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I see that too often and if a man isn't up to their standards, he's seen as pathetic or his worth as a person can be ridiculed often. I see this a lot of this in fanfics, which I know aren't meant to be 100% realistic and I don't think that most of the people writing them are bad people or intentionally are bigoted or something. But I just keep seeing the lines of excuses of things like 'My boyfriend/husband is incapable of pleasing me, so I must have an affair and this would see as totally fine…
/r/MensRights23/07/26 11:56 PM
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Even if 'women have it worse' it doesn't mean they should ignore other people's problems or act like women having issues at a 'greater force' invalidates or erases the problems men feel.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 09:05 PM
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I'm just saying that men have been made fun of for their 'lack' of sexual skills for as long as anyone can remember. They are put up to this high standard of sexual competence and if they don't make it to that standard, they are seen as lesser people.
/r/MensRights10/07/26 04:13 PM
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Yeah, people do make it seem the guys do all the work and if it's not fun for the lady, then it's the guy who is the blame and he's weak and pathetic and shouldn't be allowed to have sex again.
/r/MensRights08/07/26 09:08 PM
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And if the sex isn't the best mind-blowing thing a person's ever experienced, then it's the man's fault and he is unworthy and incapable of pleasuring a woman.
/r/MensRights07/07/26 02:57 PM
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It should be, but apparently people make it seem that the man should be doing all the work and if anything goes wrong, then it's the guy's fault.
/r/MensRights06/07/26 09:03 PM
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I'm guessing that it comes from the idea that a man needs to be the perfect lover in bed. Always has a huge dick, can always pleasure a woman no matter what, can make a round go on for hours and be instantly ready for another round seconds after climaxing. Anything less than that and that guy is seen as a pathetic wimp who should be insulted and left to be alone forever.
/r/MensRights06/07/26 08:32 PM
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Well if the woman misandrist is the type to think that rape only happens when a man does it a woman, she wouldn't really believe the guy was actually assaulted at all. She would say something like 'Well you obviously had an erection during the experience, so it must mean you were aroused and thus actually wanted it, so it wasn't actual rape.'
/r/MensRights06/07/26 07:37 PM
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It's disturbing how some of these same people would be saying that all guys are pigs who only think about sex 24/7 and they are disgusting, but the moment when they hear a guy doesn't instantly agree to have sex at any given moment for whatever reason, they think something's wrong with him.
/r/MensRights29/06/26 04:45 PM
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Right, they just think it's okay for them because they don't think guys would care or have any issue with some random girls seeing them undress.
/r/MensRights17/06/26 12:13 AM
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At least the man understood and I'm hoping if it was the mother who bought the kids in, she would understand too. I don't like to generalize and think she would throw a fit if not allowed to be in the Men's locker room.
/r/MensRights16/06/26 02:24 PM
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Seriously? That's crazy. It's like they don't think Men should have any privacy and I'm guessing some of these ladies will act offended if they walk into a bathroom and spot men peeing.
/r/MensRights16/06/26 02:23 PM
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Yikes and I'm guessing those girls never got in trouble for it, but if there was any time a guy tried to peep on them, you know they made sure he was punished for it.
/r/MensRights16/06/26 05:29 AM
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I think some women excuse this as 'I'm only making sure that no predators try to hurt my boy' or maybe the child is too young to be right parental supervision in the locker room, but still these stories will have the mothers act like the guys are the problem if they keep on underdressing in front of her.
/r/MensRights16/06/26 01:11 AM
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/r/MensRights16/06/26 01:09 AM
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Yeah. Even in some fics I read there are times where the characters will get mad at any guys trying to look at scenes where they are changing clothes or are naked and all the guys have to avert their eyes. Yet when it's one of the guys who is indecent, shirtless or his butt showing off without the intent of showing off to anyone, those ladies are allowed to look and 'admire' the view for as long as they want without anyone really calling them out on it, or if it does happened, it doesn't really …
/r/MensRights15/06/26 10:32 PM
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Probably that type of women's mindset. They don't think the guys would have any sense of shame or wanting to keep things private. They can't think that a guy wouldn't be okay with showing a random woman his private parts while he's supposed to be changing clothes.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 10:19 PM
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Really? Care to explain?
/r/MensRights15/06/26 10:18 PM
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Oh, right, I didn't think about that latter part. There are serious complaints about that one with women being uncomfortable about letting a man who sees himself as a woman to just be allowed in the women's changing rooms and those people are seen as creeps doing it. I haven't heard stories of the opposite, but I'm sure they happened, just aren't reported or taken as seriously as much.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 10:18 PM
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A locker room is supposed to be a place that is private. It's a place where they can a breather and change clothes. The locker room isn't open for any random person to just walk in. Seriously what whether or not I have children have to do with any of this? Just because you don't feel bother by it, doesn't mean everyone else in the world should be okay with it too and if they don't, that somehow means the guy is the problem.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 10:16 PM
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So you don't think people deserve any privacy? That you would be totally fine if someone, man or woman was just watching you change? People deserve their privacy and you shouldn't just tell people to 'Not be bothered by it' because you are too ignorant and insensitive.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 10:06 PM
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Because not everyone, including guys wants some random person, even it was a woman looking at them while they are supposed to be in a private room while they are changing their clothes. It's just even guys want privacy. They don't want an audience to see them change their underwear.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 09:42 PM
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Some people just don't see Men's privacy as a big deal. They think Men wouldn't care if someone was watching them change, even if it was a woman. I remember this one story about a father whose 9year son had recently gone through a type of surgery and he was put in those patient clothes stuff that leaves your back exposed. When the father, the wife, their daughter around 12 and the daughter's friend came along to pick him up to take him back home, the 9year old boy told his father to cover him so…
/r/MensRights15/06/26 08:45 PM
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Even in the changing rooms where some mothers think they can follow their male children into some locker rooms and think any man who continues to undress is some type of creep.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 08:25 PM
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Just as I thought. The female reporters are able to go and ogle some athletes and gets to see them shirtless and sweaty, but a guy trying to do with the female athletes would just be labeled as a creep.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 08:24 PM
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That's right, but when those words are used whether in serious or comedic ways it's treated as some 'unbeatable, Gotcha line' that the husband or father can't possibly argue against.
/r/MensRights02/06/26 01:51 AM
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Exactly. When I wrote this post, I wasn't even referring to things like abortion, custody or some gratitude a child has for their mother. Just mentions of some comics and cartoons who have mothers who used that argument to get something or in real life to their way. In Star VS, The Forces of Evil, the male lead learns his mother is pregnant and her mother wants to hug him, but the guy is hesitant for some reason and his mother just darkly says 'I carried you around for 9months in my stomach, you…
/r/MensRights01/06/26 08:01 PM
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I get in those comics and cartoons it isn't meant to be taken seriously but feels weirds that is used as an argument for a mother to have her way. Even if it had nothing to do with a situation.
/r/MensRights01/06/26 04:36 PM
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It's not often used, it's just something I've seen used a joke some cartoons or a fan comic and at least twice in a reddit story about couples arguing over names and the woman thinking because she's the one pregnant, she gets more priority.
/r/MensRights01/06/26 06:18 AM
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It's not used often, but I do hear it. Usually as a joke of some kind or some actual reason why a woman should get her way.
/r/MensRights01/06/26 06:17 AM
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I wouldn't put it on those exact words, but it does seem that some women do think that if they carry the baby, they have more say in what happens with that baby, including names. One story I remember hearing was about this couple that was about to be married, but the man learns that his future wife was going to keep her maiden name, which was fine to him, due to personal reasons, he just wants a shared family name and doesn't care if his wife takes his name or he takes hers, or they just combine…
/r/MensRights01/06/26 03:49 AM
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Exactly. I recently listened to a story that had a woman try to convince her pregnant sister not to give her upcoming baby a terrible name and suggests something her and the baby's father could agree on, but the sister says 'I'm carrying the baby, so I get to make the decisions!'
/r/MensRights01/06/26 01:09 AM
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I do hear often about how if a guy rejects a girl, the girl thinks that 'Oh you must be gay' or if a guy doesn't want sex at that moment or doesn't want to do a certain sexual act because they don't like it or it makes them uncomfortable, then their sexuality is put into question. Just a few months ago I heard a story about this single mother with more than one child (Not all of them have the same father) has been trying to hit on one of her friend's brothers, but he repeatedly refuses her. Whil…
/r/MensRights29/04/26 01:22 AM
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Wait, so she just immediately decided or thought the only reason you got a new girlfriend is to have sex with her and nothing else?
/r/MensRights02/11/25 05:25 PM
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Because the woman needs to be catered and obviously it's not her fault if the man cheats, but if a woman cheats on her husband it's because of a number of reasons like 'You never there for me' or 'I need a real man who excites me.'
/r/MensRights01/11/25 06:36 PM
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"If you approach women, you're creepy and rapey" " If you don't approach women, you're an incel." It's the classic 'Damned if you do, damned if you don't.'
/r/MensRights25/10/25 12:16 AM
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"We gonna tell Muslim students to stand up and apologies for terrorism? Or Jewish kids apologise for IDF crimes? Or German kids apologise to Jewish kids?" Watch them try to make excuses over saying 'That's different' or maybe only make the male German or Muslim student apologize for their 'crimes.'
/r/MensRights25/10/25 12:13 AM
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Ray William Johnson had made two videos about a female prison guard having an affair with a male prisoner and helping them escape within a month of each other. This is happening more often than you think. I actually I think I heard a story of a female prison guard getting pregnant from a male prisoner due to them having an affair.
/r/MensRights15/10/25 06:48 PM
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So clearly she's the type of person who thinks she is perfect exactly the way she is and people will/should love and want to be with her just because, but she can be judgmental to everyone else.
/r/MensRights14/10/25 04:27 PM
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She is one of the people who just thinks women don't even like sex or are incapable of having sexual feelings at all and any feelings a woman has on a man that's she attracted too can't be sexual and men have no control of their desires whatsoever.
/r/MensRights06/10/25 03:13 AM
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It's one thing to say that Men are just inherently evil and it is in their natural to oppress and rape women, but to say that they are purposefully taught this is just absurd to absurd levels.
/r/MensRights24/09/25 07:35 PM
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"Systematically Conditioned"? That's is so stupid and literally tries to paint men as just taught to be evil. Like as if that every male in the world has to take some type of class on how to oppress and force themselves on women. Seriously, the people who think this have issues.
/r/MensRights24/09/25 01:01 AM
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As if any sex just includes the woman just lying there and let the man do all the work, so if anything goes wrong, it's his fault.
/r/MensRights16/09/25 12:52 AM
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That or people just have insane expectations of how great a man should be as a lover and if he is below the bar, then he's pathetic and is fine to make fun of him over it.
/r/MensRights15/09/25 09:48 PM
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That's a good way of phrasing it. It reminds of this TV trope that says that all women don't really like sex and it's just something that they give to men to make them momentarily happy.
/r/MensRights15/09/25 09:25 PM
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Sometimes I think it's media that brings this out. I've seen many Hentai fanfics that treat that if a guy is under 5 inches and can have sex for hours without climaxing and make the woman feel like she's reached Nirvana, then he's a pathetic man and doesn't deserve any woman. I know fanfics themselves aren't meant to be 100% realistic and I even doubt the writers of these fics seriously think that a 'real man' should be this great at sex. Still find some Naruto fanfics where some of the adult la…
/r/MensRights15/09/25 09:24 PM
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Exactly. There are people who treat a guy who suffers from premature ejaculation is 'pathetic' or even if 'finish too quickly' then they aren't a good lover or a good man at all. Never hear about guys complaining about sleeping with a woman that climaxed too quickly before they got to enjoy themselves.
/r/MensRights15/09/25 09:13 PM
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I get that. It isn't just women who alone are making these types of comments, but society has made the 'make fun of a man's skill as a lover' as an acceptable joke. If the guy isn't giving his love the best sex of her life and lasts only '3 minutes in bed or less' than he's an absolute loser and people should laugh at him for it.
/r/MensRights15/09/25 08:40 PM
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Everything. I remember scenes of a couples arguing and often the woman is the one saying 'Also, I'm angry that you can't last more than 2 minutes in bed' and it seems like an acceptable insult against him, but obviously not the other way around.
/r/MensRights15/09/25 08:35 PM
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So weird that these types of women will think every man wants to do nothing but ogle women's bodies and treat them like objects, yet when they do find a man who isn't a sex maniac, they will just call him 'Gay' or 'Why, what's wrong with you?'
/r/MensRights07/07/25 12:26 PM
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People like this are showing that if they are agreeing with what this woman did to the men, they are likely to do it too if a man ever said something sexist to them.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 03:29 PM
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The Nadir logic fallacy?
/r/MensRights18/04/25 01:59 AM
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It's really hurtful and stupid that people think to judge a man's morality or worth by the size of his genitals. Like so many stories I've read is a guy being angry because of his small dick or if he's a jerk he must have a small penis which can make people with below average penises feel like their bad people. I never hear people complain about women saying 'Well she has a small chest because she's a bad person or isn't a real woman' without being seen as total jerks.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 03:55 AM
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I want to hear how someone would justify this. Ask how if two people are extremely drunk, have sex with each other, but somehow it's still the man's fault and he's arrested for rape. Somehow even being so drunk he wouldn't be allowed to drive still somehow has enough brain capacity to consent to sex but the woman can't.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 10:39 PM
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Even in stories where the woman's large chest isn't shown off often. Like she doesn't wear anything that shows off her cleavage like that, but still in the story I've been reading. Her having large breasts is the only thing any other man other than the male lead can think about her.
/r/MensRights20/02/25 08:41 PM
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I don't even see this as made by intentional man-haters or anything, it just a trend to make one guy look great, by making everyone other guy a total jerk or a creep. It's more of Misandry without intentionally doing it or anything intentionally malicious. Still, it's something I wish some stories would stop trying. The guy who your trying to make people should be likable on his own instead of comparing him to terrible men in the world.
/r/MensRights20/02/25 08:03 PM
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I'm mostly speaking of scenes in certain anime, webcomics, manga, or fanfiction where they make it seem that every guy eye's are locked on to a woman's chest 24/7, but the male lead or the male romantic love interest is the only one who apparently capable of not acting like he wants sex 24/7 and respects people than more than just two melons with a person attached to them. As well as some fanfics I've read where again, they have more flirty and seductive characters who frequently use their bodie…
/r/MensRights20/02/25 08:00 PM
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Good point. I don't think stories like these in anime or in fanfics are made by any man-haters or generally think Men can't think of anything besides sex. It just unnecessary to try to make it seem like when a busty woman is in a scene, only the male lead is the only guy who is trying to think of her naked. I do think personality does matter a bit as looks doesn't really come up that much. Stories that had female characters attracted to lot of good-looking guys but refused to be with them becaus…
/r/MensRights20/02/25 05:11 PM
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Exactly. I've seen stories where they keep having to make it seem that if a guy is interested in a girl, it must be for shallow reasons. I've read fanfics where they have a woman who is very beautiful go 'I've never had any relationship before, because all the men I've met only want me for my body and I as a woman would never want sex for pleasure alone, unlike men. Your male lead is treating me like a person, so I will mate with you.'
/r/MensRights20/02/25 04:13 AM
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Exactly. It's worse when the Male lead in question has to keep saying 'I respect women' and 'I would never peep on a girl while she's changing'. I read a fanfic crossover with Danny Phantom saying that and the girls around him just can't help be impressed because to them, no other male in existence would do that. Again it just really seems the only way to make the male lead look good is by making every other guy in existence is just a total pervert. Even when in stories where the guy is total ho…
/r/MensRights20/02/25 02:49 AM
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I'm sorry I'm confused on what you mean?
/r/MensRights19/02/25 11:10 PM
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My problem is that stories just make it seem only one guy in a story is capable of acting normally and not being a complete perv whenever big boobs are around. They make it seem that basic human decency is something great and not something most males are capable of doing.
/r/MensRights19/02/25 10:04 PM
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Stories do tend to make it seem that if the guy ever thinks about a girl's chest they are a dirty pervert. I remember this one MHA fanfic where Izuku, the main character talks to the two perverts of the class and tells them the story of a canon pro hero that got into a harassment scandal, though in canon the guy was proven not guilty and he just was a flirty guy. In the fanfic they make it seem he was a sexual predator that tried to take advantage of women and lead to him nearly losing his licen…
/r/MensRights21/01/25 06:59 AM
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It is misandrist, but I don't think any of the writers are extreme man-haters who think that their male character is one exception to 'All men are creeps' ideology. I think it just a way to make the character look better compared to everyone else. It just wish they didn't feel the need to do it over and over again.
/r/MensRights21/01/25 01:55 AM
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I don't think that really follows. Most of the stories I'm referring to aren't even really power fantasies like you said. It just that when the Male MC character is acting like a decent person and doesn't see women as bags of meat to put that package in, the female lead will act as though that is wonderful and wants to be with him. Or if not said directly, if there are other rivals or people who are interested in the female lead, whether it be someone who had a crush on her or if she's at a part…
/r/MensRights20/01/25 10:30 PM
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True. And their 'deepest' can stem from having basic human decency. Something that every person should know and do because it's just common sense, but since they need to different the male MC from other males, he will be seen as a special person. It doesn't really take much to make it seem these guys are special with them saying 'I think rape is wrong' and 'I don't care about the size of girl's chest, it's their personality that matters' and suddenly those ladies will want to have that guys babi…
/r/MensRights20/01/25 10:24 PM
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Sometimes I don't think it's really intentional, but there just seems to be a trend of thinking of 'The Male lead can only get the female lead's love if every other option is a sexual predator.'
/r/MensRights20/01/25 08:18 PM
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Exactly. There have been a few too many times where a fic will have this beautiful and busty girl and thinks it's a good sign for a guy when he isn't drooling over her breasts 'unlike all other men.'. Even in fanfics where the lady lead is already this proud of her body and flirty who admits in canon that they know they get guys looking at them and can handle some comments and stares, but now suddenly they want a total gentlemen and doesn't want to be sexualize by a pervy men who wants her for h…
/r/MensRights20/01/25 08:16 PM
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Sometimes it does feel that way. These stories can make it seem that our MC is constantly drinking their 'Respect women juice' and has to protect their lady from all the creeps of the world, in which how the fanfics usually describes it, those creeps are pretty much every other male in existence.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 02:21 AM
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I won't deny that there are actual creeps like that in the world. No shortage of them sadly, but these stories make it seem that these there are these women who won't find any decent man before meeting the male lead who doesn't sexualize her the moment they see her and thinks 'That's a good sign of him being a good romantic partner.'
/r/MensRights20/01/25 01:55 AM
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It does feel like when these fanfics or anime series have these tropes that they come across as saying 'Our male lead isn't like other guys who thinks about controlling women and only caring for having sex with them and thinking of them as objects, that means he's a great person which makes the female lead or a lot of other ladies fall for him for having basic human decency.'
/r/MensRights20/01/25 01:53 AM
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True, but if there's any other male character that is interested in the female lead, even for a short time, they will be shown as just selfish who wants them for their body while the Male lead will love them for them. One ecchi series that used to have this problem at the beginning was Monster Monsume where the male lead was the only male character without any problematic qualities to them. He wasn't racist, a creep, an attempted rapist, a creep who tries to take advantage of the girls, a coward…
/r/MensRights20/01/25 01:51 AM
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And when in too many fanfics I've read when the guy is simply showing some basic human decency and respect to another person, they are in total shock over it and are unused to the idea that a man isn't treating a woman like a sex object and thus is a good guy and wants to date them.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 01:41 AM
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I think I once heard of a report of a grown woman claiming she was pregnant with Justin Bieber's baby when he was still a teenager. I don't know what happened afterwords, but I really doubt some grown man would come out claiming that he knocked up a teen idol.
/r/MensRights27/07/24 08:46 PM
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