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Sell it. It does not have to be hers. We do not have to lose
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/24 11:32 PM
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Get the fucking gun out of the house NOW!!! Some of us here have been through it, going through it, or starting to go through it. Just come here and be safe. S
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/24 02:36 PM
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Why would you have to move out? That’s not the rule just what they want
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/24 01:33 PM
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I let her have the house. She refinanced and payed me out. I still got a little screwed but so did she. I just rent a house in the same neighborhood but across the street from my oldest’s school which has been awesome for him.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/24 12:01 PM
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I know and I don’t why I let her hold any power over e anymore. It’s dumb
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/24 02:35 AM
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It was heartbreaking for me. I think I started to realize that she probably never loved me I was just manageable for her. It was easy for her to control everything.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/24 12:08 PM
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It’s so hard to realize the work you’ve done to get sober and deal with all the mess that goes on in your brain. Then you find out that you’ve been essentially abused for years. It made me try harder to get her love and I always left hurt and destroyed. Eventually I had the courage in myself to get the ball rolling.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/24 11:40 AM
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Been sober 7 years. We were together for 11 or so. I was sober for more than half. The day I got sober my relationship went down hill. Since I was no longer the one being shamed into her control she started to hate me. Years later I asked for a divorce
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 04:22 PM
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If you ever want to talk WE ARE ALL HERE FOR YOU!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 01:26 PM
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Nope my family hates her way more than I do. I just put a cap on my for the kids sakes.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 07:55 PM
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Did you outlets and phone charging bricks. Those are the easiest.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 07:53 PM
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The beginning will hurt and you will find NO Answers to the whys. Don’t even ask yourself Why. Focus on finding your new Peace and being the best father you can be. I can tell you I’ve always been a really great father to my boys but in the last 1.5 yrs of divorce, my Dad game is at a new level. It’s been so rewarding for me and my boys. You got this, and when you don’t we’ll be here for you.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 01:09 PM
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But not if staying in the marriage causes harm to them. Standing up and showing them that love has bumps bruises and changes works too
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 02:56 AM
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When they start to break who you are and want to be, it’s time. Be proactive, she may go after everything she can.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/24 07:55 PM
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The upgrade for his 3D printer was on the porch after football practice. He didn’t notice until after he brought the garbage cans in. He froze and asked why and when. I said I knew you would have the money and I knew that if I ordered when you had the money, it would be here when you were at your mom’s. I know it’s hard for your mom to share her time so I got it here before. He’s a good kid and an amazing brother to his little brother with Autism. He deserves to feel loved
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/24 03:34 AM
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I just want to say THANK YOU to all you Divorced Dads. I’m glad I decided to stick my head in here.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/24 01:01 AM
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But we would all laugh. 🤷. But agree that would be too much.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/24 05:07 PM
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Would it be bad to post the Driveway Ring cam uninstalled just so I would have proof when she’s late. Captured a nice little bit of yelling 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/24 12:47 PM
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Just be a Great a Dad, that’s all we can do moving forward
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 09:14 AM
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Absolutely not. I was in a similar situation. I would have diner ready at 6:30 when she got home. If she wasn’t there I’d call her and she wouldn’t answer. We’d wait sometimes and sometimes not. I am not making my kids wait an unknown amount of time to eat dinner because she wasn’t there. She would get upset if I called to ask where she was or didn’t wait. The was no winning. I’m sorry bro. I know it sucks.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 09:13 AM
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Have her refinance the house and pay you out half. Then rent a place in the neighborhood so you’re close to the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/24 02:56 AM
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I have two kids and willingly took some L’s just to get out with the shared custody I wanted. If you don’t have kids, take that bitches money. That’s what the women say about us.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 09:32 PM
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Find the dude she fucked and fuck him too. Show her your gains bro.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/24 04:22 PM
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