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| 5 | Don’t even know what to title thisI love the lower panel meme on the bottom. I mean, we need shit like that just to put into perspective how chronically online and mentally ill these people are. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/07/26 05:39 PM |
| 29 | Feminist is jealous of how safe men are on the street. Who will tell her?a lot of feminism is penis envy, and some inferiority complex…in my humble opinion…and mimetic desire. They don’t believe men are people who are also vulnerable to being victims of unfortunate circumstances. A lot of these women have a very curated and out of touch with reality perspective on how men live. Like it’s ironic feminists will talk at men and make all these generalizing and caricature-like statements without actually understanding how they live. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/06/26 02:42 AM |
| 18 | Why am I seeing an increasing amount of posts making fun of the male loneliness epidemicYeah…from my anecdotal experience a lot times it’s the men who are hyper-feminist and self deprecating who end up being r*pists and creeps it’s almost as if they are overcompensating for something… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/06/26 05:01 AM |
| 14 | I found a new leftist content creator that challenges misandrists and harmful feminist rhetorics.The whole “when we say all men are rapists who deserve to die we don’t actually mean all men are rapists who deserve to die!” Is such classic abuser gaslighting bullshit. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/05/26 06:56 PM |
| 7 | I found a new leftist content creator that challenges misandrists and harmful feminist rhetorics.I have a friend who is one. I do feel bad because he grew up with a misandrist single mother who basically would tell him he’s a piece of shit because of his gender, and would project her misandrist anxieties onto him as a child which is fucked up. I notice a lot of men with mommy issues tend to either internalize it, or they end up becoming complete misanthropes and going down the incel path. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/05/26 06:36 PM |
| 5 | Society's Obsession with Coddling Misandrists, and Why that's a ProblemI don’t get it, if their borderline genocidal rhetoric shouldn’t be held accountable because they don’t have “institutional power” then what’s the point of feminists being activists then? How can you be an activist if your words don’t have any merit at the end of the day? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/04/26 02:21 AM |
| 18 | Society's Obsession with Coddling Misandrists, and Why that's a Problemyou’re right. hate ages you. hate is toxic. Enabling your own hate and your own personal issues doesn’t help you move forward as a person, or as a society. Look at how angry trump supporters blame some impoverished immigrant for all their problems. It’s like how feminists will blame everything on the average joe who has no structural power either. Which is why I don’t understand why the left has let feminism be an accepted ideology. As a woman I’m happier without feminism, and I’d argue that fem… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/04/26 04:19 AM |
| 6 | Feminism is a mask-wearing Cluster B ideologymaybe it could be both. my theory is that atleast sometimes, feminist rhetoric can be boiled down to some weird form of penis envy. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/26 05:35 PM |
| 7 | Feminism is a mask-wearing Cluster B ideologybasic humanity and empathy is lost when it comes to leftist identity politics. It becomes it owns hierarchal competition. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/26 04:24 AM |
| 12 | Feminism is a mask-wearing Cluster B ideologyliterally I keep going back to how they talk like Nazis. If you’re a woman who disagrees with them that means you’re “male-centered” and are on in on the patriarchy conspiracy with men to oppress women (disagree with a Nazi and they’ll say you MUST BE working for the Jews or are a Zionist for Netanyahu). They are willingfully lacking nuance and just like religious zealouts who have a black and white way of measuring morality and who chalk up anything that makes them feel uncertain to Satan or so… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/26 12:19 AM |
| 23 | Feminism is a mask-wearing Cluster B ideologyit also comes from thinking women aren’t humans either, but some ego defense delusion that we are goddesses. which goes hand in hand with the post, I do really think a lot of feminist rhetoric can be summed up as a defense for common female anxieties. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/04/26 09:33 PM |
| 14 | Feminism is a mask-wearing Cluster B ideologyYes, the gender role that has been placed on women is infantilizing but getting those certain protections as a result of it is a privilege. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/04/26 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Misandrists Do All of These Thingswhy do they even have a need to minimize male issues? You can acknowledge working towards solving issues that are more likely to affect women without putting men down or demonizing them. it shows you where there goals really are. It’s just projected deep seated prejudice. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 05/04/26 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Men are Not Born into Criminality, They are Manufactured into itI feel like the only down to earth leftist left tbh. I do think police brutality is an issue, but is enforcing white guilt the answer? No. Apparently it’s controversial for me to say that I don’t think prejudice in any direction is okay. it’s all about vindicative identity politics shit now. And apparently as a lesbian I’m no better than a heterosexual male since I think obese women are not attractive. Never mind the real issues, or economic policies, gotta make sure you’re lining up with leftis… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/04/26 02:33 AM |
| 14 | Using a Horrific Crime to Generalize an Entire Demographichow do feminists even address Emmett Till. It’s not just race that was solely at play. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/04/26 02:06 AM |
| 4 | Men are Not Born into Criminality, They are Manufactured into ityeah and as a teen at my first job at McDonald’s I got bullied out by older women for being a butch lesbian. What’s your point. for every shitty guy, there’s a shitty girl. people are people. just because a woman hasn’t threatened YOU personally, you assume they can’t be a threat at all? your personal experiences don’t make your selective generalization about men rational, stop trying to veil your prejudice and hate as something virtuous. you’re not helping yourself either. I had a physically an… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/04/26 10:05 AM |
| 3 | Men are Not Born into Criminality, They are Manufactured into itbro you’re just sexist if you think a literal feral bear is safer when most random people are just random people lmao. a lot of things can be unpredictable. People with Down syndrome can be unpredictable. I can make gross assumptions and build contempt towards other groups of people with that logic if I decide my personal anxieties override rationality and makes me justified in saying hostile things towards groups of people with an immutable trait. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/04/26 09:39 AM |
| 11 | Men are Not Born into Criminality, They are Manufactured into ityeah and then wives and children of these same rich men get to passively enjoy the spoils of it too.. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/26 07:28 PM |
| 11 | Men are Not Born into Criminality, They are Manufactured into itjesus, would you cross the street from a black person too? I mean look on the news, they’re always harassing people on buses and stabbing people! /s you’re talking like a conservative and you don’t even know it. Another commentator told you, your anecdotal experiences don’t make it okay for you to make awful generalizations about groups of people based on some trait they were born with. How do you think ideologies based off of subjugation start? It starts with this kind of dehumanization. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/26 06:10 PM |
| 9 | Men are Not Born into Criminality, They are Manufactured into itThis is why women are really annoying about this because they are powerless in addressing male violence. I’m not sure what you’re trying say But the man vs bear thing is so dumb. I’m a woman, I’m not naive and I don’t rule out that anyone can hurt me. But whatever anxieties I have don’t get to dictate how others go about their day and live. like why am I allowed to be walking in a forest minding my own business, but a man isn’t? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/26 05:54 PM |
| 8 | Men are Not Born into Criminality, They are Manufactured into itokay, that’s the point. We’re trying to tackle the root issue especially if it is a systemic problem. Prejudice isn’t constructive and like another replier said, being constructive isn’t saying “kill all men.” And do not act like women are incapable of being awful people too. Ghislaine Maxwell is one out of many names I could drop. whatever personal issues you have experienced, I can empathize with until you start seeing it as a right to spew prejudiced and toxic rhetoric. That is always harmful… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/26 05:39 PM |
| 30 | Men are Not Born into Criminality, They are Manufactured into itI’m trying to wrap my head around why the left is able to extend this kind of empathy to black/latino issues, but cannot do the same for men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/26 05:34 PM |
| 14 | No One Would Say Anything If the Husband Was Carrying EverythingThat’s what feminist slop is. Cherry picking scenarios, and putting their antagonistic framing around it. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/04/26 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that feminism might be useful in certain societal context?boom | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/04/26 05:05 PM |
| 44 | I am glad I found this sub after having to argue against misandrist terms like “all men are rapists” and “men are trash” and saw my comments getting downvoted. All I want is equalitydude don’t even assume misandrists are coming from a place of fairness and rationality. They aren’t. I started seeing them the same way I see white supremacists. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/03/26 04:50 PM |
| 9 | Both the left and the right are gynocentric, but for many men, the right-wing version of gynocentrism looks more acceptable than the left-wing one (and probably that’s one of the reasons why men more often vote for conservatives)Even the on the right, it’s conditional. If you don’t align with their restrictive traditional vision of what a man “should” be, you are still devalued. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/26 09:48 AM |
| 8 | Conscription is ImmoralBecause in leftist identity circle jerk land, you cannot be marginalized for being a man. That’s a hard rule. So they have to play mental gymnastics just like that. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/26 05:52 AM |
| 12 | Conscription is Immoralmy problem is more so how they act like the abortion argument is a man vs woman thing. Tons of women vote for Republican leaders themselves, be it state level or in the U.S president election. 99.9999% percent of men do not have nearly the same structural power the ones in the Supreme Court do, who actually overturned roe v wade. I do not think the majority of men are in some conspiracy to actively hinder women’s access to abortion. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/26 05:45 AM |
| 19 | Liberal feminism uses men as a scapegoat for the failures of capitalismThe more leftists look like clowns, the more we’re closer to losing. Nope, let’s not focus on the structural issues and the fact that capitalism is why every pedo on that god forsaken Epstein’s island can get away with it, we’re gonna cry about calling things we find lame “gay”, even though as a lesbian I couldn’t care less lol. Screw the class war, what’s problematic is that I like conventionally attractive women like Megan fox instead of being performative and acting like I find 400 lb morbidl… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/03/26 09:34 AM |
| 8 | Liberal feminism uses men as a scapegoat for the failures of capitalismeach one of those communities has a massive issues with domestic violence against men> I wasn’t aware of this. Damn. Usually when the whole indigenous tribe thing is used as a hold up for matriarchal societies, it’s said these were overall nice and egalitarian little societies that were more so matriarchal in the sense that they were matrilineal, and that men were still allowed to have leadership positions. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/03/26 08:50 AM |
| 17 | Liberal feminism uses men as a scapegoat for the failures of capitalismI think also people have taken the idea of responsibility to equal guilt and maybe that comes from Christian influence> you know actually I’ve never thought of that and that could be it as a lot of morality in western societies are atleast roughly based on Christianity. I never stopped to think where the idea that responsibility=guilt tendency stemmed from. sometimes it feels like intersectionality got taken over by a MAGA patio with how some of the activists are; I don’t understand how they can… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/03/26 08:10 AM |
| 15 | Liberal feminism uses men as a scapegoat for the failures of capitalismBut they have to keep painting men as the villains who are running society and who are in some hivemind trying to ruin every aspect of their lives (yikes, where have we heard this before?). Their rhetoric is literally fear and hate based, but they’ve been able to hijack the left and now being a feminist is kinda seen as a default quality of being a leftist. I think when people in general, not just feminists or women, have some deep seated psychological issues it’s just a lot easier to start havi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/03/26 07:21 AM |
| 44 | Liberal feminism uses men as a scapegoat for the failures of capitalismThis might be eye brow raising for a leftist space but, I almost feel the same way about how the left forces white guilt too. It’s not that I think gendered issues and racism are equal or the same thing, it’s just again, the whole social culture in leftist spaces. I am in an awkward spot because I do believe systemic racism is real. If you asked me broad questions on what I think about a lot of hot topics you would probably just take me as just another leftist more than not (I’m a socialist, I’m… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/03/26 06:35 AM |
| 5 | Weaponized Credulity as a Tool of Power (Reflection on the Cesar Chavez Situation)you probably know why. BLM is tainted by feminism and if I remember right was established by feminists. It calls itself an “intersectional” movement and you know how that goes. I cannot stand “intersectionality”. It just made everything wrong with the left’s problem with identity politics worse. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/03/26 06:16 AM |
| 14 | Weaponized Credulity as a Tool of Power (Reflection on the Cesar Chavez Situation)yeah don’t feminists realize that? I’m starting to go by the idea that they don’t even genuinely care about women’s issues they’re just using feminism to project their personal issues they need to take to therapy. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/26 06:48 PM |
| 24 | Weaponized Credulity as a Tool of Power (Reflection on the Cesar Chavez Situation)I think that’s why feminists work so hard to dismiss the issue of false accusations. if there are some women who do make false accusations, then they’d have to confront that 1. Women aren’t angels 2. how false accusations show female privilege. Any idea of “female privilege” is a hard no against their narrative. They rely on the narrative for control. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/26 05:12 PM |
| 21 | Weaponized Credulity as a Tool of Power (Reflection on the Cesar Chavez Situation)I always found it crazy that #believeallwomen is even a thing and the left proclaiming to be oh so anti-fascist ate it up. What’s more reasonable and fair is “take all women seriously”. Women (and anyone really) should be able to come forward if they are the victims of these crimes and the situations should be investigated. But like automatically believe all women? Really? Are we a fascist society? You get accused of something very serious, you automatically get punished for it? Are feminists im… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/26 05:09 PM |
| 2 | I Think We Strayed Awaysadly, we're going through the same bullshit again with Iran, two weeks of the strait of Hormuz being closed and we're getting domestically fucked by these prices, along with the global market being shaken too. although I will admit I am probably on the better end of this disaster as there's people less fortunate than me who are dying on their homeland because of our government's corruption alongside Israel's state, because I guess liberating people in big 26 still means bombing innocent people … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/26 09:27 PM |
| 2 | I Think We Strayed AwayYeah idk why I’m just thinking this now but I guess my whole point was that is that if the feminists had it their way with this issue, they’d be okay with giving women special protections in these custody and divorce situations but would be more than okay in leaving men in the dust with the unique ways they can be screwed over too. That is my problem. They want “equality”when it benefits them only. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/26 08:16 PM |
| 1 | I Think We Strayed AwayThat is fair. I agree we need to be kept in check to make sure our rhetoric doesn't become just as hateful and destructive as the people we criticize. I guess some of us were confused not so much because we thought you were saying feminism is good but more so it seemed like that you were implying that misandry isn't systemic. Feminists often times try to use the idea that misandry isn't part of the state itself in order to invalidate men's issues. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/26 07:55 PM |
| 3 | I Think We Strayed Away> don't know if I am not getting something, but the bill seems to be proposing a 50/50 split, regardless of the financial and emotional situation of the parent and emotional relation to the child, regardless of the child's opinion. I wouldn't call it sexist, rather I would say supporting it is sexist. Suppose that the woman earns double than the man, the financial hit for the man will be harsher than for the woman. The child could also be close to their father, but the court will make it so that… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/26 07:28 PM |
| 3 | I Think We Strayed AwayBut we do point out systemic change we want to aim for. Atleast on this subreddit we can point at laws, military conscriptions, ect. I can also acknowledge that not all feminists are malicious. Some feminists are "nicer" and take a softer approach to issues men face and can admit to things like "it's harder for men to express their emotions" like they can acknowledge the surface-level symptoms but not the systemic marginalization, but at the end of the day it is like a religion with their centra… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/26 06:54 PM |
| 8 | I Think We Strayed Away>As I made the point in another post, I am gonna say to you too: let's not confuse results and reasons. Conservatives holds toxic expectations on men too, that men are these super-duper super saiyan alphas whom women submit on sight, and that there is no way a men could be abused by women.> okay, no one is denying that and I don't think that he was trying to deny that. From what I have seen around here most of us got a good grip about how socially conservative ideas are harmful to men. The thing… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/26 06:11 PM |
| 6 | I Think We Strayed AwayThe thing is when you want to solve an issue you do have to identify prominent ideologies that are part of the problem. Tradcon rhetoric is harmful for men. Redpill shit is harmful for men. But feminism has installed itself as being part of the left (whether it’s truly left wing or not, that’s a debate for another day) and it seems like leftists in general kind of just assume it’s a good thing, and I think that’s why on a sub called r/leftwingmaleadovocates we may it call it out more. I think it… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/26 05:08 PM |
| 42 | I Think We Strayed Awayyeah and it’s not like we don’t acknowledge how institutions, whether they’re ran by republicans, or democrats, or even people who are more left of the typical democrat (sorry, I will talk from the American/western view cuz that’s all I am versed in) play a part in men’s issues. But with feminists they will not acknowledge how their rhetoric is at least partially responsible for fueling the fire of the ways men are marginalized. We live in an online age where people in general will be fed alot o… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/26 11:41 AM |
| 19 | Major funding boost to divert women from a life of crimegaslighting final boss | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/26 02:01 AM |
| 25 | Thoughts on Bell Hooks?does anyone know if she also talks on how white women would abuse their social leverage over black men? I think the issue shows how there are some ways in which female privilege exists-white women have some privileges because of their WHITENESS and FEMININITY, resulting in them being infantilized and seen as these sacred untouchables who deserve the privilege of special protection. I cannot imagine a feminist admitting to this because this breaks their oppressed/oppressor dichotomy they apply to… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/03/26 05:21 AM |
| 40 | Thoughts on Bell Hooks?We’re criticizing an ideology which is something you can CHOOSE , not some immutable trait that is literally the DNA you were born with, so no it is not an equivalent statement to saying all men are trash. The equivalent would be if we were criticizing WOMEN and painting women as the enemy, to which we are not-it is misandrists who are the problem. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/03/26 05:10 AM |
| 5 | What do you guys think of this short post?yeah it’s not to dismiss any legitimate health issues that do pertain to women- I think everyone should be getting the systemic healthcare they deserve. The problem with the feminist revision is that it delves into their conspiracy thinking (this means the world just hates women, it’s cuz men run society, blah blah blah) but like with a lot of political issues, the reality is so much more complex and cannot be scapegoated on a group of people and is a result of many factors. A lot of these compa… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/03/26 05:01 AM |
| 21 | Did We Fall Into A Trap?I mean after some overthinking I kinda figured they don’t even care about female victims- they only care if it’s female victim/male perpetrator because all they care about is rage fuel for their male demonization narrative. Feminists, especially queer centered feminists, oftentimes are down about heterosexual relationships and some of them push this idea that all women in relationships with men are all miserable in some way, they act as if lesbian relationships are inherently “better” and resemb… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/03/26 04:59 AM |
| 11 | Did We Fall Into A Trap?I’m being a bit semantic but to my dismay a lot of the characters in the Simpsons and especially family guy have all been flanderized and all kinda act like sociopathic idiots but…yeah more to your point- there is this trope where the woman will be portrayed as sensible, graceful, and represent order, and then the man is just shallow, boneheaded, chaotic you know. I mean with all this culture war and media war shit, I personally have yet to have run across an article discussing how these tropes … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/03/26 04:24 AM |
| 21 | Paul Eastwick, a psychologist and relationship researcher, has recently released a book promising to bust all the manosphere myths about relationships. His solution to the masculinity question? BRING BACK CHIVALRY!Even in ancient patriarchal societies, like societies that you could argue that actually were patriarchal- men were not exactly “liberated.” Like look at Ancient Rome. It varies depending on era, but generally men who had X amount of private property were required to fight in the wars. The poorest men, even if they had “free” status, were stuck slaving away in the lead mines and maintaining the infrastructure of the state, if you were to get injured you’re fucked and deemed completely useless. W… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/03/26 05:49 AM |
| 18 | How to talk with normal leftistI don’t even have this problem just regarding leftism and feminism, it’s a problem with leftism in general. So many people are using social issues for their own validation and with identity politics it lets a lot of narcissistic people draw attention to themselves so they can gain social validation. I see less actually wanting to dismantle harmful and oppressive structures, more about breeding obsessive antagonism on certain groups of people and digging up anecdotal scenarios to project your per… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/03/26 12:00 PM |
| 7 | "We don't rent to men because they start drilling everything and fill the apartment with holes" is crazylol, we’re gonna assume all men like doing handy man shit and all women don’t partake in those skills. As a female in the trades, wow, I’m offended. When it comes to misandrists, you will realize it eventually comes full circle. They have a set of assumptions that men are inherently this, women aren’t inherently this way just like people who are more open about identifying as “traditional” or “socially conservative”. But with misandrists, there’s a focus on using that to pain the narrative that … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/03/26 08:30 PM |
| 16 | Sureput it that way, and it puts feminist rhetoric into perspective. and you realize how these people probably should go get therapy instead of creating a hate philosophy. that’s how nazism works too. they have to fabricate some kind of enemy that’s in some collective conspiracy to actively make their lives harder when in reality most people are just people trying to go about their day. It’s like how Nazis are obsessed with the jews. It’s bigoted and mentally ill. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 07/03/26 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Here we go againI think it’s obviously misandristic but i think the irony is how it’s sexist towards women too. Feminists act as if women are children. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 06/03/26 07:59 AM |
| 4 | There are 3 ways feminists usually use to justify thier cakism when it comes to male gender roles.Of course. I mean I had a male cousin who did the same thing. His fiancé cheated on him with 3 different dudes and his dumbass didn’t leave her still but I think he got used to me being the therapist cousin and it got annoying and exhausting as hell, I mean there’s a point where it’s like you’re doing this to yourself buddy, I don’t know what to tell you lmao and honestly I shoulda set a boundary sooner. I mean it’s just a normal thing in all interpersonal relationships that you’re not obligated… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/02/26 12:33 AM |
| 11 | There are 3 ways feminists usually use to justify thier cakism when it comes to male gender roles.The recent drama with the USA hockey team shit was so dumb. I just see it as more culture war slop that’s ultimately very trivial. Fuck trump and everything he’s doing but that was just a stupid, flat unfunny joke. Trump has said and done way worse things regarding women, and he and other elites are literally fucking pedophiles but oh no, we’ll waste time on this. I’m just amused seeing feminists eat the hockey shit up as rage fodder. Also, I want to say that you’re doing more than the bare mini… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/02/26 05:40 PM |
| 13 | There are 3 ways feminists usually use to justify thier cakism when it comes to male gender roles.yeah another thing to put reality into perspective too is that it seems as if a minority of men are the ones committing a majority of sexual assaults. A lot of sex offenders are repeat offenders. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/02/26 05:31 PM |
| 29 | There are 3 ways feminists usually use to justify thier cakism when it comes to male gender roles.yeah I figured that feminists are the ones who have an inferiority complex and are the ones suffering from internal misogyny. A huge principle in feminist rhetoric is not just that men and women deserve equal rights (or so they claim)- but this idea that women are perpetually NOT equal on a societal level and there’s this perpetual need to overcompensate for that. I think it’s a manifestation of what they actually feel about their own gender, so they assume the world sees them as inferior too. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/02/26 07:58 AM |
| 17 | There are 3 ways feminists usually use to justify thier cakism when it comes to male gender roles.good point, our modern day technologies also further complicates it considering people can have access to some arms which evens the field a bit. Also, physical strength won’t necessarily protect you from some crazy drunk driver on the road who crashes into you. There are uncertainties everyone has to face day to day, but just because it could happen doesn’t mean it will or that we should live by paranoia. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/02/26 07:41 AM |
| 70 | There are 3 ways feminists usually use to justify thier cakism when it comes to male gender roles.Also, something I don’t get about is the “I’m scared of walking alone at night” shit. Often they will cite the physical strength difference between men and women, so that’s why women are justified in wanting things like women-only buses, women-only uber drivers, ect. But like..what they do ultimately want men to do about it? Sexual dimorphism is just a biological reality. It just comes down to perpetuating toxic shame on people and demonizing people for some genetic trait they were born with (yi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/02/26 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Men's Issues are invisible in discourseYou are so right and I couldn’t have said it better. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/26 06:34 AM |
| 9 | I noticed that there seems to be correlation between TERFS and cakism feminists, when it comes to male gender roles.I used to call myself a feminist, and I somewhat believed in the patriarchy theory but more so like “the patriarchy harms men too!” Bs, I think I fell for the shit the feminism is about helping everyone. But I realized over time-after really thinking about feminist rhetoric, and maybe I was influenced by bad experiences dating feminist women-that a lot of the culture and sentiments were just plain wrong and were just about demonizing men. I realized feminism didn’t even genuinely align with me i… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/02/26 03:34 PM |
| 16 | Misandry, Misogyny and RaceA fault with intersectionality is that they assume all possible axises of marginalization are equal. How it ties to the topic of men’s issues is that men are not even considered an identity where marginalization is possible. The more identities you tick off, the more oppressed you are, it’s that simple. With that logic a trans, pansexual, black woman living in a wealthy area in a relatively “liberal” region is more oppressed than a poor man in a crime-ridden area who can’t even guarantee he coul… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/02/26 08:15 PM |
| 11 | I noticed that there seems to be correlation between TERFS and cakism feminists, when it comes to male gender roles.I don’t even think it’s just that necessarily. It’s just no matter what you do, to feminists, it’s damned if you do, damned if you don’t. What it means to be a “good man” is an ever changing, convoluted, inconsistent ever moving goalpost. I wish my mind wasn’t always in overdrive because there’s a point where I realized I should stop trying to make sense of them, because they are not operating from the rational and it’s not their intention to be rational or have a fair, consistent moral framewor… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/02/26 07:47 PM |
| 22 | As if men dont contribute half the genes required for the babyI think they do know this, which is why they are so viscous about changing the narrative and painting men as useless and that men just leech off of a system that benefits them. Where have we heard those kinds of arguments before? It’s how conservatives talk about black people. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/02/26 04:54 PM |
| 27 | As if men dont contribute half the genes required for the babywhat do disabled people produce? What do crack-addicted, homeless people produce? That’s a very dark route to go down. Like what the fuck was the original poster trying to say???? What concerns me is that in most other contexts, the ways feminist spread their rhetoric would be unacceptable because historically and as far as moral framework goes we know what kind of road that kind of thinking leads to. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/02/26 04:51 PM |
| 89 | As if men dont contribute half the genes required for the babySo we’re measuring the worth of people by how they function as a resource utility, instead of recognizing the humanity in all of us and unconditional worth? Not very progressive of you. Pretty Nazi-authoritarian thinking, actually. Do these people hear themselves lmfaooo, what if you replaced “men” with “disabled people”…. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/02/26 04:40 PM |
| 17 | Very scary...And what’s ironic is that it does nothing towards solving women’s issues either. Hate makes the world a worse place, period. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/02/26 04:38 PM |
| 10 | Blaming all men despite the fact that women also enabled EpseinFeminists literally be making fascist propaganda. We’ve seen that before with how minorities were depicted in comparison to whites Maybe not as obvious with the caricatures, but I think it’s still comparable. Remember the “white man’s burden?” | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/02/26 05:18 PM |
| 12 | Blaming all men despite the fact that women also enabled EpseinThat’s very true. I notice a lot of liberals and even supposed to be leftists act like dems weren’t in the files too. Which I don’t get. As a leftist I have no problem admitting a lot of democrats were in on the thing too. Fuck them anyways lmao, they don’t represent what I even believe and are basically right wing still. And then of course conservatives are in complete denial of trump’s involvement. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/02/26 05:15 PM |
| 31 | Blaming all men despite the fact that women also enabled EpseinI would assume their rebuttal would be talking about sum “patriarchy brainwashing her-“ implying that even though she is literally in a very influential and fairly powerful position in society, she has no agency by virtue of being a woman. Feminists don’t really think of women as humans either, huh…. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/02/26 08:10 AM |
| 50 | Blaming all men despite the fact that women also enabled EpseinThe patriarchy is making her display her legs for male gratification /s Also, something about this art style and comic set up pisses me off and comes across as so pretentious lmfaooo | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/02/26 08:07 AM |
| 61 | Blaming all men despite the fact that women also enabled EpseinI find it disgusting they’re using the atrocities found in the Epstein and reducing it to “men bad.” Is it actually about caring about the victims anymore, or just about your bigoted agenda and another opportunity to justify your hate? Also…if your point is that men are running society and doing child r*pe and eating babies, let’s try replacing “men” with “Jews” and then we start sounding like Nick fucking Fuentes don’t we? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/02/26 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Is it unfair to want more coverage of society's violence to men as a whole?You can’t steal the victimhood spotlight from feminists! | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/02/26 01:19 AM |
| 2 | An example in addition to the murder of Emmitt Till of how racism and false allegations/misandry are connected, and another thing to show anyone who thinks we should “believe all women”You’re joking but feminists fucking would say this | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/02/26 05:11 PM |
| 1 | An example in addition to the murder of Emmitt Till of how racism and false allegations/misandry are connected, and another thing to show anyone who thinks we should “believe all women”They don’t want to confront the issues that affect men of color because it would expose their bigotry and how their whole idea of absolutely male privilege is wrong. Black men are seen are as more dangerous and their lives are seen as more disposable, because of both their blackness and their maleness. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/02/26 05:11 PM |
| 7 | Long time friend of sub Ana Psychology turns the Jeffrey Epstein situation into opportunity to demonize men.Well, I’ve been seeing a lot of feminists online framing Maxwell’s involvement with trafficking children as “don’t trust women who are male centered, they will put you in danger.” Again, not acknowledging that a woman can be an individual who is a horrible person capable of awful things. all roads must lead back to men being the inherent problem. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/02/26 12:40 AM |
| 12 | Foolish out of touch hot takeIt shouldn’t even be a debate how delusional and irrational that is let alone prejudiced. But oh, the mostly imaginary sins of men for thousands of years and 3rd hand anger excuses it. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/02/26 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Dear Feminist Lurkers,feminists like to paint the narrative that women don’t contribute to social norms and how things work, they don’t have a voice at all but like look at American history at how white women have abused their privileges against black men and we all know the ugly ways that have ended. But yeah, I think with feminists, but with a lot of people in leftist culture in general they are attracted to the aesthetic of being oppressed. I’ve learned that a lot of political activists, left or right are in the g… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/26 03:27 AM |
| 3 | Dear Feminist Lurkers,yeah a lot of times they overblow things that are ultimately trivial. That’s why I bring up the culture wars. They’re stupid. Feminists getting pissy over conventionally attractive female characters and not enough fat disabled representation in video games and Netflix shows. Can’t enjoy shit anymore. Meanwhile there are issues that actually affect people from a point of survival like what you mentioned, male disposability during war and shih. Such a slap in the face to actual marginalization. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/26 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Dear Feminist Lurkers,I agree with you. It’s material conditions that are the main anchors of whether you “have it easy” or not. Modern leftism has seemed to throw that very important principle out the window and exchanged it for all this identity box shit, and I think feminism is one manifestation of all that culture war manufactured rage slop. I think a lot of young men are going towards to right because atleast the right gives them a home and makes them feel valued. Especially when you got smug privileged feminist… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/26 02:49 AM |
| 6 | Dear Feminist Lurkers,I mean I kind of do believe in “equal opportunities, no equal outcomes” but I try to avoid it because of conservative or right wing connotations. The way I see it though is that while sure, you can make it legal on paper for all people to be able to become a surgeon, become a politician, buy a nice house and live a safe and healthy life- a lot of times the structure of society and systemic hindrances make it so certain people do not truly have access to those things and better quality of life. Y… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/26 01:15 AM |
| 15 | Dear Feminist Lurkers,Gaslighting you to accept the degradation of your personhood and your self worth. Number one tactic in an abuser’s manual. Most of us know and have this general idea that it’s not okay to make horrible generalized statements about groups of people, but feminists are trying to make you doubt yourself about normal things like that. It is about their need for control at the end. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/26 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Dear Feminist Lurkers,You really think they’ll figure it out? Trust me, some of them do know. That is why they’re so defensive and fragile over their victimhood narrative. That’s all they have. Some people just love choosing to be angry bigots. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/26 01:01 AM |
| 7 | Dear Feminist Lurkers,It reminds me of how a lot of progressive christians will look at the beliefs of conservative Christians who vote for trump and be like “that’s not real Christianity.” The reasoning is basically that “the out group’s beliefs are cruel, nasty, and problematic but my group is much nicer so therefore it deserves the label of ‘true Christianity’” when in reality Christianity throughout history has been whatever mankind needed it to be at the moment and a lot of progressive rhetoric (speaking as a pr… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/26 12:52 AM |
| 35 | Dear Feminist Lurkers,I think they also want leverage through victimhood too. They find superiority and identity in victimhood. I think it’s because a lot of them actually hate being women so an easy way to feel more powerful than men is by feeling morally superior. In feminist ideology it’s important to uphold this idea of “oh poor women, always being marginalized and oppressed by evil men.” think of it similar to religion in many ways, but in this example it reminds me of how a lot of christians find their superior… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/26 12:46 AM |
| 16 | The narrative around "male/mens mental health" is so oversimplified to the point of caricatureI know. Feminists like to act like their perceived gendered oppression is equal to things like systemic racism but it’s just not true. Boys and girls grow up in the same households. Women born into privileged backgrounds have access to better education, more career options, better quality of life. That’s why I say it’s a class war. After realizing that I can’t help but see feminism as curated rage. Their narrative of “male inherently privileged, female inherently oppressed” is just fucking wrong… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/26 05:56 AM |
| 18 | The narrative around "male/mens mental health" is so oversimplified to the point of caricatureYeah and when a woman is nasty towards other women, it’s internal misogyny and it’s the patriarchy’s fault for making her act that way. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/26 05:46 AM |
| 27 | "I wonder about the current state of feminist discourse, it can't be that worse—"Uhhh, no we can’t point out how some women fetishize gay men! Women are angels! They don’t do that! And if they do, it’s different than how gross men fetishize lesbian sex, because men are just gross pigs and women are incapable of wrong! /s | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/02/26 03:53 PM |
| 19 | "I wonder about the current state of feminist discourse, it can't be that worse—"You see, with bigots they love manufacturing and generalizing about things that could be true, but of course there’s another side of the coin to it and multiple things can be occurring at once in society. See the feminist generalization “men always were more privileged and had it so easy! Women were always expected to cool, clean, and pump out babies while men just are allowed to do whatever they want and sit around!” Which part of it is true, but you’re not being reasonable and fair to the othe… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/02/26 03:50 PM |
| 6 | Vent/Rant Post: Severely depressed over gender warsYeah we need to stop equating gender role issues as the same as other forms of marginalization like systemic racism. The feminist narrative is that men always benefit from being men systemically and in every social interaction and it’s just not true. And it’s such an insult to the things marginalized groups have suffered. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/02/26 03:49 AM |
| 11 | Thoughts on the men’s liberation movement (positive and negative)I mean in hindsight I find it so obvious that we live in an oligarchy, and this whole conspiracy that all men are in on something to oppress all women is just that, a conspiracy. Like the whole patriarchy boogey man theory feminists got going on…it’s just wrong and it’s just not reality. Another thing too is that they often try to equate their perceived oppression as equivalent to what other groups have gone through systemically (Jews during Nazi germany, blacks during 1800’s America, or even wh… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/02/26 02:25 AM |
| 11 | Thoughts on the men’s liberation movement (positive and negative)My problem with mensright is that it ends up just being super emotional and irrational and ends up delving into simplified generalizations about how the world is. To a point I think people should be allowed to vent, you’re only human after all. but it’s not healthy once the bitterness is being encouraged and fed. becomes less about solving issues and moving forward and more about baking in your vitriol. I’m a woman so my opinion could have some blind spots but that’s what I think. I’m not saying… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/01/26 08:49 PM |
| 17 | Thoughts on the men’s liberation movement (positive and negative)“This is because they attempt to treat men as objects to be ‘trained’ “ And this is why feminism reminds me of religious indoctrination so much. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/01/26 08:39 PM |
| 11 | The real question is: where do misandrist females get their audacity?This is why as a woman I do not find feminism empowering. If anything it’s demeaning. I want to be seen as a person, a human, with my own autonomy who is capable of taking accountability, instead of blaming the “evil patriarchy” for making me do something wrong. Being idealized and put on a pedastool is another form of dehumanization and objectification. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/01/26 02:13 AM |
| 12 | The "Why Women Love Heated Rivalry" discourse pisses me off so bad. It basically boils down to more "positive masculinity" BS and the concept of gay men being an "escape" for women.The feminist mentality is in a lot of WLW spaces. The culture has become so performative, and it’s one out of many reasons that as a lesbian I feel so disillusioned from it. Lesbian attraction is framed as more pure, sanitized, and less objectifying than heterosexual male attraction to women, and lesbians don’t like conventionally attractive women because they’re not as shallow and gross as straight guys! It’s not even true. The more down to earth reality is that I like a lot of the same women s… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/01/26 04:08 AM |
| 7 | Why Are Male Gender Roles More Resistant to Change?Capitalism exploits everyone, but it definitely exploits male disposability and male physical labor. Look who’s doing most of the blue collar jobs that can be life threatening. And there’s tons of wives of elite men who have no problem passively enjoying the spoils that come along with that. Gaining class consciousness I think is a huge part of dismantling the feminist narrative of “men have it easier than women.” And this fragile idea that we live in some society where all men are actively in s… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/01/26 01:03 AM |
| 15 | Personal advice in optics: Do NOT let them call you 'anti-feminist'Yeah. I’m a lesbian and also a woman of color, I dated a white feminist who came from a very rich family who was exactly like how you described…it was a trip to say the least but yeah, she never truly understood how it was like to actually live through life through systemic hardship in any meaningful way, was super performative online, ect, and was super antagonistic towards men despite knowing I had brothers and male friends I cared about. I mean with the way I grew up it’s hard for me to see m… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/26 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Personal advice in optics: Do NOT let them call you 'anti-feminist'It’s the same reason why you can’t reason christians into becoming atheists. Like feminism, Christianity is a religion that people merge into their identities so naturally they will get defensive and only respond to trigger words instead of directly objecting the points you made. Plus they are simply working from a whole different set of assumptions and logical frameworks. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/26 07:36 PM |
| 32 | Personal advice in optics: Do NOT let them call you 'anti-feminist'Yeah I think a lot of them know deep down how nonsensical and easily debunked their whole “patriarchy” conspiracy is and they know there are societal disadvantages to being a man. Try mentioning that in feminist spaces and they get so defensive and hostile, and start acting like elementary kids once you took their candy away it’s almost funny. I find it extremely pathetic these women only find their identity in being a victim. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/26 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Destroying The "but that's not real feminism" ArgumentI’m curious as to why you still identify as a feminist. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/26 11:43 AM |
| 11 | If men are 40% of DV victims, why are 90% of arrests male?Abuse is abuse, point blank, and the trauma is real regardless, point blank and it’s not like women are completely incapable of killing their male partners. It does happen. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/26 04:08 AM |
| 9 | If men are 40% of DV victims, why are 90% of arrests male?No child should have to go through that bro. I’m so sorry. I grew up in a broken home too around a lot of chaos, sometimes I wonder if I’m ever gonna heal from it 100%. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/26 03:27 AM |
| 13 | Just got called a snowflake, basement dweller for calling out & condemning misandryI know dude, like the irony is that feminists/manhaters never reflect on what they preach. For the most part I think most progressive non-feminists male advocates don’t act like women are inherently a problem as a whole, feminist rhetoric along with right wing rhetoric and general societal expectations put on men are what’s harmful. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/01/26 01:10 AM |
| 26 | If men are 40% of DV victims, why are 90% of arrests male?I don’t blame you for thinking that way man. Society is so fucked up. When I was still living with my parents when I was 17, my sister and her ex were over and it got ugly cuz she accused him of cheating, and she started hitting him on the face and breaking things, and being hysterical. From what I remember he didn’t put his hands on her at all, my mom called the cops but when the cops came along with the social workers who took my sister to the psych ward (she has a history of bipolar disorder … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/26 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Different framing, same gender expectationsthe years start coming and they don’t stop coming | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/26 01:37 AM |
| 103 | "Women are Wonderful" effect is really the "Men are Horrible" effectThey’d really rather draw 25 uno cards than admit female privilege exists in some instances. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/26 05:53 AM |
| 7 | Forms of feminism have the same fundamental problems, often just to different extentsYeah, even when they acknowledge that men can be marginalized for being some other minority, it’s still through the whole oppressor/oppressed dichotomy, ticking off identity boxes logic. Black heterosexual men are often seen as just one “box” away from being a privileged white guy, and I’ve even seen feminists argue that white women and black men are equally oppressed 😬(like how ridiculous is that? The demographic that is least likely to be a victim of violent crime has the same experience in Am… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/01/26 12:39 PM |
| 24 | Misandrist and feminist loreYou see, they will always keep moving the goalposts and their standards will never be consistent or fair. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/01/26 12:27 PM |
| 38 | Misandrist and feminist loreYeah I think that’s also how you see a lot of terminally online feminists pressing this idea that men just sit around all day and women are always doing all the hard work around the house. I mean sure, shitty husbands and male partners do exist but lmao there are a lot of instances where it’s men doing the more dangerous shit like building a patio out of bricks or putting up the Christmas lights outside. Like anyone with a rational brain and who lives in the real world knows how obtuse a lot of … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/01/26 12:20 PM |
| 15 | The social media human-centipede — or how I’ve never spoken to a men before or even know what a man actually isYeah feminist men or men who tolerate having misandrist partners confuse me too. I mean I have dated feminist misandrist lesbians before, and that already had a toll on me to say the least. (I used to identify as a feminist myself, but I think those experiences amongst many other personal realizations made me realize I was an egalitarian without a home) So I couldn’t imagine why a MAN would want to put up with that. Like imagine thinking commiting to someone who thinks your inherent being is pro… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/01/26 03:04 AM |
| 10 | The social media human-centipede — or how I’ve never spoken to a men before or even know what a man actually isYet a lot of them still end up dating and marrying men, even though, atleast in most western societies, they have the freedom not to if they don’t want to….? Like that’s another thing that confuses me about a lot of feminists. If they have such a “you don’t know which chocolate in the box is poison” kind of mentality, and they think it’s such a grave risk, how do they reconcile being married to men, dating men, ect? Do they seriously think they just oh so happened to get one of the “good ones”? … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/01/26 02:45 AM |
| 21 | The social media human-centipede — or how I’ve never spoken to a men before or even know what a man actually isYeah as a lesbian I always wondered if a lot straight women even like men, considering the way a lot of them talk about them with such disdain. I know not all straight women are like that but it’s kinda depressing since I’ve ran into that a lot of that irl. My sister is hyper-feminist, says she hates men but still is married to a man. Like how do they reconcile with that? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/01/26 02:39 AM |
| 9 | Thoughts about this post, generalizing a group of people VS generalizing another group of people?Yep. You can try to say “I don’t actually hate x group of people when I say that I hate x group of people I’m just frustrated because of years of systemic oppression”, but like that’s not an excuse. Verbal abuse is verbal abuse, period, and the negative affects on the people you target are still real, period. Even if you yourself have legitimate trauma, innocent people are not responsible to absorb the fallout of it. It is not an excuse to be an asshole. We’re all individuals who should be maint… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/01/26 09:57 PM |
| 13 | If you claim that a man getting offended when exerting hate speech of men (I hate men, men are trash etc) is guilty of the things you hate of them, then you're part of the problem.feminism seems to be most popular amongst upper class white women who for the most part don't know real life struggles. Even then, if you do have real trauma, you solve that in therapy and you don't turn it into a whole hate philosophy and you don't make innocent people feel responsible for your anxieties and paranoia. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/01/26 05:29 PM |
| 17 | Feminist's complete lack of empathy for intactivism is very offputting.I think there are some feminists who are atleast somewhat more good faith and more like egalitarians without a home, however I wouldn’t dismiss the ones who are aggressively misandristic as not being “true feminists.” So yeah no true Scotsman. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/01/26 03:26 AM |
| 29 | Feminist's complete lack of empathy for intactivism is very offputting.I’m glad you linked that cuz holy shit what the fuck did I just read??? That’s just insane. As a queer woman myself, I’ve always had a problem with how the lgbt community seems to paint sapphic relationships as inherently more pure, and all this other sexist and borderline if not fetishistic rhetoric. Not only is a lot of it misandrist, it also harms women as we see here. That’s how you get female-female sexual abuse being erased by these kind of feminist revisions. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/01/26 03:16 AM |
| 45 | Feminist's complete lack of empathy for intactivism is very offputting.Yeah lmao it’s not even like feminists care about female rape victims on a humane level. By that I mean they only use the suffering of female rape victims for their hate agenda which is to point and say ,”men bad, men rape, this is all men do.” Which I find despicable. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/01/26 02:20 AM |
| 12 | Historical Example of A Double Standard: Nazis Persecuted Gays Yet Tolerated LesbiansI think this is common in feminist rhetoric and that’s where the cracks show. Feminists often times try to equate the enforced gender roles on women as equal to other forms of systemic discrimination where disadvantage is for the most part, absolute, like America’s history with systemic racism, or the status of Jewish people in nazi Germany. But the thing is it’s different when you try to match it up to women’s status in society, or gender issues in general, because with gender roles comes trade… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/01/26 02:04 AM |
| 9 | Historical Example of A Double Standard: Nazis Persecuted Gays Yet Tolerated Lesbianstbh there might be countries still that somewhat punish female homosexuality (I’m thinking countries with an Islamic state????) idk. As a lesbian, living in a fairly liberal city in America, it’s had no negative bearing on my day to day life. My immediate family is homophobic, but I don’t feel institutionally oppressed as a queer woman. I feel so out of place on the left because it’s just something I never felt like I had to announce. I’m not ashamed of it either, I own up to who I am, but like…… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/01/26 01:55 AM |
| 12 | Pick mes, projection, generalizations, and foolishnessby maleness I just meant the state of being male, maybe I worded it poorly idk | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/01/26 02:36 AM |
| 22 | Pick mes, projection, generalizations, and foolishnessBasically brainwashing you to accept verbal abuse. It doesn’t matter if “that’s not the intention.” Young men hearing “men are trash” all the time is toxic for their self esteem and overall well being and the effects are negative, period. Maleness is an inherent trait you’re born as, if you hear that it’s “trash” all the time, you are going to internalize that over time. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/01/26 02:31 AM |
| 15 | This Page Is the Worst“Just because a demographic is responsible for the majority of a crime, it doesn’t imply that the majority of that demographic are criminals.” And besides, YOU WOULDN’T be caught dead, especially as a leftist, using this kind of logic to justify prejudice against black people. There is a double standard there. All of a sudden on the left when it comes to men’s issues we start sounding like how right wingers talk. None of the points you made were wrong, they’re pretty rational. But one thing I le… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/01/26 10:38 PM |
| 3 | It took a woman getting killed for people to take ICE seriously.Wow. Feminists are disgusting. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/01/26 06:42 AM |
| 22 | The Left Has An Insatiable Desire to Body Shame Short MenI have a theory that that’s why the progressive left is a pearl clutching stickler when it comes to things that I, as a leftist but someone who does not subscribe to woke culture, find trivial such a “microaggressions” or making a slightly edgy joke in good fun. I think it’s a reflection of something else they are insecure of, maybe that is they’re insecure about the prejudices they secretly hold, considering the fact that the leftist image is supposed to be holier than thou and accepting of eve… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/01/26 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Countries where same-sex activity is illegalLMAO this is gold | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/01/26 07:18 PM |
| 16 | I hate that you can’t talk about misandry in leftist spacesI was saying in the context of the topic of oppression Olympics, prejudice is bad period, this victimhood as an excuse for prejudice is bad period, and belonging to a group that is seen as historically being under years of systemic oppression isn’t an excuse to be an asshole. It’s also not effective towards solving any problems you claim to want to solve. I mention white guilt because the left has approached a lot of social issues, not just feminism, with this “oppressed/oppressor” dichotomy and… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/01/26 03:11 PM |
| 59 | I hate that you can’t talk about misandry in leftist spacesIt’s literally its own form of social authoritarianism akin to social conservatism. Black and white morality. Pearl clutching and bigotry when you refuse to submit to pre-conceived roles set up on the basis of who you are. Like with feminism, with men you’re supposed to just take the verbal abuse from feminists because you’re a man and you’re by default the antagonist in their fucked up story. But if we’re not fascists, we’re not supposed to accept any prejudice like that, point blank, individua… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/01/26 07:57 AM |
| 15 | Countries where same-sex activity is illegalAs a lesbian, I don't like how queer media and rhetoric, especially queer feminist rhetoric tries to paint sapphic relationships and attraction as something more "pure", and infantile, in a way. Male sexuality, especially male attraction towards women is always framed as just *bad*. I find it so funny because trust me when I see women like Sydney Sweeney on tv or on the front page of my social media I have the same reaction as a lot of straight guys do. I wonder if queer feminists hear themselve… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/01/26 06:41 AM |
| 6 | Has misandry ruined the left?what I don’t get is how like in a lot of secular and leftist circles there is much criticism about the toxic shame some organized religions can induce, and how organized religion has been used for fascism. Yet feminism is often accepted in those same circles and maybe even promoted, it’s like they don’t call out the same patterns in feminism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/01/26 10:17 PM |
| 4 | Has misandry ruined the left?I mean usually when you call this point out they’ll just further play some more mental gymnastics. Again, the logic is that men share collective responsibility. If an individual man does something wrong, all men must hold that guilt. I like to compare it to the Christian concept of original sin. TSo even if the patriarchy exists, even if it does harm men, well men need to still shut up and stop crying because it’s their own fault, even if most of them don’t decide how shit works. Apex fallacy sh… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/01/26 09:55 PM |
| 7 | Misogyny, misandry and why one will always worsen the other beyond just retaliation logicI must say with everything you’ve been through, it takes a lot of maturity for someone like you to be where you are now. People take the path of least resistance and when it comes to trauma, it’s so easy to let your valid victimhood be an excuse to be a chronic asshole. Once you’re down that path of vitriol and vengeance and anger it’s so easy to just stay there. it sounds like you were able to atleast somewhat overcome what a lot of people aren’t able to muster the strength to overcome. Of cour… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/01/26 05:38 AM |
| 11 | Misogyny, misandry and why one will always worsen the other beyond just retaliation logicWhat I’m struggling with as a female (I hate this word so much) “ally” is that I kind of fear becoming whatever the men’s rights equivalent of a “white savior” is. Like there’s just some things I inherently won’t understand about being a man in today’s world, and while I can empathize, and I do have a lot of opinions regarding these issues, sometimes I struggle to figure when it’s best I hold my tongue back because I could come across as ignorant and unintentionally saying something harmful. Sor… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/01/26 05:12 AM |
| 7 | Misogyny, misandry and why one will always worsen the other beyond just retaliation logicYeah historically that shit has manifested in the worst ways possible a lot of times which is why I’m glad you made this post, along with the points you made that are more relevant to the sub like how holding women up as angels who can’t do any wrong out of their own accord is harmful to men. The manosphere preys on men by presenting themselves as a “home” for them, socially, but then they impose that same culture of unfair responsibilities based on gender. Also, your insight on this sub is amaz… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/01/26 04:48 AM |
| 26 | Misogyny, misandry and why one will always worsen the other beyond just retaliation logic“So what do we do? We overcompensate for a theory that was utter bullshit in the first place, we put women on pedestals, see them as incapable of wrong, see them as vessels of purity. “ What amuses me is that this “women are angels and vessels of purity” concept overlaps with a lot of social conservatism, the manosphere, and with feminism. As a woman I actually find it very dehumanizing, cuz it’s like what? I’m not allowed to be a human who’s capable of being selfish and flawed? If I do somethin… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/01/26 04:24 AM |
| 6 | “‘Men are trash’ isn’t personal.” Sure, Jan.Tbh idk if I can really give you a solid answer, but here it goes…keep a long story short, I didn’t have a good childhood, bad relationship with my dad, which sounds more like a stereotype for why women become feminists, and I grew up poor (in America). Had brothers, male friends, ect, growing up like that it’s hard for me to see men as privileged when men in your life have to break their bodies to survive, despite knowing some men who were abusive, I also had female family members and partners … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 05/01/26 12:04 AM |
| 41 | "Low birth rates are men's fault"Wait so which is it? Sometimes the birth rate dropping is framed as a good thing cuz that means women are practicing their agency and aren’t forced into marriage. But here now it’s like, oh the declining birth rate is MEN’S fault? Lmao? And like how do they know this? I mean as an American I think it’s more reasonable to chalk it up to our shit economy, most people in my generation can’t even afford to house ourselves when we’re single-but okay, everything circles back to antagonizing men cuz ya… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/01/26 07:29 PM |
| 7 | How false accusations create a system that fails both victims and the accusedAnother thing to note is that the majority of sexual assaults are committed by a minority of men. A good amount of them are repeat offenders and have multiple victims. That’s why I find it so stupid when feminists try to chastise the majority of men about that stuff. Most men aren’t rapists, and to assume most are inclined to or even want to do that is sexist and bigoted. And if a man is a rapist, his mind is already made up, making everyone do a stupid PSA isn’t gonna fix that. If a man is trul… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/01/26 05:28 AM |
| 18 | “‘Men are trash’ isn’t personal.” Sure, Jan.“Nope, men built and maintain society, killed our natural predators, cured diseases, and went to the moon.” Oh no, I think misandrists are aware of this, but that’s exactly why they spew the bigotry they do. If you have to belittle someone and call them trash for who they are that shows your own insecurity. It’s women like this who are the real internal misogynists. They aren’t secure enough in their own womanhood so they have to project that insecurity onto the whole male population. (TLDR: som… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/01/26 04:19 AM |
| 16 | “‘Men are trash’ isn’t personal.” Sure, Jan.As a woman, and if it gives me more merit, as a lesbian-posts like these make me wonder if Becky has ever talked to a human male before. If this rhetoric wasn’t as damaging as it is, I’d laugh, cuz Christ you really go through day to day life assuming every man you meet is somehow simultaneously some animal inclined to violent and destructive behavior, yet each one of them somehow have the brain capacity to be in some ultra hive-mind conspiracy to oppress you? Like do they listen to themselves? … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/01/26 04:06 AM |
| 20 | Has misandry ruined the left?You can show a feminist these statistics that basically show that males, control for just about every other trait, are in general more likely to be the victims of violent crime than females. But i just about have every one of their go to excuses memorized “Yeah! By other men!” “It’s a result of the patriarchy!” Feminist ideology has hijacked leftist culture with one of their main end goals is to invalidate any unique issues men do face, for well, being men. Their identity is in their victimhood.… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/01/26 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the whole warzone between men and women (Especially the "When you're privileged, equality feels like oppression" sentiment)Lmao yeah it’s so annoying when privileged upper middle class to rich white feminists masquerade as caring about race issues, economic issues, but for some reason with them every conversation has to go back to them somehow being oppressed even though they’re probably the most privileged in our society. It’s victimhood narcissism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/01/26 10:35 PM |
| 9 | Has misandry ruined the left?This is exactly what the billionaires want. They want us in a shit flinging contest over these culture wars and the weird purity culture in leftist circles. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/01/26 10:32 PM |
| 28 | Has misandry ruined the left?I think that speaks for the immaturity on the left. No nuance anymore just fucking emotional and vindicative as hell. It’s not enough for you to just be a decent person you have to be actively bowing down to their cult and vengeance fantasy thing.. like what the fuck. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/01/26 08:07 AM |
| 3 | Disgusting Men Existing Doesn’t Mean Misandry Doesn’t Exist or MatterI find it actually pretty gross when they use the valid suffering other individual women face to fuel their hate philosohy against man. Imagine using someone else’s tragedy for your narcissism. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/01/26 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Disgusting Men Existing Doesn’t Mean Misandry Doesn’t Exist or MatterI think most people with their head screwed on right and who aren’t rotting their brains by constantly consuming true crime and manufactured rage, like a lot of young women and feminists are, would probably agree with you for the most part. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/01/26 03:23 AM |
| 10 | My Psychology textbook “wryly” suggested putting all males between the ages of 12 to 28 in cryogenic sleep to reduce crime.I’m a POC, I don’t have a problem admitting people who look like us are more likely to do more crimes. But I have a problem when racists try to use at a reason to paint collective guilt, because that’s how you get down a dark road, and that’s how you get crazy blanket solutions like the one in the text book. “I find it a smarter to move the conversation away from ‘buh misandry’ to ‘why are young men committing more violent crimes’?” Interesting…I half agree. I think the first step though in not … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/01/26 09:55 PM |
| 11 | My Psychology textbook “wryly” suggested putting all males between the ages of 12 to 28 in cryogenic sleep to reduce crime.I mean it’s kinda concerning cuz feminists eat shit like that up…not even just feminists, but for some reason using men as a hypothetical example as a group of people that it is okay to generalize as being violent is kinda normalized overall. Hypotheticals even if not possible is something useful for bigots. Like why are we even suggesting an idea that the world would be a better place if a certain group of people with an immutable trait were forcefully subjugated in any way? Again, it intuitive… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/01/26 09:34 PM |
| 20 | My Psychology textbook “wryly” suggested putting all males between the ages of 12 to 28 in cryogenic sleep to reduce crime.I doubt most publishers of these textbooks would be okay with quoting someone who said something, but replacing the objects in the hypotheticals with certain groups of people such as “Arabs” “Jews” “black people” ect. Like oh, if we hypothetically forcefully put all people of latino descent in America to sleep, all the cartel and drug crime would go down! You don’t wanna normalize that talk cuz it’s the kinda fucking logic the US government used to send Japanese Americans to the camps post Pearl… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/01/26 09:20 PM |
| 52 | My Psychology textbook “wryly” suggested putting all males between the ages of 12 to 28 in cryogenic sleep to reduce crime.Okay when crazy shit like this is said or even suggested, like shit as crazy as this eugenics, genocide-esque suggestion in this textbook- I don’t even bother trying to argue against it in my head. Just treat it and react to it for what it is: absolute fucking insanity. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/01/26 09:07 PM |
| 105 | Has misandry ruined the left?Sometimed feminists will even justify their bigotry by playing the statistics game. So basically, using statistics to justify prejudice. That’s how right wingers talk about black people with their “dEspItE mAkInG uP 13% of the PoPUlaTiONnnnn ThEy cOmMiT-“ which as leftists that should be unacceptable. I think republicans kinda caught on the victimhood culture of the left. Notice in 2025 they cannot outright say that certain groups of people are genetically inferior (although disturbingly, white … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/01/26 07:00 PM |
| 18 | More generalisations about safetyOf course they’re not gonna make their argument from fair grounds otherwise their whole perpetual victimhood narrative would shatter. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/01/26 03:12 AM |
| 11 | More generalisations about safetyyeah, but it's the patriarchy's fault! /s Can't admit that men are exploited for their disposability in capitalism, you have to blame men for their own hardships. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/01/26 02:46 AM |
| 10 | More generalisations about safetyehhh at this point they take pride in bathing in their own grease alone with their cats. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/01/26 02:44 AM |
| 3 | On Toxic ShameYeah it’s kinda disturbing how when discussing valid issues some people face like that, the first impulse for a lot of people is to try to connect it to or blame whatever their ideology says is the scapegoat. Like what’s the point of that. Trans-men deserve to have their reproductive healthcare access be taken seriously too either way lmfao. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/01/26 01:11 AM |
| 33 | More generalisations about safetyLiteral fascist propaganda. Same kinda shit racists say about protecting themselves from visible minorities. By painting a certain group of people as inherently dangerous and violent, you brainwash your audience into thinking it’s a justified reason for prejudice. Which historically has led to subjugation of the worst kind. Feminists are doing this toward men. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/01/26 12:46 AM |
| 6 | On Toxic ShameConservatives have their own obvious version of it. Leftists do too but it’s their weird inverse hierarchy of oppressed/oppressor. Everyone in an “oppressor” category must hold shame til the end of time making up for it to the “oppressed.” I commented something similar on another post, but I realized leftists can be just as horrible as conservatives and how vindictive online leftist culture is. You can be of any political ideology and only be following it for your own validation and only be in i… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/12/25 07:40 PM |
| 19 | Misandry and anti-masculinity in queer and trans spacesLesbian, can confirm. I’ve pretty much separated myself from a lot of LGBT spaces. These people are fucking out of their minds. You have to be super chronically online to seriously think you’re oppressed by the straights, well at-least from my perspective as an American who just so happens to be queer. In general most people don’t give a shit unless you give them a reason to give a shit. Me liking pussy isn’t really the biggest thing we should be focused on considering we have a full on oligarch… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/12/25 04:22 AM |
| 5 | On Toxic ShameYeah that’s how all forms of fascism win. You can compare feminism to sooo many harmful ideologies. Reminds me of the crazy lengths trump supporters will go down to justify supporting him even though I would like to think anyone with their head screwed on right at this point wouldn’t. But cultism is a hell of a drug. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/12/25 04:04 AM |
| 8 | On Toxic ShameYeah this mentality is a huge problem on the left. This whole “oppressor/oppressed” dichotomy is being presented as truth when in reality a lot of social dynamics are way more nuanced than that. I mean I believe systemic racism exists, but I am not gonna hold vitriol and believe a working class or poor white person is actively oppressing me, a person of color, on the basis of who they are. This may or may not make people here raise eyebrows but i think a poor white person does not hold power in … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/12/25 02:38 AM |
| 8 | On Toxic ShameYeah often times they’ll conflate not submitting to feminism as being anti-woman. I can acknowledge valid women’s issues exist without using those issues to invalidate and taunt the things men face. Being empathetic to men’s issues does not threaten me, because my identity isn’t in victimhood. For me, I tried to reframe it like this: because I’m not anti-woman, and because I don’t hate myself, I am not a feminist. I don’t have a need to put down men because I am secure in my biological femininit… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/12/25 01:56 AM |
| 3 | On Toxic Shame👏🏾well said brother | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/12/25 09:43 PM |
| 17 | On Toxic ShameFeminist logic is fascist logic. Disturbing indeed. I honestly can’t tell either if bigots are conscious of what they’re saying, or if they’ve completely deluded themselves into believing a different reality. I don’t know what’s worse. But it amazes me the ways I’ve seen feminists play mental gymnastics to make their arguments make sense. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/12/25 09:48 AM |
| 37 | On Toxic ShameIn many other scenarios it would be so obvious that feminist rhetoric uses the same (illogical) framework abusive parents, partners, ect. do, along with the same framework a lot of cults and organized religions do. “Once harm is framed as something you are rather than something you did, there is no way to make things right.” Yep. I really like this here. The feminist assumption that as a man you’re at-least inclined to committing the worst things ever would obviously not be okay if similar assum… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/12/25 09:37 AM |
| 18 | On Toxic ShameAnd you guessed right. Been there a few times with ex gf’s and some family members. My whole life seems to attract cluster B’s a lot for whatever reason. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/12/25 09:04 AM |
| 31 | On Toxic ShameYeah this is how narcissists gain control over their victims. A lot of it firstly psychological. They want you to absorb their anxieties and insecurities and make you internalize it into hate for yourself, because for whatever reason your inherent existence is a threat to their egoes and sense of self. It’s not that there’s anything wrong with you as an individual person, actually. They actually depend on you for that ego validation, by making you dependent. Racists do this by telling minorities… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/12/25 06:11 AM |
| 4 | Assuming that what all men want is sex and are violent by natureThis might be an edgy take, but that’s what has changed my mind a lot on things. I’ve realized most feminists and by extension a-lot of leftists can be just as awful as people as conservatives. I don’t mean that in like a centrist bullshit way when they say that leftist ideology and conservative ideology are “the same”- what I’m talking about is the motives of individuals who identify with these ideologies. Communal narcissism is a problem on the left. A lot of these people are just in this for … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/12/25 05:13 AM |
| 28 | Assuming that what all men want is sex and are violent by natureI think the whole incel shit feminists talk about exposes their own internal misogyny. I think a lot of feminists are the ones who subconsciously see themselves as being good for nothing more than sex objects. That’s why they are so angry. Hear me out. Feminists like to laugh at the male loneliness academic because to them it’s “haha they’re lonely cuz they can’t laid! They can’t obtain us!” They’re conceited with low self esteem. They assume everything is about their desirability when it’s not … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/12/25 06:22 PM |
| 34 | Assuming that what all men want is sex and are violent by natureDude a lot of feminists are privileged themselves and generally don’t need to worry about a lot of those things. It’s imagined victimhood for some of them. I’m a woman who grew up in the hood in the east coast of America. When you actually know how it’s like having to be vigilant, living from a standpoint of economic survival, and societal survival, you aren’t gonna be posting BS like in the original post. Cuz you understand that it’s like that for everyone around you. And you also see the uniqu… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/12/25 06:02 PM |
| 21 | Misandrist influencer gets owned in commentsFeminists are so fucking narcissistic out of their minds. They actually need praise because subconsciously this is all they feel good for. And they have to ignore the fact that many men also do hard shit during the holidays, (and in fucking general, they are more likely to take on the physically straining jobs) too. I mean when I came over to see my fam for thanksgiving this year my dad was laying down bricks in the front yard and repairing our patio. Why are a lot of these feminists obsessed wi… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/12/25 05:29 PM |
| 16 | Sabrina Carpenter Reveals Key to Writing Hits: ‘Call Men Stupid in as Many Ways as You Can’If anything intersectionality has made the whole culture war woke ass bullshit worse. The whole oppressor/oppressed dichotomy is just so dumb like where do I start. More deflection from the class war. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/12/25 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Boys to learn difference between porn and real life to tackle misogyny in England’s schoolsInteresting. I’m a lesbian so I always kinda wondered about this about straight women/women who date men. From experience in my dating scene, queer women have less hang ups about dating each other if they’re not conventionally attractive. I mean I have my own preferences, I like blond women, I like a lot of the same celebrities straight guys do like Meghan fox lol, but you know when it comes down to it I don’t care if a girl is chubby or “average” as long as the genuine connection is there. I al… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/12/25 05:56 AM |
| 54 | Sabrina Carpenter Reveals Key to Writing Hits: ‘Call Men Stupid in as Many Ways as You Can’“Kicking down” Please tell me this is a joke. Sabrina Carpenter is a rich white woman who is an industry plant. has a stupid amount of more privilege than the average joe. I don’t even think she’s truly in touch with what the average woman goes through, and I say that as a woman color who grew up in a poor and family had to start from the dirt up in urban America. I’ve had abusive male family members but I’ve also had men in my life who are amazing people who I am thankful for. and for me if any… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/12/25 05:16 AM |
| 58 | Sabrina Carpenter Reveals Key to Writing Hits: ‘Call Men Stupid in as Many Ways as You Can’Kinda what a lot of media figures do. They prey on people who may already have internalized issues, and stoke those sentiments and egg it on. All for money. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/12/25 04:57 AM |
| 96 | Sabrina Carpenter Reveals Key to Writing Hits: ‘Call Men Stupid in as Many Ways as You Can’Influential people have alotttt of influence in people’s beliefs which in turn affect society. Of fucking course we care. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/12/25 04:12 AM |
| 3 | Assuming men are murderersQuite disappointing, I wasn’t expecting such a monologue like that lmaooo | /r/EverydayMisandry | 23/12/25 06:31 PM |
| 4 | The most common bad faith responses from feminists, explained.I’m a libertarian socialist, I’m aware there’s like establishment liberals who may post the gay flag during June but otherwise are just capitalist pigs. Same thing applies to the democrats in our (US) government. But I notice other leftists, who may have somewhat similar views to me regarding economic shit are more so focused on the stupid culture war s too. That’s why it’s like a meme about a 23 year old stereotypical commie furry crying about oppression online in the comfort of their safe comf… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/12/25 06:04 PM |
| 39 | White Women’s Abuse of Black Men (and Women) in Slavery Is Overlooked(Speaking from an American-centric view) Feminists won’t acknowledge the unique privilege white women, more so upper class/rich white women have and have historically had. They might acknowledge an idea of general white privilege, but never acknowledge how a white woman’s whiteness and feminitity both interact to give them special social protections and coddling. This is also why feminists don’t address men of color. A lot of them say they’re against racism, but if they were to address men of co… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/25 08:06 AM |
| 40 | People throughout the entire political spectrum believe feminist propagandaYep yep yep people need to wake the fuck up. Material conditions is the main anchor into whether you have an “easy” life or not. what happened to the left lmfao. Why are we crying over micro-aggressions and trivial shit that ultimately doesn’t matter? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/25 07:55 AM |
| 18 | Assuming men are murderersYeah…like remember when African Americans still didn’t have all their rights, and in an attempt to maintain their subjugated status, fake skits were made depicting blacks attacking white citizens? Same thing…manufactured and bigoted fear mongering to control a narrative…to then use that as a justified reason to control a certain group of people based on an inherent trait. Feminists are fascists. That should be obvious to us. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/12/25 07:03 AM |
| 56 | Assuming men are murderersYou know it’s been a thing for a while too that men end up getting robbed and assaulted by shysters who send out pretty girls to lure men on dating apps too….its possible for men to be victims to a lot of violent crimes as well, but they aren’t fed enough manufactured fear mongering shit to be paranoid about it. Why are feminists so self-centered and obsessed with rolling around in hypothetical victimhood scenarios? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/12/25 05:59 AM |
| 17 | The most common bad faith responses from feminists, explained.I think politics is a honeypot for people with narcissistic traits in general. These people don’t actually care about anything they preach about. When feminists hype up a story about a woman being raped they do not actually care about the individual victim. If anything, such an incident is like candy for them because the only reason why they pretend to care about such incidents is so they can use it to put their frame around it, which is their real goal. It’s not actually about helping rape vict… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/12/25 09:01 PM |
| 32 | The most common bad faith responses from feminists, explained.Empathy is selective with feminists and with the modern left in general in America. This is why I think intersectionality has done more harm than good. It’s never about actually wanting to help people and the unique issues they face in regard to their demographic. It’s just about maintaining a narrative that one group is always a perpetual victim and having to gaslight the that the issues that the out group faces aren’t real. Because victimhood is capital and validation in this ass-backwards wor… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/12/25 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on the whole warzone between men and women (Especially the "When you're privileged, equality feels like oppression" sentiment)I mean all the political shit aside, I still don’t get it cuz why stay in a relationship where someone doesn’t respect you, and thinks the absolute worst of you, point blank? If your partner runs off a belief system that states your very being is inherently prone to commiting violence and every other crime against humanity-like why. With your example with the feminist commentator, that says it all. When they admit to shit like that, believe them. This feminist may acknowledge she happened to get… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/12/25 04:53 AM |
| 15 | Boys to learn difference between porn and real life to tackle misogyny in England’s schoolsYeah I think this is a huge root of it that you pointed out here. But good luck for those of us here who actually wanna solve the problem! Feminists don’t actually wanna solve anything and they have a chokehold on the left. I notice the left with other issues will approach it with a more empathetic, but still rational and logical, “what socioeconomic factors could cause a person to end up this way, and what can we do to prevent this and fix this so more people could be given a sufficient and hea… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/12/25 08:01 PM |
| 22 | Boys to learn difference between porn and real life to tackle misogyny in England’s schoolsThat’s my problem with movements like feminism. It’s inherently dehumanizing, and if you think about it it’s a very childish way to approach the world. Most men/boys aren’t these woman-hating caricatures feminist propaganda tries to make you think they are. Realistically, most of them are just people, people trying to go about their day and most of them just want things in life everyone else wants (connections, maybe a stable career, hobbies). Feminists are trying to make you not consider or to … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/12/25 07:40 PM |
| 38 | Boys to learn difference between porn and real life to tackle misogyny in England’s schoolsYou’d be asking feminists to be fair! That’s a tall order for them especially since their narrative relies on the idea that women are always the victims, and of course man always bad. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/12/25 07:35 PM |
| 4 | Call it sexismWe also should start treating feminism like any other fascist ideology. Authoritarian regimes are based off of demonization and collective guilt against a certain group of people, with the main anchor of control they use is their deluded idea that a certain group of people are guilty of an original sin just by being who they are. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/12/25 06:41 PM |
| 13 | Unattractive men's attention is objectificationI think feminists are very narcissistic and just like to get off on their idea ironically enough that they’re every man’s dream just because they own a vagina, and they like to get off on talking down to men. I will say this a billion times- FEMINISTS ARE THE ONES WITH INTERNAL MISOGYNY. They’re so obsessed with their internal idea that they are constantly being objectified and not seen as human just for existing as women. That is most likely a projection of what they actually feel about themsel… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/12/25 05:42 PM |
| 4 | Intellectual Misandry* ☝️👩🔬You have tor remember prejudice stems from insecurity and insecurity gives people a need to put down others in order for you to feel like, fuck anything. It is pathetic when you get to the root of it. Like look at white supremacists, they’re so corny, calling themselves the “master race” and giving themselves childish names “grand dragon” for the leader of klu klux klan organizations. all power fantasy because deep down they actually envy and fear the out group. Without being able to put down th… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/12/25 07:43 PM |
| 5 | Intellectual Misandry* ☝️👩🔬I swear feminists have penis envy. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/12/25 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Male-Only Draft in the United StatesI’ve fucking seen feminists say that the draft isn’t a result of sexism against men that’s it’s solely a class issue 😭😭😭 Which yeah, it’s a class issue but that just proves how capitalism is fueled by misandry/male labor and disposability. Only MEN have to register for the draft along with voting. On the basis of gender. But my point being is that feminists will jump hoops just to gaslight you into thinking any men’s issues aren’t real or self inflicted. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/12/25 10:38 PM |
| 5 | "Proof" that men just hate women| yeah a large part of this is just that I don’t index my brain based on gender | Yeah exactly. These mfs are just fucking obsessed. Most normal, not chronically online people don’t have the privilege to be pissy about shit like this that is ultimately trivial and petty. Also, indexing your brain on the basis of gender in of itself is very sexist. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/12/25 08:07 PM |
| 42 | "Proof" that men just hate womenSo pathetic. All of this is just a projection of their need to feel emotionally validated. Like god, if you really hate men and think so lowly of them and want them out of your life so much why are you so angry men aren’t reading books made by female authors or listening to podcasts made by women? Ya’ll hate yourselves and have low self esteem and not-so-covertly want validation. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/12/25 07:06 AM |
| 54 | Greens plan to punish male members who correct womenFeminists actually DO think that lowly of themselves, deep down. That is why these women are resentful towards men, it’s cuz they feel intuitively inferior. Prejudice is always based off of some insecurity. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/12/25 05:53 PM |
| 8 | Conflating antifeminism with misogyny is like conflating anti-Zionism with antisemitismEven as a lesbian it’s made my dating life miserable lmao. Atleast in my area most other lesbian/bisexual women are hyper-feminist. I have tried dating feminists before, and Christ, it’s exhausting because with man-haters that’s literally half of all they talk about in my experience. Also, I have brothers and male friends I care about so that shit don’t align with me. Misandry is all too prevalent in gen z lgbt circles honestly | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/12/25 04:03 AM |
| 9 | Conflating antifeminism with misogyny is like conflating anti-Zionism with antisemitismThe whole oppressor/oppressed dichotomy also is what lets a lot of otherwise privileged feminist women in America to appropriate the marginalization other women face. Their narrative is that all men are all in on oppressing all women and subjugating them (patriarchy conspiracy). So that is how a feminist justifies misandry, because “they’ve been doing it for years! Women have suffered for all of history! Why can’t I be an asshole back about it?” And again, appropriating the suffering other women… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/25 10:50 PM |
| 11 | Conflating antifeminism with misogyny is like conflating anti-Zionism with antisemitismIntersectionality sounds a lot more fair in theory but the way I’ve seen it in practice is that it just ends up being a reverse hierarchy game on the modern left (talking American-centric view) where the more oppression cards surrounding identity you have, the more social capital you have. I think in this sub specifically, when people use the singular term “feminism” we mean it to be the version of feminism we see on the chronically online left, and it’s not the same thing as the corporate girl … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/25 07:39 PM |
| 9 | Conflating antifeminism with misogyny is like conflating anti-Zionism with antisemitismWell with social conservatism/tradcons the misogyny/misandry spills out once people start acting “out of line” with their assigned gender role. If a woman is perceived as being too “aggressive”, “slutty”, you know, she is shamed in these circles. But if she lives up to being a good, soft spoken, stay at home mother who makes sammiches for her husband she is idealized and praised (benevolent sexism). And this goes both ways because whenever you assign roles, there’s trade offs. Of course men are … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/25 07:06 PM |
| 19 | Conflating antifeminism with misogyny is like conflating anti-Zionism with antisemitismAs a woman of color I don’t understand why other women of color think feminism is for us. It never was about us. I believe feminism was misandristic from the start but it also never truly was about the liberation and well being of women as a whole. It still isn’t. The post mentioned the devastating ways feminism has damaged men’s well being, which I agree with totally but it also makes women miserable as well. Bigots are miserable and angry people. Feminists don’t even truly wanna uplift women, … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/25 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Switzerland Has Voted to Not Draft WomenRight. They’re putting collective guilt and hyper responsibility on you just because of an inherent trait you have. It’s how right wingers talk about black people. Feminists are fascists. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/12/25 03:42 AM |
| 2 | bit off topic, but how do you guys deal with socializing?Yeah I’m going to be a cringe centrist for a second but I think that’s a big problem kinda inherent to politics. Once you subscribe to an ideology for a lot of people it becomes an extension of themselves. So an attack on that is an attack on ego. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/12/25 05:53 PM |
| 2 | bit off topic, but how do you guys deal with socializing?I do think a good portion of lesbians of my generation (I’m a 22 year old gen z) are chronically online man-haters. Cannot say if that’s the majority. Another thing that can factor in for me too is that I do live in a fairly liberal area in the states. It’s kinda hard in general to find leftists who aren’t misandrists/feminists though. For the most part I haven’t met other lesbians who weren’t a tee bit hostile towards men’s issues, well except for maybe my first ex-partner who called herself a … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/12/25 04:43 PM |
| 6 | What is your opinion on Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard and the shift in public opinionwow. Real eye openers right here. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/12/25 04:11 AM |
| 16 | What is your opinion on Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard and the shift in public opinionWow I was not aware of the degree of censorship by these powerful think tanks and manufactured feminist propaganda being this bad surrounding the Depp v Heard case. And it does affect wider society. Thanks for laying it out for me. I should also mention that I’m a woman, but even though I am staunchly anti-feminist there’s a lot of shit I just won’t understand inherently. I try to listen so I can get a better understanding on the kind of change men actually wanna see systemically so things bette… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/12/25 10:58 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard and the shift in public opinionThey’re also both millionaire elitists who are part of the problem in this country. It’s just super hard for me to feel bad for people like that, especially as a leftist. A win for Johnny Depp doesn’t mean a win for the average man in general, anyways. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/12/25 08:40 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on the whole warzone between men and women (Especially the "When you're privileged, equality feels like oppression" sentiment)It’s funny because as my experience as a woman of color, white feminists, especially the ones who come from financial privilege get very defensive when you try to bring them against their own standards. They always demand men check their own supposed privilege, and I’m like, why don’t YOU? White feminists will basically masquerade pretending to care about women of color issues but only because it feeds their narcissism. The narrative that women are all being oppressed by some big scary patriarch… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/12/25 08:23 PM |
| 2 | bit off topic, but how do you guys deal with socializing?I happen to live in an area of the US where the majority of people don’t like trump and are atleast run of the mill democrat. I mean for me as far as dating for a while I kinda just let shit hit the wall and if we click, we click. Albeit once I started going to therapy and learning how to set boundaries with toxic people, I’ve had a hard time dating because the only women I seemed to attract were feminists. I think a lot of it was because I am a leftist, they assume I must be a man-hating femini… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/12/25 02:13 AM |
| 7 | bit off topic, but how do you guys deal with socializing?One thing I noted too is that while it’s cool to find commonalities of course it’s unrealistic to think all your relationships and connections should have the exact some views as you do. The woman I’m dating is politically moderate despite me being far left economically. And I am okay with that. I fell for her and bonded with her for more reasons besides politics. However there are some values that are hard no for me, because these are values that are “vital” to me. For example, I wouldn’t date … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/12/25 11:32 PM |
| 13 | Thoughts on the whole warzone between men and women (Especially the "When you're privileged, equality feels like oppression" sentiment)this is why I don’t understand male feminists. Don’t they realize by now at the end of the day, feminists will always move the goalpost on what misogynistic behavior or systemic sexism looks like? Being born male in of itself is the ultimate original sin in the feminist playbook. You can’t win. As desperate and pathetic as they are for female approval, a male feminist will never be truly respected by feminists. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/12/25 11:08 PM |
| 13 | Thoughts on the whole warzone between men and women (Especially the "When you're privileged, equality feels like oppression" sentiment)Alot of feminists themselves come from a place of privilege, being able to enjoy the spoils of the rich families they are born into without having to work for it at all. If you live in a safe, clean, upper class gated area you generally don’t need to worry as much about getting mugged or assaulted when you’re walking out at night. I am a woman who grew up in a poor gang infested neighborhood and everyone in my life, man or woman, had to develop some kind of vigilance. That’s what really grosses … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/12/25 10:48 PM |
| 8 | Women, like men, show an aversion to potential partners with “high body counts”.Yeah exactly. I don’t think having a high “body count” necessarily means someone is a bad person. I don’t think it’s wrong in of itself for anyone to enjoy casual sex cuz who cares what consenting adults do. But the thing is alot of people who do engage in promiscuity do it because of some of psychological issue and it’s some kind of compulsion for them. I’m glad someone made this post here cuz it really shatters the narrative that all men are just misogynists who can’t stand to see a woman own … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/12/25 03:37 AM |
| 9 | Switzerland Has Voted to Not Draft WomenWow you really hit the nail on the head. I do think a lot some feminists do have past trauma with men, but the difference between you and them is that you had the maturity to realize it says nothing about your worth as a human being and you realize people are people, including men, and like all people they are capable of doing bad and doing good. placing collective guilt isn’t rational or the answer that helps anyone heal. I think feminists ironically enough are the ones with internal misogyny. … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/12/25 03:36 PM |
| 17 | Switzerland Has Voted to Not Draft Womenvictimhood is a form of sick validation for them. It’s a cheap way to gain validation too. All you gotta do is post shit online and create manufactured victimhood scenarios. That’s all feminism has come down to in America. Not that I think feminism was ever from a good place of heart in the first place. Do I think women should vote, have an education, and have a right to abortion? Absolutely. But I’m not a feminist. The history of feminism in America is enough to turn me off. It was the most pri… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/12/25 05:13 PM |
| 19 | Switzerland Has Voted to Not Draft WomenSo the average working class Joe who’s just minding his own business trying to stay alive in this shit load of an economy should have to pay for the actions of the elite? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/12/25 05:06 PM |
| 19 | Switzerland Has Voted to Not Draft WomenFeminists want the same honor and title of certain things without actually having do the merit and endure the suffering that comes with earning that. Feminists are insecure women. That is why they have to put down the abilities of men and downplay any male issues. Another example is that I find it so disgusting when feminists belittle men and call them all lazy and selfish when they claim that there is a huge disparity in housework amongst straight couples still, where women do most of the clean… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/12/25 05:04 PM |
| 43 | “If women are behind on a metric, it’s recorded as inequality. If men are behind, it’s recorded as parity. You read that correctly: The index is explicitly designed so that men cannot be seen as disadvantaged, no matter how far behind they fall.”Tells you damn near everything you need to know. It’s only about fulfilling a sense of vengeance against a certain group of people. That’s part of what prejudice is. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/11/25 03:43 AM |
| 3 | "The average man has more privilege than the average woman"Oh yeah I agree. Feminists will still play mental gymnastics around that topic, all they care about is maintaining the narrative that man always in the bad, women are always the victims and the angels. All conclusions need to end there or else their whole narrative crumbles. I think a lot of feminists are not so thinly veiled in a-lot of their other prejudices too. A lot of them are possibly not-so-covertly racist and not so covertly homophobic (more so towards male homosexuality). In my persona… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/11/25 03:26 AM |
| 13 | "The average man has more privilege than the average woman"I notice a lot of feminists will give grace when talking about shit in regard to black and brown issues. Not just with prison shit. But with their other online brain rot wars too. Think about the man v bear bullshit. Now if you instead said would you rather run into a black man or a bear, I think they’d take a step back. But once you shrivel down an issue down to being just about men, they do not give an any empathy and excuses for men and put hyper-responsibility on them and they start talking … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/25 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Thank you note from a womanDo feminists hear themselves or have any introspection when they say this shit? When a man is an asshole, responsibility is on him (fair enough) If a woman is being bitchy to another woman, oh no, the patriarchy (scapegoating the male gender) made her do it! (wtf?) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/25 05:12 AM |
| 38 | The Amount of Likes This Got Is Dishearteninga lot of these women have narcissistic and borderline traits and think that they’re every man’s dream simply because they possess a vagina. that’s atleast part of why they assume the male loneliness epidemic is solely about men being pissy they can’t get dates. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/11/25 12:46 AM |
| 7 | Ghislaine Maxwell Isn’t in Jail Because She’s a WomanOkay but it’s not like trump is walking free cuz he’s a MAN. He’s walking free because he’s an ungodly amount of political and financial power. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/11/25 05:49 PM |
| 5 | Ghislaine Maxwell Isn’t in Jail Because She’s a WomanThese feminists are so obsessed with the idea of the patriarchy that they are willing to are defend a child sex trafficker for it. Let that sink in. They talk about how much they supposedly care about female victims well shit like this shows that they don’t really give a shit. It’s always been about feeding their victim mentality. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/11/25 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Having a Preference Means You Don’t Deserve to Exist ApparentlyWho are these people getting mad at? I can’t help but almost laugh at how much vitriol posts like these have cuz it’s like, who are you talking to? A lot of the oppression and victimization is imagined. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/11/25 05:07 PM |
| 39 | BiphobiaThose are female celebrities who identify as queer but who ended up in relationships with men. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 31/10/25 02:53 AM |
| 4 | Denial of misandryI’m also a woman and I grew up poor in a bad neighborhood and shit like this is what makes me think a lot of online feminists are well, chronically online, and sheltered and privileged themselves. Men aren’t angels, but you know if you’ve seen a lot of shit growing up too young and grew up in a rough environment, you realize a lot about people in general. People are complex and it isn’t just X group of people has it so easy in life. For me personally I have seen how the men in my life have strug… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 31/10/25 01:56 AM |
| 3 | Denial of misandryyou know this kind of logic is the same thing racists do to justify their bigotry. Imagine if it was okay to say “I hate black people just because I want them to stop killing people and robbing my family members”. Like come the fuck on. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 31/10/25 01:42 AM |
| 2 | How Is "Women And Children" Not Misandrist?Yeah I’m a lesbian and a left wing male advocate, albeit I feel like the only one sometimes lmao. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/10/25 09:15 PM |
| 27 | Feminist Influencer Sommer Tothill Says That All Straight Relationships Are Inherently ToxicFeminism is a gateway for the most privileged women who have the most comfortable lives to feel like they have a say in anything, politically speaking. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/10/25 03:37 AM |
| 15 | Two women Livestream SA of autistic man on Twitch. It took the platform a year to ban themWell sometimes feminists will throw a bone and say “sure it happens” but again their ideology isn’t that men and women are equal. What feminism is is that it is basically promoting the idea of perpetual victimhood of women. So if rape does happen to men, apparently it doesn’t matter because it’s more prevalent if it happens to women. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/10/25 04:10 PM |
| 9 | Extremely cringe self loathing, broad generalizations and borderline fetishism of lesbianismDo these men realize how sexist they sound in both directions? The whole idea that lesbian relationships are more “pure” and gold star lesbian culture is just rebranded purity culture. So if their line of reasoning is that in contrast to women, men are bad, dirty, ect, that implies a woman who has relations with a man is “tainted.” Jesus. Sounds like something you can learn in a Christian fundie church too. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/10/25 11:07 PM |
| 21 | How Is "Women And Children" Not Misandrist?Bro that’s insane. Feminists are genuinely some narcissistic and deluded motherfuckers. Everything somehow circles back to women always being the victim, even when they are instigator and perpetrator. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/10/25 01:34 AM |
| 4 | 1. Men do spoil their partners. 2. God forbid a man wants to be spoiled too.I think a lot of them are also chronically online with the way they idealize lesbian relationships as being perfect. Trust me, they’re not. People are still gonna be flawed people no matter what. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 25/10/25 04:41 PM |
| 5 | 1. Men do spoil their partners. 2. God forbid a man wants to be spoiled too.Because they ARE insecure. These women aren’t just misandrist; their misandry stems from the fact that they are actually the most misogynistic of them all. They hate themselves. They feel inferior. So in order to compensate for that they have to put down the abilities of men or put down men for just..existing. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 25/10/25 04:39 PM |
| 5 | She not even hiding it 🤣It’s so weird. Like we live in 2025 America, nobody is forcing you to date men if you really hate them so much. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 23/10/25 09:41 PM |
| 14 | Hot Take: The tone of this sub is starting to head in a concerning directionThat is very fair. I think when talking about social and societal privileges the left really underplays class a lot. I don’t deny other things like systemic racism exists but class can sometimes be an even more determining factor. Like in general statistically a black man will be sentenced more for the same crime as a white man. But P. diddy was able to get away with a 4 year prison sentence for what he did. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/10/25 05:33 AM |
| 7 | Hot Take: The tone of this sub is starting to head in a concerning directionWhen you say “the right controls all the media” what do you mean by that exactly. Liberals are right-wing but not in the exact same way that conservatives are, but in the sense that they are still pro-capitalists. From what I know most media is controlled by establishment liberals who will throw in some seemingly progressive bait for an audience or consumers but will fold backwards once they feel pressured to conform to more conservative ideas again (ie, target stopped doing pride merch in a lot… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/10/25 04:51 AM |
| 12 | Hot Take: The tone of this sub is starting to head in a concerning directionYeah and it’s not like there’s no anti-right wing discussion at all in this sub. In fact to be pro-male is to be anti-right wing. That is why I have seen a fair amount of good debate about whether feminism is actually a right wing movement or not. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/10/25 04:13 AM |
| 14 | Hot Take: The tone of this sub is starting to head in a concerning directionThis was a good reply, you pointed out a lot that I didn’t even think of. That’s a very good point how major national and international organizations are in bed with the mainstream feminist movement. Feminism is a huge fucking part of the problems baked into our society on a systemic fucking level and that’s just something only some of us on the left are waking up to. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/10/25 04:09 AM |
| 26 | Hot Take: The tone of this sub is starting to head in a concerning directionYeah that’s we are r/leftwingmaleadovcates of course our focus is gonna be about men’s issues from a left wing perspective (duh). My autistic ass can go on about the current ICE issues but why do that here unless it is related to a particular men’s issue lmao, I live in a city where the deportation and immigration issue is prevalent so I participate in my pro-Latino/anti-ice local activism there lmao. It’s not that hard to comprehend. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/10/25 04:04 AM |
| 12 | Hot Take: The tone of this sub is starting to head in a concerning directionBro what are you saying. I’m not denying conservatism is a problem (I’m talking from American lenses). More so Trumpism and the cult of trump. Trumpism is probably our most prominent threat as far as fascism goes in America. But again bro that’s fucking no shit. In leftist spheres that’s like saying 9/11 is bad lmao. As left wing male advocates we are a niche within a niche because feminism is generally considered to be merged with the left wing and we disagree with their sentiments. Feminism is… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/10/25 03:18 AM |
| 175 | Hot Take: The tone of this sub is starting to head in a concerning directionI think the reason why it’s not discussed more about how conservatives are problematic and misandrist too is because as leftists it’s kind of “no shit” for us, or atleast I would think it’s kinda obvious to us how conservatives are problematic. So there’s no point in beating a dead horse. What a lot of us haven’t explored yet is our own disagreements and problems with how our own “side” (the left) can be toxic too. And not just with feminism, I have a problem with a lot of mainstream leftist att… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/10/25 07:25 PM |
| 25 | Men are expected to be super enthusiastic about women issues, even if they agree that women should have rights.I think this pretty much shows how the whole “women empowerment” shit feminists claim to promote is such bullshit from their end. Feminists actively want men to suffer to fulfill a sense of vengeance. They hate men. No shit. But they don’t actually care about the well being and happiness of women either. Feminists only claim to care about women’s issues if it validates their victim mentality. For example they like appropriate the suffering of women who are actually oppressed in other parts of th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/10/25 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Why is Feminism so jaded towards men?Old thread but I also wanna add that I agree with this. And to add upon this, feminists actually hold the most internal misogyny. The movement exists because THEY are insecure and THEY actually feel inferior because of their womanhood. In order to feel superior they have to belittle the abilities of men and the existence of men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/10/25 03:36 PM |
| 2 | A man needs to emotionally support his female partner; but reciprocation is mankeeping, which is oppressive and misogynistic.Yeah it’s almost funny because the more they try to reason why “it’s different” when it comes to generalizing all black people as potential thugs, r*pists, whatever, they further sink themselves in a hole that exposes their hatred toward men. And it exposes their misandry. a lot of leftists and feminists are able to extend empathy towards blacks regarding them often being over represented in many crime perpetrator stats but you can clearly see how their empathy stops the moment you bring up how … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/10/25 03:05 AM |
| 45 | Why do men have to prove themselves real men?exactly it’s a psychological tactic used to create a cycle to keep you dependent on their approval. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/10/25 06:28 AM |
| 3 | A man needs to emotionally support his female partner; but reciprocation is mankeeping, which is oppressive and misogynistic.Interesting, cuz the closest thing to a valid response I have heard some feminists argue that black people don’t pose a threat to white people the same way men are inherently a danger to women because of the physical strength difference between men and women. Which is still a shit argument and I think if anything it further validates the comparison of feminism/misandrist rhetoric to racist rhetoric. Like sure men are on average stronger than women, but what do you want done about that? That’s ju… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/10/25 06:20 AM |
| 1 | "Help women and girls affected by war rebuild their lives."No one is blaming the whole female sex for the way things work in society. We are just bringing attention to the issue of male disposability and the empathy gap in general. The fact that men are treated like cannon fodder during wars and the lives lost are often not given a second thought and are at best just remembered as a statistic- and not human beings-says fucking everything. I don’t deny women are affected in their own ways by war but what is the point of you bringing this up? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/10/25 03:47 AM |
| 1 | There is a epidemic of people associating gay men with misogyny.Oh absolutely. I’m still learning everyday how to be a better female ally to male advocacy. I hope in the somewhat near future we can change the social atmosphere on the left so it isn’t so hostile to men. That’s part of why the right is winning in America. The right wing offers them a home but in the form of branding oppressive gender roles as a badge of honor for men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/25 02:32 AM |
| 14 | A man needs to emotionally support his female partner; but reciprocation is mankeeping, which is oppressive and misogynistic.I think we should start treating feminists the same way we see racists. Their beliefs are seated in prejudice- whether it’s caused by trauma, their own insecurity and resentment for whatever reason- it’s prejudice. And it’s not rational. And it does no good for anyone. Men, women, whatever, all it does is brew antagonism. They will keep moving the goal post. Do everything right but you will still be sexist. you need to keep your mouth shut whenever you want to speak up about being mistreated bec… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/25 07:11 PM |
| 6 | A man needs to emotionally support his female partner; but reciprocation is mankeeping, which is oppressive and misogynistic.I think you need to adjust for other societal factors too. I think the financial hierarchy in capitalist America often makes certain people think they are owed everything or should be given whatever they want without contributing back. That is why when we hear celebrities cry we often roll our eyes because whatever they complain about, it always comes across as performative or trivial. Notice how mainstream feminism is mainly from the perspective of fairly privileged American middle-to upper cla… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/25 06:45 PM |
| 43 | There is a epidemic of people associating gay men with misogyny.I’m a lesbian and I honestly can’t find myself fitting in with general leftist queer spaces because of this bullshit. First off, in sapphic circles you’re literally obligated to be a misandrist and to make it at-least half your personality. Haha no thank you. I can’t love men romantically but that doesn’t mean I don’t still have men in my life I care about. That doesn’t mean I can’t empathize with men’s issues. this might seem like an odd take but that is why even though I’m literally somewhere … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/10/25 05:13 AM |
| 2 | The performative male trend expose cognitive dissonance again.I interpret it as they just really hate maleness in general. So this includes raw male sexuality. Something about it disgusts them to no end so they demonize it as something inherently predatory. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/10/25 02:55 PM |
| -1 | The problem with Tradcons (traditionnal conservatives)You really think a poor single mother barely making it by has more power in society over Elon Musk? Mind you this doesn’t just apply to male billionaires-working class women. Assuming you’re a working class man your life is gonna be tougher than, idfk, Oprah Winfrey or something. Class is a huge anchor there. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/09/25 07:21 PM |
| 6 | The problem with Tradcons (traditionnal conservatives)Yes feminism is a hate movement. But to reframe the problem as women as a whole being the enemy is Innacurate and then that’s how you get the same mentality as feminists but reversed. The reality is that we live in an oligarchy first and foremost, where the most wealthy (includes men and women) have all the leverage over everyone else. The reason why feminists are able to twist it into it being a patriarchy is because most CEOs and politicians are men but that is an apex fallacy. We can acknowle… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/09/25 06:42 PM |
| 10 | Examples of Subtle, or Outright, Hostility Towards Men in Left MessagingEver read the narcissistic prayer? I almost feel bad for feminists. They’re truly miserable and live everyday with such vitriol. But the thing is, that’s something you to solve in therapy. You don’t make it the whole male population’s problem. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/09/25 03:33 PM |
| 2 | "This is why feminism is the most successful hate movement that has ever existed"Yeah that’s what we want to avoid. We actually wanna solve shit, right? Or else we become no better than the feminists we criticize. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/09/25 05:28 PM |
| 6 | "This is why feminism is the most successful hate movement that has ever existed"Yeah, I mean, a lot of people in general day to day aren’t really thinking much about politics besides what they think is affecting gas prices or grocery prices. I’m sure there’s a lot of women who don’t have much strong feelings about feminism or “the patriarchy” one way or the other. There’s always a-political normies. I think a lot of women do practice “toxic femininity” without being aware of it, but they aren’t actively man-hating feminists if that makes sense. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/09/25 05:27 PM |
| 7 | A Gen Z therapist reflects on how misandry has contaminated modern mental health.Oh yeah, that’s happened to me lmao. I think feminists can’t comprehend how any woman in general can be sympathetic to men’s issues. I say this a lot but I really think feminists are fucking miserable and maybe mentally stunted (this shows in their self-centered victim mentality that most of us outgrow by the time we’re like…idk 12?). So they assume because THEY hate men every woman must also hate men. And when they see that a woman isn’t submitting to their fucked up philosophy, that pisses the… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/09/25 04:17 PM |
| 12 | An excellent video on female-targeted smut. (My analysis below).What I find interesting too is how often in online feminists + queer circles they tend to perpetuate this idea that lesbian and bisexual women aren’t “like guys” when it comes to their attraction to women. Women’s attraction to women is framed as something pure and beautiful. Men’s attraction to women is framed as…just bad. It’s like a weird reverse version of Greek societies where the men believed fucking other men was more pure than having sex with women because women were a “necessary evil” f… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/25 05:25 PM |
| 15 | An excellent video on female-targeted smut. (My analysis below).There’s also the genre of harem. I’m sure feminists definitely see that as misogynistic, sexist, offensive and dehumanizing towards women, but I wonder if they would hold that same standard towards women who are into reverse harem and have the fantasy of having a plate of multiple male lovers. Something else I noticed to as to why a lot of these women have a simplistically gross view of men is that a lot of them are chronically online, it’s so weird, it’s like they’ve never talked to an actual h… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/25 02:23 PM |
| 22 | An excellent video on female-targeted smut. (My analysis below).I mean yeah, with feminists you can’t ever fucking win. They’ll just keep moving the goal posts. It’s the same thing with racist mfs, ie: “everything white culture does is superior and refined, all other ethnicities/races’ cultural practices are automatically savage and inferior”. You can’t reason with the prejudiced. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/25 08:17 AM |
| 21 | An excellent video on female-targeted smut. (My analysis below).I didnt watch the video yet, but here’s a thought I have…does anyone think maybe this is a feed back loop as to why a lot of women and/or feminists have this mentality that all men are these default rape monsters? Not even just with dark erotica, but true crime content also seems to be also be a more stereotypical female hobby these days. Like I seriously think this shit is rotting their brains. I mean if you’re always watching true crime shit you’re gonna start being more paranoid and depressed… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/25 08:04 AM |
| 11 | Double Life, new to the communityYeah I’m an auto-mechanic, that’s why I’ve always felt so awkward going into leftist-queer events, like these people unfortunately re-enforce all the negative stereotypes conservatives have about all leftists. Like there seems to be a very immature mentality in these spaces that seems to be anti-hard work, anti-having standards for yourself, anti-building mental endurance. The whole “self love” shit is okay to an extent but they tend to take it to an extreme. It’s just a mentality I cannot relat… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/09/25 07:11 PM |
| 9 | Double Life, new to the communityWhat’s interesting is that I notice some white feminists do acknowledge how racial minorities are marginalized. Some of them acknowledge how they are privileged over women of color but they ALWAYS refuse to acknowledge that they also have privilege over men of color. They generally don’t gotta worry about being profiled just for walking into a convenience store or police brutality or generational poverty. Society coddles white women and gives them the most protections, and you can argue it’s bec… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/09/25 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Double Life, new to the communityI dated a white woman who came from a wealthy family and she would insist that we were “the same” because we’re both “minorities.” Jesus. Never again. I’m so cynical of dating white people now, cuz from my experience of they’re not overtly racist they’re oblivious to their privilege, and their family is overtly racist. I’d just rather not deal with that. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/09/25 04:49 PM |
| 14 | Double Life, new to the communityOh wow. I’m sorry that happened to you. For a lot of them their “woman card” or their “queer card” is the only thing they have to make them feel oppressed. There’s a lot of communal narcissism in leftist circles like this. I am POC too and I grew up poor in a bad neighborhood. That has what has screwed me over more in life. Not being queer, or being a woman. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/09/25 01:52 PM |
| 17 | Double Life, new to the communityBro it’s a shit show. I mean I am still extremely progressive economically and socially but I reject leftist “culture” (and the misandry part of leftist culture) if that makes sense. It’s so infantile. Maybe some of them are like, come from trauma, so that’s why they act that way, but I also noticed a lot of these people grew up otherwise well-off and come from financial privilege and sometimes I think a lot of their parents failed by over-coddling them. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/09/25 01:39 PM |
| 6 | Double Life, new to the communityOh fuck off | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/09/25 01:33 PM |
| 24 | Double Life, new to the communityyeah so true. I’m a lesbian and tbh I really cannot find myself comfortable around most queer circles because of this. Like these people, for lack of better word, seem to have arrested development and they’re so sheltered to the point where making being gay their whole personality is the only thing they feel can garner them attention. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/09/25 01:20 PM |
| 1 | How the right is actually hurting men more than the left.Oh no to an extent I do believe systemic racism is real, I live in America and I’m POC, and we all know about how it was like historically for blacks and other minorities in America. And even now it sucks with police brutality, general racial profiling, ect. A lot of the poverty and crime (class) issues ethnic minorities face in America is because of those systemic setbacks. I think that’s why class privilege + white privilege gets so blurred in American politics, the poverty issue to a huge ext… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/08/25 08:03 PM |
| 20 | Women are allowed to be total creeps towards men“they’re just responding to misogyny and generations of being oppressed.” | /r/MensRights | 30/08/25 06:31 PM |
| 20 | Misandry Isn't HarmlessIt’s because a lot of feminists are actually some of the most bitter, jealous and miserable women. They may preach “sisterhood” and “women empowerment” but it’s only useful when it serves their own egoes. And I hear a lot from feminists too about how Sydney Sweeney “just appeals to the male gaze”…. On a less serious note, as a lesbian I disagree lol, I find her very attractive, her personal politics aside, it’s so dumb to assume that lesbian/bi women don’t like conventionally attractive women to… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/08/25 07:27 PM |
| 32 | Misandry Isn't Harmlessand women who stand up for men’s issues get called “pick me’s” and “in need of male attention.” Funny how slut-shaming is okay to feminists in these situations. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/08/25 03:09 PM |
| 6 | Andrea Dworkin Is the Last Person Who Should Be Taken SeriouslyWow. I could not have said it better myself. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/08/25 11:32 PM |
| 5 | How the right is actually hurting men more than the left.Something I wonder is if most people here in this subreddit are class-first leftists. Because to realize that “male privilege” isn’t really a thing is to realize how men’s issues overlap with the shitty effects of capitalism. I think being a class-first leftist also helps you realize how to an extent “white privilege” can a lot of times be boiled down to “wealth privilege”. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/08/25 05:26 PM |
| 13 | How the right is actually hurting men more than the left.Another thing is that both feminism and conservative both put hyper-responsibility on men. Even in patriarchal societies historically most men who weren’t “on top” politically didn’t really benefit from it. Feminists misconstrue men’s historical role of being a disposable manual labor slave, provider, protector, ect as having “more freedom” or having it “easier” than women when it just isn’t true. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/08/25 05:19 PM |
| 12 | Harvard Prof's genocidal rhetoric against men: A Demand for Strict Action. Please Email and Share.R/men’s rights is just a borderline if not redpill and right wing rage sub. I haven’t seen much fruitful discussion there, most of the comments read like shit women say in the female rage subs but with the genders reversed. This place is more down to earth and reasonable. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/08/25 03:07 PM |
| 5 | Harvard professor Richard Wrangham thinks it is a 'very good idea' to eliminate human males from existenceI haven’t read much of Bell Hooks but I‘ve seen a lot of people in this sub aren’t a fan of her and I wonder why. Personally, a problem I have with feminists who do acknowledge men’s issues is that they tend to never go beyond “patriarchy doesn’t allow men to show their emotions!”. Like, men’s issues go wayyyy beyond that, and misandry kills everyday too. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/08/25 02:57 PM |
| 2 | User on 2x hates men because of period crampsI don’t think all of the sentiments are totally invalid. Like some men do sexually objectify women and are assholes- but you know there always will be sexist assholes in either direction. To blame everyone is irrational. (Not even to mention you have things like onlyfans women who are on board with sexually objectifying themselves and contributing to these attitudes) However another aspect to look into is how women like in this post are actually, pretty fucking full of internal misogyny. They’re… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/08/25 01:29 AM |
| 1 | False EquivalenceYou can also ask feminists why they can’t handle the sexist blanket statement of “all women are cheating sluts” or “all women are gold diggers” when the accusation is something relatively petty compared to…how they accuse men of all being rape monsters, which is literally the worst thing a human can be. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/08/25 03:30 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about people pointing out sexual dimorphism?Yup. Its insecurity. You know why narcissists have to put others down, create enemies, and start shit for no reason? It’s because they’re insecure. For whatever reason they need a sense of vengeance to protect their egos. It’s the only thing that makes them feel close to human or close to being “enough.” You see those patterns in feminists a lot. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/25 04:35 PM |
| 7 | Uber will let women drivers and riders request to avoid being paired with men starting next monthI think a lot of feminists are covertly disgusted by the existence of male homosexuality/bisexuality but because they are seen as a “progressive” movement (whether they are or not is up for debate as their views of men and women overlap strangely enough with socially conservative mfs) it goes under the rug. I don’t even think they realize how homophobic they sound themselves when they say shit like that. But I think it’s more so because they are disgusted by “maleness” in general and male sexual… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/07/25 08:00 AM |
| 7 | Uber will let women drivers and riders request to avoid being paired with men starting next monthYeah, and likewise courts are biased against men. Being white helps someone get a sentencing “discount” for the same crime a POC commited, as does being a woman makes it more likely for someone to get a lighter sentence for the same crime a man commits. Not even with just crime in general but with custody and divorce and shit it’s pretty unfair too. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/07/25 06:39 AM |
| 2 | Uber will let women drivers and riders request to avoid being paired with men starting next monthYup. It’s no shit at this point, but I think most of us here have figured its financial oligarchy that is the ultimate oppressor. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/07/25 01:19 AM |
| 14 | Uber will let women drivers and riders request to avoid being paired with men starting next monthRemember, feminism in America began with the most socially elite women crying….so from the start it was never even really about caring about women’s issues as a whole. It’s just about their own supremacy. So when privileged wealthy white feminists try to tell me, a woman of color who grew up in a broken home, that they could speak for me and understand what I’VE been through, because we’re both women, I call bullshit. And I take so much offense to the idea that they assume I’m automatically on b… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/07/25 12:47 AM |
| 19 | Uber will let women drivers and riders request to avoid being paired with men starting next monthBlacks are more likely to commit violent crimes but most black people do not commit violent crimes and are just folks trying to get about their day. We’re all individuals who do not deserve to take responsibility and demonization for the wrong doings of other individuals who happen to share an arbitrary trait with us. Men are also more likely to commit violent crimes but most men are also just folks trying to get about their day. It’s not okay to make a horrible statement about the former group … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/07/25 11:44 PM |
| 56 | Uber will let women drivers and riders request to avoid being paired with men starting next monthLmfao what if white people wanted ride request options to avoid black drivers? I mean, if black people get offended they should just understand that white people are just weary because statistically black people are more dangerous, right /s? You realized just how prejudiced and hateful feminists are once you realize their anti-male rhetoric aligns with racist rhetoric too…. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/07/25 08:12 PM |
| 25 | How modern feminism radicalizes men to become misogynistsOn instagram I see a lot of reels of fake skits of women being harassed or stalked by men. I really think feminists get off to that shit. I mean, yeah, men harassing women happens, but feminists seem to get off to fake scenarios of women being victims in some way, and even if they individually were never the victims of something like that themselves they want to act like they are. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/07/25 03:13 PM |
| 39 | How modern feminism radicalizes men to become misogynistsYeah, and that’s not even mentioning how women absolutely uphold “misogyny” themselves. Some women absolutely have no problem sexualizing themselves and reducing themselves to sex objects for lonely men’s pleasure for profit. Some women have no problem ruining the reputation of a prettier woman she deems as “competition” so she can date a rich hot guy who will coddle her. I don’t like making generalizations, and I might sound borderline red-pill to which I am not, the redpill/manosphere is absol… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/07/25 02:58 PM |
| 26 | The backlash against male heterosexualityYeah even then-I’m a lesbian. And I get called a pick me somehow. Cuz you know, I have male friends and brothers I care about, and I believe saying “kill all men” as a joke isn’t cool. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/25 01:14 AM |
| 18 | The backlash against male heterosexualityWho even knows if she actually believes in her shit. She’s a pop star, all she wants is money out of her gullible and angsty audience of young women and playing off misandristic sentiments was working for a while. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/25 01:10 AM |
| 24 | How can women possibly be suffering that badly?Yeah a lot of women basically voted against their own reproductive rights and for the tariffs that fuck over everyone in the working class lmfao. But I noticed a lot of feminist rhetoric regarding that is to yeah, blame the men for Cheeto man being in the big chair. I get called a pick me a lot for thinking this shit, and it’s crazy because I’m literally a lesbian lol | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/07/25 07:04 AM |
| 42 | How can women possibly be suffering that badly?As far as women “appropriating” the suffering of other women-I think that was the phrase I was looking for for a while. As a woman of in America who was born to an immigrant family and had to struggle through poverty and other things that comes with being from a background as mine -omg that’s why it pisses me off seeing privileged white feminists online and in my personal life, playing victim and trashing men, deflecting from their own systemic privilege, and trying to act like they have the sam… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/07/25 06:42 AM |
| 2 | A short answer to the claim that misandry doesn't killI think this is worth mentioning (and note I am not a historian, you can verify me or debunk me if you want with what I’m about to say) women in patriarchal societies can and have still had influential leadership positions even if not directly- look at the religious roles certain women were able to have and women who married emperors in Ancient Rome. Nonetheless Ancient Rome was definitely patriarchal. The common woman was expected to stay in the background and couldn’t vote but if I remember ri… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/07/25 07:58 PM |
| 2 | If the people on this sub are opposed to feminism, how do we solve mens' issues while also solving the issues affecting women?Men of color are a lot more likely to be victims of violent crime and to be killed or assaulted at random on the streets, and a lot of this is perpetrated by authority itself (those corrupt police). So if you’re a guy it’s not exactly like you’re automatically safe walking down there streets. Yeah women get sexually harassed. It happens. It’s wrong. I want to live in a world where that doesn’t happen. But your statement is misleading about how since you’re not a woman it’s as if you automaticall… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/07/25 06:38 PM |
| 8 | A short answer to the claim that misandry doesn't killYeah, can’t it be said that in a lot of those cases of spousal homicide-isn’t it often a result of an ongoing toxic marriage and often times reciprocal abuse from both parties? I don’t know the exact statistics but that has to definitely be a more defining factor than just “men hate women so they kill their wives/girlfriends.” I mean whatever the situation is, whether it’s a man-woman relationship, male-male relationship, female-female relationship, whoever the fuck you are, if anyone is going t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/07/25 06:14 PM |
| 8 | A short answer to the claim that misandry doesn't killFeminists aren’t even consistent among themselves. Some say that in a patriarchal society women are always the “victims” of sexism and always get the end of the stick systemically and socially. Some say the “patriarchy hurts men too” but I notice they don’t tend to acknowledge in what ways systemic misandry exists that goes beyond “men aren’t allowed to show their emotions.” So in a way I agree, you coukd argue “patriarchy” cannot really be a thing because it’s not really defined consistently du… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/07/25 05:59 PM |
| 2 | A short answer to the claim that misandry doesn't killHmmm, well, to answer your last question, if someone were to have posted here “does the patriarchy exist?” I would say something along the lines of “In a sense, sure” because in modern day America “patriarchal” ideals and expectations are still very much unfairly placed on men. I gave a few very broad example but one that’s prevalent in modern day America is how women are given the upper hand in divorce/child custody matters. Part of this stems from “benevolent sexism” that women are more nurtur… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/07/25 04:20 PM |
| -2 | A short answer to the claim that misandry doesn't killI still acknowledge it as patriarchy because society very well does still assign gender roles on men and women, and the “nuclear family” thing conservatives in America like is ultimately beneficial for corporations and the like. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/07/25 03:25 PM |
| 9 | A short answer to the claim that misandry doesn't killPatriarchy and traditional gender roles absolutely can and does generate misandry. It assigns men to be providers, disposable assets of war, ect. Also, the more micro-social stereotypes on men that are harmful (men are all sex-crazed pigs who can’t control themselves, men have no emotional intelligence, you know that stuff) I’m really surprised that scrolling through this sub alot of people reject the concept of patriarchy as a whole. It exists and has existed in some form throughout history jus… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/07/25 02:37 PM |
| 4 | Guy here asking questionsI'm gonna go Jordan Peterson mode, and ask what the fuck does patriarchy even mean in 2025? If the patriarchy does exist, it certainly has not been portrayed accurately by feminists. It's definitely not all men conspiring to subjugate all women. That idea is ridiculous. Most men have no say in really anything in how our government and market is ran. The majority of men are not killing and raping women, or anyone really. This doesn’t deny that such atrocities happen but to place guilt on a whole … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/06/25 10:51 PM |
| 2 | What Side of Male Focused Content is Actually Helping Men? (Left Wing Perspective)Yeah, all these topics are convoluted- which is no shit lmao. That’s why we have such long ass threads here. And I hope my previous comments weren’t misconstrued to mean that I believe an individual’s self worth is in how physically fit they are or how “disciplined” they are- I definitely agree the angle and over-arcing motive in which manosphere influencers approach that shit is absolutely toxic to say the least. Like said by a lot of us here- there’s a fair ground, and at the same time these i… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/06/25 12:17 AM |
| 3 | What Side of Male Focused Content is Actually Helping Men? (Left Wing Perspective)Maybe I didn’t clarify enough; I wouldn’t say the left as a WHOLE is against self-improvement. What I meant is that you always have those “petty” fringe leftist social movements like the fat acceptance rhetoric that goes around a lot of leftist online spaces. You know- like the ones who give social progressives a bad name because they quite literally are ridiculously sensitive about people having standards for themselves. I noticed too a lot of feminists who also identify as leftist just seem to… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/06/25 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Double standards and false narratives regarding male and female subs.If you switch “men” with “black people” in a lot of their hypothetical scenarios and reasons as to why they feel justified making such bold generalizations then it just shows how bigoted and full of hate they are. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/06/25 07:50 PM |
| 7 | What Side of Male Focused Content is Actually Helping Men? (Left Wing Perspective)It’s interesting how you bring up how right male propaganda puts a lot of emphasis on discipline, physical strength, health ect. And that’s not necessarily a bad thing. I think it could be a good thing- until…well until you surround it with all the toxic gross red pill stuff that surrounds it that just further reinforces gender roles that sucks for everyone. One of the qualms I’ve had with the left as a leftist is the fact that they seem to be allergic or take offense to anything that deals with… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/06/25 06:51 PM |
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