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DebateNo-Description4322/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:25 AM
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Question For MenNo-Description4322/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:13 AM
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Question For WomenNo-Description4322/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:42 AM
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I dont. I am an incel myself I do not wish to change because changing to be loved seems like a bitchmade decision in a long line of bitchmade decisions just to be worthy of a crumb of love and pussy ( Yeah i went there ) Personaly I think there needs to be a more affable charming lawful nuetral face for incels - someone who is not racist, homophobic or traditionalist. A POC, well read moderate incel who is also irrevocably angry and living with a ton of self hatred. Who others in the space can i…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/25 01:54 PM
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No they were not interested in constructive feedback. Their responses mimicked your until now They juts called me terrible. If i got angry they would use that as evidence of me being terrible Some had the grace to back trak and talk about how "bad personality" doesnt mean moraly bad, but thats after years of people implying a moral judgement with "bad personality" And to you specifically? dont bother analyzing me or trying to reach me You are 2 years too late Look out for other losers on the cus…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/25 04:36 PM
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What is hard to understand People told me i must be a terrible person if no one wanted me in 32 years of life I am just agreeing with them and i am playing my part It helped no one if the dung beetle pretends to be a lion
/r/ExRedPill31/03/25 04:22 PM
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I was repellant before i had this attitude. I was normal and decent for 28-30 years of my life I am now a 32 year old virgin LIfe is shitty, the last 2 years have been the same but atleast i am not wasting any more effort of being a good person when i am always seen as a threat yes i am a scumbag yes i am an incel but i live, i breathe, i bleed and even if it is only to my self I matter And the only way i can bear to live is to assume that i am the worst person in the world to exist. So i will c…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/25 04:04 PM
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I was a social failure before i decided to "act my level". I was simply oblivious to the reality of it and to how people perceive me trying to be good person and being seen as a good person is for better men For losers all you get is suspicion and burn out By being a scumbag my life is still pretty joyless but at least i am not wasting any effort trying to be a good person anymore Women and blue pillers say that men in my situation are shooting out of our leagues. I am behaving the way people in…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/25 03:44 PM
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This is pure projection and makes redpill men out to be almost cartoon network level villians with no inner lives Its convenient for you ofcourse to continue dismissing them so you keep doing that
/r/ExRedPill31/03/25 01:46 PM
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IMO it doesnt help that women and antiredpill people just pop off assuming the internal motivations of men in the red pill Lets make this clear. He wouldnt be redpill if he was satisfied with his life Instead of trying to prove hm wrong ask him what is he trying to explain in his life with it and see if you cn arrive at a fix together. IF you can help him get the results he wants without the red pill he will likely not rely on it as much In my case. I use it to excuse myself of may abject failur…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/25 01:44 PM
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Not all the people you call incel are incel either Doesnt seem to stop you does it? I am calling the femcels for the content of their charecters
/r/ExRedPill24/03/25 09:13 PM
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I am not red pill. If i was i would be more positive and feeling incontrol of my life. I would look forward to future with hope I am just telling that extreme failure with a bluepill mindset primes you to become blackpilled. Because what ever nebulous standard women look for in men, you fail to measure upto. What ever makes them "better" you lack. Its nor somethig you can work on or force and f you are alone at 30, you are more likely to stay alone
/r/ExRedPill23/03/25 07:08 PM
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Women benefi from that stadard The biggest lie ever told was " IF men were better, then we would potentially caree about their problems" women dont need to be better The Quote is a lie because " better " is a shifting goalpoast. The men of today are better in terms of outlook wrt gender, sex, egalitarianism and LGBTQ issues Yet theri issues are ignored as it was in the past. Men will never get to a point were women and society will say " OK we can start caring about you" Hence men should not ext…
/r/ExRedPill23/03/25 07:02 PM
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It was ore than one woman on may different subreddits and even a few in real life its been my overarching experience How am i supposed to ignore any of it?
/r/ExRedPill23/03/25 06:32 PM
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The discussions were in abstact around men who were 30+ with no sexual or romantic experience one if them said they preferred men with negative reviews to men with no reviews As for my personality now? I am a misogynist. I am proud of it. It allows me to live without being ashamed as i can say that i a virgin because i am a misogynist
/r/ExRedPill23/03/25 06:29 PM
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Youa re one person vs the many many blue pilled women i have talked to all of them decided that i must be deficient or that i must be morally repugnant
/r/ExRedPill23/03/25 06:18 PM
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> were literally happier before you got pilled. When you held conventional views on dating, you were, relatively speaking, happy and healthy. Then you took the black pill and became miserable. The obvious conclusion here is that the black pill is harming your mental health and you should drop it. Like, even if the hope you held out before you were black-pilled was false (it wasn't), you were better off for having it. People like you are why incels exist You should tell loser men right away that …
/r/ExRedPill23/03/25 06:16 PM
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i didnt get redpilled untl later and all blue pill was was brainwashing I wasnt in a realtions? who is at fault me, i have to work on my self, i still fail. Who is at fault ? me. I work on my self. I still fail, Who is at fault ? me. SO i work on my self . I fail again I hate myself not because i believe that i acn improve myself like redpill says i can but beause bluepillers regard anyone who is a late virgin male as abnormal. in their words, if you failed to have anyone intrested in you in 30 …
/r/ExRedPill23/03/25 06:12 PM
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well thansk that was very helpful. Jesus christ
/r/ExRedPill23/03/25 05:38 PM
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they do have it easier. I have seen womne with femcel level opinion who are married and have children. Not locked out of the ordinary joys of life They claim that we are alone because of wrong think and wrong speak despite being the poster child form these things, displaying breathtaking hypocrisy
/r/ExRedPill23/03/25 05:37 PM
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Here is th real black pill What ever makes other men attractive, that little spark that little bit of magic. YOu simply dont have that all you can do is imitate those better men and look in askance as you fail If you are unsucessful at 30 then you are simply les of a man that the ones who are no matter what you have done and acheived and no matter what you have done and acheived I, despite saying that i am a misogynist have never harmed a single woman in my life, even having helped a few of them…
/r/ExRedPill23/03/25 05:34 PM
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Redpill is comparitively a path of hope. You can always improve you can always get better ( ideally) The only endpoint of being blue pill and constantly rejected and unwanted is blackpill and inceldom Until the age of 28 as long as i believed in bluepill, i was fine despite never being loved holding out hope for the one who would want me Realizing that was unwanted by women made me miserable Everything bad i say about myself, every negative self outlook, every insecurity came after I wanted to b…
/r/ExRedPill23/03/25 05:28 PM
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I think it is good to strip away the empathy people have for women as a default. Its good to caution men against the possibility that the single mom who you think likes you might just like you for the stability you bring to her life and the potential support for her child. Frequently the dynamics evolve such that you are hepriority while she expects her to be your first. Many women would do much more to give their child a better future (and that is when we are trying to imagine a good reason for…
/r/ExRedPill23/03/25 05:23 PM
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You are not a woman hater unlike me me being alone makes sense manhaters being in relationship with people who will cary her weight too speaks to a level of priviledge most guys cant dream off
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:09 AM
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Ask the men around you from my age 25-35 group about what feminism felt like, what the messaging felt like Whether or not they felt a sense of responsibility when there was a rape, sexual assault, and whether there was no cultural push to make men more mindful of challenges with an expectation to be considerate to them You cant just gaslight us into believing that it didn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:50 AM
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Not as much as it sucks to be a low value male We say that people like me are alone because we are misogynists and that women can sense it? There are women on here who have though patterns that would put any incel to shame and invariably they flaunt their relationship status on here Being able to attain social milestones like kiss, sex relationships and marriage, being able to be committed to by a man with a job and with a higher standard of living compared to you staying with your parents, desp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:43 AM
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The only thing i expect is not to be treated with suspicion I tried to be a good man a few times despite my metal decline over the last 4 years and the only thing i got in response was insults mockery and derision Bassically i look and present as a low value man, so when i try to help i am seen as trying to earn my way into their pants and they feel compelled to cut me down for it. LIfe has been easier when i began to see women as meat obstacles in y path to and from work No one cares about me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:39 AM
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Women, feminists Female friends there was messaging everywhere for men to do better, to Look for and counter misogyny among our friends, to platfrom women in our group and at out jobs, to "lean out" so that women can "lean in" I believed in that message like a fucking dumbass Constant stories about how they feel unsafe because of men, tyhe implication being that we should extend sympathy to them and accept that we are going to be seen as potential rapists a A lady got stabbed in Australia/UK and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:32 AM
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Go ahead and ask the sisterhood It was the message peddled to my generation as we grew up, I am not imagining it Even women on here accuse us of protecting bad men when we say we dont know these people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:23 AM
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Your homophobia was the implication that men could be sexually be fulfilled if they could just be gay That flies n the face of years of agitation by the gay community that homosexuality is infact not a choice Thats the homophobia - if you can claim that men could just be gay then conversion therapies have a leg to stand on to cure gayness Secondly you are implying that women are not heterosexual equating the desire "heterosexual" women have for men to the desire heterosexual men have to homosexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:09 AM
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Let me be clear. If incels are responsible for their own failures and deserve no empathy then it is even more so in case of women who fumble inspite of having it atleast a magnitude easier in general. whatever you feel for incels, i am more than justified in feeling for femcels
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:00 AM
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ISnt that what women expect from men though? " he for she" was based on that concept Women routinely expect us to police our own to protect women by calling out misogynistic men We are met with incredulousness when we say that we dont know misogynists or rapists to chastise, our inability to see them and sniff them out like blood hounds seen as a moral failing and us circling the wagons around scumbags rather than a part of the human condition,
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:47 AM
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I am just starting up I am gonna make a new post talking about how men do have it hard and that make an argument on why divesting ourselves of the empathy we feel for women is a necessary step to developing male class consciousness
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:34 AM
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wow, so you are like fully a femcel like person huh? Bet you have a boyfriend or are married. Easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:32 AM
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Well aren't you glad clarified it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:30 AM
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there was a disaster in a mine in south africa back in the early 1900s, where a train jumped the tracks near an elevator box car and fell on it as it was descending down to the floor of the mine this was apartheid south africa so most of the men where coloured the elevator and the train crashed to the floor in free fall taking a few seconds to reach the bottom When miners went down the shaft to check out the wreckage they found the air clogged with blood mist, not a scrap of a person was found. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:16 AM
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He got a partner, she gets a better life - win-win
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:06 AM
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I am not saying that you didnt help advance medical science. I acknowledge your lack of agency in that I want you to accept that advances in science has been paid for in blood by men, in ways that no one would consent to. I am saying that, that kind of waste of life may be needed to see the advances you envy men's medical care of having And women advances have been great! - ivf, insemination, surrocacy all improve womens reproductive options Breast cancer is screened for on a national level and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:02 AM
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I think it needs to be called "Performance fatigue" The emotional abuse of men to distrust each other and to be abused emotionally to the point of creating anhedonia is a feature not a bug of patriarchy. The lionisation of martial action, self sacrifice and martydom as the highest ideal of unquestionable masculinity was by design so that men could be and continue to be for lack of a better word, mob enforcers of society in service to God King and country. To be willingly disposable for causes gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:54 AM
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Until recently I was deeply concerned for women around me. Not my relation but strangers. I kept my eye out for situations that may require intervention to mitigate I was concerned about the state of the world where womne kept saying that they felt unsafe and felt it to be my responsibility to help mitgate that I have been struggling in the last 4 years and i have withdrawn that mental energy and effort. I am a colder person now. I dont see women any more, i dont analyze situations to see if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:49 AM
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No it does not. Its bringing to light that men seem to be raised to take risks as a part of life. TO value their bodily integrity less than the task at hand probably due to socially engineered low self worth and an emotional numbness that refuses to recognise fear as a valid reason to stop, affecting the causal air of " just the cost of doing business" I want men to recognize the risk they place themselves in and push back on naratives that make us feel like what we do is expected or easy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:45 AM
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Just like women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:42 AM
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explain that please.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:42 AM
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Nice. thats a new POV for me. Thats why this site matters i guess, women pushing back on what they see as mischaracterization of their gender basically asking men like me to shut the fuck up. I wish men would do the same when women shit talk men too YOu are right, men do not share brotherhood with each other, However i will argue that it is the nature of how society raises men And while women may be involved more in societal outreach they also hold us uniquely responsible for our misery in a way…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:36 AM
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Damn! that poor kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:14 AM
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This makes me hate my life so much
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:12 AM
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it meant kneecapping our success for womens sake
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:10 AM
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interesting that you had no response to the medical advances thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:54 PM
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This is above all, an unadulterated lie> There never was and never will be sympathy directed towards men from either society or women. It wont happen and it we cant make it happen We have been socialized into it. The average man is made to feel responsible for other mens actions. Bellow average men even more so. We are told it is a tragedy that women dont have the freedom to roam like stray dogs in the streets at night like you can ( you cant either, you would get killed or mugged, we are simply…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:50 PM
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Yeah. People dont like to be with hopeless people. I have no hope. having it in my situation would be insanity and delusional and thats what you are advocating And i refuse to crawl underground so that fulfilled individuals like yourselves can pretend that men like me dont exist - just like you drive out the homeless so that they dont tank the property value of a neighborhood
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:39 PM
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I am speaking to my experience. I never hated myself until i was 28 From the day i tried to be loved i began to hate myself for being incapable of being loved. For lacking that spark, that thing that men have that makes them desirable. For being so useless that i failed at what women consider normal human experiences at my age just making it even more difficult to see a future where i can find that ordinary happiness I am done wanting women and love but the ache and the reminder that i am not fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:37 PM
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IT would have been great if nature made me asexual or gay. Wanting women, loving women and desiring love from them has made me hate myself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:22 PM
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I have always blamed my problems on myself, it changed nothing so now i blame it on women, and it changes nothing But it does make it easier to live, without seeing myself as responsible for everything wrong with the world
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:21 PM
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I have mental issues because i failed to find love I have never hated any aspect of my charecter and even liked myself until i reaslised at 28 that women dont want me Wanting love desiring women has been the worst thing in the world for my self esteem so much so that i have to think of myself as the antichrist to make my life make sense to me I wish i was gay or asexual so that i could be a worthwhile human being
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:18 PM
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No. I am no longer intrested in litigating how good I was just to be told it was the bare minimum I dont want to. Infact i will just shortcut your conclusion that i am the scum of the earth and there is some kind of misogynistic miasma comming of me to make me throughly unwanted I am evil incarnate so being a 32 year old virgin and being an incel makes perfect sense, and i dont have to wonder why in deserve my hell despite being a "good " guy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:13 PM
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fake it till you make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:09 PM
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I am not listening to any woman who purports to talk about what a real man is I have failed in friendships and in love to the point that i am a 32 year old virgin who is happy to call himself a misogynist. Pretending i am normal is self delusion Arguing for your self intrest is what people do. We just gave women a pass on it for too long
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:08 PM
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No, i was ostracized for trying to do the right thing like a retard. Men who are not high on the totem pole cannot make transgressive statements or pushback to dominant social naratives, becasue their social ability to survive in the group is that tenuous Men higher on the totem pole are advantaged to the point that they dont have to care for the leass fortunate men becasue we are socialised to accept that there are winner and losers to ensure our completion jkeeps the world spinning
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:07 PM
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Didnt i just mention in another comment you were similarly flipant in about socialisation?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:03 PM
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> isn't a privilege. And doesn't reall make sense - it does you just don't want to admit or " check " your priviledge > isn't true Ill concede this if for no other reason than to ru your face into the fact that i can admit being wrong or be reasoned with. YOu cant be reasoned with. I am just here making your your statements dont go unchallenge > hypergamy doesn't exist It does > quotas wouldn't exist if women hadn't been so heavily discriminated against Hadnt been being the operative word, roll …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:02 PM
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> Most medical research is done on male bodies, As is most safety testing. Meaning women are more likely to die in accidents and more likely to die if their doctors are male I really want to shut women up on this Medical advances and safety regulations are painted with the blood of menbecause they are the bodies available for dissection? most destitute who die in that situation are men and their bodies get appropriated for science ( we had 6 male bodies and one shriveled old female body ) Most r…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:01 PM
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Soldiers are taught to care about each other, thats what team building is. The only one i see lacking empathy is you. And me ( towards women)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:55 PM
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YOu can be socially ignored and osctrasiced IT how i ended up a loser who hates women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:54 PM
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You are right. men shudl care less about women and focus more on each other, Create and artificial ingroup bias
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:53 PM
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Apathy to your fellow man It was an intentional thing to socialize into men, so that they can act as enforcers for God, King and country
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:24 PM
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"I am the worst thing to live on this world, a being born evil, I hate women because that's the only thing allowed to me - believing this makes it possible for me to live and not want to beat my head against the wall until it stops bleeding" Cant say that despite it being relatable to certain men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:23 PM
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YOu seem t be coming up with more of them t make sure you dont have to make an effort either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:20 PM
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No we are not . the men who suffer the most are the ones with worse economic social positions and mental health. they are more susceptible to bullying and social ostracization and character assassination, which women are not above engaging in Are they not deserving of consideration and protection because they are weak? and lets not forget that the bravery expected of us by your ilk is a magnitude over and above what is expected of you. SO your derision is noted but summarily dismissed for not li…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:20 PM
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Yes we are. the men who suffer the most are the ones with worse economic social positions and mental health. they are more susceptible to bullying and social ostracization and character assassination, which women are not above engaging in Are they not deserving of consideration and protection because they are weak?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:18 PM
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Is it weaponised incompetence that womne dont approach or women dont pay for dates or women don't handle emotions from men? Especially the last one. They know how to support each other and presumably expect it from you too so it has to be weaponised incompetence that they fail so goddamn always at it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:49 PM
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What kind of bad faith question is this? Why do you ascribe cartoon levels of villiany to incels. They really dont deserve your characterization of them
/r/ExRedPill20/02/25 05:35 AM
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Your misogyny is shortsighted. They will just keep re writing the rules until they jerry mander their way into victory. And we will let them because large number of lvm have no power and hvm will benefit in the short term as long as the merrygo round keeps spinning. We failed the day we let women have monopoly on morality and safety
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:02 AM
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Okay.... first of all you need to stop calling yourself a loser. That's not something a seemingly normal person does. But i am.not normal. Normal people as the people on this subremind me are out there loving and fucking while I can only imagine what that feels like. Loser is an apt description. It's more accurate to reality than calling myself a normal person or average person ( many blue pillers have called men who openly admit their late virgin status, not average as in below average. They sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:56 AM
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Cause I am 32 and a virgin. If someone is seen as not good enough to be able to experience what you would consider a basic human experience then won't you call that person a loser? Would you call someone unable to crack a GED a winner?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:42 AM
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I am a loser. I see more and more seemingly normal men counted along side me. I see the effect that has had on me and others. And I see women unwilling to deal with any of that baggage. You already find us irredemable. A world where it become acceptable to make a platonic family more and more men will be thrown aside. More of them will be like me and women will be more unwilling to deal with men who don't kowtow to everything they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:33 AM
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The future is female For the most part it seems that majority of women are with men because of the inconveniences they bear when pursuing a normal life - Ie marriage Kids etc.But what is normal for them changes with the times. There was a time when marriage was the most important thing to them, now it is career. So much so that they would much rather be child free and successful professionally than be dependent on a man for survival even if they have kids.They will age and accept being cat ladie…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:23 AM
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This will happen. It's a matter of when rather than why not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:06 AM
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Well, your first problem is is that you’re thinking you are owed sex for being a good person Womens opinion is worth nothing to me . Yours even less so. ,Like I said. Who gives a shit if women want me? They can go fuck themselves and eat laugh pray their way through life. I have to reject them and their judgement because accepting it would mean that I am worse than the almost rapist. I refuse to accept that. I will not be happy. I will die alone. Hopefully I can find cocaine before then hedonist…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:44 AM
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I don't think that's necessarily n true. Men are raised like mob enforcers in society. To act as a core of thugs. The socialized lack of empathy and propensity for violence is directed towards these things God King/queen Country Family. Even if love and family was no longer a stressor mandating power the others would be made the object and duty that men should aspire to and represent the new thing men should become powerful for
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:40 AM
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You are right. Men should get their act together and develope pro male bias much like the profemale bias women have. That would be the end of feminism really
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:35 AM
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Being a good person thinking feminist thoughts and try hard to genuinely be a good person didn't get me a crumb of pussy or affection over the last 14 years of adult life. How many day if femenistic penance must I observe while I want h abusers rapists and ingnorers of consent be embraced and loved and fucked. In the value system of the world I, someone who has largely been altruistic and has never harmed women is worth less than a guy I know who attempted to rape an acquaintance... He has had m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:27 AM
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Cause it would be kinder to kill him than let him be born Life has not been great for me and I struggle to find a modicum of happiness creating someone doomed to repeat that life experience because they have my pedigree .... It seems needlessly cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:10 AM
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I love how all the men on this sub seem to think they know women better than women themselves. It’s not about compensation; it’s about adding value to her life that she didn’t have being single. Compensation : adding value to her life = tomàto: tomáto This sub never ceases to amaze me at how much men whine about women and blame women for a man’s lack of success in dating. Honestly, if things said by men in this sub is indicative of men as a whole, I think men are gonna continue to be lonely. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:07 AM
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Exactly so what would compensate for that inconvenience? Mo height Mo looks Mo money Height and looks creates the risk of him having better options than you so money is the main lubricant to make unpalatable males suddenly palatable. Essentially you want us to compensate you for the hassle you go through for dating us. ( Which is such a narcissistic Outlook omg!) Just be more honest and publish the rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:50 PM
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Nah it's only nonsense when Lilith of Babylon does it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:07 PM
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Even more unbelievable no? You must be some chomo magnet
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:17 PM
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Why would I rescue a child that no one wanted? Besides you can't really chose the ethnicity and I would much rather not confuse the child in my care
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:16 PM
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And somehow women think they do? Is an equal relationship with someone who you see as better than you truly an equal relationship? The names are made conveniently to use fairness to get your way. And somehow incels and lvm are mistaken when they try to apply fairness to their own lives. Then we are entitled. It's all fugazi bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:14 PM
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You are pretending it is some higher awareness above it all bullshit as if you guys are zen buddists contemplating samsara. You aren't. You are just mapping out the square footage of the house you could afford with one partner vs the next.. If you can afford the house the man can afford... He ain't good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:38 PM
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The problem is that no one really cares about men. Sure we can say no one cares about anyone... But this is uniquely true for men. Hell we don't even care about each other. The left turned us into scapegoats for the patriarchy balmed for shit while didn't do assumed to benefit from it in ways that we don't anymore or dontrealy have access to as lvm. The right pretends to car but only for names sake. They just want enough of us to continue turning the wheel such that society works the way the wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:27 PM
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He is a man who refuses to belive that men has any problems. He is trapped by the belife that men are the greatest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:07 PM
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He did what he did but do you seriously expect me to belive that you managed to find the one guy who confirms all the blue piller belief just like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:55 PM
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If I reply honestly to you right now, I would get banned
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:43 PM
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Maybe it was your personality. Maybe you gave off a sleazy vibe attracting all the sleazy men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:42 PM
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Can we just stop this bullshit virtuous thing that women pull. You are not deep Your gender is not deep. You are just mercenary You hide your mercenary instincts in the guise of safety and morality. You do want relationships. Real relationships. Hell I'll go further and say women want equal relationships. But equal relationships with men who are taller more succesful and over all better than them... Which doens't really make it an equal relationship does it To women and equal relationship with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:40 PM
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Must be. It could be your personality though. Maybe work on that Remember you gotta sociopathically pretend your past of failures didn't happen You need to pretend despite evidence to the contrary that you are worthy of love. If you fail that's your fault too. Welcome to manhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:32 PM
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I can only see the breath taking lack of empathy and wonder ... But then i see the user name and it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:29 PM
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Cause the left won't obviously And the redpill and conservatives are trying to grift to them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:21 PM
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Maybe your soul gave off a crap odour that attracted those guys to you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:18 PM
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Who gives a shit? If they are open to dating you and you can pull that, who in the fuck cares. So what if the guy is stunted? Good for him that he knows that he can only do casual. Good for him that he knows that in terms of life stages hima nd the college girl match. What about the guy with zero relationship and sexual experience who is supposed to go for the woman his own age or older who could run emotional dribbles around him like LeBron James? People here are scared of the power disparity b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:15 PM
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It does for me. I have achieved some measure of success to the point that I can bear the thought of living until 60. When I retire I will look for more expedient ways to leave the world after blowing my retirement on cocaine. Doesn't change the hollow emptiness of 17 years of romantic desolation 15 if which were spent trying to fix myself like a little bitch. again for a crumb of pussy and affection. It's only after I embraced my hatred that I am able to live. It doesn't make the 17 years better…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:08 PM
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I chose to describe you that way to minimise what I have lost and continue to lose. My life My youth My ability to belief in unselfish relationships. And women don't give themselves And I have no doubt that I barely quality for minimal effort from their end no matter how much effort I put in Love is a farce for men like me. As for your diatribe.... I am well aware... Don't make me out to be the ignoramus you think I am. My point was when women needed men the desperation was incel like. Men's cur…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:56 PM
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Yeah. I hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:02 PM
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Ditto gender reverse. What's new?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:29 PM
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Maybe it was? Maybe. Women still felt like they needed men During the Victorian era women needed men (financially) and the way the women talked in those books you would think thatvthey were all incels. ( No one mocked them for it by the way ) And now here we are. Men like me so desperate for a crumb of pussy and affection that if we are born with the curse of self awareness, end up hating ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:29 PM
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I tried. I got scamed of my money I can't go to the police because it is illegal here. All my friends are normal so I can't ask them for any trusted professionals they can go to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:20 PM
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This is hubris talking but if I manage to succeed in being into q relationship ( the hubris in imagining someone would want me), I would try to ask my partner to abort any male babies. Or maybe go for ivf but only girls. I think it would be cruel to bring a boy into this world to suffer from my genetic pitfalls of height, intelligence, obesity and anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:11 PM
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I didn't want to say the wrong thing or bite her head off while responding
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:53 PM
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We don't owe women anything either though. We don't owe each other anything either
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:48 PM
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Well I would never know would I seeing as I have never had sex Ever think that you might be doing the " those grapes must be sour" thing that is treated as a vice by aesops fables?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:47 PM
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I was making the comparison. Ie when you go to the zoo to gawk at the gorilla and the chimpanzee and revel at your own supremacy as homosapiens you see our nakedness and backward socialization as proof of the fact that we deserve our cage and that you deserve your. Freedom and the trapings of civilization like cooked food and clothes and shoes Women on ppd do much the same. They look at lvm in various states of despair and post about their lovers and boyfriends and husbands and children safe in …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:45 PM
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I have already ruminated on it enough. I have a job which makes it worth living for a bit so I have postponed my plans until 60yrs. 28 years should be enough time to figure out wether or not my life is worth living, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:38 PM
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Could you explain your situation a little more. Totally cool if you don't though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:36 PM
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I never claimed I was stoic or a decent man. Infact my post lays out that I am infact a failed man. So it's natural that I fail the bluepill and redpill standard for manhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:38 PM
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I think Sisyphus is stupid. I think he should just let the rock roll over him and crush him because wtf is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:36 PM
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You know what I am saying makes sense. I am different, and not because I think I am but because I am. The gulf I see between me and normal blessed reditards like you is not imaginary. It is very real and there is no easy solution to make me normal if that is even possible
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:02 PM
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God speed then to both of us
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:01 PM
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Oh wow! Emotional resilience! This being said by women who get palpitations over misogyny online and need "safe spaces" to the point that you made it our collective problem. Do you hear yourselves?? You actively contribute to the discourse which results in very natural conclusions about height, dick and desireability and suddenly when men ( even if they are worthless) defelope nuerosis over it... We just need to get over it? Wt actual F!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:58 PM
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I assume I am too fat and too poor and too boring
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:46 PM
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I am not though. Sure I look like one eat breath shit and bleed like one. But everyday I grow older being more farther away than may peers. Each timei talk to them I fail the interpersonal turing test of what a "normal human" is because I lack more and more of common human experiences I can't watch love stories, listento love songs, school romances, sex scenes l, normal porn, because I no longer relate to any of them. I can't talk to people unless I am talking about work or stories or manga beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:45 PM
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Why would I do something that would make my familys life difficult? Besides this is how your self talk changes when everyone tells you that you are wrong Your internal voices mimic what you hear. Why would you treat incels and lvm this wayif you didn't want them to internalise it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:41 PM
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Genuinely happy for you. You ar living your best life as far as I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:40 PM
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Thats quite likely to be true. But the blue pillers and redpillers on here say that sex is easy and that we are overthinking it. So either we are right and it is insanely difficult and there is no shame in us existing as virgins or it is so damn easy that we should be ashamed.... So which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:39 PM
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My internal voices are the voices I hear directed at me. I used to be kind to myself but that stalled my growth or made me complacent with my failure until what right now feels too late. My internal voices has begun to echo the advice and the vitriol directed to unsuccessful and lvmen. The advice of hyperagency ultimate responsibility and blame. My current mindset is the result of that. I don't think I am being too harsh at all I think it is an accurate self assessment Tell any other sexhaver my…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:35 PM
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Nihilism pill. Love it. Personally I resigned myself to the same but I delayed it until 60 or a cancer diagnosis (whichever comes first)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:30 PM
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Sorry for being this pessimistic. It's just that I know this has affected me badly. I have grown into one of those adults with maladaptive behaviour. You know, the ones who grow up poor and insist on buying things in bulk, never buy themselves gifts or spend money too quickly because they think it will disappear? Except it would concern sexual behaviour and that would make relationships more difficult for me. Especially since all of this is gonna be hard for me to begin with. I hate it. But it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:29 PM
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Is that what you did? Did it help?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:23 PM
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Take care not to end up like me then. The frustration can become poison real quick if you keep hearing shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:04 PM
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So what am I supposed to feel at being this thing that pretends to be human? Tell me. What feeling is allowed to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:02 PM
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I am sure you have engaged in that advice too. " If you fail to get anything then it is your fault" and "you need to self improve" How is my conclusion from that line of thinking erroneous?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:58 AM
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No. Masochistic epistemology. It hurts therefore it must be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:56 AM
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I prefer to live in painful reality. I am a loser. I have to accept it. Blue pill taught me to think this way. If I fail to succeed in relationship then there is something wrong with me. I need to self improve and self improve ve and self improve If despite all that internal work I remain a failure then I must be an irredemable loser. What other explanation is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:55 AM
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Simple. The "cosmic treadmill of self improvement". Didn't find a girl friend ? Then work on your self. Implication? You are not good enough. So what does it mean when you never find one. If everyone you ask turns you down? What does it mean if a abuser you know first hand is more beloved than you? When does the self improvement end? Am I worth less than the abuser, despite the endless worry and trying to be a better person? Am I worse than him? If so , why the fuck should I even bother trying? …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:53 AM
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If this is all you had to say then you may as well have not posted at all. Why waste your breath on a loser? Go take your bf/gf out on a date and then fuck them At least one of us is happy sexhaver
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:46 AM
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The Resentment I feel is at my self for never once being good enough. I don't care if that bothers you That feeling will not let go of me. No.. I will not let go of it. After everything I have had to do to just keep carrying on, after all the bullshit I was fed on worth... I won't forget what it feels like to be a loser even if I succeed. Sorry for being such an inkwell
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:43 AM
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You don't know what you don't know I guess. Sucks that your name is so off point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:15 AM
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Her is advice from a loser The only person you can trust is you. The only one who you should love is you. The only one who will help you is you. Everybody else? They are largely not dependable and sometimes malicious. Rarely to the point of never benevolent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:10 AM
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Yay, someone new to come along and prod at the animals in the zoo flaunting their superiority intellegence and sucess. Wow maam, you have great clothes and shoes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:07 AM
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Ofcourse it doesn't make sense. To you. You haven't grown up with the knowledge that your income might used to support more than one person indefinitely. Not have you grown up with the knowledge that what you do and what you earn is more valuable than who you are as a person despite all mesaging to the contrary. Ofcourse I have failed despite that knowledge but I was accutely aware of it from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:04 AM
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Lvm are lacking in reallife experience and disgust everyone due to isolation. Wha did you expect? Well adjusted men We are the chaft after the grain is sorted
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:49 AM
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The whole - make your life decisions around her choice;etc. Don't prioritise earning over learning if you are more interested in the learning but. The quality of life you want to have with her is both of your responsibility and not only yours Infact imo all the husband duties need to be scraped. No breadwinner bullshit Equal partner all the way and if women can't deal with that then they never wanted to be equal partners anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:36 AM
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I think men should shit test women. Display negative emotions overtly and see how she reacts. Don't act, but don't sugrcoat your feelings either. If she leaves she leaves. Do not emotional labour fr the women you are with. No husband duties for girlfriends (in this case no emotional repression either)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:08 AM
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Honestly I don't think what I want matters. It really doesn't. Unless I gain some kind of power no one will listen to what I am saying. This post will not make women reconsider what they say, the message they give out or the way they think of undesireable men What I want is to under rstand the seeming hypocrisy of liberal women. To understand the smoke screen in the messaging, and to be able to divest as much of my empathy as I can from them I truly believe that men can learn a lot from the wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:01 AM
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Sure but when women were screaming at white men about their privilege the white men could really get a word in edgewise because that would have been punching down They needed to listen and make space for their angst because the world was built for white men. Lvm claim much the same thing dont they? Like I said these dumfucks barely have any coping mechanisms and have nuerosis reinforced by a society you uphold and which benefits you. Why wouldn't they be more than a. Little crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:53 AM
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It's the only thing ay to make them see the bullfuckery of judging men by their worst minority
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:12 PM
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Most of the dv happens from the men you chose not the incels. I can confidently state that I have t hurt a single woman despite my developed dislike of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:48 AM
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Sins of the Father huh. I though women found the concept of orignal sun to be repugnant. I guess hypocrisy knows no bounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:46 AM
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Yes. They are the all singing all dancing crap of this world. They are not special snowflakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:36 AM
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Nah. That's not true. Pussy pass denied is a fun sub and its detractors don't make it less popular
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:35 AM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:34 AM
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Here is the thing We should judge the entire gender based onthe actions of a minority Have a father never leave the baby alone with the mother for too long. Play with the baby frequently while checking for tender spots and bruises.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:34 AM
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Not all hypergamy enjoyers are monkey branchers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:30 AM
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I don't see a problem with a man getting a financial abortion within the 1st trimester possibly. After that the personhood of the child depends on wether or not the mama wants it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:06 AM
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Sometimes we just wanna watch the world burn. Sure it's bad for others but look at the pretty colours
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:57 AM
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It's a dogwistle isn't it. It implies certain things about that women if she calls herself that. Just like you can make some assumptions about a guy who calls himself alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:56 AM
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You are really trying to piss us off huh sexhaver
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:53 AM
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I was convinced I am a bad person. So I am a bad person now. Changes nothing. I was single as fuck before and I am single as fuck now. But hey I get to indulge in some mean spirited fun while waiting for life to pass me by
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:52 AM
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Why bro? What we do to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:51 AM
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Skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:49 AM
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Unironically yes. If women claim something is the bare minimum then it implies that those who fail that standard should get nothing. When that is demonstrably false it feels like as a gender you are fucking with us I napalmed my personality for this reason cause honestly the world doesn't deserve a good version of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:49 AM
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Wrong. I would love to be a normal guy, but that is definitionaly impossible now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:45 AM
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That's what a well written profile is and it has no effect on your results if your photos remain the same
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:44 AM
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You are not someone who can yank out an interesting conversation out of anyone. Any "male" who chose to be with you had to be a gender traitor to deal with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:42 AM
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One of the few times I will agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:39 AM
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What are you somekind of a ln ultra nationalist harpy? It's not that serious lady? Are you a houthi? Do you have a blood fued against USA? Is that why you are so upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:35 AM
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Male hyperagency. It takes a village to raise a kid unless it's a dude, in which case throw him out. If he does he was not worth it anyway. Unfalsifyable paradigm I hate bluepillers so much
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:32 AM
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Well they certainly try? They encourage and hype you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:29 AM
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Usa ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:27 AM
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That's no true. You are just the donor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:24 AM
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Therefore it is no longer just a medical procedure. It is a cultural point of contention too. Sorry. You were just born in a fuck all country. Less fuckall than most others but uniquely fuckall in some ways
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:23 AM
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Laws and culture reverberate back and forth. A culture which still seems to debate over the sanctity of life and the consideration of an embryo and fetus as human beings is naturally gonna fight over wether or not it is acceptable to destroy them. Governments also reflect that conflict in the laws they pass The same thing aplies to euthanasia despite all the arguments for it. Sure culture might be steeped in misogyny but the proponents of the culture make half of the country and half of them are…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:10 AM
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Governments put limits on things all the time The German govt is acting against a citizen who tried crisper gene editing on himself. I personally want to kms @t 60 and the govt doens't allow that in most places.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:04 AM
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Wife beating and lack of credit cards and bankaccounts was the normal for a long time..... What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:02 AM
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It's not a child though is it. It's just a clump of cells at that point. Women don't see itnas a person and they don't want the law to see it as such either. So what's wrong with the sperm donor doing the same
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:00 AM
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Sonyiu understand why that's not good logic! Great! Keep going ! I belive in you!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:38 PM
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Te situation that happened with me was not like that. A majority of the situations the men talked about on the threads were not like that Women still could not handle them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:19 PM
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Most of us ( until the recent past where - validate their emotions was the theme of the day ) don't see it as a controversial statement to say that women need to be wary of men, or that men are the shallower, more crude, more unempathetic sex. We just accept it as if you were saying the earth goes around the sun. Now we have begun to push Back because I think there is an undercurrent of " validating their emotions was a mistake" especially since no one validates ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:17 PM
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It's a cope when I have to face the cold darkness on my bed. It's a legitimate belife when I go through life. I see a kid passing by me inwant to smack his head for not seeing where he is going. I notice the students in class making eyes at each other or notice them getting close, I either seperate them, cockblock them by sending one person away or outright embarass them by exposing the crush . It's petty. But fuck it, it's fun to be the anti cupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:14 PM
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But that's an unfalsifyable belief no? If anyone doesn't like what you say then they are sexist because you aren't being misandrist, yiubare simply criticizing the male gender. By the way criticizing gender is ... Problematic. Do what I do .. say something like " your ilk" .. there is a lot more venom expressed in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:10 PM
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If many men are telling you that then maybe you should self reflect on why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:01 PM
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You called it pathetic bait. My standards of behaviour and troll quality are shit by virtue of me being shit. I think I followed the topic ok enough for a lvm
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:47 PM
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I am a 31 year old Virgin, you really can't hold me to any standard of behaviour. of course I am pathetic..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:45 PM
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About what. You could have just mentioned the lie instead of wasting one more reddit thread line
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:41 PM
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Lied?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:40 PM
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Cause most of us got tired of the never ending self flagelation we were expected to keep up. When you compare us to a literal dangerous animal.. well we are not talking about reality anymore. So at that point you have to fight back. For example i am a 31 year old Virgin. Inhave never done anything to harm a woman despite the vitriol of my misogyny. So whenever any one of you bring up shit men have done I can flip the bird and say " not me " and laugh. Cause I am tired of being lumped in with men…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:38 PM
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Nah. It was the right one. Just ignore it if you don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:31 PM
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Oh so edgy. Like mark rufalo going " you won't like me when I amangry"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:30 PM
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At this point yes. That is what I belive about myself. It's the onlyway I can not feel depressed about being a late virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:29 PM
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No. I refuse to do that. We are told that we are invalidating womens lived experiences when we say not all men, and dismiss the fear they feel in their experiences. Yet women never validate collective men's experience of not feeling supported when opening up blaming it on the men or claiming that they were different. It's fucking weird to watch in real-time and I can't believe that you have never noticed it. When enough women talk about sexual harrasment we were expected to accepted that it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:27 PM
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Slay queen. Women always win. Forever and always. How amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:21 PM
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Misogyny when it happens is visible and pretty fucked up. ( Need to level up my game ) Misandry is everpresent and low level and feels like a normal assumption that even men seem to accept unequivocally ( which is stupid, this sort of stuff needs to be pushed back on all the time )
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:19 PM
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Not true. Until recently most men just accepted that they were more shallow and more vulgar when it came to sexuality and attraction. When women said they were scared of us most of us did go " yeah we are bigger and stronger ofcourse you would be worried." It's only after I became a misogynist that I have started to push back on everything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:16 PM
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This is probably what a homeless starving beggar feels like with his face pressed up against the windows of a Mcdonalds
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:11 PM
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I thought I was waiting for socioreligious reasons but when I finally broke and tried I realised how much of a loser I was. So what does that mean. Was I not a lvm before I wanted to have sex? Was I a better man when I ignored and pushed down my sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:09 PM
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There are women who assault and abuse men as well. 1/3 of rapes are said to be female on male... Yet women don't stop using "not all men but always a man" Do you guys even clock it when a lesbian perves on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:05 PM
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But we can't. Cause we are bad misoginistic evil men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:03 PM
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That women can't deal with men displaying negative emotions (depression and sadness) ( not all women but enough to make it a cultural throughline among men )
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:02 PM
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I was mocking everything about that cringe ass line. Don't worry. I'll bust that out the next time someone brings up infanticide and child abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:00 PM
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Maybe like women can sense misogyny in me they can sense good vibes in you. Just like the unfalsifyable badness they assume in me let me just assume a unfalsifyable goodness in you. There. Now it is possible for you to never experience what OP experienced in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:56 PM
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Purple pill is an anomaly. Hurt men gather here to regurgitate bile.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:54 PM
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Eg a significant chunk of women do not know how to be there for a vulnerable male SO. Many react poorly. A situation made more galling by the pervasive message of "please open up to us" Response ? That can't be true. I have never done that. I know my friends would never do that. You must have done it badly You can't vomit emotions over your woman She is not your therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:52 PM
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You said something like "women make everyone wait to start eating until they are able to take the perfect pic" Which is an oddly specific thing to generalize to ALL WOMEN, in fact I had never happen to me, and I go out with a lot of female friends. Maybe should've said "some women"? idk Not all women but always a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:49 PM
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You aren't d along well with it either. Is a possible positive turn achievable alone? Unless ofcourse we decide to take up asceticism, in which case we have more to worry about like religious brainwashing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:47 PM
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I am not stupid enough to out myself. The people around me have made it clear what they think of virgins at my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:42 PM
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Back when I was a teenager I was hoping to have sex at some point I wanted to make sure that even if I had sex and I ended up having a second girlfriend who was a virgin, to take it at her pace, nev r force her and do my best to make it a positive experience for her. So that she will never associate bad things with her sexuality on my account I considered that level of consideration the bare minimum. Ofcourse time and my horifyingly pathetic lack of sexual success shows the arogance of that thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:41 PM
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I used to consider myself a good person. But I used to get upset when people got hostile at my lamentations or requests for advise. I got even more upset when I expressed discontent at the "cosmic treadmill of self improvement" and was met with derision. I was having high stress high BP insomnia as I reached closer to my 31st birthday as an incels because I kept ruminating on "you must be a shitty person, it must be your personality, it must be the misogyny" I thought I wasn't that but I had to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:31 PM
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It's the n word. Lvm can call each other that with no animosity but others calling them that is never benign
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:21 PM
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Just say that women cantbdeal with awkwardness and are in general lazy by virtue of being women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:34 PM
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It affected me to the point that I divested myself of the responsibility and effort of being a good person. After all at 31 years old I would have licked into at least one relationship if I was a good person. Ergo I must be a bad person. As a bad person I can do what ever the fuck I want. Truly freeing as a line of thought
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:30 PM
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They say people fear what they don't understand. In my experience they also mock it. Frequently an older male Virgin is a loser. Financially and socially bottom tier. People have very little qualms about disrespecting someone beneath them. I have a theory It never squared with me that people (the women especially) seem to truly believe in the inate goodness of women while my experiences were not so great. I think I must be a loser. Visibly so So all these good women treat me as scribble or graff…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:10 PM
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But that's not the wiggle room I am giving you. She is doing anal. She feels traumatized while doing it (idk maybe she is flashing back to child sexual assault). She does it because she fears that the guy she is with will leave her other wise. Is that abusive? I refuse to tell you what the guys head space is. In the previous example I told you that the female dom is aware that her sub doesn't derive any pleasure from pain. It seems abusive to me. What about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:30 PM
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If women were scared that men would kill them, they would pick shorter weaker pasty men. The abject fear of death would make me change how I engage with the oposite sex. That doens't happen. Therefore your fear is mostly bullshit and situational. Worse you disguise your disgust for lvm as fear too so that you can engage in vitriol against them. I refused to take womens concerns seriously because they don't behave like they do either. Even if all of you end up refusing to fuck men, if the tallest…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:27 PM
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They are trapped in the matriarchy and suffer from internalised misandry and don't realise how bad the shit they cosign is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:19 PM
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So a woman doesn't like anal and experiences trauma and dissociation while doing it with a man she loves but keeps doing it because she knows he would leave her otherwise, she is not being abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:14 PM
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The point is that ih he was successful like that he has other options. If he was successful like that and still with her, that implies a choice As it stands right now, he is her sex object. A position women frequently call abusive due to the inherent power imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:12 PM
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And whites being considered a privileged group doens't erase the existence of hilly billies or trailer trash.... What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:09 PM
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He is young and fit, handsome enough, probably has enough stamina to fuck like a horse - ergo arm candy / human dildo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:07 PM
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Then You dont get to dismiss how men feel about women talking about the whole gender on social media. Not unless you are a fucking hypocrite, in which case hey, more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:04 PM
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Jealousy is not the function by which we measure abuse troll
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:03 PM
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I am saving your comment. You don't ever get to talk about trp and podcasts or adlndrewtate as if it is worth any kind of consideration from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:02 PM
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Oh I didn't realise generalities meant "all women everywhere are similarly advantaged" Just like all white men everywhere are living in family homes. And all black Americans everywhere live in urban slums
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:01 PM
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Why is it your first instinct to blame inexperienced loser men? What makes you think it necessary to assign hyperagency to men like these?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:59 PM
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Because people are desperate sometimes and you fall in love with someone while chatting and the other person is scum enough to take advantage of you. Do you blame the old boomers who get scamed out of their life savings? Not really. Excuses are made because they aren't tech savy. Men like me, and the 21 year old Virgin were not relationship savy until we got burner by experience or by redpill. But you won't understand because you have e loved and been in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:57 PM
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Just a question. Suppose a male submissive gets in on being dominated but doesn't like pain, but accept getting hit and physically abused so that a dominant woman stays with him, and the woman knows this and continues to physically hurt him.... That man is not being abused? Since he is clearly getting "something" in that relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:54 PM
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His point was that online things and opinions do matter? You talked about the lack of real persons on tik tok so he countered with instagram. He is being consistent and refuting your dismissal. Why are you treating it like a win
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:51 PM
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That is still an online phenomenon and nothing to be worried about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:47 PM
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But they don't though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:38 PM
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I prefer suffering in honesty than to live in cope. Epistemological masochism - this hurts me therefore it must be true. Or the truth hurts. Me suddenly curing myself of the desir for love will not make me more attractive or desirable. It will only make it easier to live. The lack of the diversity of experience of human emotion remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:22 PM
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Maybe the women in question are not as good or decent people as they think they are. If the physical is satisfied then only personal emotional and spiritual incompatibility remains and I have to let all of you know, the mindset of some of the successfully married or in relationship women on here would have made them "AAA" grade incels
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:14 PM
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Reminder to all blue pill folk that you had no leg to stand on when complaining about andrew tate, whatever podcast and fresh and fit. Clearly they affect nothing as they are an online phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:12 PM
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Doesn't functionally change anything though. Suppose the ball developes sentience and decides to stop wanting to be played with, it is only gonna be picked up when the person wants to pick it up. What the ball wanted doesn't matter. The only thing that changes is that the ball stops wanting to be picked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:07 PM
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They don't get as much push back for being emotional. Try it. Try calling a woman who cries over every little thing manipulative, the people around you will look at you like you are scum
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:02 PM
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We are better at compartmentalising. Our response to discomfort is to not be in that situation any more. But what happens when there is nothing you can do with your situation but just ride it out? It goes bad real quick. Women have an easier time returning to normal over time compared to men. We have something to learn from them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:01 PM
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This is not true though. Someone being shot is not simply a subjective thing. It could have been your mate your family and now your sadness is channeled into rage to defend the remaining or to fight and desire the enemy. You aren't making a calculated decision there. The response of courage and the desire for retribution are emotional reactions. Laws are made to counter that instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:58 PM
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3 is absolutely something to consider. Call it taking the budha pill if you want - everything other than self is maya wanting which is moha/ desire - which is the source of all pain. To expect is to grieve That's the advise blue pillers give lvm. Stop wanting and the pain will stop too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:47 PM
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We should atleast use it as a gauge for bad faith. Most people saying "male" or "female" as anything other than an adjective are not here in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:34 AM
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He mentioned in the post that they are his friends..... It's what people do. Talk to their friends about their relationships. Atleast normaly. Not does he imply that he only vented to them just that as a group they gave him similar responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:08 AM
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When you are used to everyone kissing your ass a rude response seems like a slap across the face
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:03 AM
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The misandry is just oozing out of your words. Hope you can get less mad about all this Thoughts and prayers xoxo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:00 AM
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That's a clear example of power imbalance. If wienstein going after the actresses was wrong then this is just as bad. She could easily fire him and blackball him from working ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:58 AM
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The mods should try to regulate the use of "female" and "male" in posts cause it's just freaking weird to see someone use it in place of women and men. Like this has to be sexist or atleast indicative of sexist mindsets right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:56 AM
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Maybe it's just your vibe? Maybe you are just a bad person in general and that comes off from your words and syntax?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:53 AM
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It's not my job to educate you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:52 AM
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I don't disagree. But that's what being human is. We grow and experience pain, happiness, satiety, puberty etc. to go through life with no emotional experience and to have your decision completely unaffected bythem is definitionaly inhuman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:50 AM
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Famous men. Who already have supporters, who are already entrenched. What about no name mooks like the various school shooters and stalkers. Most people do not defend them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:48 AM
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So do guys. All the most "logical" guys I know (including me );argue from a place of emotion. We try to find facts and arguments that fit how we feel I will say this though men tend to be more fair than otherwise because of socialization. That will change though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:13 AM
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Younare experiencing push back from men because you are a misandrist. And the men on here are tierd of being held responsible from r everything. Naturally they will dog pile on you. In the wider world men in general still don't interpret womens actions with the worst possible interpretation. That is changing though. I hope we can see male ingroup bias rivaling the WAW effect in my lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:10 AM
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Maybe considering ourselves responsible for everything is more harmful than good for men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:07 AM
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Yeah I do. The gays have male sexuality directed at each other leading to a relatively promiscuous lifestyle and a certain degree the f acceptance for behaviours that are not typical of heterosexual relationships. It's is telling that women in heterosexual relationships express and want for someone who understands them better and maybe that's more likely if your partner is a woman. The general discussion about f heterosexual relationships holds the men responsible for the relationship not being …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:04 AM
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Well that's a new take
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:00 AM
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I don't see it as male solidarity so much as " let's burn shit down"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:59 AM
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This is unequivocally false. The "men being judged of anything" are nearly always celebrities or public figures with already established fans and supporters. You will never see large groups of men going out of their way to make excuses for some random Joe Shmoe that committed a crime. Women on the other hand, well: https://np.reddit.com/r/AllThatIsInteresting/comments/1i4er25/florida_student_killed_newborn_she_gave_birth_to/ https://np.reddit.com/r/MorbidReality/comments/1g8y4lu/police_college_s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:58 AM
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It means they will interpret a man's role in an interaction with q positive light rather than the worst possible interpretation. It means that they would be moved kindness and compassion rather than a darwinian "sink or swim" or "you deserve your help" attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:57 AM
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How many? Where? Where do you exist on the internet where this is common place?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:54 AM
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I think it is an effective way to hold the mirror upto non falsifyable rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:52 AM
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