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" Unlike fish women acfually want to be caught" My point was that fish don't know the method but, debatable. Women want to be "caught" by men who have their crap together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:09 PM
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People go to the woods to hike. Also, two words: per capita.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:05 PM
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It was women not choosing the rational answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:30 PM
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There's more to it than that. Because, women will say "I don't want to have to tell you everything". The rest of it is the historic sexual assymetry from women having reproductive vulnerability and men having more testosterone. That combined with a moral framework that shows you how to be a good person and respect people's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:29 PM
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Are you going to tell me that "don't ask a fish how to catch a fish" isn't an accurate analogy and that women are informed and rational, when many women "bear" in the viral internet trend?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:23 PM
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That's called intrasexual competition/mate supression. That's what I think blackpillers are (especially the handsome ones). Either that or they are stupid, or have trauma or mental health issues or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:11 PM
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Yes, it would tell you what bait it claims to like (revealed preference), but women say nice guys are manipulative. It would not tell you the method needed to catch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:09 PM
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"Show interest. Notice what she likes. Ask and communicate." So, that is the universal key?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:05 PM
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There's a difference between rigid 50/50 (transactionality) and generalised reciprocity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:52 PM
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Reframing a woman's autonomy as me n doing something to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:15 PM
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Your bad advice which ignores the gendered sexual strategies doesn't help the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:33 PM
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You are married and you don't realize we're in a situationship/friendzone epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:21 PM
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Hot take: If someone cold approaches, you don't owe them a response and you can just away and should carry pepper spray for self-defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:19 PM
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Psyop by Chad supremacist/Reproductive suppresion/Intrasexual competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:15 PM
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You give advice as if there's no differences between the genders, even though there are differences between the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:30 PM
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That's funny. Probably has happened atleast once. Besides the point, but there is a chance of getting pregnant by precum is something I learned on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:17 PM
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I agree with you, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:12 PM
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Are we redefining terms now? Passive refers to not initiating a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:05 PM
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That's not how you select. You are not selecting the most confident men. Plus, a man can act any way once he knows a woman is interested in him romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:02 PM
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What is the story behind your flair?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:56 PM
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Your advice is telling women to make theirselves uncomfortable or to actively select for the most attractive men ("Chads"). Without a man making the woman feel safe or letting her know he's serious, there isn't many other ways this could go imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:55 PM
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Wow, it's as if power trump's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:45 PM
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Lying by omission? We don't live in a high-context culture, unfortunately. And women are equally accountable for a going along with a man who hasn't committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:35 AM
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No. But, I recommend a woman not to have sex with a man before marriage and to have clear boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:21 AM
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Redditor argues that a long-term heterosexual relationship doesn't provide stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:43 AM
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You shifted the goalposts. " For the longest time, women weren't allowed to communicate amongst one another"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:40 AM
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-_- I wasn't asking graphic detail, I was fact-checking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:34 PM
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"Because almost all men are reasonably attractive". Is this true?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:35 AM
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Basically, women tell men to open up about their political beliefs, but when do they see them as not people (or are pressured by society to see them that way).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:55 PM
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"How about we remove the requirement of marriage before sex, what's the worse that could happen?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:35 PM
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No, a better example would be about someone who thinks wreckless driving and dodgy cars should be legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:05 AM
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Does everybody know? Seems everyone wants to deny it. But, the nervous system doesn't lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:56 PM
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"Psychology shows that men have a dual mating strategy. In a long-term context, a man filters heavily for modesty because his primary risk is paternity uncertainty—he needs to know his long-term investment is secure. But in a casual, short-term context, that risk is zero because he isn't investing long-term resources. Therefore, his biology completely drops the modesty filter and flips to an efficiency filter. His brain starts scanning for high visual cues and overt signals because they imply a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:59 PM
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Can't turn a hoe into a housewife (she must be reformed)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:57 PM
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"Psychology shows that men have a dual mating strategy. In a long-term context, a man filters heavily for modesty because his primary risk is paternity uncertainty—he needs to know his long-term investment is secure. But in a casual, short-term context, that risk is zero because he isn't investing long-term resources. Therefore, his biology completely drops the modesty filter and flips to an efficiency filter. His brain starts scanning for high visual cues and overt signals because they imply a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:55 PM
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It does show more competence. But, outside work Is equal to housework, isn't it?. The thing is, people want men and women to do roles that are no longer easy because of the way socialisation and the economy are structured. But, I still think the man has the complete responsibility to provide, and the woman has the responsibility to obey her husband in righteousness, because of my religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:53 PM
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Why is that superior to paying for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:59 AM
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I can ask "why" and you may give me a good reason and convince me. But this post by OP is about different cleanliness standards, and I just gave an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:59 PM
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It was just an example. This sub shows me different people have different communication styles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:25 PM
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Yeah, but there's a difference between a 1mm layer of dust and a 5cm layer. Hence, different standards. Either way, the other person is not actively making it uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:28 PM
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Okay, there's not cleaning up after your own mess, and there's letting natural grime collect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:51 PM
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Yes, to some degree it is spending your energy on something that doesn't benefit you. If you look at our ancestral past, we wouldn't meet a new person without first considering them a threat. Now, it's the age of comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:49 AM
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A survey showed that women rate 80% of photos of men as below average. ( Whereas men would rate on a bell curve). If you include context like movements, voice tone and confidence/status , then it is a different filter. I read that such positive traits can even make a man appear more physically attractive to a woman. Do you agree? The theory is that women have two different reproduction strategies for what they are looking for, that drives their biological attraction. 1.) A provider and protector…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:20 PM
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Society would be good with normalised monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:23 PM
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"Most average people will be attracted to other average people on some level" Once other context is introduced, for women, right? This post is arguing that the strategy/actions women use makes them have superficial, unrealistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:21 PM
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Yes, in the past we were influenced by the tribe/village. People can only closely know about 200 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:15 PM
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"On our way there" is a fair characterisation. People on this sub like to throw around "most people are married or in a long-term relationship" without considering the courting health or isolation of the young generation. Like everything, the older generation share some of the blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:09 PM
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Only the government can force people. People have "harm principle" ethics, but society is crumbling and other people are forced to sustain it. Whether that is taking the blame, taking indoctrination, or subsidising it with tax and insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:17 PM
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I think the average man is aroused by the majority of women, so long as they are not too fat, too old or too skinny. Defnitely more than 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:33 PM
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Yeah, that's irrelevant. Women rate a small minority of men as attractive at first glance, because they have the very best genetics, and all other signifiers of what would make a good partner are absent. Basically, if they can't get a suitable looking provider, they will focus on the best genetics for their offspring (even if the woman is average looking). What you are describing are rationalised standards. It would be different if you said you weren't aroused by the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:06 PM
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That's pluralistic ignorance. If you don't uphold morals/standards, what do you expect to happen? They do not speak for me. I am under no illusion that power doesn't trump all in this world. Their lifestyle is so unsustainable that it requires outside investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:49 PM
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Guilt by association. Gender wars slop.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:38 PM
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I am responding to the "we would if we could date or hook up with 10s consistently" claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:33 PM
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You rate 90% of people as below average?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:57 AM
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Speak for yourself. I don't want a degenerate society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:53 AM
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I think you're overestimating the role of looks in female attraction. Women rate 80% of men as below average, when there is no other context (just photos).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:50 AM
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I'm all for being a decent human and treating people with respect, but not because it will get you what you want from people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:37 AM
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There's sex being a chore and then there's setting the conditions for it to not be a chore. And It raises the question if either partner is not willing to have the mindset or put in the effort to make it not a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:54 PM
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Because you are treating a show as a normal everyday thing men will do and think it's attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:37 PM
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He was trolling. People go on shows to be jerks all the time. Would there be the same reaction of protectiveness if it was another biological male?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:23 PM
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It is a method where you use mainly your looks to get selected with not much context. This is to say nothing of the self-selection of the type of relationship women on dating apps are looking for. "a lot of guys are OK making their personality extremely unappealing." Source needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:12 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:56 AM
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Men do have sexual power. We rightfully make it illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:55 AM
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The difference is, if he waits and society changes, then there will be more of the type of person he's looking for. The same cannot be said about breast size.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:48 PM
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"(incel slang) To use comedic antics or humor as a way to try to attract female attention." -Wikitionary
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:43 PM
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Fair. But, women are definitely more picky than they think they are. If you want to argue that women don't see people they're not attracted as "not people" as much as these men, consider that women have a lower threshold for disgust (proven by science). What is your opinion on the female delusion narrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:39 PM
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To be clear, my comment was only tangentially related to your post. A slim, attractive*, young woman is "the default" woman in men's minds (regarding relationships). Just as a desirable man would be to a woman. We spend most of our energy (including mental) on what is desirable. *This is a word that is weaponized/inflated, but it is not something novel and it is relative to the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:12 PM
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Default woman as in what men imagine. Ofcourse, it is relative to the man. Just because the reality has changed, doesn't mean we should change what is normal. I am not advocating for mass-ozempic btw. How are their standards not reasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:39 PM
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Dude, that is not what the parent comment said. Attractive is relative, and it's mostly to with health signals. People who call Margot Robbie mid and consider it a bad thing are delusional or being malicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:35 PM
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I live in a country with a similar obesity rate as America. But, despite that I would not call it normal. Still, that is the default woman with regards to a man looking for a relationships. I wasn't arguing statistics. Like how a non-psychopathic man is the default man for a woman looking for a relationship, even if psychopathic men were the majority. It's about idealisation, everything on top of that is rational (some may call it "coping").
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:33 PM
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She's just talking about jestermaxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:21 PM
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The academic (/s) term for it is "female delusion".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:19 PM
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Appropriately named user.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:11 PM
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That is the default woman (with regards to a man looking for a woman to have a relationship with). Although it has to be less narrow than modern beauty standards. Somewhere between the high-end of underweight and the low-end of overweight. A man has to have an abundance mindset. Although, if a man isn't in a position to demand those standards, he should evaluate his standards or sit tight (be patient). So, it's partly biological (biological imperative) and rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:10 PM
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I meant to a woman he wants a relationship with. Can a man learn from a woman and grow? Yes, but it's different principles. I'm referring to a man who's "that malleable and ready to absorb anything" and can't draw boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:59 PM
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A man who's very malleable and living in the woman's frame is not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:23 PM
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It's simple. Stimulate the clitoris and do foreplay, and your wife may feel the same satisfaction as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:22 PM
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I was just informing. But, some left-wing people are pedantic and want a source for everything. Like if you say that IQ has a genetic component or that people act on their self-interested incentives. Or they'll say things like "women are proportionally as strong as men".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:36 PM
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There are some right-wing content creators who use data and theory. For example, Mentiswave.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:07 PM
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Yes, I meant the recall. And you don't understand people with their unconscious and jumbled memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:59 AM
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If autism was a post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:40 AM
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You took a troll seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:24 AM
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Good. Maybe men paid alimony willingly when the economy and society was better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:56 PM
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I was talking about anything a women how anything a woman says about her ex having social repercussions, which disincentivises taking alimony or doing anything to upset your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:06 PM
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Okay, I'll make it simple. Women will accept alimony Men won't accept alimony because of incentives This affects women's conscious and unconscious risk analysis of writing or not writing a prenup This factors into a woman's opinion of a prenup's necessity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:07 PM
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I didn't say I know almost nothing about alimony. If a partner earns significantly less than their their spouse, they can get ongoing payments that the judge deems as fair. I don't know if lawyers can argue for it. It's not stupid. Is it acting against your worldly interest? Probably yes (although, if you're a man you have to consider social shame or if the woman is going to paint you further as the bad guy (believe all women)). I don't know if you saying "burn" free money is just a figure of sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:57 PM
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Mod, which country do you think I'm from that doesn't have alimony? I live in the United Kingdom. It is not stupid to turn down court allocated money. Laws do not make morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:08 PM
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A woman's prenup isn't going to be different than a man's. Despite the law on paper, a man is incentivised (by society, his conditioning and innate differences) to not take money from his wife after divorce. That's not mentioning morals. Your opinioncon prenups will be in the context of that reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:52 PM
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Bro, I'm 23 years old. (Also i didn't invent these laws that make prenups necessary.) What strong opinion did i say?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:37 PM
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A large wage difference is when alimony is applicable, I think. I'm saying your position, as woman, of the necessity of a prenup is going to be different than a man's, because of assumptions of men based on incentives. What would make a prenup necessary, in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:33 PM
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Sister, i will assume you are trying to be helpful not condescending. Thank you. I am allowed to have a basic take of "Prenups are relevant when their are assets or a wage difference". I was saying its different for a woman to talk about whether a prenup is necessary, because of assumptions based on incentives. A man typically will not request to take alimony from a woman's property law money. That would be good not stupid. If he took it, then he would be socially shamed and/or feel shame. My va…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:27 PM
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I'm not well-versed in the details of prenups. For the second point: No, I'm saying men will reject receiving alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:02 PM
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Anytime there's assets or a wage difference, a pre-nuptial agreement is relevant. It's different for a woman to say it, because it is not socially acceptable for a man to take alimony from his wife. (So, it's not usually not on the table, and it is disincentivised.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:52 PM
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Yeah, but I didn't include that, for brevity. That is true. But, before kids it's mostly by choice. By all means, have standards. But, things we do in life are choices we make. Some people make it into a narrative, as if that woman isn't choosing to be with that man and do the things he neglects.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:42 PM
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No. I just said it for the sake of honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:30 PM
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Okay, "not like" may be too narrow. It's an infatuation, not necessarily what they find the most aesthetically beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:14 AM
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Sorry, it's out of place. But, I made an assumption that saying such things is unpopular among your crowd (blue pill).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:11 AM
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Third worlders probably did. Otherwise, just extend it to great-grandmas or great-great-grandmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:08 AM
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haha The unstable people are a sign of an unstable world lowk. Revealed preferences are not the same as stated preferences. In other words, they don't know what they want XD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:06 AM
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Oh, you're talking about divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:44 AM
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Oh, nvm then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:04 PM
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I'm talking about those very long nails with strange patterns that just remind me of spiders. They are their own entities, to the degree that require their own care and maintenance. Besides, you disputed your point by saying "for fun" and "potentially a way of showing class".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:54 PM
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That's not what I said. This system discetivised men from committing, so now some people make up these impossible standards that they need if they were to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:36 PM
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They do emotional labour. But, that is largely what women feel they must do. Women say how men should increase their standards. And, it's normalised for men to be with crazy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:20 PM
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Women chose the bear. So, asking them is not necessarily about getting a rational response. They respond to masculine frame. People respond to power and boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:15 PM
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I think the responses show the difference between men and women. The responses from women interpret it as being about changing fundamental aspects of ther selves. Whereas, men would say "oh this hairstyle makes me look gay" or "talking and acting like this is not getting me results with women."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:10 PM
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Yes. Pointing out that such things reduces chances of being harassed is labeled as victim-blaming by some people, though. And then people resort to collectively blaming men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:06 PM
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So, there are things women can do to reduce their chances of being harassed. This is sanity, not victim-blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:57 PM
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That may be a Goomba fallacy. But, you should now that alimony (with no-fault dicorce), coupled with lack of shared morals and a bad economy (which is what forced women to be financially independent) is what disincentived male commitment, which is what led to the high price of it (these standards).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:50 PM
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Dual mating strategy. You are getting the wrong kind of attention. If it doesn't have investment of any kind, it is not valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:28 PM
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People say this and then when they change they say "you are supposed to accept me as I am". Can't we accept that we are not perfect and that relationships are transactional and growing experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:21 PM
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Is this a real person? Have you thought about marrying a high value man, what those advices were meant to be used on?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:16 PM
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Is this about me saying "you" for your gender? You can mean as an individualistic or group. You are not responsible for what your collective does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:56 PM
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My argument is that women don't necessarily like how big nails with weird patterns look on them. Some women just like having them as "things". That is my hot take. You can call a man who gets a gas-guzzling car that is impractical neurotic, if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:53 PM
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What(?) It's just an analogy. I think the lunch standard was created when the economy was better. In some countries, it is still cheaper to eat out than it is to eat in. You are the only one generalising.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:36 PM
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I think their is a convergence of what we consider beautiful, since we are all biological creatures. The cuteness of babies wouldn't be universal, otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:27 PM
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It was different in a culture where there was natural sexual polarity (people didn't really need to be told what is attractive to the other gender). But, some people don't understand the dual sexual strategy. And, some people just do the opposite of what will achieve their goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:23 PM
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I think some women just like "things". It's neuroticism ( I said the quiet part out loud).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:18 PM
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Why do women draw men with 8 packs or 7 foot tall wolves type take.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:13 PM
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You (your gender) reinforced the standard. It's like asking why do you always imagine a very desirable car with an interactive display, if that's not what you value from car manufacturers. Fundamentals are more important. If most women stopped wearing makeup, then most men would accept then without makeup, like their grandmas were. That is my take.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:11 PM
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This (the woman making more than the man) applies to ~20 of marriages and ~30% of recently-married young-adult women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:20 PM
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"The first two points + 4th piont are thrown out the window". No, they're not. Try raising kids and being financially successful as a single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:17 PM
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Society will generally not care about a man. It's a man's wife that will care for him and tell him to go see the doctor etc. We live in an individualistic society. Edit: Actually, this is a an oversimplification and a doompost. There are ways an isolated man can build a community.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:51 PM
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Would you say this phenomenon is beneficial for average men, because it reveals the hoes, so men can know who they are so they don't have to date them; or does it create hoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:43 PM
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Meh, I am against these groups, since it opens the door to slander. No, I'm not for atomized dating. We should normalise courting being serious/vetting and involving families early. That's my take.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:39 PM
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Why would you believe random people online? By all means be safe and use your perogative. Sometimes people make up lies because they are jealous, or as social engineering
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:28 PM
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If only we already had something to do that in the past. Maybe family and community.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:39 PM
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Such a views are short-sighted, since it is men who made the societal changes that led to where we are. From giving women the vote to divorce laws. Calls should be for men to take responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:10 PM
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Make sure you are getting your own livelyhood and fulfillment too. Some people have empathetic personality types. Just a friendly reminder, since some people spend so much time on other people*, and don't gain anything from it. *This can apply to both the bitter people who focus on other people, and the people who are trying to have a positive impact but they don't achieve that. You said you are having a positive impact, which is good. But, remember this proverb: "You can't pour from an empty cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:59 PM
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The red pill marriage sub literally says they don't endorse marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:49 PM
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Because women are more selective and have more to lose from sex, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:41 PM
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Sure, that is a modern phenomenon. Maybe it's only said online. I haven't personally heared anyone say it irl, but their's no need to get tired of ragebait.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:07 PM
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Fake youthful beauty. And those people who have surgeries to remove buccal fat ahead of their time confuse me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:59 PM
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Moving the goalposts. Do you have a problem with the traditional setup of a 30 year old marrying an 18-25 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:55 PM
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Eh, it depends where you look. They are called "scrotes" or "incels".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:57 PM
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I agree. And masculinity and femininity should be equally celebrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:35 PM
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Ah, so you were being facetious? Saying "do individual action to solve a societal issue", because you know it's not helpful? I'll tell you what can solved by individual action, Household food waste.​
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:26 PM
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Female maturity/feminity is celebrated in itself, male maturity/masculinity is celebrated when it is correctly channeled. That is how it is in our current society. It's kinda like that "They only see the results not what it took to get there" "Women wait at the finishing line" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:20 PM
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"Do it yourself" as a response to a structural "issue". I don't think this dude wants to be put on the register.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:15 PM
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Delete this, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:00 PM
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Bro pulled "extremely misogynistic" card Can't you accept that someone else views an agreement as exploitative? You would call someone an enabler who agrees to overfeeds an obese person. Casual sex reduces a woman's marriage prospects, so it's best not to legitimise that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:53 AM
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What? That's a lot of presunptions. But, are you just ragebaiting or do you think something i said was wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:21 PM
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Men are usually shamed for even wanting sex with their wife. Women are only usually shamed when they talk about their desires or strange fethishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:33 PM
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How about pictures that indicate purity, modesty and innocence; and pictures that show dominace over nature and bravado?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:26 PM
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Al of them promiscuous actions you listed are pathetic. No-one should be shamed for having a sex drive, but people shouldn't share it with everyone either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:24 PM
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That's fair that that's your opinion. It works differently in different cultures. But I believe men should be entirely responsible for providing and women play the biggest role in early childhood. I don't think you deny how it plays out in reality, with women doing most of the child-raising work even outside of the home. I am curious however about your usernname and if it's serious, or ironic or about your values regardless of the current whims of a party.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:15 PM
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I am paying attention to the subbreddit I'm in, but that doesn't mean that all women are supposed to against men and vice versa. I for one love women, but hate immoral women. As for advice, if you give a man sex with commitment, that is what he will expect. There is a reason why women used to guard their chastity. It is never too late to repent (I'm not judging, we are all sinners) and we muslims believe that whatever sins we did before becoming Muslim or repenting is af it never happened. May G…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:52 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men make the proposition, and women either accept or reject it (Edited). I'm not going to argue ethics with you, but premarital sex is part of what destroyed society. It's no wonder either, it's the pinnacle of high-time preferece behaviour. See the work of J.D Unwin. I'm not reading all that (yet). But, I thank you for taking the effort of replying to me and I will try to read it all and reply to you .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:28 AM
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It is interesting to see that you didn't even say who you were talking about, because we are we supposed to know from the onset which gender you are reffering to because tribalism is so intrenched. A sad state of affairs. We can only remedy this by seeing where we have come and knowing where we were harmonious and functional. I propose it was when we were obeying the one god that created us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:13 AM
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So, it also has nothing to do with women letting men have sex with them before they marry them, or women denying the father of their children seeing his children and badmouthing their father to his children? Or does it have anything to with women initiating most divorces? Boys are poorly raised by women (including at schools, where the majority of teachers are women) and it is the fault of men who say women have the biggest role in raising children, not the feminization of society (which was all…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:05 AM
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I was half-joking, but women were popular as factory workers because of their small hands and other merits of their gender. Or, it could be just because they could be paid less.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:13 AM
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If women aren't supposed to be good at cooking, how come they have tiny fingers? Edit: Half /s because of Poes law.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:49 AM
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Men are no longer providers because the economy is bad. And we are supposed to not "notice" that it is a "coincidence". They say it takes 3 generations for cultural trends to fully take hold. After the first generation are dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:48 AM
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Just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:07 PM
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He is probably going to remarry if you depart.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:12 PM
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As a man, eww. "Not in a rush to get married", That is not alpha behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:10 PM
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Perhaps they are insulted at the idea that women can be unattractive. Perhaps they don't like situations where women don't have the upper hand. Maybe it is any reason that makes their empathy elicit this response from them. I don't know, these are just guesses. I'm not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:57 PM
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Women are the ones who say "Where have all the good men gone?". Everyone deserves to be happy with a good partner, meaning that is what we want for them. Whether that happens is a different question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:57 PM
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I have traditional values, so I think both sex and being a provider should be for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:46 AM
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A sex worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:17 AM
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Spending lots of money should be for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:15 AM
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OP is yapping.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:12 AM
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What are people supposed to debate? I swear, people on the internet love arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:05 PM
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I looked at your comment history. My bad, it was your family friend. Your comment was open ended, so I brought that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:50 PM
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"Men bad, women good" as usual. Why do use online dating, when you said your sister had success by approaching someone irl? The most popular way to find your spouse is through acquaintances. It was the most common way before 2010, even though it's still more common to meet irl than online.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:15 PM
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This seems like a bait post, this is a common opinion. What is OPs opinion about MGTOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:32 PM
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Yeah, picking up socks is a simple thing people need to do. Maybe that doesn't count as nagging, unless you put a time pressure on it (it can wait a day imo).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:17 PM
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There are always imperfections. It's the 80/20 rule. Also if you look at male living spaces, men like things simple (generally), whereas women like a decorated house which is going to be harder to clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:13 PM
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Why are most people you know unttractive? (Half-serious question)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:17 PM
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Below average?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:15 PM
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Thinking about you're appearance every second of the day is going too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:13 PM
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If you are 162cm, then yeah will have a more select pool. But, I'm talking about 5'10" people saying they are 6'.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:24 PM
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I was just making a joke about how "becoming hot" is the solution you presented. That people should change their apperance with drastic things like surgery. It's the same as blackpill looksmaxxing. Everyone deserves someone with good character, that they are minimally attracted to. That does mean that they should have good character and take care of themselves too. I think men find most women attractive. And men are less strict on height standards. I don't think this post was about finding a "ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 08:04 PM
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Dating apps are very superficial. Most people misestimate their height, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:03 PM
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Islamically, you should find someone attractive enough to fulfill their desires and have a healthy relationship to marry them. Likewise, if you no longer find your spouse attractive and are no longer compatible, this may be grounds for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:01 PM
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"Just become hot, bro" I'm not saying people should date out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:41 PM
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Who says women should wear makeup and wear pink and feminine colours? Atleast people don't say it about men.
/r/EverydayMisandry31/07/25 11:34 PM
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"Casual sex is on the decline for both young men and women, according to a Rutgers University-New Brunswick study that found less alcohol consumption among both genders is a major reason while playing video games and living at home with parents are another—but only for men... between 2007 and 2017 the percentage of 18-to 23-year-old men who had casual sex in the past month dropped from 38 percent to 24 percent. The percentage dropped from 31 percent to 22 percent for young women of the same age.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:45 PM
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It's almost as if both are bad by their own merits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:52 PM
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Why are you competing with people on your salary?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:15 PM
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No win, no fee!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:09 PM
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No thank you, no good will come of it, only unmet expectations. 'Feminazis' already think "scrotes" they don't see worthy to be on the dating market shouldn't be on the dating market. This will lead to them complain even more lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:04 PM
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Next week, you'll be seeing men using anime filters /s On a real note, don't you find it as false advertising? People what want to be attracted to their partner without makeup or airbrush filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:53 PM
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Are you saying men should use filters, angles, makeup, photo editors? Get away with that fake stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:14 PM
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I have no problem with women saying no. I am against both forced marriage, and rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:35 PM
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Yes, because young women in the sex liberated society can just say no when they sexual expectations put on them and they are alone in a room with a man who is bigger and stronger. See, I too can criticise the dating system when I am judging the culture and not the merits of the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:01 PM
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That is true, but now standards (especially from FemaleDatingStrategy) are very high. Taking a woman to Paris to propose to her is seen as some goal or standard. People want gold-leaf coated food (okay, that was a tongue-in-cheek comment). A picnic in a park is not an acceptable first date. The standard was always "provider and protector" not an extravagant person who picks fights with a bigger person cos they called you a name. I know women standards on them aswell. edit: I know femaledatingstr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:18 PM
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Who said arranged marriage is forced marriage?Arranged marriage is when your families is when you are set up with the woman's family involved and you research the person and you talk for a while to see if you are compatible, and if you are compatible then you marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:08 PM
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How is banter romantic? edit: arranged marriage sounds easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:33 PM
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Maybe by chase they mean do the initiating of the conversation, setting up dates and buying them things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:30 PM
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In other words, "go outside"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 12:06 AM
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The "male femenist" narrative is working. Edit: The predators are probably Vaush or Destiny fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:51 PM
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"Trade wives" and "Bibble". Are these genuine typos, or else what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:55 AM
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TL;DR?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:52 AM
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Thats is true, yes. But, Isn't that a non-sequitor? Men have to work on themselves to make themselves worthy to get a woman. Meanwhile, (not all) women 'sleep around' and have their pick of the bunch. (Which I know you may not think is the best thing to do, since you are a red pill woman.) I know diamonds are made in the rough and good things come with struggle etc, but people are frustrated that there is no social contract anymore. Psychopaths get the most sex, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:26 PM
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Boink, go to jail. (If you do not get the meme, I'll explain it)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:59 PM
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Just wait until the women also become butterface (question mark). Actually, if the woman is still single by then, it may have been a problem with her personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:58 PM
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The difference between a misogynist and an incel is how many women find them attractive -a certain spoon
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:52 PM
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