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| 4 | My hot 17 year old neighbor wants to be FWB. I'm 26. Is this an awful or awesome idea?Why did you bother asking, then? | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 10:31 PM |
| 2 | My hot 17 year old neighbor wants to be FWB. I'm 26. Is this an awful or awesome idea?I'm sorry, but having sex with an older guy is the key to the biggest bragging rights a girl her age can have. She will not keep her damn mouth shut on this. | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 10:15 PM |
| 0 | My hot 17 year old neighbor wants to be FWB. I'm 26. Is this an awful or awesome idea?17.. having sex with an older guy? She won't keep her mouth shut about it. The second some doofy-looking high school girl tells her older sister, there are no more adult women in your future. | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Do I risk losing my gf by being clingy and complimenting her?This. The point is to give compliments that mean something, not to seem smarmy. | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 11:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you dance at clubs?It's like the TV in poltergeist. Don't look at the dance floor, don't enter the dance floor. You can't talk to a girl there anyway. | /r/seduction | 03/05/11 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...Still not as good as my favorite. "Hey pretty lady. I just thought I'd come over and introduce myself because you look like the kind of woman that I'd like to have sex with." | /r/seduction | 01/05/11 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...Dude.. you want people to use a direct opener? | /r/seduction | 01/05/11 06:37 AM |
| 17 | AvailabilityCool. Now get over your fucking one-itis. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 10:30 PM |
| 8 | For those who don't quite get it: weaknesses and insecurities are the emotional equivalent of genitalia.This is a terrible analogy. | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 06:26 PM |
| 1 | What single line is the most meaningful/significant to you?Confidence is basically just a surrogate for other things. I think that many women cite that they like "confident" men, because they don't want to say that they like the things that make those men confident.. being tall, good looking, already successful with women. Many women would never admit to being attracted to that.. it would appear shallow! So, you've got this "confidence" thing.. something that anybody could achieve with work. Faked confidence is a great tool, though, and anybody can do i… | /r/seduction | 29/11/10 04:45 AM |
| 1 | 2 days on SedditWas &ct a typo? I don't know what this means. | /r/seduction | 29/11/10 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Update on "Woman demands oral from two men at knife point" - with pictureThey don't want her to be a registered sex offender.. just think of what that could do to her! | /r/MensRights | 05/11/10 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Taller and bigger guys, how do you deal with your physical size intimidating females?So, what's your problem exactly? Most guys would kill for your sex life. You're trying to take it to the next level? It doesn't sound like your height is a problem at all. 30 or so partners isn't exactly bad, it's actually quite good. If you're looking to take it to the next level, blaming your height just sounds completely backwards. | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Taller and bigger guys, how do you deal with your physical size intimidating females?How many women have you slept with and how old are you? Do you find that women just come up to you and talk to you? Just talk back to them. They want to have sex with you. | /r/seduction | 24/10/10 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Taller and bigger guys, how do you deal with your physical size intimidating females?Come the hell on, dude. You can be a total dork and pick up girls if you look like that. | /r/seduction | 24/10/10 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit- what's the best cologne to buy now? Looking for something subtle, not overpowering.AND MY AXE!! I'm sorry. I had to. | /r/seduction | 05/10/10 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Top PUA Gurus embarrass themselves on live TV | Are you paying money or learning stuff from these guys?That's the one.. but I can't find anything about the actual footage. | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Top PUA Gurus embarrass themselves on live TV | Are you paying money or learning stuff from these guys?Cool. It might take a bit, because I'm not sure where those videos go. I only have a couple of educated guesses. Okay, I've found out that the video is called "Sex Week at Yale the film", and it was only done the year that Matador was here. | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Top PUA Gurus embarrass themselves on live TV | Are you paying money or learning stuff from these guys?It was a Yale Sex Week thing. I don't think that they've ever posted it online, but they did video record it, and I might be able to find the dvd. I'll pass it on if I can find it. | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Top PUA Gurus embarrass themselves on live TV | Are you paying money or learning stuff from these guys?Yeppo, just noticed the rest of this thread. I think we should lobby him to be a mod of /r/seduction. | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Top PUA Gurus embarrass themselves on live TV | Are you paying money or learning stuff from these guys?This is all "outside the box thinking," and some of this stuff isn't exactly guaranteed to work. What if she blew up at him for doing this on camera? It would be an epic failure. | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 02:57 AM |
| 6 | Top PUA Gurus embarrass themselves on live TV | Are you paying money or learning stuff from these guys?No, dude. If they were following the Mystery Method or any of those related methods, then they were screwed before they started. (And they clearly were). In both MM and The Game, it clearly states that canned openers and cold approach techniques were made to help guys who are often clearly blown out long before they even make an attempt at picking them up get a chance to spend enough time with them to show that they are valuable, interesting people. Throwing in things like time constraints and s… | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Top PUA Gurus embarrass themselves on live TV | Are you paying money or learning stuff from these guys?He's posted once or twice mentioning involvement in the PUA community, and mentioned casually that he was mentioned in The Game, so I asked him who he was. We had a nice conversation over private messages, but I don't think that he's publicly identified himself, so I don't think that I should either. | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 07:52 PM |
| 11 | Top PUA Gurus embarrass themselves on live TV | Are you paying money or learning stuff from these guys?Get you to come out there under one pretense, then have something else entirely when you get there. Like when a furniture store has a "going out of business" sale, or a "liquidation" of their assets. They're a freaking furniture store, there's no next model year coming for most of the stuff they keep in stock. You get out there looking for a $100 sofa, and all that they have are $1000 sofas, but they got you into the store. But, to flip it out there. All of these techniques are intended to make … | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Strange but interesting tactic. Can you awesome PUA guys give me your thoughts/ opinions.Yeah.. basically. It worked because the guy is a guy who already gets girls. If even an average guy did it to the wrong girl, he might get arrested or something. The world's a bad place, and having girls tell you what guys that they're already interested in have managed to do is of interest, but not indicative of a good pickup tactic. | /r/seduction | 16/09/10 06:33 AM |
| -2 | Need some help, I dodged the marriage bullet, but worried that I may have thrown my happiness away.No dude.. you screwed up. Yes marriage is basically a bad proposition from a legal standpoint, but your girlfriend has to be on the same page as you for something like that. From her point of view, you didn't trust her to not be like those other women, and didn't love her. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/10 06:43 PM |
| 26 | I hate clubbing. I hate bars. I hate the people/women that go to to them. Alternatives?Then you won't feel bad about defiling a church if you do really well. | /r/seduction | 03/09/10 10:51 PM |
| 5 | I hate clubbing. I hate bars. I hate the people/women that go to to them. Alternatives?Church. | /r/seduction | 03/09/10 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Still afc...still afcWell, you're never going to get her, so, stop trying. If she comes around, it won't be a "pickup", and it'll probably be after she's had a few boyfriends and whatnot. So, it's best to move on, lest you establish yourself firmly as a chump with her, and/or with yourself. | /r/seduction | 27/08/10 06:30 PM |
| 8 | Painfully true seduction sketchIf you've never gotten a woman by being an asshole, then you've never been frustrated, said "this works" and just done it. It's not the same as pickup techniques, but it does work. | /r/seduction | 26/08/10 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Still afc...still afcSure thing. I'm trying to be helpful, not critical. | /r/seduction | 24/08/10 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Still afc...still afcYou spent a bunch of time with her without attempting to escalate the situation sexually. The general principle is to escalate quickly. That aside, you haven't really given enough details to explain why.. but, basically, if you're behaving like a really nice guy to explain all of her relationship drama with all of the guys she's hooking up with to, then that's how she'll treat you. But, all of that aside, all of this, "I want to date her" stuff. Why? What's so special about her? | /r/seduction | 24/08/10 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Still afc...still afcHe's talking about things like "clicking", chemistry, yadda yadda, and misreading obvious "I'm not interested" signals. He talks about being her boyfriend despite never having had any real sexual relationship with this girl. (Not, oh man, I want to get with that.. boy, I want to be the boyfriend of this girl.. totally out of the blue.) I'm going to have to disagree with both of you. He's in AFC territory and hasn't taken proper stock of the situation, but I think that lookatmeimskinny is closer … | /r/seduction | 24/08/10 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Still afc...still afc"sounds like you are just interested in fuck buddies..and lucky for you, I have an open slot I could pencil you into" Yes... that's completely consistent with a sort of low-key offhandedness that doesn't make you sound like you've been putting a huge amount of effort into getting into her pants. It just screams the sort of in control, non-desperate, has other things going on, has other women interested, "hey, I'm here with you because I enjoy you for qualities other than your vagina" qualities t… | /r/seduction | 24/08/10 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Still afc...still afcI don't think that posting this sort of thing to relationship advice is a good idea at all. I think that you'll get mostly bad advice. Anyway, being one of her "closer friends" when you barely know her means that you're in the friend zone and she wants you to know it. If you're spending time with her, and hope to get her, you're wasting your time. Go do something else. Also, this whole "I want to date her" stuff is very AFC. And figuring out your "chemistry" and stuff. Those things are code-word… | /r/seduction | 24/08/10 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Is it ok to ask...It's fine to do. The point of cold approach pickup techniques is to avoid doing this, but it's a perfectly fine way of doing things. | /r/seduction | 21/08/10 11:29 AM |
| 4 | Should I tone down the cocky funny when I'm with friends?If you always do cocky-funny stuff, you will come across as arrogant. There is a reason that this stuff is for cold approaches. You can only be over-the-top sometimes. When you first meet someone in a high-energy place, like a club, it's fine. It breaks the ice and makes you seem like the sort of person who would just randomly approach someone. If you do stupid stuff like always phrase every invite you give to someone in a way that doesn't really give them a choice, or try to force yourself into… | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Should I tone down the cocky funny when I'm with friends?Yes. It's fucking annoying to behave like that all of the time. It just helps you put on an air of "confidence" around strangers. That's why these techniques are for "cold approach" pickup rather than people that you know. This stuff works in one setting and only in that setting. Also, setting the precedent that you'll basically be hitting on every female that your friends bring around you or will wreck your buddy's game is a sure way to make sure that your friends disenjoy the time that they sp… | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else met Neil Strauss aka Style? What'd you think of him?I thought that he handled that whole thing really well. The idea of pickup artistry is something that's easy to attack, so, audiences basically are prepared to hammer at him. Then the whole "oh, here do this technique on the spot" bit.. of course a woman isn't going to go "oh, yes, this thing that we've already deemed to be trickery worked on me" on camera. He did really well. | /r/seduction | 28/07/10 05:31 AM |
| 2 | How to become the Alpha maleOh yeah, I wish that I could upvote him at least once! Well, I can, and I did! | /r/seduction | 12/07/10 09:57 AM |
| -1 | Has anyone else read *The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists*Oh, good deal. | /r/seduction | 27/06/10 09:13 AM |
| 3 | Most guys at a college with 40% men 60% women ratio aren't getting laid. Reason:Girls are competing for the top alpha males and ignoring the rest.Yes.. this title is idiotic. The article is also not very good. "Women are victimized because they've outperformed men..." come the heck on! Since when is how I conduct my sex life something that I have to do according to someone else's standards? | /r/seduction | 23/06/10 10:20 PM |
| 5 | PUAHate.com: an entire forum full of AFCs and chicks bitching about PUAs. (Possibly NSFW)Or for just giving bad advice. I imagine that most of the men who take /r/relationship_advice will end up in relationships with controlling women who hook up with other guys on the side, and will spend most of their lives justifying this to themselves. | /r/seduction | 23/06/10 12:40 AM |
| 16 | PUAHate.com: an entire forum full of AFCs and chicks bitching about PUAs. (Possibly NSFW)Also known as reddit.com/r/relationship_advice | /r/seduction | 22/06/10 07:05 AM |
| 2 | I have a female who just wants to be friends. What is the best way to establish an ultimatum that it is not what I want?What if she thinks that you're convenient, and talks to girls about how you can never find a date, and wouldn't it be nice if some girl liked you? How you're a great guy, but a geek who's awful with women. | /r/seduction | 08/06/10 12:58 AM |
| 1 | I have a female who just wants to be friends. What is the best way to establish an ultimatum that it is not what I want?She has to behave like it, and not every woman will do well at that. If you have a girl around who CAN'T behave like she's preselected you.. who behaves like you're 2nd place to someone else, THAT guy gets the girl. So, you've got this girl who thinks that you make a great CB, but you're not much of an alpha.. and you're not telling her explicitly to help you sarge... or even if you are, but she just won't play along when the chips are down. | /r/seduction | 08/06/10 12:33 AM |
| 1 | I have a female who just wants to be friends. What is the best way to establish an ultimatum that it is not what I want?A pivot girl needs to act like she's interested in you. I had a girl who wanted to be my pivot girl, but I told her no. She was so into my friend, that having her around was positively toxic to my game. She got pretty upset over this, but the fact is that a girl who is going to behave more interested in other men when out and around you is a lousy pivot. | /r/seduction | 07/06/10 11:56 PM |
| 1 | I have a female who just wants to be friends. What is the best way to establish an ultimatum that it is not what I want?Oh man. One thing that I fail at is posting facebook photos. I NEED to do that more. | /r/seduction | 07/06/10 11:52 PM |
| -3 | What can a girl do about pickup?Pretty much all you need to do is show up. The social impetus is entirely on men to approach you. Most women seem to "drop hints", but you shouldn't be surprised if guys don't pick up on them. If a dude assumes that he's in the friend-zone with you, he's not going to bother. | /r/seduction | 28/04/10 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Why we need game...I need game in order to manage my social/sexual life... not in order to obtain a bitter bunkbed. | /r/seduction | 23/02/10 07:53 AM |
| 1 | getting back to openers, here's one i'm working on.Cool stuff. I've read MM and TG. I have a copy of The Stylelife Challenge, and have been listening to an NLP tape set. | /r/seduction | 28/01/10 10:26 PM |
| 1 | getting back to openers, here's one i'm working on.Got any material to recommend? I HAVEN'T read David D. yet. I need to. | /r/seduction | 28/01/10 10:11 PM |
| 1 | getting back to openers, here's one i'm working on.Right... but STYLE'S system is to break down what you think is wrong with yourself and improve it, while studying while you think is good about yourself to insert into a method such as MM. Whereas MM is "first say this, then say that." | /r/seduction | 28/01/10 09:36 PM |
| 1 | getting back to openers, here's one i'm working on.If you summarize MM, then summarize StyleLife, I think that you'll find that you've got 2 different things.. since MM is "these are the steps to an interaction" and StyleLife is "identify your weak points... how can you improve?" | /r/seduction | 23/01/10 12:47 AM |
| 2 | getting back to openers, here's one i'm working on.Style's whole system is about self-improvement. MM is a method. | /r/seduction | 20/01/10 12:16 AM |
| 1 | getting back to openers, here's one i'm working on.Man, you are absolutely smoking crack if you think that Style is repackaged MM. | /r/seduction | 19/01/10 11:41 PM |
| 8 | Any tips for wholely unattractive blokes?Well, if you're actually British, you could just move to the US and throw around terms like bloke. It totally gets you laid. | /r/seduction | 02/11/09 10:22 PM |
| 4 | "dear reddit, my girlfriend is a whore. should I continue to treat her like a lady?"I think that beyond basic human dignity, you should respect your partner and their decisions. Political correctness aside, if you find your girlfriend dis-respectable in some way, you shouldn't feel obligated to continue the relationship. I'm not sure that I find having a prostitute girlfriend far-flung from having a girlfriend who sleeps around while dating you. Not all people are down with that, and I certainly wouldn't feel any ire for a guy who broke up with his girlfriend because she caries… | /r/MensRights | 18/10/09 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Male victim of domestic violence shares storyYou just keep telling yourself that that would have worked. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/09 10:18 PM |
| 5 | Star reports false charges, guy kills self, Star proves itself to be an absolute piece of shit upon hearing the news of his suicideI thought that that was an article from a tabloid. Even the use of language was poor. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/09 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Man comes in first in Women-only porker tourney.That or perhaps the fact that she's the sort of person who plans their living expenses based on gambling. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/09 01:19 AM |
| 7 | Man comes in first in Women-only porker tourney.Here's an idea. Maybe we can just extend a notion of common human sympathy to everyone who suffers from terrible diseases! | /r/MensRights | 15/09/09 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Feminist Tactics 101: Feign outrage over differing opinions, create straw man, threaten to leave reddit. So long, Saydrah!In fairness, nobody needed to call the woman in question a bitch. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/09 04:32 AM |
| 4 | Does MensRights have any advice for this guy?We could go one further than that, and get the girl to make a confession on the part of the craigslist girl, pretending to be her. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/09 07:10 PM |
| 7 | Does MensRights have any advice for this guy?I think that we should get her contact info and set up a sting operation. Like we meet her in a bar and get some girl to talk rape fantasies with her, and the girl's wearing a wire. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/09 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Man tied down and blindfolded by his mistresses and wife...Is robbed, and has penis super glued to his stomach. WTF?Well, as long as the bail was a nice high $200. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/09 02:59 AM |
| 4 | Susanna Coetzee, was sentenced to 127 days in jail after pleading guilty today to trying to extort $15,000 from a man she met online and falsely reporting that he raped her.It'd be pretty crazy if we had a criminal justice system where the man had to be proven guilty to land in jail. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/09 03:22 AM |
| 1 | The False Rape Society: Natalie Jefferson jailed for twelve months for false rape claimI'm pretty sure that there are already relevant laws for falsely accusing someone of a crime. The real problem is enforcement. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/09 02:30 AM |
| 1 | MP raped woman on couch, court toldSo, the article said that? | /r/MensRights | 06/07/09 11:49 PM |
| 1 | MP raped woman on couch, court toldThe article wasn't about that, was it? | /r/MensRights | 06/07/09 11:49 PM |
| 3 | MP raped woman on couch, court toldI'm not sure what this has to do with men's rights. It's entirely possible that he raped her. The men's rights violation would come in when it turns out that it was all a lie, or something like that... we don't know yet what will happen in this case, and it may turn out that he's a rapist. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/09 04:56 AM |
| 3 | Stupid blonde throws her life away for a few thousand dollars. (This is just horrible)Ditto. Nothing to do with MR, but I'd rather know what kind of a woman I'd married and go about rectifying the matter than not know. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/09 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are miserable women - they want to dominate men, and then when they succeed at that, they hate the men they dominate.Hey, I think that all sorts of things are manly... don't fall to pieces on me and start crying again just because I have a hobby that you don't. I'm sure that plenty of girls think that whatever knitting and crocheting you're up to are quite manly. Yes they do! | /r/MensRights | 01/06/09 05:46 PM |
| 8 | Feminists are miserable women - they want to dominate men, and then when they succeed at that, they hate the men they dominate.I'm all for boys having positive male role-models and being raised to be unashamed of their masculinity... but what the heck was that? I've worn socks with sandals before, learned French in school... and wrestle, and backpack, and lift, and shoot guns, and all of that. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/09 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Apparently men are messing with the next stage of human evolution: Indigo Children. "Men often cannot understand the spiritual aspect of this issue and want to break the 'spirit' of the child, so they will behave according to 'norms'."On the mensrights subreddit? Really? | /r/MensRights | 31/05/09 07:18 AM |
| 12 | If the genders were reversed, this would be considered self defense and everyone would be talking about the poor girl that had to kill to escape from her abusive husband.Women shouldn't get away with it either. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/09 10:41 PM |
| 15 | "How can she slap me‽" Violence breaks out on set of Indian game showWhy do you think that he wouldn't hit back if a man hit him? That doesn't make much sense. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/09 10:28 PM |
| 6 | Jail for young mother who cried rape to cover up her secret one-night standYou didn't read the article. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/08 01:31 AM |
| 5 | disgusting. If you believe Psychology Today, Men's sole motivation is sex.I wouldn't call it the most logical area of psychology, but firefly is right. This is hardly a men's rights issue. Evolutionary psych gives us the dads and cads hypothesis, and says that women use sex as a bargaining chip for protection from loser males that they'll cuckold with alphas that they want to mate with so that they can carry their children. | /r/MensRights | 08/12/08 02:28 AM |
| 5 | Woman convicted of "having sex" with a 5 year old.Not helpful. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/08 07:09 PM |
| 2 | After Jennifer Ratti was jailed for tring to kill her husband, she lined up a hit man from jail.Aside from the sentencing seeming kind of light, I'm not sure how this relates to men's rights. To be a men's rights issue, we'd have to see that women in this situation receive unusually light treatment. I mean, she's in jail, what more do we want here? | /r/MensRights | 14/09/08 01:23 AM |
| 2 | The loss of women and children is tragic. Men don't merit a mention.The idea was that the men were somehow going to survive anyway. Like, the boat would go down, and the men would be able to swim to the rafts after they'd been dropped. Since they were on the open ocean, the assumption was that they were going to sit in the rafts floating around until help found them, anyway. Since the entire shipping economy was based on sea-faring vessels, this wasn't a terribly outrageous proposition, given that they would be following the same routes, and that the routes were… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/08 08:45 PM |
| 7 | The loss of women and children is tragic. Men don't merit a mention.That's not it at all. The idea was that the men were better able to fend for themselves in the event of an emergency and that the women and children needed to be cared for. I'm not saying that this is a very equal idea, but it certainly comes from an era when women were not considered able to do this. Children obviously can't. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/08 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Calling all femininininists! Sign on to Amazon and trash a book you haven't read!I don't think that preventing redditors from making immature assholes of themselves is a con ;-) | /r/MensRights | 27/07/08 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Calling all femininininists! Sign on to Amazon and trash a book you haven't read!Maybe, but this is exactly what redditors were doing with Dianetics, and they were complaining when Amazon removed their reviews. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/08 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Sexism, Strength and Dominance: Masculinity in Disney FilmsEh, I didn't think it was all that great. First, the role of men in Disneys' films seems to be more reflective of culture than the other way around. Second, the top billing is almost always the heroine. Belle in beauty and the beast, Snow White, yadda yadda, the male protagonists are hardly memorable for the most part. Third, many of the examples are poorly chosen and make it seem as though he's reaching for his topic. Gaston was the antagonist in Beauty and the Beast, though it is true that the… | /r/MensRights | 20/07/08 07:05 PM |
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