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Not being a troll with this comment. Can you be happy without getting what you want out of life, without the things that, to you, make life worth living? If yes, then men can be happy being single. Also, women can be happy not not getting raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:57 AM
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I'm not trolling. Prove I am. Can you be happy without getting what you want out of life, without the things that, to you, make life worth living? If yes, then men can be happy being single. Also, women can be happy not not getting raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:53 AM
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Is being "happy" the standard? Here's what women believe: It doesn't matter how shitty your life is. You can be happy no matter what. So there's no reason to not have sex with people you aren't attracted to. Since women say people can be happy with a having life with the kinds of experiences that they want, then women can be happy with having sex with men they aren't attracted to. It's all "experiences I don't like," so it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:50 AM
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bro fucking what
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:44 AM
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Can you be happy without getting what you want out of life, without the things that, to you, make life worth living? If yes, then men can be happy being single. Also, women can be happy not not getting raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:40 AM
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personal attack, don't violate the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:34 AM
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It tells you that women mostly agree on the kind of man they want to date, but can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:33 AM
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The reason they say this is because you will find more success in dating if you focus on yourself. Do you mean focusing on what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:32 AM
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I guess it would be better to form it as “try your best and also try to find joy and fulfillment in your life as it is”. They're already doing that. The problem is that they want more. There’s no guarantee for anyone that they’ll meet someone special, we just have to live with it. No one has to live with it because they could kill themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:29 AM
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It tells you that these women all agree on the kind of man they want, but can't have. It tells you a fuck load about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:27 AM
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happy and complete human being I already am, but it isn't good enough. you will lose your neediness and desperation that are keeping you single. Oh, so if I don't have "neediness and desperation" I'll magically get a girlfriend? No? Then that isn't what is keeping me single. It isn't about being a "happy and complete human being," it's about getting what you want out of life. But, hey, if you're right then "happy and complete human being" is good enough for everyone, so the happily married won't…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:26 AM
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Services. Are you happy now?
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 09:13 AM
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You literally called women things everyone is a thing and argued in favor of underpaying prostitutes. Do you know how economics works? The price depends on the market. How is this not angry/ mean? It's just facts of life.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 09:13 AM
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Anything is "possible," so that doesn't matter
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 09:10 AM
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When women are free to arbitrarily choose a man to create a child with (in the purely biological sense), A LOT of women end up choosing the same men. It's pretty obvious, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:05 AM
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I find arguments like this unreasonable: If you can't find a partner, then just focus on other things in life and that will be good enough for you. A few reasons: Most people get A LOT of life satisfaction from their spouse and children, their family. For these people, going without those things is a MAJOR STEP DOWN in life satisfaction. Happily married people don't like to admit that their lives would be a lot worse if they were forced, for whatever reason, to live a life where they never met a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:00 AM
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There have been a few news stories about how sperm banks lie about "retiring" a man's sperm after it has been used to create X number of children, and then when these children grow up, they realize they have about 50+ half siblings. It really tells you about everything you need to know about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:47 AM
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Would you date a man with the dating profile you wrote?
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 03:42 AM
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Y’all could go with a fat and ugly 43 year old woman who will tolerate your problems That woman doesn't exist, because the fat and ugly 43 year old woman thinks she deserves a hot, rich husband, and after her past failed relationships, and children, she won't accept anything less. 2) You do everything you can on the internet to portray yourselves as angry and mean. Actually, no. I'm not at all, I'd make a great partner. Women don't understand what they're missing.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 03:40 AM
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Own up to it. Sure: I admit that I like to pay less money for the things I buy.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 03:37 AM
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Men won't stop working cause they still need to pay bills. Then they'll just suicide
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 11:36 PM
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they'll be forced to, slave labor
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 11:15 PM
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tl;dr?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:14 PM
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I wish people would be willing to pay $1,000/hr for my time too, but they don't. “yes, I’ll pay $1,000 to make sure you have ample pay and are treated well”. I wonder why. Because they aren't worth it.
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 11:13 PM
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Isn’t her fault he’s delusional and entitled. Usually, she could have made it more clear early on, but she didn't, because she liked the perks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:29 PM
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all kinds of things, and I don't feel like putting in the work to write more here, I'm busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:29 PM
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I don't have the source, but a study found that men were most attracted to women age 25, and women were most attracted to men who were a few years older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:23 PM
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She was good enough for him to “waste time” on before while he was pretending to be her friend. Not pretending, but had hoped it would develop into something more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:17 PM
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Having been in those scenes, I'd say the opposite is more true. These "alternative" women are "feminists," but are also some of the women who insist on traditional gender roles the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:16 PM
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Then pay $1,000 an hour for your prostitutes Why does it have to cost that much? Price depends on market forces. and don’t expect reimbursement if they push you off and say no. I'd imagine those issues would be figured out before agreeing to the exchange. Agree to be on a registry where you license yourself a a sex consumer. Why? It seems completely unnecessary.
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 09:12 PM
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I am like 5 degrees of separation from the factories where my phone was produced. That doesn't matter at all. A John is the exploiter and is directly participating in the exploitation. No, not necessarily. Legalization doesn’t mean most men will start using condoms or register themselves as sex consumers. Nor do those things need to happen.
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 09:07 PM
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She wouldn’t have sex if you weren’t paying her. It's a consensual exchange of money for goods and services. You’re paying her to do something she doesn’t want to do. That's literally how jobs work. So, not exploiting. because she is literally having a duck stuck into her private parts or mouth. So? Yes, technically it's different ... because they are different jobs, and different jobs have different things that are shitty about them. Get over it.
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 09:00 PM
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Precisely what he's doing, attempting to punish her. "If you don't give me what I want I'll take my ball and go home". No, it's not wasting time on someone who isn't worth it. He never treated her like a friend, he treated her like a pet whose love he could purchase. no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:50 PM
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There's also the - I think it was 20/20 - video from the 90s where a woman goes "under cover" to live as a man, and hates it.
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 08:10 PM
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That post was removed. What did you say?
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 07:57 PM
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The thing is, when a man does that after being in the friendzone, the woman usually accuses him of ending the friendship out of vengeance. In truth, he just treats her like a normal friend, but since she's so used to exploiting him, she hates not getting that any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:52 PM
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Wishful thinking It happens. and performing for her like a circus animal and buying gifts guarantees she will see him as a conniving, manipulative little shit instead of a trustworthy friend. "Treat women like shit" is terrible dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:44 PM
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You admit he's the prime mover "Prime mover" doesn't mean anything. attempting to manipulative romantic or sexual obligation Trying to be attractive isn't a bad thing. There is no "sexual obligation," not even in marriage. out of someone who simply is not attracted. Plenty of people in happy marriages started out as just friends. What, if you didn't bang immediately on meeting you can never pursue a romantic relationship with them? You're being unreasonable. Umm hmm. With people they are mutuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:28 PM
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I've seen it IRL. It isn't the most common thing, so I'm not surprised that you haven't seen it. Plenty of rare things happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:23 PM
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The difference is that instead of being 5-10 steps removed from the exploitation the John is a direct exploiter. "being 5-10 steps removed from the exploitation" doesn't make it better. "the John is a direct exploiter": not necessarily, and many don't.
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 07:21 PM
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Most sex work is exploitive. Eh, how do you know? You know all the sex workers? What about all the other "exploitive" jobs? Yes, I have worked with women who are/ were sex workers and they all have shit violent stories. I'm all for legalization and reasonable things to make it safer. sex isn’t a need and you as a John are directly exploiting someone by sticking your dick in them. People buy plenty of things that aren't needs. Should they all give those things up? When you buy an iphone you're ex…
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 07:18 PM
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Undocumented doesn’t mean you can’t sue or leave and find another job. You know what I mean, and we could talk about how dangerous it is to live as an illegal immigrant. Furthermore, just because undocumented workers are exploited doesn’t mean it’s somehow justified to exploit sex workers. I'm fine with non-exploitive sex work. Agree?
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 06:57 PM
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The prime actor is the woman reaping all the benefits from a man tricking himself. Who bought gifts and did favors with an ulterior motive? Are you on the autism spectrum? Anyone not on the spectrum can clearly see what is going on. People go from just friends to dating all the time. The friendzone-ed guy's motives are anything but ulterior.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:58 PM
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They can at least get workers comp. Not necessarily, many are undocumented immigrants. And if they quit their jobs, they don’t have a pimp trying to murder them for leaving. The equivalent is quitting, having no money, and then dying of starvation. Being poor is their pimp. Not all prostitutes have a pimp who will murder them if she quits.
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 04:54 PM
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You seem to think that all sex work is this horrible, violent, low-paying nightmare. Some of it might be, but you're absolutely wrong to believe that it is all like that. Nope. Her pimp cuts off her finger to mark her as his property and she keeps working. That would be pretty fucked up in any kind of work. Prostitution has nothing to do with it being fucked up. Also, I've never known of any prostitutes who had something like that happen to them, have you? And men be like “muh dick 😫 I need sex”…
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 04:52 PM
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you haven’t really dedicated any energy to worker reform. Wait, are you watching me right now??!? No? Then you don't know what I do. It looks like you only care about worker rights when it comes to defending the right to use a prostitute. Eh, does anyone ever have a "right" to buy or sell any good or service? There are some obvious things that should be off limits, but I don't think sexual services have to be off limits. Any kind of work can be awful if you make it bad enough, and/or low paying …
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 04:44 PM
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If she isn't your cup of tea then that's fine, it's the general principle that's important.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:35 PM
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and they need to take ownership for trying to coerce someone to do something they don’t want to do. If it is as serious as coercion then it rises to the level of a crime - some kind of sexual assault - and you should get the police involved ASAP. If it isn't that bad then, no matter how much you regret it afterwards, it was consensual, so you are ultimately the one responsible for what happens to you, what you do. If you didn't want to do it then you shouldn't have done it. Maybe you made a bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:34 PM
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Okay, so you're saying prostitutes don't risk dismemberment and death at work, is that right? And women be like "whannn, I want a hamburger!"
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 12:14 AM
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If he weren’t trying to manipulate and obligate Why are you making all these negative assumptions? I suggest you try therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:13 AM
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Plus in the United States, a meat worker who loses their finger can sue and get a large settlement. No, not really.
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 12:12 AM
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How many digits do prostitutes lose each time they perform their professional services?
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 11:29 PM
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She isn’t lying, if she wanted to she would. She's letting him continue to believe in false hope because it benefits her personally. That's what's so exploitive about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:28 PM
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she's lying to him, some kind of lie
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:56 PM
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Instead he just wants her regardless of her feelings. Huh? Yeah, giving her free shit, being a shoulder to cry on, doing favors, yeah, he's such an asshole. Very selfish of a woman to exploit her "friend" like that. That's what friendzone really means.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:42 PM
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If she wants to date him she's bad? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:16 PM
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He thinks he has a shot with a platonic friend It happens sometimes. and tried to obligate her with gifts and acts of service. There is no "tried to obligate her," it's just treating someone extra nice in the hopes that they'll like you more. I think that’s pretty shitty, manipulative behavior. Yes, the way women exploit their friendzoned male "friends" is really shitty, and manipulative. She doesn't actually treat them like a friend. She is not a good friend to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:05 PM
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No, because he thinks he has a shot with her, when he does not, and she doesn't do anything to correct his mistake, and possibly cultivating it. Again, because she's getting free shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:55 PM
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friendzone is a woman exploiting the extra attention/favors/gifts the man gives her above what he would do for a normal friend. they may or may not be aware of what they're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:47 PM
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"there are no women who want to date you, and no women you want to date" doesn't help
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:43 PM
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they're forced to work so fast that they often cut themselves badly, cut off a finger, cut someone else, etc.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 07:27 PM
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Fine. Meat packing plants then. At least prostitutes don't risk cutting off their fingers or limbs for chick scratch. How many shitty jobs do we have to go through? Yes, technically, prostitution has it's own particularities because it isn't something else, but that isn't an interesting point.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 06:52 PM
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neither are fatal defects
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 06:49 PM
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It's called "Golden Pussy Syndrome," GPS.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 06:35 PM
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Sometimes defective cars have to be recalled, but that doesn't justify giving up on driving completely.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 06:34 PM
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The same can be said of restaurants. No one's dream job is washing dishes. You do like going out to eat though, right?
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 06:33 PM
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6) Maybe they saw one or two, and then inflate that number. Most people aren't paying attention to that stuff regularly. 7) "Not even wrong" is a phrase often used to describe pseudoscience or bad science. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Not_even_wrong
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 06:30 PM
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great, go for it. only date women or don't date. good luck with that.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 06:27 PM
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adjacent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:27 PM
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Why don't you just go the sugar daddy route? If you haven't actually done it yourself you have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:14 PM
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it's a big lake
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:13 PM
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I see what you're doing. No, if you don't have some kind of military/first-responder training, they don't want you, and you'd probably get yourself killed. You'd probably get yourself killed even with training, but it would happen a lost sooner without training.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:59 PM
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tweet deleted, what did it say?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:55 PM
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Would it be better than just going by himself? It's okay, sure. You don't need to find a woman who sells sex, you can probably find what your looking for if you cast a wider net. Better? It depends on the details, including how much it costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:52 PM
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A little experience goes a long way towards avoiding the easy mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:42 PM
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eh, you can insist on a "lights on inspection," and when there are no open sores, transmission is much less likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:40 PM
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A lot of "slut shaming" is really self shaming projected and responsibility placed on someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:39 PM
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I love how the deal breakers are very subjective. Not "Running away from difficult conversations" could just as easily be frames as being too argumentative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:22 PM
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Nothing you can do if you're already doing everything you can. There was a time when there was no profession - psychiatrist/therapist - to treat mental illness. There is no profession to help people with your problem. Maybe someday in the future it will be invented. At least, it hasn't been invented yet.
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 05:42 PM
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Which men? I don't see those, and I've been paying attention.
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 05:35 PM
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How do you know they can't handle it? How many of these guys' intimate lives do you know about?
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 05:27 PM
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I think "validation" is a vague and useless term, so I don't use it. What do you think it means for women? I don't think it means anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:06 PM
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okay, I don't need to take you seriously, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:12 AM
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"People in the comments"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:11 AM
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I don't care about rando-s larping on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:02 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:02 AM
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you're still wrong, but okay
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 04:02 AM
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I already did everything you're suggesting, now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:01 AM
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they don't, blue pill is just parody
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:52 AM
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cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:51 AM
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the thing that i don't get about the red pill or incels (and i guess I am one technically) is just why hate women They don't, you just think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:41 AM
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No, but "she’s waiting until marriage" is disqualifying criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:32 AM
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They don't really do that, though. You have a warped view of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:32 AM
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Its the social aspect for a lot of men. I don't think that's why most men like sex, and I'm a man who knows men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:23 AM
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They aren’t “worthy” because they are poor and ugly, not just because they are ugly. Just change the definition of "worthy," easy.
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 03:14 AM
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I don't know what "feeling of validation that men get when they have sex with women" you're talking about, and I'm a man who has had sex with women. Do you mean enjoyment from having sex? It feels good, when it is good. Is that what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:13 AM
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I don't hate women and I'm not fine, so now what? Not fine in that I can't get something that is a high priority to me, a wife, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:04 AM
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what do you mean by it in this context? Here, I'll wave a magic wand ... now you're magically "worthy," happy now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:56 AM
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I still don't know what you mean by validation. Okay, "validation" of those things: what does it mean for those things then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:55 AM
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I don’t want a pretty trophy husband, I want a partner. yeah, I'm saying: women (you?) will take a pill so that you'll categorize every man as partner worthy
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 02:25 AM
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You don't understand my proposal.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 11:21 PM
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First, be a functional adult. Like sociable, responsible, hardworking, maybe even helpful and generous. Only after that can you worry about sex and creating a family. That's where a lot of men are at, but then people yell at them for making sex and/or a relationship a high priority at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:18 PM
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no, I'm asking you to define what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:54 PM
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We've defined the situation so that there is a pay-off: women get exactly what they want. What part do you not understand?
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 10:52 PM
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No, they aren't necessarily doing anything "wrong," a physically attractive man would succeed if he had done the same thing, they are just not physically attractive -> they get few chances -> random bad luck. They just don't get enough practice to not "screw it up," due to them having few options.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:35 PM
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I'd need to know what you mean by validation before we could talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:25 PM
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I need to understand what you mean by "validation" before we can talk about it. It's a vague term.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:19 PM
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I understand you. You're just wrong. Your original comment: https://old.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/14k1y1a/the_only_solutions_i_see_available/jpq5qij/ Why would women want that? Women would want it because we re-define what they want to what they can get. Now they get everything they want. Problem solved!
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 10:19 PM
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Validation seeking is an enormous part of the male sex drive. Well, define "validation." It's a vague term, and if you define it so that you're right, then you're not saying much. I'm pretty sure a huge part of male sex drive is that sex feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:17 PM
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Being attracted to a man does not make him better in any way No: this magical pill literally makes him "better," "more attractive," because it's all subjective. If women all think a man is more attractive than before then he is. The issue has never been the amount of options but if those options meet a woman’s standards and needs. Okay, yes. I'm saying: this magical pill makes all the options up to women's standards by changing women's standards. Problem solved!
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 10:12 PM
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Women think men only want "validation" out of sex because they're projecting: women only want validation from dating/relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:57 PM
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Sex can be for more than procreation but if procreation is the goal, only the best will be picked. ... but sex isn't only for making babies, so that's irrelevant, so, not sure why you brought that up in the first place. But, what I was saying was: I don't care about "evolution." Part of the problem is that when sex is just for fun women choose the best No, and not even when it's just sex for fun. Have you heard about how some women send love letters to serial killers in prison? Not having sex or…
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 04:46 PM
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Read all the comments on the post. Literally the first one. I did. What's your point? Link to a specific comment if you have a point. Where did I say women's complaints don't matter? When you said this: You don't understand women very well if you think they don't complain when they're happy. I said women get what they want, because they do. It's not up for discussion. Only in your fantasy world, but don't let my stop you from crying and taking your toys home.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 04:38 PM
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I did not agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:34 PM
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I'll focus on Taylor Swift. She has insanely high standards because she's young, hot, and rich. Once she gets to know the guy, figures out he's a real person and not some fantasy that only exists in her head, she dumps him. Maybe there were good reasons for breaking up with some of her ex's, I don't really know. If she's so "young, hot, and rich," then shouldn't tons of guys want to date her? On paper, that sounds nice, but this is a woman with unrealistic expectations, one of the most popular m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:31 PM
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Disagree. Another way to say this is that women have unrealistic standards. I think that's a better way to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:23 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:23 PM
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Which other comments? Women complain about bad options but they still get what they want. No, not really, and they say as much. You don't understand women very well if you think they don't complain when they're happy. Can you even hear yourself? That's a very patriarchal idea. "Oh, women, your complaints don't matter, you're actually happy the way you are." Yeah right dude, that's BS.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 04:20 PM
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No, but also: who cares even if you're right? I certainly don't.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 04:11 PM
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I’ve said this before but I don’t think it’s ever been about sex, it’s about validation. It isn't about "validation," or any vague term like that. Do they want sex? Yes. Is sex all they want? No. Is sex better than nothing? Yes. Someone who never says no is not attractive if you ask me. Okay, but if they say "no" to some random person, is that going to make the difference between you wanting them or not?
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 04:10 PM
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Anything "can" mean anything as long as you ignore logic and evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:07 PM
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Others are saying they want the libido lowering pill because it would calm down their anxiety over sex. I don't know who is saying that. If anyone is, it is only when they assume they can't satisfy their - most likely very normal - desires. Like, if you can't get chocolate for whatever reason, the reason why doesn't matter, do you want to stop liking the taste of chocolate? Chocolate is nice, but isn't very important, so maybe that's okay. Let's say it's the same with ice cream: are you better o…
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 04:05 PM
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No, it doesn't. Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:51 PM
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It's a bad joke.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 03:51 PM
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Another way to say this is that women have unrealistic standards. I think that's a better way to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:40 PM
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Why would men want There’s a new drug (pill form) that becomes available, more like an anti-depressant, but for just making male’s libido/desire for females absolutely zero. ? But to answer your question: because they would get a lot more options that, by definition, they would want. Why would they not want to be attracted to more men?
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 03:19 PM
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A pill for men is the only viable option if you ask me. Women have been called out, shamed, and harassed for years and it’s had no real impact. Why not a pill that makes women more attracted to a wider range of men?
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 01:54 PM
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Never going to happen, no one is going to be satisfied with "robot GF." All you're proposing is "better" pornography.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 01:25 PM
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There’s a new drug (pill form) that becomes available, more like an anti-depressant, but for just making male’s libido/desire for females absolutely zero. A new drug that broadens women's preferences would be just as ethic. I'm not saying it is or isn't ethical. I'm only saying that the only valid options are thinking both are okay or neither are okay.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 01:16 PM
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yup, typical reddit mod
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 12:58 PM
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that isn't what desperation means
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 11:22 PM
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I think she is the only actual moderator. All the others are bots or her alts.
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 02:27 PM
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They aren't desperate, they just know what they want.
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 02:26 PM
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That you're not willing to live that life is very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:25 PM
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Check the research yourself. I'm right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:25 PM
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If life is an ocean of possibility then it shouldn't be a problem for you to be celibate. So go ahead and do that, since you're the one who believes "life is an ocean of possibility."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:24 PM
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What actual experts say is that people get the most life satisfaction out of relationships like marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:24 PM
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even if true, it wouldn't disprove my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:25 PM
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What's your evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:48 PM
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that doesn't count
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:27 PM
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What's your evidence that it didn't say what I said it would?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:17 PM
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huh? There are plenty of slender women.
/r/AllPillDebate22/06/23 03:09 PM
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Why should anyone care what you think is "healthy" or not? Even if "unhealthy," it's the way it is, and it's not going to change. People care a lot about sex and a long term romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:09 PM
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Read the latest few days of posts. That's the evidence. I'm sorry you're too lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:07 PM
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The evidence is going back at least a few days, but really, the last few days at any time is the evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:20 AM
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There's plenty of evidence, hun. Just read the last few dozen posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:43 AM
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I never had to satisfy your arbitrary demands to be right. You routinely ignore "rules" when a post fits your ideology, and magically impose "rules" when a post doesn't fit your world view. Here's your evidence: the most recent few pages of posts. That proves my point. Not my problem if you don't want to read them yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:13 AM
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Show me one someone else created for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:53 PM
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I don't have time to wade through dozens to hundreds of posts for you to then find some irrelevant detail to nit pick. My research fees are $300/hr, in minimum of 15 minute increments. Once your pre-pay, non-refundable check for 10 hours of research clears, I'll get started. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:52 PM
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That "the rules" only apply to ideas you don't agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:18 PM
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The sun rising in the east also doesn't prove you don't enforce "the rules" when posts say things you agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:10 PM
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u/Mrs_Drgree And yet you have no examples of it ever happening. Cool story bro. Here's your example: https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14eovv2/most_women_havent_experienced_loneliness/ Top 2 comment threads are deleted, by the way. She tells you everything you need to know about her "debate" sub, and how she treats people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:01 PM
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I never said how often it happens. Again, you're moving goal posts. Nice try, maybe just go ahead and admit that this sub isn't about debate: it's about putting out the message you want out. You silence anyone who disagrees with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:42 PM
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Yes, asking me to wade through dozens to hundreds of posts: you are admitting that you do it. Maybe try being honest for once?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:36 PM
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back-pedaling. you know I'm right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:33 PM
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Life is an ocean of possibility. Great! Then you be the one to go without nice things in live. Let us know how it goes!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:31 PM
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It's because they want you to shut up, pay taxes, and consume.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:30 PM
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Give me an example. You won't, proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:30 PM
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It's unhealthy to make romance/sex your only or primary interest It isn't unhealthy at all to make it your "primary" interest. It is very normal. If it's unhealthy then you'd better tell that to all those happily married couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:28 PM
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I want to know what your answer is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:26 PM
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We all know that you only enforce that that "rule" when you don't like what OP says. What happens when no comments need replying to?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:26 PM
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Let's be real: "Removed for OP abandonment" really means "Mrs_Drgree didn't like how you brought up uncomfortable truths."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:43 AM
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OP is here: https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14eovv2/most_women_havent_experienced_loneliness/jowtb5n/ Weird how most CMV's are abandoned after a few days and stay up for years, yet you've decided to delete this one after less that 5 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:42 AM
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It's meaningless without evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:40 AM
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I want a woman to say "I'd settle for this guy right here." None of them will, because hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:39 AM
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You can still feel lonely in a relationship By u/Carloverguy20's logic, all happy marriages should immediately be dissolved by divorce, since you can still feel lonely in a relationship: since that's the case, why bother with any of it? Of course, that's a stupid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:38 AM
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I like to ask women why women who miscarry get upset since it was just a clump of cells. If you order a pizza but, oops, it got messed up, it isn't coming, and you're refunded your money, would you be "upset"? At least a little bit? It's like that, but varies in severity, depending on how far along the pregnancy was.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:22 AM
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The pro-life argument of "you're killing a person" is much more persuasive than "it's just a clump of cells" Not if you have a basic understanding of basic human reproductive biology(physiology?), no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:20 AM
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You don't understand male friendships. It's more about what isn't said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:18 AM
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you'll get nickle-and-dimed on the emotional labor end.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:17 AM
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There is nothing wrong with having "finding a good person, who I am sexually attracted to, to for a long term relationship" as something that brings you a lot of satisfaction in life, and making it a priority. Brass tacks: what do you care about in the short time you have on Earth? That is up there. Now, if you were one of those adults obsessed with visiting Disney World? Okay, that's "out there," you might want to re-assess. Obsessed with chocolate? Chocolate is great, but there are a lot of ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:16 AM
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No, just a bit too far for me. There are men out there who have that as their kink. Some of them would make great life partners. Platonic friends? Sure! Dating? No, sorry, it's not personal, and it isn't and anti-trans thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:06 AM
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You did not give examples of actual profile text or pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:03 AM
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You refuse to provide a simple example, proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:58 PM
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If you're that desperate then you do the legwork. I'm asking you. If you knew you weren't going to answer the question why comment in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:33 PM
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Which picture specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:32 PM
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I'm not going to doxx someone to benefit you. Find public pictures. Take out specific names from the profile. You wouldn't be doxxing anyone. The texts and the pictures would just indicate that he was a certain vibe. Give me an example of one that gives you that certain vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:20 PM
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Show me some examples of good enough pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:10 PM
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When i said it varies a lot, I mean woman to woman. I then listed some traits I like. I didn't ask for traits. I asked for the text and pictures of a profile that would attract you. Why can't you simply give an example of a profile that attracts you? I would need more specific knowledge, and also why should I? Because you're unable/unwilling to go on the record to give a concrete example, even on an anonymous forum like reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:07 PM
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Did you see "Q4W"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:01 PM
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There's a range of things that could be said or done that would all make me feel the same. Give me an example of one of the things in that range that would make you want to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:58 PM
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If you’re not getting matches you’re not good looking enough. Show me pictures of people who look good enough for you to want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:54 PM
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All that matters in OLD is how physically attractive you are. Show me example of pictures that would make you want to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:53 PM
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It's also going to vary a lot. I'm asking for an example. When it comes to men I personally tend to date guys who are musical, leftwing, irreverent and got good chat. I'm all those things, so write me a paragraph to put in my dating profile that would make you want to talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:46 PM
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Bro there is non cheat code other than have pics that make you look more attractive. I already have those and it doesn't get me matches. What pictures would make you (assuming you're a woman) want to go on a date with me (assuming those were my real pictures)? A profile that is attractive enough What does that profile look like? No one is every willing to go talk specifics when asked. They always hide behind vagueness and generalities. It shows how people like that, like you, are not arguing in …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:42 PM
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In another post, someone complained about how men have terrible online dating profiles. Q4W: What exactly would my profile have to say for you to want to go on a date with me? (or start talking, whatever you want the "next step" to be). I want to hear the specific words that you want. Don't say "talk about your hobbies." Tell me which hobbies a man would need to have for you to be attracted, and what I should say. Write the paragraph for what I would need to put in my profile to make you want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:36 PM
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he already got fucked, simply being accused fucks him over
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:52 PM
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I don't care. I don't really know who he is or what he says. I have better things to pay attention to.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 09:18 PM
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If you have to pay it's probably a scam. Usually, they lure men in to pay, and some of that money goes to subsidizing women to be there; free drinks for example. So, there aren't any real prospect, just the illusion to trick men into paying for false hope. That's why the men at these singles events - speed dating? - are so shlubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:24 PM
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It's so annoying when people suggest that I lower my standards. I already have! Any lower, and I might as well just fuck chairs, for as much as I'd be sexually attracted to it.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 06:00 PM
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My minimum is: if I imagine having sex with this person, do I anticipate needing to mentally "check out," imagine that I'm having sex with someone else, to get off? Like, with masturbation, you use your imagination. You can do the same if it's sex with another person. Sex with man? If I had a gun to my head then I guess I wouldn't have much of a choice, but if forced to, I'd be thinking about sex with a woman. In the same way, there are some women who are just too far, and I'd need to imagine sh…
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 05:51 PM
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Most men want sex and a relationship, but if a relationship isn't in the cards, then sex is better than nothing. Now, if you have to pay $10,000 for sex? Um, no, that's unreasonable. Free? Okay, now we're talking. "Just get a hooker" is overly simplistic and ignores the cost aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:05 AM
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Because they already have
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:20 AM
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Some can also mean 60 or 50 percent or anything else I'm simply pointing out how your claim is not as strong as you (might?) think it is.
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 09:55 PM
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Well to use ur own argument how do you know that upping there look makes no difference at all I'm not making claims that that's always the case. There's a lot of data and evidence, as well as people telling their personal experiences. Most of the time, they've already done everything that they could possibly do to up their looks, and it didn't get results. If it did, they wouldn't be talking about it on the internet. Also 99 percent of women do not care if ur short that’s not a real statistic th…
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 09:23 PM
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I brought up the incel point because usually incels make these kind of arguments so I try and remind people that they can up their look if they have an issue with it people tend to say this is how I was born it’s over for me. Everyone, including incels, already know "that they can up their look." Most men already know: there's no need to remind them. The problem is that everything that they can try doesn't make a difference. However heights just another insecurity people need to get over yes som…
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 08:52 PM
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I see looks being emphasized to the point where it seems nothing else matters. Looks is one of the first, if not the first filter, so if you don't meet the minimum in terms of looks - I'm including height in "looks" - then .. right, nothing else matters. No amount of money or personality can make up for her deciding to not spend time getting to know you if she decides you're not worth her time based on your looks.
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 08:21 PM
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A lot of people talk about "importance," which misses some pretty significant details. Personality can be "important" with the way I'm talking about it, and at the same time, make little difference in outcomes for certain people.
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 08:02 PM
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Well yea if u only want to talk about looks that’s fine Just to be clear: I'm not saying I only want to talk about looks, whatever that means. but I think people refer to the fact that looks fade while personality will last longer. That's not a given All the more reason to care about looks at the outset, so that you can be reasonably sure that you'll still be attracted to them later Sometimes, the greater emotional attachment can offset any "faded" looks. What does your point have to do with any…
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 07:47 PM
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