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GeneralNiki_Biryani/r/MensRights25/03/20 05:18 PM
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That has pretty much been my relationship as well as my parents, siblings, and uncles. But we are not American. Coming to the USA and seeing how the ladies here act like they don't have to contribute any money and still expect their partner to do 50% of the in-house chores and almost all of the outside chores was a bit of a shock.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:47 AM
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You cheated on your partner. I doubt he will ever be able to respect you or this relationship. The only way he'll forgive you is by cheating on you just to get even.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/22 04:41 AM
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How many handsome single successful traditional honorable good guys who I could be compatible with are there out there? Not a lot. Very hard to find. Most people have flaws. I feel depressed about my age, I’m young but I’m also not… I’m horrified right now. I don't think you should even think about your age in your decision. Yes, you are getting older but 29 is still very young. You have most of your life ahead of you. Remember staying single is a LOT better than marrying the wrong person. I typ…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/22 04:09 AM
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He also has a very strong moral character Ohh. So one of those virtue-signaling types? God, they are awful to deal with. Everyone needs to realize that most humans are capable of doing evil. We should stop being naive and understand our own proclivity of evil. We are all made the same way and if circumstances were different and if we were in someone else's shoes, we might not be as moral as we pretend to be. Someone put it very accurately in a short video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S8cAD0D…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 04:10 PM
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Nah. That's not fair. As a man, there are hundreds of times more pressure on the man to work harder and earn more. Men usually spend and sacrifice large amounts of their lives reaching a place where they can start earning a lot. Women on the other hand don't have to work as hard and then they expect to use their partner's money and still make him work equal chores when he is bringing bulk of the income. That does not seem fair to the guy at all. After working hard his whole life, it is time for …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:44 PM
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When they say "own money", they usually always mean "his money"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:41 PM
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People who use terms like fragile masculinity are just sexist misandrists pigs. Obviously, their IQs are also in the single digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:10 PM
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You can't really be serious? Women kind of look down on such men. And honestly so do most people in society.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/22 09:45 PM
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He ordered it over the mail.
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/22 07:22 PM
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Well, marriage is pretty much a rip-off for men in the USA with no advantage for men. Whereas marriage is a great financial victory for women. So I totally understand why he doesn't want to sign that piece of paper and be screwed by the law for the rest of his life.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 01:34 AM
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I don't believe in that. Most men do not respect a woman who is getting multiple guys' attention. Most HVM leave immediately when they see a woman is interested in some other man.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/22 07:53 PM
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Don't think about marriage. Most marriages prior to 25 yo end up in divorces. You are clearly not ready for an LTR. Workout hard, gets your testosterone levels as high as you can. This would lead to a lot of satisfaction and happiness. Have a perfect routine. Work on yourself and your career. Be one of the top earners by 28-30 yo. Have as much sexual sex till then and afterward as you want. If then you want to settle down, maybe you'll find someone who adds value in your life.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 04:10 PM
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I suggested that we still see each other (not ready to leave yet) What a rookie mistake. The more you linger on, the more toxic it gets and the harder it becomes to leave and eventually hurts more. Start looking elsewhere. If he is interested, he might return.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/22 03:49 PM
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I just came back from two weeks of a ban because I said that the trans community is highly protected on the internet and anything they consider offensive is promptly deleted and the user banned. Guess what, I was banned for saying just that under the guise of "hateful content"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:26 PM
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So almost all the studies are wrong and almost all the women say they prefer a higher-earning partner. Hell you can't even go on a date without women telling you they prefer a high earning partner. So they are all wrong because you said so? Some sources for you and these only popped up with 1 minute of research: https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2017/09/20/americans-see-men-as-the-financial-providers-even-as-womens-contributions-grow/ https://ifstudies.org/blog/better-educated-women-still-pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:16 PM
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The majority, if not most, of women marry for financial stability. In fact, that is usually the number one criterion of a good man in women's eyes. Being financially stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:08 PM
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I doubt that is the case. I would assume marrying your maid would have a lower chance of divorce and a happier life than marrying one of those feminists from your own socioeconomic category.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:06 PM
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Do we have actual stats for these? How much does the divorce rate decrease by some of these? Just for ease of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:03 PM
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But most man, especially lefty men are pretty much simps and sissy soyboys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:08 PM
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Most women live in their own fairy world of incredible entitlement and privilege. They simply don't give a shit about the disposable men. They could all die in a single day and they would still not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:53 PM
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I guess the author is either an entitled man who inherited a lot of money or just a woman who doesn't have to work as hard as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:10 PM
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Put a huge downpayment for your house, or buy the house in your name and pay the mortgage. That is the least you could do.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/22 04:40 PM
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They need to embrace the redpill and start working on themselves. Go to the gym 5 times a week and work on your career. Give it 3 to 5 years. They'll also gain all the confidence they wanted. They'll get as many girls as their heart desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:00 PM
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They would deem most men to be unfit to breed and they would be castaway. Men are already doing most of the dirty work of keeping our society running. They are the garbage men, cleaning, constructions, military, etc. If women were in charge, these men would be dying at many times a higher rate and there would be more of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:57 AM
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Human beings evolved as a gynocentric society where the lives of women and their care is more important and men are generally more expandable. This also helps with the survival of the fittest and better gene propagation. Where only one man is needed to reproduce. This is the reason why all of us have ancestors that are about 67% female and 33% male. Evolutionary speaking, not all men were supposed to breed. This is also the reason why women evolved to be better caregivers and more compassionate …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:55 AM
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My two cents: The honest answer is, up until now and even now they were mostly helping women. Human beings evolved as a gynocentric society where the lives of women and their care is more important and men are generally more expandable. This also helps with the survival of the fittest and better gene propagation. Where only one man is needed to reproduce. This is the reason why all of us have ancestors that are about 67% female and 33% male. Evolutionary speaking, not all men were supposed to br…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 05:54 AM
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We have always been in a gynocentric society made to fulfill the needs of women. The "image" of patriarchy that women screech about all the time is totally made up.
/r/MensRights26/04/22 01:03 AM
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He is an idiot.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/22 01:42 AM
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Women have overwhelmingly been the oppressed demographic in our documented history I do not know what "made up documented history" you are talking about. But women have always had it much much much easier than an average man throughout the human history as well as current times. We have always lived in a gynocentric society where women's needs are always met and men are treated like disposable fodder for the rich. To be treated worse than pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:31 AM
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Well, it is true though. Women are like children that cry and wine all the time and have their life in easy mode. While men are living the same life in super-hard mode and are not even allowed to talk about it. Women are the most privileged being in this gynocentric society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:21 AM
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Sarcasm and being witty do not require you to STFU. STFU is when your partner is going through a tough time and you are being unreasonable by being moody, unsupportive, saying mean things, or being too controlling. That is when you need to learn to STFU.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/22 04:59 AM
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Doesn't matter. Most thots are just gold diggers. Doesn't matter if men start going to jail after divorce. They would still argue that the law is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 07:32 PM
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Doesn't matter if people bring hundreds of thousands of cases as evidence. The thots are still going to believe the prenups get held up in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 07:29 PM
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On a scale of 1 to 100. Where 100 being women have privilege over men and 1 being men have privilege over women. We are currently probably at 90 to 95. Once we bring back female genital mutilation and send women off to war and for them to do hard work to keep society going. Then I guess we would be around 70. But until then, I think feminists should STFU.
/r/MensRights08/04/22 05:18 AM
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He already shot you down. He isn't interested in you. Neither does he sound like anything special. Let him go.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 04:35 AM
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All I have heard are feminists showing the absolute level of hate and intolerance against her for being happy.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/22 06:30 PM
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Ohh No. They weren't making even close to as much as me. They were just used to dating people making more than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:24 AM
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I'll agree with you there. The subset of women I got to interact with when I graduated was not representative of the general population. People in areas like the bay area or new york, are not really grounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:04 AM
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World has been saved. Her eating habits were creating global food shortages and her farts were causing global warming.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/04/22 11:36 PM
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I hope the OP got some decent advice. Something along the lines of: "Run man. The fact Wendy is so f**king entitled that she is asking him to apologize just goes to show what she would turn into. He is just going to be used as an ATM for Wendy and her dysfunctioning family."
/r/PussyPass01/04/22 07:03 AM
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Dude, I have been banned and so many of my comments were deleted from that sub. That sub is toxic feminist shit. There were so many people who posted the same thing by just changing their gender. When a guy does it, he is the asshole. But when a woman does it, she was praised as a queen and not the asshole. These people are sexist as hell.
/r/PussyPass01/04/22 07:01 AM
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I doubt that. She said they had a religious wedding already, which means a religious clerk has already pronounced them married. She also says the guy is religious. The only thing left is for them to have a ceremony. She also said that to get a divorce, a mufti needs to be involved. She is in a place where she cannot get a divorce without a mufti. Just saying, it sounds to be like the guy is religious. Someone who is put off by the thought of high libido woman might not be interested in the whole…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/22 02:52 AM
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I was a beta bux. But I did not have much money, only the potential of having money since I was getting a 6 year Ph.D. with education from top schools that could get me a very high-paying job. I was a complete cuck and put women on a pedestal. How did it go? The relationship didn't end well because I was really a low-libido man who wouldn't stand up for myself. So got stood up, cheated on. That was the wake-up call to learn to be a better man and join the gym. Four years later and now I am tryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:20 PM
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No religious Muslim guy is going to give you oral or even suggest that the women masturbate. It is considered sinful. Many religious guys don't even turn on lights during penetrative sex. Some of them would still cover their partner's body with a cloth during sex. I don't think you realize the difference in culture between religious Muslims and the west.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 08:37 PM
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Coming from a guy from that culture (raised a Muslim). It is typical for guys. Especially guys who don't work out to have lower libido. People in our culture (Muslim), especially men are extremely unhealthy. They work out maybe once every 5 years. Is he even active? Men's libido after 30 falls sharply. The only way to maintain it after 30 is to be physically healthy and active. I am going to assume he is not physically active? The second problem is, he is ashamed to admit his libido is lower tha…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 08:34 PM
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That is a funny coincidence. When I started making 200k+, I came across women still thinking it wasn't enough. Doctors they went out with make twice that amount. Anyways, I was just starting out my career so it was only going to go up but they didn't care enough or understand enough to know the potential. Someone in his late 20s, finished his Ph.D. just starting his career and business, making 200k+ has a potential to go higher. My conclusion, you'll meet shitty people, better to ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:29 AM
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Spreading AIDs. \s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:23 AM
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Honestly, if one of the partner is not maintaining peace (that happens a lot because of immaturity). That is a HUGE red flag and it is better to break up than to live through unpeaceful times. I don't know your story and can't take a side but "inability to maintain peace" is not a small thing. It is a HUGE issue that one should work on to improve.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 02:15 AM
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Good question! Following.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 07:14 PM
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What do you not understand? Will is watching his wife being fucked around by every random person including his own son's friends. He is such a cuck that even though it hurts him, he says he has to make the sacrifice for his wife and family. Will smith is bein emotionally abused in this relationship and he is a weak pathetic excuse of a man.
/r/AntiFeminists29/03/22 05:04 AM
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Ohh God. I hate victim-blaming but I am going to victim blame here. Because from the passage above, I have come to the conclusion that you need some hard dose of reality. You can grieve after you are out of this mess. She's wearing the pants in this relationship and treating you like utter shit. You are being a pathetic cuck. This is understandable, most married men are like that. Have some dignity and self-respect. Show some self-love. You are better than this. Fight for yourself as if your lif…
/r/MensRights28/03/22 05:56 PM
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If Kanye West would have done it, he would be rotting in jail right about now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:17 PM
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Not his first time assaulting someone. He has assaulted people in the past. He is a weak pathetic excuse of a man. A feminist kind of man, those are the most toxic ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:16 PM
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Spending 4 years in Gym changed my life around. I was skinny and thin and had no chance with women. Going to the gym was the best decision of my life and I am better than most men around me now. I lift heavy, got tons of muscles, almost shredded, broader shoulders, the shirt fits well, my facial looks and jawline became clearer. My testosterone levels increased, my libido increased, I felt more like a man. I became so much more confident in life. Since I started squatting 315 lbs, it gives you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:55 PM
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Again. delving into my personal opinions here. I think you are confusing RP with black pills or MGTOW. I think incels are mostly blacked pilled or MGTOW. From my understanding, RP men are quite the opposite of incels. RP men are usually trying to take advantage of the nature of dating culture in the west. Their goal is to concentrate on themselves first. Improve themselves in ways that would make them a HVM. Of course, their starting goal is as shallow as getting women. But that is just the natu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:30 PM
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Not the person who messaged this. But I don't believe most women do this all the time. I think it is a loud minority of women that practice this. These are the ones we see most active on dating apps. Who shamelessly go about their life and so it becomes apparent. Which I believe does cause resentment in a lot of men. They feel like even when most women do not do it, most women do have the capability and the means to do it since it is encouraged by society. Even though I believe most women don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:39 PM
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Opinion from a guy. I believe he is into you. But the prohibitions and social sanctions on behavior, especially for a guy make it hard for most men to make the first move. Especially those who have been mistreated in the past, or have the anxiety of being mistreated or rejected for their approach. It is perfectly normal. I think both of you feel the same way. You both like each other but are too afraid to be a little straightforward about it. Here is what you can do. You can simply ask him if he…
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 05:28 PM
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Do not speak to the police. Do not give them any information at all. Do not admit to anything. They should have to prove that you were even there. Unless you have already told the police everything, then you are a bit screwed.
/r/MensRights25/03/22 09:45 PM
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It seems like he is just dealing with his own issues at this moment. You can either leave him be and see if he returns to you. Or you can be slightly pushier and ask around if you can help in any way. Most of us guys don't really like sharing when we are panicking or having anxiety or dealing with stress. We just lock ourselves out until we feel better. Just the way society has conditioned most of us. Better to deal it by ourselves than to be looked down or made fun of or be called weak.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/22 11:57 PM
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The guy that posted the roast.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/22 04:46 AM
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Judging by this bimbo's profile picture, this statement should read: "there are tons of free better looking alternatives"
/r/PussyPassDenied22/03/22 11:12 PM
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Someone saying I am AFAB rather than I am female or male is kind of a cringe thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:18 PM
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Since you are here, can you please shed some light on what is going on over here: https://web.archive.org/web/20220321005531/https://threadreaderapp.com/thread/1505312206711361545.html
/r/MensRights22/03/22 04:49 AM
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If we only look at it from a financial point of view alone. She is contributing 30-50% of the mortgage. Add in the property taxes, variable expenses, utilities, downpayment (30k or so), homeowners and mortgage insurance, HOA fees, maintenance fees. They would be lucky if $600 covers 20% of the total monthly expenses around the house. We can't really be sure since we do not know where they live but in most places paying $600/month would be very cheap. And even if we assume her labor is $600/month…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/22 04:22 AM
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I agree with you there. They should have a talk about their future and have that all sorted out. But the financial decisions and house payments shouldn't be forcing anyone into marriage. They should decide about their marriage based on things other than financial decisions. I believe, If you have not yet decided to marry your partner, and are living with your partner, then you should be contributing to the expenses a bit. $600/month seems reasonable enough. As I pointed out elsewhere, if she bel…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/22 04:01 AM
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Because she is not a wife and she is not entitled to become someone's wife just cause she contributes a bit to the house chores. If your brain only goes at seeing the man as an ATM and can only see this situation from the financial perspective, then she is at this moment a very expensive maid. If love wasn't involved in this situation, no one would put someone else's name on their house. Just hire help and rent a room and you'll be better off.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/22 03:42 AM
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Yes. They need to talk about marriage and their future. Too bad the young ones nowadays are not too inclined to get married anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/22 03:23 AM
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She is only paying $600 per month with everything included. She wouldn't even find rent for that price in most of the places. Let alone the other expenses. Let's not pretend like she is getting the short end of the deal.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/22 03:17 AM
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I don't get what could be sketchy about it? If you think you are contributing too much, you can always cut a few of your daily chores. Or give a few of your chores to your BF. $600 per month with all utilities paid is an amazing deal. And you already said you love the guy and want to live with him. You two maybe should talk about the future and marriage since you didn't mention that in your post. But I don't see any red flags in this arrangement.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/22 03:16 AM
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No one is going to add their GF's name on the title who only contributes $600 / month (which probably wouldn't even cover 20% of the house monthly expenses) for the house. This is insane entitlement talk that isn't based on reality.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/22 03:10 AM
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Just so you know, there are more expenses to buying the house rather than just the mortgage payment per month. Your $600 wouldn't make 35-50% of the total monthly cost of the house. Just wanted to say that here. Also, the messages here claim that you should own part of the house. Sounds a lot like entitlement. No one is going to let you be a part-owner of the house unless you are married. Not to mention he is contributing to most of the things financially. Working around the home and prepping me…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/22 03:08 AM
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Get in line. How old are you? Like 17?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:49 AM
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Yeah. That is why your family were worried about you looking like a chihuahua
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:33 AM
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Loosing 30 lbs in a month means you have medical issues and probably mental issues too. Seek a doctor. You are unhealthy and probably look like a drug-addict hobo. No sane woman would like to go out with someone who looks like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:09 AM
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You should do a follow-up and tell them that you officially want to file an assault case. Tell them you lost your job because of that. You got called a pervert by your own boss. Take action against your own boss too. Talk to the higher-ups. Whatever you can do, don't leave this without a fight. This happens to millions of guys just because we chose not to fight. You have your father already supportingyou. you have nothing to lose. Go after the MFs
/r/MensRights20/03/22 11:26 PM
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He was a teenager when you two got together. He has probably never seen any other women and has never experienced dating. Also, he might not feel like you two are best for each other. I wouldn't recommend going back to him. But once he sees for himself how bad the dating market is and how horrible it is to go on dates with toxic people, I am sure he would regret leaving a healthy relationship with someone he loves, unless it wasn't healthy for him. Since he was only 17 when he started dating you…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/22 05:06 AM
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Honestly, I see red flags in both your thinking and his thinking. Maybe he is just hurt and doesn't have the confidence to move as fast into another marriage as you want him to be. Take it slow and see where things go. Concentrate on your daughter and what is best for her. If you conclude that this guy loves you and is trustworthy, that is all you need. All the other ones are just his choices that are not really too big of a red flag. You are probably reading into this waaay too much.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/22 03:30 AM
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Well according to women, they should all be rounded up and sent to war to be killed off, cause women "hate all men", "kill all men". While the rest of the 20% should get busy working overtime to provide these women with money, security, and resources without them having to work hard ever in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:12 AM
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Not the first time she has gotten pregnant either, so there is that too. All her demands and then she has no education and has gotten knocked up twice. Maybe she needs to get her things in order too before pressuring her BF. Both need to sit down and talk through this and figure out what would be the best for the baby. She says: "With his career this is realistic". If she trusts the guy, maybe the best solution for them would be for her to stay at a house and the guy to go earn for both of them.…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/22 02:46 AM
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My apologies. I got carried away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:36 AM
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An answer from a guy who suffers from similar issues. You don't have to compare yourself to him. Statistically, a women's upper body strength is about 50% that of men. But their lower body strength on average is about 72% of that of men. Female body autonomy is a bit different where their lower body is much stronger from their upper body (compared to men). Now coming towards your man. Growing lower body, especially calf muscles is one of the toughest muscles to grow (ask any body builder). I wor…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/22 05:31 PM
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you're a live in maid/supplemental income generator. What the actual fuck did you even read before you started bashing the guy? The guy has been paying for her for years now, without even having any sex. She isn't even taking care of the house properly or contributing to him in any way. ​ He's a shitty, selfish asshole that abuses and uses you. Sorry to say but I would be really honest. You are a fucking Idiot. Is this not a big enough contribution by someone to pay for someone else for years wh…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/22 03:20 AM
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I have lived in Europe for a long period of my life. Can say from personal experience that European women tend to be a lot more understanding and a lot easier to be in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:29 AM
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If the non-virgins N count is less than 8 or maybe 10, I'll take her. Otherwise the virgin boring sex for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:49 AM
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He is the only one putting in any effort in this relationship. Why complain to him further to put more effort when the other side is not even bothering to send a simple message. Not even once. They'll rather write an elaborate post on Reddit than send a few words message to their partner of one year.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/22 04:12 PM
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Just make sure you don't get resentful. Your story is much better than mine. I started off in a third-world country with very little to show for. I worked my ass off and moved to the US with absolutely no money and looked scrawny (160 lbs, 6 feet) with no muscles. Worked my ass off in the US until I had something to show for. My self-improvement started 4 years ago, in my late 20s. Now I am 30 and I look the best I have ever had (180 lbs, 6 feet, squatting 300+ lbs), and I have tons of investmen…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/22 12:51 AM
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Men aren't raised to appreciate their fathers until they become Fathers themselves. That's just an American or western thing. Men Have No Choice Agreed.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 08:28 AM
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Can't find that thumbnail pic. Where is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:16 PM
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You replied with a "yes". Not with an "I am looking forward to seeing you", or "I missed you" or any of the other nice things you could have said. There's obviously a huge communication gap between you two.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/22 07:16 AM
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You must be living under a rock. Men can't go a single day without being berated or degraded in one way or another by women. Either on TV, articles, social media, or in real life. You are just finally facing a bit of a backlash of the privilege women have been enjoying of hating men all the time and being considered the better sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:20 PM
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OP's own account totally disagrees with your nonsense.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/22 08:52 PM
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This is just BS. The guy haven't replied for 12 hours and people are claiming he is ghosting? WTF world are you living in? He has been nice and has even paid for medical expenses. He asked her out and got rejected. He just needs some time. He has other responsibilities too. He has two children. Cut him a slack or he'll find a more reasonable person to date.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/22 08:41 PM
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She shared a lot more on her story other than these 4 screenshots. It is a very interesting read for people who are interested: http://www.savingsons.org/2022/01/candace-owens-on-circumcision.html?m=1
/r/MensRights24/01/22 03:36 PM
4

That's incredibly rude and utter nonsense bullshit. He didn't spend a decade with her just to be labeled a "narcissist" and "unhelpful" by an idiot on the internet.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 05:06 AM
3

Most men here are bitter Tell me you are an idiot without telling me you are an idiot. "mOsT mEn ArE bItTeR" Bullshit!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:08 AM
2

Lmao the “poor get rich over time” interesting, then why hasn’t minimum wage kept up with inflation? You are mentioning two mutually exclusive things. Poor getting rich overtime has little to do with minimum wage. I feel like that should be the basic things taught in school but the education system has failed the people immensely. You can watch the video I linked to educate yourself. Just to explain the concept, If I make $20 today and 10 years later, I make $100. That means I got richer even if…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:41 AM
1

Social stratification is pretty rare from what I’ve learned. The stats say otherwise. The lowest class in the US gets the highest percentage pay raise over time. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GcdqGUWj2oo 80% of millionaires in the US are first-generation millionaires (Me included). Meaning their parents were poor and capitalism made them rich. ​ How often does capitalism pull people out of poverty? All the time. Check out the living standards of people in capitalist societies compared to their…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:37 PM
7

Maybe this is the lie OP is complaining about. Women just can't stop lying. it is always the same BS and the moment you step into a bar it is exactly the opposite of whatever they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:08 AM
17

Capitalism only benefits the wealthy. That is the stupidest thing I have ever heard. the western society currently is the best society to live in ever-present in human history. Capitalism is the only known economical system to pull people out of poverty and improve their level of standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:02 AM
2

Definitely don't feel like you are over her. In fact, it feels like you're so bitter I doubt any girl would want to hang out with a downer. Everyone wants a fun time and be with someone who has hobbies. Your sexual endeavors and preferences come much later. How you interact with people, how many hobbies you have, your clothes, your first impressions are much more important. No one has time to get to know you intimately if your first impression is boring, sad, and bitter. Start hitting the gym 5 …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:48 AM
0

It is not his job to say "I love you". If you don't feel like saying it, you can't expect him to say it either. It has only been 6 months and it seems like it hasn't even gotten serious. Have you done anything nice for him that would make you guys bond a little better?
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/21 04:02 AM
11

Statistically women cheat more often than men so your point is mute. Not to mention, women instantiate most of the divorces because of hypergamy and swinging to the better branch. Also, women are the ones that glorify single mother households, and because the justice system is insanely against dads leading to evil mothers kicking dads out of their kid's life most of the time.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/21 10:37 PM
47

daddy issues don't arise due to man. They arise due to a lack of a man figure. No one is blaming men for it.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/21 06:55 PM
45

Daddy issues do that to you. Single mother households are the worse.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/21 05:31 PM
-11

This is domestic abuse. Totally agree. But remember this there are always 2 sides of the story and domestic abuse stats show that women are as much the victim as the perpetrator. What I am trying to say is, how can someone be "handsome, hardworking, goal-oriented, genuinely charming and likable, funny, smart, and attentive & thoughtful" and still be a domestic abuser? Is there something OP is conveniently leaving out? Maybe the domestic abuse is both-sided? mental torture and mental abuse, or ga…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/21 01:07 AM
1

Almost every study has shown women enjoy sex more because their parts are more sensitive. Not to mention they don't go through genital mutilation that we men are forced through by the gynocentric society that makes sex less enjoyable for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:54 PM
4

It is women you are talking about. They are like toddlers who are overly pampered. Even if a small thing doesn't go to their liking, they'll throw a fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:14 AM
4

If it is a needed medical procedure, or to hide scars. That is fine I guess. It is a red flag if all of this is for vanity looks. Many men do see it as a red flag, a sign of insecurity. As if you are not comfortable in your own skin. Also, there has been research showing that after surgery women's Anxiety and suicide rates increase. I haven't met a single man who would ask another woman to get plastic surgery. It is a very ingroup thing. I remember one of our lady friend got a nose job and all o…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/21 10:22 PM
3

It's unreasonable to get it at any stage of your life unless you have medical issues that require plastic surgery.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/21 07:27 PM
-4

Just cause forcing men to be drafted is wrong doesn't mean women should be forced into drafting. Two wrongs don't make a right. Not to mention how lowering the drafting requirements for women is going to put soldiers' lives in danger.
/r/MensRights10/12/21 07:02 PM
3

So let me get this straight. He has already agreed that he can get married and he is invested enough to actually pay for your living and lifestyle. Sorry to be a bit rude, but I think you are overreacting. It has only been 1.5 years and he is invested enough in you to be providing for you. Unless he has said something specifically that makes you think that he is untrustable or he just wants you for sex, I think it is very unlikely that he is using you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/21 04:44 AM
1

KS is an idiot. Most guys act the same as most women when it comes to marriage. They need to be very sure and get over all their insecurities and fears. It takes time and should never be pushed, especially after 1.5 years of a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/21 04:38 AM
1

Are you suggesting that society start treating the lower "90% of women" the same as men? My example might have been for the top 10% of the women but you and I both know even if a woman is in the bottom 30% of women, the "attention, and validation" they'll receive is beyond anything most men can comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:48 PM
0

The Simps I hate the most are the ones on gaming platforms. Women gamers earning in millions just cause they are women and not really a good gamers either. Simps showering them with their money. Happens on almost all social media platforms, including Facebook, Instagram. Why feed into the narcissism and delusion of one sex? Have some self-respect!! This is why TRP is so important for such broken men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:40 PM
1

He didn't say steal. Have you ever seen Instagram of women? or any women gamer earning in millions just cause they are women and not really a good gamer either. SIMPS are what makes life for most men difficult by feeding into the narcissism and delusion of one sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:38 PM
8

Most men in TRP are just that. They have recently swallowed the red pill and haven't come to terms with it. It takes years to understand the TRP concept. Once men do, there is no reason to hang around on the TRP forum for men. Also, I refuse to believe any man would be insecure enough to claim using lube is a red flag. Were you hanging out with teenagers? Try to get their age to understand who you are talking to. TRP is full of 15-18-year-old boys.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/21 09:35 PM
3

I'm so glad to hear that. The age I grew up in and the country I grew up in. I would have been beaten up pretty badly to even suggest this.
/r/MensRights04/12/21 03:34 AM
-6

Could have said all of that a lot nicer. Maybe someone would take it seriously then?
/r/MensRights03/12/21 06:14 PM
6

Gender studies is under the umbrella of psychology. It is not a pseudoscience. No, it is not. I have spent 13 years of my life on campuses going through gender studies. The most sexist and anti-male things you hear come from women in these gender studies groups. Gender studies are in no way Psychology, it is pure and simple hate for males. It might have been the case in the past where it stemmed from Psychology but for the past 20 years, it has been nothing but a place to attack men and weed out…
/r/MensRights03/12/21 06:12 PM
2

Also how does a circumcised penis protect the woman? I put that part in quotes because it is no longer the case. The idea was that you can't have too many horny men in society. Because society was being looked at through the eyes of gynocentrism. Meaning protecting the women and children and letting the best and most successful men procreate. Society wanted the top men to breed. Survival of the fittest, Darwinism, and all that. Too many horny men or too many undesirable men in society were looke…
/r/MensRights03/12/21 06:02 PM
9

What I really want is equality in education. Boys get absolutely no role models and are taught to be ashamed of their gender. It is getting out of control. We need to have a quota where 50% of the college population should be boys. We should also restrict women-only scholarships. For every women-only scholarship, there should be one men-only scholarship. It is beyond reprehensible that women who make a majority of the campuses are also given 11 times higher scholarships for being women. We need …
/r/MensRights03/12/21 05:51 PM
10

Not really. Human society is gyno-centric. Women's needs come above anything. Especially way above any men or boy. Circumcision makes men's dick less sensitive and takes away the sexual pleasure from them to "protect women in society". Also, this whole concept of patriarchy is explained as if each man has some sort of privilege. Where the truth is a very small percentage of extraordinary men are in control. The rest of the men aren't even treated as human beings.
/r/MensRights03/12/21 05:47 PM
3

Did you bother looking at the domestic violence cases? Lesbian relationship have a very high amount of domestic violence rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:09 PM
0

Coming from a man. You chose the wrong person and you let him disrespect you. You were supposed to respect him and be successful together. But you let him become abusive. The qualities you mentioned in your man doesn't make him an alpha. It seems his value system is all messed up. I would probably ask you to dig deep down and get your self-worth and self-respect out. There are so many guys out there still looking for someone like you. Contact a lawyer. Screw him over. Screw the Business. Get all…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 10:53 PM
16

Lesbian relationship are statistically the most violent relationships out there. I doubt women are "considerate" or "emotionally connected" when it comes to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 10:48 PM
12

He means that thousands of men put a gun on their head and blow their heads off cause they know no one really gives a shit. There is a reason a 13 year old boy is many times more likely to kill himself than a 13 year old girl. It only gets worse as men get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 10:46 PM
10

I think this might mean pics during sex and not nudes. Right? Cause allowance for nudes doesn't make any sense.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/11/20 12:58 AM
1

She does treat her partners that way and does preach that too. And her looks tell me she is trying too hard. Doesn't even seem like the keeper type.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 05:08 PM
3

And she is giving some really shit dating advice. Most women wouldn't even be able to sustain an LTR using that advice and would just get sourer and sourer.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 05:07 PM
5

I'll buy it!!
/r/MensRights02/06/20 02:46 PM
1

Dude, I have nothing against commitment or settling down. I get it that I was not the "dating material" just two years ago. I was smart and funny but did not have any looks since I was 6' but only 140 lbs. I had to read tons of self-help books and start working out. I put a lot of effort to get where I am 170 lbs. I am not spinning plates cause it is not for me. I am too busy building a career to be able to spin plates or see multiple women at the same time. One girl is usually enough to satisfy…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 08:31 PM
17

Same here. I only started getting any dates after I turned 28. It was confidence, working out, and having actually money to waste on women. Before that women were complete assholes to me. Now they want me to settle down with them while I have a lot of catching up to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 08:57 PM
1

I supposed you won't be able to find the exact name in the training but most research does show that the Duluth model is the most predominant model of domestic violence. They still train hundred and thousands of people using their online classes. It was also awarded the 2014 Future Policy Award for Ending Violence against Women. This is one of the many courses being offered and taught across the world in different departments: https://www.theduluthmodel.org/ Funny thing is, their mission does no…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:54 PM
1

Yes. I know someone who was handcuffed and arrested because his girlfriend slapped him. Even though the female was the perpetrator. Most people who are aware of domestic violence knows someone who has been a victim of this model.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:42 PM
1

Because the male domestic violence victims are being fucked by the system just like all other male victims are. Women are protected by DV, even have days off if they are a victim. Even when women are the perpetrator, male victims have to go to jail because police choose to follow the DULUTH model. Not to mention almost all advertisements blatantly try to steal DV and make it a women issue. In fact DV was renamed to violence against women in Australia. Domestic Violence. Women -> Men violence mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:03 PM
3

Maybe stop telling me that I am sexist because of my gender, stop telling me that I need to die, stop telling me that my existence is toxic, stop telling me that I am a rapist (when most majority of rape victims are men), stop telling me that I commit domestic violence (when majority DV is perpetrated by women), stop spending most of the money in almost all organizations for just women, start spending 50% of the money on men and the remaining 50% on women, stop giving free handout jobs to women …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 05:39 PM
1

Statistically, women are more violent and commit more abuse in a relationship than men. Maybe you should stop doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 05:32 PM
15

At least your self-respect wouldn't emotionally abuse you, give you STDs, or financially rape you. Still plenty of respectable women out there even if most are riding the CC.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:37 PM
15

Better be alone and self-respectable than being a simp to a ho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:06 PM
1

Nope. Women show more infidelity than men in almost all surveys and studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 04:50 PM
17

Then she can go back to those previous "high-value men" that don't want an LTR with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 04:47 PM
-1

Because most men go through this phase. Especially if brought up in a feminist household.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 04:31 PM
5

Why feel bad for the guy? Don't all of us come to TRP after going through such rejections? Society lies to us enough and brainwashes us enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:13 AM
1

I don't think you are in touch with the new age women. Infidelity is skyrocketing and I know multiple women who sleep around with multiple men. I had the misfortune of dating one such woman, only to figure it all out later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 08:52 AM
4

Women using men on a daily basis is much more prevalent, abusive, and toxic. Whereas, men sleeping with someone and then leaving is rare. Not to mention, during sex both parties consent to it without any pretense of a relationship. I don't know how entitled women feel that them having sex means they get to force the guy into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 08:01 AM
2

Yeah. A very little percentage of women. unlikely that an average man would run into any such woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:58 AM
6

Women are doing better than men in almost all departments and for the last century or so, an average women's life has been tenfold better than an average men's life in western life. I don't know which parallel universe this guy has been living in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:55 AM
2

"That percentage of scholarships that are gender-based" stat is just BS. I have studied in three universities. Almost all of them had an insane number of more scholarships women could apply to as opposed to men. They make scholarships non-gender based by making them only for "minorities and women". So hence just the men are not allowed. At my current university, the majority of graduate students are female. Still, the university has a department of female graduate students that gives out just as…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 09:58 AM
2

Same here. I just hit thirty and I'm getting more and more options. While I couldn't even get a single date in over a year while I was 23, now I can date a 23-year-old without a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 12:44 AM
8

Which self-respecting father would want their daughter to get a sugar daddy? That is definitely not something redpill teach. In fact, the red pill teaches the opposite of it to have some self-respect and carry your own weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:43 PM
1

if the GF brings it up every day that is disrespectful. If it is said in passing once in 6 months that "you had a history of drugs" than it is not disrespectful. Thanks for making my case for me with this great example.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 04:08 AM
-1

In 5 months he has spilled 2 instances of RP which aren't even disrespectful, to begin with. Clearly the guy is not emotionally manipulating anyone if he let the truth spill out once or twice.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 02:48 AM
-8

How is it disrespectful if it is true? The woman clearly was riding the CC. The BF seems to be aware of it. He mentioning it only bothers the GF, and he is not even being disrespectful. He is willing to still be with her even after she rode the CC.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 02:46 AM
1

Fuck that shit. Not all men can do it. It is not as much a power as you make it sound to be. I have always struggled to walk away even after realizing that I'm being manipulated and used. Most men don't even realize that. On top of that, I know tons of men who get emotionally manipulated into tying up with someone and are now afraid of the court systems to be able to "walk away". Not to mention, walking away means years of no sex, empathy, or emotional support for most men. Walking away is not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:06 PM
7

Women were granted the same rights or better rights way before most men had those rights. The law has always been how to cater to the needs of women. That is the core principle of any gynocentric society including humans. There is a reason millions of men were forced into fighting and died in the last century while women sat in the comfort of their home getting to still complain about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:56 PM
1

What a load of bullocks. I mean, who TF even believes this crap?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:43 PM
2

Well, most women are still emotionally manipulative once they are in a relationship. So to protect one's own sanity, most men start putting less effort and perform less emotional gymnastics for the women. It only makes sense. If the women actually are nurturing and treat their men with decency then the guys don't usually stop being warm to their ladies. It is a give and take, not just take take take. But as evident from your post, given the self-entitlement in today's women and how little effort…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:08 PM
3

lol. God damn you had to post an abc article to deny cdc as well a dozen other studies into that matter. In the end, I guess you are going to believe what you are going to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:21 PM
1

touche!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:14 AM
1

touche!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:14 AM
1

Recently on a seminar, there was a slide dividing company's behavior as either masculine or feminine. All the Masculine habits were negative while all the feminine habits were great and productive. I went into my anger phase when I found out my girlfriend was cheating on me and upgraded me with a different guy. I think I only lashed out at the general day to day sexism during my anger phase. Not on women, I was never angry at all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:11 AM
1

Men are angry because of the way women go out of their way to be assholes to them. E.g. recently a woman I know who is almost twice my weight message me and said she was interested in me. I am 6 feet, 175 lbs and workout almost every day. I had to politely turn her down and I went out of my way to be nice to her and tell her it isn't going to work. Compare that to all the time women have gone out of their way to be assholes. Just last year, I was traveling with fever and so I was wearing a beani…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:07 AM
2

No. If 70% of women were dying from coronavirus, we would have everyone shouting their mouths off at us about how bad things are. Anyway, you are still deliberately avoiding the topic. Men get longer sentences for the same crime. The legal system is extremely sexist against men especially the family courts. Most of the domestic violence victims are male (70% of non-reciprocal domestic violence is female onto male) and yet the laws are specifically protecting women even when they are the perpetra…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:15 AM
9

Tell that to my ex. She said she loved me even when she cheated on me. And her reason for choosing the new guy was because of money and other advantages that came with him. Most of my friends have experienced this too. Most women I date care A LOT about hypergamy. So I think being treated poorly is just BS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:34 PM
5

This is interesting, why do you think men are not disposable? Didn't the fact that 70% of deaths due to coronavirus are men prove this fact already? Even though almost all media are saying women are hit "worst" by a coronavirus. Or the fact that a 12-year-old boy is twice as likely to commit suicide than a 12-year-old girl. I can go on, but almost all stats point to how men are extremely disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:32 PM
6

You were turned into an 18-year-old girl tomorrow. You didn't grow up as a female which means you wouldn't have the victim mentality. You would be more rational than that and know when to play the women card to get free shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:26 PM
4

It's so easy, unsuccessful women should be embarrassed I laughed so hard, I was rolling on the floor. I get it life's easier as a girl. Things get handed to you and you get all the emotional support needed. But on the downside, you get complacent and don't work hard enough. Similarly, since your sexual needs are always met, you get complacent there too and start looking for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:23 PM
9

Nah, man. you have it good. Just keep working on yourself and improve. Treat your girl well and fuck her good. As long as both your needs are met, things are going well. Half of us can't even get a proper laid here and you are getting properly laid in an LTR so you must be doing something right.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 05:13 PM
1

I've never had any date where women have ever paid. Most women usually don't pay or just pay occasionally for the feel-good effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:22 PM
2

You are pathetically average. Almost all girls I know do ski, hike, hot yoga. You have nothing special to bring to the table except your dating chads and then being disappointing. It is funny when women like yourself complain about dating to average men. It's like a millionaire complaining to a homeless person how life is so hard for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:57 PM
1

That is some bullshit. There are more women in power in our gynocentric society than men. Women generally have an insane amount of power and they want more. In the USA women own most of the wealth too. On top of that, they are earning wealth at a higher rate than men. They also work way less amount of hours and earn more generally. On top of that, there is systemic sexism men face everywhere. Combine that with affirmative action based on gender for only females and almost none for males. e.g. in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 08:38 PM
5

12 years trying to learn that truth. Learned six languages, started hitting the gym hard and lifting (6 feet tall, 175 lbs, 13 % BF), traveled the world, got a great job and tons of amazing hobbies. Still can't find that truth. I guess I'll just remain unfuckable cause most women don't even want to go out on a date. Or maybe the truth be that most women's standards are so fucked up that you might never be able to satisfy them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 08:31 PM
1

I have no idea where you come up with all this. It reminds me of a study that shows that women ignore 80% of the men. Maybe an average men in your eyes is someone who is on the 90th percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 08:51 PM
0

It's like you live in some alternative universe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 08:48 PM
2

Thanks. That was very helpful in understanding this database.
/r/MensRights02/04/20 08:10 PM
3

but how many lawsuits have been filed against universities by students who think their Title IX rights were violated? Can we divide these based on gender? I suppose most of them would be from men but what percentage?
/r/MensRights01/04/20 07:39 PM
0

And yet domestic violence stats show women are more predatory. Rape stats show women rape men as often as men rape women. Even though women raping men is less reported. So there goes your prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 07:20 PM
0

I know tons of guys whose lives have been destroyed by false accusations. Hell, my ex used to hit her ex-boyfriend. One time he hit back, she called the police and got the university involved. Title IX said they couldn't do anything since she was the one who was hitting him first. But the guy still had his scholarship ended and he had to then leave the country. That's just one example. In my experience, most women have falsely accused a guy at least once. This is understandable because women now…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 07:19 PM
4

Yeah. Women are typically assholes to most men. It is a lot of effort getting them to be decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 01:05 AM
1

All I read was them telling other women to accuse the men of sexual assault if the sex is not good or if he is not paying enough. FDS and women that read are are just an example of toxic feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 06:15 PM
-6

Couldn't be farther from the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 02:57 PM
1

Yes. Working on your future self. Working out/lifting for like 3 years at least puts on a lot of muscle mass and gives you the confidence you need through life. Furthermore, developing your hobbies outside of women is much healthier and rewarding than trying to play a game of winning a woman's heart when the game is already rigged against you. Most women are too shallow to notice you but the good thing is, you don't even need them. Even if you spend years trying to be the best version of yoursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:06 AM
2

Nope, an average looking man with a pretty good build. How about you go into a room full of men, rank them in order of attractiveness. Then pick up the middle-ranked man, that would be your average looking man. Almost 70-80% of men have extreme difficulties getting laid even once a year so I am not sure what kind of guys you have around. But then again a lot of studies have shown that an average man is near invisible to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:50 AM
7

Wow. Here comes another delusional woman. I can't count the number of men I know that put in an insane amount of time and money in doing things like taking classes (talking, dancing, etc) and dress well and still can't get laid for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 02:33 AM
3

Someone's pretty sore. Can't find a man who'll put up with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 02:30 AM
2

Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:06 PM
1

The majority of graduate students at my university are female. There were about 30 scholarships for graduate students in our university this year. The University's women's council graduate assistance fund just gave out 30 more scholarships specifically for female graduate students. Many of the female Ph.D. students I know got that scholarship. Affirmative action is such bullshit that fields where women are in majority still goes out of the way to give more freebies to women. My university has 50…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:03 PM
5

On top of that, the fact that women can get away with lying and have everything handed to them on a silver plate encourages them to lie even more since it is fruitful for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 07:36 PM
0

Statistically No! Not even close. Stats for male and female health are out there. Men workout much more and more often and tend to be much leaner. Whereas women barely work on their bodies and the obesity rates in females are rampant. So I am not sure what you are talking about? Most women in America can't even keep up on a normal hike let alone a sprint or a jog.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 05:21 PM
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Yap. An LTR with a low-value slut is for losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 11:22 PM
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That's wrong. The study didn't even say that. You jsut took out "mEn aRe 7 TiMeS mOrE LiKeLy .. " out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 11:18 PM
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So that proves it. You are admitting that an average man looks bad whereas an average woman looks better. Even though they are both average people. There were studies by Tinder and other dating apps too. Every study came to the same conclusion of extreme shallowness and hypergamy of women. 80/20 rule holds not just in studies but in practical life too. We men see it all the time while women tend to be just to vane to notice any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 11:11 PM
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Like why can't you read the whole study? When the studies show that women find 80% of the men below average and men find 80% of the women dateable than that is all the conclusion you need to know. Like why summarize multiple studies into a single quote? So you can misrepresent it? Why not go out to a gathering next time and rank all the men there from best looking to worst looking. Then figure out what an average man looks like. E.g. If there are 10 men, see the 5th ranked man there. You will se…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:55 PM
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Yeah. I guess all the studies showing 80% of men are found unattractive by women are all but a lie and just men projecting. You are so full of shit, I can't even
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:23 PM
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What makes you think I don't have it? I horseback ride, Salsa dance, I perform as a dancer in many congresses, I hike, I go to day-long trails, run half-marathons, I have joined climbing clubs and surfing clubs but don't do them as often as I like. I lift regularly and pretty heavy, I have 13% body fat and I'm 6 feet tall. I have done road trips across every state in the USA while traveling coast to coast 4 times in total. I have also lived in 4 different countries (for at least more than a year…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:06 AM
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Teach me o master. I still spend hundreds of dollars on terrible women. It seems they are all so privileged and entitled that they forcefully demand you to pay for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:00 AM
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Very common. Look at what happens at hte airport when women go into men's washrooms whenever they please. It is like women are so entitled that they can't see why this is so unfair to the male populace.
/r/MensRights23/03/20 03:56 AM
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I believe men can be raped. I do not believe most men who are raped report it, just like women. Therefore I find it even more unbelieveable that a spectacular number of men are showing up and reporting that some woman forced him to do her. It is not logical. I am glad you agree men can be raped, otherwise, it would have made you a very shit person. And just to be clear, I did not assume that you believed otherwise. I am sure most people would agree that men can be raped. Men are the predator, wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:13 PM
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lol. Alright, you win the argument here! masculinity=fragile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 10:41 PM
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lol. Cause I'm fun to be around and I like having people around? What is the point you are trying to make here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 10:40 PM
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I don't actually feel like discussing it with you because I know it's not going aanywhere. It's impossible to discuss anything with a person who has no empathy towards half the human population. it is funny cause I can say the same thing about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 07:53 PM
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It is like asking a depressed person to stop being depressed. Or asking a shy person to stop being shy. I can't grow a spine. I would rather stay at home and not go on dates than being forced to grow a spine. I am happy how I am. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:56 PM
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That is cause the "forced to penetrate" is not in the official definition of rape thanks to Mary P Koss. This is the feminist who changed the definition of rape and made sure that men can not be a victim of rape. It is only fair that the definition of rape should be changed back so that "forced to penetrate" be added in the definition of rape. Here, let me copy and paste something for you so you can see what Mary P Koss says about the subject and how she believes men cannot be raped. Which is so…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:53 PM
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Touche
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:20 PM
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I actually have many more studies. If you'll like I can maybe send you more. And prison rape should account for it to cause man is generally many times more likely to spend time in jail for the same crime as a woman commit. Not to mention the men also take the risk of being falsely accused, which happens almost every day: https://i.redd.it/j74vgkb73zl41.jpg Lastly: where did I say men don’t have to put in more effort? The whole crux of my argument is “men put in more effort to find a partner but…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:17 PM
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The CDC's 2010, 2011, and 2012 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence surveys (NISVS) disagree with the idea that "rape is a male issue". Firstly, rape is not an issue that disproportionately affects women, not if you define "rape" as simply nonconsensual sex. In each of these years, when asked about experiences in the last 12 months, men reported being “made to penetrate” -either by physical force or due to intoxication - at virtually the same rates as women reported rape. https://www.cd…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:14 PM
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https://time.com/3393442/cdc-rape-numbers/ Excerpts: Nearly 7 percent of men, however, reported that at some point in their lives, they were “made to penetrate” another person—usually in reference to vaginal intercourse, receiving oral sex, or performing oral sex on a woman. This was not classified as rape, but as “other sexual violence.” And now the real surprise: when asked about experiences in the last 12 months, men reported being “made to penetrate”—either by physical force or due to intoxi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:13 PM
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Cause that is BS. Ask your now-boyfriend how much he spent on dates when he went out dating. $100 per month is nothing. $500 per month is the norm. That's how much-lopsided dating world is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:09 PM
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women going for men many times better looking than her, earning many times more and then when he chooses otherwise it is called “pumped and dumped”. She made a conscious decision to leave all the Mr. Nice guys to be with the one asshole out of a hundred. And then we are supposed to feel sorry for her because she got to have sex of her choice and then gets to play the victim card too. BTW we did do an experiment recently and there were more men who were left by women after a one night stand than …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:02 PM
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Nope. It is full of bitter women who want to take advantage of men. Like they openly advocate that if they are unhappy in the relationship women should threaten to falsely accuse their man. It is all about controlling and toxic behavior which probably works as a disadvantage in a relationship for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:57 PM
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It sounds like toxic woman to me. If women show they are into FDS, I just let them be. These are the type of women who grow old lonely and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:55 PM
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I have tried to do the same. I keep in shape. I am making tons of money now. I can never stop myself from spending on women. They keep taking advantage of me all the time. I can't stop being a cuck in front of them and leaves me feeling like shit after a date where I know I got taken advantage of. Last time after food and drink I realized that there was nothing between this girl and me. Also, she was just using me by bringing me to her friend's bar and asked for a single check before we even ord…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:54 PM
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You might just be proving the point on how much rights women have and how much men have to lose. Whichever way you put it, it seems men lose a LOT in this dating environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:46 PM
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That is not statistically true. If you add "forced to penetrate" in rape stats men are as likely to be raped as women are. Add the prison rapes in the stats and men are many times more likely. And men go to prison many times longer than women for the same crime and men do also go to prison on false allegations all the time. Men do also make most of the emotional effort to take someone out on a date, pay for them, and go out of their way to be nice and kind. Whereas most women are downright pathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:44 PM
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Untrue. Usually, men spend way over $100 on women's dates. It is just the women are so privileged that $100 seems $12 to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:41 PM
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By making them into sour toxic human beings. I get ya. Last I saw the post women in FDS were advocating false sexual assault allegations for men who don't live up to their expectations, so for me, that is the kind of people that follow FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:40 PM
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Statistically, that's some BS. At least bring facts to the table than making things up. It's like you are blind to the rest of the 80% of the men. No wonder most men are this much annoyed and dissatisfied with women. "You have twice as many female ancestors than male ancestors". That is all you need to know to figure out women's hypergamous nature. And as far as "women are usually the prettier one in the relationship" is a symptom of "women are beautiful" syndrome. Widely studied in the literatu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:32 PM
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Can we get statistics on this? What percentage of pedos in the US are female teachers?
/r/MensRights10/03/20 06:56 PM
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"You have twice as many female ancestors than male ancestors". That tells you all you need to know. Most men wouldn't get to have sex or be in a relationship with women in their league. Most women always go for men above or way out of their league. It is just how women's hypergamous brain is wired.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 06:27 PM
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Most men get sex its just not good enough for them. That's some privileged bullshit right there. Most men don't even get any attention or love or friendship in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 05:58 PM
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I call bullshit. Not a day goes by without me hearing "men are trash", or all the other horrible shit women throw at you on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 05:57 PM
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So sympathy for children and women but not for the millions of men starving and dying. It's pretty clear you just hate men. Statistically, men's lives are much much harder than women's life and they die or are mistreated much more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 05:53 PM
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Try putting yourself in his feet. He was rejected and his heart was broken too. He'll probably be closed-off now and would have a lot of pent up anger. I am sure, if he loves you too, he would be initially relieved to hear back from you that things could work. But then he'll start doubting your motives too. It would be hard for him to trust you again. How can you convince him that you wouldn't leave him again? Why should he risk another heartbreak? Proceed with caution, let him know how you feel…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/20 11:18 PM
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It's not asking too much to be loved in your life. Most men are alienated so much that they crave any sort of touch, love or validation. Ending up having sex with someone is usually the only way they can receive any of that. Until that point they are expected to maintain their posture so the women can find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 11:11 PM
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I understand what you are saying. I really think it is unfair for you to go to the gym when you do not like it. I think there should be some activity you can do that you like. A dance class (I do Salsa and Bachata), a fitness class, a run outside, tennis, badminton, rock climbing, yoga, pilates, are just some examples. I think a person really has to work out 2-3 times a week to maintain a healthy hormonal balance. It would destress you, make you want to have more sex, burn fat, etc, Having the r…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/20 11:04 PM
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A "nice guy" in the current dating world is routinely cheated on, ghosted, stood up on dates, made to pay heavy money to please, and taken advantage of, etc. I remember when I wanted to get into the dating world, I ended up spending $400 in a month on dates that just made me feel like shit cause most women were either out for validation or for free lunch. No matter what I did, it was never enough cause I was just being too nice to them. Just today a girl from the past messaged me asking me if I …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 10:55 PM
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Well given how horribly "nice guys" are treated by the society and women in general, it is no surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 09:40 PM
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I'm a gym rat (or maybe a workout enthusiast), I have seen a massive change in me too. Going from somewhere 130 lbs to 175 lbs. Growing muscles was a long hard journey and very very painful. I still don't like to go to the gym and try to work out and stay healthy away from the gym. I still make it to the gym 3 times a week at least. I would never force my partner to go to the gym as long as they are healthy. Maybe you do need to sit him down and ask him what he means. As a guy, it is difficult t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 09:34 PM
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The only reason you should be working out is for health reasons. Going to the gym is not necessary to work out and stay healthy. You can always have a conversation about it with him.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 09:09 PM
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There's so much wrong with what you just wrote. I think the reason you might be so unhappy and depressed is your lack of physical activity. You are giving excuses when the truth is you don't even have to go to the gym to stay healthy. I wouldn't want to be with someone so lazy and unhealthy that they can't even keep up with the group on a hike. It is never about looks and you sound vane when you claim that working out is for looks. Having the correct hormonal balance by working out regularly doe…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 08:20 PM
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Dude, I appreciate your post and agree with a lot of what you said but if you believe the Chads don't get women left and right then you are pretty delusional. I have a friend here who can get a girl from dating apps every single day of the month and all he has to do is to ask them to come over. So yes, Chads do have it super easy. You got the looks and you are treated like a god, you are average looking men and you can forget about love. Like someone said: "Unconditional love only exists for wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 05:56 PM
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As a beta who gets treated absolutely terribly by woman I go out with. Yeah, this is pretty common. AFBB does exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 05:20 PM
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This is even more ridiculous in the USA, where women under 35 already out-earn men under 35. Never-married women, also outearn never-married men. Not to mention women in the USA hold 65% of the wealth and make 85% of the consumer market decision. Couple that with all the easy jobs and government jobs going to women, this is truly unjust to force men out of the STEM fields.
/r/MensRights11/02/20 10:02 PM
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It bothers me a lot when Feminists claim they are about equality when their whole history is all about domination and demonizing men. Most feminists hate men and it is pretty obvious listening to their sexist BS on a day to day basis.
/r/MensRights11/02/20 12:12 AM
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I spent most of my life in college getting my bachelors, masters, and Ph.D. (12 years of my life). Title IX is so tilted towards the female side that it is crazy. Universities have the right to not give due process and any male accused of any harassment can be kicked out without even providing him the reason or letting him provide counter-evidence. Even my own ex admitted to hitting her ex and then accusing him of assault which she couldn't prove because there were eyewitnesses that saw her hit …
/r/MensRights10/02/20 11:48 PM
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If I have to guess, it is they have tons of systemic and constitutional privileges over men. They just want more of these privileges. Crying about a made-up wage gap is just a control mechanism. Already owning 65% of US wealth, making 85% of consumer market decisions. They already own every field out there. States like California already have laws where a company cabinets cannot have a majority male but there are no laws against companies having majority-female cabinet members. I would say it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:59 PM
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Wage gap reversed? What are you even talking about? Women under 35 have always outearned men under 35 and never-married women have always outearned never-married men. I thought this was known common knowledge. Not to mention women also hold the majority of the US wealth by a large margin. Have better degrees, and safer and relatively easier and outearning jobs because of that. From what I remember, that has always been the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 05:29 AM
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This was such a cringe-fest. Have a little more self-respect and maybe work on yourself a bit to look cuter (Do not be obsessed about your looks either, just a healthy balance).
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 10:48 PM
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Wrong! Plenty of pretty women have bagged top-notch guys. In fact, women who only work on their game and have no accomplishments are more likely to bag a top-notch guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:56 PM
2

WTF are you doing here? Get out of here!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:53 PM
1

We should start sending men to war again so there be less competition among us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:39 PM
1

Yes, very foolish! If he doesn't see you as wife material, he would never fall in love with you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 10:29 PM
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I don't want to end your point of view here. What you have done is impressive and I do see a lot of me in you. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:56 PM
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Coming from a guy, it is always better to not have everything handed to you. If you act like the mom, you will be treated like one. Make sure he works out regularly at the gym and is physically fit. Even a 50 count testosterone drop changes the man's mood a lot and these moods become a habit over time. Try positive reinforcement, provide him with care and love only when he does nice things for you. Be very subtle about it and the habits change over time. It can take a few months but he should be…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 09:39 PM
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I'm a guy. I haven't gotten many dates in my life until the last year or so. I have been on the self-improvement journey for a few years. Now I am hitting thirty and I look pretty decent without the shirt on and I'm financially stable. I am only now starting to take time off to go on dates. On most dates, I find that there's not much chemistry and we don't laugh that much. And yet most of my dates say they have a very good time hanging out with me and want to go on another date. It's either that…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:31 PM
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We'll see if you can hold up to ten years of trying to constantly be the best of the best with cut-throat competition. Then, if you can max out on your self-improvement journey and is lucky with the genes, you'll get appreciated for your accomplishments. Be careful what you ask for!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:26 PM
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Yes, In fact, I would love my future wife to just be happy, work out, help me with our financial goals and decisions but let me take care of the running the business/job. I just need her to be the best version of herself, be happy, take care of the house stuff or babies (if she wants to have them). I think I'm gifted with the earning part and my take-home has been steadily increasing. I am expected to earn half a mil by the time I am 37 that should be good enough for her. If she wants more, she …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:23 PM
1

Women like you can get more dates in a week then I can get in over a year. Maybe be a bit more thankful?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 05:10 PM
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That hashtag trended the top 10 multiple times so stop with your nonsense bullshit.
/r/MensRights27/11/19 01:45 AM
1

so you mean 95% of the men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:31 AM
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Coming from a man. Those 6 points you mentioned aren't even that special. It is probably all in your head, once you get over it you'll probably find a better guy.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 12:24 AM
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Coming from a guy. Don't label yourself as redpilled, just let him know which ideas of RP you think are good and you are attracted to. He shouldn't laugh at you
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 09:21 PM
1

I would never marry a high N-count sloppy woman. Not my type and I can't keep up with their dramas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:17 PM
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Hey, I work at the silicone valley. I can tell you from personal experience. There are two kinds of women you would find here. One is those who are actually good at their work and they seem to climb up the ladder pretty fast and be successful. I have had the privilege of working with 2 such women. Then there's the other type that is not talented enough and is usually diversity hires. They usually don't take their work seriously either and are always behind deadlines. Just last week I went to thi…
/r/AntiFeminists26/11/19 12:58 AM
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Ohh god you are so uneducated on this topic. Those stats that show that women perform suicide 1% more often then men include self-harm in their definition of suicide. Eating a few Advils and calling an ambulance is not equivalent to blowing your brains out because there is no hope left for you. Educate yourself before you speak on such a sensitive topic: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/cw7q2e/suicide_attempts_sex_and_the_lack_of_scientific/
/r/AntiFeminists25/11/19 10:52 AM
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I always paid for dates. Most of the times women don't ask to split the bill. After RP, I do find it hard to pay for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 07:27 AM
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Happens literally everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:40 AM
1

Exactly my thughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:45 AM
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You deleted your comment. lol. I believe it shows in reddit when you delete your comment. I don't have a boss, I do have a manager though but if he ever tries to push the boundaries between us, I'll set him straight and if he still crosses those boundaries, I would walk away rather than lose my frame and cross those boundaries myself.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 04:27 AM
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Women entitlement is on a whole new level!!
/r/AntiFeminists24/11/19 04:11 AM
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“I hope you stay away from this poor girl and her family” I never actually wrote that. Interesting that you read it that way. Is this your way of dealing with things? Makeup assumptions about other people, rewrite their words to go along with your narrative so you don't have to take responsibility for yourself? You can't control other people's behavior and you are not entitled to ask someone to behave in a certain way. It does not fucking matter how other people behave if other people can convin…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 03:57 AM
0

Cause I have a penis. What about you?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 03:15 AM
1

I suffer from the same dilemma. I have always been rejected, treated badly, bullied, and cheated on by women. I am about to hit 30. After my last LTR cheated on me, something switched and I started working on myself. I lost 25 lbs of fat, got shredded, earning a lot (200k). One more year and I would be at my peak (physically, mentally, and financially). Now that I am finally starting to get some attention from women, I feel so insulted that they don't really like me for who I am as a person but …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:31 PM
1

He's in his early 20s and was badly rejected by the society which most guys suffer from at some point in their life. Once he learns his own value, things would improve A LOT for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:28 PM
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Luckily I work in tech and the two women in my group are pretty freaking talented. They are old school and were hired a long time ago. The new hires are done under "diversity" and I have been super disappointed how incapable they are and how even when we spoon feed them they are not even motivated enough to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 06:30 PM
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Like I have already stated in the links provided. Women get more in social security even when they put in less in social security. Women don't just get paid more SS because they live longer that's an added bonus they get. Even without accounting for the longer lives, they outearn in SS by 3 cents per dollar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:51 AM
1

fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 07:53 PM
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My lady, we as men are also told that the "average" woman is a gold digger. We all have had tons of experience/dates with such women, which doesn't mean it is alright to project it on all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 07:14 PM
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Your evidence is anecdotal, mine is statistical. So I have the facts you are projecting. People like you are the reason courts are so biased against men because of your inherent hate and apathy for men. Women get money out of divorces which leads to most of the divorces. It is all about the money. If we stop paying for women's entitlement, things would be so much better. There are hundreds of cases every day where men and kids are screwed over by the mothers. Enough studies have already been don…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 07:09 PM
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If you are in the US, the figures are already out in case you want to look into this: Here's some data for the US only: http://www.ssa.gov/policy/docs/statcomps/eedata_sc/2011/table01.html http://www.ssa.gov/OACT/ProgData/icp.html http://www.ssa.gov/oact/tr/2012/lr5a4.html The general trend is women pay less into taxes, and they get more in return from the government in the form of social security and benefits. 1st Link: OASI and DI taxes paid in 2011 (you can change the year). 2nd Link: Now the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:50 PM
1

Except for the fact that women are so entitled that they file for most of the divorces and use their kids as leverage to blackmail the father all the time. Unless the justice system is fixed, this female entitlement would continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:42 PM
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That is not how it works. I have seen multiple cases where CPS was called but no action was ever taken. Women win most of the custody battles because of our failed justice system leading to kids being ruined by single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:38 PM
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That is why there's an increase in mental health because of a lack of father in the house mainly because our system gives so many advantages and incentives for women to be selfish and leave the marriage. There's a reason women file most of the divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:35 PM
1

feminism began because women wanted even lesser responsibilities then they already had.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 08:09 PM
2

It was multiple datasets. 160 is from just 1 dataset. Combine both datasets and it is above 200. There were more than 200 people who rated attractiveness, then there were a further 200 people who rated strength. I am a researcher in machine learning (statistics) but that is apart from the point. In studies like these 200 is a good enough number. You can compare this with other studies in such a field and you'll know what I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 08:03 PM
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More than 200 people is not a "small sample size" by any standard!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 07:48 PM
2

Good genes. That's pretty great. I have been training for a year now. I can squat 225 lbs and my curls and bench presses are nice. But when I flex, there's not much. Maybe if you cut more, it would get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 11:18 PM
1

Thank you for your reply and concern but I am very happy. This transformation has for the first time in my life given me very solid goals that I am all invested in and working hard. It has made me stronger and I am happier then I was before. I wouldn't wish to go back to the person I was before. I would be 30 years old by the end of 2020 and I want to be at my peak by that time with a Dr.'s degree. I can't really ask for more, I have a good career and a healthy life. A partner will eventually co…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 11:10 PM
1

I am trying. I am currently jumping through job hierarchies. I have the offers and by summer I am hoping to land a 200k job but until then I have too much on my plate to change drastically. I have tried taking better photos for dating apps (with little to no success, dating apps don't work much for me). I changed my wardrobe and got a slightly better haircut. Also playing with the facial hair lately. I still believe there's a huge room for improvement with the haircut, facial hair, and the wardr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 10:44 PM
5

Lies. Dad Bodies are not considered attractive or preferred by women. Stop leading men on like this with your constant lies. https://nplusonemag.com/issue-35/fiction-drama/the-feminist/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 09:43 PM
1

I can't believe I have to repeat myself. I lost 25 lbs of fat gained 15 lbs of muscle mass. I am pretty athletic and fit. This transformation took a year and the way women handle me now as opposed to in the past is totally different. It has improved my chances by a lot. I am getting 1-2 dates every month as opposed to no dates the last whole year. So I wouldn't be dishonest when I say getting ripped helps a LOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:59 PM
2

when?
/r/MensRights15/11/19 08:51 PM
1

There is no difference. Women still prefer muscular bodies and find them more attractive. No need to lie no more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:40 PM
31

The fact a muscular guy gets hundreds of more matches on dating apps compared to an average physique guy was proof enough. And of course women lie when they say they don't prefer muscular or athletically fit guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:30 PM
5

Muscular doesn't mean a "bodybuilder eating 8 meals of chicken, broccoli, and rice every day.". I have always been pretty fit my whole life. But recently I went into lifting lost 25 lbs of fat gained 15 lbs of muscle mass over one year. The looks, respect, and treatment I get from women are totally different from what I got a year ago. This study perfectly sums it up and shows it is actually real. Why do you have to deny that women prefer Dad bod over the muscular body is a lie? Most men have al…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:27 PM
5

It depends on the muscle mass. The study shows you look attractive if you look strong. Which means you should have a BF% below 15% to look like you lift heavy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:19 PM
3

I would actually love it if the person I like doesn't have any other person interested in them. I don't like competition and I am a bit insecure since I was cheated on. However, I have never met any women that aren't overly obese or very ugly that doesn't have other men interested in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 01:52 AM
1

I can relate to all that. I was brought up in a Muslim family. However, haven't lived with them since I turned 17 and only meet them once a year. I have only dated 2 Muslim girls in the past. Both used their self-harm/suicidal thoughts against me at one point or another. One of them used to beg me to save her and I used to tell her I'm around and everything would be alright. I'll do all sorts of nice things for her only to find her in bed with someone else after 6 months of relationship. The res…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 01:35 AM
1

At first, I sort of disagreed with you but then I read your story and they resonate with mine. I still don't identify as someone dealing with mental disorders even though I get a lot of stress and even had a few panic attacks the past couple of years. I had to go to the hospital too since I couldn't breathe. But never really got any help from my partners and was always looked down upon when I brought it up. I worked on myself, started working out and got better. I have been very happy in the pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 09:18 PM
3

Well, it is a perfect response to feminism and women's entitlement. The balance has to be set right. Once women realize they can't treat men like shit all the time, things would get much better. Men invest way more in dating currently than women do. It is only fair the tides are turned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:46 PM
2

This right here is the truth. In almost all the families I know, the men bring in more money and still do half the chores of the houses. It is ridiculous what is expected of men and they still get stingy sex and are unhappy with the sex they are getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 08:00 PM
13

I work here in the Bay Area. There is a huge influx of women in the tech companies here (at least around my company) and all of them have gotten there not because they were talented but because there was a push to hire women. I have worked with like a dozen such people who shouldn't really be in the company, to begin with, cause their teammates are handling their workload. So I understand where you are coming from. I can seriously say that I am more skeptical now working with women because my ex…
/r/MensRights12/11/19 11:20 PM
1

You talk about that in public and that would expose women. In our gynocentric society, that's not allowed so women would squash any idea that goes against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:58 PM
1

Both men and women were oppressed, just that men were always oppressed more than women. Just look at things now, women still claim to be oppressed when they have things many times better than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 09:54 PM
4

Yeah. So the men accused shouldn't even get the support of the most important person in their life. This is some utter shit. She was not there when he needed her the most. That was betrayal and the marriage should have ended right there and then.
/r/MensRights12/11/19 09:38 PM
6

lol, Don't break their 'patriarchy' delusions!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 09:03 PM
3

Most women would be recked and depressed if they were a man. Not to mention, most of them would be extremely unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:57 AM
1

I feel a lot of what humans do is to get attention from the opposite sex. At least my life and ambitions are derived in such way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 10:26 PM
86

Of course with interest. The guy stopped his whole life so his girl could get an education.
/r/PussyPass08/11/19 06:25 PM
1

I hope you realize anecdotal evidence isn't fair.
/r/MensRights08/11/19 12:41 AM
3

Haven't you gone through this sub? Why ask a separate question? We were all feminists growing up, then we were chewed up and thrown out because we had "male privilege". That's where the anti-feminism and the need to join a men's rights movement comes from in me. I believe my mindset started changing when a crazy ex decided she thought I had hit her (domestic violence). Glad I got out of that one because she was too high on drugs and no one believed her. I moved out of that country afterward. Thr…
/r/MensRights08/11/19 12:29 AM
2

That sounds lame as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 12:15 AM
1

I'm sorry to say this, but I don't believe you. I know of no man that would think of such things. Are you sure he said these things and these are his actual views and not your projections? Are you really really sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 12:10 AM
0

Interestingly enough, I tend to get more dates here at the bay area then I got in Florida or Missouri. However, I wasn't earning much while I was in those places. So I guess there is a lot of general hatred in people over here but the place is also relatively nicer to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:21 PM
-7

Exactly! Why should the rest of the world be responsible for American grown terrorists? These Americans have the best passport around and can get into most of the countries without any issues and some of these American grown terrorist wreck havoc in other countries. But apparently the rest of the world is supposed to take care of these American citizens? It makes no sense.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/11/19 07:56 PM
2

In the last 6 months, I have been actively dating. Which would count as 6 different people I dated. 2 of these people have come across as those anti-masculinity type. One of the girls, which I really liked told me: "World would be a better place if men were raised and disciplined well" She went on about how there should be more checks and balances on men. Since I liked her so much, I assumed she got hurt by some asshole. The other one was a bit more crazy and told me I am earning so well and doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 07:45 PM
3

So a normal man? So these everyday anti-masculinity shit I hear about from females here in the bay area on how I am so privileged and toxic is all bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 07:30 PM
19

Yeah. I was banned from this sub for pointing out that it is giving biased advice to men.
/r/MensRights06/11/19 05:25 PM
1

Yeah. Not a big fan of dating apps. I'll think about it when I'm a bit more desperate. Currently got a lot of traveling to do until January. I totally get what you are saying about running half marathons. I don't do it regularly (once or twice a year), I limit my cardio to less than a week too, and I do my research on cardio to make sure I am not overdoing anything: https://www.reddit.com/r/AdvancedFitness/comments/3uw3v9/research_review_3_is_it_possible_to_increase/ Thanks for the advice, I do …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 03:15 AM
1

Exactly my point. I have had three sexual encounters in the past 6 months after I tried a lot. And all of them were below average looking women. I am 5'11'', I am 14% BF, lift regularly, I do hikes, can run half marathons, and physically as fit as they come. When I go on a cut, I can see ab formation too. My body is pretty good. My face is perfectly average (can't change that). I earn $200k and I am a pretty social person (although I don't go clubbing or to bars, I am more of an outdoors person)…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 02:52 AM
1

Very sociable, great friends, Don't ask out women much and use apps that I get very few matches and no dates. I am a very small minority group in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 10:27 PM
1

Nope. I earn great, very good shape, crazy good hobbies, and adventures. I can't seem to get any dates. So there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 09:32 PM
3

Cause women cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 12:05 AM
1

Cause women have more tendency to be abusive in relationships. Women also get more out of divorces and so tend to file most of the divorces. If women are held to a higher standard and taught to work for a more stable relationship, the number of "single moms" would relatively decrease.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 10:35 PM
1

lol no. Was called Niki at different times and Biryani at a different time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 06:49 PM
1

Just random things I was called at some point in life. Why would you ask that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 10:45 PM
2

Well given that most guys are already looked over by women and never really had a woman who is dating down (very rare), why wouldn't an average man want to be rich and get ladies too?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 10:42 PM
6

I don't know if you'll be able to read this. That sample size is small and uneven. (N = 2643; 892 male, 1751 female) . On top of all that the mean and standard deviation of both groups in Orderliness is almost the same. Furthermore, all of this would also depend on the definition of Orderliness. If it entails who is going to keep the house more organized than it is a multivariate problem where who works more would also play a huge role. If men, in general, are working 10 hours more than women, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 01:35 AM
1

A minority!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 12:59 AM
10

The entitlement on this woman!! Jeez!!
/r/PussyPassDenied30/10/19 09:57 PM
1

Yes, indeed. That should be another topic of discussion. But a whole gender 51% of the population getting the advantage of a system because of the society punishing a specific gender is pretty unfair if you ask me. The topic of the discussion here is "women have it bad in the past and still have it worse than men", so my stats just disagrees with that premise, therefore, I don't believe in that premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 09:37 PM
1

I wasn't even accounting for child support or alimony. I am talking about social security. Women pay on average less into social security and get many times more than men. If you account for child support and alimony, then the scales are tipped even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 08:04 PM
1

Sure. "that" is how it works. With the marriage rate at it's lowest and women spending only increasing somehow your idea doesn't make any sense. Furthermore, the stats clearly show that the government pays much more in benefits to women (mostly retirement benefits) then they do men. More and more men forced to give their money to women. The top 100 richest women all got their money through their husbands and not working by themselves. But hey, don't stop me from throwing facts and figures at you…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 06:15 PM
1

Not really. I just put up with someone over the summer for three weeks because she "liked" me and wanted the d**k. She treated me like a complete asshole on a day to day basis and I should have blocked her off after the first night but hey we all learn from our lessons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 03:38 AM
0

Women's love of violence has been documented for thousands of years. DOCUMENTED! Why do you have to be in such denial about all this? You do realize women are statistically more prone to hitting men than the other way around. I guess stats don't matter cause "men love violence". The only reason you are so pissed it because we would no longer put up with your projection and bullshit that men are violent warmongers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 08:23 PM
-3

Nope. Women used to shame their BF, husbands, and sons to go fight for them so they can live the luxury life. Yes, men were being killed by other men while the women enjoyed it all. And no the wars weren't started by men. Women had equal if not more control of the society as have always been clearly shown in stats and studies. That old age drama that men control everything or we live in a "patriarchy" is getting pretty old and no one buys it anymore. Just like how women complain it is a patriarc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 08:12 PM
0

Women had it so good the whole last two centuries while men were dying by the millions. It's about time the men started seeing the world as it is and how disposable they are. Especially with feminism making everything so anti-male, and systematic misandry is legal. It's about time the manosphere took note and fought back against the matriarchal gynocentric society and the feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:42 PM
1

Well if I am paying $300 by the third date, then I better be getting something in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 06:51 PM
1

Was talking about women treating their date like shit. Which happens pretty often in case you don't realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 06:33 PM
1

Well scientifically, and statistically women have more nerve endings and enjoy sex much more than men. Not to mention statistically, women also work less during sex and put much less effort into the built-up to the sex (dates, etc) and during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 10:55 PM
1

Yeah, the kind who go on a date, act entitled, and treat the partner like shit. Then the guy has sex and leaves them because he doesn't want to put up with that again just for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 10:54 PM
1

Yeah, agree with that. If my partner has been having casual sex and giving it out to every other guy then I wouldn't feel any special? If I have worked pretty hard my whole life to be able to come up to a good standard where women would want to settle for me and I can provide for them and our babies, then I expect her to also work hard and keep a decent standard and not be sleeping with every other guy that has a d**k.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 10:47 PM
7

Exactly. I neither have the time nor the patience to go through a PUA's youtube channel to understand what he's suggesting and then have an intellectual conversation over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 10:30 PM
1

Elon Musk is an Alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 10:29 PM
1

How do you know these women are in a minority? My experience has always been that there are too many of these girls around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 06:17 PM
1

Not Indian but yeah, from that region.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 07:57 PM
5

Statistically and factually, men are more likely to date women with mental health issues than the other way around. The same goes for superficialness. So your claims are pretty absurd, to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 08:23 PM
2

Few matches in over a year. No dates. 5'11'', 165 lbs, 14% BF, pretty well built. It would be rated about 7/10, but not white. Tinder is useless for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 06:53 PM
20

Men are under a constant, huge, aggressive competition, trapped inside a social Darwinist game on such a scale that few women would understand. The world that we inhabit is meaner, uglier, more aggressive, and more indifferent to you. It is all about status, power, competition, dominance. That’s the world men live in. We didn’t choose it. Most of us don’t like it at all. Only a very small slew of say, 1% of us, thrive on it. Most of us just endure it the best we can. A lot of us can’t bear it, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 12:52 AM
4

Men take care of the outdoor work, cutting the bushes, cutting the grass, fixing the drainage, fixing the cars, not to mention do 50% of the household chores. Most husbands also earn more and work way more than the wife and hence shoulder more responsibility. As a kid, your parents tend to be strict on you and you go through sexists misandrists schools that make you feel ashamed of your masculinity. The moment you hit puberty, you would have no role models around you. Most of the older men aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 12:45 AM
21

Never pay on the dates guys, I have met plenty of such chicks before, the moment you split the bill they'll split off and save you time and money.
/r/PussyPass24/10/19 10:18 PM
8

I don't give a lot about cute face, just normal face is alright. But I don't know why guys want a shorter girl. That has never been on my lift. I am 5'11' and would be alright dating someone 3 inches taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 09:52 PM
9

So here are some stats from the studies: - 70% of non-reciprocated DV is initiated by women. - 53% of victims of DV are men. - Perpetration - "Rates of female-perpetrated violence higher than male-perpetrated (28.3% vs. 21.6%)". - Among large population samples, 57.9% of IPV reported was bi-directional, 42% unidirectional; 13.8% of the unidirectional violence was male to female (MFPV), 28.3% was female to male (FMPV). Here are the sources: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/ ht…
/r/MensRights24/10/19 06:48 PM
5

Where is the source for that? I thought that there was more female to male DV. So here are some stats from the studies: - 70% of non-reciprocated DV is initiated by women. - 53% of victims of DV are men. - Perpetration - "Rates of female-perpetrated violence higher than male-perpetrated (28.3% vs. 21.6%)". - Among large population samples, 57.9% of IPV reported was bi-directional, 42% unidirectional; 13.8% of the unidirectional violence was male to female (MFPV), 28.3% was female to male (FMPV).…
/r/MGTOW24/10/19 01:08 AM
1

If I liked dick, in a heartbeat. Someone carring for me, getting all the attention and validation. Being taken out on dates. What else can I ask for? A woman rated 7/10 is living my dream life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:40 PM
1

Yeah. I am the same stats and I just spent 9 months lifting so far. I plan to be 180lbs by the end of 2020 so I can stop looking lean.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 10:26 PM
20

You are following the wrong subs if you don't hear about the wrong accusations of rape, harassment and assault on men on a daily basis.
/r/PussyPass23/10/19 09:17 PM
1

I know. I have been working on myself. Like I wrote elsewhere, I have the offer and in the process of earning $200k. Once it hit, I would probably be able to increase my social status. I have been working out for a year now. So by summer that would improve further. I am in the process of revamping the wardrobe. Once all that is set maybe I can start following the RP advice to build some sort of a game. But right now I am pretty far from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 05:39 PM
1

I am a researcher that has a Ph.D. degree. Of course, I work with computers. I am fairly fun to be around. Women rate me at 5 when they first see me and rate me at 8 after talking to me (asked 3 different ladies). That is why I am in the process of revamping my wardrobe. No, I am not white, have a rare ethnicity which is a bit undesirable (I think statistically least desireable in the US). I think I'll wait another year to socialize with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 05:34 PM
1

Thanks a lot. You gave me a lot to think about. I guess the reason you are puzzled is for these reasons. First, I am a different ethnicity from most people and therefore less likely to attract people. Second, I have just for the past 1 year started lifting so only now got a nice built. Third, I am only now finishing my Ph.D. and becoming a Dr. so the $200k hasn't increased my social status. Fourth, I am still in the process of revamping my wardrobe, it would take time. Fifth, I have grown up in …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 05:31 PM
1

You hit the nail on the head. Yes, if I go to the country where the majority is from my ethnicity, I am in high demand there. Unfortunately, in the US that isn't really the case and I live in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 05:20 PM
1

Could be. That is why I always ask people around me how to get better and I'm usually not given any specific answer. Apparently I am good. All my exes had to say about it was to just dress better. I obviously don't like to dress up that much cause I want to spend most of my time doing outdoorsy stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 05:18 PM
1

My body is pretty good. I don't have 6 packs showing but can still see 2 packs. That is cause I am on a bulk. I am still around 14 % BF. What's the confusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 05:14 PM
5

So help me understand this. The guy OP explained is someone like me. I am 5'11'', body 8/10 (I lift have 2 packs), face 6/10 (worse estimate), earn $200k, I have even revamped my wardrobe with the help of some female friends. I know 6 or so languages and English is not my first language. I am fluent in English but not enough to be cracking jokes and making up puns or childhood rhyme references. I do believe I have zero standards. I just want a healthy-looking person to date and I still can't fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 07:00 AM
10

It's funny how true that is. Most of us here were feminists at one point or another before they chewed us out and showed us how much privilege they had over us both socially and legal laws wise.
/r/MensRights22/10/19 06:50 AM
35

1) In domestic violence cases, the police operate on the DULUTH model which means men get arrested or detained and often have to spend the time in jail even if they were the victim (Majority of DV victims are men). 2) Women living with a man can ask a man to leave the house even if he owns that place and the woman doesn't pay the rent there. Most men have to sleep elsewhere and then apologize to the woman.
/r/MensRights22/10/19 06:45 AM
12

I believe even in the US, in many places forced to penetrate is not considered as rape. (Correct me if I am wrong)
/r/MensRights22/10/19 06:43 AM
1

Start meeting other girls so you can dump her ass and move on. Start recording her secretly to have tons of evidence of her abuse and threats. Start writing down each and every incident and have a detailed record.
/r/MensRights22/10/19 12:55 AM
1

Yeah I tried but failed. 14% BF reduced from 28%, 5'11'' pretty shredded, earning well, very work-oriented, lifting 3 times a week, sports/running/hiking/kayaking/canoeing/surfing etc 1-2 times a week. Still, I haven't reached the attraction level needed to attract a healthy mate. Now trying to upgrade the wardrobe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 09:44 PM
1

I can't find a healthy woman to date. How is that difficult to understand? Just so you know, we can't force women to go out with me in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 07:38 PM
1

I don't know, I didn't bother questioning her too much. It actually lasted about 6 weeks. She started off by calling me her side-guy/fuckboy in the first two weeks (I presume as a joke but I was pretty pissed and she apologized after a month though). Then she caught feelings after a month of dating and we had agreed to be monogamous. And then she realized the future was too uncertain cause I'll be moving around a bit and not sure where the work would be after 3 months. So she dumped me. I don't …
/r/MensRights21/10/19 07:35 PM
52

Dude, I don't know what to say. It really does suck. I was with someone for the past 1 month and things were going really well. I thought I had found someone for a long term relationship. She ended it yesterday saying that she is getting too many feelings for me and since our futures are currently unstable, she doesn't know where we will end up so she doesn't want things to get serious. Afterward, I realized I spent about $400 on that girl within 4 weeks. Few dinners, few lunches, a few movie ni…
/r/MensRights18/10/19 11:49 PM
1

No. My standards are so low that you don't even have to be attractive, just healthy. It is usually the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 11:45 PM
2

Well everyone has their own problem. For me, I can't get past step 1. Although I am good at step 2. Not to mention, most of my single guy friends can't get past step 1 either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 11:32 PM
1

True that. Did that a lot too. It lasted a month. I like to go out, especially in nature. So have to eat out sometimes. Unless you are suggesting I start doing things on my own and only keep the lady for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 10:32 PM
15

The women privilege is strong in this poster.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 10:25 PM
1

What do you even expect dude? Going on 4 dinners, 2 movies, and a few events here and there and you clearly spend like $400. Come to think of it, I would have rather hired a hooker for that much money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 10:16 PM
2

No sex is free, man. The girl I was seeing the last 4 weeks just left saying she has too many feelings for me. I just realized I have spent like $400 on our dates in the past 4 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 07:04 PM
1

Not to mention my own personal anecdotes where I have been hit by women multiple times whereas I have never struck anyone. Same true with most of my guy friends. Most of the women I have dated have admitted to me of hitting their partner at one point or another. Before you say that I have a special type and not all women are like that, the data says otherwise so keep that BS to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:21 PM
2

Women definitely commit way more DV then men do. So here are some stats from the studies: - 70% of non-reciprocated DV is initiated by women. - 53% of victims of DV are men. - Perpetration - "Rates of female-perpetrated violence higher than male-perpetrated (28.3% vs. 21.6%)". - Among large population samples, 57.9% of IPV reported was bi-directional, 42% unidirectional; 13.8% of the unidirectional violence was male to female (MFPV), 28.3% was female to male (FMPV). Here are the sources: https:/…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:19 PM
1

lol. hush little one. Just cause I am ambitious and have my life together, doesn't mean I don't have fun. My hobbies would put you in place but then again not here to brag. If I have a goal to earn 500k in 5 years then 70-100 hours is a price I am gladly willing to pay. Plus in the end, what matters is what makes me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:02 PM
3

Maybe set aside goals that have nothing to do with women and just invest all your time achieving those goals. You are right, women nowadays are pretty self-centered and narcissistic. They get all the validation they want and, therefore, no incentive to improve. You will realize that life gets better once you have better goals and you invest all your time and attention on those goals.
/r/MensRights18/10/19 12:00 AM
2

It is more like they don't give the women the privilege they want that comes with their pussy pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 11:56 PM
0

I am not RP, but I am transitioning into one. The only advice I follow from TRP is to work on myself. So I have started lifting, losing 25 lbs of fat gaining 15 lbs of muscle mass, getting my BF down to 14% from 28%. In one year I am finishing my doctorate and expected to get a job of 200k in a top tech company. I work 70-100 hours per week and still make time for 10 hours of the gym. I feel better and better about myself and my confidence is rising cause I am achieving things other people aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 11:29 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:10 AM
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Dude, On my first cut for 6 months, I went from 28% BF to 14% BF. I could only barely see my top 2 abs. I couldn't do the cut anymore cause I started getting depressed, so I went on my bulk again. In my next cut, I aim to go lower than 14% BF. Any tips on how I can get the abs showing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:23 PM
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No facts would change an already brainwashed mindset and victim mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:49 PM
1

Your data is idiotic so are you. Almost every men watch porn and it is sad that you are so emotionally unstable and abusive that no men want to settle for you. Women like you are often referred to by men as pump and dump material.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:04 PM
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I wouldn't know any of that for a fact Ma'am. I can just give you my own opinion. I just think the third and fourth wave of feminism was very excessive and unneeded. The bills like 'violence against women act' and social movements like #MeToo or #BelieveAllWomen just tilted the power such that a woman can create a wrongful assault/harassment complaint against a man and there would be no repercussions for it. Furthermore, this constant preaching in our schools that masculinism is toxic and women …
/r/MensRights15/10/19 12:24 AM
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The first wall would be somewhere at 10 years when boys start becoming disposable, the second wall would be around 14 years when you hit puberty and realize there are no resources or mental health available for you, the third wall would be around 21 years old when you realize the world doesn't give a shit about your gender and you live in a gynocentric society so everything you were taught is basically untrue, then the fourth and final wall would be around 35 to 40 given how you age when you rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:48 PM
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The police operate on the DULUTH model. This means if the man is attacked by women and the police are called, the police would have to detain and arrest the man. So a guy should only go to the police if he has hard evidence and he is ready to sleep in the cell for one night. He should only do it if he thinks it would save him from future harassment from that particular person and not do it for vengeance cause it could backfire on him.
/r/MensRights14/10/19 10:32 PM
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7/10
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:38 PM
2

8/10. You have a surprisingly good jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:37 PM
1

You look, good mate. Nothing really you should be conscious about. I'll give you a 7/10. If you want to get like 8/10, you should start hitting the gym and get a new haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:35 PM
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7.5/10
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:33 PM
1

5/10
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:33 PM
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ditto
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:28 PM
2

Slowly slowly catchy donkey!! I can cry but easier said then done.
/r/MensRights11/10/19 09:40 PM
1

So you actually want an ATM and not a nice guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 07:06 PM
2

Play nice and wait until she is dead!
/r/MensRights04/10/19 12:22 AM
5

Get a lawyer, Document every little thing. Delete this post!!
/r/MensRights03/10/19 12:14 AM
2

Yeah, maybe the OkCupid is not good enough for you. How about the match.com study, or the Tinder study. Or how about all the data available on /r/dataisbeautiful, Or maybe for once look at the world past your pussy privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 06:51 PM
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The bigger question is, what have you done to improve yourself? Give it two years, that's all the transformation you need to find a keeper. Delete all the Apps, go monk modes, Hit the Gym 4-5 times a week, lift heavy, practice kegel exercises, build your career, and practice talking to girls outside of the Apps. Two years later, you'll be transformed into the person that the girls would want to date, your confidence would skyrocket and you'll be a different person and really happy.
/r/MensRights02/10/19 04:20 AM
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So, it is not a matter of "the other person does it too". It is all about stats. When the stats are clearly showing that the "nice guy" (aka everyone below 7/10) are getting zero to no attention, and very few to none dates, then that becomes an issue. Now I am not saying everyone is not getting dates, I am just saying statistically speaking even below-average women are getting multiple dates whereas average guys are struggling a lot. Keep that context in mind and you'll understand what the "Nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 04:14 AM
2

You should mention that it was sarcastic so the OP can understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 03:50 AM
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One back-up strategy I could employ: Once I am tired of what you call spinning plates, I would get a girl from my own home country. They are very loyal and usually very emotionally stable. She would be grateful for just being in the US and would be willing to help us do better both financially and emotionally. It would be relatively lower maintenance and would be able to take care of herself. She can go to work or study if she wants to but she would never be an emotional burden or high maintenan…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:22 AM
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I guess everyone here understands that. I don't believe this rant needed its own topic.
/r/MensRights30/09/19 10:53 PM
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Yes, the facts, studies, and experiences are all myopia, I should let them go and live in a "made-up" world. Thanks for the delusional advise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 06:52 PM
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What I meant is for her, a 7/10 would be her Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 06:49 PM
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I give studies (Cupid study, Tinder study, matches.com), the 80/20 rule, my own experience, the data from hundreds of Tinder accounts, my friends' anecdotes. You don't even give your own experience. You claim you know someone who you claim is "average-looking" and gets dates from Tinder (doubtful). Your evidence is pretty bad and therefore no reason to believe anything coming from you. And No I am not below average looking, I am pretty ripped, can run marathons, pretty good at sports, and basica…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 06:39 PM
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Yes, your anecdote of someone who you know might be more believable for me than me and all my male friends. You win, my lady! In fact, the basic rule laid out for tinder are two: 1) Be attractive, 2) Don't be unattractive. These rules are widely accepted (/r/Tinder). So I am calling bullshit (again) at your made-up claim that Tinder works for an average guy. There have been enough studies done showing Tinder only works for the top 10% of the guys. But hey maybe if you repeat your false narrative…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 06:18 PM
1

Don't make me cry now.
/r/MensRights30/09/19 06:10 PM
1

Factually, incorrect and scientifically wrong. Leave your feelings somewhere else Karen, science and our gynocentric society don't care what you think and reality is not going to change itself because you don't find it amusing.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/09/19 05:57 PM
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It's not your mind per se. You hit the wall and your looks are gone. Now you want to settle for whoever can tolerate you.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/09/19 05:46 PM
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I am assuming you are a girl? With that in mind, your definition of what is average is somewhere around 8.5/10. That's been widely shown in the research. (The 80/20 rule e.g.). I live in a very big city, I have multiple friends all of us are above average and we barely get any dates through Tinder. You might now say there's something in our profile that is wrong, we have tested that too, which is not the case. Multiple female friends have gone through our profiles. I am pretty sure you are wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 05:44 PM
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Bullshit. I have extremely handsome looking guys, I would rate 8/10 that get like a date every month. Hell, I get a date every other month from Tinder and I get rated 7/10 or 7.5/10 and I am very nicely built, with 15% BF.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 05:29 PM
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Nah. I see pretty of betas around me. I'll say about 60% of the men are in deplorable situations. 10% are enjoying lots of sex and the rest 30% are occasionally getting lucky if some women finds them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 05:25 PM
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a 7/10 looking guy having sex with 3/10 looking girl just for the hell of it doesn't mean they are satisfied. The 3/10 looking girl still got to fuck someone out of her league (a Chad per se)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 05:23 PM
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That's just overlooking things you don't want to come in terms with. I see young women going out and hooking up with good looking (top 10-20% men) all the time. I live close to downtown so I see this happen almost every other day. Guys are getting dissatisfied cause they get treated like shit in their 20s and then in their early 30s when they are successful, the same women all of a sudden wants to settle down with them. This is also something I see all the freaking time. In fact, I would be one …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 05:22 PM
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I was also talking about obese girls. I know tons of ugly obese girls who sleep around all the time, just cause they can get laid easy in the clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:19 AM
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First off, I never said I disagree with it you made that up. Nevertheless, It is applied disproportionately and the policy still discriminates against men. I see all your logic has been to give 1 strange counterexample and try to prove that the stats are wrong? Like finding one male-only scholarship and claiming there's no disproportion on gender-only scholarships? Like saying some universities have started affirmative action for men, therefore, it justifies the universities discrimination again…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:16 AM
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Most men don't judge women based on their looks. That shallowness only exists on the women side where they have tons of options so only narrow guys down based on looks. If a women approach a man and seem decent, the man will fall in love with them. Most men also check out tons of girls but wouldn't approach any of them, so, therefore, disproving your made-up points.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:09 AM
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Yeah. Average looking men being called creepy and slapped sexual assault cases on a day to day basis are just "lying". I ain't approaching no random women. Most of them are so full of themselves that they don't even understand that other people exist in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:07 AM
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That is not true. I see ugly girls going to clubs every week and getting laid. An average looking guy could never even dream of such.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:04 AM
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Nah. Most ugly girls don't even have to put in much effort to get an average looking guy. That's been proven so many times. There's too many average looking guys there that would never get a date from an average looking girl. So they have to settle for an ugly girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:01 AM
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As I said, the articles I posted clearly show many male-only scholarships, as opposed to female-only scholarships, exist out there. Since there's a huge disproportion there, such discrimination should be eliminated ASAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 11:55 PM
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My go-to is to check the impact factor of the journal they are published with. Of course, reading things in the best journals out there like: The Nature, or the Science Magazine, (Both have an impact factor of above 30) is the best option. But Yeah, sometimes you have to read things from a low impact factor journal too but should be a bit careful about how they word their studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 09:49 PM
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Here's another study, in case you think the numbers are "small percentage": 84% of about 220 universities offer single-gender scholarships. These numbers do not look "small" to me. This looks like actual discrimination to me. http://www.saveservices.org/equity/scholarships/ https://www.latimes.com/california/story/2019-08-20/women-only-science-programs-discrimination-complaints
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 09:46 PM
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Nonetheless, When many students are coming out and saying the universities are becoming toxic for men, maybe we should listen to them and at least try to understand why they think that way? Looking at the average spending of the universities usually, show that. Discrimination in scholarship is not the only thing, there have been tons of cases in the courts for different discrimination on different levels. At least accepting that would be the way to move forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 09:41 PM
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Even though I wasn't talking about "affirmative action" over here but you will agree that "affirmative action" is disproportionately applied. Now coming back to my point, Title IX is much more than just "violence". It covers most of the gender discrimination. Meaning a university is not allowed to discriminate against any gender. However, that has not been the case. We know for a fact that the majority of kids going to colleges are female now (up to 57% in the UK projected to be 60% in a few yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 09:15 PM
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That's just how I looked, man. What can I say, I had pretty thin and long hands and legs. Legs are still pretty thin though. Edit: Not to mention, I don't really believe BMI is a good measure. BF% is a better measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:32 PM
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That's solely for the discrimination and anti-male hysteria in high schools and colleges. Not to mention every university breaking the Title IX laws to willingly discriminate against Boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:30 PM
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Yes, that's why women are unhappier than they ever were. Ridding all those D**ks is playing into the men's dating strategy and women's not able to fulfill their hypergamy is making them sadder than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:26 PM
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Recently, I was dating someone for two months and I was really into her but then she moved away so we ended it. She did ask me recently if I wanted to continue to relationship and make it an LTR. I said No. I felt like I was being used. I felt like she was using these same techniques. Where I felt like if I go into an LTR with this woman, I would have no say since I have no leverage. So I told her that I work on myself every day to improve myself not just for me but for my future partner and I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:22 PM
1

5'11'' Was: 178 lbs, 128 lbs fat-free mass, 50 lbs fat Now: 165 lbs, 140 lbs fat-free mass, 25 lbs fat. I was skinny fat, so people looking at me with a shirt on could never tell I had that much fat. They would just tell me you need to eat more, you are too skinny. I had the same delusion that I wasn't fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:15 PM
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Soft as hell. Took me a lot of days of excruciating lifting, building those muscles and losing fat. I remember the first month I even had to take pain killers a few times just to get through the day. Now I am 15% BF ratio and still look lean but a bit toned. Still, have like 9 months left for my transformation to finish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:06 PM
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Okay, I would be making a lot of assumptions here, but let me tell you my story. I used to run every now and then. Which was, to be honest like around 25 times a year and I looked lean so I thought I was healthy. It was not until I got a Dexascan done and was told I have 30% BF. It was such a surprise. So I started working out properly, lifting and exercising 3-5 times a week and really pushing my body. I used to have a bit of a high blood sugar level, my feet would burn when hot, I was lethargi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:01 PM
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The second type is also easily fixed. There are very few women that actually have biological issues resulting in low libido. most of the problems arise from an unhealthy lifestyle. E.g. Many women work out like 20 times a year and they think they are healthy when they can't be more off. BF%, hormones level, depression, dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, and endorphins can all be regulated with a few months of regular exercises. Where you actually push your body. I have a few friends who fixed their …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:42 PM
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A girl wrongfully accused the guy of groping her. The video, as well as forensic evidence, showed that the guy did not do such thing. The University still punished him by suspending him for a year. The money he got from the case he won is just his tuition fee back and the salary he lost in that 1 year. Overall, the school destroyed this guy's life and got away with it cause the court refused to punish the college.
/r/MensRights26/09/19 07:52 PM
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Just some insight into the first study and what I read from it: "While the few clinical studies finding gender differences in the impact of illness on divorce risk are intriguing, these results have not been replicated in large social surveys or across an array of illnesses." "Our finding that cancer onset was not associated with divorce is in contrast to prior clinical studies which found elevated divorce risks for reproductive cancers" There were so many things contradictory and so many assump…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:14 PM
2

I'm sorry. In my world, respect is earned. On top of that, most women believe either consciously or subconsciously that 'men are trash' or 'men are disposable'. I can't respect such people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 09:23 PM
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I'm going to try to give out compliments to men on that day. I don't think I have ever done much of that in my entire life before.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 04:12 AM
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I followed this whole episode. The campaign against Ali Zafar was legit cringeworthy. So many people came out (including woman) saying they were at the event and never saw any harassment but people were unwilling to accept their accounts. There were women marches on campuses for this. Finally, the truth comes out. Ali Zafar's defamation case against Meesha Shafi, which was another allegation is currently in the courts where Meesha is unable to provide any proof that Ali Zafar supposedly touched …
/r/MensRights25/09/19 04:03 AM
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I would like women to join this sub, but there are bitter men like myself around here, that occasionally go a little overboard with venting out. So not as level-headed as you believe it to be.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 03:48 AM
2

lol. I have a decent enough car. I'm not spending money on a new car for a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 03:46 AM
1

It doesn't make me look good because I am not that good looking. I am like 6/10 facial looks-wise. And in the dating world, looks goes a long long way. Being a guy I can only manage about 1 date a month, which is about as good or probably better than all the other guys in my circle. I have been dating her for 1 month and I feel like she was a bit misguided but has the right heart. Are you saying you were never emotionally manipulative to your SO before? It's not unheard of and happens all the ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 03:26 AM
1

I believe women tend to be assholes cause they have so many guys lined up. This girl had at least 10 different dates the month before me. Especially with this new age culture of Cardi B, Nicki Minaj, and listening to trap music (which she does), I feel like she doesn't even realize how rude and emotionally manipulative she was being. I have brought it up to her on multiple occasions what her behavior is like, where she is purposefully being mean or an asshole to test me. She realizes it was comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 03:01 AM
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How about I give you an example of my one-month-old relationship in this post-modern dating environment for men. I met this girl online and after a little bit of trying, I convinced her to go out with me. The first date went well but she apparently knows her value in the dating market and chooses to be an asshole about it. The first two weeks, she tends to be pretty rude about things where I would have to drive to pick her up, pay for the dates, and still, she would purposefully be making things…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 02:27 AM
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Not sure, Getting free dinner every other week. Getting people's attention. Getting nice things done to you, being taken out on dates. Traveling to different towns and having men show you around cities. I don't know, this free sex does seem like a LOT of value. For example, I spend somewhere close to $200 per month going on like 2 dates a month. Do nice things, say the nice words, dress nice, and then she chooses to either have sex with me or she chooses all the other guys she has on her list of…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:40 PM
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Wow. Most guys can't even remotely relate to such things because these are the privileges only women have. Most of my lady friends travel from town to town solely on the back of dating apps, getting men to show them around the city while they believe they are doing these men a favor by giving them company. Most women I know barely work on themselves because they don't have any incentive to work. Unless some women are striving to get a company of the top 5% of the man, then they have to fight. Ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:34 PM
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I think there problem is how women get free sex and zero motivation to improve while men usually have to try so so hard to be their better version and still treated like shit in the dating life. It's only fair they get to complain given how privileged the other sex has become.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 07:37 PM
3

Not sure how you consider someone this unhealthy and obese. She clearly has no regards for her health and neither wants to work on herself. This is what guys complain about that given the current dating dynamics, women have little incentive to improve as opposed to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 06:25 PM
2

Do you mean the best thing that ever happened to me? Seeing the world clearer than ever and being control of what I want, how is that not what you want me to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 10:44 PM
5

Nah! You good, I just felt embarrassed for not knowing the rules myself.
/r/MensRights23/09/19 09:59 PM
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Aye aye Captain!
/r/MensRights23/09/19 09:43 PM
3

Tell that to my two ex-girlfriends who both chose to cheat on me because being a woman, they had tons of men lined up to date that I could simply not compete with because those men provided better sex/attraction while I was the LTR type (both said they loved me and that "I was the one" except for some hot guy boning them every now and then that they couldn't "help"). Ever since I have started understanding the TRP philosophy, I have gotten my life together, My work is tremendously better (going …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 09:40 PM
5

You keep forgetting the 80/20 rule. An average male doesn't even get a date through Tinder so not sure where you are coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 09:12 PM
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I don't know. For the first time in my life, I have the self-confidence, I look in the mirror and feel better about myself. I am still under my transformation, 8 months in and I totally understand the dating world and what I need to do to excel in it. So I would say it is totally worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 09:09 PM
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Yeah. Woman have it so hard. They have to throw in random photos in dating apps gets thousands of matches and then take the time out to actually go on dozens of dates every week to find someone tolerable enough for them. Must be very exhausting as opposed to an average man not even getting a single date in over 6 months using dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 09:06 PM
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Why is her name censored out?
/r/MensRights23/09/19 08:36 PM
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So the question is, is he suing her?
/r/MensRights23/09/19 08:33 PM
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Dude, I'm not even white. I'm a brown man who isn't even looking and I'm just tired of being called creepy or held up to such a high standard. I see parents get uncomfortable when their kids walk too close to me. I earn well and I dress well and hit the gym 4 times a week. Still, there are some things I can't just fix about myself. I totally understand how bad the whole demonization and calling masculinity toxic can be. I hope you can find a safe way to vent out of your frustrations. The Men Rig…
/r/MensRights23/09/19 08:22 PM
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That's exactly what I wrote. I hope you were agreeing with me here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:26 PM
1

It's the same old nature vs nurture argument. There have been books written on it. Science has undoubtedly made it clear that Gender is NOT just a social construct but also a biological one. The gender biological differences in the brain have been widely noted and accepted. Nowadays, people don't want to hear the truth they just want to make it a political debate and choose opinions that are highly partisan..... Here are some links that would shed some light on this topic: https://www.ncbi.nlm.n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:00 PM
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