| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 43 | A reminder for us as we journey through FDS, moving on from unhelpful past thoughts and behaviors | MINDSET SHIFT | Ningernaught | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:44 AM |
| 12 | Question on the label of the FDS mindset | MINDSET SHIFT | Ningernaught | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:59 AM |
| 1 | A reminder as we make our FDS journey | Ningernaught | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:08 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Every single time one of these baby videos is posted, this happens. Please protect your babies and respect their privacy.THANK YOU Can we all report it? It's heinous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:40 PM |
| 1 | When men mean when they “tease” you about being “boring” and not “adventurous” enough: car sexCertified D-Bag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:35 PM |
| 2 | 🙄This is true. It's what makes paternity tests possible by blood sample as early as 9 weeks. But DNA presence in fetal cells does not mean sperm is present 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:32 PM |
| 7 | FDS today got me likeI think this is when they were experiencing the view of their own apartment from a different perspective and saw something they did not anticipate... Very fitting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:25 PM |
| 7 | I recently posted one of these, and here's another. I didn't curate this at all, it is just the top of r/relationships today. And people wonder why women are gravitating towards FDS...Right? I COULD NOT with that one!! Sounds like the makings of a comedy sketch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:13 PM |
| 7 | Bought myself some lilies a few days ago just because I deserve some and they finally opened up (except one!). Highly recommend. They smell amazing!Nice 😊 I love having fresh flowers in my home. It's just so delightful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 10:59 PM |
| 7 | This just happened to me...feeling stupid but now on high alert SMH😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 10:53 PM |
| 9 | Grown Men with Room MatesI'll throw a bit of a wrench in here... What if he lives with a family member? Specifically, the family member lives in his home because they are not able to live independently. I'm talking about an elderly parent or sibling with special needs, to be clear... Not something like letting LVM incel gamer cousin to live in the basement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:15 AM |
| 7 | Moved to the US.. can't believe how men treat women here☝️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Myers Briggs/OCEAN Test Anyone?Also heads up that I think much of the research behind MBTI has been debunked or found unsubstantiated in the years since it was released. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Today I saw a crackhead panhandling for over an hour and then using that money to buy his girlfriend a meal at A&W. Dear men: you have no excuse. If a literal beggar is happy to provide for his girlfriend then so can you.Drug abuse is a physical and behavioral addiction, but being a LVM is an inherent character flaw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:42 AM |
| 5 | If you are serious about levelling up, you need to get comfortable with taking accountability for your actions and behavioursGod, I wish I could have not only understood this in early adulthood, but I wish I could have really felt it and believed it. I lacked such utter confidence and agency. I still struggle with following through on choices that I know are better for me, and I'm almost 40. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:24 AM |
| 2 | If you are serious about levelling up, you need to get comfortable with taking accountability for your actions and behavioursWord. Also, if we can prevent at least one woman or girl from falling victim to a toxic relationship, it's all worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:15 AM |
| 5 | All the usual pickmes in the comments saying asking for child support is gold digging...smhAside: I legit didn't recognize her face ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:15 AM |
| 9 | For whoever needs to hear this todayThe price of admission keeps going up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:03 AM |
| 37 | How are women so brainwashed that when a man actually steps up and changes his life we see him as sick??I am terrified of taking psychodelics for fear it will scramble my brain somehow. But if I could be guaranteed to have an experience like you described with no ill side effects, I'd be down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:47 AM |
| 8 | No. Just no.OMG, I just made a comment about Mario Bros in another thread 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:39 AM |
| 31 | How are women so brainwashed that when a man actually steps up and changes his life we see him as sick??I think I'd want to get onboard with it myself. Everyone has room for improvement/evolution. Focusing on self-improvement as a couple sounds like goals to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:37 AM |
| 29 | How are women so brainwashed that when a man actually steps up and changes his life we see him as sick??Leveling up after consuming mushrooms? Am I the only one who thinks this sounds like a game of Mario Bros? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:34 AM |
| 1 | One more reason to never 👏🏼send 👏🏼nudes👏🏼 There is literally no photo he could take that would be an even trade. You’re beautiful, soft, can pose like a goddess. He’s most likely dirty, unkept, and using flash.🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:26 AM |
| 11 | What pushed you over the edge to realization/wokeness?For me it was being guilt-tripped by a boyfriend who would say things like "I'm not attractive enough for you, why do I always have to initiate sex" and constantly asking me if I was cheating on him. I was afraid to give him any sort of critical feedback because it always hurt his feelings. Then eventually I thought... I used to feel this insecure too. I have an insecure man. What can I do to reassure him? And THEN I realized no man ever reassured me when I felt insecure. I was right to feel ins… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:57 AM |
| 6 | FDS ladies, how are you going to make sure your future/current son is a HVMI think having a HVM role model would be important for me because I do not have any existing in my family. Even my mother reiterates antiquated notions about being a boy or a girl when she's around children and can't have that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:32 AM |
| 12 | FDS ladies, how are you going to make sure your future/current son is a HVMLVM starter pack, indeed 😂 A damaging parenting phenomenon that's become even more apparent lately is lawn mower parents - whereby they literally clear a path for their kid to "succeed" in every situation they encounter. They avoid allowing their child to experience any sort of stress, anxiety, rejection, etc. often for fear of them having a bad childhood experience. It's a recipe for over-confident, self-entitled, incompetent LVM. So I guess it's an example of what NOT to do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:27 AM |
| 25 | Found out my #1 celebrity crush accidentally released nudes and took 2 seconds to accurately think about what looking them up would mean:You kinkster 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:29 AM |
| 8 | Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup.It's important to have your own life and identity even if shit doesn't hit the fan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:54 AM |
| 6 | I meant this as a joke but his response just gave me a great insight into him as a person. Gonna start telling lads I’m “crazy” more often to weed out the weak ones.https://images.app.goo.gl/bM5aVsnP45tHe7bE7 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:53 AM |
| 11 | Wait....like what the actual F?? Facebook ad I just had to share. Holy hell, stay strong 👸❤️Eww! Can this be reported as offensive somehow? Also, based on the angle of the arm, I'm not entirely sure that hand belongs to that body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:40 AM |
| -1 | Thoughts?I did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:40 AM |
| 13 | Nothing but factsYou know what is good tho, a gentle head massage during some slow relaxing sex. It sounds weird, I know, but as a chronic headache sufferer it was amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:52 AM |
| -12 | Thoughts?While it's true that more sex does not equal worthlessness, many men would disagree. In cultures that strongly value "sexual purity" a female used for sex could easily development low self-esteem, confidence and sense of self worth. This could in turn make vulnerable girls targets to shit men who are into exploitation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:41 AM |
| -4 | Thoughts?You mean the child who was sex trafficed?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:27 AM |
| 40 | Thoughts?This is the kind of thing that actually makes me want to do truly bad things to human beings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:18 AM |
| 11 | Be the first one to pull awayI don't know, it sounds like game play to me. I thought we didn't need to give excuses when we don't want to see a guy. But if we DO want to see a guy we should give him excuses not to? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 05:14 AM |
| 4 | Frustrated to no end with my pickmeisha friendThis. Your friend is not really open to considering any other point of view if it doesn't directly support her in landing a man. Changing your mindset takes work. She's not willing to learn and put in the work to better herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 05:07 AM |
| 5 | How to still be friends with women who don't follow FDS?All of my very closest friends are happily settled into mostly very traditional marriages. Until one of them tells me they are unhappy overall in their relationship, I respect their choice to play the wifey role (also assuming there is no abuse going on). We've all been conditioned to believe married+children=life goals, and that's all it takes to make some women happy no matter how smart and capable they are. Don't focus on converting them, focus on mutual respect in your friendship first. If t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:57 AM |
| 3 | I have no words for thisMaybe it's an easter egg. Plant another one, see how long it takes to surface here or go viral.🤦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:30 AM |
| 11 | Entanglement told me he didn’t talk to a girl because she was out of his league.He's telling you that he could have someone he thinks is better than you, but he didn't. He wants you to think you are special to him. It's a little situationship maintenance, exploiting your feelings for him, to keep you holding on. He doesn't seem like he's really in it with you. And if he's not in, you need to kick him out (so to speak). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:12 AM |
| 1 | After you finally realize your worth and recognize all the LVM behaviours/red flags:Glad I can help 🙂. The hardest part for me through the years was to stop using him as my "standard" in comparison to other guys. I desired him but clearly something I liked about him was bad for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 03:48 AM |
| 16 | Be the first one to pull awayIt reads like advice from a man who wants more freedom in relationships - Hey ladies, want to get your man's attention? Here's how to back away and give your man some space first! He will appreciate you for giving him space, and will tend to you when he feels like it. Success! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 03:39 AM |
| 18 | After you finally realize your worth and recognize all the LVM behaviours/red flags:I have felt this exact same way - seeing the man I have had the deepest connection with move on to be happily married to someone else. It felt devastating. ...and then.... after a few years they divorced because, according to him, she "turned into a crazy person" after having their child. As if the trauma and stress of being pregnant, giving birth and parenting shouldn't change a person. Thank goodness that LVM broke my heart when he did - even if it took years for me to see just how better off … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:43 AM |
| 21 | "FDS is so JUDGEMENTAL" Yes, and we are proud of it! Mate selection is among the most important decisions you will ever make, it is a crucial time to be choosy!I wish we could make one of those real estate-like TV commercials that say "buying a home is one of the largest investments of your life".... but it could be about responsible mate selection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:58 AM |
| 5 | Stop Defending Cardi B and Megan Thee StallionThis is a complex issue. It's definitely good to give men some perspective and empower women to be who they really are, but I am concerned about the young people who see and hear this, and then want to be like their idols without truly understanding the history of it all. I feel like many women in the music and entertainment industry have had to hypersexualize themselves just to get an audition, get publicity, get a paycheck - mostly appeasing to men to "earn" money from them. I thought our cult… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:55 AM |
| 3 | I’m seeing so many posts on reddit today that have just been making me sick. I need better subs to follow. This was one r/insanefacebookHates legitimately powerful woman. Except the Kardashians 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 02:48 AM |
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