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If I could like this post once, I should be able to a 1000 times js
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:33 AM
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Replace the word sensitive with important. If someone calls you sensitve for being upset about something that is important to you, they're gaslighting you and just trying to make themselves feel better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:58 PM
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LIKE ISNT IT A BITCH HOW BOOKS, MOVIES, AND MAINSTREAM IDEOLOGY ALWAYS PORTRAY MEN AS GIFTS FROM GOD. BUT in reality theyre either children who need their hand held at best or controlling asshats at worst. Obviously not all men, but fuck man, truth right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 07:16 AM
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You think we could try to find a place to write to? The the creators? If enough of us share the positives that this sub has brought to us, maybe they'd reconsider? Idk I'm probably grasping at straws but I dont want this to go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:50 AM
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Honestly this hurts just a little bit because I grew up as a tomboy, I only had brothers and male cousins so it was how I was raised. But when I got into middle school suddenly people would see me playing kickball or dodgeball as the only girl as being "a hardass" and trying too hard to flirt with boys. Nah, I just grew up playing four sports (ADHD out the ass, my poor mom) and loved to play, but that was weird so I stopped. Middle/high school was when I stopped doing a lot of things that made m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:59 AM
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I really needed to hear this. "You really cared so you really tried". It is easy to look back in hindsight and scold yourself for how desperate you were trying to make things work. Afterall, we're told all the time that love is about fighting for each other every day. Hanging on tight to that person that once was YOUR person. But when the other partner lets go of the rope, its easy to laugh at the person who falls... A therapist told me that you should never be ashamed of how much you loved, ins…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 02:38 AM
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Beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 10:42 PM
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Maybe I am reading too much into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 06:39 PM
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Oh I cackled at this thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:40 AM
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My Dad has always loved me for me. I live with my mom tho but get calls from him every other day when I cant see him. I've gotten better about recognizing who is laughing with me verses at me. It took some time but the friends I have now make me feel appreciated. When I'm with them I feel free and light. Where I am not overthinking. I don't want to be in a relationship currently because I want to focus on my life. I was raised with an agenda. To go college. Get married. Have kids...so on. But i …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:24 PM
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Thank you. This helps a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 07:44 PM
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Where has this sub been all my life honestly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:16 PM
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......I cant even argue at this point.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 09:07 PM
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I love it whenever the guy will be so "sweet", unsolicitedly calling you gorgeous or something, then the moment you say no then turn on a dime saying "no one will ever love your ugly ass etc." Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:10 PM
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THISSSSS. I deserve to be respected as a human not as a vice. No woman should grovel for scraps of kindness from a man that only cares about one fucking thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:06 PM
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All they do is talk!! When it comes to delivering they are no where to be found or complain of how fucking needy WE are! TF??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:42 PM
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Shows you how common this fucking is man. Reason why i hate LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:39 PM
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Right??? Like they'll be Mr. Perfect for like 2 months maybe. Right when they have you start to really put time and invest in them they'll slowly start to pull back until its nearly a near or even longer in before you realize you lost yourself trying to wait for that guy you fell for to come back. Only to finally realize he was just the guy full of empty promises
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 07:58 AM
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Because its not socially acceptable to live with their mom anymore so they replace that with a wife. It is annoying how LVM are so dependent but claim they're the man of the house/wear the pants/in charge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 07:38 AM
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Honestly same. I get more joy and happiness from reading a book than being in a relationship. Its kind of depressing for me because its great to have high standards, but you get disappointed more often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 07:36 AM
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Happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:45 AM
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Right??? Half the time I wanna ask them if that person so great why don't they date him. Just cause the guy likes you doesn't mean he owns you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:44 AM
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I am absolutely terrified to end up in a relationship like that. I am happy that your partner treats you with such high regard and isn't afraid to love you in front of his coworkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 01:07 AM
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True, I meant to edit that part out tbh before posting but it looks like I posted the unedited one. I'm sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 11:09 PM
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Thank you. I hope you know that it is possible for you to be as well. Everyday do something, no matter how small, as a gift for yourself. I was so used to helping others or putting them first that I thought I was selfish to do something for me. It might be hard now, but I believe in you, you can do this. I have spent a majority of my life neglecting myself, thinking a relationship will help me become happy. This sub helps me. So if you need anyone to talk to or vent, DM me, I got you. I'm proud …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 04:56 PM
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I needed to be reminded of this today thank you. I had one of my bros call me selfish for not wanting to be in a relationship bc I said I wanted to live my life as me. Not as a part of someone or foolishly dedicating unreciprocated effort into someone else's dreams. I am in the process of getting to know me, and I'm happily selfish cause damn, it took me a min to realize how fucking great I am. (Needed to rant sorry) Edit: grammar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 07:10 AM
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Yup. Made this mistake. It didn't take more than 3 days for it to come back and bite me in the ass. People/men don't change, not that quickly. You gotta reevaluate what you want from a SO. You may miss all the great moments but sis, remember what it took to get you to this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 04:00 PM
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I like how guys assume women stop being valuable at a certain age. Bitch we be like fine wine while you're ass is no better than a koolaid packet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:52 AM
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Still looking....you think she had a sequel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:42 PM
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Honestly same. I'm not here to waste my time. Any guy that wants me to chase them gotta realize I'm not here to play tag (horrible pun I know 😅).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:10 AM
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TRUTH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 11:57 PM
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Know your worth girl. Those are the same men that criticise women for wearing so much makeup and looking like a completely different person with it off and calling it a trap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:39 PM
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Tbh if I'm trying to give anyone here publicity it is my main man right there with the comment 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:48 AM
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Love this. Nope you don't get to redo your first impression boi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:47 AM
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I gave up on the world long ago
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:46 AM
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Guys watch too much porn and anime to know what being chaste really is. Edit: fr my ex expected me to be giving pornstar level blowjobs when i lost my virginity. I was like "cool it bro I'm still trying to get used to looking at your dick much less swallow"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:44 AM
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Lmao TRUTH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:05 AM
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You're not wrong. Being in a relationship should count as a charity organization or something to write off on taxes. You're expected to be a 4 star chef, cleaner, motivational coach, therapist, model, fitness enthusiast, and playboy bunny all in one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:26 AM
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Amen. Worst part is is that we're conditioned to believe that we have to do this to be loved. We should look cute 24/7, we should be able to cook/clean, and dudes are just...there. To complain mostly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:42 AM
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Oh my....I have no words for that last paragraph. I'm so glad you got out of that. I once read a post that this college dude living with his friends in an apt, one of them had a cork board that had all of his used condoms, representing how many women he's slept with. The condoms were washed, dried and left hanging on the board...pathetic part was was that it only had 6 on there 😂. Poor OP hid it before a girl came over, found it hanging up and she was out of there faster than lightning!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 11:27 PM
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Reading through the comments on that video basically reaffirmed everything in this post 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 10:56 PM
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I "LOVE" IT when guys boast about doing a chore. "I help out." WHAT A GOOD BOY, you unloaded the dishwasher like I asked- and I cleaned the rest of the damn house without anyone prompting me to, cause I have a vagina that apparently gives me living standards...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:18 PM
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When I was in college I stayed with a guy (my age) who literally only played Magic the Gathering/video games and lived with his parents and lived off an allowance (moms a trust fund baby, raised him like it too) for mowing the lawn. While I worked every day during the summer and went to school. He'd get stressed out if you brought up him getting a job because he was too anxious. His dad and I'd offer to do a mock interview, and hed blow it off saying he'll figure it out. He never did. Edit: my p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:21 PM
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I would have just looked at him and said "Bet." Then again...I hate cooking 😅 EDIT: I'm so glad you got out of that tho. Some girls settle for that kind of low quality love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:12 PM
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A mom. They are literally just looking for a mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:50 PM
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Could you please become a trainer or something to help a sis out? At this point I'm thinking about just giving up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:49 PM
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Right??? Shit I dont even lay my own clothes out, but I know how to dress myself! When did it become socially acceptable for guys to stop maturing past the age of 14? Can we please bring back the men that wore 3 piece suits and gave a damn about impressing his lady? (Leaving out all the sexism, racism, classism that came with that time period) Not to rant, fuck it I am, but what time period were guys actually expected to be decent and not rely on women to do everything?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:06 PM
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I dated a guy when I was 18 and he was 25. We met at college, he just got back after spending years in the Marines. He was charming enough, to be honest I was very inexperienced and he knew it. Which lead to a short 3 month relationship where he spent the first 2 weeks begging me to sleep with him. Guilt tripping and all, until I felt bad enough, thinking he was going to break up with me, to saying yes. So I was raped...really I dont remember much of our relationship, I was miserable but didn't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:54 AM
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