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You are just moving the goalpost on purpose. You knew who you chose to be with. You should’ve questioned her character in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:21 AM
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If he’s married, he’s not going to stay married, that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:18 PM
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Bruised egos. Like now, for instance. You can’t find a purpose other than being with a woman so you take it out on women who never would have chosen you even if men were in power. Wanting women to be with men they don’t want just to feel in control is crazy work. And if that’s how every society operated, then they deserved to die out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:18 AM
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That’s unbalanced and you know it. Especially since one is professional, the other is personal. A woman has to live, has to eat, and has to put a roof over her head whether she has a man or not. If you think that women should be attracted to and say yes to every man, you’re insane. And ironically promoting promiscuous behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:33 AM
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I’ve read your edit and I’m happy that you decided to get help. So I’ll just keep it short. Men like your boyfriend are not incentivized to get married by default. He has the job, he has the money, and I’m guessing he has the looks too. He can pick any woman he wants and he can also drop any woman who gives him a hard time like a hot potato. Basically, he is in control of this relationship and any attempts from you to change that won’t go in your favor, even if you’re married. You’ve realized th…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/26 07:56 PM
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I find that men like to play games with the women who don’t seem like “hoes” to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:41 AM
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I think being alone with cats is their dream. They got to fuck who they wanted and ultimately didn’t have to end up with men they didn’t want. It’s pretty much a win for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:06 AM
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It’s your decision to change what you like, but you don’t have the right to tell anyone else to change who they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:13 AM
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Those ads were just reinforcing what we subconsciously wanted. If we weren’t pre-disposed to it, we would reject it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:11 AM
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It was always about self. We’re inherently selfish, we just weren’t allowed to be for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:42 PM
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They want the older men for money and they want sex and intimacy with men closer to their age. I’ve seen this time and time again. And to be honest, I’m not better than them. I’m not dealing with an older guy that I’m not attracted to unless I get something material out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:43 PM
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Tip #1: If a guy asks you if you cook and clean, stay away from him. It’s the equivalent of a woman asking how much money a man makes.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/26 09:39 PM
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If we’re not influenced by social media, we’d still be influenced by something else. We’re a social species that rely on each other to survive and thrive, and that won’t change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:58 PM
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Let them complain. At least they’re not stringing along men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:55 PM
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No it’s not. It’s personal preference. Whether or not it’s going to happen is moot. I think you’re disgruntled because you’re not preferred. Realistically, people will preferably stay single than settle if they can’t get what they want. And plus, wouldn’t you rather be told the truth and left alone than be strung along?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:41 PM
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Unfortunately it’s what most of them think and want. It’s majority rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:35 PM
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It doesn’t matter. People would still find that they’re unattracted to people they’re unattracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:33 PM
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What you want vs. what actually happens will never be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:29 PM
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Couples who marry between the ages of 18 to 25 are more likely to get divorced when they’re older. I’d rather not pretend that marriage satisfaction doesn’t go down the longer a couple is married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:28 AM
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Yeah, it’s very easy for certain men to dunk on the women when they want the privileges as well but clearly do not get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:27 AM
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Of course, but that doesn’t mean unattractive people are automatically attracted to other unattractive people. Thinking that people of similar attractiveness should only be attracted to each other is erroneous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:25 AM
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And then they’re 55 years old paying for escorts to take pictures with them lol.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/26 02:50 AM
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He’s delusional if he thinks he can get the woman he’s envisioned in his head. Especially when he’s the one who didn’t embody that type of man in the first place. As a virgin who doesn’t want anything to do with men like him, the fact that that he thinks he can have a chaste woman when he pushed you and a bunch of other women to have sex with him tells me all I need to know. “Well men and women are different.” Different my ass. Men lead with their behavior. If men are the ones wanting to sleep a…
/r/ExRedPill09/07/26 08:44 PM
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There’s no fixing that. He has to have a serious and life changing wake up call in order to change. And that’s not likely to happen. So give me his name so I can avoid him lol.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/26 09:26 PM
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In my observations, East Asian women are mostly only valued because they’re traditionally family oriented, not because they’re physically attractive. (Which in truth, most of us are not. Don’t come at me. It’s the truth. We’re not conventionally attractive at all in the west.) I can see why having filial piety can make a woman seem more attractive to a man who’s looking for that, but it doesn’t change the fact that they’re mostly sought after because of their labor. And because they’re sought af…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:29 AM
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Arrested development combined with depression for the last ten years. I still feel like a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:24 AM
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Especially towards Black and Asian women. I’m 29F, of Chinese descent, and never been with a man at all so I’m really not looking forward to dealing with these types of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:00 PM
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No, what you said is true. Most of the men complaining about not getting access to any women would stick it in anything that resembles a hole. You told the ugly truth. That’s why he deleted his comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:22 PM
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Ugly women don’t want to be seen as an easy target. The fact that you use cherry picked statistics to imply that any ugly woman should have sex with anybody is quite frankly, dangerous and predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:33 PM
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Physically unattractive women aren’t having that much sex either. Especially the ones in the younger generations. You can’t put all of us in the same box. There are a lot of us who know that we’re unattractive, and that deters us from wanting to have any sort of physicality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:48 PM
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But almost all societies were still geared towards men. Only the opinions of men mattered the overwhelming majority of time. Of course men weren’t thrilled, but they had something most women could not or did not have, authority over self in their personal lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:24 PM
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Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:45 PM
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They had the most privilege. It’s kind of sad that even now widows are the ones who have it the best. We’re supposed to have better lives with men but it looks like it’s not true for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:58 PM
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I’m glad you realized that your choices for us women is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:55 PM
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Your choices for us are our problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:05 PM
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How convenient…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:04 PM
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Go elsewhere to be put up with then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:00 PM
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It wasn’t a good deal. Most women literally had no say on who, what, when, where, and why. The ones with status had more choice in their lives, but they still had to go along with their family’s decision in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:50 PM
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I’m glad you prefer sexbots. You’re not a man that’s worth being with. I’ve lost almost all of my youth to depression that was exacerbated by COVID, and the thought of potentially pairing up with a guy like you would make my life not worth living anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:18 PM
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Without women, men wouldn’t have the motivation to build anything. At our most basic instincts, mating is the main driver for everything we do in society. Especially for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:10 PM
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My observation is that when men are very negatively vocal about certain women it’s because they want those women but don’t have access to them. He’s hardcore sour graping. You need to ditch this guy before he makes your life hell.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/26 10:35 PM
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If you say yes, you’re pretty much banking on him NOT doing a 180 with his attitude. People can wear masks for a long time, or they can change drastically. Either way, it’s not going to end well.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/26 10:50 PM
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You’re good. I’m talking about the men who can’t get women for shot and then proceed to neg them incessantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:24 PM
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We all know that you have no honor for any others, let alone women. Whores won’t ever want you, and virgins won’t even look at you. Men with any shred of decency won’t associate with you because you bring them down to your level and eliminate their chances of ever being in a good relationship. You think you have any sort of power? Ha. Over your own dick maybe. But nothing else. Take it and go scratch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:24 PM
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Exhibit A. You guys refuse to believe that women would stay single because they find most men unattractive. Willfully ignorant son of a virgin. Oh wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:28 AM
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Ok? I don’t know where you are but where I’m at, women are already doing that. They’ve been doing that for years. You guys just refuse to believe that they would stay single, and yet they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:25 AM
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If I don’t want you then I don’t want you. I won’t be in a relationship where I don’t even want the guy in the first place. I’m still a virgin because I really don’t find most men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:21 AM
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It’s different for men and women. We naturally don’t experience life the same way. There’s advantages and disadvantages for everybody, and all we can do is suck it up and keep on living.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:18 AM
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The conservative women are catching on. They don’t want men like that right now. They vet the men they come in contact with and drop them like a hot potato if there was even an inkling of being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:01 AM
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Men will fuck anything but they’re not satisfied with their options. For them it’s like seeing a menu of ribeye steak, lobster mac and cheese, and lava cake but then having to go home to a microwaved TV dinner instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:56 AM
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Yes! Desperate does not mean less picky!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 11:28 PM
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Most redpill men won’t acknowledge that a lot of the “beta buxx” husbands that they so eagerly dubbed did start out as casual hookups. I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again (and this post proves it): these types of men are just disgruntled because they didn’t get to participate in casual hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:03 PM
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If she’s conventionally attractive, most men would chuck their rules out the window. I’d rather not pretend that most promiscuous women don’t get what they want in life. Certain types of men love to “humble” these women because they want access to them, not because they have any sort of principles. Watch their behavior if a promiscuous woman gave them a chance. Immediate stop to the “humbling” and “negging”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:46 AM
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I think he’s projecting his own fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:39 AM
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Too late to be with a less than mediocre man it seems like. 29F, I’ve never dated and I’m still a virgin. If I miss out on guys like these it’s no loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:38 AM
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Most men can’t get casual sex nowadays. So if they can’t get sex, then they can’t get relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:10 AM
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Professionally yes. Personally no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:20 AM
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You’re looking at cherry picked stats. The vast majority of women don’t get alimony. And child support payments are abysmal. Probably only 200-300 a month per kid. And if they’re SAHMs with little work history, then obviously the man has to pay more. And unfortunately, a lot of men out there don’t respect SAHMs and don’t want to help them financially at all because in their mind, SAHMs didn’t earn the money. But that’s a different topic entirely. I’m talking about men who out and out refuse to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:57 PM
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I find that men who aren’t willing to at least financially help in relationships treat their women badly to the point where the women are in bad financial and physical shape. These types don’t care if their gfs/wives are badly struggling. What’s worse, they love seeing women struggle to the point of exhaustion and even death. They find pleasure from doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:59 PM
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You thrashed him through and through. I can see the welts from here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:30 PM
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It’s not going to turn out well. He’s 18 and he’s susceptible to be influenced. If he’s already beholden to this ideology, then it’s going to be near impossible to get him to change his mind. He’ll view anything you do to change his mind as validating his red pill beliefs. I normally don’t tell people to simply go their separate ways, but for your sake and his sake, it’s best to split because on your end, it’s not a guarantee that he’ll turn a corner and realize that this pipeline harms way more…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/26 12:25 AM
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Are you going to make things harder for the women around you on purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:52 PM
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It’s to impress other women and to get the men they want. They won’t care about men they don’t want. They’d rather be single. I highly doubt that they’ll be desperate for any man at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:48 AM
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It’s obviously manufactured by men who can’t get any action. I mean seriously, have you ever even looked at the men who push “the wall” concept? I’m a virgin in my 20s, and they frankly repel me. They’re doing the exact opposite of attracting women they supposedly want. They’re just negging on women that they have no access to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:45 AM
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That’s exactly why men in the redpill spaces don’t deserve submission. Women were in that shit before, and I really don’t want it to happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:39 AM
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It’s also coercive. Two things can be true at the same time. I’m not trying to change how people go about things since I’m well aware that they’ll do what they want. I’m just pointing out that this method is coercive because it forces someone to make a decision based on fear. Fear of their partner leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:58 AM
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Calling it semantics is a convenient cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:54 AM
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I’m glad that he reacted well! I hope you can be in a relationship that will make you feel safe, as opposed to making you feel like your worth is tied to your youth and looks.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/26 02:39 AM
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If you don’t mind me asking, what was his reaction?
/r/ExRedPill25/05/26 02:02 AM
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I didn’t say boundaries = coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:02 AM
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Of course they still have the free will to get the tattoo. But it’s still an attempt to force control.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:39 PM
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He could just leave if he’s unhappy. But threatening to leave if she doesn’t change is still coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:16 PM
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Preferences, dealbreakers, and boundaries are a different story, but they should really be addressed before heading into a relationship. Giving ultimatums on the other hand, is coercion. “I don’t like/want…”, “I draw the line at…”, “I prefer…” is vastly different than “If you don’t do/do so and so, then I will…” Forcing someone to change their behavior when they don’t want to is coercive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:09 PM
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The ultimatum is still coercion whether any of us like it or not. Am I saying that I like it? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:39 AM
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What you’re doing is worse. You’re banking on her staying and putting up with your behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:58 AM
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You want a prize for cheating on your wife and using underhanded tactics to influence her behavior? It’s still coercion whether she leaves or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:38 AM
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No one’s saying that you can’t leave whenever you want. But the method of forcing a decision to be made that will influence whether you will leave or not is still definitively coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:27 AM
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No argument here. But it would still be coercion even if she had left.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:16 AM
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He’s the one in control here. He’s giving her an ultimatum and forcing her to choose. If he didn’t give her the ultimatum in the first place, there would be nothing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:13 AM
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Great theory, poor reality. Prove to me that no woman has ever been made to do anything against her will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:08 AM
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I’d rather not pretend that the erasure of adult autonomy is completely nonexistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:07 AM
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No it isn’t, but it could be called coercion. If she stays, there will be resentment, even if things seem to go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:52 AM
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Do you also agree that reality shows that “304s” in their 30s will still get married to men they want despite the opinions of people online?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:26 PM
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I know that, but thank you for pointing this out anyways. It’s just that there’s too many men who are hypocritical and they make things worse on top of ruining their own prospects as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:17 PM
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If you stay with him, it will validate his beliefs in the redpill. If you leave, it will validate his beliefs on the redpill. There’s no helping this guy, and your efforts will go unheeded and unacknowledged. Save yourself and spare yourself wasted youth. I’m happy to report that I never dated and all the time I wasted is because of my own choices, not anyone else’s fuckery.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/26 09:52 PM
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Then why is this post recommending that most young men “date around” and “play the field”?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:55 PM
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I have to point out that when it’s women, most of the guys here will protest and say no man wants a woman with a high body count. Well maybe you shouldn’t be contributing to the high body count then. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 10:34 PM
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😳🤪🤣 OMG you’re right! The fact that the guy mentioned milk not being wanted because of the branding is a society gone wrong is just so telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:38 PM
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It doesn’t. It can help, but at the end of the day, it’s up to luck. And virgins don’t get lucky more often than not. We mostly get stuck with the men who have unrealistic expectations, who have virgin fetishes, and who exhibit bad behavior and expect no push back.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/26 03:49 AM
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That is unnecessarily rude.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/26 10:39 PM
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Thanks for your perspective. I don’t think sexual trauma is caused by good sexual experiences. I do believe that bad sex in marriages exists even if you try to accommodate the other person, as sexual compatibility and attraction can’t be forced even in marriage. In any case, sex before marriage is not ever going to stop. It happened before marriage was a concept, and it will continue to happen. Most married couples aren’t even virgins on their wedding day. To me, it’s moot to be sad about losing…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/26 10:30 PM
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Long rant incoming: I’m a 29F (in June) virgin and I wish I wasn’t. I’m behind in every metric in life, and this is one of them. I don’t expect to have a decent man knocking on my door anytime soon, if ever. I know that keeping your virginity means that you are more or less conscientious about your choices in partners and that it signals that you have discipline. However, it is more nuanced than that. To a considerable extent, it can signal naïveté more than maturity, and it definitely doesn’t g…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/26 05:23 PM
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…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:11 PM
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Oh good! I take it that she’s in her early 20s and never had baggage from a boyfriend or husband before right? It’s what men like you want after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:35 PM
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Ignore him. He’s trying to make you feel inadequate. We all know that most women will have more success in dating and relationships than most men at any age. Men in the Manosphere don’t like that, and so they create a narrative in their heads that favors them. Whether that works in real life is largely dependent on the women they’re looking to attract, and it doesn’t look too good for the men since it’s well known that most women are not attracted to most men (the only redpill idea I agree with)…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:28 PM
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This makes me laugh. We have redpillers here thinking that age gap relationships are the best and will last forever while you come in here and prove the opposite with your ex. This tells me that the age gap relationships that they advertise have a much shorter shelf life than they want to admit. I don’t know if your ex had a significant amount of money or not (as it’s the main reason why these relationships exist for the most part), but the fact that you pursued him and that he’s your ex makes m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:19 PM
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Wait, do you have a lot of money? I’m changing my tone now. I’ll trade my youth for your money, and I’ll leave when I get enough, I promise! No marriage wanted here!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:09 PM
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They already do. You should also know that in these equal relationships, they pay for each other as well. It’s called looking after each other, generosity, and reciprocation. You clearly favor more of a transactional relationship, and that’s fine. But not every man is like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:01 PM
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That’s why they started to pay a lot more attention to you. Most men in these spaces assume that they automatically become attractive to women after 30. It doesn’t work that way. Unless they changed for the better, which you clearly have, they won’t attract anymore women than they did in their 20s. Most men’s chances with women actually decrease the older they get because they naturally decline physically (as do women). The only way to stall is to stay healthy and in shape (same for women).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:58 PM
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Ew, what’s a senile man doing here? I’m only 2 years out of college, go stick it in a cactus.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:44 PM
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I’m assuming that you mentally and physically changed for the better?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:42 PM
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A lot of men in these spaces look down on gold diggers but simultaneously encourage each other to make more money to attract women. And when we point it out, they’ll just say, “Oh, but it‘ll attract the hot 19 year old woman I want, not the post wall ghosts!” Make it make sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:41 PM
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But will they still stick around if the income dries up unexpectedly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 01:24 PM
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I don’t think it’s a good idea to lead with your wallet. While I wouldn’t complain being taken out on fancy dates and free vacations, I have to wonder if this is going to benefit men in the long term, especially if the money goes away unluckily.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 01:12 PM
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The West is white though. It’s not China, the Middle East, India, or Africa. If anyone is retarded, it would be your own mother who decided to keep you. I may not be sharp, but I’m not rusted to the point of being whittled down to dust. And I’m certainly not lonely enough to provoke people online just to have an interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:26 AM
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Yet here you are, complaining about basic white bitches. Me thinks that the man doth protest too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:19 AM
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Ah, so you’re not white after all. If you were, you most likely wouldn’t be here. A combination of being a third worlder immigrant with an inferior complex and an unpleasant demeanor makes for a most undesirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:13 AM
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For a woman, I’m glad that I have enough wherewithal to avoid men like you in real life. Have fun wherever you are. And try to remember that complaining about women you clearly don’t want accomplishes nothing. Have a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:57 PM
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It’s why you don’t have to be careful with them right? They’re dull enough for you to handle. I imagine that the women you’re around now are of a better quality, since you’re not complaining… Oh wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:49 PM
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Am I? Aren’t all the women you attract whores that you don’t want for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:46 PM
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I’m a virgin and almost 29. I’ve wasted the past decade to depression. The minute I’m free I’m going to get implants, lip filler, and have a public social media presence. I’m going to live it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:38 PM
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Well you’re not getting fucked (by the women you want anyways) either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:35 PM
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Maybe one day you will deserve more than a TikTok repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:34 PM
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You’re telling the truth. They’re not providing nowadays anyways. And it’s like pulling teeth when they do. I don’t need to be resented by men like him whenever I need to buy stuff for the house. He can fuck all the way off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:05 PM
1

Neither is the wall. We all know women will get attention at any age. Men in these circles just resent that they never got their time in the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:58 PM
0

If you’re happily married then why are you here exactly? If you’re worried about your children’s future, then I have to say that they’ll have to fend for themselves in an unfair and unjust world like we’re doing right now. Women lying about their pasts is not new or breaking news. It happened everywhere at every point in time and will continue to happen so long as we exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:31 AM
44

It doesn’t matter because you’ll never know the entire truth. The only thing you can do is make assumptions based on their behavior and personality, but you and I both know that it is unreliable. The woman you assume is a whore because she likes short skirts and partying? She likes to be looked at, not touched. The woman who dresses modestly and has a 9-5? She’s moonlighting as a prostitute. Now I’m not saying that if it looks like a duck and/or quacks like a duck, that it’s not a duck. What I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:22 AM
6

Everybody lies. The OP would probably respond with “that doesn’t make it moral or right”, but at the end of the day, people will still lie regardless. He’s trying to catch water with his hands here. And plus, the OP ignores the fact that a lot of men will lie to a woman just to sleep with her. But I bet he’ll either defend it or say that it’s wrong as well, to which I’d respond with “It’s hypocritical to only criticize one side and not the other, and that’s what you did in your post.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:57 AM
1

Basically, most women won’t encompass both traits that you listed since these two traits are perceived to be the opposite of each other. You will be met with unfavorable critiques and accused of wanting much more than they can give, or are willing to give. Can I ask if you had success with finding women with both of the traits that you want? And if so, did it last or run out of steam?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:28 PM
2

I agree, but perception is reality to most people. The most difficult hurdle is not finding women that meet both of your wants, it’s the assumptions made by other people that deter you in the end. And assumptions aren’t just thoughts, they do influence people’s behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:17 PM
-3

Those traits do contradict with each other. You most likely won’t find a self-respecting, effectively communicative loyal woman who would have active and engaging (crazy) sex with you. I’m not saying that the traits can’t coexist, but it makes for a really wild roller coaster ride that doesn’t last very long. Often times the women who are sexually active like that aren’t good communicators generally, but they are really expressive in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:05 PM
1

You even broke it down in percentages. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:48 PM
2

It does make sense because males are fighting for their own DNA to be passed on through offspring. It’s not the same for females because they are the ones who carry the offspring to term if they wished, and that alone is worth more than their own DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:28 AM
5

I didn’t say anything about wanting men to not have standards. I just said that men naturally want women more than the other way around. Am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:16 AM
7

Men will always want women more than women will ever want men. That’s the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:56 AM
1

The silence from him speaks volumes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 12:28 AM
10

For some reason, if we decide to have casual sex, and then decide to be in a LTR or married, it triggers a certain type of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 11:53 AM
-1

It doesn’t really have a negative connotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:41 AM
4

Are you absolutely certain that you want women who only want you for your money? If so, I’m a year out of college, and I don’t mind gassing up a middle aged man up to get him to open his bank account for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:17 AM
3

I think that the men who complain about 304s a little too much actually want but can’t get the 304s. If they really didn’t want them, they’ll simply ignore them and go elsewhere. No insults or grandstanding needed. And unfortunately in order to get a man of means, a woman’s body count has to be considerably high, especially if they’re monkey branching. Getting a high value man while staying a virgin or low body count doesn’t really have a good success rate, not if the man can get sex elsewhere. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:29 AM
4

Not trying to sound like a radical feminist here, but the term “hoe” is already gender specific. It won’t have the same effect on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:20 AM
3

Obviously there is. There’s no question about it. What I’m trying to point out is the outcry against “304s” by redpillers is useless and hypocritical unless they decide to collectively stop having sex with women. Complaining about a tainted supply while you’re advocating for and tainting the supply for other men and other men doing the same for you is illogical and solves nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:18 AM
5

“Rake” is so 18th century, but I’ll take it. “Womanizer” doesn’t have a negative connotation, it’s just a warning that’s ignored by a naive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:13 AM
6

I think you contradicted yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:37 PM
1

But they do want to participate. Hence, the fox and the grapes that it deems to be sour, when it hasn’t even tasted them yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:27 PM
2

I agree. But the men who genuinely want those types of women will simply go for them, and respectfully leave the other women alone. I find that the men who complain a little too much about “ran-through 304s” are just disgruntled because they want them but can’t have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:07 PM
3

Because it’s pointless to a considerable extent. We all know that people won’t stop having sex, especially highly pleasurable sex. If you know they won’t stop, then why do you keep calling out the obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:56 PM
2

I have to say that there is jealousy as well. There’s always a certain degree of possessiveness and competition with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:53 PM
4

They don’t understand that there is no guarantee with a “low body count” woman, and I say this as someone who’s never had sex before. Go to the infidelity sub. There are couples who married right out of high school and college with their first, and see for yourself how everything panned out for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:51 PM
5

In the end, all women who reject them are “ran through”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:48 PM
7

This. The fact that the closest male “equivalent” term for whores is “playboy” (not even remotely close) speaks for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:48 PM
12

They’re using the term as a cop-out as well. Anyone who rejects them are automatically “ran-through 304s.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:46 PM
7

That’s what they don’t get. They’re striking because of the lack of sexual companionship. Women in 4B have essentially gave up. Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:44 PM
2

To a certain extent, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:42 PM
1

I did say that redpillers provoke people on purpose. It’s a vicious cycle that’s too profitable and too amusing for them to stop. They know that they’re messing with emotionally vulnerable people who would react predictably, and they don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:36 PM
2

Black pill doesn’t exactly give redpill the kind of validation it wants. If anything, it bores them and even depresses them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:30 PM
-1

I’m not surprised. Redpillers are contrarian, but not because they have principles. They like to provoke people and bring the worst out of them on purpose. In the long run, they don’t want to fix things, they just want constant conflict because it amuses them and gains them profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:08 PM
-3

I agree with her. The blue pill and purple pill is only here in response to redpill. They wouldn’t exist by themselves because there would be no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:00 PM
2

I’ve spoken to a few and they’re clearly unhappy in their marriage.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 08:04 PM
6

You have to realize that the concept of the “wall” was made by men who have no chance of meeting the women they want, aka “304s”. They’ll neg on every woman who doesn’t have a partner and call them “used up whores”, and then they turn around and praise the men who got the exact same type of woman on their arm. They’re not serious, and the modest women that they claim to like, they don’t even pick them at the end of the day. There’s a ton of “pick me” women that surround these types of men. Do an…
/r/ExRedPill12/02/26 03:38 AM
3

He’s more than toxic at this point. He’s holding security and safety over your head and threatening to take it away. This guy wants you completely vulnerable and under his control. And as for what you did two years ago, I think you should have left permanently at the time. I think you need to be single for a while to reset.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 11:58 AM
1

It’s evil when they get paid the rate they set themselves. It’s fine when they have to sign a porn contract that only benefits the scammy exploitative media companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:19 AM
1

Thank you for the advice! I need it for the future because right now the men are not it lol. And even then I’m not even sure if it’s going to be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:35 PM
5

Then I’m afraid you won’t be desirable for a long time, if ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:26 PM
4

As a 28 year old virgin who wants to have casual sex, those types of guys are my worst nightmare. They say they only care about pleasure for LTR women, but in actuality they don’t care at all for any woman. If they don’t care about pleasure for so called “hoes”, then it would definitely be way worse for me because they think they can get away with being bad at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:25 PM
1

Are you having any success?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:22 PM
1

There is no benefit. It’s sour grapes at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:50 PM
4

If that’s true then she’s a hypocrite. But since none of us really know each other, I have to take this with some salt as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:45 PM
2

When I say “comes off easy”, I mean taking it off easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:15 PM
2

Yup. They’re no better than us. They vilify and despise “304s” but they don’t stop paying attention to them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:12 PM
17

Absolutely. We have people automatically assigning certain traits to certain behavior without really knowing the person that they’re doing it to. At the end of the day, do we really know people? Of course we know personalities and style, but that’s not 100% reliable info. Even if you think you know someone, there’s always something you don’t know about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:11 AM
57

I have to say that outward appearances can be deceiving. The women who wear attention grabbing clothes mostly want to be looked at but not touched. I also have to say that just because a woman wears modest clothing doesn’t mean it doesn’t come off easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:49 AM
17

If you’re happy single then why would you need to get the upper hand in the dating game?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:04 AM
3

This is a good example of what I was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:15 PM
7

Those are the women they say they want, but they’re not choosing them at the end of the day. So called 304s are only 304s because men prefer them. Church going, virgin women are not really sought after, and the few men who are going after them are mostly in arrested development or otherwise undesirable in some shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:16 AM
3

This is going to sound wishy-washy (and be a little off topic), but to an extent, you can change your reality. If your reality supports delusional expectations to a degree, then it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:09 PM
6

Shallow qualities definitely attract, but they don’t necessarily make people stay.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/26 09:42 PM
2

I don’t know about multiple partners, I only know that there are a lot of women who regret their marriages and they were virgins on their wedding night. To be frank, I want to avoid being one of them. And if it makes me a 304 that’s for the streets, then that’s fine. Whores and virgins have always coexisted with no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 08:50 PM
14

It’s not the same. And ageism still exists. We all know for a fact that people look at men and women who are still playing the field at 40 sideways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 03:41 AM
2

Could what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 11:38 PM
38

I wouldn’t say it’s only missing out on being a “hoe.” It’s more about missed opportunities in your youth. I’m a virgin, and I regret not making the most of my youth. I turn 29 in June and spent the last decade in depression. I’m still trying to get out of it. But once my 20s are over, there’s no getting them back. Youthful indiscretions and playfulness will no longer know me. Also, the women that are saying this probably regret their marriages. And I don’t blame them. Quality of marriages vary …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:41 PM
5

I wouldn’t sleep with 100 men just to sleep with 100 men. However, I can see myself wanting to sleep with men I find sexually attractive. That number varies but I guarantee you it’s not even close to 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:36 PM
11

Please don’t pretend that your attitude towards sex is any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:53 PM
–

I think it’s too late for the teenager or young adult who are in it already. They’re very impressionable and naturally rebellious. If they’re getting out, it’s most likely not gonna be for years, and only after they drive away every woman they come across. We can always hope for the best, but the outcome is decidedly much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:31 AM
3

It’s too bad the roses are mostly discarded for the snacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:48 PM
12

Why would you go so far to ruin her life? Just break up. And plus, I don’t think many women are incentivized to lie to the average man anymore. They had to lie in the past because they had to rely on men to live, but not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:07 AM
4

I agree. People who want sex and have easy access to sex will seek it out. There’s really nothing special or shocking about it. It’s a cycle that will repeat no matter how many people complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:42 AM
14

If you’re looking at their clothes as an indicator, you’ll be surprised more often than not. Modestly dressed women are basically wolves in sheep’s clothing and the women who dress provocatively like to be looked at but not touched.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:37 AM
10

I think he’s being willfully ignorant. Sex in exchange for being provided for is an equal transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:29 PM
7

Do you want things to devolve into an Islamic state? These are third world countries stricken by poverty and no freedom of belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:41 PM
2

The post above mentioned that the true sexuality women is no problem, but manipulative use of sex is. I’m just equating the two for funsies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:32 PM
-1

What if their true sexuality includes manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:05 PM
7

That’s well and good, but it’s not in everyone’s set. Plus, if you think rejection is cruelty, then I really don’t think you’re ready to be an adult out in the world, let alone in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:25 PM
2

I agree. Sex is the great pacifier when it comes to dealing with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:20 PM
6

Cruelty and immorality don’t always equate each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:17 PM
5

Maybe you should stop interacting with women if it ends badly for you every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:22 AM
4

You’re the one who’s purposefully leading them on. They’re not choosing to be led on. You’re looking to not give anything at all, and worse, you’re looking to covertly sabotage. Just be honest. You’re not the innocent party here. Quit thinking that you’re on some crusade, you’re not. At best, you’re a net negative to society. 304s have better intentions than you do. I’d rather have them stay than have a man like you messing around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:06 AM
2

“Isn’t it cooler to be the woman with depth, integrity, and a strong sense of self, the one who cannot be easily accessed or consumed. Rather than being known only for being desired by everyone?” That is all “well and good”, but I think you know “good and well” that society doesn’t reward good moral behavior. And unfortunately in every society in every era, it is the truth. We’re simple creatures at the end of the day. A lot of us want acknowledgement and rewards from the people around us, and y…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/25 11:11 PM
3

There are no good feminazis. I never participated in harming a man in my life. I never extorted money from them nor have I deceived them in any way. That’s why I hope I won’t come across you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:53 PM
8

You may not feel genuine empathy towards women, but you don’t speak for other men either. I am not a fan of treating a man unfairly, and I never once mistreated a man myself. I genuinely hope I don’t come across you in my lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:31 PM
10

Realistically speaking, most men won’t go for this, and most women wouldn’t react the way you’d think. Outside of the echo chamber of pills, both men and women are still in relationships willingly. Plus, the reality is, men will always seek out women no matter how much it puts them at a disadvantage. Your plan will always include interactions with women, and that is why it ultimately won’t work in the way you think or want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:07 PM
1

You’re focusing on the wrong type of woman. There are women who want an ordinary man, but they are passed over because they’re not attractive. Ordinary men have shallow preferences too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:15 PM
1

It was always a risk to help a man from the ground up. The man can leave her way too easily once he has everything. A woman’s character is tested when she receives nothing. A man’s character is tested when he has everything. Unfortunately when the man is at his lowest, he’ll take any woman. When he has abundance, he will choose a woman that he couldn’t get previously. The first woman becomes the “come up” wife/gf. And plus, the women who say that all the men are taken or players, are of a certai…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:06 AM
2

In my opinion, the best thing to do is to not settle for a man and stay single. Being with a man I don’t really feel a physical connection to just for security is disrespectful to him and renders me dependent. I have two working hands. There’s no excuse for me to not work and be my own security. And a man I want is not a given, he is a plus that I have to earn. And if I get rejected, then it is what it is. I can still live a good life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:00 AM
1

Do you think a woman in the future would settle for you? And if so, will you be happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:02 AM
-6

Do you expect women to like short, introverted men? Or do you expect women to settle for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:57 AM
1

The Christian God made her susceptible. Inherently damned. Take it up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:58 PM
12

They don’t want to put “no losers or bums” because it isn’t tactful. Women have always liked comfort and security, and yes, to a certain extent, luxury. They were just subtle and on the DL about it. It’s definitely more tactless now. The women don’t know how to finesse or seduce anymore. They don’t know when to be straightforward, and when to seal their lips. My opinion is that in this day and age, they don’t care about dressing their intentions up anymore. Men like women who pretty their intent…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:37 AM
8

I know they aren’t joking. They’re just framing it that way so they won’t face real criminal consequences. I wish redpill would clean house, but they won’t because they need the numbers and engagement. This is just shaping up to be a huge inhumane crisis. How in the world do they expect us to be soft and feminine with this fuckery going on? If we ignore it, the issue would just become bigger and sooner or later, not even slavery type submission would save us.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/25 01:01 PM
3

Redpill has already been infiltrated by men who want to do women who’ve literally never met or done nothing to them harm. I’m sorry, but jokes like that are crossing the line, and I’m not a snowflake. Joking about murdering a woman because she deserved it or because she initiated the divorce is just sick and wrong no matter who’s doing the joking. I’m not trying to flip anybody. This is the reality that women in these spaces have to potentially deal with: violence and death.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/25 12:38 PM
8

The infiltration of the redpill is going to hurt it in the long run. And my observation is, it already has.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/25 08:12 AM
1

Are you able to get the women you want?
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/25 11:45 AM
3

Unfortunately, people only care about our personality if they like how we look first.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/25 03:50 AM
1

The reality is that this type of relationship has always been dominant in society and throughout history. It’s seen as a fair exchange (and it is), but people have always tried to pretty it up and make it romantic. At the end of the day, most people don’t want to pull back the curtains. Ignorance is bliss (and also a privilege), and there’s no denying that we do chase after it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 11:31 PM
0

Because she’s admittedly attractive and he can’t do better. Even though this guy is a well-off comedian, the fact that he’s an Indian man places him in a lower tier on the dating market, and it’s the same tier as, or perhaps even worse than, black men. It’s harsh but it’s true. Money is probably the only thing that’s helped this guy pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 08:17 PM
0

Was he married?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:05 AM
19

The best symbiotic relationship where dogs get treats in exchange for being cute. 😊 I stand corrected. I’ll put it alongside parental love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 04:09 AM
93

Whoever came up with the idea of unconditional love had the wool pulled over their eyes. The closest to unconditional love would be between parent and child, and that’s not even truly unconditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:53 AM
4

The man who asked you what you wanted in a man was expecting that answer from you and was waiting to ask that particular question afterwards. I really think that if a man or woman asks this question, they don’t really want to bring anything to the table themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/25 03:41 AM
2

Unpopular opinion: Ignoring red flags in a person you’re extremely attracted to is natural and it’s convenient as well. And plus, there’s too many men who swear on their wife or girlfriend’s fidelity as well, and they’re none the wiser. I also have to say that men do have a need: sex. Men will always want sex way more than women do. I will die on this hill. Men’s desire for sex is equal to women’s penchant to believe in fairytales. Bottom line is, ignorance makes the world go round. People don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:26 AM
12

I would say that men and women are equally gullible. They’re willfully ignorant when it comes to the people they desire. Both ignore red flags and put up with behavior they otherwise won’t tolerate from other types of people. It’s only when they’ve had enough of the toxic cycle that they learn from their foibles. And the sad part is, some people will never learn. Unfortunately, we can’t really avoid these situations. There are some things that in order to truly learn and understand, we have to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:15 AM
4

I hope you get the woman you want, and I hope she wants you as much as you want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 09:41 PM
2

I’m far from ready to be in any sort of relationship. Currently, I would be miserable if I were to be in one. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:41 PM
-1

Huh? Where did I admit anything? I'm not in any relationships, not to say in an unhappy one. You on the other hand, have omitted "happy" in your sentence pertaining to your relationship. My guess is that you settled, or she's not doing what you want. At this point you willingly live in an echo chamber. Maybe sort yourself out and get with someone who makes you happy for a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:52 AM
-1

Then why are you here? I doubt that people in happy relationships would be on subs like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:36 AM
1

Women like sex with men they desire. I for one am keeping my eyes open to find one that I want so I can finally lose my v-card. 🤷‍♀️ Something tells me that the women you’re after won’t look at you as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:14 AM
1

I agree with that. It definitely depends on the type of man you’re doing stuff for.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/25 09:37 PM
1

But if we don’t do those things, they’ll complain as well and say we don’t care about them or love them. We can’t win in these types of situations.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/25 07:49 PM
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Men do not want to be providers, protectors, and husbands anymore. I would go even further to say that most of them only ever thought they did. The responsibility is too much, just like being a mother is too much of a responsibility. We’re all fortunate enough to pick the life we want nowadays. The people who are salty about this can go elsewhere to find solace.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:55 PM
1

She’s not entirely wrong. A young woman can look past physical unattractiveness in an older man under the condition that the man has to be generous with his money. You won’t see any penny pinchers getting any action.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:09 AM
1

Older men mainly attract with their money. Of course they’re winners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:07 AM
1

She left the guy while she was still in her early 20s. She didn’t confirm anything lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:02 AM
5

There was nothing more you could have done. Men like him will never be satisfied. They’ll always want more. I have to say this again: the nicest thing he has ever done for you is to leave you. Him staying would be a punishment that keeps on giving. You’d be a shell of the person you are now down the line if he didn’t leave you. Take it as a blessing in disguise. If you must, keep tabs on him every few years, see how his relationships are and how the women he associates with gradually change for …
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/25 05:02 AM
13

He’s over 6 feet tall and makes 6 figures, projected to increase as he gets older; this type won’t have any incentive to settle down unless he wants to or there’s a major life event that happens to him. The nicest thing he did for you is to let you go. He said it himself that he has sociopathic, psychopathic, and narcissistic tendencies. The person who he chooses to be his partner in life will suffer the most out of all his relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/25 04:53 AM
6

I’m single, and I don’t want to settle for someone who isn’t my type (not fair to him) and I don’t want to be settled for. It’s as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:56 PM
1

Can I ask how you know your husband didn’t have any relations before you? (Genuine question not meant to be taken in a negative/condescending way)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:14 AM
0

That’s great! I thought you were single from the way you worded your post. Obviously it’s not impossible, but they’re rare to come by.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:59 AM
2

Ooh, that’s a “Jack and the Beanstalk” tall order girl. Tall, charismatic, attractive men usually do have sexual history, especially the converted ones. I also think that “passenger princesses” are turnoffs for most men. Especially nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:53 AM
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Because I see a lot of men between the ages 40 and 60 in redpill spaces coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 01:28 AM
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lol. Be serious. Who do you think said that “men age like fine wine, women age like milk”?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:59 PM
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I agree with your take. And most men and women are at their best in their 20s. It takes both work and genetics to look good past 30, and lot of them won’t. The redpill men especially who say that prime for men is between 40 and 60, well, all you need to do is look at their pfp and see otherwise. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:15 PM
2

Women are supposed to be selective. They’re not supposed to find most men attractive. Women want to have sex with the most attractive and successful man they can get. That’s the reality. It’s genuine desire and it can’t be faked. Just leave women to enjoy men they truly want. The consequences aren’t dire. So what if they can’t/won’t keep the man? At least they could say they experienced a magnificent man with no regrets, and be comfortable with their cats and be at peace in their old age. Men li…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:42 PM
1

I think most women know. They’d really have to be extremely naive to believe otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 07:25 PM
1

I know, but at the same time, plenty of men are deceiving themselves as well. They like to think that the women like them for who they are, and they’re willfully ignorant of their wallet taking the place of a wingman. Sure, some of them know what’s up, but most of them delude themselves into thinking that it’s not their money that’s keeping these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:28 PM
1

The less attractive guys will be deceiving themselves for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:44 PM
3

Older “good looking” guys, absolutely. You’re right. They’ll clean up. Unfortunately most men lose their looks as well when they get older. It’s either their genetics or lack of motivation, or just plain arrogance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:25 PM
7

They may have over-exaggerated to impress women. But I agree that it really isn’t beneficial for women to get into relationships unless the man is worth it in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:06 PM
4

They just want some hope for themselves. The reality is, both men and women of low sexual value exist. The women that the redpill complain about are generally attractive enough to get interest from plenty of men. However there are lots of women who aren’t attractive, and so they’re naturally ignored by these men. They say they want plain Jane over the average insta-model, but their actions prove otherwise. Their entire goal is to make those types of women settle for them through shaming and “hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:58 PM
4

That is definitely true. However, I doubt that most men are looking for a transactional relationship. It looks like many men on here lament about not being genuinely desired, and they know that without money they wouldn’t have a chance with the (usually) conventionally attractive women they want. It’s pretty hopeless for them honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:45 PM
11

I have to say that men lose sexual value as well, and some of them never even had it in the first place. There’s too many men on here that make 6 figures but they’re below average in looks (they said it themselves). These types get very little to no attention with women, and “game” doesn’t help. Granted, this is more blackpilled thinking on their part, but for them it’s the reality. There’s few men with looks, personality, and money. In my opinion, they are the only ones who benefit from this re…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:02 PM
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If you objectively look better, he should be more attracted to you. You don’t sound like you’re overhyping your own looks so I think he’s trying to humble you by shaking your confidence. I think he’s worried that you might find someone better than him on your travels (which is definitely possible, since he decided to be a douche). My take is, you don’t want to be with someone that makes you feel inadequate when you’re not. Otherwise, it will be hell for you. P.S: Note that he’s never been satisf…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/25 10:17 AM
2

But you need attraction to even start.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:57 PM
0

I agree with this 100%. Attraction works differently for women and women, and women are naturally supposed to be pickier than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:55 PM
1

Good for her! I’m glad that she’s living the life she wants. There’s too many women out there that aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:46 PM
0

Were the guys relatively the same age as her or younger? I have a feeling that they wanted a nurse with a purse if it’s the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:33 PM
5

28F, never had sex or been in a relationship. I have no clear direction in my life and I am nowhere near ready to date or have sex. This type of stress and pressure from other people can potentially steer you into a place that you don’t want to be in. In my opinion, whatever happens, happens. Forcing anything before you’re ready will do much more harm than good in a lot of cases.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/25 07:48 AM
2

Plenty of women have been ghosted for being too clingy and/or batshit crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:15 AM
0

Insecurity is exhausting and irritating with both men and women. It’s a real relationship killer no matter who it comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:50 PM
4

She has options too. You’re not as valuable as you think, and you seem to think the same about her. She doesn’t need your money so she can leave whenever she wants. Eventually she’s going to get tired of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:21 PM
7

A guy who only believes and seeks purity in a woman is looking to violate it. Do women really want to be looked at in that way?
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/25 05:16 PM
2

Oof. You smoked the guy. Why would I want to be with a man that equates me to unopened or opened goods? For context, I’m a virgin. I’m not against casual sex but guys like him definitely don’t entice me to seek them out for dating, let alone sexual experiences.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/25 04:33 PM
1

That’s a roundabout way of saying that you’ll interfere in other people’s lives whether they like it or not. Very well then. I hope you run into someone you regret and get what you deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:23 PM
1

Good luck on your endeavors to find a wife. Just don’t tread on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:46 PM
1

Thank you! That guy is just a buzzkill. I can just tell that he’s never experienced anything in his life and he’s trying to ruin it for everyone else. I really hope that I never run into a man like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:35 PM
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I understand, but it’s also a catch-22 situation.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/25 02:53 PM
2

This. They act like selfishness and hedonism isn’t already natural with us, as it is with other primates. They’re mostly sour because they don’t get a share of the pie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:51 PM
61

In my opinion, flat out rejecting a man using your examples comes off as rude. I don’t want to be disrespectful, and frankly, there’s too many men who would retaliate because of it.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/25 02:44 PM
2

Lol. So Bob and Stacy can’t sleep with Tim but Bob and Stacy can sleep with Anne? I can’t put my finger on what the anomaly is… Oh wait I can. Nice try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:25 PM
0

They are. Men will go where they’re sexually wanted. And as much as a lot of them like to preach that they want a modest woman and like them on paper, the one who will give them they want is the so called 304.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:06 PM
4

If he’s doing the same thing, then it’s arguably ethical. Dead bedroom is not a good place to be. And men go where they’re sexually desirable. And frankly, a 304 will desire him more than a chaste woman. Men in certain circles would pick the modest woman and then complain he’s not getting enough sex. So what is it that they want? Obviously not that. You can’t expect to get a woman who has a high libido only for you. And you can’t expect a chaste woman to do wild kinky sex stuff. That’s not reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:47 PM
3

I have to agree with this. The expectation of sexual exclusivity from both men and women just reeks of entitlement. Unless you can promise that you won’t withhold sex and intimacy, it’s a guaranteed formula for dead bedroom and divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:42 PM
8

As if you don’t have the equivalent baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 12:52 AM
1

They defend them because it’s the right thing to do. Please stay single for the rest of your life. Don’t subject any woman to your vile presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:46 AM
2

Oddly enough, it’s generally the scrawny guys with inferiority complexes that attack women. Tall muscular guys know their strength and exercise it with discipline. It’s like an aggressive small/smedium dog who think they’re untouchable vs a gentle giant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 05:50 AM
3

How much experience? 5? 10? 100 women? At this point, I’m starting to think that you want to compete with promiscuous women instead of finding a life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:21 PM
3

These guys are so willing to sleep with a woman and then turn around and berate them for it. It’s a turn off. They need to pick the woman they want without complaining about what she is or isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:10 PM
3

Why is having so much experience beneficial? I’m a virgin and I don’t get it. It doesn’t define who we are as individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:00 PM
2

They didn’t say no experience. I feel like you’re putting words in their mouth on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:42 PM
6

I’m assuming that you have a wife and children of your own?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 09:15 PM
4

You read him for filth lol. I’m a 28F virgin and no one’s looking to get up in here. It doesn’t matter how modest women are, it won’t make men who don’t give a damn give a damn. You are absolutely on the money on this one. They say they want modest and traditional traits in a woman, but their behavior reveals otherwise. The complete opposite. It reeks of indecisiveness and a high level of delusion on their part. This isn’t Build-a-Bitch. They can’t pick and choose contradictory traits and think …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:17 PM
4

Not a guy. But there’s a reason why I will give any obviously redpill men a wide berth. They’re not relationship material. And ironically, the 304s they deem to be unworthy are their match.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/25 08:21 AM
2

Conservatives have way more children than their Democratic counterparts. With that being said, a lot of children from those conservative families will turn liberal at some point in their lives. As long as the conservatives reproduce consistently, liberal values, including feminism, will prevail.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:12 PM
1

The problem is that you’re a singular person who is deliberately seeking to make lives worse. An individual has more of a target on their back than a hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:08 PM
2

You can’t force attraction. If you don’t like someone, you simply don’t like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:05 PM
2

Because you posted this, I think that you want backlash on purpose. It reinforces what you already believe and it’s your scapegoat for being passive aggressive and an all-around unpleasant man. I have to say, because of your frustration, I think you’re a few real life negative encounters short of going over the edge. It’s only a matter of time. I hope you try something and succeed, and get caught. It’s the only way to deal with people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:02 PM
6

I sincerely hope that no woman will have the unfortunate fate of being stuck with you for the rest of her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:12 PM
34

Men like that can date and love anybody. They don’t really discriminate. It’s only the men who can’t attract the women they want that say and believe these things.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/25 12:56 AM
6

My grandmother pushed marriage onto my mom. Grandpa was laidback about it. It’s commonplace. She was already not right in the head. She had schizophrenia and also Alzheimer’s and Dementia and died this past March. She was batshit crazy and ran my family into the ground. Bottom line, ignore crazy people and their demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:19 AM
9

It’s just my personal experience and opinion but I wouldn’t put it all on a high body count. I’m 28F with no body count and I don’t think I’m going to get married or have children either. I’ve been alone for too long and I’ve gotten really comfortable with it. My childhood was emotionally volatile and it left me with multiple unresolved issues and unhealthy dependency tendencies. It’s arrested development in a nutshell. I’ve long accepted that by the time I hit my 30s, all the good men will be t…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/25 08:50 PM
2

Just saying this now, you will never fully know anyone’s past, so good luck on your endeavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:06 PM
1

No one really gives a shit about what any of us think on the subject matter. Especially people with an attitude like yours. People will do what they want. I now know who not to choose as a friend from this interaction. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:40 AM
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Women always worked for the most part. They only stopped after getting pregnant and marrying. And after the kids were old enough, they went back in the workforce. Contrary to popular belief, a lot of women don’t have the privilege of their lives completely paid for, and it’s easy to envy those that do.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/25 04:12 AM
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She’s a daughter herself. She probably doesn’t care about her parents’ input. My guess is that her daughter won’t give a shit either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:07 AM
15

You wouldn’t want to be with a woman who didn’t add to your life, so why are you indignant when a woman has the same standards as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:32 PM
6

Ah, another code for I won’t do shit and I’ll just have her do almost everything for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:30 PM
3

Not every girl is capable to do that. All of them have to meet a certain threshold when it comes to physical attractiveness in order to do that and most of them do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:32 PM
4

It’s so ironic you don’t see that what you’re saying contributes to the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:25 PM
8

It sounds like you’re the one who’s begging. You’ve arrived at your last resort and you’re trying to exercise power you don’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:17 PM
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There’s different levels of desperation for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:16 AM
6

They do marry average women. The ones who go to the gym, who have makeup on their faces, and who cook and clean. Which is basically a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:11 AM
12

Sure, it’s what I’m generally attracted to. Love won’t happen without physical attraction, and physical attraction can’t be negotiated. It’s the same principle for men. Put a fat woman and a good looking slim woman side by side, see who gets the most attention. With all this talk about physical attributes, isn’t it best that preferences are stated beforehand? And isn’t it respectful to be informed that you’re not what they want rather than being strung along and settled for? And by the way, not …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:05 AM
8

Might as well be. A man with basic decency is in scarce supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:50 AM
20

Not liking men is not the same as hating men. And I like men just fine. What I don’t like is having to wade through the swamp to get a basic decent one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:37 AM
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That’s the truth. Rejecting a woman that rejected them is an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:25 AM
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What did you expect? You didn’t put your best effort in so why would she stick around in the first place? It’s the same thing the other way around. Of course people would flock to you after you improved. You really think they would if you had stayed the way you were? The women you attracted after you made improvements are no different than your ex. They wouldn’t have given you the time of day if you didn’t change, nor would they have stayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:08 AM
8

This is true. If she didn’t like you then, then there’s little to no reason she would change her mind later, unless she was really desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:51 PM
2

It’s different for men and women. Men would look past shapewear to get laid. Women would need more than just good grooming from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:36 AM
3

Physical attraction can’t be negotiated. And it’s the crucial first step. Grooming won’t help with that unless you already looked good and just needed help with styling. It’s the same with women. If the underlying architecture isn’t beautiful, it doesn’t matter how much makeup she puts on her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:48 AM
3

100%. Attraction works differently for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:42 AM
8

I have to agree with you on this. If a player in his 20s runs through women, he’ll most likely do the same in his 30s. If a man never had sex or got a date in his 20s, it will most likely be the same in his 30s. It’s the same for women. Bottom line, there is no guaranteed formula for success.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:35 AM
2

It’s not true anymore. It hasn’t been for a few decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:31 AM
4

Most men and women do let themselves go when they get older. You have to be exceptional to date anyone you want, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:14 AM
6

Or You WANT to believe that this doesn’t happen. The fact that another man contradicts you means that your absolute is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:08 AM
7

In my opinion, older women who have had long relationships in the past date for pleasure, especially the ones who got divorced and have no intention of ever marrying again. I don’t think they would compromise their standards so easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:07 AM
12

Unfortunately, the woman has a better chance to get into a relationship at any age than men. Attraction works differently for men and women. Men would accept almost anything while women do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:03 AM
11

Hot girls in their mid 20s are not incentivized to settle down, especially since there’s an increasing number of people in their 20s and 30s who don’t want kids. Also, it’s false that younger men don’t want older women. Age gaps between older women and younger men are also increasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:02 AM
6

That you focus on the wrong women. That and/or the algorithm on TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube feeds you what you want to see and confirms the biases that you already had.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:03 AM
26

The men in their 40s and 50s who buy into this ideology have little to no chance of getting said young women. If they do, its highly likely that it won’t be for long. Most young women tend to correct their mistakes pretty quickly.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/25 06:24 AM
10

Motherhood is a job with no salary or benefits. You can’t clock out ever, and there is no HR to complain to when you have no help because you only have one co-worker, and for the most part, he’s part time.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/25 06:12 AM
2

You think like an incel who guesses what a billionaire thinks and lives like. I’m pretty certain that the average billionaire has more class and discretion than you do. And plus, they have the best escorts for blowjobs if they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:57 AM
1

…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:56 PM
6

They don’t want a woman in their actual league. In any of their favorite media, the woman in question is always a glamour or insta-model type.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:38 PM
4

You say that some men would rather be settled for hypothetically, but when they actually are, the results are not what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:31 PM
2

I agree with this. And the funny thing is, men in these spaces are not willing to be with a woman that settled for them and at the same time, they are mad that women aren’t settling with them. Cognitive Dissonance at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:25 PM
1

For a myriad of reasons. I can think of a couple at the top of my head, and none of them are innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:51 AM
4

Glad we’re on the same page. Deliberately choosing for attractive or unattractive isn’t conducive to a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:59 AM
11

How does picking an unattractive man help women with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:51 AM
7

They just love moving the goalposts to suit their views.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:44 PM
6

Please don’t lower your male value even more by making other people’s lives more difficult through these professions. Everyone’s struggling as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:09 PM
1

Social shaming is the first step. Get enough people behind it and they’ll make laws that restrict certain freedoms. We’ve seen this before in communist countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:24 AM
1

Physical attraction has to take place first. Otherwise love won’t happen. If there’s no crush, there’s nothing there. In order to keep a relationship, you need to attract first.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 07:19 AM
9

This part. If men are having less sex on average, so are the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:25 PM
0

Then go for it. If he has a crush on you, then you don’t have to change anything about yourself at all.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/25 08:20 PM
2

Is he reciprocating your feelings? Most 20 year old men aren’t looking to settle down.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/25 07:16 PM
5

She’s upfront about it. She’s not lying. She said she’s not a gold digger now because she isn’t dating. At this point, looking for accountability from her is just petty behavior. Plenty of transactional relationships exist on paper, and there’s consent from both parties. There’s no reason to get worked up for it unless you want to partake but can’t. Go where you’re wanted. Stop trying to change peoples’ minds online. It doesn’t work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:35 PM
5

I don’t think a normal woman, much less an exceptionally beautiful woman, is looking for an “autistic” man with your disposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:24 PM
6

This. And they completely disregard that single moms are rarely intentional with being single moms. It’s mostly men that left quickly after she announced the pregnancy or given birth or the men that were invested but changed their minds down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:16 PM
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The quiet girls struggle a lot. The vocal ones don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:01 PM
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If you think emotional investment is transactional, then I’m glad you turned her down. You should be single and do what you want with the women you want. Don’t waste their time or yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:00 PM
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I would apply the same idea to the number of men who are looking for homebodies is increasing, but it’s far from enough. There’s still a lot of men in their 20s who focus on the party girl, and afterwards, they settle with a homebody. The amount of effort put in for the homebody is no where near the effort put in for the party girl. It’s not fair for anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:57 PM
7

I said that they were happy WITHOUT romantic partners of any kind. That includes sexual partners. Are you being dense on purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:49 PM
1

If guys miss out in their 20s, there’s really nothing they can do. It’s different for everyone in their 30s. And they don’t have to go with ex party girls. Homebodies do exist, but guys naturally don’t gravitate towards them. There’s nothing that a non-promiscuous woman can do when the available men are still pining for lost youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:18 AM
23

There’s a lot of truth in your post. A lot of women just aren’t looking to date anymore. It’s causing some men to crash out. They believe it’s because women are pickier and that they only sleep with the top 10% of men, but that’s not the case for the average woman. Women are content doing their own thing without romantic partners of any kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:10 AM
9

That’s odd. You write like you’re a man pretending to be a woman. It’s probably just me though.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/25 01:11 AM
9

Overburdened and fed up that when she has her hands full, the husband does little to nothing to relieve her. I’m assuming that you had a wife in the past that divorced you.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/25 01:00 AM
14

You act like the husband wants to balance things out. The most these types of men will do is only keep it up for a couple of days and then go back to what it was before.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/25 12:59 AM
4

You and your ilk would just call her a gold digger when anecdotes like that pop up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:26 PM
3

Most men care about sex way more than women do. That’s the reality. They’ll go where they’re sexually wanted, contrary to what they preach. They’re not looking for modest plain Jane at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:17 PM
15

This. It’s not ever one-sided. There’s a lot of average men and women who desire romantic partners out of their league, and worse, too many think they’re entitled to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 05:58 PM
9

I’m assuming that she’s very attractive, like instagram model attractive. No man would put in that much effort for a normal looking woman unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:26 PM
1

The men are checking out because they don’t have options. Otherwise the male loneliness epidemic wouldn’t even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:44 PM
1

Attractive people are always sought after. They’re the first choice. Getting rid of social media will only work short term, as people will find other means to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:36 PM
3

I have to agree with this. Women were always very selective. Even if we were to go back to “tradition”, most men still won’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:34 PM
1

No, they’re not. But it’s mainly associated with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:31 PM
1

I conceded because it’s pointless to argue with someone like you. I still think permanent loyalty is never guaranteed. And I say this as a virgin myself. There’s too many marriages that started young, and then 20 years down the line, infidelity occurs because they wanted someone new. I know it’s difficult to read sarcasm. You have no relationship prospects let alone marriage with a virgin, I can tell that much. If all I have to look forward to in the future is a man similar to you, then fuck it,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:34 PM
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I don’t have a problem if they took similar pictures and the men still voted for the Asian woman. But the exaggerated “cutesy” expression that she made was geared towards a specific type of man, one that I am not particularly fond of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 11:48 PM
1

Of course. You must be in a great marriage with a virgin to offer such viewpoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:54 PM
11

I’m Asian and I don’t consider it a compliment when we win these sort of competitions. I can just tell the type of men who voted for the particular type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:58 PM
3

If you keep thinking like this, you will be settled for.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/25 10:32 AM
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I have to agree. If you have an independent spirit you definitely don’t need to partner up at all, not to say marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:48 PM
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Oh, for the men who are exceptional in looks and finances, of course! The young women have their pick!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:56 PM
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Unfortunately, there will most certainly be a medical condition. Menopause happens before 60. And it’ll make women generally uncomfortable. Fatigue, lessened libido, digestive issues, vaginal dryness, memory problems, osteoporosis, heart palpitations, sleep issues, etc… are all symptoms of menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:20 PM
1

You must have a successful marriage! Congratulations!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:15 PM
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Sex naturally decreases with time going on, you may lose attractiveness, or you may not have had a better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:32 PM
1

I think having backup options is more likely for women in their 20s since they’re in their prime then. When they’re in their 30s, they won’t have that privilege anymore. And plus, if your point was true, the women’s age for marrying would be younger while the men’s age would be older. That’s not what’s happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:28 PM
2

The average age for both men and women has risen to late 20s, early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:21 AM
3

If you tell that to the average redpill man, he’ll still think that you have high standards. They’re also known to be as prone to gaslighting as the type of woman that they love to complain about: the instagram models that they really want but won’t ever have a chance with. They say they want good conservative women but their actions say mostly otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:08 PM
2

You don’t have to be a narcissist to fake your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:15 PM
-1

Women should choose men they find desirable from the jump and just stay single in their later years. It’s disrespectful to a man when a woman in her 30s settles with them after she had her fun. And they really should just tell the truth and not bother with gaslighting men. This will definitely prevent men from becoming disillusioned in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:13 PM
13

Whoever managed to fool women into accepting just anything in the first place can meet me in the parking lot…and I’ve never fought in my life lol. I will never understand physically unattractive people who think they deserve physically attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:04 PM
3

My username was autogenerated and actually reveals nothing about me. I didn’t do anything to it. You actually altered yours. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:54 PM
3

I’m a virgin lol. I guess women are only whores when they don’t choose you to lay with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:52 PM
3

Whores sleep with anyone and they’re not known to be that selective. And your username answers everything. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:48 PM
1

Ok. Good luck on your endeavors to find a woman for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:56 PM
3

What is the logic in your statement? If women only sleep with the top 10% of men, then I doubt she would sleep with just anyone all over the globe. And plus, I have a genuine inquiry. Are you in a place where you can choose women? Because if you’re not desired by women, then your input on red flags does not matter to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:51 PM
0

Ok. What is the end goal for your argument? Are you going to do something with it or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:45 PM
2

I’m not afraid, I’m just confused and trying to understand your thought process.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:50 AM
2

Redpill will only work for a certain type of man. It won’t work for the vast majority. You benefit because you’re that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:49 AM
1

Hypergamous women can still get pregnant and have families. I think getting conquered is another matter entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:46 AM
2

If they don’t want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:44 AM
1

Religion tends to magnify the sins of the women much more than that of the men. It had something to do with Eve convincing Adam to eat the forbidden fruit, and because of one bitch the rest of us have to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:07 AM
1

You do realize that if you are in the top 10%, your sons will be in the same position right? They have your genetics and your guidance, there’s no reason why they shouldn’t be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:06 AM
2

My point is, they weren’t judged if they did. Women on the other hand, it was the scarlet letter and the whole nine yards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:01 AM
2

I don’t get your statement. I’m certain that there is a typo in the second sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:55 AM
0

Why do you want to do anything with women at this point? It sounds like you’re better off alone in a remote cabin. Just let the women breed with the top 10%, civilization will be just fine. And I just noticed you’re married in your flair. Can you just focus on your wife and not bother with other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:46 AM
1

I don’t have control over the overall situation. This is just an observation. People can preach all they want but the fact of the matter is that it happened, it happens, and will continue to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:43 AM
5

They most definitely did not limit themselves to one woman. They had multiple women while their wives couldn’t do anything about it and would be hypocritically punished if they had an affair themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:40 AM
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I don’t know why they wouldn’t just let it be. Not every man gets to have a woman, and likewise, not every woman gets a man. I don’t know why men would want to control women just for a lay, and why they get butt hurt when women don’t want them. Plenty of women get told from men that they’re ugly and unwanted all the time, it’s not an anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:38 AM
3

Some people don’t do well alone. Others can and do stay single if they can’t get who they want, but not every person is emotionally strong enough or independent enough to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:37 AM
5

Basic love was never unconditional. I said this above. Physical attraction and overall lifestyle compatibility come first. If these two conditions aren’t met, love won’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:12 AM
0

Men are settled with as well. It’s not a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:10 AM
2

We can be in relationships and still find other people sexually attractive. As long as it stays on their computer, indulge away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:53 AM
2

Both men and women look for the best they can get. That is what I’m saying. Maybe I was unclear and should have clarified better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:49 AM
3

It depends on the person, but to me, porn isn’t cheating. We don’t have physical contact with them, and realistically, we don’t have access to an emotional bond with them. To me, at the end of the day, porn is freedom of sexual expression, and people who look at it are exercising their freedom as well. I’d rather not control what other people look at (within the law).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:41 AM
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Love was never unconditional. Disney lied to us. The first step to a relationship is not love, it’s physical attraction along with overall lifestyle compatibility. If those two conditions aren’t met, love won’t take place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:28 AM
3

Am I wrong? Men and women will look for the best option they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:26 AM
5

I agree with this. Hypergamy is natural, and women will look for the best option circumstantially. Why would anyone choose less for themselves unless they had no choice? For charity? For shits and giggles? To inflate egos that are too big for their britches? For other people’s benefit except their own?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:08 AM
2

I didn’t say that it doesn’t happen. I definitely agree that plenty of men before the age of 50 have children. However, only about 1% of all first time fathers are past the age of 50. So whoever’s doing it, they have to be exceptional physically and/or financially. The average 50 to 60 year old is not desirable to women half their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:01 PM
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It affects men too, just not in the same way. They can still have children much later than women but the issue then becomes that most fertile women won’t see them as a desirable choice because of their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:18 AM
1

Sheofdiscipline said it best. Just because men and women don’t need to be in romantic relationships anymore to survive doesn’t mean that we’re not attracted to each other anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:13 AM
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That’s unrealistic. As opposite genders, we’re naturally drawn to each other despite our significant differences. Women will always be drawn to the presence of men, and men will always be drawn to the presence of women. Even if the idea were to come into fruition for either men or women, it won’t last for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:39 AM
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I should have clarified it by saying “in general.” But the fact that you acknowledged it doesn’t happen often means my observation was still accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:23 AM
4

Also, men will always want sex more than women. It’s really the one thing that puts them at a disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:31 AM
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I agree with your cousin and I’m romantic. Morality aside, the CEO is an idiot. If you want to eat at another table while holding the one you’re currently in, you don’t put yourself where the staff can clock you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:20 PM
1

A certain type of woman would definitely gravitate towards that. From what I understand, in some places, getting shot at and surviving garners respect and notoriety. It definitely doesn’t work for most women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:25 AM
1

Give me examples of what you tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:09 PM
2

You could always have the opportunity of getting women you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:08 PM
1

I’m more certain of myself than I am of other people because I am in control of my own actions, but I’m not in control of theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:23 PM
2

I misunderstood you. Sorry about that. I naturally get used to the complaints about women working in spaces like this. Do you know if there are any other root causes of your relationship issues besides work? You can start there.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/25 04:38 PM
3

Any man who has a problem with you working in this day and age has issues…and they’re not worth entertaining. But I think you need to address the root cause of your fawning issue. You may have some intimacy issues that need to be addressed (not sex but emotional connection).
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/25 04:18 PM
1

Animals in the wild tend to pick partners who possess the best traits for survival. In a way, we all are practicing eugenics to a degree. Not at the “create perfect baby” level, but at the most basic of levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:15 PM
1

It’s because men who want virgins are few and far between. That and the virgins aren’t interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:23 PM
-2

A lie? Pulling stuff out of my ass? There’s no X rated parlor tricks here. For a lot of religious folk, suffering is their middle name. They endure for God. There’s no lies that are told there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:40 PM
1

That’s a big “if”. Good looking virgins are difficult to get if they’re not in these industries. Yes there are plenty, but getting access to them is another thing. They’re not going to go for just any man either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:33 PM
1

The issue with the confounding variable is that it largely shows up in attention seeking industries. Not church.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:53 PM
5

I didn’t say all were pretending. It would be equally disingenuous to say that they were all happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:46 PM
4

That’s not true. Most of them had plastic surgery to go into the business. If they didn’t, they wouldn’t be as sought after whether they were in porn or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:39 PM
1

It’s not a lie. I wouldn’t make assumptions that they’re all happy. I also wouldn’t make assumptions that all promiscuous women aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:38 PM
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They most likely have religious backgrounds. And they’re not fans of divorce or complaining about their unhappiness to God. Staying married isn’t an accomplishment. It just means that they tolerate each other. A participation trophy earned, if you will. Satisfaction is another thing entirely, and it can easily be faked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:04 PM
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They’re most likely religious. That demographic doesn’t really divorce because they don’t believe in divorce. They’re also the demographic to lie about their marital happiness to keep God happy. As we all know, they don’t have any skeletons in the closet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:42 PM
0

Is that a look of incredulity or realization?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:37 PM
1

Then get into a bubble to your liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:33 PM
1

What type of woman do you usually talk to? A man’s never paid for my bill before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:24 PM
-1

Lol, if you’re not going to pay for any woman then…be alone forever. No one will accept getting nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:16 PM
1

He partakes in the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:08 PM
1

I wouldn’t say he’s doing the exact same thing as me. He says that he’s constantly looking for reasons not to rope himself. I’m not looking to rope myself at all. Hence, too risky, as in he may not survive long enough to make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:05 PM
2

I wouldn’t say he’s doing the exact same thing as me. He says that he’s constantly looking for reasons not to rope himself. I’m not looking to rope myself at all. Hence, too risky, as in he may not survive long enough to make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:05 PM
1

Key word is observe. He partakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:57 AM
2

Who said I was a finished product? Not me. I’m striving for my own life. I don’t want to use anyone, and I don’t want anyone to use me. I’m not above anyone and I’m not desperate enough to want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:34 AM
0

Bruh, if a train wreck wrote this and the guy is drawn to this post, what does that make him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:27 AM
-1

Marriage and monogamy is just exclusive prostitution with extra steps. It always has been. People just view it through rose tinted glasses and they pretty it up to make it some sort of holy ritual when it’s not. “Escort” or “wife” either way, you’ll pay. In full or installments. You wanted the truth right? Well here it is. You want to be convinced otherwise then you’re in the wrong place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:24 AM
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They put virgins on a pedestal and believe they have no issues or baggage. I’ve been a virgin my whole life and I can say otherwise. And plus, being with a virgin doesn’t guarantee loyalty in the long run. There’s too many divorces happening to couples where the woman married young or was a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:19 AM
0

Women aren’t going to bed with just anyone. Men however…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:10 AM
1

Like for like. Here you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:08 AM
2

Men do make mistakes while dating. And they do have freedom to do what they want whilst dating. They just don’t like that they too have a shelf life. They want the good times (or the possibility of good times) to last forever and the bad times to never come.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:00 AM
1

Yup! It’s convoluted, but the gist is they want all the benefits and want the women to have none.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:58 AM
0

It is about a man’s ability to provide. The exchange of sex and resources between men and women will always be the foundation of every society. I don’t want to struggle when I’m with a man, I can do that on my own. And I would rather a man tell me that he doesn’t find me worthy to provide for than to drag things along for years on end, doing the bare minimum and eventually leaving for a woman he’s willing to put the effort in for. Waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:53 AM
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I laugh whenever I hear men say they want virgin women. Not because it’s absurd, but because it’s a generalization and not true. We have 40 year old church women who’ve never been sought after, and we have porn stars who are married with children. Granted, these are extreme examples and the quality of the men and women are questionable, but if a relationship is the goal, then the shoe fits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:45 AM
2

That’s my point. There’s a reason why women nowadays don’t want to help build a man. He’s still in the process of fixing himself. What makes you think that a man in progress is going to automatically be with his ideal woman? He’s not in a position where he can pick and choose. He takes what he can get. There’s absolutely no security for the woman who’s with him because she is a stepping stone to the woman at the finish line. I for one, want to be the one at the finish line if I ever get into a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:34 AM
3

You said “when I get my shit together.” It either means that it hasn’t happened yet, or it may never happen. Too risky. At least you’re not the desperate type who will do or say anything just to have someone who’s “good enough for now.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:26 AM
4

A lot of guys who are at the finish line won’t hesitate to kick their starter wife out and pick a woman they previously couldn’t get access to. Women don’t want to risk being the starter wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:24 AM
4

Do you want a woman with a career or not? I’m getting mixed signals here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:22 AM
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If a man thinks that a woman would stay loyal because she was a virgin when she met him, he’s in for a reality check. If we check the divorce rates, one of the most frequent demographics is women that married too young or married their first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:00 AM
1

Gotta protect the bottom line right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:04 AM
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I only read what was there. What she supposedly edited out, I ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:59 PM
2

No she didn’t, you were the one who implied it. You’re also not slick with the gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:45 PM
6

So? Men only operate on their own best interests as well, and they conveniently disguise it as the “species’/society’s best interests.” You’re not slick. Women are tired of foregoing their needs for men. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:22 PM
2

Bruh you want her to be average. She’s clearly not if Ronaldo is staying with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:51 PM
0

I agree with this to a certain extent. There are a lot of men who deliberately “neg” on women they desire in order to “humble” them and they use this tactic to try to get the women to choose them. There are also really unpleasant women out there that may look really attractive, but their personality puts them into the negative. I think this is the type of woman that they were originally trying to target, not to date but to actually teach them humility. However, as I’ve mentioned above, this tact…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:59 PM
1

He thinks that a woman’s duty to society is to be less selective of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:16 AM
3

Yeah, they can’t get the romantic partner they want and they’re dissatisfied with what they can get. The best thing for these types to do is to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:37 AM
3

I’m aware that it’s what some men truly want, but I doubt that a lot of other men actually want this type. I think they’re overly romanticizing a certain group of women that they want but can’t get. And usually these types of women have the opposite characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:23 AM
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Women will always have more options than men and they will have difficulty fending them off as well as difficulty fighting temptation. That’s the reality that a lot of the men here want to deny. I do agree that women wouldn’t be happy if their man was talking to other girls. This is where I feel like the hypocrisy begins. If the women want attention from men other than their partners, then they should accept the fact that their partners would want attention from other women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:16 AM
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My observation is that rappers treat women the way people treat fast food: they eat and then discard the wrappers. They really don’t give women a second thought after going to bed with them. For gold diggers, it’s inconvenient. But for women who just want some fun, it’s ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:03 AM
2

“Less male attention” is actually not possible for any woman regardless of body count. With the way things are even with the RP content, men are still giving women lots of attention. And plus, it’s actually contradictory. People want to be sexually attracted to their partners, and if a woman gets little to no attention from males, it’s likely she’s not physically attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:55 AM
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It saddens me too because it’s every woman’s predicament and I don’t want it to be. There’s way too many low value, low class men out there who would happily ruin a woman over sex. Having high standards to the point of delusion is one sure fire way to avoid men like that, and for some women it’s worked. If it doesn’t, the only other effective way to protect ourselves is to completely cut out sex and intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:43 AM
3

The men who push the trad wife agenda just want all the benefits of having a hard working woman without doing any work themselves. The women who push the trad wife agenda want attention and money, no different than a OF girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:34 AM
3

I’m stealing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:31 AM
2

As a woman who’s never had sexual relations, I have to agree with this. If I ever have a casual relationship, the man really has to be up there in social status and he definitely has to have zero interest in power dynamics. It’s always the lower status men that care about control and they are the most threatening to our well-being. I don’t want to have power over any man, and I don’t want a man to have any power over me. And I want to repeat what you said because I can’t agree with this enough: …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:56 AM
1

Lots of women already do that, but I think you only focus on a certain type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:34 PM
1

This. I see so much negging all the time, and every time I see it, it’s just so obvious that they all want the women to choose them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:32 PM
6

I think it’s because you stopped working. I think he’s paranoid that he’s going to lose at least half his fortune to divorce. You deciding to rely on him reinforced his fears. To be honest, it’s always going to revolve around money with men like him, which is why marrying them is actually not the best. I would say any man who’s like that isn’t worth entertaining. It’s highly likely that they won’t ever want to marry or commit. That being said, there’s little reason to marry for both women and me…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/25 05:35 PM
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Hate to say it, but there really isn’t anything you can do to make anyone commit to you. If they don’t want to marry you, they simply won’t. And I have to say, after they become successful, a lot of men actually change a lot because their options in women have expanded exponentially. No different than women with men after they glow up. Men in these spaces love to complain about “gold diggers.” But there’s a reason why women like to go after men when they’re at the finish line. He has everything …
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/25 04:47 PM
14

They forget that women choose who to be traditional and submissive to. Right now, it seems like very few men fit the bill. They also only focus on certain types of women that won’t pay them any attention. I’m making assumptions here but A deserving, wonderful man > career and dating/single > undeserving men is probably where most regular women are at.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:09 PM
2

If you’re talking about attractiveness, I do think that the threshold for being attractive differs between men and women. An average woman is more likely to be considered attractive by men while the average man is not likely considered attractive by women. Average men and average women are not the same because of this distinction. Attraction works differently for men and women because men and women’s standards and definitions for attraction are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:58 PM
8

I’m a virgin because I have issues with intimacy. I don’t like being touched in sensitive areas unless it’s myself. I know this isn’t true for all women, but I think that a lot of women who have never had sex going into marriage are more likely to NOT have sex during the marriage and are more likely to experience intimacy issues. If I’m going to experience sexual intimacy, it needs to be with a man that I really want. Not a man who puts in minimal effort because they’re too lazy to try. And mean…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/25 07:59 PM
12

Post commitment sex is way too coveted by some men. They don’t know that it doesn’t even guarantee loyalty in the long run. Like you said, potentially higher hypergamous urge later on.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/25 07:49 PM
-1

Here’s the thing. Your city’s demographics don’t help with your recovery. We all know good and well where there’s resources, there’s opportunists. It’s nature. Not just a human condition. Focus on finding a connection in a different place with different demographics. However, if you still want to find something where you’re at, you need to be prepared to be burned to a certain extent, because it’s highly likely the women there are after money in the first place. Not all, but still a lot. Just pl…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/25 05:09 PM
1

By financial abuse I mean not allowing her to have money of her own. He controls the finances and holds it over her head as a threat. “You haven’t earned this” or “You don’t deserve it”, or “ I’m pissed off at you today, you’re not getting the money for gas to see your family.” That sort of situation. And I expect to find men my age attractive as I get older. I don’t expect to be with a man more than 5 years older at any time. I consider a man around the same age as me as an equal peer, which ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:38 AM
1

I disagree with the sex part. I’m still a virgin. Sex will be important to me for a long time because I have waited so long. I want to be physically stimulated by a man I find desirable, and him by me. And unfortunately, older men 35+ don’t fit the bill. I want to carefully choose what I want, and this is not a regret that I want to have in my life, especially when I get older and look back on my choices. Don’t believe that women care about sex lesser and lesser as we age. We do care. A lot. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:33 AM
1

As a 27F, I’m curious. Is the likelihood of you settling down with someone in their 30s still low despite your minimal success with women in their 20s? Do you think your luck with these women will get better in your 40s?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:59 PM
3

That’s interesting. Consider me informed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:56 PM
2

If we’re capable as a species to create civilization, then it’s natural. And who decides to cut off electricity tomorrow? It’s neither you nor I. I doubt whoever is in real power would want to cut off anything just to see women barefoot and pregnant. None of us here have any say in the matter. We only wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:52 PM
1

Nature sucks because we’re all at its mercy. Nothing is an exception. It will always have the final say, no matter what we do. The notion that we have any power over nature is laughable, and we learn our lesson time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:50 PM
2

Well, in nature the males are the most colorful ones and they’re the ones who attract. In humans, it’s somehow backwards because women are the colorful ones. Men should start wearing colorful makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:38 AM
0

I mean she does have to be partially open to his advances, lukewarm at least. Indifferent but going with the flow. No weird sparkly whatever needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:26 AM
-1

Is it really a scam if it’s natural? Men want sexual access, women are sexually selective. Most men won’t have sex or reproduce in their lifetime despite their efforts. It’s true for almost all species, save for single celled organisms and others I can’t think of at the top of my head. Men aren’t the default decision maker since they’re not the sexually selective ones. It’s the women who determine which genes to pass on to their offspring. And they will do so regardless of societal conditioning …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:19 AM
1

Is what I described a romance teen novel? I don’t really read those.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:12 AM
-2

It is the default in the natural world. The males are the most colorful, bigger, and stand out more because they are the ones who attract and put effort in mating. It isn’t natural for females to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:58 AM
-2

He won’t do it in a stalkerish way. He’ll most likely be subtle and gradually increase his presence in her life in a way that’ll feel organic to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:55 AM
10

That’s the issue. We have tons of men breaking up, separating, and/or divorcing 10, 20, 30 years or more into the relationship, and they “don’t know” what went wrong. I say this with great care and consideration. They went after women that were at best lukewarm to their advances. This is one of the biggest mistakes anyone can make romantically, man or woman. In order for a relationship to flourish, you would need 2 people who are equally attracted to each other. If one lacks attraction, it would…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:10 AM
3

No, of course not. All they’re doing is trying to prove (and they successfully did) that despite their perceived shortcomings, they would make great partners. Women do this as well, but not nearly as often as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:54 AM
5

In most cases, the man probably didn’t give up and went after her until she caved. I mean, the phrase “he grew on me” wouldn’t make any sense otherwise. I would guarantee 9 times out of 10 that if the guy didn’t pursue, she wouldn’t have seen him as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:25 AM
4

I would go further to say people who were in prior relationships have reduced desire to be in new ones, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 10:23 PM
5

If I remember correctly, he’s married to an older woman. Edit: I checked and he’s divorced. He spouts that men his age can attract 20 year olds. But I think he pays escorts to interact with him. Edit 2: He’s been burned by his type. Both single moms I believe. It just makes me think that the women these redpillers demonize are just women they want but can’t attract, or they’ve had their hearts broken by them.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 03:36 AM
3

I would leave. You said yourself he won’t be ready until he’s in his early 40s. You don’t have that kind of time. Your childbearing years would be wasted. You may also have to deal with the possibility that by the time he can support a family, he would want a younger woman to have a family with. In this instance, you would be the come up girlfriend. You would work hard to support the both of you, but when he’s at the finish line, he’ll choose someone else and leave you. It’s happened before. The…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/25 02:52 AM
2

Don’t diminish yourself to attract a man. A high value man will see your value whether you have a high paying job or not. And please don’t be desperate. Low value men can smell it from miles away.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/25 01:04 AM
4

There is no reframing this. You’re in a situation where you know you’re going to be disappointed. You will regret this in the long run. Is this what you really want?
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/25 06:48 PM
1

More nuance. The desire to be wanted by the people they desire motivates them to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:05 PM
1

A lie is a lie. A dealbreaker is a dealbreaker. No matter how trivial.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:17 PM
8

I’m in my 20s. I would not go for a man in his 30s that looks way older than his age. Heck, men here have similar standards for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:23 AM
1

You have an actual chance for a relationship then. She may want to start a family soon, if she truly knows what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 10:15 PM
10

That’s not a huge age gap. The guy above me was talking 20 and 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:50 PM
5

As long as they know your true age, it shouldn’t be a problem. There’s too many people willing to lie to get dates or relationships. Age, height, weight, all exaggerated. I mean what do they think will happen? That the person on the other side of the screen is going to accept them because they now see who they really are? Nope. This is not a Disney movie or a romance novel. People are not what we portray them to be in entertainment. They will be rebuffed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:04 PM
7

I think grad school was a point of contention with him. Men like him don’t like it when women go on to have a higher education, especially if it makes her surpass him. He was wary of your potential because it meant that you likely would search for a better man when you were finished with grad school. You’re in control of your own personal growth. There’s online master’s degree programs that are available. It depends on what your major is. You still can look into it. Don’t let him work you up lik…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/25 06:51 PM
8

It was just an inquiry and he answered willingly. Why does it matter that I asked a simple question?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:18 PM
10

Do you get similar interest back? I find that unless men look naturally youthful in their 30s, or they manage to get surgery to look better, young women won’t look at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:36 PM
0

My take is that they’re doing it on purpose to avoid men they don’t want. It’s a common rejection tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:34 PM
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Good luck to him. Even conservative women don’t want conservative men nowadays. He only repels. Too extreme, too unpleasant, too controlling, too everything negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:30 PM
3

Wow. I’m glad you’re no longer enduring that.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/25 06:30 AM
5

What trips me up is that they know that espousing these ideas are extremely undesirable to women. And they know that lying about who they are majorly backfires sooner or later. They don’t want to be honest because women will reject them, which just reveals that contrary to what RP says, men do benefit from being in relationships with women. MUCH more. So much so that they’re willing to lie and keep secrets. That or they’re just that desperate for sex. But either way… What’s up with your ex now? …
/r/ExRedPill04/06/25 02:01 AM
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He’s single for a reason. He probably doesn’t want to admit he screwed things up badly either. He likely won’t find a woman like you for a long time even if he changes. The dating scene is unforgiving nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:10 PM
1

Did you hear anything through the grapevine about what happened to him later on?
/r/ExRedPill03/06/25 10:57 PM
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Hey, I saw your post on your ex. Is he still trying to contact you? I hope he learned his lesson and behaves differently in future relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:42 PM
12

I saw plenty of posts on here, X, and YouTube of men still in RP explicitly saying that they keep their beliefs to themselves because they know it repels women. Deception at its finest.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/25 10:25 PM
3

27F. This is one of those topics that stab me right where it hurts. I’m right here with you, and I know I’m uglier than you. I’m struggling with losing weight because I stress eat. The worst part is, even if I get down to an acceptable weight, I’m still going to be unremarkable because women of Asian descent aren’t considered conventionally attractive. It is what it is. I haven’t completely ruled out plastic surgery, but I need to do more research on it. I’m still a virgin, but I really resonate…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/25 05:51 PM
2

You’re not wrong on your definition of what a caring partner is. And wow. He lives overseas and gets rejected and ghosted constantly? And still holds steadfast to redpill? He’s in a much worse place than I originally thought he was. He’s literally just coping and spiraling at the same time. His fear of being alone is likely what’s causing all this. He’s vulnerable. Did you tell him that he didn’t need a woman and that you’d be by his side no matter what? That might assuage his fear and make him …
/r/ExRedPill22/05/25 11:11 AM
4

I just realized that you said your friend was 50 years old. He’s definitely struggling for sure at his age. Only knowing him through your description, I can’t help but feel that he’s aware of his age, and he’s facing the very real possibility of being alone for the rest of his life. The things that you’ve listed him doing is just him lashing out…and crashing out. You’re a great friend. I think that finding a way to not enable his behavior without leaving him alone might be the next best thing. B…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/25 10:18 AM
9

I was never a redpiller, but I understand the gist of what they’re about, so I’ll say this: Redpillers like your friend can’t be convinced by other people to let go of their thinking unless they want to let go of it themselves. The cycle of negativity is brutal in redpill spaces. They constantly cherrypick women and certain circumstances to affirm that their ideology is infallible, and when things don’t work out like they thought it would, they’ll blame others instead of themselves. I firmly bel…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/25 08:23 AM
1

Why would she? It won’t help her situation. And he will resent her for telling him. It’s a can of worms. There are some things you just don’t tell people, especially if they’re your partner.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/25 09:15 PM
2

Getting a job that doesn’t stress you out is the best move. I know that redpill emphasizes that men should be the provider, but realistically it can be difficult, and it is for a lot of men. Not to mention everything costs more now, depending on where you live and what you need. To be completely honest, most people, not just men, won’t be able to be the sole provider in their lifetime without sacrificing their health and their happiness. You can start working part time or per diem shifts. Some j…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/25 07:32 PM
8

I think you need to reevaluate what your relationship means to you. There’s nothing wrong wanting a certain lifestyle, but I think if you value money and status over emotional connection, then this likely isn’t the right person for you. If you genuinely can’t see yourself with this guy, tell him the truth. You will save your time and his. And lastly, you should probably fund at least part of your lifestyle by yourself. It’s not like we’re in the past where women were shunned out of most professi…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/25 07:14 PM
0

I didn’t want to, but digressed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 11:29 PM
5

Men hunted for sure, and brought in sufficient nourishment to prepare for winter. But realistically, not all hunts were successful, and men were injured frequently. No one would be foolish enough to rely on one food source only from the men. This is where I disagree with you. Women did gather food. They were essentially supplementing their diet with grains, vegetables, fruits, nuts, and they did hunt for smaller game as well as fish. When it came to basic survival, everyone had to be capable of …
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 10:43 PM
6

But they did both work. I think people have a big problem with time away from family than they do having a job. I’m not a fan of equating the two.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 10:38 PM
4

Oh I was talking about way back, like the Industrial Revolution and medieval times. I agree that in the early 1900s, women in cities had jobs before they were married.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 10:36 PM
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Historically, only women of high status got to stay at home and look after the children. Most women actually worked as much as the men did, and they shared parental duties. The concept of the all-American nuclear family wasn’t introduced until the 1950s, where the wife stayed at home and husband worked. It was heavily propagandized by the government. It was an abnormal time where ordinary common citizens had the chance to lead privileged lives. It was never going to stay that way forever.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 04:22 PM
1

I’ve never been asked about body count and never told them. After all, why say anything when no one’s asked? But reading how men view body count has been jarring for me and it just makes me think that if I did tell them, they would not believe me because the default assumption for them is that “all women are sl*ts for Chad.” As if it’s easy for me to find him. And yes, the opinions of men I don’t want to date does bother me because I don’t seek them out, they’re the ones who seek me out. I activ…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/25 06:11 PM
1

To be honest, with the way they’re portraying themselves, I’d rather start racking up a body count than potentially being with them, because as they are right now, they are a net negative emotionally and offer no pleasure. More advice would be great.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/25 04:59 PM
1

I understand. I should let you know that I’ve never had sex before. This body count thing is frustrating for me because most men in this group would not believe me and just assume I’m lying when I’m not. To me it’s not insulting, but a huge turn off. Virgins can have issues too. I’m tired of seeing so many men in this circle say that just because we’ve never had sex with lots of men that we are intact goods.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/25 04:44 PM
1

I’m increasingly of the opinion that most of the men who do care about body count are the men women explicitly avoid.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/25 10:07 AM
1

Since these types of men can get women anytime they want, I don’t think they’re desperate to sleep with every woman. Only men with no options are desperate enough to sleep with any woman they come across. I also think that sex doesn’t matter as much to the average woman, as they’re not wired to want it as much as the average man.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/25 04:16 PM
8

I agree with you. They can’t be promiscuous for free. They need to pay to be promiscuous. I’ll amend my statement.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 09:34 PM
7

We can only see what they show us, and our perception is molded by what we can see. We don’t know what happens once the cameras are off. 50/50 probability, and even then, it’s what we choose to believe, and it’s whatever fits our own narratives.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 08:53 PM
5

I guess it’s just a bunch of disgruntled people who aren’t chosen to have sex with that say these things then.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 08:48 PM
0

I would say that men want to be promiscuous but can’t. (Edit: At least not for free.)They say this all the time too.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 08:46 PM
10

He wants you desperate and he doesn’t ever want you to leave. That’s it. I really think that this concept of women expiring at 30 was created just to keep women desperate and settle for physically and emotionally undesirable men we otherwise wouldn’t consider.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 04:42 PM
1

For me personally, I think that if I don’t orgasm with a man, I wouldn’t be able to pair-bond at all. We’ve talked about having orgasm after orgasm all the time with a lot of men and how it inhibits pair-bonding, but having the opposite happen won’t make us pair-bond either. In other words, not having orgasms won’t compel or motivate me to bond with a man, especially in my youth.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/25 11:09 PM
4

It’s simply not working for you. This is redpill we’re talking about. Men like your husband think that household chores are for the women and that the men are the sole decision maker because they financially provide. I think that you have some serious doubts about this arrangement. If he’s unwilling to budge, it would be extremely difficult for you because you’ll have to give up everything to accommodate him and his needs. Also, I have to point out, he is not a traditional man if he lets you go …
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/25 10:00 PM
9

People like what they like. Trying to change a person’s preferences isn’t going to work. The most anyone will get is pity and half hearted effort.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/25 01:38 AM
15

The only black pill idea I agree with is that no one can negotiate attraction. You’re either attracted to someone or you’re not. This is supplemented by what they do or say, with looks considered in the mix. If something comes out of your mouth that’s indicative of anything desperate or negative within the first 5 minutes of anyone meeting you, or you do something that throws them off, your chances of going the distance will drop to zero.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/25 01:24 AM
2

I noticed your profile picture. He’s delusional if he thinks he can do better. He wanted to diminish your self worth to feel better about himself. I don’t think any woman is gullible enough to be with him for the long haul. This type of man won’t keep anyone for long, let alone a girl who’s still determining what she wants in life. If you want my monopoly 2 cents, stay away from dating for a while. Find some hobbies, and do the things that you’ve always wanted to do. The majority of men that are…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/25 05:28 PM
7

They don’t understand this. I’m a virgin for my own sanity and lack of agreeable men. I want to fuck like a b*tch in heat. They say they want women like me, but their attitudes are driving us away. They aren’t doing anything that makes me feel inclined to fuck them. They’re doing the opposite.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/25 10:45 PM
4

Women need to be physically attractive in order to be loved unconditionally. So do men. Life doesn’t favor one over the other. You only think it does because of your personal feelings.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/25 10:00 PM
1

I think some men regret ruining their relationships over redpill. Did he ever contact you again after the breakup?
/r/ExRedPill13/04/25 09:54 PM
1

You know you’re welcome here to give your perspective. No need to be so coy. You are one of the successful redpill men after all.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 08:55 PM
0

At present, I don’t have feelings that sway my judgement. I am aware that you referenced rich tech moguls. The problem is, normal men do find younger women more attractive. It is one of the main points. The average man might not be able to snag a young woman, but they’d still view women their age as leftovers.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 07:46 PM
1

I would say that it’s on a man’s personal inclination on whether to make use of his time to peak. On the contrary, women do not have this ability. It’s what makes men unique in this regard. I’m not arguing, I’m really enjoying the parlance. I’m sorry if I came across as disagreeable, I’ll be more tactful in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 07:39 PM
1

Are they inclined to make use of their time? The implication being that they have more time to waste than women, and most of them definitely do to their detriment, arguably putting them in a position no better.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 07:28 PM
1

As I said, I agree that men are in a better position, but do most of them make use of it in practice? My take is, theoretical debates are cope, practice is the only thing that matters in the end. Men between the ages of 18 and 40 are lonelier and sexless than ever before. If what you said in theory actually works for most men in practice, comment sections that pose genuine questions like this won’t exist, and the redpill men and women would all be in fulfilling relationships, not giving a care t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 07:19 PM
2

I’m the same way.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 07:11 PM
3

lol
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 05:50 PM
2

The men at your age preference would be looking to date younger. We can afford to be more selective in our 20s. Our options do dwindle in our 30s, that’s why we’re more willing to date men 10, 15 years older than us. I’m going to have to date this way if I’m still single in a few years. Like you said in one of your posts, men have 20 years to lock down a 22 year old model, and I’m assuming men in their late 30s and early 40s fall into that category?
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 05:45 PM
1

I’m glad you made it! I hope you can find a woman that wants to spend the rest of her life with you, if that’s what you want.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 05:41 PM
12

Most men won’t give their wives credit. They take them for granted. You have a great husband, that’s for sure!
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 05:28 PM
3

I agree that 40 year old women can’t change their situation much, and that 40 year old men can turn things around pretty easily if he wanted to. But the thing is, most of them simply won’t. It gets harder for people to change themselves as they get older. Old habits die hard. I do believe that most men won’t change easily, and they need to have lots of proper motivation to do it. If a man did not do anything to help himself in his 20s and 30s, chances are, he’ll stay where he is. Potential only …
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 05:26 PM
3

This observation is overlooked most of the time. Attraction does matter. It’s what gets people in the door regardless of gender. Like you said, if women only cared about finances and personality, there would be no men without company. The same thing obviously goes for women. Even if we are traditional, feminine, and friendly, if we lack physical attractiveness, no men of quality would look twice at us.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 05:15 PM
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Women in their 20s typically don’t pair up with men much older than them. There is an age gap, but it’s only by a few years. Women in their 30s are a different story.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 11:39 AM
3

I have to agree with this. Plenty of men start families in their 40s. Once they hit 50, the likelihood of that happening drops dramatically.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 11:20 AM
1

I see. I do agree that whether if it’s men or women, it would be nice to have someone to share their life with.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 11:10 AM
1

I don’t think you want to put down women. I’m sorry if I sounded that way. I do have an inquiry though. How many old women actually want to be partnered up again? The reason why I ask is because they seem to want to be alone, rather than being unable to get a partner.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 10:50 AM
1

I see your point. The question I have now is are older women really at a disadvantage, or do they just not want to be in a relationship? The men may look like they have an advantage, but it might just be because they’re more willing to be in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 10:48 AM
10

In theory, it checks out. In practice, not so much. I’ve been in and around the dating subs and I often see young women my age and younger complain with derision and disgust about how men 20+ years older than them are trying to get into their pants. Out there in real life, I don’t see any old men getting any attention from women. They’re either alone or with their families. I live in a big tourist city, for context. We can all use acronyms like “SMV/SMP” and phrases like “reversal of power” in m…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 08:19 AM
1

Thank you for your input! No one is a monolith. And no ideology is one dimensional.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 06:58 AM
15

In my opinion, it’s the same age range as us for most men. I think the idea that there’s no wall for men, that “women age like milk, men age like wine”, was created for the redpill men who had little to nothing going for them in their youth to make them feel better about their situation now that they’re in their 30s and beyond. Generally, men are creatures of habit, and they don’t change easily, especially as they age. Not like women. (We switch up like we switch clothes) If they didn’t set them…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 06:38 AM
1

How is your mom doing? Why do I feel like your dad is only posturing and that she can put him in his place lol?
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/25 08:21 PM
10

I noticed that too. Ugly women simply aren’t worth catering to in men’s eyes. We always hear of men complaining about 304s. They’re not fooling anyone. Why focus on a group you dislike so much? Is it really because they’re promiscuous? Or is it because the women are hot and they won’t ever have access to them, and they know it and hate it?
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/25 10:48 PM
9

It’s definitely possible. I used to read lots of romance novels, and I was aware that they could spoil me for real men. I knew I was not (and still not) in any shape or form ready to be in any relationship, so I indulged in the fantasy since I never considered dating anyways. I’ve cooled off since then, but I still enjoy the genre. It’s important to distinguish reality from fiction. Otherwise, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment, and your partner for misery.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/25 11:28 PM
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You can start by making a list of pros and cons for both staying and leaving. You already listed out some of the cons of being with him. Unintentionally getting pregnant is really tough. At least he does help out. The problem is, are you willing to put up with him for the next few decades? It sounds like you’re still relatively young. You can definitely start over somewhere else if you want to, but dating is a different story. Single moms have a notoriously difficult time on the dating market.(M…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/25 04:19 AM
1

Simply put, I really do believe that women naturally don’t like most men. We’re supposed to be sexually selective because we’re the ones who bear the physical and mental toll of having children. Every mother wants to be safe and secure and they also want their children to have the best genetics. Unless a woman is childfree, It’s literally their responsibility to make sure their kids have the best chances health wise and social wise. Men on the other hand, are not sexually selective at all. Most …
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 03:31 AM
5

“Thrive and grow” is the best thing that a man can help anyone do. I’ll expand on what you said: The issue with TRP is largely wounded egos. Whenever a man has a wounded ego, he’ll resent anyone around him that is in a better place than him, and even more so, a woman that is out of his reach socially and economically. Because of his wounded ego, he’ll do anything to bring people down to his level so they’ll be miserable with him. He won’t want anyone to “thrive and grow” out of fear of being lef…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/25 11:08 PM
4

If her ex has a sense of urgency to get married to her, it’s probably because his type doesn’t want him back. She already said that she was a placeholder for him. If he comes back, then it means he’s settling. I don’t think it’s a good idea for her to go back to him. He’s not genuine, and the effort he’ll make will be half-hearted at best.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/25 05:42 PM
2

“…it was a good relationship, I rarely made a fuss.” What did he do to make it a good relationship? In my mind, if there’s no problems or concerns, I’m not making a fuss. But men like your boyfriend seem to take it as a pass to do whatever he wants. I think it would serve you to be upfront about what you want. It would be best if you don’t compromise on what you want, and keep it moving. It doesn’t matter if he’s rich, handsome, or really kind. If he doesn’t want to marry, there’s nothing effect…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/25 05:35 PM
2

For me, I need to lose a lot of fat to be average. Even then, I probably won’t be seen lol. 304s naturally get all the attention, positive and negative.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/25 02:16 AM
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I’m sorry, I did phrase it poorly. It makes sense to me in my own head. I should have elaborated more. You are correct that critical thinking skills are the hallmark of a leader. It’s how you learn and what you do with the information you’re given. Therein lies the problem. Most men who do listen to redpill gurus often repeat the same rhetoric over and over again. Copy and paste. They just assume if they go around insulting promiscuous 30 year old women and do exactly what the gurus say, they’ll…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/25 02:13 AM
7

If you have to learn from someone else, it means that you’re a natural follower and being an alpha is not natural for you. Just like women have to learn to curb her natural hypergamous tendencies. It’s not natural for her to only have one man in her life, as it goes against her survival instincts. Obviously, betas far outnumber alphas. No hierarchy has more leaders than followers.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 10:08 PM
6

Yeah. Most of them can’t have access to any woman, let alone pretty ones because of their looks and behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 06:04 PM
3

Out of curiosity, are you able to gain a few points naturally?
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 05:59 PM
10

I feel similarly and I’m 27. If I ever run into a redpill guy, I’m giving him a wide berth. I don’t care if all I get are simps for the rest of my life lol.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 05:49 PM
2

Makes sense. Less risk that way. I have to say though, there have been many instances in the past where the losing side’s women willing went with the victor just to survive. And nowadays, choosing the winner before the battle’s begun just means that they pick money and power from the get-go. It may be the finish line for a man, but it’s the starting line for a woman. Increased economic stability, greater chance of survival if anything wayward happens, all that jazz. And she doesn’t have to sacri…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 07:31 PM
7

I noticed that TRP doesn’t want to acknowledge this. They like to think any woman on the street has more options than they do, but in reality they don’t.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 06:14 PM
2

I didn’t say that it didn’t suck for men. It absolutely did. In times of conflict, the losing side always witnessed their families and loved ones killed or taken by the winners. I have to say though, very little has changed except that conflict has evolved with the times, and women are now the ones voluntarily choosing the winners before the battle has begun.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 06:05 PM
2

Even though I agree that the women can never give her bodies back, I do think they have more of a chance than men to bounce back because she still decides who to sleep with in the end, and men usually go where they’re wanted since being sexless is not favored in any sort of relationship dynamic. It seems to be acknowledged that most of TRP won’t be successful with women in the long run, but at least they know the truth about women’s behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 05:46 PM
2

Historically, it was only the upper class women that required marriage for sex. The women from the lower classes were far from protected. Getting sex from them was easy because no one valued peasants back then, especially the girls. This was all over the world. Ancient China, Egypt, Rome, etc…A peasant girl’s virginity was worth nothing in comparison to the virginity of a noble woman.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 01:51 PM
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Of course the top 10% focus on the 304s. I’m talking about the 90% that complain about the 304s. There’s a lot of women who are not dating because they’re afraid they’re not good enough for the 90% of men.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 01:47 PM
1

So in the end, 99% of TRP won’t be attractive or successful with women?
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 01:42 PM
1

It depends on who men wanted sex from. If they were aiming for upper class, then yes. But the lower classes were definitely more accessible, especially peasant girls. There were many accounts of peasant girls who performed sexual favors.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 01:37 PM
5

I really think you guys should ignore the 304s and focus on other women. There’s too much focus on them as it is, and there seems to be little talk of the available women who are actually able to be in healthy relationships. I think there’s quite a few women who are single and miserable because the eligible men are only focusing their attention and frustration at the 304s.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 01:31 PM
6

From the way you put things, redpill men and redpill women repel each other because their motives are much more different now.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 12:17 PM
9

Kindness is definitely in short supply nowadays. People are all up in arms and none of them are willing to give an inch. Are you saying the men in TRP are broken like the “304s” they like to bash on so much?
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 11:10 AM
6

I agree. And because we’re hypergamous by nature, we’re not supposed to like most men in general anyways.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 08:23 AM
5

lol. (but why is that kind of true though?)
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 04:51 AM
1

Rich men have a lot of options, single or married. And I don’t believe in trying to change a man’s mind about loyalty or commitment. Heck, it’s the same with women. If someone wants to be loyal, they will. If someone doesn’t, they simply won’t, or in most cases, they make false promises to get you off their backs.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 03:19 AM
11

Oh my god. I’m so dumb. How did I miss that?
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 03:06 AM
4

Nesting mode is not even in my repetoire. I’m in depression mode trying to get to motivation mode when I should be in survival mode by default.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 01:52 AM
1

He’s not a high value man. It’s impossible to adhere to redpill values if your man is not high value. He’s not worth your time. You have kids, so leaving is not smart right now, but I suggest getting all your ducks in a row and plan an eventual exit strategy.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 09:04 AM
4

If he was really a remarkable man I wouldn’t mind at all, as long as I’m provided for. If he was a regular guy, no.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 08:55 AM
1

I’m a woman who has seen other women interpret the redpill in a way that does not seem to help men in the long run. And I have to agree with them. Why would women keep any man if their youth is finite and they’re considered worthless when they’re older? Shouldn’t the young women just focus on themselves in the first place if they don’t even matter to the men 20 years later?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/25 12:24 PM
1

Obviously not every woman is the same. But it’s a hell of an effort to find them nonetheless. Anyone who’s been in this sub and others can attest to that. And it’s not a problem, it’s an observation. The only thing this idea will teach the women that you’re targeting is to look at men as a resource on a timer, and once time is up they’ll just leave.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/25 11:35 AM
1

You know damn well most of them can, but WON’T. They’ll just get as much as they can, then dip.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/25 11:11 AM
1

But because youth is so important to men, young women know this and they can take advantage of it.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/25 10:27 AM
1

Based on this logic, women shouldn’t settle down when they’re young. If women are that valuable, she could easily get money in her youth, be fiscally responsible, and not bother with any of the dating/relationship stuff later on. She could just have flings. Since women aged over 35 are considered past the wall and only good for the bedroom, this works out. And if she has children, she won’t be alone in her old age.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/25 12:12 AM
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You are in a redpill discussion thread. The women here are no strangers to being critiqued. The same thing goes for men who want women that look a certain way. Are they going to overlook a woman just because they don’t have a big chest? Or because they’re not slim? Bottom line is, anybody can have preferences, but there are always compromises to take into consideration.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/24 03:05 PM
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