NikolaiArbor Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	[Technique] When you've already asked her out and she has other plans...	Logistics	NikolaiArbor	/r/seduction	26/06/21 02:27 AM

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3	Practice Bantering with a Chatbot Girl that Could Lose Interest Ugh I hate when girls say this to me	/r/seduction	13/08/24 03:05 AM
4	My gf cheated on me. Here's what I learned she was drunk Not an excuse and somehow some guy's dick ended up in her mouth. But she didn't have sex with him. Dick in mouth is sex	/r/seduction	12/09/22 01:34 AM
-1	I can’t sleep with a woman because I feel like I’m doing something wrong Comprehend you assuming things is pretty clear	/r/seduction	13/05/22 09:15 PM
0	I can’t sleep with a woman because I feel like I’m doing something wrong You can’t tell a woman “it’s time to fuck” and expect her to jump on your d right away. As I said, women aren’t sex dolls and they want to enjoy sex just as much as men. He never said that, you're putting words in his mouth. He's saying he wants to have sex, not "we must have sex right now". Where did you even get that idea from? You're imagining that conversation happening in bed when it could easily be brought up at the beginning of the next date. How is communication that he wants to have sex…	/r/seduction	13/05/22 08:28 PM
-2	I can’t sleep with a woman because I feel like I’m doing something wrong TIL a man expressing his needs means he's an asshole.	/r/seduction	13/05/22 07:37 PM
30	Shoot your shot today, there's no difference in getting rejected tomorrow. You want that moment back? Whenever you see her the next time say something like "now where did we leave off?" and then kiss her and go on with your date as usual.	/r/seduction	05/09/21 05:14 PM
5	[deleted by user] cause it's a tease Translates to I feel bad for teasing you because I know that I don't want to pursue a relationship any further and I don't want to hurt you All of the advise above should be read by everyone on this sub, thank you for sharing.	/r/seduction	31/08/21 03:58 AM
3	Daygame NIGHTMARE! (My daygame experience and story) call him a PROFESSIONAL daygamer lol Not defending him, but to be pedantic anyone who makes money doing what they do is considered professional. We use the term "act professional" as if it means something, but it's highly contextual. Plenty of professional athletes get arrested for reasons both related and unrelated to their "profession". He was a professional that acted unprofessionally and may or may not still be one.	/r/seduction	13/08/21 03:28 PM
1	[Technique] When you've already asked her out and she has other plans... I've been on quite a few subpar dates. I made it work by having fun with myself regardless of who was with me. I decide early in the date that I won't be going on another date, but maybe I can get a story out of it. Went on a date with a girl that has ADHD just like me. We were constantly zoning out and forgetting what we were talking about. She also kept saying how much she wanted to go home and not in a "let's go home and sleep together" way, so that was annoying. But we went to a park and the…	/r/seduction	05/07/21 08:18 PM
1	Example of a proper response when you’re placed in the friend zone, but still have feelings Feeling attracted to her is completely normal. You can't change what you find attractive. Just be mindful of the thought, she might even think it's flattering that you find her cute and attractive as long as you're not trying to sleep with her.	/r/seduction	05/07/21 06:08 PM
1	I asked some woman what their thoughts were on cold approaches. I asked some women what their thoughts were on cold approaches. Your first mistake is asking what their "thoughts" are. Women are much more "feeling" oriented and their thoughts often don't align with what their feelings are telling them to do. It's why asking women for advice usually doesn't work.	/r/seduction	05/07/21 06:03 PM
19	I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhausting Models by Mark Manson is the only one you'll need	/r/seduction	27/06/21 01:28 PM
1	[Technique] When you've already asked her out and she has other plans... And I guess I'll say that I don't get their number before hand either, I'm asking them directly on tinder and bumble. It kind of creates a safety valve for both parties to get to out of dangerous or uncomfortable situations. On the date if I like them I'll ask for Snapchat or some other app. Don't really need to ask for numbers anymore.	/r/seduction	26/06/21 05:25 AM
2	[Technique] When you've already asked her out and she has other plans... Hmmm that's some good advice. Yeah I typically ask them out over texts and I get 1/2 in person dates per week. That's about as many as I want to do and I do it for fun. I do pretty well on bumble and tinder that I can play a numbers game and go out only with the girls who agree to meet up quicky. I'll offer to have a "face time" date before meeting up, but I don't bother calling them unless I already know they're interested in me.	/r/seduction	26/06/21 05:07 AM
3	Interesting date at a strip club (date game field report) When it came her turn to dance on stage, I didnt watch at all, glancing once to see that she was up on the pole completely upside down (which I got her talking about later) and I think I definitely won brownie points for not gawking at her during her dance. Uh, if she's really into you she would WANT you to watch her perform. Not necessarily gawk, but I'm imagining you putting your head down and covering your eyes like a toddler. You're too worried about being a creep to make a move. Remember wh…	/r/seduction	26/06/21 02:16 AM