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| – | Women constantly assert that men have inflated self images, yet it is abundantly clear that most men are desperate and have zero standards. Women, on the other hand, consistently feel entitled to men way out of their league and think they are models when they are completely average looking.Then why not add it to the actual message? I don't get it, it's clear that reddit comment sections get messy, fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 09:45 AM |
| 0 | Women constantly assert that men have inflated self images, yet it is abundantly clear that most men are desperate and have zero standards. Women, on the other hand, consistently feel entitled to men way out of their league and think they are models when they are completely average looking.Talks about studies without actually mentioning them Alright then.. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 08:35 PM |
| – | Why are Pick-Up Artists (PUA'S) looked down upon?Yup. At the very least. It all just feels so manipulative and unauthentic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:07 PM |
| -3 | Most women aren't on dating apps. So how are they getting relationships or having sex?Probably the 10 / 20% banging through them while the rest of men asks / answers such questions on the web. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Most (straight)mens relationship woes stems from believing that being choosy is being cruel/mean to women OR that you can't afford being choosy in your mate selection.Why are there always so much comments but so few upvotes in this subreddit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 08:06 PM |
| 18 | the fundamental issue with most dating advice directed at men is most of it boils down to “be someone else entirely”"The patriarchy" Come on man, it's getting old... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Men are "emotionally unavailable" because of How women react towards their emotionYeah that's all true. On the other hand, women seek emotionally stable men who can protect them. Not really needed/useful in today's western societies (honesty and being able to exercise self reflection is more important imo) but alas, it is still burned into their instincts/learned through deep societal patterns. Men (over)sharing rings all the alarm bells of a women, naturally. Telling men on the other hand that they can share seems dishonest or women would be completely out of touch with what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | The idea that “if you were truly good looking/socially savvy you wouldn’t be struggling” is a huge fallacy here. Due to women’s inflated egos, even attractive men struggle.It's anecdotal evidence. The question is how strong it is. I can confirm the experiences of the poster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 10:43 AM |
| 0 | The idea that “if you were truly good looking/socially savvy you wouldn’t be struggling” is a huge fallacy here. Due to women’s inflated egos, even attractive men struggle.False. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 08:37 AM |
| 5 | Women here on PPD recognize the leverage they have in dating but when TRP tells men how to tip the scales back into their favor they shame/shun it.[..] because there's only one way to get a consistent stream of casual sex: lie. Worst take ever, wtf. How do you come to that conclusion? Own experiences? Maybe screen the prospects better... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 07:37 AM |
| 0 | Women here on PPD recognize the leverage they have in dating but when TRP tells men how to tip the scales back into their favor they shame/shun it.Wait, who are you calling 'the enemy'? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 07:33 AM |
| 7 | Women ‘initiate’ 70% of divorces because women do most of the households admin tasksDon't listen to him please. I understand why stupid comments like these make you feel depressed. :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | It is unbelievable how hostile the mainstream is to even the most innocent attempt by men to "learn" anything dating, courtship or romance-relatedThis is a very good summary! Especially the physical contact is very important (of course you need to take care with that, don't be a creep) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 04:28 PM |
| 2 | It is unbelievable how hostile the mainstream is to even the most innocent attempt by men to "learn" anything dating, courtship or romance-relatedIt is not a detail at all. It's the base mechanism of the whole thing which is wrecked nowadays in more progressive societies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:34 PM |
| 20 | It is unbelievable how hostile the mainstream is to even the most innocent attempt by men to "learn" anything dating, courtship or romance-relatedIt has nothing to do with being Joe Average! This is simply not true. You can be an otherwise succesful male and still easily struggle a lot with dating. (Except for the top ~5% who are so succesful, women actually chase them and forgive lack in "skill") On the other hand, manipulative Jason UnderAverage with selfish intentions can have way more success with women. It's just not a good idea for a working society to disincentivize successful males and incentivize narcissism, psychopathy and machi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Women should stop trying to give men dating adviceWhat is OLD? Old Dating Game? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 11:11 AM |
| 14 | Women should stop trying to give men dating adviceGuys need to first realize though that they need to filter and be able to contextualize advice delending on who is giving it to them. Who's gonna tell them? Most need a lot of time to find that out, it's a very frustrating process. Can't society help make this more efficient for men so they are less frustrated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Women should stop trying to give men dating adviceYes absolutely. Very good analysis, I can agree with pretty much! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Dating is dying because Men’s historical value is negatedVery Interesting. I am having similar thought these days. But the "Likely" scenario is super pessimistic and depressing. Humans need human connection, no robot or social network can replace that. Also "widespread acceptance of being single" would basically mean that the Total fertility rate will drop even faster which basically means nothing less than self-annihilation of our whole civilization. (And making itself vulnerable to other geopolitical actors while we the population is falling. This a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?🤝 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex No absolutely not. It's the exact opposite in fact. The Red Pill really helped me understand and accept reality. Everything starts to feel easier, I can act more casual, more real (not fake/manipulated). Also I bring women more value as I understand better (no improper communication which leads to misunderstanding/frustration on both sides, taking lead / adressing things in a direct way which is being seen positively etc.) Bef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Question for PPD. Do you believe dating is hard as men are making it out to be? Primarily the ones on this sub? Why or why not?I thought that, could it be that men who are not successful in dating do not know a lot of women so you perception is heavily distorted as you are a woman? I think most men which have difficulties also do not have female friends or just very few. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Is Billy Beta happy?There's more at stake than Billy Beta's feelings... You can't maintain a stable civilization with dynamics like these (prevailing opinion). Or can you? (Actual, huge question which we're elaborating in these times in the West). RP deifinitely has at least some elements of very traditional values in it, while I'm not sure smetimes if really makes evolutionary sense to have this opinion resp. value or if it also is societal by itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Question for PPD. Do you believe dating is hard as men are making it out to be? Primarily the ones on this sub? Why or why not?Are you female? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 04:47 PM |
| 0 | A cool psychology article about how women underestimate men’s romantic interest in them and men overestimate women’s interest in them. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-toxic-or-tender/202206/why-first-moves-go-unnoticedLol it's even worse. They don't need men on speed dial when they have total abundance in dating and can* just "go with the flow" to get what she wants. *I said "can". So, I am not saying this is what generally happens, but that the majority of women does in fact have this power men simply do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?Yeah I agree. Just having a nice date/good conversation with a woman is great. I myself also like more the dominant/fun (but still feminine) type of woman but they are rare and most "dominant" ones are just having issues and have bad attitude. Probably gets better with age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?Yeah I have & make more than enough money to support a family, but it's not desired it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?Women have to work to provide it for themselves. No you don't at all. That's a "feminist" lie. Sadly most Girls insist on sending me half the check, when I invite them to Pizza. Which, honestly, is quite offending to me especially as I earn well, and she's studying. I made a post asking what men have to offer. Honsetly? In the current environmet where women are getting pressed to be independent? (as you wrote) Nothing. Hence why men don't want to date anymore, they're (in the current social st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?So you're saying we should abolish the well-fare state? Because I think you might actually have a strong point here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?I completely misread your comment, sorry. See it as void. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?Interesting point. Being a scared single male not taking "risks" while dating and idealizing everything relevant in that context is in fact driving them out of the gene pool. But.. Adapting actualy DTT is a really bad idea, why would you do that? That's not the point. It's not that women actually want DTT in a man and profit from them (it's the contrary). It's more that they just can't difference between DTT and actual desired traits in a man. So I think it's important to adapt to actual desirab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Lack of relevant social circles is bad, here's the main reason.thanks deleted Redditor! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Lack of relevant social circles is bad, here's the main reason.Not really, no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 08:20 AM |
| 0 | Lack of relevant social circles is bad, here's the main reason.What is OLD / ELO? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Lack of relevant social circles is bad, here's the main reason.Story of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?Men are unbelivably simple or better said straightforward. Why are you making men responsible for women's mid life crises? misread, ignore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 07:32 PM |
| 5 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?It's about procreating. Sex is just the act you need to do to prevent your species from dying out. No Sex, no survival of your genes. Sex is as important as food, just on a longer timeframe. That's why it's so ultimatively deep wired in us. It's an existential mechanism. Simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 07:31 PM |
| 7 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?Absolutely this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 07:27 PM |
| 5 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?Sad but true. Most men don't even date anymore though, too hard, no appreciation, why even bother? Hence also the low fertility rate since the 1960's. Otherwise there would be way more single mothers. Or women would revoke their stance of being an "independant woman". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 07:25 PM |
| 9 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?"toxic masculinity" (unless you're the alpha chad ofc, who often though do NOT belong to the most valuable males of societ but impostors with dark triad characterisitcs because women can't properly select anymore). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 07:21 PM |
| 8 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?Yup. Something women don't understand from my experience. Gets imteresting when we talk about it and they realize it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?Good analogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do people listen to Coach Red Pill? He's a fool.What is your critique about Tomassi? I would be interested to hear it, thanks. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Men and women both are afraid of being used by the other gender. And there's an easy way to fix this.While I think containing the sexual exploitation of women (generally by "alpha men") would help I have some remarks: How is this going to happen? What / who's enforcing it? We live in a free society were everything is accepted now. Wouldn't that be a step back? But let's imagine we could do that somehow, then we should not forget the exploitation which women do on the other hand: When we regulate men having casual sex, we need to regulate the attention seeking of not-ugly stacies too. These days… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 01:16 PM |
| 0 | Getting a hobby to attract women is terrible adviceWhat problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Getting a hobby to attract women is terrible adviceLol okay.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Both men and women just want to be treated like they are humanThis is an excellent post. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 09:37 AM |
| 6 | Question for men and woman: why dont you use Instagram as a dating app?Women only want attention and validation from men over the internet. ESPECIALLY on Instagram. Why would you do that to yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Do overweight women struggle attracting men?No, not really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Offering a drink to the policeJesus why would she resist so vigorously having THREE police officers restraining her?! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/03/22 04:11 PM |
| 6 | Lesbians, how hard it is to date women?a safety thing. No. Just meet at a crowdy place go for a walk and have some coffee. Duh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?Because women biologically want to select the best mate. For that they need to be the most interesting female around (so they have a pool of interested men to select from). Nowadays they can substitute that behaviour by getting likes on Instagram and Tinder. Due to various societal policies (well fare state etc.) women really do not need a man nowadays. Unless maybe they want children. But even for that this society has created substitutes... Men on the other hand, in this respect, are wired to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that?Because when I'm disagreable it will fit better with an agreeable partner. I don't want to fifht about everthing. Naturally, men tend to be more on the disagreeable side. (Although men get conditioned to be people-pleasers in western societies since some decades) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 10:48 AM |
| 0 | Is there any way to escape Ukraine if you are military age male? How about in general? How can you escape the country if men are barred from leaving the country?Are you basically saying to just accept that Russia wants to invade all these sovereign countries and flee to Russia now instead or did I understand you wrong? | /r/MensRights | 02/03/22 07:06 AM |
| -2 | Is there any way to escape Ukraine if you are military age male? How about in general? How can you escape the country if men are barred from leaving the country?That's treason mate. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Texas may prosecute sex change surgeries on minors as child abuse. But mutilating baby boys is still A-OKAY!It's a step into the right direction. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/22 10:00 AM |
| 0 | My heart goes out to the Ukraine SoldiersWhy do you have to blame a "Patriarchy"? How does that help anyone right now? Sorry but this post seems misleading people an a deeper level, like a lot of opinions from people in the West these days (I'm from Switzerland myself btw, but with Czech roots, so I know both cultures). Yes soldiers on boths sides are victims in the end (although Russia is still the agressor and has a way bigger Army). But please don't get misleaded here. The problem is Putin and his Oligarchs! Not some "Patriarchy" or… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 10:42 AM |
| 3 | Wikipedia being the 'only facts' source it is.Haha yes, understandable.. 😅 | /r/MensRights | 22/02/22 06:59 AM |
| 3 | Wikipedia being the 'only facts' source it is.Don't lookup "Red Pill", "Manosphere" amd "MGTOW" then. 😅 | /r/MensRights | 21/02/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Swiss Man Identifies as a Woman to Retire EarlyBecause we're misnadrist. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/22 08:58 AM |
| 2 | USA: Boss gives all 800 of his staff the day off for International Women’s Day ‘to give women a chance to put their health needs first’ and men to ‘support the women in their lives’I read that in Bill Burrs voice, I don't even know why! | /r/MensRights | 07/02/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else think men are shamed for having any preference while dating?Yes, certainly. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/22 07:13 PM |
| 0 | UK: Undercover female officers will walk streets to catch drivers shouting sexist commentswtf | /r/MensRights | 01/02/22 05:33 PM |
| 4 | Men really do get blamed for everything, even a women's sex addiction. Apparently having CONSENSUAL sex is "taking advantage" of a women now.I'm sorry but after reading the Title in the Screenshot I really had a great laugh. How is that a bad thing? She wants Sex –> She gets Sex. –> Men bad. lol what Considering the last paragraph, a bit more self-acceptance would help tho.. | /r/MensRights | 31/01/22 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Connecticut Supreme Court: Women-only gym areas violate state discrimination lawah alright :) | /r/MensRights | 27/01/22 02:25 PM |
| 8 | Connecticut Supreme Court: Women-only gym areas violate state discrimination lawUhm no. There are just very high physical entry barriers for elite forces most humans can't pass. That's a filter to only get the very best considering strength, durability and other skills needed on a deadly battlefield to not only survive but also operate effectively. Males are biologically simply more durable/stronger than women, that's just a plain fact. Quotes in elite forces is a severe and real risk for any soldier involved in such operations. The filter is there for a reason. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/22 09:18 AM |
| 2 | UK: 'EVERY male migrant' arriving in the Channel by boat 'will be detained'Everyone should be detained equally. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/22 09:34 AM |
| 2 | This person doesn’t acknowledge that it could be both parties at fault but each is judged differently for not wanting the child depending on if it’s a man that doesn’t want it, or a woman that doesn’t want it.I support this statement. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/22 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Reported this tweet i came across the other day. Twitter refused to take it down. hmm i wonder what would happen if the roles were reversed…Why not just try it out? Genuinely interested... | /r/MensRights | 19/01/22 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Feminists protest against equal retirement age in SwitzerlandYup, should be based on the industry they're working in.. Construction workers also retire earlier in Switzerland (60 instead of 65 under certain conditions, although that could be more imo...) makes total sense.. | /r/MensRights | 19/01/22 09:55 AM |
| 14 | Why do women complain about u paid labour at home?1 week? Like 25% of the worktime you mean? smh | /r/MensRights | 17/01/22 10:27 AM |
| 29 | Why do women complain about u paid labour at home?Why would you browse it though? Take care of your mental health. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/22 10:25 AM |
| 5 | Being second bestYet the mainstream only talks about 'toxic masculinity'.. Funny, eh? :( | /r/MensRights | 17/01/22 10:23 AM |
| 3 | Hollywood will barely dare whisper it but the woke revolution that has driven out white men and ensures that every production is ideologically sound will kill the entertainment industryWitcher... cries in mutant | /r/MensRights | 13/01/22 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Comically cruel"sOcIaL cOnDiTiOnInG wHiCh nEeDS tO bE dEcOnStRuCTeD" Oh come on man... Just live your life, how about that? | /r/MensRights | 12/01/22 10:21 AM |
| 6 | Elizabeth Holmes found guilty. Holmes cast herself as a visionary trailblazer in male-dominated Silicon Valley who was emotionally and sexually abused by Sunny Balwani, her former lover and business partner.It's a strategic pregnancy. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/22 07:20 AM |
| 1 | If men treated women like women treat men-9000 | /r/MensRights | 28/12/21 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Men's Bingo CardThey forgot "Who hurt you?" | /r/MensRights | 28/12/21 09:55 AM |
| 8 | Why does askreddit have so much arguing in ever thread about gender bruhLOL Only a guy could write that and really mean it... | /r/MensRights | 27/12/21 03:48 PM |
| 8 | I swore before girls like her create itI absolutely agree with you. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/21 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Has the world gone mad?Sadly yes, it has... | /r/MensRights | 26/12/21 06:31 PM |
| 1 | I love these peopleNot sure I can follow you entirely. Nowadays everything is about feels and oppression. Masculinity naturally is the perfect scapegoat for this. And since I refuse to play that game, because apparently I fits better my "natural behaviour" (I can be my true self), I feel way better and I'm authentic again. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/21 11:59 AM |
| 1 | I love these peopleBut this is exactly the image which helped the most in my life the last months. At the end of the day, women select men by certain criteria. So I'm just adapting to that. Funnily enough though, what wimen (subconsciously) want overlaps a lot what feminists critizice nowadays constantly (masculinity). So if women chnage their selection patterns, also make first moves etc. I happily fall back into my less masculine traits, I don't have a problem with that at all. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/21 10:15 AM |
| 1 | I actually love being a guyI actually love being masculine! | /r/MensRights | 25/12/21 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Sex of the future.Lol! 😅🤣 | /r/MensRights | 24/12/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | I dont know if this counts as Mens "Rights" but has anyone else noticed the double standard reaction to Billie Eilish admitting shes addicted to porn?Ahh thanks! Now it clicked in my head. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/21 06:57 PM |
| 2 | I dont know if this counts as Mens "Rights" but has anyone else noticed the double standard reaction to Billie Eilish admitting shes addicted to porn?That confuses me. What has baggy clothing to do with porn? | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 08:49 AM |
| 0 | My husband was sexually assaulted last night.I'm really sorry this happened to your husband. :( This happens when society doesn't hold women accountable as they do with men... 😞 I don't think there is much you can really do at this point... Anyways, I guess it was the best of all the bad options available that he didn't chose an "aggressive" response to protect himself as he would make himself immediate the target / aggressor nevertheless.. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/21 11:11 AM |
| 2 | What do you think? Am I being a snowflake for finding this sexist? Local supermarket restroom.Yes it is. Although I wouldn't care about it at all *if* the other side wouldn't court martial all men all the time for virtually nothing. Actual problem behind that is that society is too sensitive and not logical anymore nowadays. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 06:22 PM |
| 0 | Why do dating problems and fixing yourself always seem to be centered around men and not women?Was with you until the first half. Women have way higher standards when it comes to dating and they are also much less negotionable standards than the men have towards women. So imo a lot is a self-created / self-exaggerated problem. You're right though that women need more advice to select more reasonable and not wait for the ultimate dream-prince while being a mediocre, normal person. (Which is totally fine btw!) But from my experience, this is "misogynistic" when men say it and women themselv… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/21 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Low social media follower count, how to improve?Use Hashtags! | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Taming the angerTotally agree with you /u/Merwebb, something must hurt the OP badly. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 07:36 AM |
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