2 girls. What is seddit's analysis?It could be used for that, sure. You could send it to all the girls you know and gain an idea of who would be worth pursuing or who not. I hadn't thought about it like that, good idea! | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Just got sent this in a text and without hesitation forwarded it to 2 girls. What is seddit's analysis?Tell me how it goes :) | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Just got sent this in a text and without hesitation forwarded it to 2 girls. What is seddit's analysis?Would you mind expanding on that a little? I am probably still in the transition phase of AFC. I found the text had a rather interesting premise. In what way is it a crutch, I did a little pros and cons in my head and I can't see how it could do any harm. Does it convey a negative message to the girl in some way? :s (Forgive me if this should be devastatingly obvious). | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Just got sent this in a text and without hesitation forwarded it to 2 girls. What is seddit's analysis?Cool good to hear it worked! | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 03:33 PM |
| 0 | Just got sent this in a text and without hesitation forwarded it to 2 girls. What is seddit's analysis?That is possible. If originality is a worry a text with a similar premise or different question at the end could work as well. But on the other hand the benefit of it appearing as a chain text is that relieves their judgement of you. Because some girls would be turned off if you 'put too much effort' into a text to make a joke for them. I don't know why this is. But yeah I see what you are saying, but its light hearted and harmless and at the very least is an interesting text that they will enjo… | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Just got sent this in a text and without hesitation forwarded it to 2 girls. What is seddit's analysis?:s Good question. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Just got sent this in a text and without hesitation forwarded it to 2 girls. What is seddit's analysis?I appreciate the "I'm going to belittle all the effort you put into that post by just putting a single word reply in an attempt to render what you are trying to offer meaningless for some upvotes" comment. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone know that text game post about getting a reply from a girl by saying she will get a bad grade?Thanks so much :D | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 11:00 AM |
| 1 | "Sexual Economics: Sex as Female Resource for Social Exchange in Heterosexual Interactions" PDF thesisUpvotez 4 u | /r/MensRights | 18/05/12 03:37 AM |
| 2 | "Sexual Economics: Sex as Female Resource for Social Exchange in Heterosexual Interactions" PDF thesisInteresting choice. Taking MY find and applying it to mens rights. I agree actually, well played. :) | /r/MensRights | 18/05/12 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Interesting University Thesis: "Sexual Economics: Sex as Female Resource for Social Exchange in Heterosexual Interactions"Dude seriously you have to write a post or something expanding on this, its one of the coolest things I have ever heard of. Use your knowledge. You need sponsors. Omg the opportunities are ENDLESS. (I might be more excited than you are about your theory. You are my new favourite redditor) | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Interesting University Thesis: "Sexual Economics: Sex as Female Resource for Social Exchange in Heterosexual Interactions"If you managed to get this Sex Charge thing down to a science. MILLIUNS OF MONIES COULD BE MADE! MILLIIUNNNSSSS! | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Interesting University Thesis: "Sexual Economics: Sex as Female Resource for Social Exchange in Heterosexual Interactions"You should write a paper on this, would be an amazing way of understanding kino. ARE there any papers on this? | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Interesting University Thesis: "Sexual Economics: Sex as Female Resource for Social Exchange in Heterosexual Interactions"I don't know why you are getting down-voted, that is a solid observation. | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Interesting University Thesis: "Sexual Economics: Sex as Female Resource for Social Exchange in Heterosexual Interactions"But why is a blow job a 0.45. By what reasoning of measurement are you getting these sub-sex-charges from. | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Interesting University Thesis: "Sexual Economics: Sex as Female Resource for Social Exchange in Heterosexual Interactions"You sir, deserve a slow clap. http://bobcesca.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/Slow-Clap.gif | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Interesting University Thesis: "Sexual Economics: Sex as Female Resource for Social Exchange in Heterosexual Interactions"Agreed. The paper was published in 2004, I think before the seduction community really became well known. And really, we can't expect university professor to be a PUA as well as a PhD. | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?Cool man, that is an awesome story. Thanks for the post! Its still difficult to find enjoyment though. It may be all about walking in with the right attitude. | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?Wow man... thats... genius! Not sure yet it'll work yet but definitely something to try! Wow thats actually a really good idea. Thats one of the best suggestions so far!' Thanks! | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?I agree. | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?So I gave that bitch some VIP, Bitches love VIP. | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?Exactly right. I would go to the extent of saying height in some ways more important than looks. Because it IS dark and a tall person can easily just throw their weight around. | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?Then what do you do? | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?Thanks man, I actually found your post really helpful. | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 04:39 PM |
| 7 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?Are you talking about business cards? | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 04:33 PM |
| 14 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?Right on! Nothing like moving to Mozart and bumpin' to Beethoven. Like a sir. | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 03:16 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?I always found that. Clubbing really brings out the sleaziest or worst in people. It's an environment where being sleazy and obnoxious is rewarded. | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?Somewhere else being... where? | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 03:09 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?Haha yes houseparties are literally the best environment for it. | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 02:17 PM |
| 5 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?Thanks for answering that. I'll try that next time, like actually letting go. Its easy though to be distracted by the fact that nothing is happening, nothing is being gained game-wise and its hard to escape that especially when you're young. | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 01:53 PM |
| 7 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?Wouldn't it also have to do with energy levels? If you look better thats going to help ALL aspects of game. When someone is dancing game has nothing to do with it, there are other people who are either bigger and more violent than you who could push in front of you and ruin your dance, or there are people more enthusiastic. When another guy comes and dances near a girl, there is no way to demonstrate value without being a really good dancer. | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 12:31 PM |
| 37 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?I'm really happy for you. Jealous in fact, it intrigues me where you gain enjoyment factor of just dancing. Is it actually purely technical, is there a dancing style you do where you can just let go and it acts as a form of escapism. So I'm curious where is this enjoyment coming from? It's really intriguing. | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 12:18 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?Actually rejection is something that lowers your testosterone levels, leading to lower self confidence and lower energy levels. Before long, after too many rejections gained from trying to be sleazy, you are going to feel more like shit and have a negative experience that makes you feel more useless than otherwise. | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?I believe it does, because its going to evoke conversation and responses that may help people shift their mindset. Give people new ways to approach clubbing, and how to behave in one. Rather than the topic of the thread, its the responses that make it relevant. The topic isn't about dancing. I am actually quite jealous that you can get so much enjoyment out of dancing! I really wish I could just escape and let go like that. That's awesome. | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 12:05 PM |
| 5 | Beginner here. Need some help in learning how to start an interesting conversation in groups.I have ADHD too! I'm really looking forward to hearing replies on this question. It really sucks, you can start out really enthusiastic at first, but then later as the night goes on I find I entirely lose motivation and like my emotions become weird and I can't make facial expressions or react to social situations properly. Do you get anything like this, it is really frustrating and would love help to overcome this; for maintaining enthusiasm. | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Any fellow Australian PUA's out there?Yeah that would be awesome, but I'm not sure there are enough of us to actually do something. Haha these US guys are freakishly organised. | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 08:06 AM |
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