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it’s just better for storytelling in entertainment, it’s not real life
/r/seduction22/07/26 08:34 PM
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alcohol fixes this
/r/seduction16/07/26 10:53 AM
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I could see how this could be good for someone with a lot of nerves
/r/seduction15/06/26 07:14 PM
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it’s not always your fault
/r/seduction28/05/26 10:15 AM
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you’re overthinking it just let it be
/r/seduction28/05/26 08:26 AM
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let her know you’re not going to pursue her anymore and then literally just ask her why it’s not a fit
/r/seduction28/05/26 07:29 AM
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Oh I see what you mean. Actually that reminds me, the reason I know all this is cause I had an issue a few years ago, and it was the first time i brought a girl home after getting out of a 4 year relationship. i thought i was completely fine after breaking up with her and i didn’t feel emotional or anything at all, but then i got ed with the new girl and realized i had probably had something subconscious going on. then i talked through some stuff with the new girl (kinda trama dumped tbh, luckil…
/r/seduction27/05/26 05:48 AM
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I mean I use women just to get off all the time I don’t think it triggers ED unless it causes anxiety, but in that case all the advice I gave in my prior comment should apply.
/r/seduction27/05/26 04:19 AM
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You need your body to relax. You can’t get aroused if your nervous system is not relaxed. Look up box breathing it’s a way to force your nervous system to be calm. You could also avoid stimulants like coffee and nicotine etc for at least an hour before having sex with someone new. You getting aroused easily from your ex is evidence it’s not a circulation/heart thing and I wouldn’t suggest medication cause you’ll become reliant on it. Things like slowing down your movements and foreplay can defin…
/r/seduction26/05/26 10:56 PM
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a hugely disproportionate amount of the women on hinge are nurses. when we exchange igs i often see they are friends with the other nurses ive matched with and are in each others stories. something crazy like 30% of my matches are nurses i think part of it might be that nurses seem to get into that field for stability and certainty around their career, trying to be good candidates for a long term partner. it seems like on average nurses have way more desire to settle down than non-nurses (sample…
/r/seduction26/05/26 06:04 PM
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they hold eye contact and come position themselves directly in front of you clearly intentionally and then you do it. if you want it to happen to you you need to be making eye contact with girls you like from like up to 10ft away or so
/r/seduction25/05/26 05:49 AM
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they do but only guys that are out of their league. it’s more likely to lead to them being treated poorly because the guy will not care about them when they could get better. so evolutionarily it must be better for the woman to make the guy court her because so he’s more likely to stick around and care about her and the kids
/r/seduction22/04/26 06:41 AM
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there’s definitely a cultural thing with these girls about holding hands while other people can see them. cause recently i had dinner with a girl and she was good with my holding her thigh at dinner and liked it (nobody at the restaurant could see it) but then holding her hand leaving the restaurant and walking across the street in a busy area her hand got sweaty af and she literally feinted when we got the the other side of the crosswalk. and she wasn’t even fob (no accent) but culturally she w…
/r/seduction12/03/26 10:24 PM
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that’s fine i’m just saying maybe small/easy activity first dates would be good for these girls. you don’t have to drink to play pool or darts. alternatively, i think someone had a funny post on here recently about playing jenga with the girl at your house. that could also be good to get them to loosen up a bit. cooking is a bit serious (has a practical purpose, she may feel you’ll judge her abilities in the kitchen) so maybe adding jenga or something similar is lower pressure. this also allevia…
/r/seduction12/03/26 10:07 PM
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if a girl is kinda boring/reserved ive had success going from drinks to pool or darts to have them loosen up a bit
/r/seduction12/03/26 07:40 PM
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try the ones that have rave photos they’re more normal
/r/seduction12/03/26 07:34 AM
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can have a hair tie or clip in your passenger door compartment
/r/seduction03/03/26 08:34 PM
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about half of my dates comment on my cheap 2015 gla45 amg with the bucket seats. one specifically asked if we could do it in the car later when we were at my place lol. it seems to me that women like sporty suvs. macan, rsq8, urus better than sports cars. i think it’s because it signals somewhat open/ready for family
/r/seduction04/02/26 09:20 PM
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For a first date you should start solo and then decide if you want to bring her to meet up with your friends or stay solo. Last weekend I brought a girl from a first date to meet up with my music industry friends who were out drinking because I found out she was into the same music they work on and it worked out really well.
/r/seduction28/01/26 06:48 PM
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the concept here is good but drake is not a good example. he makes soft relationship related music targeting a female audience, similar to bieber. your point would be stronger if you used an example where the person is not an entertainer with a female audience
/r/seduction27/01/26 09:27 AM
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False dichotomy. I’m optimizing for time.
/r/seduction27/05/25 02:54 AM
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Oh where did I say that?
/r/seduction26/05/25 05:31 PM
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But there’s no added time in the lunch/dinner scenario relative to the coffee/drinks scenario. It’s taking less of my time.
/r/seduction26/05/25 08:28 AM
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It’s the same either way no?
/r/seduction25/05/25 10:57 PM
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The problem with this is going for coffee or drinks are things I wouldn’t do solo, so it’s extra time out of my day. Lunch and dinner are things I have to do anyway, so there’s minimal lost time. Don’t really care about the difference in price.
/r/seduction25/05/25 02:18 AM
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