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Try hanging out with them as a friend first, and see if the girl is the kind of person you want to with. It also helps if you want to get to know her better. If you don't enjoy hanging out with her as a friend, you probably won't like her as your girlfriend.
/r/seduction03/09/19 06:34 PM
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What do you consider an immature girl?
/r/seduction09/01/19 07:14 PM
2

That sounds pretty straightforward and simple, I'd do it. If its something like the first contact, I say don't put too much pressure on yourself because it can show on your face. Just be chill and casual about it.
/r/seduction01/01/19 09:11 PM
1

Wow, honesty works. Who knew? 😂
/r/seduction31/12/18 07:23 AM
1

I actually do mess around like that with my friends, but I guess I'm not as skilled or in tune as most people in seduction. I'm more of a straightforward kind of person, I just having fun with friends but I get annoyed if people beat around the bush when it can just be said and I can make a call for myself. And I can respect your statements too, I think we'd be chill friends but we ain't hooking up
/r/seduction31/12/18 06:39 AM
4

What are you doing here? And why did you even call your mom that? Apologize and never disrespect your parents like that again
/r/seduction31/12/18 05:47 AM
1

Honestly, yes. Because the guy made his intentions clear that he wasn't interested because of my shyness, why would I force myself onto him? If I really like him and want to pursue more then maybe I can try being more proactive. Again, I'm not saying that it doesn't work but if you already made your case clear, why do this game?
/r/seduction31/12/18 05:41 AM
5

She was a victim of your bulling, you even admitted to it. She might not have been a victim of rape but you bullied her when you were younger, making her a victim.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 04:37 AM
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I guess so. Honestly, I was just curious about what happened after your japanese girl advice post and I found what you said about your former victim. I mainly wanted to try and point out how wrong that is. I don't think every dude on this subreddit thinks that women are just for men's pleasure. And if you do so, I hope you've got the backbone and finance power to never have to rely on a women for the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:55 AM
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Now I just feel bad for the girl because she probably was expecting more from you and you used her. There is nothing wrong with sex but you make it sound like it's the only thing worth a thought in life. That's what concerns me. You use people for sex and nothing more. If you're happy with that life then I wish you all the best. But don't view women as nothing more than something to get your dick wet, women are people and degrading them like that will only make your life miserable.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:32 AM
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That really just depends on your game. Forget the Alpha/Beta bullshit for now since it will only mess you up. To be yourself, just make sure that you are showing off the best parts of yourself first. If you're funny, show that off. If you're considerate or kind, your actions will show that. That's what it means to be yourself, be genuine and let your actions speak for you. Like the guy uptop said, you are going to fail and its ok. Just learn, better yourself, and move on. Don't let one failure g…
/r/seduction30/12/18 03:28 AM
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You lost your V card or you faked an apology in hopes that one of your former victims will sleep with you? And if you already had sex then why is it so important to you then? Don't you have other things to focus on in your life?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:22 AM
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Dude, at this point I just feel sorry for you. Stop trying to compare or fantasize about sexual experiences and just go out into the real world. Live your life and don't expect sex to be the ultimate goal in life. Because at some point, you have to think "why?". Why is sex so important to you that you have to consider "apologizing" to a girl you formally bullied just to use her to lost your V card?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:05 AM
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Again, there is nothing wrong with trying. Just be prepared and aware of the fact that she could just say no. That's all I'm saying. I'm not saying don't do it, I'm just saying don't be a NiceguyTM
/r/seduction30/12/18 03:01 AM
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It's a common thing on Social Media where if someone follows you, you follow back as appreciation for the follow. It's considered customary to follow someone back on Instagram or Twitter if they follow you.
/r/seduction30/12/18 02:57 AM
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Just be careful. Read the signs carefully, is she interested or is this a case of I-follow-you-back on Instagram? Make sure to not hope for too much before making actual contact, don't be a NiceguyTM
/r/seduction30/12/18 02:53 AM
1

As a girl, if someone said that to me I would take it as a rejection because of my "shyness". Granted I'm an individual case but that's kind of the thing with this method. You don't know how the other person is going to take it.
/r/seduction27/12/18 04:41 AM
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I can see how that can go, but I might not word it that way since it makes it sound like he's rejecting her. This is really an all-or-nothing tactic.
/r/seduction26/12/18 05:52 AM
1

Well if you don't mind sharing, why did you two break up?
/r/seduction19/12/18 06:48 AM
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As a man, you should never take a girl out on a date unless you are planning on inviting her back to your house afterward. As a man, you want to get physical. You do not just want to take her on a date and get nothing in return. Immediate Red Flags. ​
/r/seduction17/12/18 03:17 AM
4

Fair enough. I'm not here to argue about whether there are kinky girls in Japan. I'm just stating that OP here, who doesn't know Japanese and is banking on being American to have sex, is more than likely not going to get what he wants.
/r/seduction13/12/18 04:21 PM
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I personally have not been to Japan. What I'm basing myself on are personal views from Japanese YouTubers and those who have been/lived in Japan, what is currently happening in Japan in terms of their birth rate issue, and the cultural views of Japan and Asian culture. I never said that there are no outgoing japanese girls that are willing to have kinky sex, but like I said, they probably won't take well being propositioned out in the streets.
/r/seduction13/12/18 04:17 PM
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There are BDSM clubs in America too, does that mean all of the US is like that? I'm talking about Japan as a whole. they are very conservative and keep to themselves, but there are always wild ones and they are likely in bars or clubs. I ain't one to say they are all conservative, but chances are you're not going to find a girl for your fetishes in a ramen shop.
/r/seduction13/12/18 08:02 AM
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Oh then that girl was just a hypocrite. Forget my first statement then. Anyways, I think this is just a case of trial and error. I don't really have any advice to give, maybe someone else has some helpful tips. Just stay positive, Don't fall into the NiceGuyTM pitfalls. Good luck to you
/r/seduction13/12/18 07:18 AM
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You paid for the dinner after she told you she didn't want you to pay for her, there is a problem with this statement and I hope you realise it. You are right that sometimes girls just don't like someone and you can't change that, but it's not totally out of your control. The first time seemed like it was going somewhere but you cut it off by telling her to go. I don't know what happened after that so I can't judge but I think you shoot yourself in the foot sometimes.
/r/seduction13/12/18 07:10 AM
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Point still stands, if they are looking for a genuine relationship and they've had tough pasts, chances are you're not getting laid on the first date. Or first year if this is the attitude you show them.
/r/seduction13/12/18 06:06 AM
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Wow... It's almost like she wants a relationship with you that doesn't require sex 0.0 Seriously dude, if you're in it for sex, some girl at a bar could do it if you play it right. But if you're trying to pull that shit on a girl who is clearly trying to build a stable and realistic foundation for a relationship, it's not going to end well for either of you. The fact that she has been telling you about how men have used her for sex, then you go and talk about how you want sex from her. That's ju…
/r/seduction13/12/18 05:54 AM
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My first advice: Stop thinking about it. Find something else to do, play video games, get a new hobby, focus on classes if you're still in school. When you don't think about it, it breaks the cycle. My second advice: Work on your confidence. The fact that you call yourself clingy and a beta show that you don't think that much about yourself. Learn to be the person you want to be and once you like yourself, others will like you too. The more you think about it, the longer this cycle goes on for. …
/r/seduction12/12/18 10:39 PM
2

If I was gay, I'd still probably get more girls than you
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:18 PM
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After doing some checks, the line is blurry but the biggest problem with your statements is that you are oversexualizing a part of Asian girls that don't really exhibit that kind of behavior. You are sexualizing an ethnicity because they are "meek and submissive". I am now curious, if they are off going to a convention, are you going to go around Japan by yourself to look for girls? With no knowledge of Japanese?
/r/seduction12/12/18 07:01 AM
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There is nothing wrong with preferences, all the power to you. But I think that illusion of Asian girls you are fantasizing about is clouding your judgment on reality. We are trying to help you by pointing these things out, I think talking to that cousin of yours might give you a better picture.
/r/seduction12/12/18 06:44 AM
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Fetish: an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression. This entire post is about you wanting to get off on Japanese girls, please don't lie to yourself.
/r/seduction12/12/18 06:23 AM
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I am telling you that it's not that simple. If you want to try, be my guest. I have a feeling I can't convince you otherwise. Just try to enjoy your trip either way I guess.
/r/seduction12/12/18 06:20 AM
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Dude, I think the best thing you can do now is heal. Not shunned into isolation, but I think you genuinely need to get over your previous relationship before you can meet anyone else. I recommend seeing a psychiatrist and talking over your issues, the first step in healing in this case, is letting go.
/r/seduction12/12/18 06:08 AM
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Umm... It's more like a rarity, like a jewel showing up at a museum. People will be staring at you but that doesn't mean they want sex. And from what I've heard there seems to have been a power shift from men to women, making them more submissive and women more dominant. Not all Asian girls are meek and submissive and even then that doesn't mean they'll have sex. Again, dude. I'm not trying to be mean but I'd rather have someone let me know than to have my dreams shattered down the line.
/r/seduction12/12/18 05:42 AM
0

Ok, opinions aside. Please don't insult photography and the people who not only enjoy it but do it as a profession.
/r/seduction12/12/18 05:32 AM
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Dude... You're better off staying home then. Sorry for shattering the fantasy but Japanese girls aren't as easy as the animes make it seem. Sorry that was harsh, I meant feel free on going on the trip and enjoying Japan, but I don't think girls are going to go for someone they literally can't understand
/r/seduction12/12/18 05:24 AM
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I don't know how I really feel about this. You do know that Japan is a pretty conservative country right? You're not going to find them out on the streets of Toyko, my best bet is a club or something. Just a curious question, how good is your Japanese?
/r/seduction12/12/18 05:16 AM
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I think what you're thinking of are NiceGuysTM and I think OP meant actually kind and nice guys.
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:53 PM
1

Then don't bother and be happy. If that's what makes you happy, fuck social rules. No one says you need to be out there having sex everyday to be happy. As long as you are personally happy and don't develop an incel view of the world, I say just live life how you want. As for the first statement, I've seen as many shallow men as I have shallow women. Some just don't know that they are shallow, and there is a fine line of the strong silent type and the passive guy. Sometimes direct works and some…
/r/seduction11/12/18 06:03 PM
1

Not necessarily, there are success stories from all different backgrounds. The problem I think is that you start clinging onto these "failures" that might not be up to you. The girl is a player in this game too and like most of the people here have said, you can be the best cake in the shop and people don't take a bite just because they don't like cake. My advice is to let go and don't be too hard on making something happen. Be fun and casual. If you keep trying to make something happen that the…
/r/seduction11/12/18 03:49 PM
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I'd say hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst. The worst case scenario is she says no. But if you word it right, your friendship will be shaken but it will come out OK. I'd say try it and just be genuine and casual. Remember, whatever happens after the text is history. If she says yes, awesome job. But if she says no, you have to take it in stride. ​ Good luck OP :)
/r/seduction11/12/18 02:52 AM
1

There is a reason she stopped hugging you, it's because she doesn't want to send mixed messages. If you genuinely want to stay her friend then the awkwardness will eventually go away if you stay in that zone. I think you should just speak up at first that you are interested and work more on yourself if you get rejected, it sucks but that's life
/r/seduction11/12/18 02:42 AM
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There's a reason she said no. If you can't handle the idea of just being friends at all, then I recommend just leaving, but if you choose to stay, it cannot be out of the hope that you are next in line, that's a totally NiceGuyTM move and you will lose everything you have with her. If you tell her that you want to be her friend, be her friend.
/r/seduction08/12/18 04:05 AM
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Ok. First things first, the attitude needs to change. You can't look at the world with this dark tainted lens, the world is simpler, and not all attractive guys score. Looks work for a hookup but its charm that wins for the long run. If you don't got the looks, that's OK. Just work on something else, get fit, be interesting, be funny, have a charming personality and that will draw people to you. Secondly, don't focus solely on hot girls. The only ones picking up diamonds are the rich boys, but t…
/r/seduction08/12/18 04:01 AM
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Please don't fuel his fire, I had a conversation with this guy yesterday over the same issue. He doesn't understand that girls can choose if they want to look at the color of their partner's skin or not.
/r/seduction08/12/18 03:12 AM
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The fact that you even know that someone is going to think less of you for this mentality shows that maybe this isn't a healthy mindset. If your cousin can't even support this mentality, how could other girls look past this? Trust me, you're better off not thinking this way. Stop questioning why girls act a certain way, and just be an awesome guy that girls want to be with. Because a toxic mindset like that will hinder you no matter where you go.
/r/seduction07/12/18 02:46 PM
1

Again, try asking Asian girls like your cousin. They can give you context and it will hopefully answer your question at last. Also, PLEASE don't refer to your future girlfriend as a "mate", it's just as bad as being called "female" or "m'lady". It's dehumanizing and you've gotta work on that before working on your game.
/r/seduction07/12/18 02:16 PM
1

... Did you even look at what you're typing? Of course you can ask women about this. Surely you have Asian girls as friends or have guys with Asian girlfriends, it's called research and it's necessary to gain evidence to back up your claim. Did you ask your cousin why she didn't date any Asian guys? Like was she specifically avoiding them? Since she's family, I doubt she would lie. Again, chances are there are Asian guys with white girlfriends. Just like any other interracial couple, you just di…
/r/seduction07/12/18 01:22 PM
2

Did you ask them if this was their reasoning? Maybe did you consider that the number of white people there are larger than the Asian community? And maybe that the person they like were just awesome people who happen to have a different skin tone? You can't make those assumptions, treat them as fact, and then go crying how Asian girls don't look at Asian NiceGuysTM. As a point, I'm Asian and if someone I knew said shit like this, I'd just think they're petty. Please move on from this mentality. N…
/r/seduction07/12/18 12:59 PM
3

Dude, he's doing you a service. No Asian girl is entitled to like Asian guys and maybe it is a preference, who the hell cares? The people here are trying to help you become a bigger person by calling out the problems with this mentality. You can't expect people, especially Asians, to come here and rally with you while you lick your wounds
/r/seduction07/12/18 12:54 PM
1

Well maybe they grew up around white guys so they are more comfortable around them? I can't really speak for all Asian women here. But from what I've seen in your replies, you seem more upset that they don't like you specifically in favor of white guys. It's their choice in the end who they want to date and if they end up wanting to settle with an Asian guy, that's on them, and even then it doesn't have to be you. I'm glad you have the confidence to "Clean Up" in Asia, but you're not in Asia so …
/r/seduction07/12/18 06:18 AM
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I don't understand? I've seen tons of Asian girls with Asian boyfriends and my sister has mentioned that she preferred Asian guys (Kpop) to white guys. Maybe it's just a small field of vision, but you don't have to go for Asian girls. I'm sure there are girls who'd be interested in guys regardless of race. Though, I will warn you that you're starting to sound like a NiceGuyTM
/r/seduction07/12/18 03:18 AM
1

Well, maybe she just saw it as a simple hookup. Did you let her know that you wanted to date her? Maybe it was just unspoken words and miss opportunities. Unless there are any more details you can share about your side of the party, I can just say she probably wasn't interested in anything more
/r/seduction05/12/18 08:50 PM
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If she seems OK with it, then I'd say it's cool. But if you feel bad about it, just apologize without making it into a big deal and try not to do it again. Most girls aren't that complex.
/r/seduction05/12/18 08:40 PM
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My best bet is to play it by ear, just make sure that she's cool with it in the end. But just don't go in expecting to succeed, failure is always an option. Failing to accept that though, makes you a "Nice Guy" so watch out for that pitfall
/r/seduction05/12/18 08:32 PM
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