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Question For WomenNittyGrittyDiscutant/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:47 PM
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of course so where do these numbers come from
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:02 PM
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i would argue that cause of the need of keepin it professional there would be less problems then in ususal out-of-work relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:00 PM
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numbers coming from 38M virgin yep, i'll take it blindfolded
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:36 PM
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if both r single, what's the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:33 PM
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reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:32 PM
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I believe women (on average that is) are turned off by smart, intellectual, nerdy men. i think it goes both ways it's harder to please someone intellectual/smart/nerdy then someone who is not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:19 PM
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if u were lookin for a partner u r livin in a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:34 PM
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u can make anyone like u, literally, aside from some abnormal people, if u know the person well the problem is with knowing other person well enough, cause that's when theory meets practice
/r/TheRedPill18/09/23 09:33 PM
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i got u but if u knew everything before where's the adventure and the life essence?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:06 PM
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i would start here and slide into dms of people u find interesting i mean u need an open mind, ekhm, vagina for current standards
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:15 PM
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i'm not sure how it spiralled down from porn to sexual slaves and having unwanted children
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:56 AM
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dunno bout u but online discussions opened for me completely different world of deep connections of course everything needs to lead to irl for anything to continue, but the amount of real friends to which i could deeply connect and which i met online is greater then those from irl so if we r talkin strictly bout romantic side, online beat irl in my case in case of easiness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:48 PM
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it's bout emotions, obviously, i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:10 PM
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gatherin experience i've seen few relationships with "this one person" who failed miserably cause of lack of previous experience
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:19 AM
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i tried this and lack of lust kinda ruined it big time in terms of man-woman relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:59 PM
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i think of jealousy, resentment, lot of thinking what-if which, as i see it, is more common the less experience someone has
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:53 PM
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imo similar level of experience helps a lot to the point it can be a huge problem if it isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:12 PM
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oh, gtfo, ur brain has been trained like every other monkey on this planet in medieval times it didn't matter, was perceived differently, obv u don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:38 PM
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one of working theories is this comes from older people tryin to influence, cause usually younger people r more attractive and by negating this they increase their dating pool dunno where this is comin from
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:01 PM
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i think it's bout something different, when u r "terrible" guy who don't give a fuck u stand up among the ones who r the majority - nice guys u r coming out as an exotic, new, "mysterious", in essence triggering on lowest human instincts, curiosity, anxiety u cause emotions, emotions cause forming memories, causing long term "feelings" cause u r generally being seen as someone positive, u want to be with her, even anxiety feelings r somehow fuckeduply bein associated with good that's my amateuri…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:23 PM
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well, yeah, for a relationship, however this defies all seduction thing
/r/seduction01/09/23 05:19 PM
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oh, i haven't noticed it's for bluepillers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:11 PM
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yep, no, nah...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:29 AM
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i think maslow pyramid is correct in most cases, no surprises here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:27 PM
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i've been selected in worlwide elections
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:09 PM
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speaking for men, sex is a need, this is where much difference come from
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:11 PM
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i can assure u it's not the keyword used by u urself being "secretly"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:11 PM
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Everyone secretly knows what they want but they dont want to have to say it out loud for you to act on it. well, this is prolly true for older people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:02 PM
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well yeah, though the funny thing is that people usually don't know answer to this question also u r implying now that everything is on the shoulders of one person only
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:51 PM
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u don't care for reasonin cause it works but if u don't know the reasoning behind this u won't be able to fix it when it stops workin
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:31 PM
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so... if this works then it works, what if this stops working? u gonna scratch ur head and leave, right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:21 PM
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u need to hire social media manager
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:37 PM
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u mean like 70 and 75?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:11 PM
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hookin up is bout looks and vibes, only
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:45 PM
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i mean, i won't tell u guys, i mean losers, i told u so though, i should
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:16 PM
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Why would a man marry young if his wife will eventually stop lusting after him? You get the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:08 PM
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u r not wrong, but u r not right either
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:52 AM
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i remember when i won around $10 in poker tournament and next day went out, i tell u man, chicks were literally all over me, it's almost like they smelled my changed pheromones seriously, though, such resources would allow dude to even enlarge his height, not mentioning other things this millionaire lack on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:35 PM
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many men think that their feelings, apart from red ones, r not good enough justification for action we were trained to be that way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:44 PM
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i have been inspired by pill in the beginning and never had problems connecting with girls after giving it deep thought, this includes sexually that doesn't mean, though, that i could seduce every girl i wanted never had been "bombarded" by horny girls, also, got a lot of attention, though, after putting in some effort
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:12 PM
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generally agree, it assumes men being as much picky as women in choosing right relations because bp accept "anyone" they actually subconciously lower the value of their partners subconciously because some people will appreciate work being put in creating working relationship, but that's not the story for the mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:24 AM
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u completely missed the point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:22 AM
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sometimes i'm not sure whether to comment or just leave it as it is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:23 AM
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gees fuckin christ or maybe we allow men to have sex with machines, they don't need women for anything else after all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:04 PM
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Because pornography ruins lives? dunno where does this come from
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:01 PM
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trafficking is a huge problem, of course, however one can't underestimate the number of women who willingly want to work in industry after all, this kind of profession allows for very low entry barrier and quite good, in comparison to required skillset, pay there were some high value girls out there who worked for few years, made some good money and retired
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:56 PM
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given the demand i see around, i think it is only matter of time when some kind of machines will be available
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:51 PM
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wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:48 PM
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sounds bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:39 PM
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If chad had to become a chad, especially lookswise, he’s probably just sad he’s back not surprised about anything though. chad working his ass... again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:03 PM
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agree, feels off to me not even mentioning the fact that i would be deep thinking bout how our future sexual life would look like if she can withhold for so long
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:19 PM
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well, for some for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:46 AM
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k, let's start with the fact that us dream is not a thing anymore...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:45 AM
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So, you believe the purpose of becoming a born again virgin is to regain value as a ltr prospect? no, i dunno it's just one of the hypothesis, seems valid from their pov
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:13 AM
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Some of us have seen plenty of vaginas. and every of us has been inside at least one already
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:37 AM
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same with man, u never know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:33 AM
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isn't this bout "value" for ltr as perceived by society standards? btw, hymen can be "restored" with operation, i dunno how valid that is, but i heard bout places advertising services like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:27 AM
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i've heard bout this appealing theory
/r/seduction02/08/23 03:43 PM
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there r periods in every human life when nothing works
/r/seduction02/08/23 12:47 AM
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wow, she looked for criminal past
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:44 PM
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would i be aware and prepared or just get there by accident?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:32 AM
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ghostbusters taught as well that we should never cross the streams
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:39 PM
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i'll tell u my interpretation of this i do me, meaning living or trying to live a live i want this means that i should be able to feel emotionally complete not having any partner in other way, if partner would be needed, it would usually mean unhealthy, dependent-like relationship that doesn't mean, though, neglecting people around me, quite contrary if one searches for love it means anyway that one has to go through friendship phase and i can try to find friends everywhere so, according to u i …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:09 PM
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creepy can be everything u don't want i can easily imagine "Guys asking for a hug & grabbing my ass." being non creepy for some
/r/TheRedPill19/07/23 06:46 PM
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i think secretly all women are red pillers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:30 PM
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shouldn't this be titled ode to... aka let's advertise myself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:19 AM
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it's nice it's workin for u
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:53 PM
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how long r u together
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:54 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:35 PM
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you, sir, r genius /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:33 PM
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i mean, if u focus on going closer to nature marriage/long term relationship is an artificial product for such things to happily exist we would need solid science behind such things and we r not there yet today i read a comment from a woman bout not being able to control her hornyness, as in she loves her bf, but he doesn't turn her on anymore and she doesn't know what to do what options do couples have being in such situation after, let's say 20 years of marriage? another compromise for misery …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:06 AM
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u say lying i say someone goin long way for a compromise aka putting a lot into non-existent-yet relationship lol i think it depends on what advantages can the relationship offer u, it's always some trade off and balancing between goodies and baddies being alone doesn't always mean being miserable, if that's a case that usually mean it's better to either work on urself or lie and get this desired relationship (which won't fix the core case anyway) and the red flags r in many cases subjective, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:01 AM
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it's prolly great feeling when ur learning experiences regarding the topic r all in public
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:43 PM
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i think any job with purpose giving some sort of finanacial independence would do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:06 PM
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heavily biased post, all of these should be addressed to people in general, not one gender only
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:52 PM
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"romantic" sex>sex>no sex romantic sex can also involve primal fucking hey, we r also the people, u know
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:43 PM
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r/menandfemales and r/womenandmales waaat
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:41 PM
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if u know what u r dealing with and how to deal with it such people can be real fun adventures, unexpected plot twists unfortunately they can add a lot to ur plate when life isn't going ur way
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:18 AM
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y not both
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:46 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:22 AM
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yay, kudos
/r/seduction27/06/23 01:57 PM
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candy is this goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:08 PM
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it's harder to get attraction when there is no mystery or taking care of physicality that's the reason why so many ltrs end up as sexless friendships, according to studies i think what u address is a thing for many men who didn't think it through for most men relationship is a another job, so they r looking for stability, because why would anyone unnecessary like to add more to own plate, being with more open girl means more work for keeping her around and constantly fighting with/being aware of…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:18 PM
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i'm interested in how someone can turn off their basic survival instincts to do such thing kinda on the edge of mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:59 AM
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the more independent the person is the less likely wants to settle, imo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:54 AM
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modern relationship is more of being equal then reversing roles, imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:38 AM
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how dare u, they provide the best experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:25 PM
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yeah, women treating men as providers of resources can be really picky just browse comments for fucked up behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:44 PM
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women r emotional and understanding creatures, such conclusions seems to be made up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:43 PM
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perfectionist have this, one can look at someone and spotting a little stain can ruin whole dating experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:42 PM
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well, for starters one can be alone being in the relationship, so yeah i think that being alone can be awesome when one is capable of fulfilling own emotional needs because good relationship is bout being good team, kinda complementing and supporting each other, not being dependend, however, i understand what u r saying though, this is common and usually pressured by society for man become a captain of the ship, then it's more of a duty then something which u can get pleasure from we r social cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:08 AM
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and then there'll appear small hippie colonies when free people will be cultivating free natural procreation fighting with evil system
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:00 PM
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i wonder who would benefit from spreading such propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:30 PM
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maybe she hungs out with hookers? did she pay for them? i mean it's hard to believe this story
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:23 AM
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i dunno where u live but i'm jealous rn
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:42 PM
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i think this is somehow related to women (and many nice men) actually trying to avoid conflicts everything was in order, planned and then boom we have a turn from expectations which needs to be managed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:40 PM
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here i should paraquote how PPD woman explicitly told that when she's with friends chatting in cafe men shouldn't interfere in any way i think we all agree how silly that sounds in big picture
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:36 PM
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in the scene 4, after u read the line from the script i provided i'll go for the kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:32 PM
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or they would start hiding this better
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:56 PM
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yeah, and LTR is bout stability
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:33 PM
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why high value man would pay attentions to such things? these things r normal, smells bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:08 PM
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also, u can both reach outside ur comfort zones and try to understand if such behaviour isn't "objectively bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:11 PM
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r u implying that people can be hypocrites and/or have double standards? ridicoulus!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:58 PM
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Women don't need to seduce men whether they're a Chad or otherwise, they just need to say yes to the ones approaching them. Its a very different thing this belief is so fucked up i don't even know where to start answering u r probably surrounded by lowlife
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:24 PM
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dunno bout women, but when i check girls outside i compare them to the standards i know, including internet so it's not like live is different
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:12 AM
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i think below average man is able to get a countless 1-3/10 women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:44 AM
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i think u r wrong believing that below average man wouldn't be able to score hundreds of women being 1-3/10
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:43 AM
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this is probably for longer discussion in another topic, but if she changed so much isn't she another person then the one he fell for
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:58 AM
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i think we would be a good fit i have a mature mind in boys body
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:33 AM
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most subs here are examples of third spaces, however, in spite of being able to initiate discussions on various topics it's harder to get responses from/reach single individuals most people initiating such conv with me are not into casual talk and do this to get something, when i initiate things there is hardly energy level matched
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:13 PM
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come on, u can't talk for every men out there, i, for example, want a virgin with at least 10 years of experience as a sex worker
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:50 PM
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nicely put, however i would disagree on the part that man doesn't take advantage from having mistress, obviously he does and without his choice to do so either wife or mistress wouldn't lose or gain anything from situation also, given the modern dating situation, one can be man who doesn't follow the herd and have less sex access or can fake it to adapt to have a chance with dumb competitors because, as it seems, women tend to choose someone who has "natural" soft spot for her, and it doesn't ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:58 PM
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and then what? he took initiative?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:03 PM
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woohoo, happy for u
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:03 PM
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exactly, someone not requiring you to give that much love which is an argument for my statement
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:33 PM
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so...instead of giving love to children who require shit ton of work you swapped for a someone who understands you better, doesn't require shit ton of work and can give back someone like an adult child who understood what parents made for them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:30 PM
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if i were to simplify my thinking ton shit of work for children for nothing for a long time usually is connected with lots of love, kinda unconditional? vs being with someone equal, independent and not requiring much work making it easy to give love in exchange it's easy to give love or whatever we call it back when someone first offers you a lot of it, and that seems to be the case for modern dating, men doing most if not all the work so yeah, i think second option is for someone who is not tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:16 PM
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It means that we understand the sheer amount of responsibility, commitment, care, discipline, and yes...love for a child specifically...that goes into the successful raising of one's offspring. It is nearly 2 decades of your life spent making sure the mental, physical, and emotional health and well-being of someone who is entirely dependent on you is taken into account. This is, to put it lightly, a Metric Fuck Ton of work. Childfree men and women are well aware of this, and we've made the consc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:05 PM
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Why anybody would want children? Probably not for the love received, because what exactly can you expect from (especially) little children, but for the love given, to have someone to take care for, to have someone to love, to be a protector maybe? If someone doesn't want children doesn't that mean that she's not that much into giving love, which would make it (a bit) contradictory to OP statement about contributing to relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:09 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:00 PM
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so... u were ugly and then become prettier? and that's it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:58 PM
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When she doesn't want child, yet contributes in such way, this is kinda strange. Maybe she treats you as a child instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:38 PM
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Dunno why. I suppose it has been promoted by many failure stories. People usually don't post/talk so much about their successes as about failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:13 AM
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reminder for the slower ones: Do you have any success stories when you were in friendzone and you were able to level up? What did you do? How did it end up? now we look at the flair thing "Question for Women" this means that this topic is for women describing their success stories regarding mentioned subject if we are clear on that i can assure you you are wrong with your beliefs, friendzone is real for incels
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:10 AM
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oh, i see not bad "does this snake meows?" kinda thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:06 AM
1

Thank you for your effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:14 AM
0

I'll spell it out for you very clearly then. You shouldn't post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:07 AM
1

Do you have any success stories when you were in friendzone and you were able to level up? What did you do? How did it end up?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:55 PM
1

Well, I can assure you friendzone is myth invented by incels. I'm looking for success stories here from your side. Thank you for participation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:53 PM
1

Thank you for success story I asked for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:49 PM
3

facepalm ok, tell me your story what do u believe in this will be fun, right
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:48 PM
3

geesis fucking christ, when tf will you, people, learn how to read
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:47 PM
2

u mean bad sex? and that was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:45 PM
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What? Lol. I'm a male. I'm interested how it looks from your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:45 PM
2

Yes, this. Well, I was looking for success stories, lol. Appreciated anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:44 PM
1

"She's aroused when he's doing house chores with rolled sleeves."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:00 PM
-1

nicely summarized what you did here
/r/TheRedPill16/03/23 09:11 PM
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empty rhetorics, reverting situation, yeah, you surely have a graal in ur sleeve gtfo
/r/TheRedPill16/03/23 09:00 PM
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from male perspective: i don't always show or go ahead with everything, even when i'm very interested i don't see a reason why women who r usually in heavy emotional training starting with their birth wouldn't do the same having that said when she's not showing all that "into u" thing usually means a miss, actually the reason y so many people on both genders confuse being kind with flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:56 PM
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there r people who created their frame (concept from trp) by waking up everyday at the same hour
/r/TheRedPill16/03/23 07:22 PM
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i'm usually getting into all "new" and "refreshing" ideas, haven't seen breakthrough yet it's always some assumptions bout cause and effect which repeat known commons in various forms and hit wall when confrontend with specific people in specific situations having various feedbacks to similar stimulus basics yet, however we r all more then sum of parts
/r/TheRedPill16/03/23 07:09 PM
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sounds bit a like bitter failed sales pitch the thing with ltr is that without structuring how u can actually do it u can land in marriage because u felt so, which seems like very beta imo tpr got many things wrong however it's better then not having any methodology at all and ending raising kids with first lady who decided to open her legs for u
/r/TheRedPill16/03/23 05:33 PM
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such propaganda is at the same level as dumb guys validating pretty dumb chicks for their beauty in high school
/r/TheRedPill16/03/23 01:13 AM
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Everyone, including attractive people, appreciates being complimented. i understand what u mean, but the truth is some compliments r worthless for people who hear the same thing over and over again throughout the day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:36 PM
1

i gotcha u however sometimes look is all u have, for example in very specific environments, like OF how would u approach such case
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:16 PM
1

did the boys were finding u attractive back then, i mean much less attraction then more feminine girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:53 PM
2

not always maybe someone was a true friend, but had some hopes and continuing friendship in such state wouldn't be comfortable, cutting ties helps
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:23 PM
2

from what i see this is very typical social life slowly degrades after getting into relation, especially parts connected with oposite genders
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:17 PM
1

my thoughts exactly, something is off
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:05 PM
2

https://giphy.com/gifs/jim-carrey-dumb-and-dumber-so-youre-telling-me-theres-a-chance-ToMjGpKniGqRNLGBrhu
/r/TheRedPill14/03/23 06:22 PM
1

what i've noticed social proof plays a large role even fake one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:16 PM
1

bs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:40 PM
2

Most people love pets, children and cuties. Because they seem more vulnerable then they.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:16 PM
1

Surprise surprise. Appreciate acknowledging, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:08 PM
2

Yeah. So revealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:02 PM
1

I wrote: You just happen to be a part family and get love back? You replied: Yeah, that's how it works on the most basic level, and people who are empathetic and value others give freely. and then: The only person who mentioned unconditional love is you. In conclusion I agree that: we probably aren’t going to find common ground
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:36 PM
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And how do you think this works, this "uncoditional love"? Instincts? A god maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:09 PM
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Dunno. You think it works without providing value? You just happen to be a part family and get love back? Silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:02 PM
5

If you think about it for a moment every relationship is based on providing some values to the other party. There is no way around this. TRP tries to structure this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:45 PM
2

Fine, don't change your beliefs about the world, let the world come to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:41 PM
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...what do you mean "programmed"? Biological instintcs. I already gave an extremely detailed explanation about this directly above. But yes, I'm the oldest of 7 siblings, started babysitting other children for money by the time I was 13, and was volunteered by my parents to help teach Sunday school as a teen. I was constantly around children my entire childhood and teenage years. Oh, ok, seems like huge experience. It triggered in me that childcare is fucking physically exhausting, mentally taxi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:28 PM
1

Was it like sudden decision, was it always like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:09 PM
2

It's interesting, I thought women are kinda programmed into this. Were you attending many situation with kids involved? Nothing triggered, like never?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:08 PM
1

I don't see a reason why someone would want to lower their bar after setting some high bar for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:33 AM
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People are also not very empathic to younger men, and telling them to "grow a pair" or "deal with it" for pointing out issues they have Yeah, but isn't it better to hear something like this from strangers then from wife after x years of marriage who suddenly decided to open her marriage (seen today on reddit)? Empathy doesn't build character and we don't seem to be passed over the cave people phase to live in peaceful society filled with meditation and joy. Empathy? Yes, but after we grow a pair…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:44 PM
1

Smells like industrial bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:15 PM
1

It's not like something new, right? Pretty girls being reassured by most guys who actually find value only in being pretty. That doesn't mean you can't find bright girls, enjoy their company or intimacy in various forms. You just need to treat this as a journey without any goals in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:11 PM
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LOL, you should check r/FemaleDatingStrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:16 PM
2

Yeah, this, especially if he's an average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 08:39 AM
1

Yeah, now imagine coming forward with such info.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 08:39 AM
1

I'm saying this is how it's being presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:17 AM
1

That's not what I wrote about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:15 PM
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Well, lot of those things one needs to do anyway. But. It's funny how it's presented, because suddenly to get an equal partner, and I'm not even mentioning sex one needs to perform series of duties. A second job, one would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:48 PM
1

It's dumb religious thing thinking that marriage can help in making woman faihtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:41 PM
1

Accurate and beautiful oversimplication.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:36 PM
2

Isn't this like the more friendship the less sexual attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:54 PM
1

It's only matter of fullfiling needs of other person. If you know exactly what does other person need you can crack the code whoever you are and whatever you look alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:33 PM
0

My take on this. Women are looking for deeper motives, usually and need different motivation for forming relationship. Men can fake whole relationship, including marriage, only for sex. They just lack motivation, they usually need to invest more time into knowing person because biologically relationship for them is a huge investment, having babies means raising them, they can't just spread the semen and disappear. And I think even if rationally looking only for sex doesn't carry such risks nowad…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:32 PM
1

I kinda agree, but this is a bit of a closed loop. An example would be having a frame of acting in some manner which is being found as lowering respect. So you have a frame and DGAF about doing some things which makes you lose your respect mana in eyes of bystanders. Then, when you want to be respected you act like they want, not you, being a silly puppy just to get some fake respect points. This example shows that things like these can stand in contradiction. What I'm trying to say is all peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:23 AM
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The problem with TRP is most come here for ready mutliple steps receipes, when TRP should be about improving yourself to the level when you are confident being on your own with your choices and being able to take responsibility for your actions. Achieving nirvana state when you don't need anyone else and only then looking for someone who can complete you in this or other way.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/23 09:49 AM
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Check for my answer in nicely portrayed https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kids\_(film)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:13 PM
1

I understand your point of view, but going to escort doesn't mean she won't find you attractive. Not only uglies use professional services.
/r/AllPillDebate20/02/23 07:59 PM
1

Agree, of course there are some human beings which makes sex appear more pleasent because of attached feelings, but physiology doesn't change.
/r/AllPillDebate20/02/23 07:57 PM
1

Then two incels raise another incel, it's hard to get out of stereotypes forced by closest environment. Is it good or bad?
/r/AllPillDebate20/02/23 07:52 PM
1

Shocking. What has happened to us?
/r/AllPillDebate20/02/23 07:51 PM
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There are also woman without such problems, who, because of their profession are surrounded by many "supportive" handsome men on daily basis, leading to more opportunities for a casual sex. Also many girls who happen to become sex workers and don't have mental issues. Actually, from my experience, girls who don't have high n body count seem to have more mental problems, like anxiety, or, for example, being generally shy leading to missed opportunities leading to some frustration. Of course I als…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:31 PM
1

Check this out, I agree. Overall it seems people with high n count are happier and they don't seem to care that much leading to emotionally more stable relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:17 PM
1

This is kinda dumb, why not use the money to change personality? Kind of fishing rod vs fish type situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:21 PM
0

You are leaving femi... (cough cough) I mean strong, independent women from the equation. Maybe because they aren't too many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:49 PM
1

One can always do UAPGFT (Ugly And Poor Girlfriend Test, my invention, I think I've described it somewhere here earlier). Why physical intimacy feels so good? Why it's good enough to just have some sex without telling a word? Why so many people end up in lustful marriages which end up in heavy divorces when the lust went out? Also, only sex can provide for long term family building, you can't create natural family with only personality match, even adopted children needed someone to create them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:31 PM
1

Yes, lmfao
/r/ExRedPill19/02/23 01:21 AM
1

I've noticed something which you maybe didn't, so I replied.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 12:57 PM
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You sense wrong. Ok. about someone you, again, do not know. I'm not sure why this is so important. Not that it matters, it's just strange where this is going. ​ It’s a dumb point that you have no reason to make except propping you this narrative that people with high body counts are automatically cheaters, again, about someone you don’t know and will never meet. I've never made such statement, dunno where did you take it from. I think you are mistaking me with the previous interlocutor
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 11:59 AM
1

I sense you feel attacked. Weird.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 11:32 AM
1

My ex with a body count in the triple digits was very faithful and loyal through and through. Well, you can't possibly know that.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 11:17 AM
1

Strange that women are underrepresented almost everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:08 AM
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Nicely written, however, I think you guys are overstating girls abilities to sniff out things.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/23 10:36 AM
2

I don't believe it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:42 PM
1

You can create attraction after being in "friendzone". This could require custom solution, sometimes a lot of money and of course deep knowledge of the person, or, sometimes, just a sex happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:41 PM
1

Truth is noone really knows definitive answer. In long term it's about long term, meaning feelings being built over years. In hookups it's about emotions appearing in moments. Feelings are a consequence of constant series of similar emotions, kind of training, shaping the brain. But this is very general answer, because various people have various feedback/emotions to various stimuli. There are some shared, common for all people, things, however in the end it's always about DIY custom solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:00 PM
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This is so d**b that I'm not even sure where should I start correcting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:21 PM
1

You probably don't have any of such problems, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:21 AM
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People don't know what they're doing. They don't know who to trust. And no ones intentions are obvious. Modern dating lacks structure. And integrity. Come on, dinosaurs, can't you adapt?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:07 AM
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"Well, mr officer and then he misinterpreted my kindness for flirting"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:59 AM
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I don't have so much experience, but I'm leaning into this. And if we are talking about hot ones, if she knows you and likes you you'll know, if she doesn't, spontaneous trials of initiating contact with a stranger are usually doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:56 AM
1

It allows you to properly differentiate between love and lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:48 AM
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It's all about men getting confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:47 PM
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When you have character and you've built yourself to be a person that wins the largest number of games across the largest span of time, you're making yourself a person that is always invited to come play You clearly haven't played poker yet. Anyway, nicely put motivational post, similar to what I wrote here few days ago, looks like we understand concepts in similar manner.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/23 09:07 PM
1

If we are speaking solely in SMV context one would need to go to data, most of these available suggests perceived physical attractiveness and confidence are the main keys. So, the role models (once again, in this context) would be the ones who are able to show these and teach about their path honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:55 PM
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I think you should treat TRP as a intro. You fake it till you make it. You know what works, how to behave, it's just not natural for you. What should be natural for you is constant kaizen, improving yourself and putting yourself first, promoting healthy egoism. Dates, woman are mere side effect of you working on yourself and feeling natural need to do so. Why do you work on yourself? To become more confident. To be able to stand to your opinion. To back out when you are wrong. To understand the …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 06:20 PM
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Think about this. Most of these super sexy looking models on IG and similar don't look like this all the time. You wouldn't recognize or noticed most of them, passing by on street. How's that different. They do their part, you do yours. To have a meeting of wet pussy with responsive cock. Guilty lies in how modern minds have been trained to perceive beauty and to what respond. When you are in long relationship you probably retrain yourself somehow to react to other things. But that's different s…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 05:55 PM
2

Dealbreaker is obviously when woman is a dick. Not even mentioning the ones which surprisingly actually appear to be having one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:52 PM
1

Yes, because no man will do anything if sex is not involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:04 AM
1

You are on one side of spectrum here. You should talk to prostitutes to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:22 AM
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I have to stand by author here. I think you are expressing your emotional response, not providing any arguments. This shit works. The thing is it works for getting laid, not finding a supportive partner for lifetime. Though it does work in long time relationships in manipulating emotions, and, funny to say, I've seen more girls then men doing this on constant basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:09 AM
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I agree this works, nicely systematised, kudos, there is a reason it resembles so much sales manual. My 2 cents: it's great manual for getting laid, not finding equal partner, meaning you need to do most of the job in such relationships, you are creating someone dependent on you, getting something in return for providing dopamine shots. Also, I wouldn't put such emphasis on height. Yes, it plays role, just like more handomse men gets easier then less handsome men, but shortness is a thing which …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:03 AM
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Because of comments/opinions expressed below dating and relationships are harder then they should be. If most men doesn't want single mom, which is understandable, btw, "caught and married" woman won't be willing so easily to leave her guy behind in pursuit of better choice, meaning endgame for some potential relationships which could be better suited. All for the sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:26 PM
0

Nurse at day, slut at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:18 PM
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It depends what levels are you comparing. I'm leaning into opinion that attractive men and women have similar "abundance", same goes for the ones being on the other side of spectrum, both geneders.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:43 AM
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Interesting. As always it's about sample group size. I'd like to see same post written from woman perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:39 AM
1

It's not about being confident, IMO, more of a badass wants sex, gets sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:25 AM
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