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If it makes you feel any better, mine is worse than yours. Guaranteed...
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/22 02:21 AM
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100% ASD shit test. Just ignore and proceed as normal.
/r/seduction12/07/22 04:40 AM
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This is great advice and what I plan on pitching to my ex.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 09:07 PM
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Different schools in Arizona.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 07:13 PM
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The challenge here is that my ex has committed to matching my significant contribution to their college schooling and if they piss her off she's liable to rescind her commitment, which she has already threatened, and then I don't know what would happen. I've shared this with them but things always get explosive then they're with her.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 12:20 AM
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Good for you for looking out for yourself. Yeah, can't go full no contact when you're co-parenting for the sake of the kid but you can control how contact is made.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/22 05:57 PM
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Preach. My boys are off to university in several weeks and I am counting down the days when I can block my ex on phone and text and tell her that if she needs to reach me for anything urgent she can email me, which I check occasionally. I get dozens of texts from her each week even when my boys are in my custody.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/22 05:55 PM
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I really appreciate your reply.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/22 05:10 PM
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BPD and ADD.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/22 04:45 PM
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Yep, the courtrooms and attorneys offices are filled with white knights and the legal system is stacked against us. Luckily for me my ex was psychotic enough to piss off her own legal team and female judge, but it was an uphill battle the whole way.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/22 06:52 AM
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You are correct about the no compromising part.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/22 06:48 AM
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Yeah, I hear ya.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/22 06:48 AM
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There is no trying to resolve conflict with my ex. She marches to the beat of her own drum and takes no other perspective into account besides her own.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/22 06:46 AM
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Right now your sole focus should be with self-improvement, as the mental state you describe comes from lack of self-esteem and lack of abundance. Lift, focus on your career, bang a side chick here and there when you need your nut, and re-emerge like a phoenix.
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:31 PM
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You texted too much and by doing so lost value to her. 5-6 messages, logistics, date, bang.
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:28 PM
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Here's where you use amused mastery or agree and amplify. You need to re-take the frame in this situation.
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:27 PM
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I agree that you need to me maxing your photos but disagree that the way to do it is by booking a session. 95% of professional photographers are gonna take nice guy beta shots and once your session is done if you don't find photos consistent with the vibe you're trying to impart you're screwed. Much better to use your own phone with a tripod and remote and become an amateur photographer yourself. Or better yet, get a cheapo DSLR or mirrorless camera for the same price that you would've paid for …
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:24 PM
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That's a pretty sperg opener, which just goes to show that it's all about just approaching, not the content of your approach.
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:20 PM
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I have some Fuck Yeah girls in my rotation, and they are fucking awesome.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 05:49 AM
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Absolutely disagree. You should always focus on your own pleasure, and she will by extension love coming along for the ride.
/r/seduction13/07/21 08:17 PM
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"She's a slut and your friend should've been up front with you."
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:55 AM
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OP would do well to watch this movie starring him, his bro, and tube top gal. Here's how this kind of thing always ends.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:44 AM
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I see far too much "porn is poison" here, and I've seen no empirical evidence that fapping a reasonable amount does any damage. Clearly this was an issue of nerves, which can certainly short-circuit your ability to get and stay hard (it's called "performance anxiety"). Shake it off, work on abundance, and you'll be just fine.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:34 AM
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See your doctor about Propranolol, a medication that temporarily short-circuits your body's fight or flight response. You will never have to worry about public speaking again.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 07:49 PM
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As an older guy, it breaks my heart that so many of you kids are university age during lockdown. If it were me, knowing what I know now and looking back on the social aspect of my college years, I'd give serious consideration to delaying my higher education until this mess is behind us.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 04:01 PM
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To answer your question specifically, no it is not necessary. The most efficient way to improve your SMV is through improving your game/frame.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 12:15 AM
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Based on your beta behavior, you deserve exactly what you got.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 08:38 PM
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I always double book dates and it has been very rare that I've had to make up an excuse with one of them, as one almost always flakes. It's actually more common that BOTH of them flake, so maybe it makes sense to start triple booking.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 05:22 PM
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Come back when you've cold approached 100 times.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 05:20 PM
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So there's your answer. If you could Captain Bangaho her and trust yourself to not get sucked back in, I say go for it. But you just admitted you can't.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:55 AM
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Yeah, it's definitely inside my head a bit that all of a sudden I may have my Saturday evenings free and how will I replace her. Scarcity mentality is fucking with me when I've proven that I have plenty of abundance.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 07:18 PM
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Oh, there will definitely be no living/married stage. I'm just trying to weigh whether I try to maintain her as a plate.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 06:08 AM
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Really good stuff, thanks. Yeah, the other two times she's thrown a tizzy she's come back and apologized profusely, but nothing from her yet this time around. I think that's probably because I failed her shit tests for more comfort, but I'm just gonna try to re-establish frame by not reaching out. I'm having a hard time with this one because she's been an awesome plate, but the dynamics changed over the course of a single evening and I think you hit the nail on the head why she was so especially…
/r/askTRP18/05/21 05:31 AM
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You're right, I definitely lost frame in that moment. We were both pretty buzzed and things just got progressively worse.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 05:06 AM
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I hear you, but I'm not going to demote a plate who gets upset once over an entire year and who otherwise has been exemplary.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 04:47 AM
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Perhaps the most important intersexual dynamic you must create is for her to constantly be vying for your approval, and it is your responsibility to initiate this dynamic from the get-go.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 10:25 PM
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The other posts are wrong; this isn't a porn/masturbation thing, it's a condom/performance anxiety thing. I'd see your doctor for a script for generic Viagra to help get you over the hump (heh).
/r/askTRP09/05/21 04:54 PM
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Eh, there's nothing wrong with smashing a land whale, narwhal (land whale with multiple piercings) or even blue-haired SJW every now and again, and OP admitted he was on a dry spell (it happens, especially in quarantine). The trick is to watch porn, close your eyes, and pretend what you're fucking is what was on your screen.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 01:05 AM
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Yeah, there's a lot wrong with this post, and you did a nice job of dissecting the beta orbiterness of it all.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/21 05:43 AM
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Simple, yet excellent post. Frame really does trump all, including looks, status, and money.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 04:29 AM
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Here's the thing, though: unless you're god-tier good-looking like Gosling is, that level of stoicism just ain't gonna cut it and and you'll be cast aside as being autistic. For the other 99+% of us, we're better off coming across as "fun hawt guy".
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:25 PM
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Older guy here. Here's been my Covid playbook: 1) For our first time together, I invite her to my place straightaway. Covid has given us a wonderful excuse to avoid the traditional "meet at a public space for drinks", and I've found that a lot of gals are more open to meeting a guy that they've never met at my personal residence. 2) If I get hit with "I'd prefer to meet at a public place first" I tell them that I understand completely and invite them to a place in my hood (not hers). If I get an…
/r/askTRP14/04/21 04:29 PM
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She works at a crematorium as a sales person [sic] /Full stop
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:41 AM
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Love Woujo's stuff, but I've noticed a common theme in his content of asking girls stuff. Never do that, always tell them what the plan is. "Let's grab a drink at Jimmy’s at 9 p.m. on Tuesday."
/r/TheRedPill03/04/21 05:47 AM
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Oh, I disagree. I always text a few hours before the meet to say "see you at X place at Y time" (notice I say this as a statement rather than asking it as a question). I need confirmation that she's actually planning to be there before I take the time to get ready and show up.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 04:49 PM
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Google what you're describing and you'll find that this is a very common issue that effects a lot of men, and I went through a bit of a spiral of this a while back but it has passed. Viagra is a great idea, and I think you'll be pleased with its efficacy. 50 mg. is a good therapeutic dose, and keep in mind that Viagra is actually 100 mg., so don't think you're taking a lot. The other thing to consider is asking your doctor for a script for Propranolol. This drug is used off label by people who e…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 05:23 AM
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There's a big difference between being stoic and boring. Which one are you?
/r/askTRP04/11/20 09:27 PM
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You what's really creepy? Jerking off to porn into a tube sock. Just approach.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:18 AM
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Nice work, gents. I have been bewildered by the format of trp.red but the forum design looks great. The closer you can get it to look like this place the quicker we'll migrate over, I believe.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/20 02:01 AM
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Because game/frame trumps looks/status. That doesn't mean you don't need to lift/dress/groom, but not having an optimal appearance is definitely not a "death sentence".
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:24 AM
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She says she isn’t happy. The distance is bothering her, since women need the physical presence of a man to make them feel satisfied and happy. Does this seem like a red flag to you?
/r/askTRP24/05/20 07:03 PM
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