No-Custard-1468 Archive

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1	No attraction Honestly I think there's a lot about preference. Popular traits are known: well groomed, healthy. Then some women prefer 'masculine-heavy' traits, some prefer more soft-masculine, some prefer reserved, others nerdy or friendly. Everyone I know prefers self-assured or comfortable with themselves, but the degree of quiet confidence all the way to domineering is also variable. And there's even women that are very sensitive to smell, not just clean smell, but normal clean person smell. The only thin…	/r/seduction	20/08/24 09:04 AM
0	Lots of female friends, no play. This might be the wrong sub to ask this question, seeing 70% of the comments are 'don't be a beta, show them your dick'. Knowing how to talk to a woman as a person puts you ahead of the game, don't doubt that for a second. Things that I have seen working: keeping a smile and eye contact for longer, especially after something cute or funny; a surprise compliment while maintaining a conversation; some physical contact (only after your friends). For people you know better, spending some time 1-on-1…	/r/seduction	19/08/24 06:32 PM
1	Stories vs. Advice Woman's POV: this sub is such an echo chamber of half good advice, half terrible. It makes me think you're right and people giving advice are not happy with their own dating lives, just repeating the same mantras, and maybe a few of them are sociopaths. Eg of great advice: get out of a negative mindset, practice talking to women, work on yourself to be interesting and well-groomed Eg of awful advice: the goal is quantity/phone number, seeing all women as interchangeable, increasingly touching wo…	/r/seduction	19/08/24 10:35 AM
1	No attraction Yeah, I think physical attraction is not just what you can see in a picture, but also mannerisms, tone of voice, and overall vibe. It makes it harder to use OLD; you can only tell after meeting IRL. Might feel like a waste of time and good banter, but preferences, what you gonna do? On to the next one! PS: From a woman's POV, reading these other comments... touching and sexy flirting would creep me out, not make me change my attraction levels. Those only work if I'm already attracted to someone.	/r/seduction	19/08/24 10:17 AM
1	What’s Going Wrong on First Dates? Sounds like it might be helpful for you to learn how to hangout with women, before trying to woo them. And to unlock some of this conversation issues and overthinking - the date should be about seeing if you like each other, not an uphill battle to entertain her or trick her. Have you made some women friends at work/school or through hobbies? Once you can be yourself and have a good chat with women, then it will be easier to add flirting and dating intention.	/r/seduction	19/08/24 08:52 AM
3	Why do women say: "The bar is so low for men" yet to get any results from cold approach as an avg guy, the interaction has to be exceptional basically. And even then nothing is guaranteed How dare these women not buy what I'm selling? How dare they?? I'm so above average. There must be something wrong with them.	/r/seduction	19/08/24 08:34 AM
1	How do you develop a social circle of like minded people in your late 20s? By the way you speak of friends, you don’t sound like a nice friend to have	/r/seduction	09/08/24 12:53 PM
1	What’s your take on Navigating the London Dating Scene: Direct Approach vs. Reserved Culture? Sounds like you're having enough "success", not sure what advice you seek... Plenty of women won't enjoy the direct-to-sex approach, but as you experienced, some will.	/r/seduction	07/08/24 10:36 AM
0	First time posting, need advice (how to avoid age question) why lie? if she doesn't like you because of your age, move on	/r/seduction	07/08/24 10:23 AM
2	Seeking advice on how to help a girl feel more relaxed board games can get you laughing together cooking together is a vibe something silly or weird, like listening to whale sounds or gong baths while hugging	/r/seduction	07/08/24 10:21 AM
2	Women lose attraction when they start to know me. It is normal? Female perspective here - could you be attracting the wrong women? It sounds like your first impression is different than your genuine personality. I wonder what would happen if you adjusted the first approach slightly, even if fewer women would want to date you, would they be a better and more interesting match?	/r/seduction	22/07/24 01:29 PM