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30 is often associated with balding and being out of shape. thats the true origin of the older man viewed in a bad light, rationalized as "creep" or "manipulative" I am late 30s and fit and have attracted women 15+ years younger than me, even after I warned them of my real age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:27 PM
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Also yes. seems like no one is grounded anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:23 PM
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The true reason is that the current left is a distorted parody of what the left is actually about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:38 PM
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I am in Spain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:37 PM
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Most women 25-28 are still figuring life out. I've never witnessed a girl preferring to date the young dude who is just as broke as her younger women who like you don't give two fucks about your financial situation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:14 AM
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Younger women tend to be really into me as far as appearance goes, but the moment I reveal my chronological age (33) they get turned off. They either assume I'm younger or while they would fancy my type of looks when they were 20 themselves at +30 they're a generation that is predominately into men who can grow big bushy beards and look like military contractors Those two are strange. I am also someone who is in late 30s but looks early-mid 20s. Had girls more than 15 years younger keep flirting…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:13 AM
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k whatever, i have nothing to prove. I was just stating that people who look younger than their age, exist. In both genders, and in multiple age brackets.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:40 PM
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what? its not like the blur hides wrinkles oe something. purple haze is just lighting of the place. why would i want to hide something on reddit anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:44 PM
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yes there are. I see guys in their 30s who look the same age as keanu reeves looked when first filming john whick (in his 50s). And tahts with keanu sporting full beard. it's rate, but it's a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:01 PM
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All other things equal? The extrovert. By the way I see people here mistaking introvery with homebody. Being introvert doesn't mean you hate those things. I party more than many people 20 years younger than me, but i'm a big introvert personality wise. The difference is the extrovert will be more open to approach and initiate in the same places.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:28 PM
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"Men with average or below average looks, but above average social IQ, tend to do better with meeting women in real life." It's the opposite for me. I rely on striking/unusual appearance features and have zero game, and do easier in real life, while my friends that have much more game and are less afraid than me, do better on internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:24 PM
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Bars and clubs are infinitely easier than internet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:22 PM
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No, they are not. In dating apps things were meh for me when I tried them time ago. In real life every single success I had was initiated by the woman. I have friends that also wits and charm over chatting and have successs in socials and shit, while i have more success when we are at a party in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:19 PM
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I am VERY afraid, as I commented on other posts in this thread i am gifted with unusually slow aging, but well, aging will happen eventually. I hope to be able to squeeze more of "young style" life before it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:06 PM
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"looks like 25" this is the most important part that means the difference between "pathetic" and "free spirited".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:05 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/x0s41iy this is me, i'm near 40. we exist. I don't know how much it will last until age catches up to me tho. I also met guys in their 50s you wouldn't guess they are older than 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:01 PM
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I look 25 at near 40. People often ask for my ID because they think i'm making fun of them when i tell them my real age. And im not part of a 1%, while a lot of people age like crap, also a lot of people take a lot of care of themselves more nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:59 PM
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For me the indicator is that she is the one to open conversation. I don't trust in being the approacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:51 PM
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"transparent indicators of romantic interest- prolonged eye contact, attempting to strike up conversation with you, or light touc" tf are these considered transparent? I only consider it a clear signal when she kisses me or gives direct compliments on physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:48 PM
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Confidence is legit if you are atleast average in attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:45 PM
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The fitness bit is completely wrong. Weight is muvh much more unforgiving for men, because of how muchbof an impact sharp jawlines and visible cheekbones have on a man's appearance. Gaunt chreks will make a night ad day difference and these will go away often at th3 slighest increase of fat or wqter retention. Weight is far less punishing for women because while women gets their appearance impacted by being very overweight, the slighest amount of extra weight completely kills a man's most striki…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:09 AM
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women do approach
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:26 PM
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they TOLERATE these traits, not like then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:49 PM
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you try to post an example of not everyone wanting objective beauty and proceed to post Kpop handsome star lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:46 PM
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Look at Elliot Rodgers the average guy you see struggling with dating is not a mentally deranged psycho. That guy was out of the ordinary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:23 AM
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I experienced a radical change after my appearance improved. my former appearance had nothing to do with procrastination on grooming or hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:19 AM
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No, women will not go out of their way to force passive Chads to date them, he still requires a minimum level of self-confidence and assertiveness to actually meet women. i witnessed the opposite, including for me who am not chad tier and just above average
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:15 AM
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you need a bare minimum of looks for those traits to boost your success
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:13 AM
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It has an effect. I got more looked up to when word spread on me being a womanizer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:36 PM
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men are called creeps if they are older than 25. men get shamed A LOT for age
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:01 AM
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men have to look hot too and with harsher requiremebts like height and hair which cannot be changed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:00 PM
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while rejecting ugly guys fixed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:53 PM
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falae. attractive and kind men are seen as angels. appeqrancenis what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:50 PM
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Is it about cold or warm approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:44 PM
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I know im paet of the xception, but it is definirely possible. Just stating that its not only actors and millionaires getting better in their 30s and that it can happen if you mix good aging (luck) with proper lifestyle (hard work)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:35 PM
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Not a flex, just a fact. By the way now 30s is "middle aged"? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:32 PM
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I am mid 30s and had teenagers try to hit on me. Women dont care about what age you are they care about what age you look By the way im not redpilled, thats a stupid scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:02 PM
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I look better and get more attention in my 30s than in my 20s. And its not gym or money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:01 PM
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If yoy truly believe that women see men as providers nowadays, you are delusional and just trying to convince yourself because of the fact that you are treated like a walking ATM.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:25 PM
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This is true. I got girls over much more assertive guys just because I looked better in thqt instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:07 PM
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You could be the most physically attractive man in the world but if you're shy, have no self assurance or self confidence, never ask her out and never initiate anything, all attraction is gone. this is so DELUSIONAL its insane. Like Tate levels of bullshit. I just a bit above average around 5,5 in appearance and every hookup, date and relationship I had was entirely initiated by the girl. A very physically attractive guy would never have to initiate in order to retain attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:04 PM
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You could be the most physically attractive man in the world but if you're shy, have no self assurance or self confidence, never ask her out and never initiate anything, all attraction is gone. this is such a MAJOR cope its insane. This is some Tate delusional bullshit. I just a bit above average around 5,5 in appearance and every hookup, date and relationship I had was entirely initiated by the girl. A very physically attractive guy would never have to initiate in order to retain attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:42 PM
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Equal, each one in their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:23 PM
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k sure. again you are either underestimating how short 5'2 is or lying. im the first that says that "under 6 foot its over" is stupid and hyperbolic as I see irl examples of the opposite all the time. but 5'2 is just extreme, let alone for your stories of bagging models left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 12:03 AM
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At 5'2? just make your story more credible buddy. You dont need 6/10 to get women, 4/10 is enough tho. Unless you are underrating 6/10. I know legitimate womanizers who are shorter than average but 5'2 is just extreme, not buying it, unless hes taller and you are mistaking the numbers themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:06 PM
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that looks matter the most (in all arwas of life not only dating) because they act as a filter lens for your personality and actions is not exactly delusional. It happened to me. The same hobbies, interests and traits that got me mocked before get people super interested now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:25 PM
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similar but more extrme experience. went from ugly to bit above average. Life changed in so many many ways more than dating. Led me tl discover this thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:23 PM
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the blackpill is more like "under a certain cutoff you are NOT getting laid at all". The cutoff for delusionals is male model, while irl is more like being a 4. Having "game" matters but under certain looks its truly over.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:22 PM
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Only a tiny minority of the loners are so because of their own fault. Thre majority are people who just got dealt a real bad hand. For year I thought there was something wrong about my way of behaving or hobbies and it turns out it was just appearance. Now I can be fully myself without negative consequences, despite being introvert. And this does not only apply to dating, but for friends, socializing, work world.... it bleeds into everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:23 PM
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Didnt you read my post. women want me, i dont have any problem currently. The only thing that changed is my appearance. But im starting to think this is just ragebait trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:31 PM
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Thankfully since my appearance got better I have a lot of experience with women now. You can keep your victim blaming gaslight to yourself, piece of shit scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:37 PM
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so being born ugly or short is their fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:52 PM
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You know i'm not referring to things she was forced to do or she hated and never did again. And i'm not only talking sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:48 PM
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Yes. While obviously its better to be treated overall well, being treated worse/held to different standards than an ex is a obvious red flag even if the result is still good treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:13 PM
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He was broke before now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:54 PM
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Jeremy meeks, a broke exconvict, married a billionaire heiress. Hot guys no matter what have sex with everyone. Looks are everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:27 PM
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Almost zero importance. Hot looking bum gets more attention and respect than rich ugly guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:25 PM
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lmao you live in fantasy land if you thin women dont judge men brutally for their ability to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:19 PM
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no matter how good the tech is. Even if you have to run a test to know if they are human or AI, it will never be the se as being desired by a natural person, both for the buyer and in the eyes of society
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:17 PM
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Depends. Involuntary? major red flag for people. Voluntary in someone ugly? people will think they are coping and lying. Vountary in someone hot? No. "free spirit" or lone wolf mysterious vibes. This is specially true for men, foerwomen the lines blur.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:51 PM
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Fairly, by far. I dont want inferior treatment than other male.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:45 PM
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nah people are pretty aware. what people are unconfortable to think about, is looks mattering in everyday life outside of dating, which is a mich darker and sinister subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:44 PM
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he looks like skeletors face and here you have the answer. hollow cheeks/chiseled face is highly coveted in males.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:00 PM
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Losers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:38 PM
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no fkn way if you said 7 inches? maybe and even then its a very low number still
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:04 AM
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its just a form of ageism, like the magic number of "30" suddenly puts you in the "second class citizen" category. Im in my 30s and dated/hooked up with women both up to 15 years older and up to 15 years younger than me and I dont give a flying fuck about if anyone things its inappropiate. Im not a second class citizen playing a restricted version of life just because im over some arbitrary "age limit"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 05:10 PM
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lmao in my experience the happiest older people I knew (both men and women) were usually the child free (by choice, childless agaisnt their will were miserable). I mean once you start a family your own life is over and you are now a "support role" in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:45 PM
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Because "just suck it up and learn your place that you didnt get to choose" isnt an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:39 PM
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looks are the most important thing to have in the developed world. Why wouldnit be strange to care about what makes men attractive as a man, when its the most quality of life defining trait in society?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:30 PM
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exactly. women have a very wide array of possibilities un each physical trait to be attractive. Men have ibenand only one way to be attractive for jaw shape,eyebrow shape, face leanness, height, and other traits. Thats why teobwomen with different versions of a trait can be equally attractivr, while for men with different versionsbof a trait, one will always be more attractive. A woman can have rounded eyes or sharp eyes and be just different vetsions of same rate of attractiveness. Or full chee…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:24 PM
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my personality was the same all life. only my looks changed for the better. Went from having "the virgin" fame to have "womanizer" fame among people in a reasonably short period of time following my appearance chance. Its all looks umless you have like reaally glaring autism or a legit mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 03:53 PM
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I also HATE how body positivity is so catered for fat women, when men have MUCH harshers "fat levels" standards of beauty. Men are expected to have angular faces and sucked in cheeks, that needs insanely more dedication and care than just being thin and you have to also deal with water retention levels too for it, unlike women who are fine just dealing with fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 06:41 PM
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looking scruffy not the same as being ugly. I know tall (and I mean stand out tall not just tallish) guys who are facially ugly and they are always in permanent friendzones. theres a treshold foe everything. Also stylemaxxing=/=attractive (the example you say with your friends), its all about face structure and beung facially lean and thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 03:13 AM
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high cheekbones are atrractive evolutionary because often are paired with good protection for the face, specially in areas like eyes or upper mouth. If someone or some animal is gonna land a blow on your face and you have high cheekbones, theres more of a chance of the cheekbone taking the blow than it directly ripping off your eye for example. Every good looking trait has a reason why its considered good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 02:57 AM
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a chiseled version of your face will always look dramatically better than the normal/dull version of it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:55 PM
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having a bigbheadbusually goes along with having a decent jaw. why do you grow a beard? big head + clean shaven + upper body muscle is way better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:53 PM
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meanwhile I experienced a dramatic change (in both life and dating) when going from already lean weight to having sucked in cheeks (which is pretty difficult). So being lean is not even enough for men, you have to be chiseled to experience what life is supposed to be like as a man. Beauty is extremely unforgiving for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:50 PM
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skinny in a chiseled face way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:47 PM
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nah my biggest change was in ugliness (and lack of now) more than bring very fat or ungroomed. when uglier people including teachers assumed I was slow and dumb, now people think im almost gifted. Its super fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:45 PM
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radically.It changed my whole life (before covid) dating was just a part of what changed. Extreme positive change.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:39 PM
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because weight can be changednand even then men are still subjected to harsher weight standards as it is hugely more diffiult to get the chiseled cheekbones +jawline look so pushed on men than just being normal lean
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:27 PM
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because if any number of people no matter how few, who share your gender and socioeconomic background probably too are living an elite life compared to you, without this disparity being due to you living in a 3rd world or warring country, or he belonging to an extremely wealthy powerful family (which despite being still unfair, would be more logical reasons), you should NOT be okay with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:43 PM
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