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Well because it is. Men don’t like careers, they - more often than not - want young, dependable and innocent women they can sexually exploit and call it their FWB at max.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:25 AM
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Most attractive guys don’t commit until they reach 35, then suddenly something clicks and they want to date an 18 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:35 PM
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Modern society restricts polygynous behavior? Never heard of spinning plates?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:07 PM
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I know alot of men do care about social and financial status of the woman. No one wants to date a good looking cleaning service employee, they might want to ONS her, but not date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:02 PM
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But low n count in men signalizes bad SMV, so why do low n women and low n men should be attracted to eachother? Makes no sense to me. I am a low n count woman and all the low n count men had severe mental issues or were damaged in some way so they couldn’t explore their sexuality in any way. I don’t want some low n count man who wants me because no one else does (that’s why they have low n count). Alot of men want me however, and I decline most of them, keeping my n count pretty low.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:04 PM
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He will dump and block you the second a better girl comes around. With relationships, you have a closer bond with eachother, so this won’t happen. When someone is not the monogamous type, you can discuss polyamory. But the whole FWB type of crap only benefits men who want to screw around and dump you the second someone better comes around aka. their dream girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 11:19 AM
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„This isn't average or normal unless you're still in highschool or early college age, at least in a Western country.“ Okay, I'm a college med student, so that counts in I guess. „...it's almost always because women are pursuing men out of their league. If all a woman is getting offered is sex and men aren't willing to have an actual relationship it's because the woman isn't particularly attractive (especially if this is the case outside OLD).“ That’s not true. I hear even unattractive men wantin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 07:52 AM
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You just said it yourself. Because those men want to pump and dump her. Of course she gets sexual oriented attention only - they want to literally USE and sexually exploit her. Read that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 05:31 AM
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You’re literally not even trying to base up your own standpoint with legitimate arguments, all you do is just bashing around at anything that doesn’t sit with your own opinion, lmao. Provide something more than „That’s bullshit/ You haven’t a fucking clue what you’re talking about“ - that’s just not a discussion worth continuing, it ironically proves your narcissistic tendencies more and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 05:14 AM
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Most men on here (and real life, sadly) are indeed unable to recognize women as people - they see women as emotional s*x softwares to be exploited, who need to benefit men in all ways (despite men not contributing at all), who aren’t allowed to have any standards, who have to be pretty 24/7 and on top just literally behave like a slave. That’s basically patriarchy. It’s kind of sickening to see the huge amount of hate against women, just because they themselves can’t land a virgin 10/10 model, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 03:53 AM
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It’s because his narcissistic entitlement to someone better despite being shitty himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 03:11 AM
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You are shallow yourself but expect the girl not to be - alright, I am done here. You are shooting way above your league. Stay in your lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 03:05 AM
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Like it’s kind of sad you can’t believe me. Go outside, get some experience. Or set up an insta account of an insta thot and watch TAKEN MEN thirsting after that fake account. They would literally leave their girl any time if something better comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 03:01 AM
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Stay delusional then. I got all the screenshots if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:59 AM
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Lmao I can’t, this amount of delusion is unreal LOOK - The problem is: The majority of men want to be an so called „Alpha“ with a thousand good looking chicks pining after them. Less attractive chicks are pumped and dumped. Of course that’s not going to work out, as not all men are able to attract so many people (because of facial deformities, mental illnesses...). But even the lowest of incels still try to be „Alpha“. They still try to sexually exploit other girls by lying straight into their f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:57 AM
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LMAO WHAT? Interested suitors in pumping and dumping her at best, not for something serious. They don’t even answer her anymore or block her when she says she isn’t into hookups. WELL - EVEN I have been ghosted so so many times because I didn’t want to hook up. I can’t believe you’re so delusional and think that average people get blown with attention. I feel men are more entitled to a model looking girl, than it is reverse the case. And if she is not a top 10/10 model they can introduce their m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:46 AM
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That’s not my observation here. What I see everywhere is a less attractive guy with a more attractive girl. And no, the guy isn’t rich or something along those lines. I actually see more less attractive women getting dumped left and right for a hotter girl. I know my friend circle. We are all single and never had boyfriends (except me). Even some incels rejected my friend (they rather simp for insta thots). She is not fat, she doesn’t have a bad face, she is working out and all. She has zero mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 12:10 AM
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That’s not true. Remember, alot of it goes unreported. The statistics are about 50/50 in real life. Just look up how many men leave their wives for someone younger. It’s a known phenomenon. You all are acting like once men commit, nothing will keep them from committing. That’s just men-positive and toxic bullcrap.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 04:27 PM
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„So men don’t initiate divorce or break up unless there is something outrageously wrong like cheating“ In what universe does this happen? I have seen men leaving their girlfriends and wives, just because their more attractive best friend caught up „FeELinGs“ all of a sudden, or it’s basically because he himself starts to feel cornered and wants to collect more ExPeRiEnCe with others, or he leaves her for a younger girl when she is 18 and while the wife is 32. I don’t understand why you’re painti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 03:24 PM
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But what if the girl is Demisexual and highly monogamous with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 08:09 PM
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What if he doesn’t even want marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 07:59 PM
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But look, I am really trying to date, I am really trying my best. Currently I feel wasting my 20s away because no one wants to commit AND DON'T TELL ME I SHALL JUST DATE THE ONES I FRIENDZONED. Because it’s more complex, sometimes people just don’t get along (he said he doesn’t like long hair and I like it - he told me in the end he can’t see himself dating someone like that. And he was absolutely below average in looks, the other one told me I was too submissive for him, the other one told me h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:39 PM
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Just the same that happens to me. We will be sorted out, no one will care after 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 12:43 PM
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Because they themselves have severe psychological issues, facial deformities and all that. It’s just biology, hating women because alot of them work on a primal level is just beyond stupid. It’s like you’re trying to hate nature itself. It’s basically natural selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:20 AM
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Because she had options. Just like men have options and spinning plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:15 AM
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It’s like only highly narcissistic people tend to hate on people with a sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 08:38 PM
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I share this account with my friends, don’t worry!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:01 PM
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I am (surprisingly) 24! I am Demisexual, I literally can’t have any ONS. I got ghosted by so many men because of it. Once they find out I won’t have anything sexual with them, they ghost me immediately,
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:33 PM
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I am working in college and I am in shape, not fat at all (I work out alot and have very low body fat).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:00 PM
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This only works, if this girl is attractive. If the girl is not attractive or fat, she will have female friends only. I had a medical condition once (PCOS) and it fucked up my metabolism, and made me fat. No guy wanted to be friends with me, no guy helped me out, I was treated subhuman to the point other girls felt sorry for me and I had girl friends only. I tried to be friends with guys, and they (like 100 men) brushed me off, saying „Oh nah, sorry fxck off I don’t want nothing to do with fatti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:32 AM
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It’s mostly male fantasy. I have seen girls being painfully used and abused by asking guys out. Later, they were slut shamed to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 10:28 AM
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Oh really? Majority of crimes are done... BY MEN. Majority of rape is done... BY MEN. Majority of psychopaths... ARE MEN. The scientifically proven fact that the part of human population with lack of empathy...ARE MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 07:33 AM
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I think it’s incredibly strange some people vent online about wanting a conservative basically demisexual/asexual girl, but my real life experience shows the opposite. Very sexually adventurous people I know who had a super high n-count in their youth are now coupled up in a healthy relationship, while people who weren’t that adventurous literally have trouble dating, they hardly find anyone that won’t abuse them or end up in toxic behavior. I know a girl who monetized on her sexual behavior som…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 12:53 AM
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But would you date a high n count person?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 12:16 AM
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It’s terrible. It basically reinforces toxic masculinity in all ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 01:23 PM
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LMAO, no experience in dating? I got ghosted by 1340 people on Tinder because I said I am not looking for hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 01:08 PM
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I know right? I know a girl who is promiscuous, she is hot and she gets alot of attention, marriage proposals. Can you imagine that?! Redpill theory is proven by many scientists and biology experts that it IS pseudo science all along. Men don’t really care about body count. Once they see something biologically high value (desired by others and looking desirable) they will go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 01:07 PM
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Yes and they end up literal spinsters. Because men value looks and age more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 12:58 PM
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I know alot of women who do art, they work part time in helping people and volunteer work, they educate themselves on multiple levels. I rarely come across a guy who does that. And guess what- they are all single and keep getting dumped because they don’t put out on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:18 AM
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How is living your 20s in asexuality the womans fault? Why are a large number of collective individuals punished for something a Very Small Part of the Society - basically a minority - is doing? Oops sorry I am born with two XX Chromosomes I can’t change that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:03 AM
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I do spend alot of time in the real world and I see those posts too, but once confronted, most admit that they are unable for a long term partner, i.e. being unable to commit (because they long for an Ex, they are too young for it... etc) It’s typically one of those posts that are like “I WANT A GF SO BAD :’( ... DEAR GOD I AM SO LONELY TONITE, WHERE IS A GF” - Don’t let you fool into thinking they are 100% factual, they are more like a cry for attention than a real wish for being in a committed…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 03:37 PM
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Matches yes... for hookups and ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 12:22 PM
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Is that post meant to sound ironically?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:09 AM
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Besides this post reinforcing this (proven wrong) Dichotomy: But what happens with the women (like me) who never slept around, who never actually took part in the hookup culture? Who don’t experience the “Betas” anymore, since no one wants to commit? I currently see myself wasting my 20s on waiting for someone to have an genuine, emotional connection. And I have been waiting 6 years to do so. I am currently 26 since my last boyfriend moved to a different state which led to a break up. He didn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:09 AM
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But due to PUA and RP every “Beta” has the possibility to become an “Alpha” - and plenty of them actually do, if not majority of them, resulting in the prevalent Hookup Culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 12:54 AM
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FINALLY you admitted it but then proceed to make pseudo-scientifical arguments solely because you can’t process the fact that alot of men don’t want to commit anymore. Every guy single 2020 is unable to commit CASE CLOSED.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 11:54 PM
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I don’t know where you live, but where I live most men don’t want to commit. That’s a full blown fact. What you are saying is completely new to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 11:45 PM
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You want a human being or a robot?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 08:28 PM
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You are actually missing my point. My what you call „buzzwords“ still don’t deny the fact that most men in their 20-30s don’t want to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 08:24 PM
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It actually is! Most men don’t even have basic hygiene. Women have it alot alot harder in finding a guy to commit WHO has hygiene, common sense (no psychological issues) and isn’t aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 08:13 PM
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„In fact, I have been living such a great time as bachelor (...) I probably would have never left the bachelor life“ -> that’s how majority of men think right now. Hookup culture and such. Men wasting women’s 20s forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 08:10 PM
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I don’t know if you have been on Tinder but the vast majority of women there have „NO HOOKUPS/ONS“ in their profile. It’s a dating app, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 08:06 PM
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That’s NOT true. Again, this is highly subjective, but I make the quite opposite experiences. More and more men are trying to get alot of money and don’t want to commit at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 08:03 PM
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„Plenty of men want relationships“ GOOD JOKE. Never heard of hookup culture? Never heard of actual STUDIES showing that the vast majority of men are unable to commit in 2020?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 08:00 PM
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But I have never seen them in real life. In forums you can claim all the shit you want, but that doesn’t translate to real life. I know alot of guys who whine about not having a girlfriend ADMITTING to actually being unable to commit when confronted. I have seen this with my own eyes so please.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 07:55 PM
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WHAT? This is the biggest lie I have ever come across. How can you deny my experiences and the vast majority of women? Gender rating goes for both ways, but numerous studies have shown actually men are much much more strict when it comes to appearance. They will treat you like shit if you don’t look a certain way. Stop denying FACTS and dismissing them as „projection“. Go make yourself the same experience, put up a dating profile of a 6/10 woman looking for a relationship. I think this’ll make y…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 07:42 PM
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I was just trying to be more specific, but yes I am a college educated woman. And no, I am not into the hook up culture and never have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:31 PM
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I don‘t know in what world you live in, but I am already 25 and since me and my boyfriend broke up with eachother (he moved away when I was 20, so we had to break up) I haven‘t found any single heterosexual cishet men that was ready to commit. Again, try this yourself. I feel like I will die an asexual spinster and so do my friends. I am getting mad at all the comments stating that several men want to commit LMAO BITCH WHEEEEEREE.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 07:20 PM
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ME AND MANY WOMEN IN MY AREA WANT TO GIVE MEN THE BEST YEARS BUT THEY DECIDE NOT TO like c‘mon make a Profile on a dating App as an 18 year old woman looking for commitment and watch her getting played, abused and made fun of. Enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 07:09 PM
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I make quite the opposite experience. I know that the majority of heterosexual cishet male people in their 20s-30s don’t want to settle down and be an „Alpha“, it actually became and Epidemic amongst young heterosexual cishet men. Since no one wants to be the „beta“ (remember, this is the internet with accessibility to EVERYONE) anymore, I know so many tryhard Alphas (regardless of looks, they try to sell themselves as an Alpha in front of your eyes) who will try to be a lifelong bachelor. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 05:44 PM
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But that goes for guys too! I am going to translate those statements. „most guys are the kind that are 100% invisible to women“ -> women out of their league. Of course they won’t get noticed by a 8+/10 when they are under 8/10 themselves. In all fairness, they should date lower, but they are too selfish to do that so they turn down every single offer from below a 8/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 05:23 PM
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Well, they are more open minded to overseeing beauty standards, but you are kind of right. It is still an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 05:20 AM
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I feel like Reddit is a whole another universe, when in reality it’s actually both genders are extremely picky when it comes to sex. In real life, I had men turn down alot of attractive women, just because they weren’t in the mood for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 08:11 PM
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I am even open to date someone 35+, but I get the feeling alot of them have „baggage“ including an Ex-Gf they still long for, children, or they turned cynical and AGAIN use me for a hookup- experience. I guess I will die an asexual spinster, lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:15 PM
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It’s basically the same, it’s like an epidemic. And those people I do meet are either in a relationship, having a FWB, or they’re still dealing with a break up, or they’re literally undatable (serious mental issues like psychosis, aggression issues that put me at danger... etc.) I asked guys out 5 times (who literally didn’t fit any chad criteria) and they told me they’re not looking for something more than a ONS. When I told them I am just fine being friends, I get told they’re not making frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:15 AM
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What I bring to the table? I am working in college, I read alot of philosophy, cultural anthropology theory and create art. I work out alot and have a slim body to fit societal standards. I care for myself and don’t party, I don’t have a high n count (what is criticized here alot). In my opinion I do bring something to the table!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 06:04 AM
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„You don’t notice them because u hypergamous“ Hypergamy describes multiple women being attracted to the same guy, which is based on primal sexual attraction (looks, status and all that). Demisexuals and asexuals don’t work like that, so they literally just focus on the point how good you will get along with eachother. So why is it my fault those people choose to stay at home and don’t (want) form a meaningful connection with me? How am I supposed to meet them anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:54 AM
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What? I am living in a city and I have never ever met someone like that, I feel like literally no one wants to commit, even those people who don’t fit the chad criteria don’t want to and only reach out for a hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:12 AM
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„Normal people“ can cheat on you, they can have ONS and all that. Demisexuals can’t - I literally can’t cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:03 AM
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But isn’t a repressed sexuality and a leaning towards monogamous behavior the very thing that is wanted by RP guys? I feel like when women are behaving polygamous, they are accuded of riding the „CC“ and being slutty and what not. When they don’t, it’s easily dismissed as being too uptight. Surprisingly, none of the women I know are ugly or religious/ puritanical creatures. They are really just monogamous oriented.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 08:02 PM
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