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It’s not about the amount of dates you get, it’s about what you learn from the approaches. You’ll learn way more about yourself, flirting, confidence, etc. by cold approaching than you’ll ever learn from bed. The method matters
/r/seduction20/07/26 03:15 PM
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You said what I tried to say in a much more eloquent way
/r/seduction13/09/24 05:17 PM
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It's normal and ok to feel down about rejection. If you think back on when it's happened, what have been some of the common themes? How have you approached them? What was the turning point in the interaction? It may not be fun to rethink these situations, but "watching back the tape" is where you'll discover what's working and what's not.
/r/seduction13/09/24 05:09 PM
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That’s a good way to look at it. Even better might just be to have no expectations. Have fun with it and enjoy the conversation without being results oriented either positively or negatively.
/r/seduction13/09/24 06:41 AM
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A passing judgement on you isn’t personal. If you approach a girl and she tells you she’s not interested, it’s likely something to do with her preferences or how you’ve presented yourself. Even if it’s the latter, that’s a skill you can improve and not a defining personality trait.
/r/seduction12/09/24 11:31 PM
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I agree. The biggest issue I've seen a lot of guys come across, regarding rejection, is that it sits with them negatively and it kills their confidence when they're out or they think about it when they go home. Getting rejected should be fun and light. Not everyone is gonna be into you. You shouldn't be into everyone. Approaching at all is generally a win for a lot of men, regardless of outcome.
/r/seduction12/09/24 09:47 PM
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Game as a filter and to learn your own standards is a good way to think about it. To me, learning how it all works is about giving yourself as much control as possible. You open up more options, can filter the women in and out that you do or don't want. You have the option to mess around or to settle with someone. Once you know the game, it's up to you what you do with it. I never closed any doors for a relationship or for a simple fling. Kinda just depended on what I wanted. Generally speaking,…
/r/seduction10/09/24 10:33 PM
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Great post. A lot of guys spend too much time thinking about what to say and going through worst-case scenarios in their head, then end up psyching themselves out like OP almost did. How you say something matters more than what you say, generally. OP exemplified that.
/r/seduction30/05/23 06:47 PM
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More experiences like this will make you better. Keep it up!
/r/seduction25/01/22 07:06 PM
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Thanks, this makes a lot of sense.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/21 06:43 PM
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I think that's what I meant, they just don't realize they're insecure. Maybe? Idk. I think you're right though.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/21 03:57 PM
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I listened to this so many times back when I was hyping up to wrestle in high school
/r/seduction29/03/19 04:32 PM
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Good stuff!
/r/seduction27/03/19 04:57 AM
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I wrote it up as soon as the thought to share it came to mind. Thank you for reading it!
/r/seduction27/03/19 12:54 AM
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It's funny how you can draw a lesson from this not only to pickup or relationships, but to life in general. A lot of people end up regretting their lack of action later in life, sometimes you just gotta take the leap.
/r/seduction27/03/19 12:45 AM
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What did you-- ohhhh hahaha
/r/seduction27/03/19 12:42 AM
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It's good to not put someone on a pedestal unless they're like, your wife or husband of 20 years. If drama keeps arising for you, try and find out why it happens and snip it in the bud when you notice it happening again.
/r/seduction27/03/19 12:40 AM
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It's a lot more fun to talk to new girls when you take the pressure off yourself to do "well", whatever "well" might mean to you.
/r/seduction27/03/19 12:38 AM
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She probably appreciated you taking the chance. Why not hit her up? Might as well find out what she's up to.
/r/seduction27/03/19 12:37 AM
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Good man! Best of luck.
/r/seduction27/03/19 12:35 AM
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The image in my head is a crossroads and I can go down either path, but if I don't move at all I'm doomed. Even "going backward" could be interpreted as simply moving on from the girl and onto a new one. Standing still in my head is making the girl your everything, putting her on a pedestal, but not actually doing anything about it.
/r/seduction26/03/19 11:38 PM
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That's true, but that's the inherent risk in it. It probably wouldn't have been as awkward as my brain tells me.
/r/seduction26/03/19 11:35 PM
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100% agreed
/r/seduction26/03/19 11:34 PM
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Thanks for reading it
/r/seduction26/03/19 11:34 PM
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The only way to really find out if she likes you is to make a move. I wish it were as easy as having a girl be straight up and say they like us, but unfortunately life doesn't work that way. Embarrassment fades, too. Think about the last time you were embarrassed. Do you remember what happened? Where it was? Who was there? You probably can. Now think about the last time you saw someone else get embarrassed. Can you? Maybe not. If you can, do you remember who it was? Did you remember it until I a…
/r/seduction26/03/19 11:33 PM
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Everything to gain, too. It's usually not win-lose, but win-learn.
/r/seduction26/03/19 11:28 PM
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You've got a point. To be good at anything you need a healthy balance of both. Too much focus on theory leads to no results and too much focus on action leads to slow growth.
/r/seduction20/03/19 06:19 PM
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Action > Theory
/r/seduction19/03/19 08:30 PM
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It really depends on how you use it. Using the method I mentioned, you might look at a suitcase which reminds you of suits -> formal wear -> earrings -> she's wearing earrings; ask her if there's something special about her earrings. That may be a shoddy example, but the point is that it doesn't always need to wrap back to you. You could talk about things, ideas, her, etc.
/r/seduction28/04/17 01:46 PM
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Barely 5'3"
/r/seduction24/02/17 05:57 PM
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I'll take that into consideration. I'm 18.
/r/seduction24/02/17 05:56 PM
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My message here is kinda that if I can be confident, even through rejection, why can't others? I know that actually getting more numbers would play to the message better than rejection, but in reality even the most attractive guy won't get all the numbers.
/r/seduction24/02/17 02:52 PM
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You're definitely not wrong.
/r/seduction24/02/17 02:39 PM
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Many people won't even talk to them, so if you can do that then you're doing better than most. Be genuine and it's possible to get a date.
/r/seduction24/02/17 03:58 AM
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Refer to my comment to /u/crayonstur
/r/seduction22/02/17 02:49 PM
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I finished filming Monday! Kinda perfect because I needed some sort of inspiration to kick my ass into gear and start a YouTube channel. I've had trouble rendering the video, but once it's done I'll upload it and tell you guys.
/r/seduction22/02/17 02:49 PM
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Funny you should ask this. I'm 5'3" and have had pretty good success overall. I used to be a total introvert, but learned through youtube and research and -- above all -- just going out and doing it. I actually filmed my first video today where I went out and talked to girls on the street. It wasn't terrible, but it wasn't fantstic. Everyone starts somewhere, right? I'll edit it and upload it here if people seem interested.
/r/seduction20/02/17 11:06 PM
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I've followed these guys since they started and I promise you it is not staged. These guys did real interactions because the point of their channel was to help guys do what they do. They can't teach what they don't know, so they went out and learned it.
/r/seduction20/02/17 11:02 PM
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I really enjoyed the read. How did you come up with the creative ideas in the guerilla dating section? I usually think of typical things like exploring the city, wine and movie, etc.
/r/seduction19/02/17 12:58 AM
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I've lived this feeling before. I was in a youth group in high school and we met with other regional sections 4 times a year. There were times I went expecting to get with someone and times I went only wanting to have fun and meet new people. What I learned, in short, is that when I went to the events with expectations, I'd usually not meet them and feel bad about it afterwards. I'd be filled with thoughts of "I'm not good enough" and the likes. When I wanted to have fun and didn't expect anythi…
/r/seduction23/01/17 02:01 PM
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Not sure haha
/r/seduction14/02/16 09:48 AM
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It's a non-issue now aha, this is an old comment!
/r/seduction14/02/16 06:53 AM
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Aaand I'm sondering
/r/seduction09/11/15 03:06 AM
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Thank you for the reassurance! Truly, its good to hear it
/r/seduction29/09/15 01:11 PM
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Thanks, ill look into it
/r/seduction29/09/15 02:44 AM
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My mom is 5'1" and my dad was 5'5", though I have a taller grandpa and my brother (20) is 5'8". I can still get GH at my age?
/r/seduction29/09/15 01:49 AM
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I hope you're right. Im not recalling from recent memories though, I'm talking since 9th grade I've heard that line. I need a confidence boost, and the only way is to get out there and keep it up. Thank you, I needed to hear that.
/r/seduction28/09/15 10:23 PM
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Not quite, its typically "Hey, my names Ninenine222 and I want to meet you because you're really cute." Now that I look at what I typed, I can see how its a bit front.
/r/seduction28/09/15 09:56 PM
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You seem like a guy who knows what he's talking about when it comes to meeting girls. I'd like some advice, if you don't mind. I have confidence, I can approach, keeping the conversation isn't bad, but could use some work. My main issue is I'm 17 and only 5'2". Girls seem to care like it's the only trait I have, or it's the deciding one, and in daily life everyone literally looks down on me which translates to me feeling inferrior, even if I'm not. So, my question is how do I overcome this short…
/r/seduction28/09/15 09:46 PM
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I use lines just like this, and mean it too. The reaction I keep getting is that I'm too forward. Is that a thing or am I approaching the wrong people? Could possibly be my delivery.
/r/seduction28/09/15 09:40 PM
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Well, that's one more friend you can make.
/r/seduction24/09/15 08:08 PM
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Good reply, thank you!
/r/seduction13/09/15 08:16 PM
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I have this same issue. I am a senior in highschool, 5'2", and I know I'm attractive. I'm confident, gregarious, take charge when needed, can flirt (though I am a bit rusty) and all I ever hear is that I'm cute. Never hot, never sexy, cute. Actually, more often than that I'm called adorable. I feel for you OP, I dont know what I'm doing wrong besides being short. Many girls have told me "you'd be hot if you were tall, but you're not, so you're cute." What can OP and I do, seddit?
/r/seduction09/09/15 09:03 PM
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Valid point! I was just throwing this out there for people who need it.
/r/seduction05/09/15 02:00 AM
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Congratz man! Great to see some action taken. Any forward progress is still progress.
/r/seduction05/09/15 12:22 AM
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Are what's fair and what's right different? Edison stealing Tesla's work isn't fair. Tesla did the work and Edison reaped the rewards. Is Edison in the right, morally? It seems to me that people like Edison will achieve more victories, and people like Tesla won't get what they deserve. Maybe it's just some beta thoughts I'm having, but if you do the work you should get the credit (unless you allow someone else to have it).
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 05:14 PM
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Whether it's what he wants to hear or not, it was my take on it. I could be wrong, no doubt, yet I felt the need to offer advice because it was a different perspective than what I saw on here. I know it doesn't follow the typical TRP motto, so sorry about that part I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:17 PM
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I'd usually roll with your advice too, and it may be correct here. Either way, have a talk with her if only to calm yourself and get some conclusion on the subject
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 03:49 AM
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Do what you want man. If you do want to get back with her I'm not sure if getting even is the right way to go about it, but if that's what you need to do then that's what you need to do. What I've learned through experiences is that honesty works. Tell her exactly how you feel and demand it from her too. Lay it all out and go from there. TRP will advise you to "be the man" and take control by leaving. It's not always as simple as it was back in the hunting and gathering times. Think about this: …
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 12:12 AM
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I'm new to the Red Pill, kinda, and what I was thinking about this situation is totally the opposite of what I've read in the comments. Yeah, she fucked up. Yeah, leaving her will solve the issue. Are there other ways to solve the issue besides leaving the girl you're into? I think so. She was honest about it. I believe in second chances, depending on the case. If she cheats again then all trust is lost, cut your losses. If she genuinely is regretful and OP doesn't think she'll do it again, try …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:54 PM
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