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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -5 | (21m) Why is getting girls so hard for me and what should I do?Most of these girls im talking about I’m not trying to get in a relationship with I just want to get laid. I can’t even do that man lol | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 09:03 AM |
| 1 | (21m) Why is getting girls so hard for me and what should I do?I also want to see if I can get into therapy because dude, idk how many posts I’ve made on Reddit, I don’t wanna count, but that just gives you an idea how bad I’m affected by these thoughts. I think it’s definitely not normal hahaha. Therapy gotta be expensive | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 08:05 AM |
| 1 | (21m) Why is getting girls so hard for me and what should I do?Another thing is like, I think there’s been a few times where I tried to see women as just a friend, and I still overthink about shit. I’m like “they’re not men, they don’t talk about the shit I wanna probably talk about so wtf do I say!” So I come out limiting what I say to them. I’m very careful what topics to talk about with them because I feel like they’re just gonna be like ehhh he’s boring i don’t care about what this guy has to say | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 08:04 AM |
| 1 | (21m) Why is getting girls so hard for me and what should I do?Yea rlly the main reason I don’t find the appeal in convos is because I don’t ever feel invested into having one I just want to rush to something sexual. And if I ever have a convo about something not sexual, I always try to diverge it into something sexual. But as for wanting to talk to women? Yes I do, like inside my head I want to, but I just can’t. My convo skills with them are weak, as I was saying I always rush to something sexual, that’s all I really know what to say to a girl through tex… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 08:02 AM |
| 3 | (21m) Why is getting girls so hard for me and what should I do?I think that’s a great start I def need to start making female friends because the way I’ve been feeling recently is it seems like every girl I interact with I try to add in some type of flirting and I see them in a sexual way and maybe that’s why. I don’t really see them as just friends. I do it mostly as a practice but it’s probably not working how I want it to | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 07:33 AM |
| 1 | (21m) Why is getting girls so hard for me and what should I do?I know that this is a thing but I can’t ever do it correctly even after being told to😂 Somwthing just doesn’t click with me I always fall back to the bad habits and my flirting just gets worse the more I get denied. It’s like my confidence is just going down the drain😭 | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 07:26 AM |
| 1 | (21m) Do I need to self improve?I have girls on my social media that i talk to every now and then. Is trying to get nudes from them the same as watching porn etc? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 01:45 AM |
| 1 | (21m) Do I need to self improve?What do you think I should do | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 11:52 PM |
| 1 | (21m) Do I need to self improve?What about getting nudes over social media is that the same thing? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 11:51 PM |
| 2 | (21m) Do I need to self improve?okay thanks for the tip! | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 11:50 PM |
| 0 | (21m) Let’s say I add a girl on Facebook and Snapchat? How do I get her interested in me?The reason women don’t like me is because I called you out on being stupid?😭 Okay then. Maybe you’re just mad no men like you lol | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 11:49 PM |
| 1 | (21m) Let’s say I add a girl on Facebook and Snapchat? How do I get her interested in me?You seem like the type of woman that would say some guy raped you when he didn’t😭 Predatory? You’re insane lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 12:47 PM |
| 1 | (21m) Let’s say I add a girl on Facebook and Snapchat? How do I get her interested in me?Great advice man. Don’t a lot of guys do that though? My friend somehow got away with it why can’t i? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 12:44 PM |
| -2 | (21m) Do I need to self improve?The thing is I don’t understand where my problem is coming from. I think the problem in general is having a conversation with a girl isn’t interesting to me, so when I try that’s why I mess up, because I’m genuinely not tuned into the convo and idk what to say. And about your point I’m being more about conversation, I get that but don’t you need to add in some element of teasing too? I know you do and that’s another thing I’m kind of bad at. Might be caused by my lack of confidence too | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 08:14 AM |
| -6 | (21m) Do I need to self improve?Do you genuinely mean that or are you saying that as an insult lol | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 08:09 AM |
| -2 | (21m) Do I need to self improve?I get that but idk how. Do I just stop prom addiction? Where do I start | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 08:07 AM |
| 1 | (21m) Do I need to self improve?I get that like I said I want to change that | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 08:03 AM |
| 1 | (21m) Do I need to self improve?I don’t know why talking to women is harder for me. And I have trouble teasing | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 08:03 AM |
| 1 | (21m) How to drop a good opener to a girl through dms?Really? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 08:16 AM |
| 2 | (21m) Let’s say I add a girl on Facebook and Snapchat? How do I get her interested in me?I think you hit the nail on the head. As much as I hate to admit it yea none of those girls I want sleep with on my socials and tinder are interesting to me. I feel boring. They feel boring to me as well and whenever I see a girl like that, I want to skip an actual convo because I can’t think of what to say and speedrun to sexting and sending nudes. It’s insane. I feel like I can’t even flirt that well either. What can I change about this because my friends all younger and same age as me can do … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/23 01:19 AM |
| -13 | (21m) Let’s say I add a girl on Facebook and Snapchat? How do I get her interested in me?Why do you think people hook up then? You think every guy that hooks up with a girl connects through common interests?😂 | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/23 01:02 AM |
| -5 | (21m) Let’s say I add a girl on Facebook and Snapchat? How do I get her interested in me?Fuck tbh and I add them cuz they’re hot | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/23 01:00 AM |
| -5 | (21m) Let’s say I add a girl on Facebook and Snapchat? How do I get her interested in me?Ngl I’ve tried that and convo jus goes dry. I feel weird like you wanna create sexual tension but at the same time you don’t want to do it too early. I just don’t know how to be different and not boring | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/23 12:49 AM |
| -9 | (21m) Let’s say I add a girl on Facebook and Snapchat? How do I get her interested in me?Pretty tbh | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Advice for attracting girls at age 21?I’m definitely not trying to make women look bad just reflecting on my past experiences. 🤷🏽♂️😂 | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Advice for attracting girls at age 21?Why because I said girls shit test? 😭 | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Advice for attracting girls at age 21?I have and most girls I’ve hung out and did stuff with do that. It’s not me being misogynistic or being hateful. It’s just in female nature. Like when girls say something to get a negative reaction out of you, you just have to act like that shit doesn’t bother you | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Advice for attracting girls at age 21?Dude I need to. I’m getting more upset by the day | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Advice for attracting girls at age 21?Not really | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Advice for attracting girls at age 21?I AM scared of being friendzoned because it’s happened to me before. Like I have no problem being a friend in a sense but if I had other motives with a chick and it ended up becoming the opposite that shit would get me fucked up | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Advice for attracting girls at age 21?I appreciate the essay tho so you’re good lol. Yea I have like one close friend and none others so what you said makes sense. I don’t have any trouble talking to do other dudes but the only thing I can’t do is get super close to them because I feel like they’re just gonna talk shit. It only takes some real tests to find out if somebody is real or not. By becoming emotionally secure, how can I do that? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Advice for attracting girls at age 21?I get I’m asking for advice but that’s what I’ve always gone by | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 11:40 AM |
| 0 | Advice for attracting girls at age 21?Are you SURE about that? Women always want a dominant man. A man that doesn’t take any bullshit. That’s what I mean like when girl shit tests you you never cave in into any of it. That’s what I mean by alpha not any of that Andrew tate bullshit lol | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Advice for attracting girls at age 21?What does your first sentence even mean? And so just be their friend? That’s all? What if that still makes me kinda nervous? I hate this shit bro hahaha | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Advice for attracting girls at age 21?Huh | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Advice for attracting girls at age 21?Do you think I would need one in my case? I was thinking the same because maybe my perception of women is ruined from having a weird childhood and bad relationship with my mother? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Advice for dming girls you haven’t texted before?You’re in the wrong sub😪 | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 08:13 AM |
| 0 | Advice for dming girls you haven’t texted before?You have issues lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 08:10 AM |
| -1 | Advice for dming girls you haven’t texted before?You hit the nail on the head. Too many old heads in here that don’t understand lmao. They can downvote all they want but that doesn’t change anything lol. Questioning if it was even worth asking Reddit | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Advice for dming girls you haven’t texted before?Haha should I just hit her up with “aye ik this is totally random but what places do you like to eat?” | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Advice for dming girls you haven’t texted before?I know but this girl is cute asf. I don’t want it to be late to shoot my shit and then all of sudden she’s in a relationship with another guy | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 09:24 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with other guys trying to embarrass you/ make you feel smaller in front a woman?Lol it’s my job AND my boss. What am is supposed to do stand in his face and try to fight him? Lmao | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:34 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with other guys trying to embarrass you/make you feel smaller in front of a woman?What I get out of it is somebody that’s insecure about themselves so they try to do that to somebody that they’re jealous about, just to make themselves feel better. But at the same time I don’t know what my boss has to insecure or jealous about. He has a lot more money than me, wife, kids, a good job, better social status. Maybe my looks and some of my confidence? Idk | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with other guys trying to embarrass you/ make you feel smaller in front a woman?Hahahahaha | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 03:52 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with other guys trying to embarrass you/make you feel smaller in front of a woman?This guy is a general manager meaning he’s more than just a boss. In theory and in my situation, it’s like telling the fbi headquarters that an FBI agent is being corrupt. If I report anything, it’ll go straight to him then he’d probably subtly make a joke about it to everybody at work just to be funny | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with other guys trying to embarrass you/ make you feel smaller in front a woman?Haha I do want to keep my job. Thanks for the advice! | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 03:48 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with other guys trying to embarrass you/make you feel smaller in front of a woman?Thing is if I did confront it’ll just make a scene, and possibly make me look bad. (Makes me look like the weaker person that can’t take a joke) Absolutely though, about your point of holding a masculine frame despite even after the fact. I should’ve just taken it as a joke even if it wasn’t, but I think from what I’ll do from now on is pretend like he’s an older sibling, and try to be goofy back. That way, i project myself as somebody who can take a joke and is unphased by his bullshit | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/22 03:45 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with other guys trying to embarrass you/make you feel smaller in front of a woman?Jesus that’s brilliant. I never looked at it like that but now that you say that, I think that’s what I’ll do from now on! Thanks a lot! | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/22 03:42 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with other guys trying to embarrass you/make you feel smaller in front of a woman?That’s exactly why I didn’t confront him like that. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/22 03:40 PM |
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