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Questions for allNike_NBD/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 02:21 AM
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Question for RedPillNike_NBD/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 04:45 PM
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Marry me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:19 PM
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NGL, my pov on 'average population' might be skewed by living in London where most people I know and meet do some form of physical activity and like being active. So... my views might be biased
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 08:39 PM
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There's a lot of over training that sometimes comes from body dysmorphia, although actually I think that's quite common in men as well. I do know some women who become obsessive about training even when it's not healthy because they're trying to look a certain way. Basically if training = happier and healthier, I'm 100% for it. If it means worse overall health to look a certain way, fuck that shit life is too short and the cost is often too high. But I will agree that rolling is sometimes so add…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 08:35 PM
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Ah, I love it when Atwood turns out to be more prophecy than fiction
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 08:14 PM
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I do combat sports. Over training is def not rare in my experience, we're all walking chronic injuries. And yes, I'm always pro-health as long as that means an approach driven by improvement of mental, emotional, and physical health. I'm okay with people taking their own time to reach peak physical health because they need to focus on self-acceptance and internal confidence first. Frankly, I'm happy with people just being whatever version of themselves makes them happiest as long as they're not …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 08:12 PM
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I've been away from reddit too long. WTF. That definitely feels like something out of the ISIS/Taliban playbook. Or some Handmaiden's Tale-esque shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:54 PM
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Basically a body that one would not be able to achieve though normal and healthy means such as good diet, exercise (cardio + strength training), and regular good habits. (I'm not currently talking about cases where hormonal/thyroid imbalances result in body shape changes). Everyone has a natural, genetic disposition that determines what shape their body will be even when they are in peak health. For some people that is skinny and slight, for some people that muscular and athletic, for some that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:28 PM
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To clarify, what are women coming crawling back for assistance with? Women now have means of getting financial security and stability, and living pretty full and fulfilling lives. Don't get me wrong, I generally love the men in my life, a lot of them are great humans whose company I enjoy and who help me with stuff time to time just as I help them with stuff. But like... if they suddenly disappeared I think I'm fully capable of fending for myself. The point is not to be dependent on the other ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:20 PM
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To clarify, what are women coming crawling back for assistance with? Women now have means of getting financial security and stability, and living pretty full and fulfilling lives. Don't get me wrong, I generally love the men in my life, a lot of them are great humans whose company I enjoy and who help me with stuff time to time just as I help them with stuff. But like... if they suddenly disappeared I think I'm fully capable of fending for myself. The point is not to be dependent on the other ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:19 PM
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To clarify, what are women coming crawling back for assistance with? Women now have means of getting financial security and stability, and living pretty full and fulfilling lives. Don't get me wrong, I generally love the men in my life, a lot of them are great humans whose company I enjoy and who help me with stuff time to time just as I help them with stuff. But like... if they suddenly disappeared I think I'm fully capable of fending for myself. The point is not to be dependent on the other ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:19 PM
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To clarify, what are women coming crawling back for assistance with? Women now have means of getting financial security and stability, and living pretty full and fulfilling lives. Don't get me wrong, I generally love the men in my life, a lot of them are great humans whose company I enjoy and who help me with stuff time to time just as I help them with stuff. But like... if they suddenly disappeared I think I'm fully capable of fending for myself. The point is not to be dependent on the other ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:19 PM
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I don't think I've ever seen advertisers being called a support system. As a woman, 90% of the advertising we came across in the past was aimed at making us feel insecure about a particular thing (weight, height, hair, skin, eye colour, eyebrows, eyelashes, lips, style, body hair, periods, whatever) to buy a particular product that would fix that 'problem'. Not exactly a support system I'd say. Now advertisers are just exploiting the fact people caught on to their game and hop on bandwagons such…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:12 PM
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Pretty sure the system hasn't told anyone that is the desired body form, it's just saying that anyone can be attractive whatever their current body shape is and there's always someone out there who's attracted to particular body types. I mean very few people are saying that it's not good to be healthy, I think the point being made is it's important that becoming healthy involves physical, mental and emotional health which is the opposite of the body dysmorphia and eating disorders that come with…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:02 PM
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sexual... welfare? Is that a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:57 PM
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As a woman, I've thought about Leo's sex life exactly 0.00000000001% of my life, don't really give a shit. As long as it's legal and consensual and the girls aren't trafficked/exploited, Leo and the girls can do whatever they want to do. Frankly, my gut feeling is to feel a bit sorry for him because instinctively I feel like most people who live a lifestyle like that are insecure or unfulfilled, but hey that's probably my personal bias based on the fact connection is important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:56 PM
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when did PPD suddenly become r/bjj
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:51 PM
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This is the Internet. Apart from someone literally cutting off someone's access to the Internet, no one gets 'shut down' Also there was nothing about a false equivalency. You can refer to a previous answer of mine on this. I don't believe any one gender is the villain, I believe everyone is the victim of a fucked up system. Although I also believe regardless of trauma people are responsible for their actions. This was my answer to a previous reply: That sucks, shouldn't happen to either gender, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:26 AM
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I have no idea... has someone done a study on this? I can't speak for the majority of women, I can speak for myself and my mma girl-friends
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:11 AM
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To clarify, my friend was a guy. I don't think any of my woman friends would have thought I should be flattered...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:06 AM
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I think you're right about the addictive aspect of it. It's sort of like gambling, if you can't predict which play will get you a reward, you get addicted to the destructive but occasionally rewarding behavior. The saddest thing I think is the complete lack of prioritisation of healthy/secure relationships and people getting relief from the deeper pain that leads to the toxic behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:05 AM
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I'm really sorry you've confined yourself to such a narrow experience. Really hope you get a chance to heal and experience friendships and relationships with the pretty epic women (and men) out there. Female attention is not the same as friendship and relationship and I'm sorry you haven't got to experience the beauty of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:03 AM
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Source: I've punched 2 guys who grabbed me against my consent. One in the throat because he was too tall for me to reach his face. One of them was conventionally attractive and I was so repulsed by what happened I had to go throw up in the bathroom after. Actually, the reason I was ill after was because a friend of mine said the dude was attractive and "I should have been flattered". Assault doesn't feel any less gross if they're "attractive". Entitlement to space and body of people with boundar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:27 PM
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That sucks, shouldn't happen to either gender, and is wrong in every case I care when a woman grabs a guy against their will, it's unacceptable in every scenario. The whole "men can't get raped/sexually assaulted by women" thing is a by-product of patriarchal beliefs where men are deemed to be sexual aggressors (and encouraged to do so) and women are told they should be submitters (which makes them more vulnerable in many cases). So yeah, again it's wrong that that happens, everyone's boundaries…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:21 PM
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This. 100% this. secure relationships are based on self-love and self-acceptance as well as loving and accepting the other person. If you have to completely change yourself or the other person to be happy, then it's not a secure relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:01 PM
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"Nobody gets out of love alive, you either break up when you're young or say goodbye when you die" - Jessie Reyez, can't rmb the song
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:31 PM
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100% attracted to a well-groomed bald guy. Even very close buzz cuts work for me. But that's cuz I'm around a lot of muay thai/bjj guys and they tend to go with shaved/buzz cuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:23 PM
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Questions for you: how many times have you been personally physically/sexually abused by people in your life? How many times have you been in a situation where you were touched/grabbed without your consent or permission? How many times have you been told that if you were to have something bad happen to you (rape/assault/attacks) it is likely your fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:17 PM
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Yeah, if someone did that to me, I'd prob punch them regardless of how attractive they are. But that's because I have pretty strong boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:16 PM
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> There are guys who are just creepy like you say but that doesn't mean all guys who get labeled creepy are actually creepy I do agree with this, I do know some (not very nice) women who have different standards of acceptable behaviour based on how attractive someone is. That being said, for me the creepiness of a person is often completely independent of how attractive they are, I tend to find it has to do with three things: entitlement (feeling entitled to my attention or personal space withou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:10 PM
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Jesus F. Christ, maybe making statements like 'most women have no personality' is what makes misogynists unattractive to women? I mean, as a woman, if a man is assuming you don't have a personality because of your gender, you're less likely to want to interact with them and also show them any personality you might have? You've made a whole bunch of assumptions there that sound more like they come from resentment than from actually getting to know women? You realise there are women on an entire s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:34 PM
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That is a female creep. In that scenario, the man is not the creep, she is or actually she's just a genuinely terrible person and honestly I think karma kinda comes for people like that eventually because you can only cover up a terrible personality for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:28 PM
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Deeply disagree. What makes people creepy has a lot to do with resentment, entitlement, and not picking up on cues of discomfort. I know lots of men who maybe aren't conventionally attractive who are still decent human beings, but it takes a deep sense of self and a clear self-confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:26 PM
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As a feminist I hate myself a little for laughing at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:23 PM
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I'm really sorry you've experienced that. No one deserves to be treated that way. Honestly, I really wish we could all be a bit better to each other it would make life easier for literally everyone. But yeah, you're valuable and important no matter what dickheads might have done. But you deserve better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:22 PM
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See this is where personality comes into play. Personally, I've often been very turned off by people who may be conventionally physically attractive but who turned out to have kind of "bleh" personalities. While the people who I've often been most attracted to on a personal level tend to be people I find intelligent, interesting, or who shared my sense of humor (or a combination of those). That's definitely not to say they weren't physically attractive to me (I personally found my last ex very a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:14 PM
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What is "average-looking"? How emotionally intelligent is he? I have guy friends who are 5'2" and who have found a life partner who they're quite happy with, had kids, etc. But they also had a very friendly personality and were very kind and patient, with themselves and with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:08 PM
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Really curious. What do we define as "genetically average" or "genetically physically unattractive"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:06 PM
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Well, in some ways, I'd say it's actually higher value. Because it often talks about things overlooked in "mainstream media". I am going to miss Stewart greatly when he leaves </3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 03:56 AM
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That is a tad hurtful, because although I am not male, and do not really categorize myself according to a sexual hierarchy, I do identify most with the personality descriptions of the Sigma. And although I don't really know or care about "winning" (winning what, exactly is my question), I do understand the niche description apart from the sexual stuff. But at the same time, I would like to think that I'm not a loner, nor that I have a very high opinion of myself. I can say I am a hardcore introv…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 03:50 AM
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quick question: would you maybe classify your friend as Sigma?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 03:43 PM
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I may need a new category for that one. Lets call it... Omicron?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 03:23 AM
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I see it sort of like news, and news satire programs. Sure, the news is the more serious one, that works hard to deliver the facts, but of course as most people realize, tends to have certain inherent biases or flaws, as all things do (if there was any perfect philosophy, I'm sure we'd all adhere to it) The news satire shows, on the other hand, don't even pretend to be serious, they mostly focus on exposing flaws in the news shows through satire. In a way, the satire serves a purpose of its own:…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 03:20 AM
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thanks :) and good point. I guess the prob with the alpha/beta dichotomy as defined by most is it tends to be defined in the paradigm of heterosexual male-female relationships and therefore doesn't really cater to other sexualities/preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 03:05 AM
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well a large part of TRP philosophy has to do with being "alpha". Do you identify yourself as being alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 02:56 AM
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but what's your type? And would you consider yourself alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 02:52 AM
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so I'm guessing you identify yourself as alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 02:51 AM
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That would explain alot, because I'm not male, but I related to almost every line in this description. But I am an INTP. And that explains a lot because my mom always tells me I'm not very 'feminine' because I tend to be more rational than emotional, but then I can't really change that about myself (not that I'd want to)
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/15 02:05 AM
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I do agree with you very much. My contention with them is not that there aren't women who are like that (Lord knows we've all treated people in ways we later regret), but that there is a vast diversity of women, who are attracted to a wide variety of traits, and who want different things from relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 10:25 PM
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We can go back and forth accusing each other of solipsism all day. I mean, we clearly have differing opinions on this. It's kind of annoying when you accuse me of not being able to see other peoples point of view, and then go on to say that my point of view simply doesn't exist, or generalize other peoples point of view. So please stop that. If you want to make me see another point of view, just explain that point of view, and I will try to understand it. I know plenty of women who got married l…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 08:30 PM
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Well, to be fair, my reply is both NAWALT and NAMALY (not all men are like you). 1. The change in marriage age statistics also has to do with a number of other factors: education inflation, more career opportunities, less financial dependency on a spouse, less pressure to marry early, better obstetric care, better birth control (less marriages due to unexpected pregnancies). 2. You talk about less chances of women being faithful to the man she marries, but what about the flip-side? What about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 08:06 PM
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Hmm, that's interesting. Many of my friends aren't really attracted to typical alpha men. Maybe that's human nature: we tend to hang out with people who are like us in these ways. But yeah, I guess I've learnt a lot today about the different between angry TRP posters and what being alpha actually means to some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:51 PM
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Well, thank you for clarifying that. I've been frustrated for so long because TRP-ers keep saying they don't hate women, but then I read the threads, it does feel like they hate them. But I guess we all sound like we hate everyone when we are venting our pent up frustrations with the world. I would sound like a complete misanthrope if I voiced my frustrations with people online. I guess my big concern has just been with people internalizing that anger, instead of processing it. It just seemed li…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:48 PM
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But aren't you kinda guilty of Solipsism yourself? Aren't you: Assuming all men share your point of view on what they find attractive in a women? That all men don't "give two shits about woman's career, her money, her "field of work" "? And that any men who don't experience that raw attraction and don't agree with your point of view are "beta pussy white knights"? Assuming that all women only want to date/marry up (i.e. men who make more money)? That their dating pool is limited to men who are w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:39 PM
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hmmm... that's an interesting point. this might be a stupid question, but could you expand a little more on the AMOG concept? Also, could you define what alpha means to you? I'm getting a lot of different definitions, and I'm kinda confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:05 PM
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hmm. Well, I do prefer that flavour of alpha, although sometimes I respect behaviors that may be classified as "beta". But as I may have mentioned previously on this thread, that doesn't really seem to be the flavor of alpha TRP seems to promote. TBH most of TRP threads come across less as "taking care of the pack", and more as women-hating, women-blaming, name-calling, simultaneous slut celebrating and shaming (that one confuses me), and general "women are objects, not people, we know what they…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:03 PM
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Questions, though: What if a woman has a pretty good income of her own, and therefore isn't looking for a "Beta wallet(?)"? And what if the reason she choses not to give her "youth, beauty, and a family" to a man, is because she wants the freedom to work and build a stable life for herself, so as to avoid needing to take advantage of a "Beta wallet"? What if she shows skill, competence, passion for a particular field of work, which makes it hard for her to get married for a while? What if it act…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 06:57 PM
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Does the woman's humanity ever get factored in, though? Would you suggest women, also, start considering men as lifting gloves? Or from your point of view, do women already do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 06:34 PM
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Whelp. I guess its back to square one with TRP for me. Although I guess I now better understand a possible point of view on this confusing spectrum that is TRP/TBP
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 06:29 PM
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Whelp, them maybe it's the loud douche that I am repulsed by. And I would not be too impressed by someone who changed their views that easily. The most attractive person I've encountered had diametrically opposite views from my own, but was always open to my point of view, and argued his pov really well. But at the same time, he wasn't at all a RP-type. Maybe the problem is that the RP philosophy and alpha philosophy aren't exactly the same. If simply sticking to your guns (in a amiable and resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 06:27 PM
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hmm. Thanks. That actually gives me a lot of insight into TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 06:01 PM
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Exactly! I personally tend to be attracted more to the Clark-Kent glasses, checkered-shirt wearing types (bowties are my kryptonite), but the same thing applies to the artistic-soul types.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 06:01 PM
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Actually, personally, I'd have to say that isn't really a case. I've often not been physically attracted to a person when I first met them, but gradually become extremely attracted to them if they demonstrate intellect, insight and depth of perception. I'd have to say intellectual stimulation and sense of humor are the two most attractive things to me. But then again, maybe I'm an aberration. I don't believe I am, but I can't possibly know the reality of that. Now, confidence is attractive to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 05:56 PM
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well, actually, to put in context, I said "Now, according to the RP the majority of women are not like me, perhaps I'm some statistical aberration" Personally, I do think most women that I've talked to share my point of view. But according to the threads I've read on TRP, they don't. That's what I was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 05:46 PM
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No no, I didn't mean to imply that RP-ers are not intellectual. In fact, it seems that many RP-ers identify themselves as pragmatics or rationalist. Sorry, I should have phrased that better. However, I do feel a lot of the RP philosophy tends away from the confident, soft-spoken declarations you talked about. Personally, I consider a non-overtly aggressive, but well-spoken, intellectual and thoughtful person highly attractive. But that also seems diametrically opposite from the "alpha" examples …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 05:41 PM
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So, just to clarify, the major motivation for you to follow the RP philosophy usually has to do with being able to get girls to have sex with you? And it seems that you have different behaviors towards women you just want to have sex with and women you want to be in a relationship with... is there a reason for that dichotomy? And does that mean you wouldn't want a relationship with the girls you bed? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just really trying to understand the psychology/motivation behi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 05:30 PM
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Jesus, this is the most depressing thing I've read this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 04:31 PM
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Wait... is that really TRP's point of view?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 04:29 PM
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I'm really sorry that you went through a crappy relationship, but have you ever considered that the problem wasn't women as a whole, but just the fact you were dating a kinda shitty person, regardless of their gender? I mean, my main problem with dating (and people in general) is that for the most part, people are naturally insecure, selfish, and prone to cruelty. I feel like it's out most basic nature. It takes a lot of work to overcome our most base instincts, to gain self-confidence and healt…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 04:24 PM
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I actually can't tell... are you serious or trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/14 03:57 PM
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Yep, the RPs and BPs may have finally found something they agree on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/14 04:04 AM
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