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The points she discusses are all risks while taking it, they have no impact after they are discontinued.
/r/AntiFeminists07/01/23 09:49 AM
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You do realize that little girls can take hormonal birth control at the same age without many ill effects (there’s a risk of effecting height), right?
/r/AntiFeminists07/01/23 08:42 AM
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You do realize that little girls take hormonal birth control at the same age and don’t suffer from any ill effects outside of possibly impacting height… right?
/r/AntiFeminists07/01/23 08:39 AM
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Lmao of course they won’t reply, because male circumcision just means they lose part of the foreskin and nerves, and while of course complications are possible, they are minor and incredibly rare since the procedure is so common. Female castration often causes severe deformities, make it so the clitoris doesn’t feel anything, and can cause severe issues with going to the bathroom. FGM is so entirely detrimental to women, and yet these goofs think that “never knowing what sex is supposed to feel …
/r/AntiFeminists07/01/23 08:36 AM
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Women and little girls take hormonal birth control for years and have no lasting ill effects from it. You can take birth control as soon as you start your period, some girls that’s as early as 8 or 9 years old, but by 12 is not uncommon. Hormone based medication isn’t that serious.
/r/AntiFeminists07/01/23 08:32 AM
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It’s all about how your body proportions look in person. For instance, I’m 5’3, but I look closer to 5’5-5’6 because I have long arms and legs with a shorter midsection.
/r/AllPillDebate26/12/22 08:17 PM
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This guy is far below average. He’s overweight and balding. What on earth screams average about this guy to you?
/r/AllPillDebate26/12/22 07:47 PM
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Personality doesn’t matter when initially meeting someone, because human beings are shallow. But looks only get you so far when your personality is garbage. The difference between an attractive guy with a shit personality and an average guy with a fun personality is a “I’m just not feeling the connection. Sorry!” And “when can I see you next?” And I’m sorry, but you linked a YouTube video. This hardly counts as evidence, it’s not even scientifically sound. Studies show that with online dating, p…
/r/AllPillDebate26/12/22 07:44 PM
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He won’t, no one that has commented really will. I’m mostly familiar with US history, so that is all I will touch on here. It’s important to note that most of this only applies to white women, as women of color had their own obstacles such as racism and other much more sinister barriers within US history. The fact is that women were treated as property in the US up until recently (recently as in US history, not recently as in our or our close relatives lifetime), and women didn’t even have any s…
/r/MensRights02/11/22 07:49 AM
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…The protests began after the death of Mahsa Amini, a 22-year-old woman arrested by morality police in Tehran on 13 September for allegedly violating Iran's strict rules requiring women to cover their hair with a hijab, or headscarf.
/r/AntiFeminists20/10/22 10:24 AM
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Oh? And what fantasy is this?
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 08:50 AM
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Knowing that you spent so much time going through all of my comments and coming up with responses for each of them is so heartwarming 🥲 Thank you for all your time spent thinking about me
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 08:42 AM
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Ur not my dad, u can’t tell me what to do
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 06:59 AM
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I never said I wasn’t humbled ☠️☠️☠️ omg girl ur killing me I let my actions speak for me during my competition, I let my actions speak for me on the mat. I never said I could beat every single man that’s bigger than me, I only ever said that I have done so in my class with men that have a significant size difference and advantage over me. But as I am the only woman in my gym of entirely men, I have no choice but to get good at my technique. But I’m still just a white belt, I get my ass handed t…
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 06:53 AM
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Srry but I don’t need you and ur husband coming to murder me :3
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 06:25 AM
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Lol uh, yea duh, I had only just been doing this for 3 months
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 06:25 AM
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Which btw, took bronze for my first competition in gi after only being in bjj for 3 months.
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 06:14 AM
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Promise you, I wish there were women in my class. Only chance I have of women being in class is if they hold over from kick boxing, otherwise I’m it.
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 06:10 AM
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I have big guys in my gym that I can do that with, I’m the only woman in a gym of 40 men. I’m 5’3 and 130lbs, next smallest guy is 5’10 and 180lbs, our weight lifters that I roll with are 6’5 and 300 lbs lol
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 06:04 AM
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You just told me your husband would murder me ☠️☠️☠️ that’s not exactly a very enticing invitation
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 05:57 AM
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K. Need to clarify some things me thinks. I realize there are physiological differences between men and women, but yes, bjj technique can be used to dominate men and women of significant size differences. I’m not saying there are no differences between men and women lol that’s not even close to what I’m trying to convey here.
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 05:56 AM
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Seeing as I’ve never done mauy Thai a day in my life, yea, you probably would. Wouldn’t exactly be a fair fight, just like how I would probably dominate over someone else who doesn’t do bjj as much and as often as I do. Lol I don’t travel out that way. Too hot for my liking.
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 05:53 AM
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When did I say that Ur killing me rn lol ☠️☠️☠️
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 05:51 AM
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Just admit that you’re googling things about bjj and you have no idea what you’re talking about sweet cheeks U wanna roll, stop hiding behind your husband and come roll with me 😘
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 05:45 AM
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Gabi Garcia juices like no one else, she still lost And that was in absolute
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 05:43 AM
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I literally posted a video of Ronda taking down a black belt man
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 05:42 AM
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Someone hasn’t heard of BJJ Absolute in tournaments ☠️☠️☠️ But pls, go off queen
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 05:42 AM
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☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️ Go off, Queen, I’m sure you know exactly what you’re talking about Nvm wanting championships in every weight class because he can lol
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 05:39 AM
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Lol no, I’m not Gabi Garcia. Of which is part of the conversation that you still keep avoiding, because it proves my point lmao For your viewing pleasure; Gabi Garcia standing at 6’2 at 236lbs, getting her ass handed to her by Amanda Leve sitting at a 5’6 and 153 lbs.
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 05:39 AM
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☠️☠️☠️ What else is it supposed to mean?
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 05:33 AM
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The key defining characteristic of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu was its ability to defeat bigger stronger opponents with ease. Now, this is a claim that most martial arts have. However, only a few can really deliver on that promise. Luckily, BJJ is among those that truly can allow a smaller and physically weaker person to finish a much stronger and bigger opponent. Actually, beating bigger guys (or girls) is the reason BJJ came to be. As such, it is still just as effective today, even if your opponent is…
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 05:26 AM
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And you mean like this one, where she taps a black belt man?
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 05:23 AM
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so you’re husband would want to murder me because he’s twice my size ☠️☠️☠️ I never said I fuck them up, but I do tap them out. ☺️
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 05:22 AM
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Jiu jitsu is literally the sport that’s supposed to be for the smol people, and technique matters way more than size. It’s the reason why Gabi Garcia got her ass handed to her by Amanda Leve, even when there is a massive size difference. Same thing happened again when Amy Campo took her out during ADCC. Us small ladies can take bigger men & women out with bjj, we just need to have better technique. I didn’t say that women held a large portion of the industry, I just said it was possible for a wo…
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 05:20 AM
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Why would your husband want to beat me to death ☠️☠️☠️ Y’all are wild
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 05:12 AM
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Wat …a woman can learn mechanic skills from another woman. The college I went to had multiple women as professors with women in the class. Lol someone has never heard of martial arts like jiu jitsu. I take out men twice my size all the time in class, would have no issue doing it out in the real world if needed. Also, guns are a thing. As well as multiple people responding for a violent crime.
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 03:01 AM
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Why would I speak about any other genitalia outside of the one that’s been shown during the protest Lol y’all are wild
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/22 06:32 AM
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Yes, seeing a penis of a fully grown man as a small child can in fact incite trauma. Kind of you to say what victims should be allowed to say is traumatic tho. Go off king
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/22 04:40 AM
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Oh I know, but the more time I take up of theirs, the less they have to spread their nasty attitude elsewhere
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/22 04:39 AM
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Uhhhh when you call 911, I answer, and I’m a woman, and the people who respond in my department are half women and the other half men sooooooo When you call 911, you get… women. And men. For relationships, have you ever heard of gay and lesbian couples, because last I heard, they get along great without men and women, because they’re with, ya know, the same sex. Not to mention, I make as much as my husband (we both make over $120,000 a year) and he doesn’t pay my bill, because I do :) Oh, and we…
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/22 04:46 PM
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Uhhhh when you call 911, I answer, and I’m a woman, and the people who respond in my department are half women and the other half men sooooooo When you call 911, you get… women. And men. For relationships, have you ever heard of gay and lesbian couples, because last I heard, they get along great without men and women, because they’re with, ya know, the same sex. Not to mention, I make as much as my husband (we both make over $120,000 a year) and he doesn’t pay my bill, because I do :) Oh, and we…
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/22 04:45 PM
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Well I appreciate you thinking about me in such detailed ways! Tho I don’t understand why me being married makes me a skank, but we all have our reasons :) Have a wonderful day!
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/22 04:29 PM
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Well at least me showing my monkey butt lips won’t get me labeled as a sexual predator
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/22 02:58 PM
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It’s the best feeling, knowing that you’ve won an argument when your opponent can no longer speak their side and resorts to attacking physical attributes. Thank you for giving me the opportunity for me to talk, it was a pleasure. Have a wonderful day! P.s. my husband just LOVES these DSLs
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/22 02:51 PM
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Or or or… the man who committed an actual and legitimate crime just keeps his dick in his pants. We can argue morality all day long, but the fact is, only one person actually committed a crime here, and that same person is now labeled a sexual predator.
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/22 02:36 PM
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It’s not an argument if only one of us is yelling :) they can reply all they like, I know there’s zero chance of them hearing anything I’m saying beyond their screaming and shouting. Doesn’t mean I can’t try!
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/22 02:31 PM
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☠️☠️☠️☠️ ✨Imagine✨, saying a child’s psych is at risk for going to a protest before saying a child’s psych is at risk for seeing a grown man’s dick. Y’all are wild
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/22 02:29 PM
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Amazing. Imagine thinking that the trauma of seeing an adult man’s dick as a child is a better fate than having a feminist mother. Well, one of those people will be listed as a sex offender. The other will be labeled a feminist degenerate… But I’m sure you will say that being a feminist is worse than a sexual predator, but do go off king.
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/22 02:18 PM
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Either way, my point still stands. Regardless of why childless and single women do better than their male counterparts, women are better off pursuing a career on their own without men. Meaning; women are perfectly capable of living on their own, and per the article, do better than men in regards to salary when they are alone.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 01:21 PM
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I’m not complaining ☠️ I’m responding to his point that we need women to exist to exclusively bear children, but he has since deleted it. My argument is that the article states women do better than men when they don’t have a spouse or child, so him saying women need to bear children and rely on men for protection is not true.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 09:22 PM
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…And the article argues that women do better than men when they’re childless and unmarried. So, what’s your point here?
/r/MensRights04/10/22 08:57 PM
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I work for a police department, we take every case seriously that comes in, and there is more training being done across the nation to better equip police officers with how to handle sex assault cases.
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 04:10 AM
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The statistics I listed have nothing to do with my personal opinion, they’re just statistics. And with how employers are required to report their employee demographics, it’s not that hard to get statistics. Regardless, it doesn’t take away the fact that women make up the vast majority of consumers. If women stop buying things, the economy would suffer.
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 02:42 AM
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I’m not disagreeing that men are the largest percentage of murder victims, but that still doesn’t take away the fact that men are still the largest murder offenders. Out of 1,000 rapes that are reported, 975 rapists will walk free. And in regards to the definition of rape, that’s no longer the case. This was updated under the 10 U.S. Code § 920 - Art. 120. Rape and sexual assault generally (a) Rape.—Any person subject to this chapter who commits a sexual act upon another person by— (1) using unl…
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 02:32 AM
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The statistics I listed is specified as sexual abuse, which follows the definition I laid out above. The definition was updated as of 2014, and the study was conducted in 2018.
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 02:31 AM
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Actually that’s no longer the case. This was updated under the 10 U.S. Code § 920 - Art. 120. Rape and sexual assault generally (a) Rape.—Any person subject to this chapter who commits a sexual act upon another person by— (1) using unlawful force against that other person; (2) using force causing or likely to cause death or grievous bodily harm to any person; (3) threatening or placing that other person in fear that any person will be subjected to death, grievous bodily harm, or kidnapping; (4) …
/r/AntiFeminists24/05/22 11:53 PM
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As of February 2020, women make up more than 50% of the workforce. So I would assume they get the money from that.
/r/AntiFeminists24/05/22 11:42 PM
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As of 2020, women now hold more than 50.04% of the jobs in the workforce. And infrastructure accounts for only 2.5% of the economy.
/r/AntiFeminists24/05/22 11:35 PM
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Nearly 92.1% of rape offenders are men, and 90.3% of murder offenders are men.
/r/AntiFeminists24/05/22 09:33 PM
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That’s not necessarily true. Women make up more than 85% of the consumer purchases in the United States, and reputedly influence over 95% of total goods and services purchased
/r/AntiFeminists24/05/22 09:07 PM
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I find it hard to believe that you’re approaching anyone when you’re spending literally hours of your day posting on this subreddit lol
/r/seduction17/03/22 04:45 AM
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That’s who I’m more so referring to- the extreme opinions. You and I will both have a bias, if you think TRP is beneficial while I see it as harmful, you’ll be less inclined to see the negative whereas I’ll mostly see the negative. All I’ll say is I very highly doubt that neither groups are very successful with their tactics, otherwise there wouldn’t really be such a massive following for the both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:41 AM
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All I’m saying is that they’re their own demise at this point. It’s so easy to blame everyone else for why dating is hard, but as a person who needed a massive self makeover, it gets so much better when you work on yourself instead of expecting the perfect person to waltz into your life without any issues cropping up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:32 AM
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Honestly both subs have become so unproductive because they mostly consist of jaded assholes. What people forget is that the biggest thing that you can control is your own self improvement, but most people don’t like looking at that because that means that there’s something flawed about them. When that’s not true, but no, no one is perfect. If you expect perfection, you best be expecting to also GIVE perfection. I really don’t like either of the groups because they’re breeding grounds for very e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:18 AM
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Honestly I find the principals to be okay. They were even a useful tool for me to establish some more secure ground rules in my marriage (and actually helped it to flourish), but it’s when these jaded women go “I’m going to abide by every single rule and have zero flexibility because dick is worthless” was when I said I’m out. I’m married, so I didn’t need the sub for finding a relationship, but I was on a journey of bettering myself for both myself and my marriage. I remember posting something …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:07 AM
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It’s literally the same premise for the extremists on both ends: “I’ve had a bad experience with x gender, let me bitch about it” If you only pay attention to the bad apples, that’s all you’re going to find. Not that I’m defending FDS because I don’t associate with them. But both of the groups are just a big ole bitch sesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:47 AM
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I’ve literally been told by a man “I wouldn’t have any respect for you if you would have let me sleep with you in the first week”. Said man did not get to have sex with me. Am now married to a man that doesn’t say bullshit like that, and treats me far better than anyone else in my life ever had. But to answer your question, this is why women might not have sex with someone right away if they see a future with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:40 AM
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Lmfao confident are we?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:58 AM
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Uhhhh wut lol I would love to hear how not committing only hurts women. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:57 AM
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I was addressing that sex is not a need. Because it isn’t. It’s a want. You can survive without one but not without the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:07 AM
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I mean, I’ve always had a super high libido, but I think I have a hormone imbalance 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:43 PM
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Okay… not having a job is not being able to eat, and maybe risking homelessness. If you don’t have sex, you don’t end up homeless. You don’t starve. Do y’all seriously believe that sex is as necessary as a roof over your head and food in your stomach? Cause if you lose one, welp, you die. If you lose the other, I promise you, of everything that may happen, death ain’t one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:22 PM
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O rly? How :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:18 PM
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Welp, FDS isn’t exactly the epitome of all women. The bottom line is that you shouldn’t leave your partner just because they have medical problems that interfere with sex. That’s just cruel. But lmao no, but you’re nearly 90% more likely to be left if you’re a woman with medical issues over a man. So I would definitely say that this is a woman’s issue. https://www.cfha.net/blogpost/753286/162092/Why-do-men-divorce-their-sick-wives
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:13 PM
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I am curious though, how do you feel when you see men in the same boat that complain about it the way that they do? I’ve never once seen you complain about it that I can remember lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:08 AM
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You know she’s right, so all you can come up with is critiquing her spelling?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:32 AM
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If it’s was no biggie, I wouldn’t be in the 13th percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:05 AM
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Says women are being given all handouts over men & men can’t get a leg up Says women shouldn’t be upset when they’re passed up for promotions for “more deserving men” Clearly you did not read the articles I posted & aren’t taking the time, so there’s no point in wasting more of my time on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:25 AM
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See, that’s reasonable. I absolutely do not think anyone should be miserable when it’s avoidable. But when you love someone and things get hard, you promised to be there for them. It breaks my damn heart when I see people do that to each other, I just don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:34 PM
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Would you do what he did? I’m not saying people don’t deserve to not have fulfilling sex lives with their partners. I’ve been there. It sucks. But abandoning your sick partner for lack of sex is beyond shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:03 PM
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As long as both parties at least try to make the other person climax, that’s what’s more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:04 PM
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Bingoooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:03 PM
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Well… it depends on the context. Do I think it’s right that there’s such a significant orgasm gap? No, not at all. Do I think it’s realistic to expect both people to orgasm 100% of the time? Not even close. My husband and I still have amazing sex even when I don’t orgasm, but he still tries to every single time with foreplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:52 PM
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Why would you want to have sex with a hot women if she’s not enjoying it? Is the status symbol of hot women really more important to mens egos than to actually perform well enough for the women to enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:30 PM
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Maybe out of curtesy, but I don’t mean to say that males need to. My husband and I will trade off from time to time on who pays, because we both make a good income. When we first started dating, and he made significantly more than I did, he was far more likely to pay. Sometimes he wouldn’t let me, even when I was often the first to bring out my wallet. Now I pay for most, if not all, dates. I don’t have bills to pay for because my husband won’t let me (doesn’t stop me from still depositing money…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:26 PM
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The actual funny part is that women bring up history without having to experience this themselves at all. So you want benefits for the "suffering" of other women while you want men to suck it up because till decades ago other men had it better? Well you know that this isn't how it supposed to work don't you? So, kind of like how men like to bring up how it’s easy being a women, even though you’ve never experienced being a woman? Just like how I can’t even begin to fathom what it’s like being a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:10 AM
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Y’all do realize that “feminism” is literally just a range of social movements, political movements, and ideologies that aim to define and establish the political, economic, personal, and social equality of the sexes… right? So I don’t get what the point is of bringing that up. It’s just leveling the playing ground for women when men have always been the ones to see far more benefits for just being born the way they were, if you were a white male. My favorite joke has always been “if you’re a wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:56 AM
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I’m saying my situation is common, not my income. I make more than most men, too. I’m in the top 13%.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:18 AM
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:3 Good thing I don’t need to prove anything
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:16 AM
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Ight :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:05 PM
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You’re joking, right? Science has always been male study centered.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:52 PM
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Lmao idk did you read what you wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:48 PM
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Also you’re a fucking kid, get out of here lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:37 PM
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I… literally said not almost every girl is attractive. Y’all are bitter and if y’all are good at anything, it’s projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:37 PM
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My favorite is when all of these comments have venom behind them, you ask them if they would do what they’re sympathizing with, and every time it’s a “well I mean I wouldn’t*…. Yea, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:41 AM
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You must be such a kind soul to dedicate so much of your time to me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:40 AM
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I really pushed your buttons huh skipper?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:34 AM
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But you’re also using the logic that women are seeking men out for their money/job security, which is not nearly the case. You blaming the fallout of men having a lack of women to sleep with is a multifaceted issue that doesn’t just have one component to it; and they’re all not related to women either. Women make up 41% of US head of households, and that still continues to grow. Women now also hold more jobs than men across the board. We are leading in college education rates. So if women are ed…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:39 AM
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Some of the comments on here appear to disagree with you on that one 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:10 AM
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Well maybe if those men just aren’t able to sleep with women, it’s best that their genes not be passed on then, if I’m using the same principle that you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:09 AM
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Why are you fixated on the total amount contributed? If I pay a higher percentage of my income into taxes, which I more than likely do because of my location, why does that entitle you to more services? I have a lower percentage of my income available to me because I contribute more in taxes. When you factor in income differences, if person A is making more than person B, person A may be paying in more money wise, but they’re losing less of their income percentage and have more of their own inco…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:38 AM
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And I love that you conveniently highlight that women make less than men dollar for dollar as if we’re crying about it, and then use it to say “see, men inherently pay more”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:27 AM
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Most dangerous invention to date… because it benefits women? Never mind the atomic bomb, which has a very real possibility to end all life on earth, like… now. But sure. Social media is the most dangerous invention created by man. Nah man, I pay 24% in federal taxes, and additional 5% in Illinois income tax, 10.32% sales tax on top of a 6% sales tax, nearly $10,000 a year in homeowners tax, I even pay taxes on my raw groceries, the list goes on. If anyone is contributing their fair share, I win …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:24 AM
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I cut it out because it wasn’t relevant to what you were going with. What does men holding primarily all construction positions have to do with y’all not benefiting from taxes? I pay in probably significantly more in taxes than you do (Crook County ftw) in percentage alone. Lmao women “accidentally evolved faster than men” okay bub. How is that accidental?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:24 AM
1

You drive on roads don’t you? Have you ever used the police department? Fire department? K-12 school system?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:30 AM
1

Where is my cut of those taxes then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:25 AM
2

Lmao the irony here “She has cancer, he should go and fuck other women.” “He has limp dick, she should wait for him to maybe fix things!”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:00 AM
1

Do the bottom 30% have any entitlement to sex? Do women have any reason to sleep with the bottom 30% of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:09 PM
2

The comments that some people have posted while adding context that wasn’t there indicates that yes, some people are pissed off at lil ole Barb.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:04 PM
5

And that’s perfectly normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:00 PM
1

Again. If you read the whole comment, I said primarily for abuse, but I digress.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:58 PM
2

And you’re point is? If you say a woman holds less value due to her fertility, welp, we got science.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:56 PM
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I use it for reference, it helps me better understand who I’m talking to. You’re free to do the same to me, as anyone else is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:54 PM
3

… did you read the whole comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:53 PM
2

Okay, then please expand on why else women are successful. I’m not talking primitive functions. None of this is that to me. I’m not with my husband because I want to mate with him; if he told me he never wanted kids, great, cool. I don’t view him as attractive due to his “sexual market value” cause I didn’t shop at fucking Boys R Us. That’s not why I fell in love with him. You’re reducing it to barbaric levels of intelligence; do you really just view human beings to be only as valuable as your d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:44 PM
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I want sex more than he does. I could go at it 5 times a day. He is more comfortable with every other day. We compromise. If he stopped wanting it or had health issues, my ass is staying put. There’s not a chance in hell that I would choose to abandon my husband that is outside of cheating or abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:36 PM
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I regret doing this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:34 PM
1

That we are black and white. Human beings are socially complex beings. Could you honestly say that you perfectly fit into every mold that you feel women stereotype you into? Again, we are not black and white. That we are animalistic in nature. Come on, give us more credit than that. Of course we have basic needs, I’m not saying that we don’t. But it’s not just about x y z values for every women on a cellular level. That we have nothing of value to say. Well, I guess a post asking this question d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:32 PM
2

Also, your 17, get off of sites like this. What are you even doing here Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:21 PM
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Lmao you lost me at women are only successful due to feminist politics. Is it that far fetched that gasps in Spanish women are just individuals who can do things? Seeing as women dominate the work force, I highly doubt that if men wanted to control what women could do, that men would let it get that fair. Don’t kid yourself. You don’t need to know his “sexual value” nor mine. Because we’re not dogs. But if you want to lower yourself to a primitive level, be my guest. You’re not doing yourself an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:21 PM
1

Well, would you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:17 PM
1

Lmao okay that’s where I exit. Kid, get the fuck off of here. This is where souls go to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:17 PM
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I was married to someone that physically did that to me. There’s no “scenario” when I have lived that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:14 PM
1

Ah, maybe you’re a 16 year old boy then. My mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:13 PM
10

It’s exhausting honestly. Unfortunately not exhausting enough to knock me the fuck out for night shift 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:11 PM
1

I would never do either to my husband. I am not saying one is right or one is wrong. If you look at my previous comments, I’m against abandoning your spouse, period. This had come as a result of me being done with the other commenter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:10 PM
1

Is English your second language?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:07 PM
1

Decent human beings usually don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:06 PM
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Well, common denomination also includes men just not using women as a way for sexual gratification. Can’t have one without the other. You putting blame on women only perpetuates the image of “women are the problem” when it’s not as simple as that. It’s not black and white. And until people start looking at it otherwise, issues will be polarized, and men will be no further than y’all are right now. Men using spaces like these are holding yourselves back. But it’s better being in a familiar & east…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:05 PM
0

… You’re grasping at straws. Bottom line is are you willing to do that to someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:01 PM
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If you can admit that you wouldn’t do it because of how shitty it is, then I don’t need to say much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:55 PM
2

I didn’t claim it was lousy. Is English your second language or?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:54 PM
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Cute for you to think you would be allowed to tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:54 PM
4

Great! I don’t want you to. That’s why I’m married to my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:53 PM
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Lmfao dude. As a vagina haver, I can tell you for a certain fact, it doesn’t take rape for someone to just jam their dick in there without much warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:52 PM
1

Or when their dick goes limp.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:50 PM
1

I don’t care for stirring the pot. I am however stubborn, and have a hard time empathizing with people who don’t see their very own juxtaposition; “my issues matter because they impact me, but their issues don’t exist so screw them”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:49 PM
2

lol I’m sorry but men seeing a child and thinking they’re entitled to that child’s body way outweighs perpetual virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:46 PM
2

That’s not necessarily true, and is extremely polarizing of such a complex issue. Some places it’s 1.9 divorces per 1000 marriages, others it’s 5 per 1000.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:45 PM
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1) no one is entitled to your body, period. 2) Yes, if you promise to give your life to your partner, you should fight like hell. People who flop over and give up are sad. 3) again. No one. Is. Entitled. To. Your. Body. 4) my husband and I go at it twice a day. We’re fine. 5) Stop thinking so black and white. People are complex social beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:42 PM
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1) no one holds more value as a human being because of what’s between their legs 2) No, not almost all girls are attractive 3) More woman dominate the workforce & hold far more college education than men so, not unsuccessful in the slightest. 4) women no longer look to men for security. Maybe some do. But women are supporting themselves, which is the reason women’s standards are higher. Why am I going to lower my standards for the below average guy? I make $80k a year, have a house, a sick ass c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:38 PM
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Do… do you know how a vagina works? If a woman isn’t aroused, and someone just jams their penis in there, yea, it hurts like a mother fuck. Stick something up your but without lube. Now do it again with lube. Tell me which one hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:36 PM
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That’s based on your own values. Not mine. I could never imagine telling my husband “if you don’t have sex with me as much as I want, you’re inadequate for me and I will go outside of our marriage” That’s selfish to me. I respect my husband and myself far more than my want for my selfish desires. I have a way higher libido than he does, and would love to go at it with him 5 times a day, where he’s comfortable at every other day. But unless it’s with him, it means nothing. I vowed myself to him f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:34 PM
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Am confused; while I do agree with the sentiment, I was more so referring to how women are far more likely to be abandoned by their husbands than the other way around. It’s sad. I could never abandon my husband. I couldn’t even imagine leaving him, outside of abuse or domestic violence. Maybe that’s why I just can’t empathize with someone abandoning their spouse when they are already at their lowest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:24 PM
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I think we need to stop looking at what people do for one another as an exchange of services. I don’t mean to say that as “don’t pay attention to what they’re doing for you” because that’s how you get taken advantage of. But more so - people have so many different ways of saying I love you/I care about you, that when you only look at it as time/money spent, you’re diluting the whole thing and reducing it to just favors. I refuse to keep tally’s on what my husband has and hasn’t done for me. He b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:18 PM
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Here’s the whole thing: “That’s… not the discussion I’m trying to have with this. This is more focused on the anger I see coming from men who are upset that women won’t lower their standards for below average men. But I digress, and I agree with you. No one ever owes anyone sex, in any instance. And no one ever owes anyone else their body. Actually just had a similar conversation about a man asking if he was in the right for wanting to leave his wife of nearly 20 years because she now suffers fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:05 PM
2

…….. Did you even read the very first comment you replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:04 PM
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That isn’t gaslighting. Gaslighting is when I say “apples are good” You say “oh yea, you’re right Apples are good” Then I say “I didn’t say apples are good. They’re disgusting. Stay away from me if you eat apples.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:03 PM
2

Yea buddy. Reddit, especially not this fucking place, is any indication of reactions in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:01 PM
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And secondly, that wasn’t a reply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:01 PM
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If it is by choice. Not if the spouse is sick. Then you’re just abandoning them. There is a difference, it only takes being a human being to realize what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:00 PM
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Have you ever been asked if you were a prostitute in person by a women who was uncomfortably close to you? As a child, we’re you ogled at on a regular basis and invited into women’s houses that were the same age as your mother? Not all men are entitled. But to say men aren’t entitled is oblivious. You’re catering to the woe is me mentality and circle jerk, because that’s what’s easy. Men have thought they were entitled to me and my body. Both as a little girl, and as a grown ass woman. You just …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:59 PM
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If it works for you, then great.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:54 PM
5

How did I try to tear down your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:52 PM
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I was literally done wasting my time on him. Nothing I said would change his views. But would I ever leave my husband? Short of abuse or cheating, he’s stuck with me for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:49 PM
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Lmfao yet you ignore the guy I was replying to. If you look at my comment history, I’m vehemently against abandoning your spouse. But of course, I’m sure that will get cherry picked to fit the “fuck women” narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:48 PM
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Uh, ya. My husband fits all of them. We compliment each other, we don’t need each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:47 PM
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Who is “no one”? If you leave your spouse because they’re sick, you’re a piece of shit. All because “well they did it, so fuck them” is so fucking childish. Just treat people like goddamn people, how about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:46 PM
1

Apologizes, I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:45 PM
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You should check my post history for my last one hit wonder! It ruffled tons of feather lol Was actually one of the most positive conversations I’ve had on here. I honestly have to take breaks from this place. I refuse to let the sad tiny men here skew my perception of men as a whole, because I realize that this is not reality, and most angry men are just the most vocal. I wouldn’t be surprised if a lot of the active accounts were just the same people with different usernames. But fuck man. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:45 PM
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Bottom of page 2, last paragraph. Won’t read study -Automatically disregards study as invalid because it proves my point as a recent study and not one that’s over a decade old, and done by a reputable university. Classy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:40 PM
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https://www.brides.com/story/40-percent-of-households-are-now-headed-by-women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:35 PM
1

Goddamn dude. You would think I was speaking blasphemy in the Vatican.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:33 PM
3

Great, happy 4 him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:32 PM
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Nah, we have sex twice a day, every day. And that’s husband*. Our marriage is great, thank you for thinking of us. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:32 PM
2

I mean, it does. Just a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:31 PM
1

Uhhh I’ve never seen a man being called a rapist or an incel except for on Reddit so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:31 PM
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Agreed. You don’t owe anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:30 PM
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I can get on board with that. Honestly that’s how I personally took myself from being just above average to where I’m at now. Being the best I could be of myself blew every surgery, diet, skincare routine out of the water, because everything else naturally followed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:29 PM
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Good for you :) Happy for u boo boo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:28 PM
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FDS is the female equivalent of this sub. It’s a bitch fest of subpar women complaining and refusing to acknowledge they need to get the fuck up and change their own situation. No different from here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:26 PM
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He wanna get his dick wet and abandon me when I’m physically incapable of doing anything? Shit, I’ll pack his bags for him. Get out of my house then. :) not worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:24 PM
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…”Primarily because he was an abusive twat waffle” Y’all really will cherry pick the fuck out of everything to fit your self deprecating pity party.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:22 PM
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Lmfao bruh Because you can’t get your dick wet, that outweighs every single hardship that women have ever faced Get a damn grip bro. Toodles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:21 PM
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Because you view your wife as a way of sexual gratification over being a human being that you promised your life to, and her to you. “For better, and for worse, except if I can’t get my dick wet”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:20 PM
1

Breadwinners in 41% of dual income households are still women. So in 41% of those scenarios, the women do pay the actual bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:18 PM
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Well, then I guess no one is getting laid. My point is: women don’t care what men want as much as it used to matter. Women don’t need to pander to the ideal male partner who would bring her security in life. My point is: women have options now. And men are competing with women in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:17 PM
1

Well, then you’re doing something right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:15 PM
1

Eh, I’m married to the love of my life, make $80k a year, and drive a badass car with a sports bike to match. I’m pretty content with my life. If you’re happy, that makes me happy. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:15 PM
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Yea. So leave. No one is forcing you to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:14 PM
1

My op was about below average men expecting average women to settle with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:13 PM
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Actually the average birthrate for first time mothers has surpassed 30s over 20s for the first time in history. Also the study you’re referring to is over a decade old, and is based on OkCupid of all things. Whereas this study clearly shows that average men are far more likely to get lucky with online dating, even over their high status counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:12 PM
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You’re correct, and perception is always going to vary. That’s why survey based scientific studies have to be incredibly strict with their criteria in order to be valid. Calls out a woman for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:09 PM
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You know what I did when I was married to a man who couldn’t keep up with me? I left. Primarily because he was an abusive twat waffle, but I digress. I feel sorry as fuck for your wife. But as long as she agrees, then welp, ain’t my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:07 PM
2

I just………. Lol just don’t get married then man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:05 PM
1

Jesus Christ. You would think this would be basic common knowledge. It’s really not that hard to just build on yourself. I’m not saying it’s not hard to date… but if you at least work on yourself you’re at least giving yourself a chance. Ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:04 PM
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Lmao they took 150,000 profiles. You didn’t even open it. Keep crying instead of improving yourself. You’re the only one that suffers there, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:03 PM
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That’s a whole ass can of worms I’m not opening. Make sure you have that discussion with any woman you see yourself with. Give them plenty of room to nope the fuck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:02 PM
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Well when women bring income, education, and no longer rely on men just for the bare minimum of financial security, what did you think was going to happen? I, like the majority of women now, support myself. The income margin between myself and my husband is minuscule. The fact is I don’t need him to support me to live my lifestyle, I want him there. That’s the massive picture that some men refuse to look at. You making money means nothing to me, and nothing to most women. If you care to look.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:00 PM
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If 50% of the population is average, you still have 49.99% under that threshold. More than likely, you’re probably below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:57 AM
1

Well if you’re not willing to have an open dialogue, there’s nothing more to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:56 AM
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Women are picking up the slack for bills, along with literally… everything else. 37% of women pay the bills, vs 34% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:55 AM
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Uhhh, I haven’t downvoted anything. I’ve been too busy with commenting back and replying. And actually no, I’m not. Women now hold more jobs than men in the work force. They also account for 41% of breadwinners in dual income houses, and are beginning to out earn men by considerable margins. If you care to look.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:53 AM
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If you read the Oxford Uni study, they touch on this: “There are “superstar” users who attract lots of attention and matches on any given platform. In some cases, the top 5 percent of all men on a platform receives twice as many messages as the next 5 percent and several times as many messages as all the other men (Oyer, 2014). But it would be incorrect to assume these superstars would be universally appealing to all users and that popularity alone determines matches. Instead, it could be useful…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:49 AM
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One is an easy fix, the other is permanent and of no fault to their own. If you’re really shallow enough to leave a partner that you promised your life to because they’re sick and can no longer serve your sexual needs, well. I have no words for you. Sexual incompatibility is one thing; if one person just won’t have sex with you & refuses to work on that, I get it. That is that persons own doing. But to leave your sick wife? That’s disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:44 AM
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Well 1) you are worth it. You’re physical looks do not define you as a person. I’m not saying that to just fluff you up and say “YOU GO GLEN COCOA”, you have to work with reality and work with what you have. Looking at your posts, I see you’re from India, which I’m not familiar with dating culture there but my friend who’s from there has told me it’s incredibly difficult for men because of the population difference. I want you to watch this girl. she goes from looking like she’s 65 to a goddamn …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:41 AM
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Just take your time. Really, people can wait. Just keep building yourself up. If you have a solid foundation, building on that is just so much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:35 AM
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No where prestigious, I couldn’t afford it. Local colleges were all I could afford, so I ran with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:34 AM
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When women are career oriented and making more money than their male counterparts, I think they’re just waiting for someone worthwhile that doesn’t just want a quick bang. They’re looking for someone who isn’t a total waste of their time. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:32 AM
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I think that since women were so undervalued for such an extensive amount of history, that’s where a lot of this high threshold standards are coming from. There’s also the aspect that as online dating has become this massive giant, men have very little reason to want to commit to a ltr when they could just find a new woman every week. That’s the plan, at least. So while I think you may be right in some respect that women are setting the bar high because they want their respective partners to sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:28 AM
1

I would really hope that you’re not trying to rationalize abandoning your spouse over medical issues. That’s a low even I would hope not to find here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:08 AM
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Okay, so why aren’t men picking up the slack at home then? I don’t work a “risky job”, I take 911 calls and mitigate resources like police & fire. But I work 12 hour days, 6 days a week. My husband works a 24 hour shift, then is off for 48. We balance it out. But neither of us wants to do it even if it’s “easy” which idk about you, but still spending hours on making the house borderline presentable and dealing with laundry after working 12 hours doesn’t seem “easy” when you’re exhausted from wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:06 AM
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My point was: mens values have not changed. Women’s have, because our value that we bring is evening the income gap. I have no incentive to settle for an average man, and didn’t. Because I have no reason to look for someone with financial security. That is the reality that most women live in now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:02 AM
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Came from a teen mom & lived extremely impoverished for most of my life until I moved out at 18 and have been on my own since. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:59 AM
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Lol K, as long as husband doesn’t get to touch my million dollar retirement fund or my pension, my vehicles, or my house. You’re forgetting that more and more women are the breadwinner of households now. That’s the whole argument I’m making. Women aren’t settling for below average men because they support themselves, and have little reason for settling with someone just because they have financial security.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:58 AM
2

Well… yea, you shouldn’t be in a relationship that you’re not happy with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:56 AM
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Okay, and I looked into that study that you’re referring to. The primary reason for less sex in the past year for men has been the pandemic. That has been a major issue. Men are far more likely to not stay with one person and instead prefer to have multiple partners at once. With covid preventing people from getting together, particularly amongst strangers, if you didn’t stick with the same partner you weren’t having as much, if any sex. Women on the other hand are much more likely to stick with…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:55 AM
3

Lmao she’s sick tf do you want her to do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:51 AM
1

Seriously dude, I went from being miserable, acne riden, overweight, making $14 an hour as a pastry chef to fit, confident, mentally & physically healthy, with my own car, sports bike, house, & a husband with 2 adorable dogs, and a career as a 911 dispatcher making $80k a year. I did that in 5 years. You got time :) Just work on yourself. It took me working through nearly 100 people to find my husband. It was worth it. Honestly if I have one piece of advice for you: see a therapist, don’t worry …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:50 AM
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Lol if you leave your wife that gave you children because she didn’t lose the baby weight right away, you’re a piece of shit. End of story. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:46 AM
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You’re correct about that, I had to go back and asses different sources that I linked. The Florida uni one is debatable, but I still believe it may have some merit. But that also could be my own personal bias. Trying to dig around more, and I was finding it very difficult to find an easy read on the study that wasn’t just click bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:45 AM
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I really do think that’s the case though. I’m not going to say dating is easy for men, I’m not a man, I don’t have a leg in that argument. But is dating as impossible as is echoed here? Far from it. I think that this platform is making men far more reluctant to take any chances due to some “horror stories” that seem so far fetched, it seems far more plausible that a few high school students are trying to one up one another. But it’s creating actual consequences, ie men who are actually average n…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:43 AM
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I would argue women are still bringing more to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:36 AM
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Calm down, edgelord.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:36 AM
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Not when women don’t need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:34 AM
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Jesus Christ thank you. I think you’re the first one to read the whole thing lol and this is actually what I started to get at in my comments, but probably should have added it into the op. I do think that average men aren’t having as much of an issue as ppd makes it out to be, and Oxford university actually did an in-depth study of 150,000 dating profiles via eHarmony that had showed average men are actually far more likely to receive messages in comparison to above average status men. It’s def…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:34 AM
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But see, what you’re doing is having an open dialogue about it. You’re already miles ahead of others who refuse to talk about it, and would rather just scream and yell. I’ll kind of echo what I said before; but part of that, at least for me, was improving my mental health. I’ve never been unattractive, but I was overweight, depressed, anxiety was a motherfuck, and my confidence was sub par at best. I had acne well into my 20s, and I fucking hated myself. I thought I was ugly as fuck, but looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:14 AM
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You know what happens when people compete for a job and person A has experience & education, while person B barely made it through high school, did the bare minimum, and hasn’t kept a job for more than a few months within the past 10 years, but still demands the same salary as person A? Person A gets a paycheck, and person B gets laughed out of the building. Person B then cries about how employers aren’t fair, how he’s just as capable as person A, but employers are just refusing to look past his…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:06 AM
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Nah. I don’t need to. And I never said all men, I’m saying below average men that complain on platforms like this. That’s the demographic I’m inferring.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:59 AM
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Been going 7 years strong now so I would assume so. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:58 AM
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The full study is far more inclusive of the data they collected, but I figured most wouldn’t read such a long abstract.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:57 AM
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I never said anyone was worthless or needed education nor do I think that way 🤷🏼‍♀️ But if that’s what you got from what I said, I can’t control your thought process.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:56 AM
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Uh well, yea, I wouldn’t expect him to stay with me if he didn’t find I was compatible with him. Just as I would have done the same if he wasn’t worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:51 AM
2

Recent studies show that women actually are happier with less attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:49 AM
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Well I mean… my husband did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:44 AM
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They are out there! I think the dating scene has really been shattered to shambles since online dating has boomed so much. I was lucky to meet my husband on tinder, no less. But even though I matched with upwards of 300 men, nearly all of them that actually even said anything filtered themselves right the fuck out when all they said was “Snapchat?” And “u want some fuk?”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:43 AM
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I believe in you Glen Cocoa!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:39 AM
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Recent studies say otherwise :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:39 AM
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Shhh or else he’ll hear you and come back again
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:35 AM
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I already did, and I found a man that values me as much as I value him so… :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:35 AM
3

Uhhhh not likely, seeing as the average age is nearly 60!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:34 AM
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Nope! You’re far better off than some comments I’ve seen in here lol That’s the normal thing to say and do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:33 AM
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I feel that, and I’m sorry dude. That’s shitty :/ Just keep doing as best as you can. That’s all we can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:32 AM
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It’s a sad reality that’s far from uncommon, unfortunately. One study found that “ in 11.9% of marriages ended after the introduction of these serious illnesses and in 88% of these separations the ill person was the woman, compared to only 12% of men.”%20affirmed%20these%20ideas%20as,to%20only%2012%25%20of%20men.)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:31 AM
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I feel the mental health aspect. Getting with a psychiatrist & a therapist to work on hard seated mental blocks were a turning point for myself. After I was diagnosed with adhd & on a proper medication regiment, my depression & anxiety disappeared. I was able to lose weight, work on my education, and get myself where I am today. I hope things get better for you, but I know that that’s easy for me to wish but hard as fuck to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:22 AM
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Yes, below average men need to stop complaining about women not settling for them. Because their circle jerks are just not true. And studies prove that below average men can get women, but part of the study also refers to said below average men actually work harder to compensate for other areas that they may lack in. “They found that in instances where the man was less attractive he was likely to compensate with acts of kindness like presents, sexual favours or extra housework.” In other words: …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:18 AM
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I’ll quote it for you then, boo boo. There are many elements to a successful relationship – pretending to listen in bed when you've actually been engrossed in your phone for half an hour, for example. When it comes to looks however, most of us are resigned to the fact the other sex are only looking for and happy with the best looking person available. ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW Not the case, according to a new study from Florida State University, which has found relationships are mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:13 AM
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Lol I’m not sleeping with someone until I know that they bring as much to the table as I do. I make $80k a year, have my own car, motorcycle, a house; I support myself. I’m not sleeping with a man until I know for a fact that he is going to bring value to my life. This is the general scenario for the majority of women now. It’s reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:11 AM
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Well then here is that study for you instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:08 AM
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Why if you’re aware of them not just work on them then instead of just counting yourself out entirely?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:06 AM
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That’s more what I was getting at. The people that complain that average won’t settle for them, but they won’t acknowledge that they’re below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:05 AM
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Actually not necessarily true. Average men do exceptionally well, according to the Harvard study of 150,000 heterosexual dating profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:04 AM
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And my favorite comment award goes tooooooo This guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:03 AM
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It’s mostly the vocal ones who are angry about their unattractiveness is where my demographic was. The ones that can’t accept that they’re below average, and that that’s why average women won’t settle for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:02 AM
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Here’s the full study for you then :3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:59 AM
1

There’s a study for that one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:58 AM
2

Linda, listen!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:58 AM
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Lol they both paid for dates, they both spent time on said dates. How is that not an equal exchange?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:56 AM
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Eh, I wouldn’t count yourself out yet. My husband and I are both big into cars, snowboarding, motorcycles, the works. I’m not sure how old you are, but frankly even though I’m good looking, I didn’t really become confident enough in myself to own it until I was about 27 & had lost weight. Before then though, looking back I was still pretty hot, but I wouldn’t have thought so. At all. And the no confidence really did a number on how other perceived me. You really do need to prioritize your mental…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:55 AM
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Study numero uno Aaaaand number 2!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:48 AM
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I’m arguing that if she settled, they would be sexually incompatible, due to lack of sexual attraction. Something that I see a lot of men on this sub in particular mention quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:47 AM
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Actually a study from Harvard says average men receive the most messages, and men are far more harsh when judging women’s looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:46 AM
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The entire study is showing that average men are receiving the most attention & messages. Average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:44 AM
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“However the study, "Computational Courtship: Understanding the Evolution of Online Dating through Large-scale Data Analysis", found that men aren't as forgiving and looks matter more to them. Men are more likely to message women with a self-rated attractiveness score of between 8-9 out of 10.” Yes, and I read the full study from Harvard. Probably too wordsy for most tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:43 AM
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That’s not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:41 AM
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You can’t swap up the scenario, cause that’s not how it works. This is literally about not having sex with someone because you’re not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:41 AM
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Don’t lose hope just yet!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:39 AM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:39 AM
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And that’s actually not true. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:34 AM
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Science, bitch!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:32 AM
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Also In the biggest piece of research of its kind, Oxford University's Internet Institute analysed 150,000 heterosexual online dating profiles and a decade’s worth of communication data from dating site eHarmony, and found that "average" looking men receive more messages from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:31 AM
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Did… did you read the post? Because it says “If Men’s Health is any indication, average guys everywhere are rejoicing this week. According to a new British study, less trusting women are more likely to choose “average-looking” guys over attractive men with high-status careers. The study’s lead author, University of Central Lancashire professor Simon Chu, believes the results reveal an evolutionary caution among some women: More desirable men have greater access to potential mates and may be more…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:29 AM
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Sauce pls?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:28 AM
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I got money, a badass bike, a nice car, beautiful home, and a sexy husband to boot. Don’t waste your tears on me, shugah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:27 AM
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Let’s at least talk about modern studies pls. And you know what this means then? Most of the men left out are the below average men. Just also adding because this reaffirms what I’ve been saying this whole time: “Earlier this year, a Scottish study concluded that when women earn higher salaries, instinctive preferences for security become less significant while physical attractiveness becomes more important. Thus, confident high-earning women were more likely to seek out the best and most compar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:23 AM
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Well I mean… that’s. That’s science. Science does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:20 AM
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Welp, if you read my post, I’m referring to below average men getting their nuts in a bunch. Specifically men on here. I also said, again if you would have read the post, that what men complain about on these subs is not what I observe in real life. :3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:19 AM
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And ffs can we please grow the fuck up I mean come on “pump n dump” I already want to puke every time I’m in here, but y’all make it so goddamn hard to have a real conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:18 AM
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Who’s truth exactly we talking here?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:17 AM
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OkCupid is like the MySpace of online dating. Who tf expects reliable data from OkCupid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:16 AM
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I just… Okay. You’re just gonna have that on your googles history? Man I google some weird ass shit, but “green pepper dick” ain’t one of ‘em.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:15 AM
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Hey man, I didn’t say you were crying, I said men. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:14 AM
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Ah, so we’re going to rely on posts from… here. Got it. Y’all keep showing me over and over again that no one here is capable of thinking their own thoughts & just want to relish in the circle jerk instead of providing some real concrete data for people to maybe, just maybe, go “oh, uh huh”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:13 AM
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Lmfao that’s a whoooooole lotta filler you got from o rly now And I love that you think you know what I look like :3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:11 AM
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As long as the super angry ones just chill behind the screen, idc what y’all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:10 AM
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Can I have sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:10 AM
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That’s mr. penis to u
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:09 AM
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Actually statistics say that most women are fine with below average men, and are actually happier when they’re with them. So dunno where y’all are getting this from, but ight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:08 AM
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Welp, this is why men cry that they can’t find any women. Y’all won’t meet women’s standards. Why? Because it used to be easy when women were much more inclined to settle for a man who didn’t put effort into his looks or personality, but had steady income. Unfortunately for men now, have to have somewhat of a personality, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:07 AM
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O rly? They do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:04 AM
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Well then you’re not worth my time. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:03 AM
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Yea, my husbands, and they’re huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:02 AM
5

Okay, and what is being asked of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:01 AM
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You’re missing my point. If women were relying on men in previous decades for a normal life, they were much more inclined to lower their standards to be wed while barefoot and pregnant to a sub average looking man who had a good career to support her, all before 25. Now women are their own support system. If I don’t need to find a man to guarantee financial security & can be selective in who I find is a good person with personality & is attractive af, guess what, below average men with no person…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:01 AM
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Lmao how did you get that I said women are better than men out of “women support themselves so they don’t need financial support from men and are no longer going to settle for men who aren’t on their same level” Ch’yea man. I make $80k a year, have my own house, my own nice ass car and motorcycle, and two cute ass dogs. My husband knows I didn’t settle for him. And I turned down the hundreds of men before him. No regerts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:57 AM
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Meh :3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:54 AM
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And why should a man trade the former for the latter if the latter wasn't required of other men in her past? Seems to me like you want a sucker. ^
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:54 AM
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Yea buddy, when I’m making $80k, have my own car, my own house and it’s all while I’m in my 20s, I’m not settling for a lackey with zilch personality. And I didn’t, cause I have my husband who knows what he has: A woman with standards. And that’s you’re average woman’s situation :3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:53 AM
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Ight, but I’m still waiting for any statistics. Really, I’ll even settle for just… facts at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:50 AM
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Do… do y’all know how to read? I don’t think most of y’all know what average is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:49 AM
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U okay tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:48 AM
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Like really who tf cares what one person does with someone else. Serious question. I keep seeing this and I gotta know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:48 AM
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Do… do y’all know what average looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:47 AM
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Giiiiiirl what dat mouf do It’s cute that you think you would have to keep me away, cause that requires me to be interested. Buddy, I already make $80k a year, but if you’re handing out free money, I ain’t complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:46 AM
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Women don’t need men for financial stability, for having kids, or for leading a happy life. So women have no reason to settle for what used to be average. That means gasps in Spanish y’all need to rely on personality and quality traits. I know it’s hard, but I believe in you Tommy!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:44 AM
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I gotta know. When y’all go on dates, do you go through a series of questions like “did you perform coitus while hanging from a trapeze”? Who the fuck asks the person who they see themselves spending mounds of time with what kind of sexual acts they did with previous partners? Maybe that’s y’all’s issue. Fuck sugah, I just found the solution! I fixed it. Close up shop bois.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:42 AM
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Couldn’t get us to have sex with you 🤷🏼‍♀️ Ight. Sorry. Should have referred to you as me. Numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:38 AM
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When did I say it was all men? I’m saying below average men need to stop complaining when average women don’t settle for them. Yea, I know how to work the search function, even with it being a dumpster fire. Thx.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:32 AM
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I mean, being a small man probably makes it look a lot bigger than it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:31 AM
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Not to shabby if I do say so myself. Also, “why waste time say lot word when few word do trick” is my general sentiment when I’m here. Ah, a data analyst! So you’re not ashamed of using a bunch of angry little men as your source? How bold of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:29 AM
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Well good sir, I can see that you have a logical thought process, and fortunately you’re not the demographic I was aiming for. But I’m already seeing how this is down spiraling with other comments…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:21 AM
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Lmfao he’s probably some 16 year old sitting there anxiously awaiting on replies. Ffs. Dude I had to take a break from this place. It’s literally disgusting, and it’s so disgraceful knowing that some men actually think this way. Thank god it’s not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:19 AM
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For all I know, you’re a 16 year old boy who’s sitting there hitting refresh over and over again waiting for me to reply. So nah fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:18 AM
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Ight. Tinder is not where all men are. What about the rest of the world? Or am I already giving you too much credit for assuming that you would do your own actual research instead of just following along with the circle jerk? Seriously. Do any of y’all in here have your own independent thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:17 AM
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Have you considered that more women are working and making more than enough to support themselves, so they no longer feel the need to settle for what used to be considered average? There’s no longer a primary need for most women to actively seek out a man for financial support, so if you remove financial stability from the equation, there’s no real incentive for women to settle. And I think you’re overestimating how “average” average men really look.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:15 AM
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For fucks sake man. I want to pretend like I didn’t read that. And what’s comical is this mf guy putting up blinders to be a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:08 AM
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Calm down there, edgelord.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:07 AM
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You just haven’t met people like my husband and me 👀 Lol kidding, we’re sexual deviants and definitely not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:07 AM
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I asked where this 80% figure comes from. All because you don’t want to read what I’m saying doesn’t mean it wasn’t asked. Dude, tinder is not where all men & women are. Plenty of people still meet in the real world just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:03 AM
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👀 Goddamnit am I that out of the loop
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:03 AM
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Agreed, no one should settle for what they’re not happy with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:02 AM
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Ah, I gotcha! I just hope people don’t think I’m suggesting that you should just have sex if someone is asking for it, cause absolutely not. You deserve the right to say when you do or don’t want to have sex, end of the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:00 AM
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You didn’t answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:59 AM
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Yea no, not following.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:50 AM
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Lmao where do y’all get that 80% of men are not having any luck with women? It’s pretty wild to me that we can exist as a species off of 20% of the population of all men. Per googles; in 2020, there were 68.43 million married men and 69.34 married women living in the United States. So I would say it’s pretty even keel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:49 AM
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Uh, wat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:35 AM
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That’s… not the discussion I’m trying to have with this. This is more focused on the anger I see coming from men who are upset that women won’t lower their standards for below average men. But I digress, and I agree with you. No one ever owes anyone sex, in any instance. And no one ever owes anyone else their body. Actually just had a similar conversation about a man asking if he was in the right for wanting to leave his wife of nearly 20 years because she now suffers from an illness that preven…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:34 AM
-3

How is this brigading? All I did was present that statistically you’re still going to be defending men from other men, and how we should just defend victims when needed. There’s nothing in reddits rules against brigading, so I don’t even know what you’re trying to report.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 11:57 AM
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So protect men from other men? Because looking at the statistics, men are still more than likely going to be the violent offender compared to women. How about we just protect people when they’re victims of a violent crime?
/r/MensRights15/10/21 10:26 AM
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Lol, gross. Also… how cheap do you think it is to own a car?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:49 PM
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The only things that I don’t agree with is 1) ffs with the cringy ass terms, we’re not in high school 2) wealth isn’t a massive thing. A good career? Yes. Does the guy need to be a millionaire? Nah. You can have plenty of connections and be surrounded by good people and not have considerable wealth, but rooting yourself in retirement is a good start. 3) looks are subjective. Exotic is never a bad thing; I.e., you don’t need to be white. I wouldn’t date a man with facial hair, and even I have hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:46 PM
1

Kay, can we please stop using cringy ass terms that 16 & 17 year old boys use? It makes it incredibly difficult to take y’all seriously when these terms are used. I agree that not taking advantage of women who are intoxicated is a good thing, so you’re better than a lot of men generally speaking who would. Look- All I’m saying is that while having standards is a good thing, and you shouldn’t subside those for anyone (especially not a stranger on the internet), having experience is not a bad thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:30 PM
1

Honestly my last post here was overwhelming positive until the daylight hours, then it got insanely negative towards women. I was so excited about having pleasant & open dialogue…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:06 PM
0

So then don’t get married. My husband is pretty happy, so 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:03 PM
1

Orrrrr or, you can just not follow arbitrary fake rules and just help people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:02 PM
1

Pls explain
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:47 PM
1

You find women vile, yet clearly haven’t gone on any or very few dates due to your holier-than-thou standards (which I’m an atheist, if you are too, this doesn’t make any sense beyond remaining religious values that you still cling to). Your comments reference that your primary source of what women are like is from the internet. Getting your sources from a non scientific user base with absolutely zero credibility and claiming that you stand behind atheism is an entire oxymoron on its own, but I …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:42 PM
1

Looking at your post history, seems like more about whataboutism than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:33 PM
1

He’s off doing his own shit, and now the daywalkers have come out and about. The night was at least civil and had actual open conversation with thought provoking dialogue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:40 PM
1

no u
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:35 PM
-1

Hello? I’m waiting for your reply bub. Unless you can’t refute what I had said when I gave the complete account of my words.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:30 PM
1

No one will answer you honestly because if they answer honestly, that means that the RP ideas aren’t as infallible as they are trying to make is seem, and that it’s more about hateful rhetoric than anything else. The option is that most of the people answering you would just say “yes”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:29 PM
0

But when men do it it’s just “RP” behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:26 PM
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Idk man, as a person that was raised to be a good hearted human being, I was just told “go help someone calling for help”. I suggest you do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:25 PM
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Did I ever say that was what I wanted? No. I said it was an option for women, which it is. But again, you already said that my voice has no value to you. Why you keep insisting on talking to me tells me that you actually do value my words far more than you’re letting on. You’re the one turning me saying “don’t hate anybody” into me somehow saying “men have no value”. Because I said “women have options”. We do. Frankly, I probably am significantly more successful than most of the men on here, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:19 PM
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You forgot the other portion of what I said. Which was: women have options now. I make 86% more money than all Americans. I pay my own way. I can make a baby without a man. Did I say that’s what I wanted? Nope. I said that I could. Pointing out other women can as well. There is nothing wrong with women having options. I will gladly make a baby with my husband. But does that mean I see him strictly as a baby making machine? If I said that, you would twist my words to say “SEEEE GUYS, just in it f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:13 PM
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Husband all goddamn day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:06 PM
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Okay, honest question… Have you date anyone for an extended amount of time, let’s just saaaay… 3 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:55 PM
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What do you even want me to answer with lmfao this literally adds nothing to the conversation. Absolutely nothing of value. I have a husband that I’m going to go and spend time with now. Have a sweet weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:50 PM
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Do y’all really think women just never get the shitty end of the stick in relationships? You’re world view cannot be this narrow and dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:48 PM
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Ight, who can tell me why my post was changed from a discussion to CMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:45 PM
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Okay… Who thinks all of anything are wonderful? Really tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:42 PM
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It’s not describing anything. It’s just hate. I’m sure people could justify Hitler, in fact, he had a whole ass country behind him. Doesn’t make his hate any less hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:41 PM
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I’m sure that happens sometimes bub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:32 PM
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I just… lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:28 PM
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You know… for someone who said multiple times that a woman has no voice of value to you, you’re still trying to get me to talk to you about things that you won’t have an open dialogue about. I value my husband for being a person- not because he can provide for me. I value my husband for making me happy- not because he can just give me a baby. I value my husband as a person. I don’t understand what you’re trying to do here lmao. Trying to hammer your point home in hopes that I fly off the handle …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:27 PM
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Buddy I can’t understand what you’re trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:21 PM
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You wanna be lonely, be my guest. I’m married to a wonderful man. I don’t care what you do with your own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:20 PM
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Well I have a husband to enjoy company with. This is no longer worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:19 PM
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I mean, I guess? I never really had an agenda, at least that I consciously was aware of. I honestly didn’t know what I wanted, I just knew it wasn’t what my ex was.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:15 PM
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Well… yea I’ve been on dates and had decided he wasn’t that attractive in person based on what I saw from his profile, so we did not have sex. That was most of my experience actually. The only person who hit that mark was my husband, and that’s due to him being the first person who was my type, that I was actually attracted to, had a personality and wasn’t just some rich guy trying to get me to marry him (seriously don’t know what it is with wealthy men and trying to tie someone down right away)…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:14 PM
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A lot of the comments as of late seem to think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:36 PM
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Yes, because I know that if I was subjected to these same conditions, I wouldn’t step foot back on those apps. It worked out for us, I very very heavily doubt it works often enough to justify the depleted self confidence and shallow behavior that surrounds being on those apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:34 PM
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Late 20s, tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:13 PM
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RP way of thinking is dated. Women have choices now. I make more than 86% of Americans. I have a car that I pay for. I pay most of my own expenses. I have the option to have a child without a man in the picture. My husband compliments my life and I wouldn’t have my life any other way, just as he chooses to have me in his. This is where rp thinking just comes off as crude and hateful thinking. Truly, what do you think will happen when you tell someone “your voice has no value and is irrelevant to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:08 PM
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Lol I had plenty of open dialogue with people who’s views I don’t conventionally agree with. You can find it on this very post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:51 PM
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I reached out to my husband first. So 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:43 PM
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Where did u get that I was upset? Ffs I hate how conversations are over typed words.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:35 PM
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Welp, that’s one way to live your life. But since you see no relevance in my words, I’m not going to waste my time further.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:25 PM
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I honestly don’t know why it was changed to CMV, I actually had it under discussion, but the mods changed it. Most of what I was hoping to do was try to bring men up. I see so many different posts on men giving other men seriously toxic viewpoints that some people will take as literal gospel. The issue here isn’t with the basic principles, it’s with how those basic points get turned to extremist views. I just don’t want the men on here thinking that I’m trying to downplay their experiences by si…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:21 PM
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Genuine question; how old are you? I should have clarified when I said club- I was referring to social clubs, like art, gaming, whatever may have you. Not dance clubs. And maybe not to you. But I have personally received quite a bit of thank you messages from men who frequents here. Not to mention the countless of other thank you comments that I’ve gotten as well. Look. I’m a stranger on the internet. You’ll probably never even meet me irl. I don’t personally care if you take anything that I’ve …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:14 PM
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Careful what you ask for sir… As long as you don’t mind random penises and men telling you to shame them for their dick size, could actually be an honest to goodness cool experiment?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:46 AM
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Which part 2 of this, why would you not want the perspective of a woman? If you’re able to better understand the women’s side, would that not increase your chances of getting to be in a relationship with one? I don’t understand what the problem with that is. I’ve acknowledged multiple times that it’s important for people to voice their trauma because that’s how you heal from it. The only thing that I have said was bad about literally anything is hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:37 AM
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How did I blame men at all for saying put away tinder? I kept that entirely gender neutral by using the word people, because that’s what y’all are- people. All because I have no bargaining chip in the matter doesn’t mean it’s a bad idea to expose myself to other views than my own. I don’t live in an echo chamber. And I detest the idea of only surrounding myself with likeminded individuals because that’s how you stunt your own personal growth. Who does that benefit? Absolutely no one. And I would…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:29 AM
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Dude since this post, I’ve gotten at least 20 dms. Either people just spouting off their private hatred or whatever may have you. It’s honestly wild. No dick pics yet tho, so I’ll take it as a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:13 AM
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Ight man, whatever floats your boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:06 AM
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Lol man I tried to make a positive post to uplift men. If you want to cherry pick it, be my guest bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:04 AM
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Honestly I had no idea until I had seen what she went through. I don’t think it’s talked about, but that only is slightly surprising. Much of pregnancy isn’t talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:58 AM
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Dude. There’s a stark difference in asking you to do the dishes, and saying women need to stop being gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:57 AM
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Is nagging hating on men now? Am I that out of the loop?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:45 AM
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Jfc how about just don’t touch shit that isn’t yours?! If anyone touched my car I would personally find them and word vomit all over their face. Like wtf man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:42 AM
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Lmao bro, I didn’t downvote anything. How important do you think my time spent on you actually is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:41 AM
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Well, I’m on the older end of the “woke” generation. So… quite a few lol. But I myself also spread therapy like it’s going out of style.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:40 AM
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God yea. Women’s bodies get all sorts of fucked up during pregnancy, especially their dental health. That’s why it’s a massive thing to do if you’re planning to get pregnant, is get them teeth checked out. But you could have flawless dental records, and if you just happen to be unfortunate enough, still have your teeth fall out on you. It’s scary as fuck. She makes me a little less terrified though. I hate BuzzFeed, but they sum it up nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:33 AM
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Dude I fucking know. The chick lost all of her teeth due to pregnancy, honestly scares the fuck out of me. It’s super common too. But the girl works it so good for her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:19 AM
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How did I shame anyone? Yes, but then you need to acknowledge the same thing. You can see the whole post I made about it. Maybe it’ll give you some idea of what you could be doing that would lead to success.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:14 AM
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Seeing as no two brain chemistries are the same, most, if not all people, probably have mental illness of some sort. Anxiety is even more prevalent, as it’s just our fight or flight (parasympathetic & sympathetic nervous system is what we can all thank for that) response & is to a certain extent normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:12 AM
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Idk it just doesn’t sit with me. I feel like y’all are lowering your level of being a human being- and I don’t mean that as degradation. Just when you think about how far we have come as a species, and how many boundless resources we have just… saying it’s all down to animal instinct (put simply here) is making y’all out to be caveman like. I know that’s not the intention, but I mean come on, give yourselves more credit than that. There’s 8 billion people on this planet. To say that every single…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:07 AM
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Lol I mean, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:55 AM
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I think we’ll (hopefully) gravitate away from it because even though I was personally successful on apps like tinder, because I know that if I were in the same position, that I wouldn’t want to go back to what it is now. But that’s probably wishful thinking. I know everyone likes to say “kids these days” Shakes fist in air but dude. I wouldn’t want to be a kid right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:20 AM
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Ight hold up. So you want women to wisen up and raise their standards… but not too much. Because then it would be too hard for you. You do realize the irony, right? I mean really. How much do y’all think people change. It’s not like we got simp-detectors and when they go off we just go “PACK IT UP GIRLS, time to coast it on ‘fuck this guy in particular’ mode”. I mean really. Just treat people like fucking people. Is that so hard to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:26 AM
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I think that’s how it works here? I’m not really sure. I’ve already been divorced once, but I just wanted the fuck out so I didn’t bother trying to divvy anything up. I do think if you obtain items after you’re married than it’s up for halvsies, but if it was before, then you’re good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:08 AM
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I had a narcissist mother, and a drug addict for a father. I was with a man for 10 years that used sex as a way to manipulate me and fuck with my perception of reality. But if I let myself be held back from my experiences & never let myself heal, I wouldn’t have met my wonderful husband. I’ll echo a few of the things I’ve already said, cause I think it’s important to highlight them. But venting your trauma is a way to heal, that is never a bad thing. Anyone who tells you to stop talking about it…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:04 AM
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Oooo now I’m curious. Well a prenup is a legally binding contract between both parties, which is upheld in court so… kind of government based?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:49 AM
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Holy hot damn Batman! I’m a lil sleepy at this point, so I’ll do my best but bear with me here. So what you’re saying at the veeeeery core of it, I can see and understand. But a lot of things in this space get so muddy and convoluted to the point that it’s no longer constructive for men. Honestly, your brain is a powerful thing, along with confirmation bias. It’s how religion and other massive faith-centric groups get to be so massive & prevalent. If you believe xyz, and now all of a sudden your…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:45 AM
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Lmao big tiddy goth girl was definitely not my fortay. Didn’t get blessed with the fun bags until my yonder years. Probably a good thing though… Possibly kept me out of more trouble than what I already was in. Dude that’s fucking sweet! That must have been wild. I’ve always gone back and forth between trying to learn different instruments, my husband picks that shit up and just shows off like no biggie… I can bake pastries all damn day. I can do art shit. But instruments are just not in the card…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:32 AM
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Hahahaha chill panda. I like that. I don’t think specific places for men to air their frustrations is a bad thing, not at all. People deserve to be heard, and people deserve kindness. But I mean ffs man. Some of the shit I read on here it’s like… Have you even seen a woman in public. Like. We’re not all angry vagina hat wearing vegans who are either way too fat or way too skinny that all carry signs saying “HEY, YOU GOT A DICK? YEA WELL FUCK YOUButNotRlyTho”. And like… kids are watching this and…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:17 AM
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So riddle me this. It’s one thing to be angry and vent. It’s another to circumvent hatred and create a cesspool of a dumpster fire. Take what I said how you will, all I tried to convey is treat people like people, and if you already hate someone before you’ve even met them, you’re gonna have a bad time. It’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:11 AM
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Dude. The number of new terms I am learning today lol I don’t think learning new strategies is bad. I will say that I think that trp I’ve been exposed to is breeding a lot of this hateful shitposting I keep seeing in a lot of the mens spaces though because of people misinterpreting the meaning. Yes, biology plays a huge role. Hormones even more. Like ffs how bad I have baby fever every time I look at my husband is honestly painful. That’s biology. But I think where it gets messy and convoluted i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:09 AM
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That’s a very good point! That’s kind of what I was hoping to dilute a little of actually, not anyones personal trauma because people deserve to be heard, but just the extreme side of things where people in a low point in their lives might reflect on and see the hate as a grandiose point of view. I really do feel like I have a more positive way of thinking, but sheeeeesh that’s hard af to maintain up in this bitch. I think from my limited time of being in here, if I’ve learned anything, is that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:52 AM
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Welp, can’t say that’s why I married my husband, but free internet points brewski. That’s definitely what it’s all about. Also, getting fucked in the eyeballs sounds painful. Don’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:37 AM
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Mmkay, but also take into account where a dual income isn’t beneficial. Ever seen the prices of childcare? Shits up to $600 a week for a single kid. It wouldn’t make much sense for me to make the $75k I am right now if I’m paying a massive portion for someone else to watch my kid. Also; there’s prenuptial agreements. But maaaybe if you’re already going into a marriage thinking a woman is going to undercut you and leave you destitute, that it’s probably best you leave marriage to the other people…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:20 AM
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I do have an interest in it, and I was hoping for some thought provoking discussion. It’s still an interesting topic nonetheless. How did I contradict myself? Pls quote where I say “all bois are bad” anywhere outside of this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:12 AM
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Eh yes and no, it would be arrogant to say that things aren’t harder because everyone does online dating now, but also… that’s only been a thing as prevalent as it is now for like… 8 years. To say it’s unimaginable to find someone by approaching them in real life is slightly short sighted. But again, I will not say it’s easy. Just need to use different techniques is all. Honestly, a lot of women are probably going to be pretty done with the way online dating is here soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:10 AM
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Show me ur ways pls. There have been a few posts here and there that I’m like “huh, good point!” But like 95% of the rest of it I’m just going “how the fuck do people think this way and still make it to be old enough to exist in everyday society”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:04 AM
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Buahahaha you were already one of my favorites, but this just took the cake. Thank you for the good hearted giggle
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:02 AM
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That, and more rainbows fucking everywhere. We need gay Oprah. “YOU get a rainbow, and YOU get a rainbow, EVERYBODY GETS RAINBOOOOWS”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:58 AM
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I’m learning so much rn, keeping me hip n shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:57 AM
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Let’s just treat people like people & not assume that x group is a bunch of twat waffles. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:51 AM
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I just… welp. I got nothin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:48 AM
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Good luck lady! You seem like a nice person :) I mean, I did swipe right on my now husband, but that was nearly 7 years ago… shit feels ancient now. Honestly I’m just glad a vast majority of my interactions on here were actually positive for once. Shit gets real real grim around here super fast… Also! I’m not sure if you’ve already been around but r/Vindicta has been informative and a really cool science based approach to the feminine side of what this sub seems like it’s trying to be. It’s a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:48 AM
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If you wanna cherry pick what I said and fit it back into your convenient narrative, there’s nothing I can do to stop that. I have no bad feelings over men, I’ve met some wonderful men that are great people, and have pleasant interactions with strangers that happen to be men… because they’re just nice people. Same thing with women. There’s nice people everywhere. Look, I have nothing to benefit here. Take it for what you will. Have a wonderful weekend buddy!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:41 AM
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Nah, my husband is home tomorrow. I’ll be too busy with him telling him how much I appreciate him after reading some of the insufferable shit I see on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:37 AM
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Wait actually, explain pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:35 AM
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Lmao that should have been obvious. Thanks for explaining to this out of date lass! Now get off mah lawn. Man I don’t think I could ever go back to online dating with this climate… It boggles my mind how insanely shallow everything is now. Even being conventionally attractive I don’t even think I would stand a mf chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:34 AM
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Have a nice weekend!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:30 AM
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Bruh you are trying way too hard
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:30 AM
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Just trying to sprinkle a lil bit of sunshine in the cesspool of a dumpster fire :3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:24 AM
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no, u
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:24 AM
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Ight idk if I’m just out of the loop but what is OLD 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:22 AM
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Listen bud, if you tell yourself there’s dog shit everywhere, then park your ass at the dog park, guess what you’re gonna find? Dog shit. I can walk outside my house and acknowledge that, hey, that guy over there is pretty nice. Oh! There’s another. And go many days without a single interaction in person with people who I deem to be shitbags. All I can provide you with is my personal accounts. But if you want science, here you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:19 AM
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has bad experience believes all future endeavors will be like said experience refuses to go and embrace possible future relationships because of one shitty human being that was a total piece of shit and didn’t deserve the crusty dog shit off your shoe Look. Your experience is fucking shitty, and I’m sorry that you went through that. But if I did what you’re doing right now after going through being with a manipulative fucking prick for 10 years, I wouldn’t have met my husband. The abusive ass ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:16 AM
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And that’s natural. If you went into it balls out and blindly accepting, I would so no foo. That’s bad. Don’t do that. A healthy amount of guard and skepticism is a good & very human thing to do, because there still is plenty of shitty people to go around. But there’s less of it if you surround yourself with good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:08 AM
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Continue on with the cesspool, have at it. That’s not what I said. All I’m saying is 1) dating apps are shallow as shit 2) if you hate someone before you even meet them, ur gonna have a bad time 3) just treat people like people. Yes, if you say all of x is bad because I hate themz, you’re probably the type of person I’m talking about. But I purposely say “yes, I have had bad experiences with men, but I refuse to say all men are bad” Like dude, do you even read bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:07 AM
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Yea I seriously just can’t stand to see all of this ridiculous hatred being spewed everywhere. It’s not a realistic take on literally anything, let alone dating. And this stupid fucking narrative of ALL MEN/WONEN ARE BAD LUL is seriously so pathetic. Just.. GO THE F OUTSIDE. Dude it’s not easy, at all, BUT it is doable. I think the biggest thing is keeping it neutral with open or flexible expectations. I’m a decent looking gal, and was HORRIBLE at reading people & signals. They’re easy to miss i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:04 AM
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Welp, I’m married. So no. Next pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:36 AM
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Welp. Have you actually tried to go outside? I mean ffs, do y’all think it’s just a bunch of angry women rallying outside 367 25/8?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:36 AM
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Lol bro, I think you got those two mixed up. Yes, they exist. Some people are really shitty. And unfortunately if you only experience rejection or have negative interactions after you’ve only tried to reach out to a few women, that’s going to seem like it’s what you’ll get every time. But Reddit and online platforms are the worst way to get an idea for what people are really like. It’s easy to be a shitbag when you’re hiding behind a screen. If people were forced to use their real identity 100% …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:35 AM
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Because it’s my day off, dawg, and Zelda gets a little tedious. Finding all 5,0000,0 korok seeds is impossible. And I just wanted to sprinkle a lil bit of kindness in this cesspool of “if I did approach a woman, which I swear I like did lastyear, it would be like, this shitty”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:02 AM
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I love how these guys just go silent when they know you’re right. They can’t shitpost their way out of it, so they just move onto the next. Ffs is anyone here actually trying to actually have a civil conversation…? Nah? K.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:56 AM
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Haha! Seriously man. These kids can’t be seriously serious… right? right? Good luck to you sir! If you’re in search of a companion, that is :) There’s good people out there! ^(But not here. Ffs anywhere but here my f god)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:45 AM
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I mean, when I was on Tinder 7 years ago, I was lucky as it is to meet my husband. Love at first swipe. But if for whatever reason we didn’t make it, there is not any way in hell you could convince me to put my ass back on there. And shit, I know I would do more than okay, but fuck that noise. It’s just not an accurate assessment of people, and it’s shallow as all hell That’s what people keep putting way too much of their stock in though, is that they will find meaningful relationships on sites …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:41 AM
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Peacocks gotta peacock. But the most fucked up thing to me, is kids are going to read this shit, and think it’s how it really is. And I mean, it’s not like the follower base is insignificant… Theres a pretty hefty number of people following these posts. Makes me sad honestly:( that all of these little boys are going to read this and actually grow up to hate women. That’s honestly what I was hoping to achieve with writing this. I don’t want to put anyone down, just if there’s anyone who may be lu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:35 AM
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Honestly, and particularly in a space like this, it’s my belief that you can never be too kind. So I’ll sprinkle that shit like glitter so it sticks and you can’t get rid of it and still find it 10 months later. I’ll have to check it out! Currently trying to get through “The Road” and fuck man. I know I said “EVERYBODY LOVE EVERYBODY” but I just… goddamn this book is making me question life rn. Good book so far though! Honestly, it was kind of the same for me for a long time. Before I met my hus…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:31 AM
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See, I’m the same way. Wanna fuck around? Imma see myself the fuck out. Ain’t no body got time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:26 AM
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Hahahaaha regardless of if we agree on this or not, thanks for the solid giggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:26 AM
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Ight buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:19 AM
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Lmfao bro, there ain’t no such thing as “healthy misogyny”. The literal definition is noun dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women. That’s… literally what I’m saying not to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:18 AM
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I don’t think you can really truly misinterpret “all women are gold digging whoores and are only going to get fat, cheat on you, and filet your skin to wear a meat mask”. There’s a fuckton of hate on here, and I reeeeeally hope no one reads the things written here & take them as gospel. Honestly, everything I’ve read here reads like it’s coming from boys that were rejected that one time when they were in high school by that one girl, and they’ve just resigned themselves to never leaving their ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:17 AM
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Shit dude, I’m really sorry, but on the same hand I’m glad you found what works for you! It’s fucking dumb that people would look at someone on the surface and just say “lol nope” before they even get to know you. I mean honestly, unless you’re into polygamy (and even then, it still shouldn’t even matter), how the fuck is that even relevant? Maybe I should edit my post to say “just don’t have negative preconceived notions. Period.” Because if you’re a half decent human being, who the fuck cares …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:10 AM
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No. Absolutely not. Unless you just really want to build appreciation for how not fucking miserable your life actually is, then it’s a fantastic place to be. But it’s probably the same 5 guys writing on different accounts. That seems more likely to me. Ffs, I fucking hope that’s the case. Cause I refuse to believe men are this… just ugh. WHERE IS MY HUSBAND
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:58 AM
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I honestly wonder how much of any of those stories are real. Most of the way I’ve seen people write about their “experiences” seems to come from someone with no relationship experience writing how they would imagine being in a relationship with a woman would be like via on account of the other imaginary tales from people who just think they’re too ugly for women/got rejected once when they were 13, so they just hide inside and write a bunch of angry mumblings for other angry mumbling Joeys to ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:57 AM
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FUCKING SAME. If this place has done aaaanything for me, it’s make me truly appreciate how wonderful my husband is. I’ve been kissing him extra since being here. This place is a fucking cesspool.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:51 AM
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Honestly, I wouldn’t even bother. When men use the term “simp” I just stop reading, like how he clearly didn’t bother reading the full post before commenting. Because shitcommenting is easier anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:50 AM
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Welp, thank you for this thought provoking point good sir! I hadn’t even thought about how that might impact someone in the lgbt+ community, but I can imagine how frustrating that is. Genuinely, is it really that commonplace that women are just that off putting of the idea that you just love a larger portion of the population? If you don’t mind me asking, what age range are you seeking out? I wonder if it’s still a big issue with how more people are becoming aware and accepting of the community.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:42 AM
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Ight. I have an honest question; if nearly 54% of women are breadwinners, and 30% are married breadwinners, what makes you think that all because a guy is married that they’re all of a sudden going to be “Billy Beta Cash & Comfort providers™️”? This ain’t the 1950s anymore. Women can work, guys. Like I make nearly $80k a year, and surprise! I work with other women. Man y’all really are terrified of committing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:35 AM
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Well then buddy, you’re commenting on the wrong post. This ain’t about you. No one is saying you must commit to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:26 AM
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Lmfao you clearly only read the title. Don’t worry, I’ll leave you to your own self implosive & self loathing fest. Don’t want to interrupt with some thought provoking conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:23 AM
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I stated that guys who are just trying to pound the p weren’t who I was talking to. I know the only reason they want to find women is for sex. It’s obvious. Unless you’re just trying to get into a relationship just for the sex, in which case… welp. Don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:22 AM
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If you read my full post, I reiterated that being cautious is not a bad thing, as no one deserves to be taken advantage of. Part two of the op was to say; don’t have negative preconceived notions about someone because they have a dingle or dangle between their legs. I promise life is better this way. If you don’t assume someone is going to be like x/y/z, life is much simpler that way. But again, it doesn’t mean you should be just walls down, balls out, all Willy nilly. Or do, idk, you live ur be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:14 AM
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Well, I’m a kind person. You shouldn’t be all that surprised. Have a swell & wonderful weekend, whatever that may mean to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:09 AM
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Hahaha thank you! Surprisingly, you’re only person number two to get the reference. Hope you have a wonderful & swell weekend wherever you are in the world, internet stranger!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:05 AM
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Welp, that is a sad fucking way to live. But ain’t my life so 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:58 AM
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Again. Not the demographic I’m talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:58 AM
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Ight. I seriously need to know; if nearly 60% of all marriages have frequent sex (few times a week to a few times a month), how common do you guys think that truly sexless marriages are…? Also, why the hell are you so worried about what girls do in their previous relationships unless they bring it up? My husband and I have briefly touched on our most significant ltr because ours were abusive and they’re important details that we both thought the other needed to know. Never once have we talked in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:53 AM
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Wait, I’m confused. All I’m saying here is go out into the world and have real life experiences with real living breathing people without thinking “all women/men/noodles/aliens are stupid”. So much time and effort is put into spaces like this about how said person loathes whatever gender because of x, y, z reason. Use that time to build yourself up, like ffs. It’s not that complicated. But I wish you well, stranger. Shits wild out there lately, but there are good people if you look in the right …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:37 AM
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Because I have a lot to say obvi. But I promise, some of my word vomit might benefit you just a wee bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:31 AM
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The way you use the term breed instead of “have kids” grosses me the fuck out. Seriously, y’all hide behind this wall of anonymity like it’s impervious to outside ridicule. I’m sure if anyone in real life found your accounts and knew it was you, that you wouldn’t have very many people to talk to in real life. Ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:25 AM
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There are 3.905 billion women estimated to be living right now. You’ve probably met .00000001% of them. That’s hardly “most”. Based on my own anecdotal experiences, almost every women I know chips in on dates, plans them out, and works hard to maintain the relationship. For my own marriage, I am always the one doing those things, taking care of things at home, still working a full time job and then some at 60 hours a week on average, plan things out that need to be taken care of outside of the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:40 AM
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Lol no he didn’t, he got married to Grimes twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:56 PM
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They ain’t together so 🤷🏼‍♀️ He’s the one that’s been divorced 3 times. Just goes to show that all the money in the world won’t make women stay with you if you don’t have a personality too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:48 PM
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This screams “I have never actually dated anyone ever” I’m not saying anyone deserves anything. I’m trying to raise the standard. This could be used as an advantage for the people who want to use it. If the difference between her being a repeat customer and saying “lol no” is you paying a little extra attention in the bedroom, why the hell wouldn’t you take advantage of this? And nah fam, I already make $75k a year, have a house, married to the man of my dreams who I reached out to first, and am…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:38 PM
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I should have used divorced, not married. My point still stands. The man has all the money anyone could want, he’s been to fucking space for crying out loud; still can’t keep a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:27 PM
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What data you’re not seeing is how attractive these women they’re supposedly having sex with actually are. I’m sure it’s much easier to spend time swiping right on Tinder when you don’t have 8 hours of work in your way. I’m smelling a whole lotta compensating coming from this post, and it fucking stinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:23 PM
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Honestly, grossed me the fuck out. All of these men crying about how no women will date them, then when they’re given constructive criticism, they spam you by calling you all the names under the book because they can’t acknowledge that maybe they’re not as great as they think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:14 PM
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I think the other part of this that people love to ignore: the unconventionally attractive guy gets the girl because he took the time. And that time didn’t just include lovebombing the fuck out of her for a few hours and then calling her a stupid ugly slut after she still doesn’t accept his advances. Yes looks play a massive role in getting a partner, it’s dumb to ignore that. But it’s also dumb as fuck to ignore that you still need to have a decent personality too. There’s a reason Elon Musk ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:09 PM
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All I see with the people who cry about women don’t want to acknowledge this. So much victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:59 PM
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I kind of was too, but I mean, even though me and my husband go at it 3 times a day, there will be an off day where he just has too much on his mind. So I mean maybe that’s what it is? Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:59 PM
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I close my eyes because that’s how I fully enjoy what he’s doing. I feel everything more, I hear him more, I feel him more. It’s also awkward to just look down lol but locking eye contact is usually a connection thing. When my husband and I get down to the dirty dance, we make eye contact at least 75% of the time. And naw man, I wanna cuddle and eat all of that after bliss up. It’s the second best part of sex honestly. Especially for us being married, it leads to a whole new level of connection …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:58 PM
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The only argument I was making is a lot of men seem to think that a woman’s climax is optional when it shouldn’t be. It’s not guaranteed, but some men don’t even bother learning what to do. Not getting into the complexities here, but that’s the basics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:09 PM
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That’s ridiculous (not you) that people would think that. I’ve never in a million years would have looked at my husband like he was less of a man for satisfying me. If anything, it made him sexier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:30 PM
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The density. I can have a kid without any dicks involved, right now. I don’t need men. But science has found a way to take sperm out of the equation entirely. Y’all are really going to be scrambling if that comes to surface.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:44 PM
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Seriously though! If for nothing else, do this for your own selfish gain. Honestly, still a win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:42 PM
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Hahahahahhahahahahhahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:40 PM
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Fucking lol thank you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:38 PM
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I don’t get why what you’re saying is so controversial. This is literally to a T what I tried to convey, but all of this offended nonsense for what lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:33 PM
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But men will still say “I didn’t know 🤷🏼‍♀️” ffs man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:32 PM
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YUP. But some of these boys will sit here and fight you left and right on it. I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:30 PM
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Ffs thank you. I don’t care if someone is making me orgasm because it gets them off, the point is it’s a dick move to not even bother. Why these boys sit here and are so thirsty for sex then go half assed when they get it is making me laugh so hard. You’re only screwing yourself over 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:29 PM
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You do realize we’re on the brink of making babies without men at all, right? Lmfao haven’t heard of lesbians I guess. But keep thinking your dick is a gift to all women, buddy ole pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:26 PM
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See, and I can respect what you’re saying. I’m not going to pretend like it’s easy peasy for every single woman. I would never expect to climax 100% of the time, because that isn’t realistic. And you’re right, there is a mental portion to really getting a woman there, but once you do, it’s so much more fun. Honestly, with the demographic on these subs in particular, I don’t think many men really care to do more than the bare minimum. That’s definitely not applicable to all men, but I get massive…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:16 PM
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Absolutely, but you’re more likely to find someone who is much more willing to be more enthusiastic with sex. I know that not every woman will be just like me. But after I was shown what sex is supposed to be like, my entire mentality changed. And my husband only benefits from It. But I think what people are missing is that I’m not saying that people need to put in this massive amount work every time, even if it isn’t reciprocated back. I’m saying that the idea that only one person always gets t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:09 PM
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But that’s why I mentioned that this isn’t feasible for every woman, it’s unrealistic to go into it thinking that way. This was more geared at the crowd that goes “too much work”, won’t even bother trying and think of sex as purely for men, and then complain that they can’t figure out why they can’t keep anyones attention. Hell, even I don’t expect my husband to make me climax 100% of the time, but he damn well does everything he can to try to get me there. If things are hot and heavy, I won’t e…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:00 PM
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I don’t expect my husband to make me climax every time. What you said is entirely reasonable, and if my husband had the same mindset, I would still be just as enthusiastic with him as I am right now. What’s making me laugh so hard is that some of the people who have commented don’t see the irony, or how entitled they’re coming off. Like how selfish some of these people are is honestly astounding. But what you said is 🤌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:56 PM
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Lmfao the irony. “I get to cum every time, but I’ll think about if you deserve my time or not”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:51 PM
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Well thank you for not just flying off the handle! Maybe it’s since I’m married, but I think my thought process was more with dedicated relationships vs a hookup. But even just trying to picture being in that situation with what I have experienced and know now, I wouldn’t be satisfied with someone who didn’t want to make me climax. Women can take longer, but I think that’s where talking about it changes an okay or even good to a “I can’t move that was incredible”. But again, I have a different m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:48 PM
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Okay, again. What I mean is the other persons orgasm shouldn’t be an option. Even if that’s before the guy cums every single time. That’s what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:19 PM
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Fucking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:13 PM
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Most men would disagree with you unfortunately. Why should one persons pleasure be priority 100% of the time and the other person just gets used? Why on earth people are so thirsty for sex and then only go halfassed when they get it baffles me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:11 PM
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Alright you got a pretty solid laugh out of me on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:10 PM
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Welp, maybe I’m just lucky then. My husband has no problem getting me there once he’s finished. Regardless; my whole point was that men need to stop treating their partners pleasure as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:09 PM
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It’s honestly astounding how many men just… refuse lol To me, if you’re down right dedicated to having sex, why on earth would you only settle for halfassed sessions?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:06 PM
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Hahaha well you’re definitely unique in that I think. Most men can’t get going right away. But I agree! Seems as though most definitely don’t with me on this one though :3
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:04 PM
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I read through a lot of your posts, and I’m curious about the one where you talked about only pleasing her for a night. But what made me sad was reading how many women haven’t even had that once, let alone could even imagine an entire night dedicated to just them. I am trying to understand more of what you’re talking about here though. It sounds interesting though!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:03 PM
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Yup. Lying is where people make things complicated. It doesn’t need to be complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 01:47 PM
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Also I’m curious, did you only decide to disagree with my comments after you realized I’m a woman or? Cause you agreed with my post quite enthusiastically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:58 PM
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🤷🏼‍♀️ If that’s how you want to interpret what I said, you go GlennCocoa.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:55 PM
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🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:50 PM
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I don’t have to, he knows exactly what works for me because he always goes out of his way to make sure I’m taken care of. What does he get in return? A wife that can’t get enough of him. I give him blowjobs every morning, sex that leaves him mind blown every time, and would give him absolutely everything and anything he would ever ask for. No questions asked. He wants to go through the back door today? Done. Wants to have sex 7 times in a day? Done x7. Wants to watch porn together and reenact ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:49 PM
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GUYS THIS GUY ALSO GETS IT. Everyone keeps complaining about why should they have to work so haaaaard and it’s just… Y’all do this, you will have no problem finding the most enthusiastic partner. My husband does this, and I can’t get enough of him. I give him more than what he knows what to do with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:32 PM
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Yea, she’s better off without someone too lazy to work for better quality sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:29 PM
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Lol or so you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:29 PM
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THIS GUY GETS IT. For fucks sake man. Any time my husband has sex with me, he makes me feel like the sexiest woman alive. You know what he gets in return? The most genuine enthusiastic round of mind blowing sex he’s ever had. You know what else he gets for his efforts? Regular sex & blowjobs without even asking or hinting at that being what he wants. Because he does exactly what you said, we are both having the best sex either of us have ever had. Honestly everyone saying “but women won’t say an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:28 PM
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I mean, I have a fantastic sex life. Y’all are the ones having mediocre sex and then cry about why you can’t find anyone who wants to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:23 PM
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31-40% of women orgasm when asked about sex as a general whole (piv, assisted, etc). On the other hand, 95% of men always climax. It’s far from normal to prioritize women and their sexual gratification. For those interested
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:22 PM
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Lol no they don’t, if they’re not selfish assholes about sex at least. My husband has no problem spending an additional time on me, if that means 1 minute, 30, an hour, he doesn’t care because he wants to ensure he gives me all the pleasure he can. The biggest reason men don’t even bother to please women is it’s the societal norm for men to just take advantage of sex for their own pleasure. Less than 20% of women will climax just with piv. 95% of men always orgasm. If you don’t honestly see a pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:17 PM
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I literally made this post in argument of what u/CloudBerryPunch is saying. You’re grasping at straws.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:07 PM
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This takes the cake for “men who will come up with any excuse to not have to work for a woman’s pleasure”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:06 PM
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I stopped at “just tell me”. Have you ever needed to tell a woman how to give you a blowjob? If you haven’t, then why on earth do you expect women to do the same thing in order for you to even consider maybe trying? Women’s orgasm isn’t an option. Next time you go and have sex, just stop, and let her finish. If you’re offended at the idea, then you should probably reconsider what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:53 AM
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Ight but you’re not hearing what I’m saying. I’m asking why is it the norm for sex to end when the men say so? I mean unless you don’t have a mouth with a tongue or hands/fingers. Most men don’t see it as a priority, when what I’m saying is it shouldn’t be seen as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:47 AM
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Honestly it’s far from the norm that women even can, so maybe it’s just not in everyone’s cards. Like for me, it still feels great, but unless my husband has already made me cum in other ways, it probably isn’t happening just from piv. And even if it does happen, it’s not nearly as strong as other methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:14 AM
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I feel so sorry for the women who sleep with someone like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:43 AM
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But how is this not the norm…? That’s what I’m getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:43 AM
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I would laugh and walk out lmao He isn’t going to respect my sexual needs, I’m sure he has “I’ll disrespect tf out of you bb” written all over his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:41 AM
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Oh, that’s how it is for us too. He tries to make sure I’m taken care of well before he’s done almost every time. But in regards to it not always happening when things are hot and heavy, sometimes I just don’t think about it if we’re making love because I’m enjoying everything in general. But unless I orgasm from clit stimulation, it’s a slim chance that I will just from piv.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:19 AM
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Just like I’m sure that most bi woman would agree that woman try way harder to satisfy women than their male counterparts. It’s much easier to make do with equipment that you yourself are familiar with than working with something that you have to rely entirely on the other persons reaction to gauge what even feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:07 AM
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You’re not the type I’m referring too, 110% absolutely not. I’m referring to the ones that refuse to put in the same amount of effort in pleasing their partner that they expect back. I hope things are better for you, stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:00 AM
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I was wrong, it’s actually less than 20% of women who can orgasm through piv alone. Regardless, still doesn’t make a very good case for men who think that their penis is always enough. I had no idea what an orgasm even felt like until my husband, so I always was enthusiastic enough because I was always told not to hurt a man’s ego that I’m sure more than a handful of the men thought that they actually did anything for me, even when I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:58 AM
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Dude… if you don’t mind hearing your wife’s sexual endeavors prior to you two, you should ask her what it was like. My husband was absolutely in awe of what my sex life was like before him because of the downright nerve that a lot of men have that their pleasure is the only pleasure that matters. I’m not just blowing smoke up my own bumhole, but I’ve never had trouble with men. I modeled for a while in the alternative scene. I’m by no means gorgeous, but I’ve had my fair share of experiences wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:48 AM
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Of course, but I’m more so referring to the types of men who anticipate women to give them blowjobs and the experience be mind blowing without ever uttering what they want, without reciprocating the effort because “sHe DiDn’T tElL mE”. Nah fam. You’re lazy as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:41 AM
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Yes. Yes. And yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:38 AM
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I was very much so attracted to different men, absolutely not a single one of them tried to do anything on my behalf. As a woman, I was always expected to allow men to use my body for their pleasure. Why are women expected to just be vulnerable without reaping any benefits; just because men are the ones courting them? That’s ridiculously narrow thinking. Alright, riddle me this; what about when men just have a standard expectation for blowjobs? Why is it justifiable that women are expected to gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:35 AM
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Lmao dude. You can’t be serious rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:11 AM
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This guy probably thinks his penis is enough to make women orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:10 AM
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Yes, but there’s still a very clear understanding on your behalf what you need to give too before walking in that building. Also ffs now I want a chalupa. I should have expanded here- communication is a two way street. But I think it’s a huge advantage for men to go into sex with the understanding that women have for a loooooong time been told that they’re satisfaction is not important in bed. Knowing what I do now, I would 100% make sure to speak up. But even after years of experiences, I just …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:08 AM
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BuT lOoSe VaGiNa Lol sorry. Having flashbacks to highschool. I heard on waaaay too many occasions that making a girl climax just “makes her loose”. This right here is everything that men should be thinking about when wondering whether or not her side of things is worth it. I’ve said it over and over, but I literally did not know what sex should feel like before I met my husband. I was mind blown that this is what it’s supposed to be like. I have a feeling that most of the guys who claim “she tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:59 AM
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Seeing as only 18% of women can orgasm from piv, I don’t think it has anything to do with lasting longer. I just don’t understand this general idea of sex stopping when the man is done. If you’re being truly selfish and refuse to work on her after the fact because she didn’t orgasm to the rabbit pounding and welp, she’s just sol, should have just orgasmed from mah wiener; said selfish person is probably not doing as good of a job as they think they’re doing. My husband damn near 99% of the time …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:55 AM
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I mean… Asking her is a start.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:42 AM
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That’s a valid point too, but I think the biggest thing here is communication. Even after the fact, just ask the next go around “what did I do that makes you feel so good”. It goes a looooong way. I always thought that my job was just to pretend like I was enjoying it to protect their (ugh) ego. Before I met my husband, I never enjoyed sex. Ever. And it isn’t even like he has to work that hard! He reminds me how sexy I am to him, and shows it with appreciation. It’s not that hard to just think a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:41 AM
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Because that means that they have to acknowledge that they have to actually work for it, and that just having a penis doesn’t entitle them to our bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:34 AM
2

Lmfao so your only reason for not cheating is because you can’t find anyone else to cheat with? Bruh. Man y’all kill me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:29 AM
1

It’s unreasonable and unrealistic to expect another human being to never have a crush on anyone else. I’ve had small crushes that were incredibly brief and fleeting. Never once did I think about sleeping with them, nor would I have ever dreamed of acting on said crushes. I keep my distance because I respect my husband way to much to put myself into a situation like that. I would never even imagine being upset at my husband for having a simple crush. On the other hand, just having a crush and act…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:26 AM
1

Keep having mediocre sex, not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:05 AM
8

So do something about it. I’m not trying to be a dick about it, but if you know you’re going to hurt someone else because of your selfishness, helping yourself be a better person is how you show them love back. If you won’t do that for them, like I said, it’s better to let her be instead of hurting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:08 PM
2

I spelled it out for you. I gave you the tools, if you don’t want to take them, don’t. But it’s much easier to build the foundation to your home if you use a hammer and nails than just your hands. Otherwise it’s mud and sticks for you. You reap the rewards of your labor. Will this always be fair? Hell no. But yes, this means you need to work out, eat well, work on developing yourself, educating yourself, and work fucking hard. If you’re not conveniently attractive, then don’t be arrogant for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:46 PM
4

Ight. I ain’t wasting my time. Good luck buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:41 PM
12

No one can ever be 100% what someone else needs. But if you’re legitimately fantasizing about other women and excuse your lust for attention, you’re being disrespectful to the person you “love”, and I use the term love incredibly light, because you don’t excuse hurtful behavior that your actions could cause her. What if she reads this? What if you actually cause her so much pain that she can’t deal with it and due to your actions, she has lifelong issues? If you still try to justify your shitty …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:38 PM
10

You’re just trying to justify your shitty thought process. It’s normal to have a crush here or there, what’s not normal is saying people should be excused for betraying the trust of their partner because they’re too selfish to either work things out in the current relationship they’re in or at least have enough respect to leave. Leaving hurts a fuck ton less than being lied to. At least if you leave, you’re still honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:35 PM
4

The difference here is the guy who put in 100% more work than the person who is doing just the bare minimum is the one who gets to keep his job. The other one gets let go and isn’t welcome back. Person A put in time and energy to go far beyond what person B was doing, and that’s why he gets paid more, and gets to stay. Look. Relationships/fwb are only going to be as good as what you put into them. I’m lucky in the genes department, and of all the different situations I’ve been in, my husband is …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:25 PM
14

Look, if you don’t want to have sex with a starfish, you’ve got to bring those “you’re the sexiest woman on this fucking planet” vibes. I’ve been with my husband for nearly 7 years now. We still do the dirty daily when he isn’t working, and we both enjoy it. Me probably even more than him. But here’s the thing; he makes me feel fucking sexy. He makes sure to take care of me every time. And if I hear aaaaaanyone sit there and go “women take too loooong” I’ll just laugh so fucking hard. Why the fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:53 PM
6

Why would I pay someone with a high school diploma the same as another applicant who has 5 years of experience and carry’s a college education?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:44 PM
1

lol worked for two separate country clubs too. Companies don’t care as much as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:28 PM
1

Yes, I gave all information to my employers. I work for a government based agency, so you can’t lie to them. They always find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:04 PM
2

This right here. People love to hide behind what anonymity that the internet provides, and what people see on here is not as ballsy as most people are in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:52 AM
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lol I did this, had zero problems finding a real job. Giving up thousands of dollars a month sucked, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:38 PM
1

Hahahahaha thank you for this. This was fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:17 PM
-5

I was commenting on your part 2, that women would be wrong to say things are harder on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:46 PM
-11

Lmao wrong because y’all think with your dicks too much? When a man takes advantage of and gets rich off of other people, he’s called a businessman. When a woman does it, she’s called a bitch/slut/thot. Y’all are killing me. Keep up the good work here bois.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:42 PM
2

Nah man, that guys got too much street cred.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:28 PM
0

What exactly do you picture most of these guys look like? Right now I’m picturing Rick Ross with a punch of skin issues, pungent b.o., a sad excuse for a beard, and just a little too overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:14 PM
0

Respecting personal boundaries, the audacity of you. Ffs man. I really hope this is just a bunch of trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:26 PM
1

Lmfao dude. You triggered them. Nice work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:22 PM
1

Yet men that brag about a high body count are supposed to be held on a pedestal by other men. Thanks for the good chuckle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:20 PM
1

Laughs in married to an Asian man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:15 PM
1

Probably a good idea honestly. People love to hide behind internet anonymity. I highly doubt anyone is actually as ballsy in real life as they try to appear in these subs with all of these “alphas”. It’s all just a bunch of peacocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:16 PM
2

Why would anyone want to date someone who thinks that way about them before they even got to know them? I know that I value myself way too much to allow someone to take up space in my life that thinks like that. People are responsible for their own actions, as well as their own reactions. But regardless, more often than not, people will never claim to be the villain in their own story. But for those who do and allow themselves to grow instead of just blaming others for their own misfortune, thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:26 AM
2

What he was saying wasn’t from being bitter, he was being hateful. There’s a massive difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:54 AM
2

So walk away from the people electrocuting you. I promise there’s people out there that won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:56 AM
5

Wait… wat? I’m truly trying to understand what you’re trying to say here. All I’m saying is that this is not a normal thought process. When you want to find negative, you’re going to find negative. Your brain does an incredible job of searching for confirmation of what you already believe; it’s the primary reason why implicit bias is such a strong thing to change, and what feeds explicit bias. If you want to believe all women are shitty, you’re going to keep actively searching for different sour…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:03 AM
2

Don’t tell me what to do. I’m sure Hitler had sex all the time, but he also deserved to kill himself, and we all see where his actions and thought process got him so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:49 AM
6

That’s a disgusting thing to say. If you ever wonder why you’re single, take one quick look back at this comment. This is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:41 PM
1

Haha it would be sweet to have one, but I’m doing the whole “go big or go home” route. If I can find one, that is. 😕 I would just get a z4 but I don’t want to come off as a charter school principal… plus Supra is just much sweeter
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:29 PM
2

See this is where it gets interesting though. If she earned 75% of your income, would you pick up an equivalent in housework in return? There’s a huge inequality for women when it comes to this, but it doesn’t just come from men, it also comes from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:09 PM
2

That’s something each partnership needs to work out with each other. For us to create across the board rules is irrelevant and wouldn’t matter, because every relationship is going to be unique. For instance, my husband asks nothing of me, but I do x y & z because I want to. I also don’t cost much, but he fulfills needs of mine either way. It’s a balance that him and I have, and I doubt it would work for most. We still share finances, but we do it voluntarily. If I need money, there’s no question…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:03 PM
0

Yes and no. My husband doesn’t do that, he’s respectful & responsible for his actions. However, I see so many bitter men saying that women have negative value, yet still beg for sex. They won’t admit it, but they still need and crave women, regardless of if it’s only for very brief emotional connection. Don’t forget, anger is still an emotion. How on earth you’re going to put that much of your own stock value into chasing after something you say you detest so much is so mind boggling contradicto…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:54 PM
5

He won’t let me contribute. So what am I doing? Buying myself a Supra with my $75k salary. To answer your question though: No, I don’t believe in the 50/50 rule. If I make 75% of what he’s making, then how am I to be expected to contribute more of my income towards expenses that I’m not home enough to utilize in the first place? If we made equal salaries, then yes. This rule would apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:34 PM
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