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I agree with the happy and independent on your own part. But there comes a point when you're so happy and content with your life that you feel like sharing it with someone. That's when the dog comes in. There's no feeling in the world better than the one you get when he/she sits there and looks at you with those eyes that say "you are my world."
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 01:08 PM
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A dog is pretty much the only source of loyalty and unconditional love.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 08:49 AM
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It's okay. Thanks for the recommendation. I'll give it a shot!
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 06:45 PM
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If you have read his books, can you help me understand how I can get my sense of identity? I'm not even halfway through 'The Power of Now' but he says stuff around the lines of "You are not what your mind/ego tells you. That is all ego identification." I made some goals for myself and I was building my identity around them and the person I would be. But then he goes to say that is what my ego is telling me so I have no idea who the fuck I am.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 02:21 PM
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I actually think this is the exact opposite of what Eckhart Tolle would say. I was reading his book 'The Power of Now' (finished only about 30 pages) but from what I read, he tells you NOT to get your sense of identity from your mind. OP tells you to imagine what you want to be which pretty much stems from the mind. But then again I may not have understood the message of the book clearly enough. I'm confused as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 02:14 PM
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She's my FWB now. She dated 3 guys after me. She cheated on all of them with me. I did feel a little guilty but hey, I don't owe them anything. I'm horny, she's horny, we fuck. She never asked me explicitly if I want to get back together. She knows my answer will be a resounding NO and that I have other plates. But she does feel attracted to me a lot now that I have things going for me.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 04:39 AM
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Tbh, I think you're over-analysing this bro. She's simply appreciating what he did. Also, her complaining about him in the beginning only shows that he doesn't bend over backwards all the time like a beta to give her no reason to complain.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 02:57 PM
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Haha awesome! I copied it from The Donald subreddit anyway.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 09:35 AM
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Trump managed to get more fat women to walk in 1 day than Michelle Obama did in 8 years. Edit: Wow, thank you for the gold, kind stranger!
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 07:54 AM
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Alright. Thanks man!
/r/askTRP18/01/17 04:14 PM
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Basically, I'm a big people pleaser. I try to 'say the right things' to make people happy and induce them to like me. I wanna get rid of that. I don't wanna be a doormat anymore. Some book related to that?
/r/askTRP18/01/17 03:54 PM
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Sounds amazing. Thanks!
/r/askTRP18/01/17 03:52 PM
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Just did. Thank you!
/r/askTRP18/01/17 02:15 PM
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We subconsciously treat those women better who we think are attractive and 'above' us. We don't do that with girls who are average or below average looking because we don't want anything from them and thus, we tend to just be ourselves without holding anything back. What I was trying to say is that we must first be happy and satisfied with our lives regardless of getting laid with hot girl. When you do that, even the hottest of girls won't faze you. You'll subconsciously know that YOU are above …
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 08:37 AM
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Don't overdo the DGAF theory. Sometimes it's good to be a little invested in them. Sometimes, not always. The guys who are ALWAYS and FULLY invested in a girl are the ones who end up in the friendzone. It shows the girl that he probably doesn't have better things to do with his life. I'm not telling you to completely ignore women. Approach them if you feel like. But don't attach yourself to the outcome. Develop a mindset where you'll be absolutely okay even if she rejects you because you have to…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 08:23 AM
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Go balls deep inside those walls and start bustin' all kinds of nuts. ALL KINDZZZZZ.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 07:48 AM
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Wanting, not needing. Spot on.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 06:55 AM
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Hahaha nah man. Just a little brown guy from Mumbai.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 06:22 AM
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Yessir. Learnt that the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 05:17 AM
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I apologise for that. It's my first post here. I know I should have explained how it works but that would make the post too long. I thought most people wouldn't be bothered about the details of how it works as long as it works. I mean, when you feel hot, you just press the switch of the fan. You don't bother to worry about how the electricity flows from the flip of the switch to the fan. As for the explanation, check out some of the top comments. They explained it perfectly!
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 05:12 AM
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Haha, I struggled with it too, my man. Next time you see her (or any other hot girl who seems like she is showing interest) in the gym, just give her a casual smile the moment you lock eyes and then carry on with your workout. This way, she'll know that you acknowledged her and at the same time your workout is more important to you than chitchatting with her.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:50 AM
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Thanks man. I'd upvote this a 100 times if I could. You should make a post about this. Many people here need to see this!
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:39 AM
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Sorry for generalizing. I meant newbies.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 06:29 PM
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Thanks mate. And yes, it happens to most of us. We tend to go back to the BP ways because it feels like the 'safer' option. We'll get past that though. I screwed up big time, man. 1 year into the relationship I was not the same person I was when she fell for me. I used to be awesome and had a winner's mentality. Gradually, it all went away and I became a beta BP guy. I did what all mainstream magazines and tumblr tell you to do. I put her on a pedestal. Treated her like a Queen. My world used to…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 06:25 PM
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I guess girls are used to having guys bending over backwards for them these days (all credit to feminism). So when they see someone behaving like an asshole with them, it subconsciously tells them that the guy has an abundance mindset and that he is not like the other betas. Thanks for sharing your experience. 👍🏻
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 05:48 PM
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Well, 'shit' is a strong word but yes, I get your point brother. 👍🏻
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 05:36 PM
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Ah man, I know how it feels to hit rockbottom and lose all faith in relationships. That is the main reason I'm grateful to have found this sub. People like you put invaluable advice which helps the rest of us improve our lives. Thanks a lot and keep up the good work!
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 05:34 PM
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I'm using Reddit on my phone. Can't see any sidebar here. :(
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 05:13 PM
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Ofcourse, all women aren't the same. No sane person would think so. I guess what he was trying to say is that all women behave the same way under a certain circumstance.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 05:11 PM
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You, sir, are a true Red Piller. Thank you for your advice!
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 04:59 PM
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Asking her out having already established a position of power won't be called chasing. But if you go about it by constantly being nice, listening to her whining about her problems, going shopping with her, showering her with gifts and stuff she isn't gonna respect you at all. It becomes obvious that you're chasing her and you either look needy or she treats you like a bff. If you happen to meet a girl for the first time, ask her out within the first 10 mins of your meeting. If you keep pretendin…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 04:57 PM
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Damn. That's new. Will surely try it out someday.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 04:27 PM
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Preach it, brother! Been there.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 04:25 PM
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I can understand where you're coming from. It would seem impossible for me too. Back then, I had a very tight schedule. 6 hrs of classes, 2 hrs of football practice, and whenever I was at home, 1.5 hrs of working out, and studying and doing homework. I used to be exhausted. Hardly got any time to sit idle. As they say, an empty mind is a devil's workshop. Since my mind was always occupied with one thing or another, I actually FORGOT about fapping and watching porn for 2 months. Also, in the book…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 03:50 PM
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When you forget about impressing girls, they notice that you're living for yourself. You don't care about anyone else's approval. Many girls find that sexy. In my blue pill days, I did confess my feelings to girls. But due to my overly gentlemanly nature, I ended up becoming that close friend who has no chance of becoming a boyfriend. I agree with your last para though. Show them that you'll be happy regardless of getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 03:21 PM
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Haha I was hoping atleast ONE person would notice. 😂
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 03:08 PM
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Haha, I can't blame you for thinking that way. But to be honest with you, my ex was atleast an 8. And when I was dating her, there were a lot of 9s who wanted to be with me but couldn't because I was in a committed relationship. I'd rate myself an 8 in the looks department. Also, I used to be ripped and big. So girls with a good self esteem used to find me desirable as well. When you have a girlfriend, you tend to pay less attention to other girls even if they are 10s. That's what used to trigge…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 03:06 PM
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True. Be the best you can be!
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 02:44 PM
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Absolutely. Be a challenge for em!
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 02:42 PM
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Same here, man! Whenever I actively chased a girl, I always got shot down. Really glad I finally realised how it works.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 02:42 PM
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Nah, my man, don't think of yourself as the fly! The IDGAF theory by itself won't get the job done. When you focus on your career and hobbies and work on improving yourself physically, mentally and socially, you start feeling better about yourself. You radiate that good feeling into the world. Girls pick up on that. That's how you become attractive to women. You simply need to develop a mentality of abundance. There will always be plenty of women. That's when the IDGAF theory comes into play. Yo…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 02:33 PM
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That's a very interesting trick to reduce nervousness! Most of the TRP'ers here have low self esteem. That makes them freeze in front of a hot woman. I hope they read your comment.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 12:36 PM
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Absolutely spot on! Make yourself your priority, not women.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 12:31 PM
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When you have their attention, don't overdo it. Be involved, but aloof. For eg: Take your time to reply to her texts, don't always be available, show her that you have other things to do, DO NOT send good mornings and good nights, etc. It is only when you make her the center of your attention that she gets turned off.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 11:19 AM
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Brilliant! That's exactly how it should be. Women, no matter how beautiful, aren't 'above' you. If you start worshipping her, she'll never feel any attraction. It is only when you unconsciously show her that her beauty does not intimidate/faze you that she knows you're special and above the average men.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 11:06 AM
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I'm sorry I'm new here. What does AWALT stand for? Also, I don't understand many of the abbreviations used here. Could you please give me a link regarding that? Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 10:25 AM
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Agreed. I don't have many people to exert dominance on but I try to dominate my goals and day to day things like working out, eating quality food, studying, reading etc.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 12:17 PM
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That's really good to know. Gave my confidence a boost. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 08:36 AM
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Absolutely love this post. Ever since I broke up with my ex, I have never socialized or went to hang out with people. It's been 3 years I still don't miss being in a group or meeting friends. Just happy in my bubble.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 08:06 AM
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Woah. A month of NoFap! That's impressive. Yeah, you tend to finish early when you have abstained for so long. Do you think your frame/confidence/charisma was a result of NoFap?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 05:17 AM
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Depends. Girls don't even get into that. They usually wanna keep themselves 'pure' till marriage. Some girls are smart and do everything except PIV and stay a 'virgin' for their husbands to see.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 02:50 PM
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True that. Gonna work on that. I found out about the Red Pill only yesterday. I lived my whole life as a blue pill guy. Not any more!
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 05:17 PM
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Absolutely correct. But that's what makes game even more difficult. Their parents check their phone, restrict their time to hang out, if someone sees them with a guy, she's subject to a serious interrogation at home, etc. And this is just the tip of the iceberg. Girls themselves view every move of yours as if you're hitting on them even if you're not. A friend of mine offered his seat to a girl in the bus because she was carrying two bags. She took it like as if he was trying to flirt and slappe…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 02:00 PM
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That's actually a bright idea but girls who go for arranged marriages don't usually have sex until marriage. So plating them under the pretext of a possible arranged marriage won't work unless you get married to them.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 01:47 PM
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Happy New Year man! I can imagine how tough it must have been for you. Applying TRP philosophy here on Indian chicks is a bit difficult than it would be in the west. Girls here are from wayyyy too conservative families. Where you from? Edit: Spelling.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 08:55 AM
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That's fuckin amazing, bro! Are you into NoFap? If yes, how long was your streak when you did this?
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 08:45 AM
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Woah. That's good to know! Thanks man!
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 09:14 AM
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Being a short guy myself, I couldn't thank you enough for this post. I already feel better about myself. Cheers!
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 07:58 AM
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