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| -36 | My LTR stopped doing nice things to me in public. How can I address this?All of this will foster a baseline level of DREAD. This is not to fix her or your relationship, it's to fix you. She will come around eventually, if not, who cares. Next. Who said I was the problem lol? | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 09:27 AM |
| 1 | My boss insulted me after I did something he didn't like... how to proceed?And yet... for some weird reason... that shit never happens ;) | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:55 PM |
| 1 | My boss insulted me after I did something he didn't like... how to proceed?I dont get ride on my ass, I tell the other person to go fuck themselves | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:38 PM |
| 1 | My boss insulted me after I did something he didn't like... how to proceed?Look, it wasnt the fact he criticized me. It was the fact he said “I would insult you if she wasnt in the room”, said right in front of her, which I took badly. I can take criticism, but not this. See my point? He also said it with the door open, and my other coworkers and girlfriend in the next room... Did I really exagerate? | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:37 PM |
| 0 | My boss insulted me after I did something he didn't like... how to proceed?Difference of opinion. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:31 PM |
| 0 | My boss insulted me after I did something he didn't like... how to proceed?Yes, insult you in front of your coworker = criticism :) | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:27 PM |
| -1 | My boss insulted me after I did something he didn't like... how to proceed?Zoom classes? LMAO | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:10 PM |
| 0 | My boss insulted me after I did something he didn't like... how to proceed?Sure, then go get insulted and dont respond, just to show how adult you are | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:09 PM |
| -1 | My boss insulted me after I did something he didn't like... how to proceed?Look, I get it, but the thing is, I can admit to my share of reaponsibility and if I fuck up, no big deal, I shrug it off and try to do better next time. This asshole knows I dont give a shit about his professional opinions so he insulted me to make himself bigger. Fuck him | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:09 PM |
| -1 | My boss insulted me after I did something he didn't like... how to proceed?Yes, I did my job. And if he had done it, I would have said the same shit back. You know I have recordings of hin trying to fuck his employee? That’s gonna be one nasty divorce | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:08 PM |
| 0 | My boss insulted me after I did something he didn't like... how to proceed?You seem to believe that not doing your job gives your employer the right to treat you like shit. What are u, 2? If he has a problem he can fire me or shit the fuck up instead of venting like a 2 years old how much he would like to insult me but he cant... jesus | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 05:42 PM |
| -1 | My boss insulted me after I did something he didn't like... how to proceed?What do u mean by that? | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 05:39 PM |
| 1 | My boss insulted me after I did something he didn't like... how to proceed?I went back in and told him that next time he needs to vent against me, he do it in private to my face and not in front of other people. I take reaponsibility for my actions but I wont stand for this. See? Easy. No need to keep quite and justify it as “being man” more like being a pussy I’d say... | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 05:38 PM |
| 0 | My boss insulted me after I did something he didn't like... how to proceed?He wasnt. I do what I get paid for, and dont get walked all over | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 05:36 PM |
| 0 | My boss insulted me after I did something he didn't like... how to proceed?“I’m not insulting you cause she’s in the room”. Yeah, please teach me more about being a leader and not shitting on your employees. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 05:34 PM |
| 0 | My boss insulted me after I did something he didn't like... how to proceed?I do my job well, he could have just said to put in the hs and shut up | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 05:00 PM |
| 1 | My boss insulted me after I did something he didn't like... how to proceed?I went back in and told him never to insult me in front of my coworkers again, and that if he had anything like that to say to me, next time he comes to me and do it privately... He looked puzzled, but I dont give a fuck, he can fire me if he wants to and I get unemployment. edit: the woman he wants to fuck in the office has the same seniority I do and he told her only to fill the hs, nothing more. Double standard? I dont give a rats ass, you dont insult me and expect me not to talk back to you | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 04:58 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend says she doesn't like being "submissive" when teasing her about stuff I want to do to her, but then, on the bed, she lets me do EVERYTHING. Is this normal?(Brief review: LMR - Last Minute Resistance - is so you don't think she's a slut. ASD is so she doesn't think she's a slut.) Thanks for this :) you mean a ball gag? Yes! If she is being "forced" do do nasty stuff int he bedroom, it's because YOU are making her (you BAD MAN, you!), not because she LOVES it and gobbles it up with a spoon. That's why it's weird, I've been trying and trying to make everything comfortable and clear cut that she's safe with me and can let go like a wild hyena, but she… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 05:18 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend says she doesn't like being "submissive" when teasing her about stuff I want to do to her, but then, on the bed, she lets me do EVERYTHING. Is this normal?Well, she does like when I call her "little girl" or similar stuff. What amazed me is the blowjobs: sure, we haven't been together all that long, but she actively TRIES blow me and gets me to cum in her mouth. There's no such a thing as "convince" her, it's all natural: she knows my dick goes in her mouth when I cum, and she's always down for it. She doesn't swallow though, but hey, if she doesn't like the taste, she doesn't like the taste | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 05:09 PM |
| 2 | My parents keep shitting on me when my gf is around and it's starting to piss me off... how do I handle this?not really, it's my family, I have a good relationship with this except for this kind of shit. And it's not like I haven't set boundaries with them, but sometimes they pull shit like this and it pisses off badly. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 10:08 AM |
| 2 | My parents keep shitting on me when my gf is around and it's starting to piss me off... how do I handle this?I live on my own, I bring her there every now and then to be together. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 10:03 AM |
| 1 | My parents keep shitting on me when my gf is around and it's starting to piss me off... how do I handle this?I live on my own, I bring her there every now and then to be together. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 10:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with relatives telling your girlfriend to ignore you on things, like if you were abusing her?Told them to back off, and I just found out that my father talked to my gf in private and still asked whether she had to work a lot to make this, and said something along the lines "cause you know, my son can be like this..." I fucking cannot believe they put me down like this to my gf when I'm not even around... they are supposed to be my fucking parents and be on my side... jesus fucking christ... | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 08:48 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with relatives telling your girlfriend to ignore you on things, like if you were abusing her?Told them to back off, and I just found out that my father talked to my gf in private and still asked whether she had to work a lot to make this, and said something along the lines "cause you know, my son can be like this..." I fucking cannot believe they put me down like this to my gf when I'm not even around... they are supposed to be my fucking parents and be on my side... jesus fucking christ... | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 08:48 AM |
| 1 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experiencetwo comments about me braggin, what's up bro, tired of jerking off? maybe try to get a woman... if you want some advice, contact me in private ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/20 10:23 AM |
| 1 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceWell, I can still get the fuck out whenever I want to, I don't understand why idiots here are so scared lol. Married? No. Children? No. Stuff in her name? None. Yeah, my life sucks lol | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceWell, you could be right, or wrong, I'm not married nor tied to her in any way. I can kick her out whenever I want to and keep living my life, so no drama, no matter what lol | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/20 04:29 PM |
| 5 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceFirst boyfriend lasted a couple of years, second boyfriend 7 years, I'm the third one. She's not jumping from cock to cock, but... I dunno, the reason I hate LTRs is that I subconsciously look for stability and shit (you know, all the pitfalls) and I have to force myself to detach to keep her hooked, and it's stressful as fuck | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/20 10:53 AM |
| -11 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experiencewhy? I'm not like you, I can fuck other girls dude, stop jerking off hahaha | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/20 09:54 AM |
| 1 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceBy exclusive you mean you're being loyal to her and vice versa? Exactly Are you completely certain she isn't keeping any ex's on the hook as plan B in case she decides to jump ship? Two EXes, one of them is willing to take her no matter what if she decides to dump me. But she also knows I have no issues dumping her, to the point I joke at the fact that when I'm done with her, she'll be ready and good to go for the next dude lol At the end of the day, you're a man, master of your own decisions. B… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/20 09:52 AM |
| 0 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceyes, your country is the only country in the world hahaha | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 06:47 PM |
| 1 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceAnd she likely likes her legs hurting after she's been dicked down good. hahaha exactly this! she literally says her legs hurt (and I believe her) and then I take her panties off and she opens her legs again hahaha worst case, she gets to develop strong legs :p | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 06:47 PM |
| 0 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceis they begin to get extra confident about your shit and will start throwing haymakers to test the space. If you want to keep the relationship you need to maintain your frame thanks for the advice man, I've always had only plates, so it never went far enough | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 06:46 PM |
| 2 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experiencenot really, in most couples where the girl is even relatively hot the guy is terrified of losing her and treats her "right". Of all the guys I know, I can assure you not even one would tell their girlfriend that "she has a pretty mouth and her lips know exactly where to go" without being terrified of remaining single. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 06:45 PM |
| -1 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceshould I stop fucking my girl? ok, I will stop right now then hahahaha | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 06:42 PM |
| 0 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceyes, everything is in my name, she can't do shit ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 03:59 PM |
| 1 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceOk, thanks for your input. Do you find it hard to cope with? Do you live with her? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 11:19 AM |
| -20 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experiencegood, I'm happy I could be of help to young people like you :) | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 11:14 AM |
| -25 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceWell, never stop treating your LTR like a sexual object instead of settling down. But hey, if I need to explain what I wrote to you... maybe you are not competent enough to use the word "hint" ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 10:54 AM |
| -6 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceYou can also get tired of fucking her but that doesn't seem to be on your mind at all because you have oneitis for this girl who is acting like your personal sexslave for a few months. Dude, if you think you have onities because you do whatever the fuck you want with the girl that gives you her body, then you are a dumbass lol | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 10:49 AM |
| -17 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceThen you don't have other options. Yes, I do, and I drop her I have my pussy that I can fuck without issues. You can either read what I wrote or ignore it and say whatever you want :) No rp veteran uses push pull shit test "wake her up with my cock in her." That's alpha because?? Hahaha it's not, it's just what I want to do, so what? I do whatever the fuck I want, who gives a shit about "alpha"? :) You are just another clown that just so happens to fill her hole at this time and your time is gon… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 10:48 AM |
| 4 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceExactly my theory. I mean, sure, she can get tired or get pissy, but I can always get new pussy, and she knows this. I'm not saying she's literally my slave lol, all I meant was that she knows that I want her body and she'll get fucked for good, everything else is secondary (but, being in an LTR, it's also guaranteed, both ways) | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 10:18 AM |
| -19 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceCome back after a year or two and see if the same shit works. Yeah, that's what I've heard about every new relationship. But if I keep my game up and she knows that she's here to be fucked (and get other privileges because of that), do you think this thing can last? I have other options, they are just off the table at the moment cause we are exclusive. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 10:15 AM |
| -1 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceShe probably doesn't even understand what's going on. This is true. However, I've known her for more than a year, I've been banding her for just a few months. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 10:13 AM |
| 2 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceI have a real low tolerance level for bullshit Me too, but I know how she is and how she thinks, and I'm currently using it to keep her in check. She knows I'm here to bang her and I let her do a lot of stuff because of that. It's like... there's an underlying understanding of roles, at least for the time being. both were nightmares I've only had plates until now exactly for that reason: zero tolerance for bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 10:13 AM |
| -30 | LTR and treating them like sex objects: my experienceA few months isn't an LTR. You barely know this broad. No, I said I've been with her for a few months, I've known her for more than a year :) After a few months you've taken this girl in to live with you, and you're talking about "wifey" material. No I haven't. I said she's good LTR material and she's with me, I didn't marry her nor have any children with her. Don't jump to conclusions, ask first :) and you're acting as if she's two farts away from Jesus wtf... no point answering anymore, you li… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Nexted, now she keeps asking “Are you mad?” Wtf am I supposed to reply?Can’t, so please advice.... | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 09:22 PM |
| 0 | Nexted, now she keeps asking “Are you mad?” Wtf am I supposed to reply?Sometimes you hit on someone you see everyday in life, can’t just never talk to her again. That’s how society works, not everything is “Cold approach in clubs” | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 09:21 PM |
| 2 | A woman just rejected me after being all over me and allowing me to touch her... wtf is wrong here?Great advice, thank you. My first rejection was essentially like my second one. The difference is, the first time I tried to escalate, I didn't go back in after she pulled back. The following days after that were a crescendo of flirting and kino, especially when I pushed her away a bit and she ended up all over me. That's when I decided to escalate again. The second time I tried to escalate, I persisted a couple of times till she literally told me "don't stay so close to me" or some shit like th… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 10:17 PM |
| 3 | A woman just rejected me after being all over me and allowing me to touch her... wtf is wrong here?What is your escalation? Kino while talking, getting close, touching her arms, hands clothes, legs, etc. While doing this, getting close and go in for the kiss and more. A woman just rejected me after being all over me and allowing me to touch her... wtf is wrong here? I just pulled back a bit and then got close again, a bit later. Only after the last rejection did I cut it out, as I'm not gonna force myself into someone who's not into it lol. I didn't act buthurt, just disinterested, like "we w… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Was about to kiss a girl who’s on an LTR but stopped out of fear... any way to test the waters first, or should I just done it?but is it possible that her acting relaxed towards me is nothing more than her not being worried (and therefore friendly)? or women just don't act like this? | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | I took revenge against the guy who attempted to AMOG me and shut me down at work for months... now he got fired. Did I go too far? Would you have done the same?I agree, but I wasn't gonna leave that job because of him, so I was stuck in that environment. I was ok with everyone else, so it was about putting an end to his crap. I tried to ignore him for a very long time, and you know what that got to me? "hey, look at nix, "fucker" can mess with him all he wants, and he won't say shit back". That's what it got me. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 06:29 AM |
| 1 | I took revenge against the guy who attempted to AMOG me and shut me down at work for months... now he got fired. Did I go too far? Would you have done the same?I would almost agree with you if I never worked with other men before but the fact that bosses themselves would laugh at the jokes I made about them in their face and would make some funny ones back. Man, you are getting the story wrong. This wasn't about bull busting with a boss. This was about smiling to the boss' face, and the moment he's out of the room, saying stuff like "yeah, you go asshole, go home you useless prick..." or stuff like "if I could, I would have kicked his ass long ago...".… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 06:08 AM |
| 0 | I took revenge against the guy who attempted to AMOG me and shut me down at work for months... now he got fired. Did I go too far? Would you have done the same?Exactly, except that I tried everything and nothing worked, even trying to pick a fight with him... The asshole was a coward. Regarding the others, it's a mix bag. Many despised him, others where indifferent, other loved him, others liked him but were only sheeps, so now that he's gone, they kind of let him go. Except for the few who actually love his sorry ass, the others are happy/indifferent with him gone. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 06:06 AM |
| 0 | I took revenge against the guy who attempted to AMOG me and shut me down at work for months... now he got fired. Did I go too far? Would you have done the same?We have only one version. I did acted up and pissed him off with my behavior. But I never attacked him in any way. It was more like "if I keep acting like this, people will keep on liking me, and he will fall to the background". So, he did whatever was in his power to make me change, that fucking asshole... You know how chad can get away with shit because, well, he's chad? Well, that was me. I wasn't chad, but I was good enough at work to get away with stuff. And just like a beta prick will try … | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 06:03 AM |
| 1 | I took revenge against the guy who attempted to AMOG me and shut me down at work for months... now he got fired. Did I go too far? Would you have done the same?Corporate game is like that, feminized. You can not be a traditional alpha in a corporate environment in the present times. Exactly. The most alpha I managed to get in my office was about being "professionally" independent in the team, and not being afraid of expressing ideas or facing those in charge. Banter? Ok, it can fly. Shit-talking about people who are not in the room so that your coworkers will see them in a negative light when they come in in the next 10 minutes? fuck that shit. But it'… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 05:57 AM |
| 1 | I took revenge against the guy who attempted to AMOG me and shut me down at work for months... now he got fired. Did I go too far? Would you have done the same?I always thought this strategy wouldn't work with the guy because he was accustomed to treat me like a child. Like, saying something about me, I reply, and then he looks at some girl and laugh like an asshole, aware that he got to me... If he framed everything as mocking me and making me the clown, it doesn't matter what you say, people know he's doing it to piss with you. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 05:54 AM |
| 1 | I took revenge against the guy who attempted to AMOG me and shut me down at work for months... now he got fired. Did I go too far? Would you have done the same?Exactly my point. You , for instance would be the type of guy you dont make jokes around. I got this asshole on my back because I WAS the one making jokes, having fun and bull busting. He used to be the only one doing it, and when I started, he didn't like it... | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 05:50 AM |
| 1 | I took revenge against the guy who attempted to AMOG me and shut me down at work for months... now he got fired. Did I go too far? Would you have done the same?Dude, the guy wasn't towering over him while he was sitting at his desk with balled up fists telling him if he says anything else he's going to light him up. I wish he had, so at least I could have kicked his ass with a good reason. But have you ever worked in an office? You can't go around messing with others physically, if you rub the wrong guy the wrong way, you get your ass handled to you or you get fired... Words, however, are a whole different deal. The most fucked up part is the guy proba… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 05:30 AM |
| 1 | I took revenge against the guy who attempted to AMOG me and shut me down at work for months... now he got fired. Did I go too far? Would you have done the same?you mean people hate me now? | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 05:26 AM |
| 1 | I took revenge against the guy who attempted to AMOG me and shut me down at work for months... now he got fired. Did I go too far? Would you have done the same?Because instead of dealing with it himself either through AMOGing him back or ignoring the guy he went to people above and told on the guy for talking shit about the bosses? I tried to AMOG him back, he wouldn't change. I tried to pick a fight with him the old fashioned way, he wouldn't change. I tried to ignore him, he wouldn't change. He would just stick to his guns and keep hammering me because a couple people enjoyed it. So, I wasn't gonna let a jealous fucker make my life miserable on a job… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 05:25 AM |
| 1 | I took revenge against the guy who attempted to AMOG me and shut me down at work for months... now he got fired. Did I go too far? Would you have done the same?Also, strive to get to a point where you'll never have to do this again, either through a change in workplace/situation or continuing to improve yourself physically and mentally. Well, to be fair, it wasn't something I planned. I tried to ball bust him back, he would budge. I tried to pick a fight with him the old way, he wouldn't budge. I tried to ignore him, he wouldn't budge. He got into his head that I had to be put down no matter what unless I changed my behavior, so I had no choice but to … | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 05:20 AM |
| 1 | I took revenge against the guy who attempted to AMOG me and shut me down at work for months... now he got fired. Did I go too far? Would you have done the same?Not so much the "push back" thing, because I never had people giving me shit in the workplace, but I definitely started showing more value, acting more confident, etc, which put this guy out of the spotlight | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 05:17 AM |
| 1 | I took revenge against the guy who attempted to AMOG me and shut me down at work for months... now he got fired. Did I go too far? Would you have done the same?How did you even provoke his bs? What did you change exactly that triggered him? I became less of a "close-personality" kind of guy, less of a "drone" in the office. I was good at my job (really good in comparison to the others), so I started taking advantage of that to show my value; I started acting more confident, teasing people more, having fun more, etc. This change of me was enough to put me on the spotlight. Girls would laugh at my jokes, try to suck up to me, and guys would ball bust wit… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 05:13 AM |
| 2 | I took revenge against the guy who attempted to AMOG me and shut me down at work for months... now he got fired. Did I go too far? Would you have done the same?Amazing ;) Yes, he had a couple of women, one in particular, that would kiss the floor he walked on. Needless to say, that woman is furious with me and can't do shit about it. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 05:05 AM |
| 1 | I took revenge against the guy who attempted to AMOG me and shut me down at work for months... now he got fired. Did I go too far? Would you have done the same?It's intentionally vague probably because he knows he was doing some shady shit and not just standing up for himself as evidenced by him saying "this asshole didn't take well that other people would put up with me without saying shit to me" I decided to start using my professional advantage, my confidence and my intelligence to make myself noticeable and no longer "just another drone". I went my own way at work, and that alone made me really visible to everyone, and this guy didn't like it. I wa… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 05:03 AM |
| 1 | I took revenge against the guy who attempted to AMOG me and shut me down at work for months... now he got fired. Did I go too far? Would you have done the same?"decided to change and step up my game"--- what? It's a weird thing to say but in this context it's even stranger because it's literally the reason this person developed a problem with you. What did you actually do? I stopped being a timid kind of guy scared of making jokes, scared of socializing, and so forth. I was one of the smartest member of team but I had always acted like another drone. When I decided to stop giving a fuck, I changed my behavior. Started taking leadership positions more o… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 04:48 AM |
| 1 | I took revenge against the guy who attempted to AMOG me and shut me down at work for months... now he got fired. Did I go too far? Would you have done the same?Think what you like, but don't talk shit about people, it achieves nothing, nobody will respect you more for talking shit about someone. This dude, on the other hand, made it his own policy to always say what he was thinking, irrespective of the fact he was in the workplace, and totally ignoring the fact that nobody ever told HIM what we thought of him, again, because we were on the workplace... One time I tried to pick a fight with him so he would finally cut the crap and stop trying to mess wi… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Why does the media insist on the beta/loser stereotype AND society keeps buying on it?No, but it doesnt matter, I do the same to him each time he oversteps and he ends up looking like an idiot . | /r/askTRP | 17/04/17 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Why does the media insist on the beta/loser stereotype AND society keeps buying on it?This is so true. My cousin lives in south america, in a kind of rural city, and whenever I go there to visit him, it's amazing how hot women are and how cool guys are. And when you pay attention to them, you come to realize that guys are actually "more alpha, less anxious, etc", and girls are "more feminine, less emancipated, etc". Of course, things have changed in the last few decades, but the partial isolation still makes that place... worth visiting for a good fuck. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/17 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Why does the media insist on the beta/loser stereotype AND society keeps buying on it?It's not that they don't show that alpha qualities get you pussy. What they DO show is that those qualities are bad. It's always "yeah, the girl got to ride the hot guy, but in the end realized the error of her ways and went with the not-so-hot-but-socially-approved-guy". | /r/askTRP | 17/04/17 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Why does the media insist on the beta/loser stereotype AND society keeps buying on it?I get the point, but there has to be some limit. For example, there's a guy I work with who takes every chance he gets to insult me or mock me or make me look bad in front of girls. He absolutely needs to look good in front of them and make me look bad. I pressure flip him or ignore him or mock him the same way, and he takes a hit every time because he's not ball busting, he's just trying to hurt me... Sure thing, this guy also complains because he doesn't get "why girls always follow me" or "wh… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/17 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Why does the media insist on the beta/loser stereotype AND society keeps buying on it?On the other hand, why do you care? You already have an advantage over the 80% bluepillers inhabiting the earth. You already know that lifting, status, and wealth will get you pussy, why do you want to stir the pot and incite more competition for yourself? Curiosity, honestly. However, in the not-so-long ago past, I used to get harshly treated for being "different", which I realized later was actually a good thing because I was polarizing, and those who attempted to bring me down where either po… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/17 06:19 AM |
| 0 | Why does the media insist on the beta/loser stereotype AND society keeps buying on it?But we humans are smart, on average. Shouldn't guys eventually realize the fact that what they are doing isn't working? | /r/askTRP | 17/04/17 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Why does the media insist on the beta/loser stereotype AND society keeps buying on it?It's essentially do whatever it takes to impress this girl who wouldn't give you the time of day and eventually you'll win her over. Totally agree. Ironically, a sort of "romcom" comes to mind that may be the exception: back to the future 1. Sure, the guy tries to impress the girl through the whole movie, but it only works out the moment he kicks the other guy's ass, which maybe and unwanted display of alphaness :) Anyway, that rant aside, you have a point. How exactly we got to this point I cou… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/17 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Why does the media insist on the beta/loser stereotype AND society keeps buying on it?None, but that's the point, why would guys decide to keep their heads down instead of rising up? And "they promote" works only to a certain point, there's a lot of "acceptance" on the guys part, and that's what I don't get... | /r/askTRP | 16/04/17 06:45 PM |
| 2 | When I am myself I have tons of good and bad qualities that make me clash with others (eg, confidence + aggressiveness). When I dumb down, things go smoother with others but I lose my edge. What can I do?Seems like your afraid of conflict have you ever thought of that? I used to. Now I'm actually afraid of social consequences. I got to a point where I know I cannot live as an outcast disregarding others and acting aggressively/confrontational all the time. People will just cast me out, and it won't matter how good I am in other things. So, it's a balancing out I have difficulty with. It's not that I'm scared of confrontation, it's that I know that people can make my life difficult if I act like … | /r/askTRP | 16/03/17 07:32 AM |
| 1 | A guy in my group started suggesting that things are better when me or others he doesn't like aren't around. It was fun at first, but he keeps pushing it... how can I stop this?As a side note, if the core of this guy is making fun/picking on others, once he loses the targets he will get boring and the rest of the group will eventually come back to you It's like it's more than just picking on people. I can deal with people picking on me, I can pick on them or banter back. No, this is different. He absolutely and totally ignores me and just says all kinds of crap about me TO THE OTHERS. Sometimes he even tries this shit when I'm around or when I can listen... It's differ… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/16 04:50 PM |
| 1 | A guy in my group started suggesting that things are better when me or others he doesn't like aren't around. It was fun at first, but he keeps pushing it... how can I stop this?Well, I know why he does it. He just doesn't like me, and got into his head that people he doesn't like have to be subjected to his crap. He does it with me and with a couple of other people. The basic fact he has 1 or 2 friends who laugh at his jokes make it worth it to him to just shit on us. And he's not being friendly, he constantly points out how he would not have us around and/or that we are way better without the three of us... | /r/askTRP | 24/10/16 04:48 PM |
| 1 | A guy in my group started suggesting that things are better when me or others he doesn't like aren't around. It was fun at first, but he keeps pushing it... how can I stop this?One clarification, what do you mean by "calling him out"? I'm asking because english is not my native language. Do you mean verbally beat him down? insult him? point out his behavior? | /r/askTRP | 24/10/16 04:46 PM |
| – | When a woman keeps playing the pull-and-push game with you, what the hell does she want?Your problem is likely youre part of the same social circle, not worth the risk and perhaps too thirsty. Chad isn't thirsty, which is part of basic attraction. Yes, same social circle. We don't do a lot of activities together but we see each other pretty often. The boyfriend is not one of us. They do indeed like to keep options open, so if she truly was into you, she wants to keep you around incase she breaks up with her boyfriend. Yeah, well, obviously I don't like to be a backup for her so I h… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/16 09:43 PM |
| – | When a woman keeps playing the pull-and-push game with you, what the hell does she want?And here I was thinking she was into me because we had great chemistry even if she had a boyfriend... I guess I have to pull my head out of my ass :) One question though: this is not the first woman with a boyfriend who acts like this, is that common to have someone in an LTR giving such a flirting vibe? Because she didn't start it, I did, but I always thought the girl would block me if she was really into her boyfriend instead of leading me on and letting me do the stuff that I do with her. Tha… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/16 07:24 PM |
| 1 | When a woman keeps playing the pull-and-push game with you, what the hell does she want?Still waiting for an explanation... your comment makes no sense... | /r/askTRP | 17/07/16 06:52 PM |
| – | When a woman keeps playing the pull-and-push game with you, what the hell does she want?really late reply... what does it mean though, that's still all attention seeking on her part? I mean, do women like this ever drop their pants if you don't fall for the orbiting stuff or do they ignore you and move to another guy? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/16 06:52 PM |
| 2 | When a woman keeps playing the pull-and-push game with you, what the hell does she want?So if I set it up correctly, give her deniability and protect her social image, I can fuck her brains off? good to know man :) | /r/askTRP | 17/07/16 10:53 AM |
| 1 | When a woman keeps playing the pull-and-push game with you, what the hell does she want?Last Note: Disregard all of my advice and proceed with railing this chick if you are a CEO of an ad agency and this chick is your secretary. hahahaa I'm not. But she's under me at work and does what I say. I'm basically her unofficial boss and she does whatever I tell her to. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/16 11:30 AM |
| – | When a woman keeps playing the pull-and-push game with you, what the hell does she want?Thanks for the advice man, really helpful. Just one thing that came out wrong: me acting carefully with women I like = me not becoming needy and stuff. I realize I like them so I make an extra effort to keep things "normal" and flirty... I learned this the hard way. I'm not shy, and I have two balls the size of the moon. The reason I didn't ask her out yet? We WORK together, every day and really close, so it's a dangerous gamble. And the fact that she has a boyfriend makes it even harder and ris… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 10:42 PM |
| – | When a woman keeps playing the pull-and-push game with you, what the hell does she want?This is the kind of knowledge I lack. Is it always like this? Could it be that she's just looking for attention? | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 10:04 AM |
| – | When a woman keeps playing the pull-and-push game with you, what the hell does she want?Thanks for taking the time man. Just some notes of my own :) Then stop. If she's not fucking you then you're in the friendzone. I tend to view things less black and white. Let's be honest here, you can't go around in "mega alpha mode you either open your legs to me or your out". Besides, I'm careful in how I act with women I like to fuck: I know you can easily fall into the "orbiter" category and for that reason I stay away/detached as much as possible, especially if there are other women there.… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 10:03 AM |
| 1 | When a woman keeps playing the pull-and-push game with you, what the hell does she want?Funny enough, she brags about how she had to actively pursue her current boyfriend to secure him... | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 09:31 AM |
| 1 | When a woman keeps playing the pull-and-push game with you, what the hell does she want?to keep you as an orbiter or resource pool. I don't really like that position She either wants sex with you Only option I care about | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 09:30 AM |
| 1 | When a woman keeps playing the pull-and-push game with you, what the hell does she want?women do say things like that infront of alphas its so disrespectful Could you explain this??? :) | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 09:29 AM |
| 1 | When a woman keeps playing the pull-and-push game with you, what the hell does she want?So what you are saying is, even if I push harder, I won't be able to at least fuck her? | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 09:27 AM |
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