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wow i feel bad for all 7 of those guys
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:50 PM
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i love it when men are horny for me, idk what ur issue is tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:27 AM
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another truth nuke men love women and are really horny for them all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:01 AM
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truth nuke women are an unstoppable force when it comes to dating, they can do anything and they always win in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:05 PM
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Lying is a thing. After the deed is done she gets the classic "Oh I'm actually not sure where I'll be in life in a few months, I don't think I'm actually ready for commitment just yet, I'm sorry."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 07:57 AM
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As an attractive man who has done a lot of charity-work in my life its quite common. Of the top of my head I can think of seven different women who were much less attractive than me I was seeing who wanted to "date seriously and see where it goes."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 07:54 AM
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Are you aware both men and women can be hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:43 PM
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you are not forced to be in a relationship Most men are weak minded and cannot be happy in life without a woman. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:35 AM
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The low standards is that they’re willing to tolerate very bad treatment and mediocrity just to have a man. So I guess you can say that they basically have no standards. For me it just tells me that women will tolerate any kind of abuse and lack of emotional connection as long as the man she is with is better looking than her. These ugly women are seemingly going after average looking men with shit personalities instead of dating a fellow ugly man that has at least a passable personality. The me…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:32 AM
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Majority of men don't choose, they take what they can get. If you're gonna snark at least have some level of logic behind you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:23 AM
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Well personally, as a bisexual man that swings more towards women than men, I honestly did not see a single woman in that collage who stood out as someone I could be intimate with in any capacity. Compare that to the men where I saw maybe 6-7 semi-attractive dudes I could see myself being intimate with. As a whole I'd personally say the looks "average" of the men was bang average, there were some uggos and some above average guys that even out the curve. The women however are overwhelmingly unat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:18 AM
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These leaks just prove to me how easy it is for a women to date men out of their own league, most of the women in the folder are downright horrid looking while most of the men are just average or slightly below average looking. These verification pictures taken by the women in their homes also expose just how much heavy lifting makeup does for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:04 AM
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Do you think the men were on average better looking than the women of the app?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:01 AM
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The wildest shit is y'all think men already have some version of this and I assure you they do not. No such app exists. But ever since Tea's newfound popularity, I assure you such apps are now in development. Men have never needed an app for it because they share it amongst themselves everywhere, facebook, whatsapp, discord, where there is group chats men are sharing videos and pictures of their exes and their intimate details.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:58 AM
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But if the majority of the men posted are average, and the women who are posting them are majority ugly - how is that them "having low standards" they're literally dating up being able to date average men while being very below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:48 AM
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I skimmed the entire folder and not just cherry-picked pictures of the worst ones and most of the women are honestly horrid looking, majority are either very noticeably obese or ugly-looking. The men were much better looking on average, there were a few obese stinkers too but the average of the group is much better looking than the women. I'm a bisexual man by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:46 AM
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I had a brief look through the entire folder and not just the worst ones twitter users cherrypicked out and I have to say most of the women in there are very unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:43 AM
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It is hypocritical Nobody cares however because its kinda funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:38 AM
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its my anecdotal experience from dating and hooking up with close to a hundred different women, so I would say its very close to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:15 PM
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my current boyfriend is short and absolutely would beat the shit out of anyone who messes with me. yeah but hes not tall "make me feel protected" is just another way to say "tall", it comes from not wanting to seem shallow. if she wanted a dude that could beat up other men and make her feel genuinely protected she would just describe it as that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:09 PM
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it just means she wants a dude that is taller than most other men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:07 PM
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They don't struggle though, that's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:05 PM
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If there is sex there is a reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:06 AM
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You don't understand the male thinking pattern. For many men having a emotionless hookup is more fulfilling for the monkey brain than marrying and having children with a perfect woman. Sex, no matter how emotionless and meaningless trumps ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:05 AM
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You are calculating on non-factors. For many men dating obese & overweight women is just out of the question, they will never do it - it doesn't matter how many times you say "but the average woman is overweight" because overweight women might as well not exists to them. Those men calculate their standards on the remaining pool of women, not being overweight or obese is the baseline to even be considered. I'm speaking about men who are fit here, if you're a dude that is overweight and you expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:58 AM
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Maybe I interact with the world differently than you do. I’m a woman who openly talks about having sex and answers questions about my sex life honestly. From my perspective; it’s nearly all men. I can’t think of a single man I know in real life who hasn’t said something negative about me, another woman he knows or a female celebrity based on her sex life. Where do you draw the line between puritan and slut-shaming, "negative" could mean anything -- there is a difference between "I don't like a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:49 PM
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A very small vocal minority of internet men slut-shame
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:22 PM
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They are intertwined but operate at different levels, you can be a puritan without slut-shaming, but you can't slut-shame without being a puritan.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:20 PM
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For slut-shaming, yes. Purity culture; No. All of humanity participates in purity culture to some extent at varying levels, the most common held belief of all when it comes to purity culture is that intercourse with heterosexual men is dirty and defiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:02 AM
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Men want the hot party girl but would get upset when she went out partying if they were together. Men want the hot homebody girl but gets upset when she just stays home all day. Women want the hot party guy but would get upset when he went out partying if they were together Women want the hot homebody guy but gets upset when he just stays home all day Men and women say they want X in one moment, but will want Y in the next moment: the common denominator is "be hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:30 AM
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I'd rather not get added to some freak's spreadsheet or have him tell his entire friend group what my asshole looks like. Sorry, not worth it. This behavior is not limited or bound to anything. Anyone can be a freak regardless of status or looks, my own anecdotal experience tells me that men with high status and good looks are more likely to be misogynists and freaks than average men, while the below-average also has a slightly higher tendency. Your post makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:25 AM
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Yet, guys somehow have the audacity to claim victimhood because “I never get laid” and “why do no women want me”. While those very same men engage in the behavior that makes it unsafe and unappealing for any woman to even consider it. The majority is allowed to complain when they get punished for the actions of the minority. Doesn't mean anything should change, but they are allowed to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:19 AM
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When dudes say they want a girl who has “Less male attention” they mean a girl that is mostly a homebody that doesn't go partying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:16 AM
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Increasingly the average man is seen as unattractive by the average woman that is the issue. That doesn't mean a guy has to be conventionally attractive. The threshold is moving up every year, to many women who aren't even conventionally attractive themselves you have to be wayyyy above average now to even have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:04 PM
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No. "Just shower and have good personality and you will be chosen" Is useless advice when what they actually mean is: "First and foremost be physically attractive to me or you won't even have a chance."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:26 PM
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If you want to be chosen, be a good person, have good hygiene, and dont expect physical affection. When women say shit like this the "also be physically attractive" is always silent, but that's always what they mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:58 PM
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We as men have only been allowed to care about our appearances beyond just "gym" for like a decade now. Go back fifteen or twenty years you would get called the f-word and gay (by both men and women.) if you as much as looked at makeup or a skincare routine as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:24 AM
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In my country the stats supposedly show its a even 50/50 gender split on dating apps, I personally have met all 4 of the long-term girlfriends I've had in life through tinder, I've also met a lot of women just for hookups via tinder. Anecdotally most of my friends met their partners via Tinder, Hinge, or Yubo - many others also met through instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:47 AM
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I think the post highlights that; There are no consequences to being a bad person and no incentives to be a good person when dating Most humans throughout history needed some kind of religion to make them virtuous, why are we so surprised men chose to be misogynistic assholes when that gives them more /rewards/ than being good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:28 PM
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I was talking about the fact that mentioning women don't lie to have sex as some moral superiority is stupid because a woman would never have to lie to get sex anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:54 PM
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Because lying is a null factor, there is no reason to lie because if the woman wants sex its happening regardless if she lies or not. Virtue comes easy when its convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:10 AM
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It's not women's fault I didn't say that And women don't care about this btw Most people do not care about anything that doesn't directly affect them. most guys don't hold this grudge Maybe, maybe not, I think most men do to some extent but chose to simply not tell you. It's like being mad at restaurants because you were not able to do to clubs when young Why do you expect people to be reasonable in their thinking patterns?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:12 PM
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Thank you for clarifying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:05 AM
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The discrepancy is that the man wants the woman both when he is immature and when he is mature, whilst the woman only wants him after she is 'done' being immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:58 PM
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has always been objectively a good looking man you have to be trolling "I became attracted to an objectively attractive man" i dont even understand what your arguement is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:51 PM
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We are saying it's their own damn fault. > Nobody said it was your fault. Maybe stop making everything about you. lol, lmao even.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:35 AM
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You should stop replying to him/her, the more I read on their profile the more it became apparent that this is probably an incel masquerading as a woman and saying outrageous things to ragebait
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:24 AM
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I've never killed anyone, I've never assaulted anyone, I've never raped anyone. If war came to my country I would be forcibly drafted and sent to be mowed down and then buried in a mass grave, all the while the women of my country would be allowed to escape to other countries and continue living in safety (see Ukraine). How exactly is all of this /my fault/?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:15 AM
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I don't mind it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:35 AM
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I have never seen such a thing in real life I just don't believe you, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:48 PM
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You should try to max yourself out and see what changes, but if the results are lackluster I don't blame anyone for throwing the towel in - and you're allowed to complain, where I draw the line is where you encourage others who haven't reached their potential to give up. I’d rather be a man because I could achieve my goals so much easier if I was, but I’m not. If you were a man you would probably be posting on incel forums, like no offense but if you're just a normal average woman you would be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:14 PM
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a lot of the complaining comes from the fact we are told to work hard, be interesting, and be good people - and then women reward men who are lazy, uninteresting, and terrible human beings just because they were born physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:04 PM
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You are right. Though I'll be honest, when I tell someone about this be it a friend or an online individual and I get the appropriate "fuckboy" - "playboy" or "manwhore" label I don't find it insulting at all, I actually think its endearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:31 PM
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It's weird to like having sex with people you don't like or find interesting. It's kinda icky, honestly. I'm a slave to my libido and proud :3 Do you boo. u2 hun
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:37 PM
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So stop dating women. 🤷 I like having sex with women though. Honestly, it seems like y'all just complain about your own actions. I'm not complaining about anything, my dating life is great. I never said there is anything wrong with being boring and uninteresting by the way. Most women aren't boring and uninteresting. If someone thinks that, that someone is the problem. Your opinion is valid - so is mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:25 PM
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Lol. And that's why men are single more than ever. True They only care that a woman "looks good". And women want to be with a man who desires more about her than her appearance. I think most men only go for looks nowadays because they've realized majority of women have nothing else going for them anyways so what's the point. Most women are just boring and uninteresting, but she can at least be hot - sorry not sorry lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:12 PM
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Agree to Disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:26 PM
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I hate this post because the underlying premise is good but it was written by someone who has clearly had their brain rotted from too much manosphere-slop so it loses all substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:20 PM
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bare minimum for women That "bare minimum" would be a dream girl for most men, just so you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:17 PM
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The standards for women seem like hell to me. A woman that fulfills all those standards would literally be a dream girl to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:13 PM
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This says everything about you and your standards. I as a dude will reject a woman if she isn't interesting. You're the exception, not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:10 PM
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I usually half-lie and say I would love to be in a relationship and find my soulmate which is true, I just don't tell the women my standards for that soulmate is like 1 in 100000 people, so I usually end up having a short physical & semi-emotional relationship and then moving on when I realize she isn't the one for me (though she would think we are slowly building towards a committed relationship.) I have on occasion also just straight up lied to get laid, I have told women who would never do ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:59 PM
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The juice is just not worth the squeeze. Fact of the matter is that there is just more women out there that don't like it than there are women who do like it. I got male friends and family members I can be vulnerable with when I need it, there's just no need for me to risk giving her the ick or w/e.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:46 PM
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First one was 21 and I was 20, second one was 19 and I was 22
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:30 PM
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One of them I was in a relationship in for 2 years where we lived together, the other we were together for over a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:13 PM
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I've dated actual bums with zero job prospects and income, just be kind and take care of your appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:53 PM
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I have dated girls and had girlfriends that were unemployed or on disability/medical pay, money and job is not something I give a shit about. Be kind and take care of yourself physically is all I want, money I can get myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:49 PM
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It's just a raw deal and I would feel trapped and anxious with the threat of divorce looming over me everyday. Even if I met the perfect woman for me I would not marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:24 PM
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More so; "Why are people surprised everyone is an asshole when there is 0 consequences to being one"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:18 PM
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Yes, manipulators are creepy and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:12 PM
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Yes? I'm not a manipulator, liar, or cheat - I would like to say that I'm honest, thoughtful, and kind. What I am saying is that people who lie and cheat will not suffer any consequences for their actions - and they don't have any incentives to change for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:12 PM
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I personally want to feel an emotional connection to the person I have sex with, be that my girlfriend, or a FWB. I'm talking about a hypothetical person that doesn't though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:57 PM
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It is wild that dudes here think "I want to fuck you" is killing the mood. I am literally telling you as a fact, and as a lived experience it WILL and CAN kill the mood with a lot of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:55 PM
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Please read the title, this is in relation to short-term and hookups/fwb. Love or emotional interest is not really a factor here, its about one person wanting something (sex) and being willing to do anything to get it, the feelings of the other person is completely irrelevant in this scenario because they are the victim of a manipulator.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:45 PM
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This is also true outside of dating. Lying, cheating and manipulating is always easier than hard work, and earning something honestly. But in this case when it comes to dating it really is 0 consequences. If you lie, cheat, scam, manipulate or do other things of that nature you will eventually face some sort of legal or social repercussion - you will never be prosecuted o have your life majorly impacted by being a manipulative fuckboy though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:42 PM
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What do they view it as then? Because they are not getting any, or getting very little.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:39 PM
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Bro if a girl is all over me making out with me and humping me like crazy I'm not gonna risk killing the mood by asking lol The moment she set foot inside my apartment she can falsely accuse me of rape, so why would it matter at that point if shes giving me clear physical signs that she wants to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:15 PM
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The advice works if you're attractive. Most men aren't though, that's just how society is set up, the dudes arent unfuckable because they try to use red-pill strats, they're unfuckable because they're physically unattractive to women. Any advice from both sides that isn't "you need to become more attractive" is useless advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:02 PM
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I've had 2 separate women who have come over to my apartment, we've cuddled, made out, dry humped, everything. And I ask "Do you want to have sex?" because I was taught I need enthusiastic consent and to hear her say "yes", and they say something along the lines of "You're not supposed to ask." So nowadays I don't ask anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:49 PM
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I've never understood dudes who bitch about enthusiastic consent Because getting enthusiastic consent from a woman is tedious at best and downright self-sabotage at worst if she is not obsessed with you and taking the lead herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:32 AM
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I don't struggle and I kept a diary over all my dating happenings, who I slept with, what we did and what I said, and it worked great for me ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Do you really need to be romantic if you're just trying to get laid, my go-to date when I was a hoe was "come to my apartment and cuddle with me and my dog" and it worked more times than it did not. I became more romantic when I started looking for an actual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:31 PM
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No it's not. A lot of yall on this sub are just a bunch of damn pigs. All yall care about is getting your dick wet, and just being a bunch of hoes, as if that's the end all be all of life. There's more to life than obsessing about drowning in pussy, and being a physically attractive asshole. I agree! Which is why I got into a stable long-term relationship after I felt satisfied with my manhoe phase. I don't see what's stopping yall from making yourselves more physically attractive if yall know t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:27 AM
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What a terrible comparison. Wanting a rich partner for no other reason than you don't want to work is just being materialistic and greedy. Wanting sex from your partner is a very reasonable expectation for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:26 AM
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Jackhammering without foreplay*
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:47 AM
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One, don't track your dates/intimacy with percentages. It is unsexy and unhealthy. Of course it is, but do you genuinely believe he is bringing this up during a date with a girl? Only good things can come from tracking your results, just like with anything else in life like your diet and gym progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:41 AM
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I would consider it an actual compliment and indication of attraction if it came from a woman that is more sexually reserved and LTR-focused.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:37 AM
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If this were true, then men would have all women figured out and there'd be a fool proof formula to get the sex they want when they want it. There is one? The fool proof formula is literally just; be physically attractive If you are physically attractive to women you can do whatever you want and sleep around for as long as you want and with as many women as you want - and you don't even have to be a good person or interesting. The reason why majority of dudes can't "figure out" this formula is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:24 AM
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You are banging a new person every week even though you're married? Personally not my thing but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:35 AM
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This thread seems fine to me, apart from your posts most don't seem that bitter, just seems like normal discussions and arguments. because they hate women too much to get laid Usually isn't the reason they can't get laid, when I was a women-hater (not anymore obv) I got laid every other week so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:27 AM
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Also, I’m super good at giving date advice- as in, what to do for dates and how to make them memorable and actually impress her (and no, it’s not about how much money you spend) This is fine and actually useful for us. It's all the advice leading up to actually attracting the woman and making her even wanna consider a date women usually suck at giving advice for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:18 AM
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Well I can see you're a very open minded and reasonable person with no predisposition whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:06 AM
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You know, you purposely misinterpreting what I said just makes you look stupid right? Nobody is saying women are "prey", its a proverb... you might get a woman. Very sexually active already, but thanks anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:53 AM
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It is a harassment, yes I agree :) But this part; For me, it's the type of attention You made it seem like sexual harassment and assault exists under the same term of "attention" as simply looking at a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:16 PM
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That's what I'm saying, I was stating it is a fact that many men live in that fantasy. I would never want to live like that, fuck that - I want genuine love based on physical attraction and matching personalities, money is worthless to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:13 PM
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Don't ask the fish how to fish, ask the fisherman proverb bla bla... Men would be more inclined to listen to women's' advice if you actually knew and were honest about you want. An average dude asking an average woman will get naive useless advice such as - "Be kind, have good hygiene and just be yourself!" because that works for the average woman, its functionally useless for the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:11 PM
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You should only really take advice from women if you're already an attractive man. An average woman's advice is functionally useless for an average man, but works very well for an attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:06 PM
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Yeah but those men are living in a fantasy. They know deep down that they aren't attractive but they would rather be used for their money because the alternative is being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:04 PM
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True, but a large amount of men are never gonna be able to provide anything but money to their potential partner so its a damned if you do damned if you don't situation. Get money, maybe get a girl that may or may not actually like you. vs Don't get money, stay a short ugly virgin for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:01 PM
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This isn't a gotcha or anything, women love attention from guys they find attractive even in "wrong" settings. If a girl talks about how she wishes she would be left alone and that she wants to be invisible she probably just has a bunch of ugly dudes trying to hit her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:56 PM
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Girl that's just illegal activities you cant put looking at a girl vs spiking her drink under the same term of "attention"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:54 PM
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genuinely so funny watching her trying to piece it together in live time b-b-b-but she is a loser! you're not supposed to like her!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:41 PM
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It is sad, but it's also natural is it not? When you tie yourself so tightly to another person that you want to share your everyday life with them, is it not the safer bet to go with one that has less of a chance of being traumatized?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:40 PM
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That's the word though; wiser. A woman at 30 is wiser than she was at 20, but for most men she was wise enough at 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:37 PM
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I do actually agree with you, most of us don't care anymore and the ones that do probably just are actually misogynists
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:31 PM
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They gain value. Delusional, I get you really wish this was true but its not. wisdom and emotional intelligence Neither of these two have anything to do with age, you can have wisdom and emotional intelligence in your early 20's, if it took you until your 30's to become emotionally intelligent that's just a self own. which is very important to maintaining a healthy, stable, long term relationship Something that also helps with maintaining a healthy relationship is not being filled with resentmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:09 PM
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If you got the finances and security why would it be harder to raise a child when you're 20 compared to when you're 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:00 PM
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Instead of pretending words dont have meaning, just ask “How am I sexist?” If they dont give you a good answer, shrug it off and move on. You're about a decade late with that sort of thinking I'm afraid. I'm very confident in claiming that a majority of men online today don't even stop to think for a millisecond to think "How am I sexist?" when being called a misogynist, it just gets translated in our mind as "I don't like you."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:44 PM
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The most effective strategy for men is being attractive, and that's something you're just born with - and no amount of journaling, holding frame, abundance mentality, and gymceling will change that. Redpill is no different from Bluepill, its the exact same just world "If I just do this" bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:37 PM
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You do have to admit that it has lost much of its "oomph" due to being misused as an insult though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:15 PM
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The misogyny isn't the killing blow in those cases though, and that's the point. If a woman sees a mediocre looking guy, mediocre income, not particularly talented at anything or successful, she will have written him off as a dating prospect before she even found out weather or not he is a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:13 PM
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I don't think anyone was claiming that though? Misogyny in many incel cases is just a symptom of being unattractive, its a coping mechanism for the unattractive male who is unable to get laid - no incel was born a misogynist, they develop it trough their life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:06 PM
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Being a misogynist and hating women is a actually a boon if you wanna be the guy that runs trough women and leaves a trail of traumatized victims. For that specific guy the ability to mentally disregard or even get pleasure from emotionally hurting women allows him to sleep around even more because hes able to just move on to the next girl incredibly quickly. (not advocating for it, I'm just saying how it is.) There is definitely discussion to be had about the fact that if you're a man and you j…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:00 PM
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I don’t get why men who hate women still want to date us. Sex make brain go; yay!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:53 PM
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Might be the guys you are into just aren't into you. There's probably a lot guys that would be willing to date you, but you don't see them as a potential partner due to any number of reasons - and that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:29 AM
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It all comes down to the fact that a majority of men are unattractive to a majority of women, yet most women & men will still end up married at some point - you can only draw the conclusion that a majority of women at some point in their life choose to marry a man they aren't necessarily physically attracted to, which leads to all the problems you brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:03 AM
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Is it a woman's fault that men have such low standards that any woman can partake in hook up culture pretty easily? No. Is it a woman's fault that they only want to have sex with men that they are attracted to? No Men are not out giving pity sex they're doing what they want. So are women. Yes, but a majority of men can't do what they want, they can't sleep around. The only men complaining about hook-up culture are the ones that can't partake, and those men are the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:10 PM
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Half of all marriages end in divorce and those divorces are overwhelmingly initiated by women though. If your view of success for a man is to be taken to the courts for half your shit and only being able to see your kids on the weekend then you got some weird ideas about success.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:46 PM
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They don't. A lot of men fantasize about partaking in hook-up culture, so when they are unable to partake due to being just average they view it as women "denying" them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:39 PM
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How old are you? Some older women just want a cute young guy that will emotionally support her and offer interesting conversations and good sex, if you live in a big city you can find hundreds of them on Tinder & Hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:32 PM
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I agree with this, it's extremely rare from my experience. But those same women will also have the door half-open, if you're attractive to her and you're vibing in the talking stage even the most die-hard "only looking for long-term" women will tell you some shit like "I'll take it as it comes." or "Whatever happens, happens."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:02 AM
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Hey, you're not wrong. But most women will only come to the "casual sex sucks" conclusion AFTER they've tried it with a few dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:48 AM
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Men will always be more desperate for sex than women because for women bad sex is worse than no sex. This is a biological reality that will never change. The only way to “fix” this is to strip women of their sexual autonomy with laws, religion, violence, and societal pressure. That’s what men did in the past to keep women ‘in line’. As the human race develops, we are slowly realizing that treating half of humanity like property is morally repugnant. Some men are desperate enough for sex that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:32 PM
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If you're not working on yourself then yes, you shouldn't be whining all the time. But we complain a lot because for men unless you're born with it will take a few years for you to become appealing to women when you're starting out, and we also complain during the process in which we become appealing. (Majority of dudes aren't born rich or naturally good looking, we have to work on it whilst we also develop socially.) It hurts to accept that "in my current form I am not worthy of that which I cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:49 AM
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