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Gender equality means we need to get more women on the bus so that 50% of the people sitting are women!!! Doesn’t anyone get sarcasm here?
/r/MensRights12/09/18 12:05 PM
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No no no, for it to be gender equality, 50% of the people seated need to be female. :)
/r/MensRights11/09/18 12:09 PM
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I’m a woman and I would love to stay home and care for my baby dogs... he’s right, and I don’t see the shame in it.
/r/MensRights08/09/18 12:55 PM
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I think as a woman it would be harder to physically detain someone. That requires more the right mindset(?) that I think men more naturally have. Basically being physical where there is significant risk to yourself (person could fight back) is something many women aren’t well equipped to do. But straight up lifting bags of concrete or garden stones is something anyone can do if they have learned good lifting form.
/r/MensRights22/08/18 12:32 PM
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I always say thanks but as a slow walker I would rather people didn’t hold the door for me, especially ones on the stairs. Makes me feel like I have to hurry up to the door and then seem grateful when I would rather have taken my time and opened it myself.
/r/MensRights22/08/18 02:57 AM
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I’m very strong female, have frequently offered to help load guys’ trucks at places like Home Depot and twice tried to help push a stranger guy’s manual car that wasn’t starting but everyone always says no and acts like it’s a nuisance.
/r/MensRights22/08/18 02:52 AM
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Harvey Weinstein :)
/r/MensRights21/08/18 11:54 AM
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I know right, I like to read the ones that make me feel righteously indignant.
/r/MensRights21/08/18 11:54 AM
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Yeah I thought that was good?
/r/MensRights20/08/18 05:56 PM
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This is crossposted from the top in /r/news, you should go read the comments hahaha.
/r/MensRights20/08/18 04:14 PM
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decayed embryo that are disassembled due to lack of fertilization Well no it's not that either because an embryo requires fertilization. If a woman were shedding an embryo it would be a miscarriage, not menstruation.
/r/MensRights09/08/18 06:23 PM
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Hahaha, "I don't have a womb", that reminds me. I remember when Trump was running against Hillary and a hardcore feminist girl I knew in person was outraged with me because I said I wasn't voting for Hillary. She said, "How can you have ovaries and NOT vote for Hillary?!" So I said, "Actually I don't have ovaries, I lost them last year to cancer." (I was 29). She didn't know what to say, she was so embarrassed.
/r/MensRights09/08/18 06:21 PM
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Wow, thanks for posting this. I was always one of those people who liked to point out that the US also has a healthy child sex slave industry when people complain about other countries, but maybe I will hold off on saying that now!
/r/MensRights02/08/18 12:45 PM
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Well darn, somebody already posted it there and pretty much all the comments think it's sexist too
/r/MensRights31/07/18 01:06 AM
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I guess it has to go through a moderator first? It still isn't showing up.
/r/MensRights30/07/18 09:41 PM
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I just posted this on /r/feminism to see what happens.
/r/MensRights30/07/18 07:42 PM
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Well half of men's rights issues are about the rights of fathers, right? That's a lot of the posts here. If we continue to perpetuate the idea that fathers don't have to worry about work-life balance because the implication is they're not the main caregivers to their children, then that means we continue to give them less weight in child custody cases and offer them no parental leave. So it's really not just a trivial problem, this is a symptom of a perception issue that harms a lot of fathers. …
/r/MensRights30/07/18 04:44 PM
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That's true too, I'm so flattered you remembered me :)
/r/MensRights30/07/18 04:41 PM
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For a second I thought this was about South Park. Terrance & Philip show.
/r/MensRights30/07/18 03:07 PM
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It’s sexist because they only ask mothers this question, not fathers. As if fathers just go home after work and relax and ignore their kids.
/r/MensRights30/07/18 12:07 PM
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Yup Ashley was always a male name until quite recently
/r/MensRights29/07/18 10:56 PM
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Don’t women just start taking boy names and naming their baby girls it anyway, like Kelly, Ashley, Sydney, Raegan, etc.
/r/MensRights29/07/18 12:33 PM
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I'm a female in STEM and while I don't love it, I love the monaaay :) money money money money
/r/MensRights27/07/18 02:01 PM
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Read the comments to the article, there are a lot of people vehemently disagreeing with it.
/r/MensRights26/07/18 08:42 PM
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RIGHT, but we are saying in a hypothetical case, we wouldn't mind a rape victim murdering their rapist.
/r/MensRights25/07/18 09:09 PM
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What some of us are trying to say is that we wouldn't mind if anyone who was raped killed their rapist.
/r/MensRights25/07/18 07:55 PM
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I never said I believed her, and neither did the other poster. He meant hypothetically, if she (or anyone) was telling the truth about being raped, he would support them killing their rapist. He said that very clearly, but then you still accused him of blindly believing the woman. He never said he did.
/r/MensRights25/07/18 07:06 PM
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I don't mind what she did. If somebody ever killed my dog on purpose, for example, nothing would stop me from destroying that person's life.
/r/MensRights25/07/18 04:43 PM
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You need to learn how to comprehend what you read...
/r/MensRights25/07/18 04:41 PM
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Hello I am a fraternal twin sister to a twin brother. I always tell people, out of the two of us, my male twin is the one who was sexually assaulted, not me. I fully support your take on things!
/r/MensRights25/07/18 12:01 PM
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Thank you for saying it :-) we should be friends :-)
/r/MensRights24/07/18 07:58 PM
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Yeah because I learned this from my dad, so I do what he always did. Yell angrily “I already have a fucking mother!”
/r/MensRights21/07/18 05:58 PM
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What is it called when women in public tell you your child needs a coat, or you’re not allowed to walk your dog over here? Every fucking time some stranger has to give me some kind of unsolicited advice or “mothering” or remind me of the rules, it’s a woman.
/r/MensRights21/07/18 03:09 PM
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Ok this is the best response so far, you came up with an especially good reason for women not calling to find out where the victims are. I made this post because I just wasn’t coming up with good counter arguments on my own, thanks for your thoughtfulness.
/r/MensRights21/07/18 03:02 PM
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That’s what I’m thinking too
/r/MensRights21/07/18 02:57 AM
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Wow, now that I think about it I even leave my dogs intact for the health benefits (not to breed). When I think about it that way it’s even more incredible that they mess with human baby boys’ genitals.
/r/MensRights21/07/18 02:37 AM
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You’re right. Don’t mistake me I’m not saying what is common is right, just that it’s common.
/r/MensRights20/07/18 06:36 PM
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I never said it was reasonable! I just think it’s alarming that they have that perception.
/r/MensRights20/07/18 06:34 PM
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You make some very good points. As to holding people to higher standards, helplines at these services are mostly held by volunteers who experience burnout very quickly so there is a lot of turnover. A lot of people don’t see sexist attitudes or bias in themselves, as I’m sure I don’t either, especially when the bias is ubiquitous. I’m not sure there are enough people trying to become volunteers for these programs that they would have the luxury of screening turning volunteers away because they h…
/r/MensRights20/07/18 05:28 PM
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It's true, but I think it's unrealistic to expect everyone to be completely unbiased and impartial based on their life experiences. It is a pillar of how we learn and navigate the world. I have longstanding issues with the way sexism and racism is defined, however. For example, it is supposedly racist to assume a person who looks like "blank" will attempt to rip me off, but if haggling is a deeply ingrained part of their culture, as it is in several cultures, is it racist of me to recognize they…
/r/MensRights20/07/18 04:36 PM
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I don't know, I personally know someone who works for a helpline (not RAINN), who complained that they get some repeat callers who are obviously masturbating to the conversation. I don't know if women do the same thing, but it's harder to tell?
/r/MensRights20/07/18 03:33 PM
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Do you have a job? I make more money than my husband and I’m fine with it.
/r/MensRights20/07/18 01:31 PM
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Lol he made a post in /r/occult asking about a spell to make women understand the black pill.
/r/MensRights20/07/18 01:17 PM
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Kinda says something about you that all women are inferior whores and you still can’t get laid.
/r/MensRights20/07/18 01:13 PM
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I won't bother to read anything /u/EricAllonde posts here anymore because the titles are always very misleading...
/r/MensRights19/07/18 02:31 PM
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I was seeing red when I got to the part where it said the ex-wife now works two days a week as a beauty therapist. Like wtf? How can't they see how wrong that is? How many people get to work only two days a week and have any kind of comfortable lifestyle? Why is she entitled to that?
/r/MensRights18/07/18 09:26 PM
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I think the worst thing about this is that it's a white privileged woman from San Francisco who merely heard about the horrific rape of a poor Haitian woman and she developed her own "PTSD"... over an event that didn't even happen to her. Of course the poor woman in Haiti who was ACTUALLY raped and mutilated still has to live in Haiti and gets no help. But thank god this white woman got help and was cured of her "PTSD".
/r/MensRights09/07/18 02:30 PM
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Are you more bothered that you were touched, or that if you were a woman the fact that you were touched would be a #metoo story? Your post sounds more concerned about the latter. And by the way there’s nothing stopping you from using #metoo to get your story out.
/r/MensRights08/07/18 02:17 AM
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The night after my brain surgery a male nurse came in to fuss with my chest ECG leads and took the opportunity to squeeze my breasts, which I was in too much pain to do anything about. That is what I’d consider groping. What you experienced is unwanted touching, since it involved just your back, but not groping. And no I never got the man in trouble or wrote a #metoo, because it wasn’t a big deal. It’s as big a deal as you want to make it.
/r/MensRights08/07/18 12:35 AM
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Edison was a fraud too
/r/MensRights07/07/18 12:04 AM
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I don't interpret abstract concepts well. Does this mean that the theory that patriarchy is alive and well and the implications that come with it (that we must fight it) is the rule we live under today? Help.
/r/MensRights05/07/18 08:15 PM
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I wasn’t trying to prove anything, what can you prove with N=5?
/r/MensRights04/07/18 12:20 PM
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They stopped talking to me after I started telling them how women were on Wall Street during 9/11.
/r/MensRights04/07/18 04:38 AM
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One black and one Hispanic, two whites, and two white feminist men actually. Black one was nicest and most reasonable. The rudest were the men, I find when I argue with male feminists they get really ugly and fling insults, I’m not sure why that is.
/r/MensRights04/07/18 04:37 AM
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Thanks that was very enjoyable to read and well-written. You put concepts into words much nicer than I can.
/r/MensRights04/07/18 04:26 AM
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I’m a white woman and I literally fought all day with 4 feminists on Facebook over the white woman victim bullshit. I provided arguments for why men have it worse than white women as a whole and it got ugly, especially when a male feminist joined the argument. Anyway I’m just saying we don’t all buy into the victimhood crap. As far as I can tell white women are the most privileged group in America.
/r/MensRights04/07/18 04:18 AM
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Trust me we have tried to think of things. This female co-worker also excluded my husband from meetings and tried to bad-mouth him at one of them, for seemingly no reason. Unfortunately for her everyone was on my husband's side and the lead engineer shut her down. She has some nerve. Trying to make him look bad so she can continue to do her cushy job.
/r/MensRights03/07/18 08:40 PM
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Trust me we have tried to think of things. This female co-worker also excluded my husband from meetings and tried to bad-mouth him at one of them, for seemingly no reason. Unfortunately for her everyone was on my husband's side and the lead engineer shut her down. She has some nerve. Trying to make him look bad so she can continue to do her cushy job.
/r/MensRights03/07/18 08:40 PM
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I'm a female MRA but I'm so fucking mad every day lately because I read this sub too much. I started a horrible epic battle with feminists I don't even know on facebook because of the guys comment this morning about having to sign up for selective service to get financial aid. Fuck. I don't know how you guys deal with the anger, I'm choking on my hatred here.
/r/MensRights03/07/18 07:58 PM
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You have no idea the ugly battle I've started on Facebook because of your post, thanks a lot. Got me off to a real bad mood for today!
/r/MensRights03/07/18 07:55 PM
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She does any kind of design/manager work from the office or working from home. The industry is trying to get more women (God knows why), like every other male-dominated industry, so they let women get away with anything and promote them to managers as soon as they can.
/r/MensRights03/07/18 04:15 PM
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My husband is traveling for work again and I'll be alone for the 4th like I was for Memorial Day, and Thanksgiving last year. His female co-worker refuses to travel because she hates going to the field (they are civil-geotechnical engineers in mining). She made up a stomach issue and now they don't make her travel anymore. I know it's made up because she bragged about it to me at a party. Pretty stupid to brag about it to me, considering that means my husband is the one who has to travel to thes…
/r/MensRights03/07/18 02:55 PM
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So my mom was always a registered nurse. Her last 10 years of nursing she worked in a nursing home, which was always short staffed. They have had bad snowstorms the past few years making it very dangerous to get to work, so sometimes nurses try to call out. Guess who always agrees to take their shift and come in despite the storm? Male nurses. My mom loves male nurses and thinks if they get higher salaries it’s well deserved.
/r/MensRights03/07/18 02:02 AM
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Thanks this was a very interesting article.
/r/MensRights02/07/18 09:20 PM
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You will get the hang of it. :) It sounds like you want to be more organized.
/r/MensRights01/07/18 05:45 PM
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I’m glad you got out of that relationship! Living with a slob is miserable.
/r/MensRights01/07/18 05:44 PM
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That still sounds like an efficiency problem to me though. I would never scrub a tub or toilet, for example, you apply an agent and come back to wipe it off after it has worked. I break down a box as soon as I open it, etc. Dishes in dishwasher as soon as you’re done using. The issue with keto diet is if she cooks with lard... that is very difficult to get off of things.
/r/MensRights01/07/18 04:18 PM
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The second I’m done with a dish or cup it goes into the dishwasher, and I also clean up while I’m cooking. I take care of my husbands’ dishes too because it only takes me a second to put them in the dishwasher. There is no time spent on dishes at my house. I unload the dishwasher every morning while waiting for my tea water to boil. A lot of times when I read these articles complaining about chores I just think these people are inefficient. Take 30 seconds to re-order a room before you leave it …
/r/MensRights01/07/18 12:10 PM
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Holy shit that’s stupid Edit: I mean it’s stupid they do that, Im not calling you stupid!
/r/MensRights30/06/18 03:05 AM
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I like and agree with where you’re going here but that’s not how they do the math. Generally when they derive their statistics they’re looking at men and women in the same job role with the same years of experience. They wouldn’t be averaging in the salary of a CEO along with Starbucks employees for example. So saying the average salaries of men are pulled up by millionaires isn’t realistic. Unless you can find sources where they do that? I haven’t come cross any but wouldn’t rule it out. If the…
/r/MensRights30/06/18 12:35 AM
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I understand why you feel that way, but some of us are on your side. For example, my mother is a nurse and has called the police for male patients she suspected were victims of domestic violence. A lot of this world doesn't take male issues seriously, but some of us do.
/r/MensRights29/06/18 08:44 PM
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Wow thank you, it's actually just because I have a twin brother and it's been enraging to see some of the crap he's had to deal with because of women. I truly cannot believe some of the crap feminists (who I know personally) write about how they don't trust men in general, meanwhile I know for a fact they have nice fathers or brothers. I used to think man-hating feminists must have grown up with bad fathers, but even that's not true. It's like they're nuts, they like being victims.
/r/MensRights29/06/18 08:03 PM
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I'd act dumb and concerned to make it awkward for the person who said it. "What are you trying to say? Did my wife say something about not being happy?"
/r/MensRights29/06/18 07:26 PM
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In my company you apply a software position and then the manager determines your level when they decide to hire you. I think this co-worker did negotiate and I didn't, so that makes a difference. My manager is a woman and we've all noticed she treats her female employees less nicely. My female friend/co-worker and I have teamed up to do all of the extra things she keeps asking for if we want a promotion, but the guys do not seem to have to do all this extra stuff (like work with the local univer…
/r/MensRights29/06/18 03:31 PM
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Yeah I realize it sounds like an /r/thathappened, but it’s definitely true. At one of the Lean In meetings discussing unfair work advantages I brought up what happened at the NYSE right after 9/11 (my dad worked there) which was total bullshit. The NYSE trading floor was closed for al7-10 days but they still needed people to come in. Only men came in; the female employees all refused. My dad has lung issues from it. After that week the NYSE wanted to give everyone who came in a bonus,m for riski…
/r/MensRights29/06/18 12:08 PM
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Thank you, I actually have already complained months ago and stopped going for a while. To be honest though as far as compensation it seems like men may already be compensated more here. I’ve worked at two other software companies and everything seemed fair and balanced. Everyone talks salaries where I’ve worked and of the 3 women who work in software in my department, all the men make substantially more, I mean $10k or more. For example I helped in a guy who I knew from a previous job; he had o…
/r/MensRights29/06/18 12:00 PM
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This is dark, but I sort of agree with you. I think they will push too far.
/r/MensRights29/06/18 02:25 AM
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HR was there! We signed an agreement before this meeting that everything said in the meeting stays in the meeting. :)
/r/MensRights28/06/18 11:09 PM
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I am very biased. My twin brother was sexually assaulted by a female co-worker (she grabbed his genitals) when he was just in high school. He was very affected by that as he was insecure kid, but the boss said it was a joke and didn't do anything. That was 10 years ago but I'm still very angry about it, it's what got me into MRA.
/r/MensRights28/06/18 10:06 PM
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No they were not aware. It's actually a monthly "Lean In" meeting for all the women and it's paid for by the company and they provide lunch. This month was a #metoo special. I blab about it to my male co-workers though because I like to stir the pot, and I also think it's unfair. But I go for the free lunch and I usually talk the most at the meetings and disagree with everything. Especially when they show a feminist Ted talk, god I can't stand those.
/r/MensRights28/06/18 10:01 PM
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Sort of. I agree with the conclusion that women prefer not to enter Comp Sci. I don't agree with the evidence Mr. Damore provides to arrive at that conclusion, but I agree with this academic's evidence.
/r/MensRights28/06/18 07:08 PM
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Now this guy I can agree with. (Didn’t agree with James Damore.)
/r/MensRights28/06/18 12:32 PM
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Fun article, but the US Navy did not win WWII like the article claims.
/r/MensRights25/06/18 07:12 PM
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Good for the boy. On a side note, I never understood why women (or anyone) say they want to dress the way they want to "express" themselves. If you need to decorate your body in different ways to express who you are then I feel like you must not have very much going on inside.
/r/MensRights21/06/18 03:22 PM
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Wow, I had my eggs frozen before cancer treatment and there were so many consent forms my husband and I had to sign, even though we weren't even creating embryos (using his sperm to fertilize the eggs and then freezing them). I was given a binder of papers by the clinic mostly discussing the ethics of this that is over 300 pages. I'm pretty sure if I die the eggs will be destroyed, he won't have a right to them even if I wanted him to. What they did to this man is a total violation of his rights…
/r/MensRights20/06/18 02:32 PM
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I know. Also super hero movies. I can’t stand Marvel movies or DC Comics or whatever, to me humans with super powers are super lame. I don’t know any other women who actually like these movies, most of us just suffer through them for our husbands. Why are feminists always demanding more female super heroes? You can’t force men to watch female super heroes (or women’s sports for that matter), when women don’t even want to watch them. And Lara Croft should have big boobs, that’s the key part of he…
/r/MensRights20/06/18 01:18 PM
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I don’t like any of the Ocean’s movies, but I know several women who avoided movies like Oceans 8 and the all female Ghostbusters because these movies just seem like they’re “getting back” at men by having all women. It’s like feminists have to invade and ruin every space for men.
/r/MensRights20/06/18 02:21 AM
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You’re right, I do find HTML stressful
/r/MensRights20/06/18 12:15 AM
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What then makes a job stressful? Who gets to decide which jobs are most stressful? If a coder gets to decide they have a stressful job because they have to stick to a deadline otherwise the company will lose money, why can't anyone else decide their job is stressful too? The most common occupation for women is teaching. Do you think none of them find their job stressful? Having to grade papers every night, prepare lessons, deal with unruly children and pushy parents, having to hold your urine un…
/r/MensRights19/06/18 08:09 PM
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We are talking money versus human lives. If you think the stress of having your stakeholders see their ROI go down this quarter is comparable to intaking a toddler who hasn't been breathing for 4 minutes, then I don't know what to tell you. I'm not saying coding is devoid of stress, I work on satellites, my mistakes can cost my company a lot of money too. But I try to keep things in perspective.
/r/MensRights19/06/18 04:52 PM
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I also want to add that there are still many, many full-time jobs in the US that don't earn one enough money to guarantee affording both a mortgage/rent payment and putting food on the table for your family. I would say any of those jobs are more stressful than software engineering, where at least you know you'll be taking home a decent paycheck. Deadlines suck, but it would suck more to work 2-3 jobs to feed your family. I can't imagine the stress such people feel.
/r/MensRights19/06/18 04:45 PM
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I am not surprised. You may have noticed the more extreme feminists tend to be very stupid.
/r/MensRights19/06/18 04:36 PM
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I don't think either should be subsidized at all though. I was just commenting on the moon/diva cup (haven't heard of "moon cup" before, is that a British thing?)
/r/MensRights19/06/18 04:35 PM
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Right but certainly no matter how stressful your job is at coding, it is not as stressful as a job with a high risk of death or injury to yourself or others, or a job with a 22+ hour shifts. Or am I missing something? Nurses regularly have very long shifts and can easily make mistakes that cause injury or death, but this is a very popular job amongst women. There is no way nursing is less stressful than any coding job. Edit: I have gotten your argument before. This is why I said that coding is n…
/r/MensRights19/06/18 04:25 PM
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Remember this is blood we're talking about, a medium for transferring disease. The kind of thing people handle with gloves. Blood on someone's pants that could get on seats or doorknobs that other people then touch with their bare hands. It is a hygiene issue for everyone. I just don't see how not shaving is as critical. And again I'm not saying tampons should be subsidized. Just that the necessity of razors is not at all on a level with tampons and pads.
/r/MensRights19/06/18 04:09 PM
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I take it you didn't read the next line? I certainly couldn't do this working at my local takeaway in college. I genuinely didn't understand what you mean here. Which low level jobs would you have to run home and shave if you forgot to shave with the same urgency as a woman who bleeds through her pants?
/r/MensRights19/06/18 04:03 PM
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Okay I am a female coder. I agreed and disagreed with James Damore after reading his entire essay, and the sources he cited. I don't think most people read his essay, just the articles about it. I have one issue with his article though, and it is a major one. His main argument is that women avoid coding jobs because women are biologically wired to avoid difficult and stressful jobs. That's a fine hypothesis. He then goes on to provide a well-cited argument for why women avoid difficult/stressful…
/r/MensRights19/06/18 03:55 PM
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But there are a lot of high profile male positions where having facial hair simply isn't acceptable So these types of positions would apply to men who are well off, in a good job. Bleeding through your pants applies to every woman regardless of job. They are not comparable. Stuffing toilet roll will help until you find a tampon. If I'm on a heavy day that buys me just a few minutes.
/r/MensRights19/06/18 03:26 PM
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Oh I'm not saying they should be subsidized. I don't think they should be for the general public. I said below I would support my tax dollars giving free tampons to very low income school districts because many girls in the US still miss school every month because their parents can't or won't buy them tampons. If shaving is important to male students then I'd support razors for them too. To be honest though I think that razors and tampons are not quite comparable. I am in the US as a software de…
/r/MensRights19/06/18 03:08 PM
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I would totally support my tax dollars giving free tampons and pads to very low income school districts. There are still many students in this country who miss school every month due to their period because their parents either can't afford, or won't for religious reasons, buy their daughters those sanitary products. I'm a white woman and admit that white women have pretty much solely benefited from the feminist movement in the US. I debate with myself a lot whether it is helpful to publicly dis…
/r/MensRights19/06/18 02:32 PM
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I don't know if you are a woman, but have you used a moon or diva cup? I wanted so much to like them because they are much better for the environment, but I found them too difficult to use. I tried for several periods. My issue was that they were sometimes very difficult to get out and sometimes leaked. I also have endometriosis and for some reason they made my pain worse, whereas tampons improve the pain, and I have no idea why. Again, cups are very cost effective and far better for the environ…
/r/MensRights19/06/18 02:24 PM
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It's a great response, but this is like saying doing all of that for your kids means you are the mother. I think fathers can cook, clean and do their daughters' hair without being considered a mother, it's just what fathers do too. The "happy mother's day to single fathers" is sort of implying if you do all of that for your kid, you're a mother and get to celebrate Mother's Day, whereas traditional fathers are just meant to bring home the bacon and not do hair and cooking.
/r/MensRights19/06/18 02:17 PM
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How can they even tell him he's not welcome? They don't own the space or get to decide. I can just imagine them saying this to my dad, he would go absolutely nuclear and tell them to go f*** themselves.
/r/MensRights18/06/18 08:26 PM
4

Oh yeah I agree with you
/r/MensRights16/06/18 01:35 PM
2

Am in total agreement with you, both that women should be held accountable and that some people are more sensitive to these things and shouldn’t be trampled over by the less sensitive. I can definitely believe you’ve seen a lot with your line of work.
/r/MensRights16/06/18 01:09 PM
0

I’m not a moderator so I can’t ban anyone. In your defense, you were called a pervert and I don’t support name-calling. As inane as your original argument is I don’t see any evidence that you’re a pervert.
/r/MensRights16/06/18 01:06 PM
3

You can report him but I think it’s evident to all you’re looking to get a rise out of people.
/r/MensRights16/06/18 01:04 PM
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I agree and disagree about unwanted nudity. Unwanted nudity is very unpleasant to look at, but one can always just look away. If there is implicit threat with the nudity then that is different, more serious. But I understand if you feel differently about any kind of nudity. Also, I do think exposing your butt cracks and thong should count as indecent exposure (I’m saying women expose themselves all the time but don’t get in trouble.)
/r/MensRights16/06/18 01:02 PM
8

Agreed, I wish more non-violent criminals were given community service as punishment. Except white collar criminals and hedge fund managers...
/r/MensRights16/06/18 12:58 PM
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I don’t really have a problem with flashers or people who expose their self. I remember as a teen girl a man on the train had his genitals out and was looking at me, probably to see my reaction. I suppose it’s from having a mother who was a nurse at a mental health hospital, but my only thought was this man mentally has some issue going on and it doesn’t have anything to do with me. The #metoo culture now would turn this into some life altering traumatic event, but then again your problems are a…
/r/MensRights16/06/18 12:54 PM
1

What sort of judicial outcome constitutes a slap on the wrist in your opinion? A month of probation?
/r/MensRights16/06/18 12:47 PM
1

I only agree with you because the prison population is too large as it is. I would rather see an offender of this crime be made to do community service than prison time, where they are just a waste of resources. But I do consider taking upskirt photos a crime.
/r/MensRights16/06/18 12:44 PM
15

I think she’s talking about the female equivalent of male feminists who apologize for the behavior of other men and for being male. Which would be a female MRA apologizing for being a woman
/r/MensRights16/06/18 12:40 PM
3

What do you think a person’s sentence should be for taking upskirt photos? Or what was the gist of what you said in your comment?
/r/MensRights16/06/18 12:33 PM
3

I’m happy to hear your daughter enjoys science. :) In my opinion there has been nothing holding girls back from science except the “girl power” messaging that constantly implies and reminds girls that it’s not normal for them to be good at things. Such a stupid and harmful campaign.
/r/MensRights12/06/18 03:23 AM
11

I agree with you, coming from a woman in STEM. I've written this elsewhere but the only sexism I've ever been on the receiving end of is from my female manager.
/r/MensRights11/06/18 09:16 PM
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I'm a woman in STEM and so is my brilliant sister in law (math professor at an Ivy League now). We've actually asked feminists who complain about the lack of women in STEM why they didn't enter STEM and the answer is always that men make them feel unwelcome in the sciences from an early age, gender bias and discrimination, etc. You can never even get them to begin to see your point with this question.
/r/MensRights11/06/18 09:12 PM
6

Wow, I had no idea about 'werewolf' and 'wife'. I also amazing that "person" has Etruscan origins, wow.
/r/MensRights08/06/18 02:57 PM
1

What the fuck...
/r/MensRights07/06/18 08:54 PM
2

You mean white woman married to a rich white guy
/r/MensRights07/06/18 11:58 AM
2

Don't get me wrong, I wish there was more treatment based research too. :) My husband has a lot of heart disease in his family, so that treatment would definitely benefit us too.
/r/MensRights04/06/18 03:35 PM
1

But it does look like there is research and it's being well-studied. If you google "ncbi cardiovascular testosterone" there are a lot of articles published over the last 10 years looking into testosterone and the cardiovascular system, and there was recently an NIH-funded TRT trial in this area of study. Why do you feel like this is not being researched, am I missing something?
/r/MensRights04/06/18 03:29 PM
1

It's true that heart disease affects men more, but then again we as a society are heavily educated about heart disease. Watching your cholesterol is something we learn in health class as children. Every box of Cheerios (and many other foods) has an AHA heart stamp on it that it's good for heart health. Everybody knows the signs of a heart attack (pain in the left shoulder) that are classic to men; women's symptoms of a heart attack are completely different, but most women don't even know that. H…
/r/MensRights04/06/18 02:38 PM
1

As I've posted before, I think a lot of men don't tend to think or care about their health until they develop a serious illness like invasive cancer. They have a "it won't happen to me" mindset and they will do anything to avoid the doctor. For example, a couple of months ago I posted a PSA here about the importance of BRCA1/BRCA2 mutation testing in men who have reproductive cancer in their family history, because testing positive for a mutation is strongly associated with more invasive and let…
/r/MensRights04/06/18 02:14 PM
7

Good way of putting it.
/r/MensRights03/06/18 04:45 PM
6

You are right, got ahead of myself there.
/r/MensRights03/06/18 04:45 PM
11

How should I go at it? You mean it’s too inflammatory?
/r/MensRights03/06/18 04:12 PM
22

I posted it to my Facebook with hashtags #metoo and #yesallwomen, we’ll see if any of my feminist friends bite.
/r/MensRights03/06/18 03:26 PM
2

I would totally support that, I honestly think I would get more done in 32 hours than 40 hours. Half days would be even better. 40 hours is just too much, it gets so boring.
/r/MensRights03/06/18 01:05 PM
2

That’s true good points
/r/MensRights01/06/18 09:24 PM
1

That’s what I’m trying to say. The title was misleading. I’m also aware kids can lie
/r/MensRights01/06/18 11:47 AM
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They made ‘past sexual assault allegations’ against a 50 year old coach for fondling them at ages 8 and 9. You’re making it sound like they falsely accused another student or something so the male cheerleader is afraid of being accused too. That’s not what’s happening here.
/r/MensRights01/06/18 03:35 AM
1

Yes I agree with this, I think some or a lot of it is perception and lack of confidence. If you feel fearful of men then I think you would be more likely to perceive certain interactions with men as offensive or scary. It is also a self fulfilling prophecy because your fear is visible to other people, and criminals and abusers tend to prey on people they believe will not fight back, people who don't say "no".
/r/MensRights31/05/18 01:54 PM
1

I have never been sexually harassed on the street and I’m not fat or ugly. I believe a lot of it comes down to confidence. I have a great dad who taught me about MRA since I was little. I grew up with a twin brother I am very close to. I feel I understand men more than I understand women. In fact there is some research showing that prenatal testosterone on a female brain from the male twin alters their brain to be permanently more masculine. I trust all men by default; they are not scary to me. …
/r/MensRights31/05/18 11:23 AM
10

She says rapists should have an R tattooed to their cheek... did I read that correctly?
/r/MensRights31/05/18 10:52 AM
15

I’d think if you said “child genital mutilation” a lot of people would have no idea that refers to circumcision too, unfortunately.
/r/MensRights30/05/18 01:20 AM
6

I thought he meant feminists who don’t acknowledge that women, not just men, carry out FGM on other women. Kind of like how more than half of anti-abortion activists are women and even when it’s a female governor who signs an abortion restriction into law feminists still typically blame men. “Men have no business making laws for women,” “Men get your hands off my uterus.”
/r/MensRights29/05/18 01:40 PM
14

The only job I’ve ever seen women do during road work is hold up the STOP sign.
/r/MensRights28/05/18 07:15 PM
3

Thank you this is a great explanation. Yes I’ve heard and read that women tend to enter the less demanding types of medicine.
/r/MensRights28/05/18 01:29 PM
3

Can you explain how it works in the NHS though? (I’m in the US.) The article states that women’s base salaries are around 10k lower than men’s. I could see if they were paid hourly how men would end up making more since they work many more hours, but they’re talking salaries here. Do you mean that men tend to receive higher annual salary adjustments because of their longer hours worked?
/r/MensRights28/05/18 11:18 AM
11

Are you in therapy for these feelings?
/r/MensRights28/05/18 12:11 AM
3

Jewish people are the second wealthiest "ethnic" group in the US, and make up about 1/3 of the US billionaires. They're doing fine. I don't see why being Jewish is still used as a victim status.
/r/MensRights27/05/18 11:11 PM
2

Feminists in reality are actually a very tiny category of people largely made up of middle/upper class rich white women who have nothing better to do with their time than harass innocent people about fuck all I COMPLETELY agree with you.
/r/MensRights27/05/18 09:08 PM
1

Yeah dignity or like humor. If you’re not uptight this kind of banter can be a lot of fun.
/r/MensRights27/05/18 05:50 PM
2

Exactly. Sometimes I cannot believe the difference in how someone perceives something vs how another perceives it. It would really help if more people approached situations with humor, I feel.
/r/MensRights27/05/18 12:18 PM
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I have a friend from Trinidad who’s happily married, but can’t help himself, he’s always making risqué and sexual jokes, comments and innuendos to women he knows. It’s a deeply engrained part of his culture. You will never be able to make him understand that anyone could be offended by it, because to him it’s harmless. He legitimately doesn’t mean anything by it, it’s just stuff to say, it would never go anywhere. Nobody I know is offended by it, and it’s fun to sass him back. I don’t know how M…
/r/MensRights27/05/18 02:52 AM
2

And insulting to both genders
/r/MensRights26/05/18 07:17 PM
6

My work has a Lean In program just for women and I complained about it to HR, that it’s not right to have meetings about career advancement and feelings in the workplace when men don’t get the same thing. They didn’t do anything about it, but I try to call it out when something seems unfair.
/r/MensRights26/05/18 05:32 PM
8

I completely agree with him, and am glad he had the nerve to say it.
/r/MensRights26/05/18 05:30 PM
5

It said he joked about (or acted like he wanted to) lifting up her skirt, not that he did. Where did it say he touched someone’s breast, I didn’t read that?
/r/MensRights26/05/18 05:29 PM
1

Sexual harassment is not a crime, there’s nothing to convict if that’s all he’s accused of.
/r/MensRights26/05/18 05:27 PM
9

I kept thinking it must have been a parody.
/r/MensRights26/05/18 09:14 AM
17

There was another thread here on /r/MensRights in which the poster wrote Morgan Freeman is being accused of “sexual assault”. I corrected him that he’s actually just being accused of sexual harassment, which is not even a criminal offense, and so I got trashed as a stupid feminist... how that even makes sense I don’t know. Edit: grammar
/r/MensRights26/05/18 05:17 AM
1

How stupid are you? He does not need due process rights. Sexual harassment is not a crime, it's not a criminal offense. All he has been accused of is sexual harassment. Legally it is not a crime; there's nothing to convict.
/r/MensRights25/05/18 11:48 PM
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As of now there is not going to be a trial. I don't know why you all think there is. He was accused only of sexual harassment; it's not a criminal offense. They can sue, but nobody can convict him of anything because he did not commit a crime. edit: grammar
/r/MensRights25/05/18 11:46 PM
1

I don't see what they could convict him for. All anyone has accused him of is sexual harassment. Sexual harassment is not a criminal offense. They can sue, but they can't convict him of a crime.
/r/MensRights25/05/18 11:44 PM
1

Actually, to me it looks like you are the feminist. I came here, in defense of Morgan Freeman, to state that what he committed is sexual harassment, not sexual assault. Sexual assault, aka rape, is a much more serious crime. Yet here you are arguing with me, and you continue to argue with me. I can only believe that you must believe Morgan Freeman is guilty of sexual assault. This would mean that you consider things like catcalling and hitting on women at work rape. You obviously hate men, and w…
/r/MensRights25/05/18 11:39 PM
3

This is why I'm not ordering on Amazon as much anymore and going elsewhere. So many fake reviews, especially on products endorsed by Amazon.
/r/MensRights25/05/18 07:21 PM
2

I don't have a son, and I'm not a feminist. I have a twin brother who was sexually assaulted on his first day of work by a girl and I've been out for revenge on feminists for years.
/r/MensRights25/05/18 02:43 PM
4

Want to make it clear is that what I was originally commenting on is that people are starting to mix up or conflate "sexual harassment" with "sexual assault", which are two very different things. Sexual assault is much more serious. But if the public starts thinking of them as sort of the same thing, that's not good. I think many of us, male and female, are guilty of saying stupid or offensive things in our lives, including at work, and offending a co-worker or making them feel uncomfortable, an…
/r/MensRights25/05/18 02:42 PM
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They can't in this day and age. But sexual assault is a much worse thing to be accused of, and if you on this forum made the mistake of thinking it was sexual assault, imagine what regular people and feminists think. Not good to conflate the two. In my opinion, after reading all the articles that came out, Morgan Freeman didn't even really do anything that bad. Telling a woman to twirl or calling a pregnant woman "ripe"? So what? They're stupid things to say, move on. I cannot believe the outrag…
/r/MensRights25/05/18 02:39 PM
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He's accused of sexual misconduct, sexual harassment, or inappropriate behavior, not sexual assault.
/r/MensRights25/05/18 02:24 PM
1

I’m usually wearing sneakers and I still can’t navigate worth a damn, so I doubt shoes play a factor.
/r/MensRights25/05/18 04:56 AM
15

They did the same thing for autism right? Autism overwhelmingly affects young boys more than girls, so when Sesame Street decided to make their first Autistic character... they made a girl.
/r/MensRights24/05/18 06:12 PM
2

I am not a feminist, I'm aligned with MRA. I wish to see this movement get more mainstream acceptance, and that seems impossible to me if MRA gets mixed up in claims that would be made over at /r/incel.
/r/MensRights24/05/18 06:04 PM
0

The people beneath me are the cleaning staff, which are all Hispanic women. I'm a software developer, so I work with all men except for 2 other women.
/r/MensRights24/05/18 06:00 PM
0

as a man if you're not qualified you're not gonna get the job, if you are qualified tho.. you'll still likely not get it You are saying here unqualified men "don't get the job" and qualified men still will not likely get the job. Those are your words. This implies there are no or very few men who have jobs, since you yourself said that even qualified men won't likely get a job.
/r/MensRights24/05/18 02:36 PM
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So there are no men with jobs? 95% of my colleagues are men. I’m the only female on whatever team I’m on, always. The entire board of 30 or so directors is men; we have a wall of their portraits that you see as soon as you enter the building. All men in fancy suits. The CEO and VPs are all men. I get that white women have been most privileged by affirmative action, but to say qualified men won’t get the job is ridiculous. Get it through your thick skull: you are making MRA look bad with exaggera…
/r/MensRights24/05/18 01:52 PM
24

Are you a writer? I’m rarely so entertained by a Reddit comment but this was both funny and very well written.
/r/MensRights24/05/18 04:30 AM
5

What does this have to do with men’s rights?
/r/MensRights24/05/18 04:26 AM
2

Women and girls are constantly fighting the dress code, and were when I was in school (belly shirts, shirts that show the entire back from the bra strap down, etc.). I can’t believe how some of the women at my work dress, especially when it’s summer. One girl we hired showed up in jean shorts that looked like underwear and stiletto heels a few days after she started. You could see the bottom of her butt cheeks. I’m not sure if anyone said anything but she did tone it down after that. I just don’…
/r/MensRights20/05/18 07:35 PM
3

About the mischarging videos? Nope I’m not joking. My friend pointed it out to me so we went back and watched previous years too to see. It’s really surprising because our company is very “pro women” and even has a Lean In group. I’m starting to suspect the salaries aren’t fair here either between genders because a male coworker and I worked together at a previous company (software) and jumped ship to this one at roughly the same time. I had 2.5 years more experience than him and a MS degree (he…
/r/MensRights20/05/18 04:47 PM
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I completely agree with you. If it makes you feel any better, this is the fourth year in a row my company showed ethical time charging videos in which in every scenario where an employee mischarged (like charging lunch or going shopping as work time) the employee was a female, and always being corrected by a man. In one scenario the female employee was even instructed to charge some of her vacation as labor by her female boss, then they were both reprimanded by a man. My company makes their own …
/r/MensRights20/05/18 02:31 PM
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Just let them keep fighting for their right to be half naked in school, it’s obviously very important to them.
/r/MensRights20/05/18 12:58 PM
1

That’s actually a really good idea.
/r/MensRights19/05/18 12:53 PM
3

Make way for the women and cripples
/r/MensRights19/05/18 12:33 PM
3

I’ve known about MRA, followed it, and considered myself pro-MRA in my own way since I was a freshman in high school, and I’m 31 now, so more than 15 years. I’m female but have never considered myself a feminist. I’ve seen too many injustices happen to men, to my father, husband, and brother. My brother was groped by a female coworker on his genitals on his first day at his first job but nobody besides me ever considered it sexual assault. I have a lot of stories about the crap the men in my fam…
/r/MensRights16/05/18 02:19 AM
11

I’m a woman and you know why I don’t like open plan offices? It’s easier to get caught doing jack shit on the internet while I’m supposed to be working.
/r/MensRights16/05/18 01:49 AM
1

I had no idea! Thanks for giving me new ammo when arguing with my feminist acquaintances.
/r/MensRights15/05/18 12:47 PM
5

My husband is a geotechnical engineer in mining. An ongoing issue he and other male co-workers have at work is that when an engineer needs to go out to the field (almost always a remote location in a desert), the female geotechs always find a way out of it. Most don’t even have kids, but they never have to travel. They always make up a ton of excuses and management doesn’t force them. It really sucks because then my husband and the other guys have to take more rotations. If they had only male en…
/r/MensRights15/05/18 10:36 AM
7

I earn more than him, both of us make very good money.
/r/MensRights13/05/18 08:25 PM
17

I have to say some of this article is true. My husband has a travel season for work where he’ll have to leave for a month at a time, and when he’s gone my workload in the house gets much, much easier. I also get more yard work done. And for the record we both work full time and I make a little more. But I miss him a lot when he’s gone and would rather have him home all the time. Marriage is a give and take, he brings things to the marriage other than domestic chores that I don’t. This article is…
/r/MensRights13/05/18 10:41 AM
1

I feel like this might as well also put a spotlight on Jewish men. The majority of the recent high profile Hollywood/political men accused of sexual/assault by women have been wealthy Jewish men, including Schneiderman. Even the Israel Times has written about it in concern.
/r/MensRights11/05/18 01:26 AM
2

Agreed, thanks for adding to this. I personally have had ovarian cancer and learned we don’t even have a test for ovarian cancer; the only way to know is after surgical pathology. So the fact that breast cancer gets a disproportionate amount of attention and funding has been apparent to me as well.
/r/MensRights10/05/18 09:51 AM
4

To be honest, I think you men don't think about cancer. I made a post here a week ago about prostate cancer and the importance of BRCA testing and almost nobody looked at it or responded to it. I think women in general are much more interested in their health and are aware of the reality that breast cancer and ovarian cancer can happen to anybody. All the men I know have more of "well it's not going to happen to me" attitude. My good friend died of prostate cancer because he ignored his doctor's…
/r/MensRights09/05/18 08:58 PM
4

There are some interesting studies done about the victim mindset. Here's the abstract of one that found victim mentality caused people to behave more selfishly: Victim entitlement to behave selfishly. Zitek EM1, Jordan AH, Monin B, Leach FR. Author information Abstract Three experiments demonstrated that feeling wronged leads to a sense of entitlement and to selfish behavior. In Experiment 1, participants instructed to recall a time when their lives were unfair were more likely to refuse to help…
/r/MensRights09/05/18 06:00 PM
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Thank you for saying not every women does it. I have been grabbed on the butt before, but the worst was when I was laying helpless hours after brain surgery and the male nurse pretended to fuss with the electrodes on my chest and groped/fondled me. I haven't mentioned this or any incident to anyone because I just don't care. Maybe I should have gotten the male nurse in trouble, but I've read female nurses do similar things and don't get in trouble. It's all about perspective. A lot of people rea…
/r/MensRights09/05/18 02:39 PM
0

Okay, two teen girls in India were just gang raped and set on fire, so it's not like girls have it easy there either. In one of the cases, the men who gang raped the girl were ordered to do 100 situps and pay the family $700 something as punishment. So then they set the girl on fire.
/r/MensRights08/05/18 09:22 PM
1

Sure maybe you are right. :)
/r/MensRights08/05/18 06:54 PM
1

That sounds a bit more like my last company, due to bad old-school management, but my current company is a lot better run and we never have to work overtime. We plan things out a lot better so that critical bugs never really happen last second and the work is done incrementally so we are never rushing to catch up. No offense to the older generation, but we have younger management here, a lot of whom used to be engineers themselves, whereas at my last job it was mostly college-to-management baby …
/r/MensRights08/05/18 05:15 PM
1

Are you in the video game industry?
/r/MensRights08/05/18 04:51 PM
-1

It is interesting to see people downvoting you for pointing out facts. The point of the video was to show feminists having a hard time swallowing the facts, but you can see that here in this thread too, with people downvoting you because they don't like the facts that don't support their views either.
/r/MensRights08/05/18 03:21 PM
1

Software engineers, for example, make great money and it's a super easy, cushy job. I'd much rather be in software engineering than be a teacher.
/r/MensRights08/05/18 03:20 PM
1

Huh? I’m not taking it seriously, I think it’s hilarious and makes a great point, that girls have had the tools they need to get into STEM for a long time already so they can’t use that excuse anymore
/r/MensRights08/05/18 12:54 PM
3

Disappointing but not surprising. This is the kind of information I like to see on this sub; good find.
/r/MensRights08/05/18 11:55 AM
1

Yes, the plan is to wipe out all men and boys by 2030.
/r/MensRights08/05/18 11:47 AM
3

My understanding is that girls get better grades at the “A levels” so tend to be selected to go on to medical school(?) more. I’m not sure how it works in the UK.
/r/MensRights08/05/18 11:44 AM
0

Well they would smell clean temporarily after a shower since they would have washed the bacteria byproduct away and there is the scent of soap. But if you keep your pH balanced you smell clean all the time, not just after a shower, which it sounds like your ex knew to do.
/r/MensRights08/05/18 03:32 AM
2

I agree with you. MRA will never be taken seriously if all people see is men complaining about “it’s not fair!” and “but it’s the feminists’ fault.” Take circumcision for example; was this even an issue on men’s radar until feminists started railing against female genital mutilation? It’s become like siblings keeping score over who gets what here. If MRA is meant to be just complaining about women and about how shitty men have it, then fine. If not, then MRA needs to focus on specific issues, li…
/r/MensRights08/05/18 03:23 AM
0

Regarding the smell, sounds like these women have yet to learn about feminine soaps that are the same pH as the vaginal area and boric acid suppositories(!). Also it’s not about cleaning properly in fact the vagina is self-cleaning, but any soap used needs to be the same pH or you will cause the bacteria to go out of balance.
/r/MensRights08/05/18 03:09 AM
1

These comments seem more incel than MRA to me.
/r/MensRights07/05/18 09:41 PM
1

I would think this is largely automated, I doubt they have staff sitting there reading the complaints. It could be like they have to receive x number of complaints in order to hide the results, or if they receive complaints they do some lexical/keyword analysis to see if it's a problem. I don't know how they do things, it's just a guess.
/r/MensRights07/05/18 09:40 PM
1

I completely agree! Sorry I misunderstood you. Yes it is not good for the perception of MRA, completely agree.
/r/MensRights07/05/18 09:11 PM
3

I don't know which seems more likely. That Google, which is mostly men engineers, is ensuring that only men have bad auto-predict results about themselves, no matter how you type the phrase... or that some search phrases were reported as inappropriate by other groups, but men, who are not typically bothered by bad things said about them because they're used it, didn't bother to report unkind auto-predicts about men. The second seems more likely to me.
/r/MensRights07/05/18 09:00 PM
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As I mentioned elsewhere, on Google and Bing you can report auto-predict results for being inappropriate. My guess is that people saw the results for "why are women so" and reported them, but nobody reported the results for "why are men so". You searched "women are so" and I'm guessing nobody reported those results. My other guess is that maybe something like "why are women so bitchy", or a word like bitchy that is explicit or vulgar, was searched for a lot. This would have made it an auto-predi…
/r/MensRights07/05/18 08:48 PM
4

That's not what I got. My top two results were "why are women so mean to each other", and the third was "why are women so emotional."
/r/MensRights07/05/18 08:44 PM
1

Well I stated an alternative explanation, which is that maybe nobody ever bothered to report the auto-predict results for "why are men so". Maybe the results for others were worse, or maybe people just got more offended, so they reported it. I would be surprised if more than a handful of people (if anyone besides me) on this thread even bothered to report the "why are men so" results. Another explanation might be that the auto-predict results for women or other groups might have contained terms …
/r/MensRights07/05/18 08:37 PM
0

What are you talking about though that men do all of the work and make most of the money? In 40% of US households with a child under age 18, the mother is the primary breadwinner.
/r/MensRights07/05/18 08:12 PM
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You can report inappropriate Google search predictions (the link is right under the search bar when predictions are showing). My guess is nobody reported the "why are men so" search results, but did report the "why are women so."
/r/MensRights07/05/18 08:09 PM
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You can "Report inappropriate predictions" on Google, so I reported this. Did anyone else? Probably nobody ever bothered to report it before. If you search for "why are <any-race> people so", it doesn't auto-predict either. If you search for "why are puppies so" it auto-predicts (cute) stuff.
/r/MensRights07/05/18 08:06 PM
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I never indicate anywhere that I assume anything, although a lot of people here are getting very defensive and saying I am. I'm saying exactly what I mean: ALL we know about the girls is that they are in high school. That could mean they are 18, that could also mean they are 14. We don't know. That is not an assumption, it is a fact. We don't know.
/r/MensRights07/05/18 04:52 PM
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This video is sarcasm not sure I interpreted your comment correctly
/r/MensRights07/05/18 01:15 PM
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I did not know this so I admit I was wrong.
/r/MensRights07/05/18 01:02 PM
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I just don’t consider high schoolers adults, even if they’re 18, and especially if they’re still living with their parents and don’t even know how to pay a bill or what they want to do with their life, but it seems a lot of people here do so I’m in the minority. Maybe that does make me a bigot. Yes in the original story it was indicated that they’d been friends since middle school, so it is possible to think the relationship started in middle school but I won’t dare “assume” that because that wo…
/r/MensRights07/05/18 12:59 PM
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I live in the US, where do you live? There are almost a million abortions a year here or about 3000 a day, so somebody isn’t wearing condoms.
/r/MensRights07/05/18 12:20 AM
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This is the story as it was written: I have a friend who's dad married her middle school best friend, while they were still in highschool... It made her question why here mom left him shortly after several sleepovers with this girl. And I think her mom discurouged friendship with this girl too. They now have 3 or 4 kids together. Where does it say she was 18? I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone.
/r/MensRights06/05/18 08:39 PM
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I would also add that when you created this thread you said the girl was 18, rather than saying the story said she was in high school. Why did you say 18? Were you afraid the men here were going to automatically assume she was underage too? If you are so confident that the guy did nothing wrong then why not just state the truth to begin with, that all we know is the girl was "in high school"?
/r/MensRights06/05/18 08:32 PM
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Where did I say I was assuming she was 14? You were the only one who assumed anything, that she is 18. I said the only information given to us was that she was in high school, which means she can be from 14 to 18. Stop getting hysterical.
/r/MensRights06/05/18 08:30 PM
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Nope, it says she was in high school in the original post. The guy who posted it here interpreted that to mean 18. It could just as easily mean she was 14.
/r/MensRights06/05/18 08:19 PM
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I actually just went back and read most of the comments on that thread and only found two examples of older women with younger men, several hundred comments in. The rest were all men with younger women. So what exactly are you talking about here? I find it gross that there are numerous similar things in the thread but when it's a older woman who married a younger guy no one bats an eye or calls them gross. Go back through that thread and find me an example, because there are none. The two commen…
/r/MensRights06/05/18 07:45 PM
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So okay, the original post in the AskReddit thread never specified ages; they said they were in high school. The user /u/SC2sam was the one who said that could mean they were 18. I keep mentioning sleepovers because this is the story this whole post is about: I have a friend who's dad married her middle school best friend, while they were still in highschool... It made her question why here mom left him shortly after several sleepovers with this girl. And I think her mom discurouged friendship w…
/r/MensRights06/05/18 07:28 PM
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Neither; the only instance of sexual harassment I've seen was another female developer on my office mate. I have no idea what the feminists are talking about. The men treat us like one of the guys.
/r/MensRights06/05/18 07:24 PM
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I wasn't asking what you were doing at 18, I was asking: if you had a daughter or son in high school going to sleepovers at their friend's house, you would be totally fine if a parent over there was having sex with your child? Can you answer that? This was the scenario that started this whole post. Also it was never specified in the original story that the person was 18, just that they were in high school.
/r/MensRights06/05/18 07:05 PM
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So if you had a daughter or son in high school going to sleepovers at their friend's house, you would be totally fine if a parent over there was having sex with your child? Also to add your to comment about jealousy and resentment. I'm 31 now but when I was in my late teens and early twenties, I always assumed older men who talked to me just thought I reminded them of their daughter. It could not even register in my mind that they might be hitting on me. It was weird to me then, it's weird to me…
/r/MensRights06/05/18 06:47 PM
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Dude marrying a kid who is still in high school is fucking weird, unless you are also in high school. It doesn't matter if she's underage or not, it's still gross and weird. Also I completely disagree that nobody finds older women with younger men weird. How often do you see that dynamic in real life? How many old woman, young guy couples have you ever met? How often do you see that dynamic portrayed in the movies? It's almost always older men with younger women. If the characters themselves don…
/r/MensRights06/05/18 06:26 PM
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To be honest I think it's gross. A dad marries his teenage daughter's best friend? It's not rape but it's gross. I would be surprised if any dad here wouldn't be angry if his male or female friend slept with and married his teenage kid, or his kid's friend's dad. You get the idea. I find huge age gaps gross either way, especially if one is a teenager, no matter the genders. Edit: It doesn't even say they were 18, it says the daughters were in high school...
/r/MensRights06/05/18 06:07 PM
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Since you are dragging millennials into this, it's more like everybody in the Baby Boomers generation threw a fit and called the coach/teacher if their child didn't get a trophy, rather than every child needing a trophy.
/r/MensRights06/05/18 05:47 PM
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Okay we are in total agreement, I have not heard the term gynocentrism before.
/r/MensRights06/05/18 04:01 PM
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I would hate a device like this in my workplace, it would draw attention to how little I speak or pay attention in meetings since the thing would never turn my color.
/r/MensRights06/05/18 03:50 PM
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It was really hard to read this and see his face. What a terrible waste of the first 70-odd years of his life. At least he is happy now to have found his daughter.
/r/MensRights06/05/18 03:44 PM
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I'm a woman and I've thought about this a lot. I do believe that abortion at any stage is murder, but I am fine with it. I would have no moral issue getting an abortion. Why is it murder? Because even if it's a 'zygote' now, call it what you want, in 9 months it will be a human. People also like to make the claim that it's better to abort than have an unwanted baby, as the child will be miserable. How many people with shitty childhoods do you think would say they had rather never been born, and …
/r/MensRights06/05/18 03:25 PM
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I can't stop laughing every time I see this but nobody gets it, maybe this group will. A really hot topic in feminism is about how to get more women into STEM/computer science, and as a female software engineer I am inundated with requests to join programs to help young girls get into programming with stupid games and girl-ified programs to help them think about code. This is just too funny and true.
/r/MensRights06/05/18 02:42 PM
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I would put up one about male suicide rates and list places they can get help. Don't bring women or feminism into it at all or you will be really unpopular at your college.
/r/MensRights06/05/18 02:35 PM
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You misunderstood my reasoning. My reasoning is that men are sometimes catering to women of their own volition. A male judge may award full custody to a mother, or hands down 6 months probation to a female who dumps her newborn in the dumpster, but her boyfriend gets life. A male cop lets a female speeder off with a warning instead of a ticket because she cries, but the young guy gets a ticket. These are some examples of really unfair gender imbalances that aren't due to feminism, or women. I'm …
/r/MensRights06/05/18 02:33 PM
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It matters if male judges are awarding full custody to women based on old-school thought that the mothers raise the children. This would fall under the concept of "patriarchy", which is something some feminists are against (obviously not the majority, since it was pointed out that major feminist organizations are fighting shared custody legislation). Patriarchy being defined here to mean a set of beliefs about gender roles. My point was that not all unfair custody decisions are because of femini…
/r/MensRights06/05/18 02:27 PM
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I did not know this, and thank you for pointing it out!
/r/MensRights06/05/18 02:23 PM
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However, before ACA (Obamacare), women were paying up to 50% more for health insurance premiums than men because statistically their health care costs more. ACA made that illegal. So it is fair to wonder why the gender discrepancy is allowed in auto insurance.
/r/MensRights06/05/18 03:01 AM
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I am here trying to have a reasonable discussion too. I want to talk about understand both sides. The Red Pill is actually a pretty good, very fair documentary. However I do think some men here ran away with some of the points and ignored some of the counter-arguments. For example, fathers losing child custody cases; how many of those judges who gave custody to the mother were men? How many women make up the judicial branch that came up with state custody laws (less than a quarter). It can’t all…
/r/MensRights06/05/18 02:31 AM
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Also I can’t keep up with all of the genders...
/r/MensRights03/05/18 11:55 PM
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I totally agree. If I had a dollar for every time I read in the news that a mom and her boyfriend both tortured and murdered her child and the boyfriend gets 30 to life and the mom gets 6 months probation...
/r/MensRights03/05/18 11:53 PM
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I agree with you. I just want to go somewhere to have thoughtful discussions on genders, and the problems both sides have, but here it's getting a bit crazy too with blaming the other gender for everything.
/r/MensRights03/05/18 07:20 PM
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how important is the principle that a child, regardless of the actions of his parents, should have the right to support from both of them? What principles should trump this principle, and why? Where do we draw the line. I've given this issue a lot of thought because for a long time I felt that men should have the right to "abort" the fetus before the end of the legal period of abortion, such that he signs his rights and obligations to the child away. However more recently I've been disagreeing w…
/r/MensRights03/05/18 07:02 PM
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I have a coworker who has 3 daughters in Girl Scouts and he hates it. He tells me Girl Scouts just teaches them how to be little consumers. A lot of their tasks or whatever have to do with shopping.
/r/MensRights03/05/18 11:56 AM
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I meant WHEN IT COUNTED. Duluth Model was introduced, not a peep. Why is it always DECADES later that suddenly these REAL feminists crawl out of the woodwork and "Speak Out"? I don't know if either of these statements are true, but for your second statement you could just as easily say that about men and women's issues, particularly in other parts of the world.
/r/MensRights02/05/18 04:04 PM
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Well I am not using the term "real feminist" to mean the feminists currently out there, it's sort of more what I wish feminism was about. It is not true that "nobody" spoke out against what feminism has become and is though, there are a few prominent feminists who have spoken out, though were subsequently rejected and ostracized by the feminist hive mind.
/r/MensRights02/05/18 02:14 PM
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I agree with a lot of what you're saying, and sadly you are right, my feminist friend is probably an outlier and not representative of any large sect of feminism. I do encourage you though to look out for the more open-minded feminists if you can. Wendy McElroy's speech on the fallacy of rape culture is chilling, I mean the total disdain she has for the feminist promotion of this concept called rape culture is just great. Feminists like her give me some faith in women. Rape culture speech if you…
/r/MensRights01/05/18 06:43 PM
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It means that people belonging to a group don't all think the same. What does it mean to be American? Should all Americans have the right to guns? You have a lot of different viewpoints on that. It is the same with feminism. I am not saying I disagree that many, probably the vast majority, of feminists (especially white college-educated feminists) are self-serving and hypocritical in their views. I also think feminism has helped white females far more than any other group, and that many white fe…
/r/MensRights01/05/18 05:20 PM
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That's why I said a "real feminist would want..." I went to college with what I would call a "real" feminist who now runs an unofficial men's shelter out of her own house. My dad's best friend was a male victim of domestic violence. His wife was half his size and he was afraid to hit back, but she would throw hot irons at him and once stabbed him. He was a 6'5" tall, broad guy. He ended up living with us for almost a year to get away from her. He once called the police on her when she was gettin…
/r/MensRights01/05/18 04:40 PM
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It took me a long time to understand what feminists mean by the term 'patriarchy', and I think they should change the word to something more gender neutral. As it was explained to me, patriarchy is a set of attitudes about gender, held by both men and women, that affect both men and women. So what they mean is that when a man is a victim of domestic violence, the men and women that make up the police and court systems do not take it as seriously as when a woman is a victim of domestic violence, …
/r/MensRights01/05/18 02:59 PM
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I think if you start posting these sorts of things it takes away from the credibility of this sub. Edit: Sorry I didn't realize there was a Humor tag; in that case I take back what I said.
/r/MensRights30/04/18 12:06 PM
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I’m a female programmer and probably one of the weakest programmers at my job (where almost everyone else is male), I fully admit it. I just don’t have the interest or drive to program for fun or learn about new technologies outside of work like many of my male coworkers do. I’d say all but two of the female developers are not that good; the two good ones are total rockstars and visionaries within the company. But the rest of us are mediocre or a little below that (including me). Anyway that’s m…
/r/MensRights30/04/18 04:10 AM
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