Nildro_hain_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
29	PSA About Age Gap Relationships Yep. When I turned 27, something in me snapped and I started demanding better treatment, that we prioritise sending me back to school (he previously said there was no point), that I know and get to consent to financial decisions. Unlike the way it seems to go for most poor girls, the idea of losing me scared him and he started shaping up. We were working on it, but I still felt a lot of anger and was weighing my choices. And then he got diagnosed with cancer. So I’m in a really awkward place. I’…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/06/20 03:48 AM
33	PSA About Age Gap Relationships Growing up with neglectful alcoholics, my 18 year old ass thought she’d found a king when a 48 yo “picked” her to leave her generous scholarships at her dream university to raise his existing children 💀 almost a decade on and he can’t make a meal from a packet, leaves almost everything but the bills for me to deal with, I’m lucky if I get a drug store card on Valentine’s Day.... with free childcare squared away he has quadrupled his finances and assets... and I have to beg for coffee money, or e…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/06/20 03:27 AM
6	Autoban from r/breakingmom just for participating here. I guess it's not just men who don't like women to know their worth. I frequent that sub :/ and I’ll miss it. I know people are talking badly about it but a lot of us were raised in horrible environments, know no better, and begin to learn of our self worth only after we have children. It’s never to late to expect more. Both subs have helped me a lot and it’s sad we can’t stand in solidarity as women in men’s world	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 05:57 AM
25	I Love Men: An Open Letter I found this post really nice, and I feel the same. I really like men. I love catching sight of them paling around with each other, playing rugby, wearing a baby Bjorne, smiling at a woman they’re holding hands with... sometimes this sub feels hostile to those images I have of men. And then I remember the numerous ways my life was destroyed, again and again, by LVM. And I remember why I’m here lol You can love men and expect better of the majority. Or that better be the case, because I love men …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/20 07:31 AM
14	Men Who Re-Marry Quickly After Their Wives Die I mean, it happened to me. 18, was mistreated by teenagers my age, and a divorcee with full custody convinces me that only men from his generation take care of their women. Flash forward and I’ve dropped out of college and work to cook, clean, raise his children... he’s sitting back enjoying his freedom, hunting with his buddies and getting back into his hobbies with all his responsibilities at home squared away... 🤡🤡🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/20 09:57 PM
1	Pretty girls get treated better ? Idk. I was an overweight, insecure teenager with truly drop dead gorgeous friends. They got treated better by the general public and got more attention, but they had the same old relationship problems, ie guys ghosting them, guys putting in no effort, guys cheating... I think it’s a small wider social boost, but not a big personal one. I’m now an overweight but secure adult and the only one in a gainful long term relationship	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/20 12:39 AM
39	You’re better off alone than with a LVM The theme of the 2020s needs to be solidarity. No more leaving each other out in the cold.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/20 01:28 AM
21	Save your motherly instincts for your family, friends, or children, NOT MEN. One thing I’ve had to start doing is actually watching men and copying them. Men show affection to the people they like, but I’ve never seen one coo over somone, asking them if they’d eaten/how they’re feeling/ect. I’m having to fake it til I make it lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/20 01:41 AM