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| 1 | My answer on why men actually hate feminism.Also, it's not a competition. If we say we are struggling too It doesn't matter by how much. We should help anyone who is being discriminated against. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/03/25 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Got muted from Healthygamer for saying women need menIf it's skewed towards women I don't think that's Dr. K's fault. He can't personally monitor everything since he's such a busy guy. From what I understand though, the community is meant to be a safe space for everyone and so they like to keep controversial topics out of there. I think it's definitely something that is needed and I can appreciate it for what it is but I do wish there was a separate place for people who want to have harder conversations in a respectful manner. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/02/25 10:59 PM |
| 4 | I feel like women aren't interested in relationships and are just as happy as singleI think men and women want to be in relationships at about the same rate. One of the big differences is that women are more ok with being single than men. They feel that they have time and are more focused on living a fulfilling life despite the lack of a partner. They basically tend to have a more self sufficient and healthy mindset around being single. A lot of my fellow men are doomers and get into negative thought loops and spiral from being single. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/25 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Is "Wicked" another piece of media that's accidentally pro-male?Tbf, Trump has officially been found guilty for 34 crimes. He is legitimately the first president to be charged with crimes. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/25 04:44 AM |
| 10 | I think my boyfriend is falling down the red pill pipeline, how can i stop this?I also recommend posting this in r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/25 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women.It all depends on what you ultimately want. If you want humanity to continue existing then you need men and women. Other than that. Neither gender really needs each other on a philosophical level. If you've ever been around physical working women then you'll know that they're plenty strong. Yes, women generally can't be as strong as men, but they don't need to be as strong as the strongest men to do any physically demanding jobs. With that said, women certainly can't do those jobs to the same ef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Emotional mutilationI always feel a sense of calm and contentment after crying. It's extremely relieving. I've noticed that I subconsciously turn off my feelings if another person is nearby so I often have to consciously fight it to allow myself to cry. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/12/24 05:15 PM |
| 3 | If in today's society, sex is not expected in a relationship, then faithfulness should not be expectedThen break up, not cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 09:45 AM |
| 0 | Feminists call for "vulva diversity" but shame small dicks in mainstream mediaAre the people calling for vulva diversity the same exact people shaming small dicks? It's important to be nuanced. You'll always be able to find hypocritical discrepancies in a movement when it's broad enough to encompass large swaths of people. In those cases it's important to weed out those who are the problem and to support those who aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 04:53 PM |
| 4 | Porn consumption is one of the biggest threats to empathy, connection, and love between men and womenThat's more variables at pay than just porn. It's not a fair argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 03:10 PM |
| 1 | "No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personalityJust because some women care more about looks than personality doesn't mean they all do. There are plenty of women, if not most, who may be initially attracted to a man's looks but if they have a grating personality, will not stick around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 03:41 PM |
| 3 | CMV: when dating, the burden should be on males to prove themselvesYou should both prove you have what each other need or can gain what each other need. No free rides | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 04:39 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful womenA lot of men are like this for sure. Personally, as a man, my wife makes more than me and it doesn't bother me at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Why do people bring politics into the pill spectrum when women like alpha males no matter what their politics?I think you could and it would be good if you did so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Which gender has it far worse when it comes to being cruelly rejected?What is the purpose of this comparison? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Which gender has it far worse when it comes to being cruelly rejected?What are they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 07:57 PM |
| – | Vogue dating columnist casually admits that women have it hard in dating because they need to compete for a minority of menI don't think they are. Have you considered that men are generally less attractive nowadays whereas women have only gotten more attractive. Women tend to put more time and effort into their appearance than guys. Maybe if guys put in the same amount of effort there would be more attractive guys to choose from? Personality is also important. Men seem to generally be less confident and socially awkward than in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 10:44 PM |
| – | Telling men that doing a certain thing will help them improve their dating chances is toxic and damaging if that thing doesn't improve their SMVDo you have proof/data to support your claim that the advice given doesn't help as and/or makes things worse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 08:21 AM |
| – | Men are entirely lacking in knowing how to sexually satisfy womenIt's a lot easier for men. Literally just penetration and that's it. Don't even have to touch any other part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 08:18 AM |
| – | Men are entirely lacking in knowing how to sexually satisfy womenThere are two things that would solve this. Men can take initiative and ask women what they did and did not like and women can also take initiative and tell men what they did and did not like. Doesn't matter who initiates the conversation as long as it's initiated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 08:15 AM |
| 12 | why don’t we just sex segregate?The best way to understand this is to compare the amount of users on any given social media site to the whole population. There is a HUGE difference. Most people live in the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 12:53 AM |
| – | Why do men insist women are too picky?The thing about stats is that they are way more nuanced than they are given credit for. There could be zero men who swipe right 40% of the time but because of the spread it averages out to 40%. You yourself do not fit the 40% average yet you are assuming that the women in your area fit the 7% average. Maybe the women in your area do swipe right more often. You wouldn't know since you are actually "pickier" in comparison. There's another problem. Who's "pickier" really? Well, what does that Even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | CMV: women get dressed up and wear makeup ourselves - not for malesIf you're even on all accounts then why does he need to pay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 12:30 AM |
| – | Why do men insist women are too picky?See, but you're assuming that the selection of guys on tinder are as attractive as the selection of women on tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:11 PM |
| 3 | CMV: women get dressed up and wear makeup ourselves - not for malesCouldn't you say the same about the man? Aren't you spending time with a man you find attractive? Doesn't it raise your status? Why do you assume the man is benefitting more from dating you than you are from dating him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 04:37 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Males should pay for the first date because makeup is expensiveDo you think wearing expensive make-up makes you worth providing for? On the first date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 04:30 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Males should pay for the first date because makeup is expensiveWould you accept that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 04:28 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Males should pay for the first date because makeup is expensiveHow much is the portion of make-up you use? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 04:27 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Males should pay for the first date because makeup is expensiveWhy don't you wine and dine them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 04:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Males should pay for the first date because makeup is expensiveWill you pay for the guy's car, gas, clothes, cologne, hair products? He uses all that to get ready and conduct the date. No guy forced you to buy that make-up. Buy cheaper make-up or don't wear it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 04:24 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Males should pay for the first date because makeup is expensiveYou consented to the date. Are you going to pay for the guy's clothes and cologne? You made a decision for yourself. The make-up is for yourself by your own words. If it's not for me then I'm not paying for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 04:12 AM |
| -1 | A lot of people on this sub have no conception of how attraction works and I think that’s actively hurting themThey do though because while being physically attractive will get you a date. Having a shitty personality will get you dumped. Man or woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 02:22 AM |
| – | The brouhaha over the bear is not about misandry or risk. It’s about who is allowed to criticize male behavior or have a negative reaction to it (hint: not women)Some men are what? My comment was all about he feelings and perpective of men and you seem to not be understanding them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:44 AM |
| – | The brouhaha over the bear is not about misandry or risk. It’s about who is allowed to criticize male behavior or have a negative reaction to it (hint: not women)Nowhere is said that every random man will assault us but those who would, are so much worse than what the bear might do (you know not all bears) that we rather take the bear. I'm guessing you mean this. I figured that's what it was. I've tried explaining this to other guys and they can't seem to wrap their heads around it. Like brother, If one thing is a lot worse than another then you'll be ok taking your chances on the less harmful outcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:38 AM |
| – | The brouhaha over the bear is not about misandry or risk. It’s about who is allowed to criticize male behavior or have a negative reaction to it (hint: not women)Neither of those. It's declaring that the worst possible outcome of what a man could do to you is wayyyyyyy worse than the worst possible outcome of what a bear could do to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:32 AM |
| 6 | The brouhaha over the bear is not about misandry or risk. It’s about who is allowed to criticize male behavior or have a negative reaction to it (hint: not women)I promise you it's not. Maybe for some, but certainly not most men who are offended by this. Those men truly believe that most men are safer than a bear. They find this to be an obvious fact. So when a woman says that they'd choose a bear over a man it makes them wonder why they would choose someone they believe to be absolutely absurd. The answer they come up with is that women have an unfair prejudice towards them. This is not some kind of power play. Men are genuinely hurt that they are being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 12:08 AM |
| 2 | The brouhaha over the bear is not about misandry or risk. It’s about who is allowed to criticize male behavior or have a negative reaction to it (hint: not women)Why do you pick the bear? Do you have stats? Genuinely curious of your logic. Feel free to ignore anyone being rude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 11:54 PM |
| 5 | What if men were allowed to choose between a bear and a woman in a forest? Statistics show women more frequently assault men than bears - why hasn’t anyone pointed this out yet? Why does the “man = bad” paradigm fit so well in our society?Ok, but that doesn't tell us how many men murder. There were about 165,280,000 men in the US in 2022. Here are some number of incident stats from the FBI for 2022. These are all the number of perpetrators. Homicide: 13,344 men, or ~0.008% of men Aggravated assault: 412,912 men, or ~0.25% of men Robbery: 154,649 men, or ~0.094% of men Rape: 94,877 men, or ~0.057% of men All violent crime: 675,782 men, or ~0.41% of men Btw, some of these incidents are certainly repeats by the same men. Basically, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 11:48 PM |
| 1 | If most younger women are dating older men, should MATURE younger men attempt to date older women?Women in general have always preferred older men. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 05:37 PM |
| – | Have we considered the costs of a polygamous society?Where did you get it from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 04:46 AM |
| – | Have we considered the costs of a polygamous society?I'm sorry you're hurting brother. I assure you, the majority of women do not want polygamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 04:30 AM |
| – | Love bombing vs feigning low interestYou're going to struggle to have any long term relationships if you're in your head and treating it like a game. If you really want to learn: https://www.gottman.com/ https://drsuejohnson.com/ https://youtube.com/@JimmyonRelationships?si=rGM95L1nL2L2KyHs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:59 AM |
| – | Love bombing vs feigning low interestBrother. Love bombing is a tactic used by narcissists to manipulate and control people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:51 AM |
| – | Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort.I'm sorry but I'm getting major red flags from everything you've been saying. You seem to be lacking in understanding and empathy for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:46 AM |
| – | Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort.That's really weird because the majority of first marriages last. Maybe you're hanging around the wrong people. https://psychcentral.com/health/the-myth-of-the-high-rate-of-divorce#divorce-statistics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:42 AM |
| – | Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort.You don't think you did anything wrong in any of your relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:32 AM |
| – | Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort.They aren't complaining about there being debate. They're complaining about people blaming everything on the other side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:24 AM |
| 1 | RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why?Brother, just say that you're too scared. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:58 AM |
| 0 | Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victimsCan you link some references to the data? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 08:23 AM |
| 0 | Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victimsYour taxes mostly go to the military, retired people, and healthcare. Single moms are only about 4.5% of the population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victimsIt's actually a myth but it's so widespread and ingrained in people that it likely won't go away any time soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:39 AM |
| 8 | Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victimsChildren are affected by the vote but they aren't allowed to vote. That second one is a good point. Ideally, people will vote for things that result in a higher collective good for everyone. You probably want mature thoughtful people making those votes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:38 AM |
| 2 | The way women test their Lover's love is so wrongThose women have issues and are a minority of women. I promise you there are men with the same problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 10:45 PM |
| -1 | The way women test their Lover's love is so wrongIt's normal human psychology. Both genders do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 10:42 PM |
| 2 | The way women test their Lover's love is so wrongWhy are you applying this to women in general? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 10:29 PM |
| 2 | All men are predators? Or irrational fear?Plenty of people are good at hiding their intent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 01:56 PM |
| 2 | All men are predators? Or irrational fear?That's just the description of someone who is shy or sad/depressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 01:53 PM |
| 0 | All men are predators? Or irrational fear?Most men would not rape if they could get away with it. Where did you get this idea? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 01:38 PM |
| 11 | All men are predators? Or irrational fear?You yourself said you don't give a fuck about strangers so why do expect them to give a fuck about you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 01:35 PM |
| 4 | All men are predators? Or irrational fear?We live in a society. We all affect it. Get some help my guy. You're giving off npd vibes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Is porn addiction a factor in how negatively women see the average man?Not in every case, but most of the time, yes. Porn existing isn't the reason guys stop being able to masturbate to just their imagination. It's normal. When you're young and extra horny it's easy because you're extra horny. It doesn't take much. But as you become less horny, unless you have a very vivid and clear imagination, which most guys don't, it becomes harder to get off, regardless of the existence of porn. Guys likely didn't masturbate that often before porn existed because it wasn't eas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Is porn addiction a factor in how negatively women see the average man?I'm sorry, that may be how it works for you but it's simply not how it works for others. Not everyone is the same. You sound like a guy who thinks they know more about how women's bodies work than they do. Also, you don't need to masturbate. It won't hurt you to not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 08:39 PM |
| -2 | Is porn addiction a factor in how negatively women see the average man?It's just how most men work. It works in the beginning but after a bit it stops and you need more than your imagination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Is porn addiction a factor in how negatively women see the average man?It's normal for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 04:42 AM |
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