NinjaTurtle2077 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	I’ve gotten 70% over my approach anxiety. But the person I approach seems super bored and I can’t get out of interview mode. Imo do it solo for success	/r/seduction	24/10/22 04:10 AM
6	Unpopular opinion - A relationship lasts longer when the girl is more obsessed with the guy than the other way round (which is the popular opinion( It’s very true, from personal experience and also observing friends relationships. Girls who are obsess wirh their guy are extremely loyal for eternity, guys have less tendency to cheat if their woman is very loyal to them, even if they’re thinking about it. Generally this leads to a balanced level of happiness in the couple. I’m not talking about the stalker type and overly jealous type obsession, that’s just a crazy girl with mental issues has nothing to do with being in love	/r/seduction	23/10/22 12:01 AM
2	Do as much small talk as possible I am also on the spectrum, but to a certain extent I managed to learn small talk (after a lot of training). Not easy but you need baseline energy and to show the other person you’re interested in what they’re saying,, girls especially if u learn to add one or two words to supplement the conversation they can go on forever. Even just repeating a few words the other person is saying helps. After a while you genuinely start becoming interested and you learn about so many topics There is a famous ep…	/r/seduction	25/12/21 09:29 AM
22	Do as much small talk as possible Absolutely I completely gave up on the idea of thinking that a girl I like or have a crush on must show interest in me (toxic incel mentality) i’d just get fixated on that failure. once I accepted that many girls just won’t vibe with my wavelength or don’t show much interest and I just moved on to the next girl it worked so well in building relationships and I found and dated girls who are truly interested in me, currently dating a girl who I met at the aquatic Center we both went swimming to, s…	/r/seduction	25/12/21 05:11 AM
59	Do as much small talk as possible Biggest mistake I used to make is only approaching attractive girls but I found the better approach is to chat with everyone, attractive girls are part of the mix, and I’ve found not attempting to scale up the effort when talking to attractive girls helps a lot. If you try too hard when talking to an attractive girl it really shows but when you deal with her the same way as everyone else it really works and chemistry just builds if it’s the right person and she shows interest	/r/seduction	25/12/21 05:02 AM
41	Do as much small talk as possible Agreed with this approach I think the biggest mistake guys make is only targeting attractive girls but instead guys should be chatting with everyone making small talk with them	/r/seduction	25/12/21 04:59 AM
1	Did I make it weird Yeah very weird, saying “how’s it going” in a deep voice like you’re trying to fake confidence then looking down lol thats just…. Sorry mate try again don’t give up, if she likes you she will forgive	/r/seduction	16/11/21 10:24 AM
1	How effective is “have I seen you before?” Depends on the delivery otherwise you can come off creepy	/r/seduction	09/11/21 04:47 AM
2	[deleted by user] I met my current girlfriend at the aquatic Center where we happen to swim together, she was incredibly beautiful and I had my eyes on her. we then moved to the sauna and had a bit of a private time to chat and get to know each other then we clicked more and exchanged numbers now she is my girl fiend Maybe spend some private time with her in your swimming Center think of moving her to an area like jacuzzi or sauna or the cafe etc and just chat away and build on the chemistry and take it from ther…	/r/seduction	02/11/21 01:12 PM
3	[deleted by user] Usually it’s best to set a date asap, the long wait can create problems. I suggest if you don’t know what to say to be careful as you can easily create a platonic or she gets bored of you.	/r/seduction	02/11/21 12:38 PM
3	What does it mean when a girl is always joking/talking about sexual related stuff most of the time ? Every group has a jokester / clown, it doesn’t mean she’s into you , it’s just her personality. 98% of jokes these days are sexual so it’s nothing out of the ordinary. You don’t have to “keep up” with her jokes that’s the wrong approach. if you like the girl you just tell her or ask her out ignore all the “funny” persona. You’ll be surprised esp with girls behind all that clown behaviour they have a totally different personality when it comes to relationships. So common to have a funny girl in a…	/r/seduction	02/11/21 12:04 PM
1	[deleted by user] There is nice and there is kind, you were kind. The difference would be in the way you behaved and body language when you gave her the sour cream, if you were confident then that’s fine but if you were nervous and “teheee here you go” then that’s a nice guy simp vibe Also it’s important not to keep doing it again and again.	/r/seduction	28/10/21 11:19 AM
1	Do women really approach guys at bars? Extremely rare, but it does happen. Happened to me once when I was travelling in Indonesia at the hotel bar. but it didn’t go anywhere, because I was convinced no chance she’s interested and it’s a fluke I was also nervous AF so was very awkward.	/r/seduction	23/10/21 11:22 PM
1	[deleted by user] It’s more about confidence and personality than your weight but for most people being fat and large is a drain on confidence so when you lose weight your confidence goes up and so does your game I’ve known really big guys who are smooth and know how to talk to girls despite their weight, they have no problems dating attractive girls.	/r/seduction	25/09/21 11:05 AM