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| 6 | High N count vs low N count | Discussion | No-Improvement-8205 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:29 AM |
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| 1 | Do Modern men lack personal responsibility?Many times it could also just be attributed to a translation error. I've used female instead of woman a good chunk of times over the years, simply because I confuse my own brain, and often just goes with the first word I can think of that conveys the meaning of what I'm writing So the cutural context behind many words will get lost, simply because I'm already used to loosing most of the cultural context behind what I want to communicate in the first place But I do like ur point of some of it bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 09:48 AM |
| 15 | Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them?Reddit in general have a big problem with so called "powermods" (mods that moderates many of the most popular subreddits) And since very few people would want to moderate reddit all day for free, its usually People who have their own reasons (if you like having "power" over other People but have absolutely no skills, and/or arent charismatic this is an easy way to get that "need" met) If u want more info on the subject, there's a good chunk of vids on youtube about it (not that they're all 100% … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Why is there a shame in expressing your masculinity?I got one advice for u my friend, stop giving any fucks about other People's opinions on u or ur person, more often than not People doesnt really give a fuck about u aslong as u dont fuck with them and their personal space Get that beard style u want (you'll probably look and feel more confident anyway) Do thoose dark humor jokes around women, if ur timing/delivery and ur ability to read the room/crowd is somewhat decent u shouldnt get in any real problems (also ur confidence in the joke is quit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?Hey it happens to pretty much everyone, no shame in that And yeah I def agree with u on that, it is however also a great sub in some regards, more so in the regards that it allows some more fringe opinions to not get deleted straight away or downvoted into oblivion, it is still an echochamber to a certain degree, but the topics that gets bought up are sometimes really good, and makes one self question the way you've percieved the world so far (which is super healthy, and something humans in gene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?Yeah, I wrote this comment because I'm waaay too well versed in joining discussions in this group (most People tend to feel like you're attacking them, rather than trying to have a civil discussion) Btw u do realise I aint the same Guy as u intially talked with, right? (Because sometimes I dont realise it when it happens) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?But where could he send those men for support? The idea that men = strong would discourage men in bad situations from even seeking help, and when they did the system was quite unsympathetic. Police did not take it seriously and there weren’t options available for help And personally I believe this right here is a big part of why men dont want to talk about their feelings and hardships on a larger scale, we do however do it, even in heavily masculine groups we also do it, its just in a different … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?Also a little sidenote to my other comment: I am not blaming u for anything, or saying anything directed at u, I have no idea who u are, what your values are, or how u percieve life, so its more so just in general from my own lived experiences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?But I’m afraid I don’t know where to go from there. We can and should tell men they can be soft if they want to be and we can and should tell women that they shouldn’t shame or pressure men to fulfil gender roles. A start could be to allocate funding to crisis homes for men (most of the few there exist today is living off from donations, and does not get much in terms of government funding if any. Its to my knowledge very common trough most western socities) More money to help and relocate veter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | More men are bisexual /sexual fluid than we admitFemale bisexuality is pretty much universally accepted, but more so as a fetish than being accepted as an actual sexuality (you're kinda expected to "pick a gender" to be attracted to at some point in your life as bi, both male and female) Male bisexuality have a very long history of being demonized (the start of the "aids scare" came from newspapers "warning" straight women about dating bi men because they'll give them aids if memory serves me right) Another reason to why female bisexuality is … | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/06/23 11:26 AM |
| 5 | 'Passport sisters'If u dont mind being used for a green card marriage, then pretty much just any country that have high levels of poverty outside of the EU | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/05/23 11:11 AM |
| 8 | The terms 'low value' and 'high value'The problem with TRP is that it was made, or atleast became a counter reaction to feminism more specificly the part of feminism that demonizes all men, and shout garbage like "kill all men" "all men are rapists" etc. So theres also a element of radicalization within TRP just like there is in some parts of feminism (and anything Else that can be classified as a movement) If you're dipping your toes into redpill content, my advice to u is to do it sparingly. It seems like u have a girlfriend and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 12:04 PM |
| 3 | What **exactly** is a blackpillHandsome People will still get more job offers than thoose who arent and in some cases you might see it be reversed. Like if u have supermodel looks, but what u want with ur life is doing construction work, u might have a harder time getting a job in said industry, but still I wouldnt say its as bad as being an unattractive person in other industries | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/04/23 12:35 PM |
| 29 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.While I agree with you on that one, he'll probably be under the same scrutiny as the manosphere from the femminists, Aurelius wasnt exactly pro womens rights (due to the time period he lived in) and stoism is one of thoose so called "toxic masculinity" traits altough I agree real stoism (not just ignoring ones feelins) is probably the best way to live your life as a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 08:59 AM |
| 5 | What do you think of men wearing shoe lifts to appear taller?How about getting breast implants? Would that be the same then? U cant always see the difference between real and fake tits before u touch 'em | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 06:03 AM |
| 4 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownI'm not triggered at all, moreso tired of "debating" with u, since u dont debate at all. As I wrote before. Have a lovely day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 02:31 PM |
| 7 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownWith that logic we shouldnt do anything to improve western society because, somewhere Else in the world, under a different government someone Else is living under horrendous and unfair conditions. So I think I understand u now, u dont know how to debate in good Faith, and whataboutism is your sole debating tool, so have a lovely Day, and perhaps u should reconsider if a debate forum is the right place for you when you dont have an open mind, and dont want to have a real and open debate about equ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:55 PM |
| 6 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownGotcha, whataboutism at its finest is the only debate tool you know how to use, and you dont know how to argue in good Faith, so have a Lovely Day and maybe u should try and reconsider if being in a debate forum is really a thing for you or not, especially since u dont Come here with an open mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:47 PM |
| 10 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownNice whataboutism, u got there. But I'm gonna run with it. So what you're saying is because women around the world are having suboptimal living conditions, its okay to discriminate men in western countries? Its not like its gonna take any resources away from Afghani women Also the only one talking about who's "won" and who "lost" is you, I dont even count the score, I just saw a comment on a debate sub that didnt seem to reflect reality very much, and then went in to have you know .. a debate, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 12:57 PM |
| 6 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownAlso I don’t get your tipping the scales towards woman, men haven’t had any rights, education or work taken off them, women have only been allowed to enter at the same level, things are just starting to get even now, it’s the beginning of the end for the Neanderthals I dont completely agree with what you wrote here, women do have some advantages in education, theres quite a substansial amount of grants/scholarships that's exclusively for women, and even thoose who are gender neutral about who ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 12:16 PM |
| 0 | CMV: men have an accountability problem with all this talk about how they "date down."Seems like a good way to vet out shitheads tho. If he feels emasculated/threatened/throws insults at you/whatever shit some men say/feel when a woman is asking them out he just aint the right man for u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 11:45 AM |
| 18 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsThe "science" that this whole "single women are happier than single men" is based on a questionaire with selfreported answears, like "do u feel satisfied with your current life" and questions in that Ball park, and I believe the end result is just 6% difference. The talking point have just been repeated so often that its become the "truth" for every single woman, that she is happier than any single man. So basicly some kind of copion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Men dont care about body count if the woman is prettyBtw. Feel free to not answear my last comment, I'm not looking for a debate per se, just bored at work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Men dont care about body count if the woman is prettyYou're probably right, sometimes I just tend to overthink and analyse stuff, often because I find it fun, and sometimes I just do it without any rime or reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Men dont care about body count if the woman is prettyI can understand that to some degree, but they cant really be used as an example for how the rest of us experience dating, relationships etc. Famous People pretty much always have some kind of spotlight on them, which stresses the relationship quite alot, also famous People Arent exactly known for being mentally stable, most of them have been fucked up by their industry and the fame or by their family. To become famous Comes with alot of costs on the personal level afterall, be it predatory dire… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Men dont care about body count if the woman is prettyBut some men are indeed prone to jealousy and DO care about body count. Loads of men will see it as if she may be useful for sex, but not a true relationship. Some men straight up leave their gf once body count is revealed. So I'd say they do care lol. Its honestly just a human thing, both men and women do it. I've tried to both be fetishized and have women feel disgusted at me after we've had a talk about N counts(always them who initiated the conversation tho) Also abit Odd that OP is highligh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 05:18 PM |
| 7 | What do you think about foreveralonewomen community on reddit?I do believe that they dont get the attention from the men that they want the attention from, but also the fact that the guys they're "supposed" to get attention for (guys that are on the same level of attractiveness as them) is too beat down to even try to make a move Also the fact that some of thoose guys have unrealistic standards for who they're actually able to get in a relationship with, just like the women(And social media def have some kind of accountability for theese unhealthy views on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 10:41 AM |
| 2 | Inceltear/Bluepillers using Tate as proof of their ideology is the most bizarre trend on the internet currentlyThe same goes for heterosexual men being offended because someone told them to be fucked in the ass, as it affects their own self-image because they don't want to be considered homosexual as it would mean he has become a passive guy that woman would reject. The funny thing is if u just play along with it by answearing something like "oh yes, Mommy me very much would like that" they usually get flabbergasted and dont know what to say or do same thing happen when very hetrosexual men say something… | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/01/23 03:38 PM |
| 1 | What are signs that a woman does not get men?Oh lol, I misunderstood the question(didnt click the link to the original post) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 11:41 AM |
| 1 | What are signs that a woman does not get men?Keeps talking about toxic masculinity and how Boy's locker room talk are toxic af and unhealthy all the while she's sitting at a random café and talks in depth with her friends about the last person they had sex with Cant and wont understand how poor men are at the bottom of society, pretty much anywhere in the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 11:28 AM |
| 5 | if you're not entitled to sex then you're not entitled to abortionWhat do u Mean? Purge week/month/whatever duration there is on the purge, is the best time to be on this subreddit, grab your popcorns, and just sit back and be entertained with the pure madness there usually ensues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Did Red Pillers Became Richer Or Started Getting More Laid After Being Red Pill?What most consumers of trp(and the creators) forget, is that the red pill isnt a "final" be all end all life philosophy, you're supposed to consume the media for a year or two and let the "red pill rage" Come out of your system. And then start doing the healthy things that trp preaches(or do it while raging, but maybe stay away from trying to actively pick up women while the rage phase is going on) Not keep consuming the rage baity content there is alot of within trp content creator spaces | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Every nudist colony I’ve seen on tv has mostly old naked dudes. Are nudist colonies really a scam for men to pray upon women? What are your views on family nudist?From my knowledge about the nudist culture I'd agree with yoy, which isnt a great ton of first hand knowledge, but I'm danish and we have always had a open mind about nudism, and in general our bodies(heck our national tv station have even made a show where 4 adults Comes naked into a studio filled with Kids in the age of 11-13 which they can then ask the naked adults whatever question they feel like asking) Women sunbathing naked was extremely normal during my childhood, and is still pretty nor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 08:43 AM |
| 2 | Those of you who participate(d) in “hookup culture,” do you think it has benefited you or harmed you overall?I wouldnt say it, harmed me. I was already kinda broken by the time I hit 16 from years of bullying anyway, so when I started getting some attention from women it kinda made me hyperfocused on sex, and validation. I have however met alot of wonderful women where I kinda fucked it up by "choosing to focus on someone else"(occasionaly I had 2-3 girls I was "dating" at the same time) Also had problem with comitting to real relationships, I always kinda prefered FwB over relationships, since I felt … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Why is it okay for women to question guys who are "players", but not for men to questions women who are promiscuous?Yeah I dont disagree with u on that one. I honestly just found this subreddit when I went trough my "rage phase" and just stayed subscribed afterwards because sometimes this sub is hella entertaining, also for purge weeks. That shit is super hella entertaining | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 07:26 AM |
| 9 | Why is it okay for women to question guys who are "players", but not for men to questions women who are promiscuous?Not for People in this sub. Go check my post history if u want to see some comments for an example on what is classified as high n count in here(spoiler alert 10 is alot for alot of People in here) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 07:23 AM |
| 7 | Why do men go out of there way to put down women based on their appearance?I'm guessing u havent played League of Legends in the past decade | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 10:43 AM |
| 3 | I figured out what men dislike about women, sometimes, in the context of dating: cowardice.If your exit strategy from an abusive relationship is a new relationship, then that's not monkey branching. Its outright stupid, unwise, and a very stupid move. Renting an overpriced room and scraping by is always preferable to an abusive relationship or rushing straight into a relationship where u move in from Day one to escape your last abusive relationship (do u really want to live togheter with a partner u barely know? And what kind of person agree's to such a thing?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Is there a such thing as "bad" vag*na?Yes there is, just like with everything Else in life that is good. In order for something to be good there needs to exist bad variations of said thing, good pizza is only good, because you've had bad or mediocre pizza before, a computer game is only good because you've played bad computer games, etc. If you've only ever experienced one thing then that one thing is "good" because you havent tried whats better, if u catch my drift On a less philosopical level, yes some vaginas are smelly, some wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 12:32 PM |
| 29 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S2211034818302001 Here's a swedish study about how MS increase the risk for men to get divorced. In other words, sweden have a public healthcare system where getting a diagnosis such as MS isnt as taxing on the personal wealth and well being as in the US. Which could imply that the People talking about divorceing to get social healthcare in some capacity might be on the right track. I myself have MS, am single and completely understand that i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do RP guys try to shame women for desiring top 20% men?Why give them what they want? Why did men allow feminism if it's so detrimental to society? I dont think feminism is 100% to blame for this, more so feminism combined with tech our brains, instinct, and in general biology wasnt prepared for. Just like when thoose damn monkeys wanted to walk on 2 legs before the natural evolution could do it for us, resulting in back pains being a common occurence for humans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 08:13 AM |
| 8 | Do bisexual women have lower standards for women than men?Dont think too much about the LGBTQIA+ community when thinking about attraction, and all that. Its seriously a whole other "game" getting played there, just the mere fact that they're a minority, where they really dont have much chance of attracting the majority(they might get the occasional bicurious person, but getting a real monogamous relationship within the community is somewhat harder than getting one as straight) | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/10/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | how accurate is the advice to men that they should just be socialMy dude, it sounds like you've been trough some stuff, and I'm too drunk to give you proper advice, but as of right now it sounds like you've been burdened with a role you wasnt mature enough for, this isnt your fault at all, but more so your guardian/role models fault. In other Words I'm not gonna add much more onto this, but if u ever have a question about whatever, feel free to hit me up in the PM, but I know my limits as of right now in this moment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 01:39 AM |
| 2 | how accurate is the advice to men that they should just be socialRed pill is suppsoed to be a phase my dude, ehat TRP is preaching isnt the end goal, they're preachinh A way to reach the end goal, find your own way between blie and red pill you'll find the true balance of life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'?Being obsessive, low self esteem(while not being afraid to show it, and constantly fishing after compliments, or just straight up not being able to control how they show their low self esteem) and just being a "yay girl" as in thoose hyperactive overly happy women you'll meet every now and then especially when clubbing. The yay girl is just that in my experience I dont really wibe with them on a personal level, so they give me the "ick" Theres probably more things, but this was what I could thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:35 AM |
| 4 | I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other?Yeah probably, or they've only really met "fem party animals" from the community while themselves being out to drink.(not that there Arent Any masc party animals, there def is. But its usually not as obvious that they're into men) U know the kind of person who havent really been fed up with the occasional hookups, and the whole hypersexual part of the community yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 05:24 PM |
| 13 | I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other?This was my initial reaction to reading this post too, especially if you know Any masc bottom Guys(u know Guys who look like they enjoy fucking, but in reality they enjoy getting fucked) or just someone in their early twenties who want a monogonamous relationship(its not like its not possible but from what I've been told getting a monogamous relationship as a gay man before your thirties is rather difficult) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 05:02 PM |
| 3 | What are some reasons someone would be attracted to you, that you would be offended by?honestly my height, its probably the most arbitary trait I inhebit, so I'd prefer if people didnt tell me that my height was the primary reason for their attractiveness to me. I do know that due to my height(190 cm) More women see me as attractive and as a potential mate, and that is what it is. But getting compliments such as "its so nice to be able to wear heels, while still being taller than u" or something along thoose lines, doesn't really feel awesome, its something akin to "wow, its nice … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 06:47 AM |
| 9 | Orgasm countJust wait till we get to purge week | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 11:04 AM |
| 6 | Why do men care so much more than women about promiscuity?Alot of women do care, often they wont admit it straight up tho. In my anecdotal experience women care less about a partner being a virgin, but they do not want a guy with a "too high" number either. So women have some kind of "sweet spot" about a mans partners. sidenote: also a good chunk of women do have problems with men who have too high numbers, they just rarely will admit it, but u can usually see it in their face when u tell them a high number (unless they dont believe you're attractive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Women, what do you think the average man's dating life looks like?I guess you like the stereotype because it somewhat fits you, imagine if none of the positive stereotypes fit u at all, but people would always confront you with thoose stereotypes. Then thoose stereotypes becomes a reminder of what you're "supposed" to be/do. It leaves alot of people with a feeling of being inferior, or just not good enough. All I'm saying is, if we didnt have stereotypes at all in society, it would probably be better for everyone, whereas with stereotypes its only a positive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 09:49 AM |
| 34 | Women, what do you think the average man's dating life looks like?From what I've heard and read online, yep pretty much. Since they're the "model minority" and are doing well in school, careers etc. People rarely listen to and acknowledge their struggles due to all the "positive" stereotypes (like being good at math and STEM in general and so on) they'll often be met with arguments such as "black people have it worse, so just be happy and complesant" which is also a big part of why they're also seen as the "silent minority" I'd also like to point out that ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 07:04 AM |
| 4 | At what number of bad dates/relationships does one become “jaded”?honestly its super individualistic, and instead of keep slamming ones head against the same wall, one should maybe take a small break from slamming their head into walls for a time, untill they're ready to again start slamming their head against walls again. Maybe find a wall that's a block away or something The problem comes when people insist on keep slamming their head against the wall, then they become jaded, angry, upset etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 10:05 AM |
| 14 | What exactly qualifies as a high n count "bodycount" to people on this sub?I asked the same question like 6 months ago, you can check under my posts if u want more data on the question, but for most people on this sub its anything that's double digit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 07:06 AM |
| 1 | It’s women’s nature to exploit men’s sex drives, they evolved to be this wayI dont know about that other Guy but I was being sarcastic, hence the /S | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:32 PM |
| 1 | It’s women’s nature to exploit men’s sex drives, they evolved to be this wayHe was obviously refering to the fact that you indeed was tired after working, oh my the audacity is unreal, how do u expect having a happy marriage when you're tired after Working?! /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Women really dislike autistic menYeaaah, I can see he was a different "case" than My initial tought, its completely understandable that thoose interactions was taxing for you. I'd almost dare say he kinda sounds like having something "extra" than just autism. As a minimum he sounds like having low selfesteem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 05:20 AM |
| 7 | Women really dislike autistic menHave u tried directly saying something like "hey man, I have some trouble understanding you right now. Can u try and rephrase what you where saying? Dont think too much about if you're being too blunt" Or something along thoose lines. In My experience with autistic people they often tend to some what overthink if they're being too blunt, because they've had alot of bad experiences with people getting offput by their bluntness, so they worry too much about it, and thus becomes harder to understan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 04:56 AM |
| 3 | If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor?But isn't that on the women then for setting the bar low for themselves? One would be inclined to think so, yeah. But aparently its All thoose men who gets above the bar(both in terms of physical attraction, and in terms of personality) who is at fault for setting the bar so low because aparently most men who's physically attractive enough for most women are deadbeats when it comes to personality and inhabiting "good relationship traits" that is if u ask women ofcourse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:35 AM |
| 4 | If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor?If u look on more female/women dominated forums, where they discuss dating, life etc. You'll find some version of "the bar is at X low point" quite alot, also if u ask women dominated forums for help in regards to dating you'll hear something like "dude, seriously just be a decent human being, the bar is literally at insert phrase saying how low the bar is here"(which is shitty advice in My opinion, it doesnt really help a confused person became anything Else than more confused) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?Ah yes, the lovely old strategy of calling stuff homophobic to shut down Any kind of real conversation. But seriously, there's advantages and disadvantages to everything in life. Personally I rarely use the wording priviledge since that's a rather binary way to look at advantages and disadvantages in life. But anyway My point was simply that being gay is more recognised and accepted than being bi, and being straight is more recognised and accepted than being gay and both gay and straight people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?Did u even read what u quoted? U literally quoted My explainer on what I ment when I wrote rewarded. But its "rewarded" in the sense that its more accepted by society than bisexuality, which still have a shit ton of problems(like the highest rate of suicidal toughts and attempts amongst LGBTQ+, and in general a higher rate of mental health issues when compared to homosexual's) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?while if a man who Is bi and didnt tell his partner about it, there would be no difference in the relationship. This pretty Much sums up why bisexuality often is the "silent/invisible sexuality" more often than not you'll get punished rather than "rewarded" in society if u tell people about your sexuality(not as in homo Or hetro people get a literal reward for their sexuality, but thoose 2 sexualities are more accepted in society than bi) Especially as a bi man you'll have a harder time getting … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 11:34 AM |
| 5 | Mismatched Body-Counts: Important or Not?You would have to be purposely avoiding Long term relationships or something Or just living in a general culture(can both be a culture in a friendgroup, og just a general dating/sexual culture) where people in general doesnt really look for long term relationships, Or atleast still want to have sex even tho they are looking for a LTR. Thoose 2 things arent necessarily incompatible, u just need a non-puritarian outlook on life, and a culture that doesnt shame one into oblivion for choosing such a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 08:30 AM |
| 5 | Mismatched Body-Counts: Important or Not?I mean, how does someone find the time? Depending on the age the person became sexually active its really not that hard to find the time, if u date/have sex with a new person each month since u was 15 you'd hit the triple digits around the age of 23. Then there is ofcourse alot of people who have their "hoe periods" often after a LTR breakup and such, but 1 person a month isnt that "bad" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 07:32 AM |
| 3 | It is a man's duty to protect his woman. You're a coward if you think otherwise. (excluding very specific situations)Ha, we do indeed still get laid, but honestly if Any woman who laid eyes on me and tought "hey he'll be able to protect me against dangerous people who will attack random people on the streets/bars/etc." they really should try and come back to reality and have a more nuanced look on life than "penis = protection" So I'll try and access the situation and see if I can get us out of harms way in a secure manner, like talking the person down or in a setting like a bar. Get a bouncer to come and deal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 04:40 PM |
| 6 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?The sad reality of parenthood is that all parents are basicly trying to do better than their own parents, and yet still alot of parents repeats the same mistakes their own parent did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | For generations a women’s only worth was her looks. Now it’s mens turn.I use head&shoulders with a pinch of motoroil, seriously guys, its totally fabulous and the results speaks for itself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 12:27 PM |
| 5 | How will the increasingly large education between the sexes affect dating in the future?Not really. Just parahrasing what I've heard some women say troughout the years, the "lesser education" is however said in a somewhat mocking way since its such a stupid thing to call someone else's job and/or education. Since ya know, we need people who's able to do all kinds of different jobs, and tasks in order for society to work for most people, we need plumbers, we need carpenters, we need doctors, we need lawyers etc. Talking negatively about a certain job/education is just immature if u … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 05:58 AM |
| 8 | How will the increasingly large education between the sexes affect dating in the future?A good chunk of tradescrafts are actually "economically attractive jobs" I know lots of tradesmen who makes over 45k DKK which is the average monthly salary in DK. And I know that tradesmen are making fine money all over the world. Its just that alot of women dont want to date someone who have a "lesser education" than they have, and usually they'll follow that up with something like "and he's just a tradesman, he's probably not so smart, and have a lov emotional intelligence, and I would like t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 05:03 AM |
| 20 | Men with college degrees have far wider and more frequent dating options.Funnily enough, when I worked at mcdonalds, was when I got laid the most, this was also from 16-21 years, so that might also explain the "mcinbreeding" as we would call it, but man was it great times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 06:39 PM |
| 7 | Why are some people content with sexlessness?I'm gonna give u the short answear to why u dont feel the "dormant" phase so to speak, somewhere deep down u feel incomplete, u have this black hole(dont worry we all pretty much have it, some have a bigger hole than others, but we all have it in one capacity or another) so this hole we fill up with what we think might bring satisfaction and make it go away, sex, drugs, alcohol, love, affection, money etc. All things we've at one point or another in our lives been told would bring happiness(and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 10:43 PM |
| 19 | Is withholding sex as a man a mistake?Personally I think withholding anything is a bad idea in regards to dating. Are u a man that have had sex with another man? No point in hiding it in the first 3 months of a relationship when the relationship becomes more "stable", the women who have a problem with it, probably isnt the right woman for u Are u a sexpositive woman with a high n-count? No point in hiding it for 3 months to reveal it when the relationship is more "stable". the men who have a problem with it, probably isnt the right … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 08:39 AM |
| 9 | Q4M What do you tell men who have been hurt by numerous women compared to what you tell women who have been hurt by numerous men?Its basicly just anyone from a western country, or just people from a country that's more wealthy than where they're from, not specifically Americans. We've had a few tv shows/documentaries troughout the years in Denmark about lesser attractive men going to countries like Thailand in search for a wife to bring back home. And on a personal level, tinder, badoo, bumble and dating apps in general is almost overflowing with women from poor countries who's looking for love, which some of them might d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 06:39 AM |
| 22 | Women believe they understand men more than they really do, and that is a problemU reallly took the bait there, didnt u? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 06:05 AM |
| 0 | Lesbian women have an easier time getting women than most straight men do.U can name the barrier whatever u want, but It doesnt change the fact that its a barrier. U can choose to try and get trough it with brute force, u can choose to bring a ladder and go over it, or u can choose to walk around it. The name given to the barrier doesnt really matter in the end, cuz its still a barrier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 02:05 PM |
| 29 | Lesbian women have an easier time getting women than most straight men do.The advantage lesbian and bi women have with approaching women is basicly the fact that they're women, and therefore dont have to break down the initial barrier that men have to break down. U know the whole "god men are annoying, gross, creeps etc" kinda deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Men are not oppressed by women, they are oppressed by institutions.Dane here. Dont worry, our politicians are trying their damn hardest to remove all of thoose "socialist tweaking's" unemployment benefits have stagnated, our free school and education keeps getting cut more into the bones, our free healthcare is suffering from people who keep reshuffling numbers in an excel spreadsheet, minimum wage's(which is a result of strong unions, not exactly socialistisk policies) have also been rather stagnant over the years and so on. Capitalism is the problem, the soci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Being good at sex is 90% just having a big d*ck.But there is some dimishing returns to having a big dick, but generally speaking most women(that I've talked with about the subject) falls somewhere between the 13-18 cm range for "the perfect" dick. I myself have experienced a fair amount of women to whom me and my 17 cm was simply too big, where it hurt them, even with plenty of foreplay And again, their vagina's are vastly different, just like men's penises are. Some have long vaginal canals(I think is the name for it) and other have very sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 05:12 AM |
| 4 | Being good at sex is 90% just having a big d*ck.When u say "big dick" what size are u exactly referring to? From my understanding women have different "sweet spots" for the "perfect dick" since ya know. No womans vagina is identical, and if the dick is too big, then it'll hurt her more than it'll give her pleasure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 04:38 AM |
| 28 | How much do you think being a woman’s best lover ever matters?Man. It doesnt matter to me if I'm THE best lover she's ever had. What does matter to me is if she thinks i'm A good lover to her. I know I'm not "sexually compatible" with everyone on this earth, heck not even with everyone in my city. But I know there's "enough" women out there that I'm "sexually compatible" with so I dont worry too much about that whole part of it. In regards to why it matters to me to be a good lover, for me personally it strenghtens the bond I share with the individual, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | High N count vs low N countWould be interesting to see location/culture differences Yeah I realised that it probably had a influence on how people would answear too, like what country they're from, if they've grown up in suburbs, rural, or city life would have been interesting too, but when I wrote the post, I was just confused and curious about what people actually ment with high/low N counts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 01:21 PM |
| 3 | High N count vs low N countYeah I kinda expected that one. I was just curious about which exact numbers where seen as high and low in here. Since I clearly(from this thread) have a little screwed view on this topic compared to the rest of the subreddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 04:10 AM |
| 0 | High N count vs low N countI agree, I lost my "virginity" when I was 15 years old, and it wasnt to a long time girlfriend or anything, it was a coworker whom I had a fling with for half a year afterwards, and now I'm 26, so 11 years of sexual activity. And being a tall, decent looking Guy who was bullied in his childhood(that shits fucks with ones selfesteem) resulted in me having sex with a good chunk of women I maybe "shouldnt/wouldnt" have had sex with otherwise. Oh well no regrets tho, I've grown and have made peace w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | High N count vs low N countI've been sexually active since I was 15(so for 11 years) and most of them have been flings that lasted for 2-4 months I did have a problem with "settling down" for the first 4 years, and then again for 4 years after a relationship that lasted for 1,5 years and after thoose 4 years I had another relationship that lasted 1,5 years and the last 2 years I've had sex with 10 different women(2 FWB and a few ONS, and 2 flings) I dont date multiple women at the same time tho(atleast not anymore, there'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 03:34 AM |
| 3 | High N count vs low N countThat is a fair point, and a view that I personally agree with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: In your experience, what's the best place to meet virgin/low body-count women?Either way, asking about amount of people a woman have had sex with is in my experience off putting for both low and high n women, many of them find the question off putting just by the nature of the question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: In your experience, what's the best place to meet virgin/low body-count women?Oh yeah, he's probably searching for some serious dating/relationship. In my mind I just went "aaah, virgin/low n man want virgin/low n woman because then they'll be like minded" completely forgot that there exists people who's into that whole dating seriously from the get go xD my bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: In your experience, what's the best place to meet virgin/low body-count women?Or just get mad at him, and then his chances of having sex with her becomes -5 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 03:05 AM |
| 10 | Are women just more queer than men?Part of the problem is also that if u tell potential love interests that you're a bisexual man, you run the risk of them feeling disgusted by you, many women I've spoken to about the issue basicly comes down to "I just fear that there's a bigger risk of him cheating on me, or that I wont be able to provide him the same as a man" so it basicly boils down to insecurities mixed with biphobia(even in queer environments, theese same views are also true, not as wide spread, but it exists for sure) The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 10:18 AM |
| 11 | If 90% of men died, and the 10% were average guys, would they be highly sought after?How can u be sure that spermbanks are still operating? If there was a virus that killed 90% of one gender, I'm pretty sure there would have been chaos and disorder at some point, expecting everything to still be up and running is utopia. Also when they realise this deadly virus is only affecting the male population. There's without a doubt gonna be some assholes who fucks shit up before they get infected and dies, just look at covid-19. Assholes exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 06:21 AM |
| 10 | If 90% of men died, and the 10% were average guys, would they be highly sought after?Well women want babies because of biology, and biology knows that we need more babies in order to keep on thriving. It doesnt matter if women want a baby for themselves or for society. The end result is the same, the human biology is pretty awesome in that manner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 06:17 AM |
| 9 | If 90% of men died, and the 10% were average guys, would they be highly sought after?Each guy could easily have multiple wives if he wanted consistency, or just accept offers on Tinder if he wanted variety. I'd even dare say that in this situation the men actually had to impregnate as many women as possible in order for our species to survive and rebuild. Monogamy isnt really an option when 90% of one gender disappears, humans need tribes in order to thrive. So lots of kids with different genetics are needed to offset the problems with inbreeding, and just for a tribe to survive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 06:05 AM |
| -2 | Girls wouldn't sleep around/have hoe phases/rack up high body counts if they knew guys had no standardsPssst, its super easy extra points to not give a fuck about womens "body count", like almost easier points than saying "ofcourse women should be allowed to suffer in this capitalistic hellhole of society and working 35+ hours a week in a job while fucking over ones body for money" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 07:02 PM |
| 6 | How many of you would become stepparents?I grew up with a stepmother that i resented and hated over various situations like I could hear her say stuff to my father like "go tell him to do X and Y now" and after a few minutes my father would go tell me to do X and Y, and now I dont really have a relationship with my father mostly because he choose to stay with her even tho he did know I resented and hated her So it sounds like a healthy opinion u have there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Uncontrolled hypergamy is a trait if toxic feminist that is harmful to men and women.One can only Dream, altough I'd need alot more popcorn if that was the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 07:19 AM |
| 3 | Being a "beta bucks" is better than being an "alpha".Get a job, get my high school diploma, go to college and make my thirties my best decade Have u considered a tradeschool or apprentinceship instead? Its usually cheaper, and you'll be able to pay off your debt and turn everything around faster and earlier than with the college route. If u are deadset on college tho then u do u my friend, personally I'd go for the shorter route to a decent pay and get my life turned around in my mid thirties rather than late thirties/early fourties. Either way go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 07:49 PM |
| 3 | How many people in FDS and TRP have sociopathic leanings?The red pill community | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you believe that men have it harder?Alot of buisnesses is also start-ups eith low employee numbers, the capital then becomes looks and attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 10:11 PM |
| 8 | What is the best route for autistic men to take in regards to dating?The funniest thing about the lack of "emotional intelligence" and what not people think about people on the spectrum is that actually a good chunk of people on the spectrum have a very high level of "emotional intelligence" and often will pick up on the feelings people around them feel, they often just lack the "social intelligence" to comfort and help people. Especially as kids this is a huge issue, because the kid on the spectrum wants to help, they just dont know how. So when they try out wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 11:47 AM |
| 8 | Men getting vasectomies at a young age, yes or no?Their reason for not just handing it out is because of the economy. The state/government needs more children to support the older generations, and keeping the economy afloat. Especially in wellfare states since old people are more costly. In Denmark you'll never get approved for a vasectomy before you're 25 years old. Which is somewhat understandable, many people do change their minds in regards to kids troughtout their twenties. And while a vasectomy is reversibel there's no guarantee that you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 03:32 PM |
| 2 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible adviceIn my experience. The whole "just be yourself" is the go to bullshit answear people give when they dont want to "hurt" anyone, or just that they cant be arsed to actually give it some real toughts and reflections. The worst thing about this being whenever I've had real talks where I basicly goes "improve this, take this down a notch etc." Even though it might be hurtful at first, all of them have ended up being grateful for actually getting some kind of advice(it might not always have been the b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 12:45 AM |
| 6 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?Its basicly some kind of fetish. I've met a fair amount of gay men who qre more into straight men than gay men. Its kinda sad because all of thoose I have met with the fetish are just ending up feeling rather used | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 05:17 PM |
| 2 | People who claim "Blue Pill" advice doesn't work didn't actually understand the deeper truth hiding behind itI love myself, I'm a fantastic person. Even had other people tell me that quite alot. But I still hate thoose superficial tips like "just be yourself" for me it more often than not is something a person says when they dont want to tell a person what's "wrong" with them, and this is why I like the red pill core values. Since they to me seem like a list of how to improve yourself, so you can be yourself later in life. The whole PUA part of red pill I am however not too keen on. But I understand wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Women lie about what they want in men.For alot of people that is the same thing anyways. Which makes sense if u subscribe to the belief of "you have to once had loved someone in order to hate them"(paraphrasing here) But either way. When most people say hate they really just mean "0 fucks given" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 04:44 AM |
| 2 | If women are so much more willing to have sex while drunk, Why is there a gray area of consent?I believe they're talking about the whole "men if u see a woman being uncomfortable or a man grabbing her ass then intervene! Because men respect men more than women" which is just plain out wrong. Most men have been raised with "never hit a woman" so if a man doesnt intervene she would have had an unpleasant experience where a man didnt respect her personal space If a man does intervene, he risk getting into a fight. So alot of women who says this value womens discomfort higher than a mans life… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menNo, that would be børnepsykologer. For Child predator it would be "børnelokker" which would be translated to something like "Child lures" a lokker is someone who tempts you with something you want. Or a lock of hair, depending on the context. And børn is child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menIs there any research on why they did it? Dont know if there's any on why. But its made in a collaboration with the danish organisation "sex and samfund"(rough translation would be sex and society. Its government funded if I'm not wrong) So they've had professionals over it, like Child psychologies As a tv show it ofcourse didnt happen in school and the parents and children have all done a formal contract of sorts where the parents knew what was going on, and if I remember right they where also … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menOh well its basicly 6 naked women and men standing in front of 20ish children(the children are from 8 to 15 years old I believe). The children the proceeds to ask the adults questions about their Bodies and the adults answear back. Its supposed to help children not develop body dysfunctionality I dont know why but the part about seeing a naked man in public made me jump straight to my question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menI'm just being curious but what do u think of a show like this one: https://youtu.be/KTNYy8o53vs basicly its naked adults on a scene where kids are allowed to ask them any question they can think of And an international article to explain it abit more in detail: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2020/09/18/world/europe/denmark-children-nudity-sex-education.amp.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Men Who Look For Partners Overseas And Search For Love In A Different Country. Thoughts?Honestly I dont know, havent really been travelling that much within the EU, and when I have been doing so I didnt really look at prices for clothing. But I know why its like this in Denmark. Danish men doesnt shop clothes that often, and are usually fine with owning 4-6 jeans in total, enough t-shirts for a week, a suit, something to be active in, u know the minimum needed. While women does it more often, and have taken up the whole "lets go shopping for fun" (probably due to H&M selling alot o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 07:59 AM |
| 5 | Men Who Look For Partners Overseas And Search For Love In A Different Country. Thoughts?(and women's clothes is pricier than men's) Sometimes I have to remember that we're all talking from different points of views based on our country of origin, and this is one of thoose. In Denmark its the opposite. Lots of cheaper options for women(which still look good) while for men if u go the cheap route, you'll end up with a shirt that's sewn badly, and will probably look rather shitty. The more expensive options tough in the 85+ euro range for a pair of jeans are usually really nice lookin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 07:40 AM |
| – | Isn’t it ironic a generation of men raised by single moms would struggle so much with dating women?I’m actually kind of curious if three parent households would do better than two but those relationships on the surface seem to be a bit more unstable so my initial assumption would say no but now I’m kind of interested if it’s been looked at. You could try and see if you could find something about children from communal living where 2+ families share the same household. I've met a few and they seemed rather quircky, but not in a bad way. Outgoing personalites and such. But I can only think of 2… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 10:00 AM |
| – | FDS couldn't exist in a healthy dating marketI hate that u Linked to that post, and after reading 2 paragraphs of the post, and 2-3 comments I could already feel my brain hurting from the sheer amount of stupidness & entitlement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 12:54 AM |
| 2 | "In women, we find no such effect."...Its also somewhat misleading that the average age of participants was 50+ not that its conclusion isnt true, but there is a big difference of dynamics in male and female friendship in that age group, compared to my own age group (25 years old) just by how we greet each other. Hugging women is seen as normal, altough especially the older generations tend to make theese hugs be shorter, and more of a token gesture. While in my generation men shakes hands the first time(this is also extended to alo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 02:52 AM |
| 4 | Masculinity is NOT in a crisis nor is it on a declineWhen I did my conscription service. My lieutenant basicly said something like "we dont want superman in the army, he might be able to carry 3 wounded soldiers with ease, but if he becomes wounded, he will take up 3 men to carry him to safety, and thus putting the whole group in danger" (as he was saying this he pointed over to one of our sergents who was a legit beast, we even nicknamed him sergent beast when he wasnt around) also in that same vein I can tell you thoose who more often than not d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 12:40 AM |
| 4 | Young red pill philosophers and young men in general, should be wary of older red pill philosophersWhenever I've met a feminist who wanted to get married, I've been dumbfolded since pretty much every aspect of marriage is rooted in mysogyny to some extend just from the fact that women have a title for being married/engaged and another for being unmarried(in other words an easy way to spot if she's in need of a provider or not) I know people tend to jump trough hoops and ignore parts of something to justify it for their own percieved values, but marriage is just so clearly a tradition from a t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is?Did u know Hitler pretty much was the driving force behind bringing the car to the lower classes of european society, and that's why its called folkswagen (folks = the people. Wagen=car) So I guess it took about 1 hour for someone to bring up Hitler | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 06:11 AM |
| 5 | Most American women are into mutilated men, and all that it implies...My bad, I tought the person I answeared to was asking about the american tradition(which was something similair to what I wrote) didnt mean that Kelogg's started the practice. But that he made it popular in the US | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 06:15 AM |
| 12 | Most American women are into mutilated men, and all that it implies...I have no idea why people even started cutting them. I believe it was that Christian nutjob kelogg's who started it, you know the Guy who went out to make food that tasted blend because he believed that a good christian had to completely refrain from any pleasure in life And for some reason the american public just adopted the circusission, and not its a cultural phenomen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 04:32 AM |
| 3 | What do women truly want? And please gentlemen refrain from the disrespect. I’m literally trying to save us lolThat depends, is the 8 good at hiding his real behaviour, values, and intentions and is the 7 good at showing his behaviour, values, and intentions? In this period of human history we value perceived values, more than real values. And this isnt just females, males, or in the dating world. But in all aspects of western society. We're all hyperfocused on marketability, and how others perceive us, rather than how we really are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 11:14 PM |
| -1 | Help settle a debate 🙏Ontop of what others have responded, I have also heard a good chunk of Black women get shamed for "dating outside their race" whereas Black males usually can write it off with "I'm just fucking that white woman, not dating her" and if other men have heard something similair or just expects that the woman dont want to "date outside her race" they might just not even be arsed trying I am not an american tough, this is just stuff I've heard on the internet. So it might be partially true, or not. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:22 AM |
| 4 | The idea that women could possibly want tall men is preposterous. It’s only important that men are taller than they are.One thing I have realised and experienced as a tall man(189 cm) is that when a woman says "I like tall men" they're more often that not saying "I'd like a man who is taller then ME while I'm wearing high heels" so a woman at 170 cm(my country's average height for females) want a man that is around 180 cm at minimum because then he's still visibly taller than her even tough she's wearing heels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 11:25 PM |
| 4 | Do you think the average of 5 lifetime partners is accurate or outdated?all black white supremacy cult I cant stop thinking that their meetings go something like "and today we're gonna beat up Tyrone for being black" "But grandmaster last week it was also me who got the beating. How about we beat up Token this week?" "Tyrone u damn well know you're the blackest of us all, besides Token is 25% White, beating up someone who's 25% white doesnt make much sense when we can beat up someone who's 0% white" Sorry if anyone found my little joke distasteful, or just not funny… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with being a "Pick Me"Who wants to be friends with someone whose backbone is non existent? From my experience as a former doormat, and someone who have talked with a good chunk of doormats. Its more often than not manipulative people who somehow just knows who to gravitate towards in order to find people who they'll be able to grossly manipulate without much effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Is sex a need?Yeah, same in Denmark. Altough prostitution is in this weird legality where you as a person is allowed to seek out, buy/sell sex. But things like brothels are illegal as it could be seen as predatory/pimping/human trafficking. But as everyone knows just because something is illegal, it doesnt mean it doesnt exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 04:58 AM |
| 5 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.Doesnt Black women also often have to deal with men who are attracted to them on a level that more often than not could be categorized as a fetish? And thus be part of the explanation behind why they tend to mostly marry and stay in long term relationships with Black males? Cuz u know its never nice to feel that somebody is attracted to you due to something like your skin colour, your feet or whatever people often tend to have a fetish for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Women want men that are full of life. That is why criminality is less of a handicap to dickwetting than inhibitionI always tought the primary consumers of scary movies where horny people. Damn I have watched alot of scary movies as some kind of extra "foreplay" for the foreplay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 12:25 AM |
| 3 | “The sexual revolution was started by women/feminists”- where do people get this idea from?And, be real. 99% of them are for convenience Which is why legalizeing abortion alone without real sexual education, and a unbiased presentation of facts about different ways to not get a baby is a rather stupid idea, if 99% of them are for convenience, its because they havent been taught properly how to not get pregnant in the first place, after this 99% of them would be because the protection failed them one way or another | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Are monogamous relationships becoming obsolete?I believe part of the problem with kids where the parents arent togheter is, how either one or both of the parents usually tend to speak badly about the other within the kids ears, or just straight up weaponizes the kid to hurt the other parent, thus resulting in the kid feeling bad about loving their parent, or all the added layers of complexity a kid experience when a new step parent is about to enter their life. In other words what I try to say is that its not so much the divorce part, but mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 07:55 PM |
| 7 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?They're just doing it for themselves ya know, and their themselves are really into trending and getting likes on tik tok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Is FemaleDatingStrategy, ironically, conservative?True, but even grouping it as "western society" isnt completely fair, there's big differences within western society across country borders(just like african, asian, middle eastern and so on) but also alot of similarities. Either way reddit isnt usually the best place to look at for how real life actually is. And confirmation bias will always be something all of humanity will struggle with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Is FemaleDatingStrategy, ironically, conservative?To be fair, the numbers on subreddits will be inflated due to differences in cultures around the world. Without haveing checked the stats on people who's a part of thoose subs, I'd guess its alot of people from different countries, states, areas and so on. Makeing it rather unreliant as a case study of how it usually is within a specific country. And as someone else mentioned before, people in happy and fullfilling relationships rarely feels the need to share their experiences with the internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 12:06 AM |
| 8 | When it comes to sex, what are the responsibilities or expectations from women?The vagina has a smell just fyi and you shouldn’t ever clean the inside of the vagina, only the labia with gentle soap and warm water Just gonna add this on it: as a man, you're not supposed to use any soap behind the foreskin. The PH balance of the male genitial and female genitial is different(which is also why some women experience a "funky" smell after sex) sadly the best way to clean the male genitial is with cold water(which is also the best for removeing semen in general) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 12:36 AM |
| 1 | What bad dating advice do men give women that you rarely (or never) actually see work in real life?That explains my immediate tought of "dafuq is giveing such a stupid advice" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 10:43 PM |
| 3 | “Oh yeah? Well I’m gonna get a sexbot!” is an empty threat just like “Oh yeah? Well I’m gonna fuck the quarterback!”One could argument for the "chadbot" already exists. Have u ever seen thoose fuck machines some women on cam sites use?! I know my own limits, but thoose thing man thoose things seem to have no limit. Also dildo's can do alot of nice stuff that my natural penis never would be able to achieve without help from sextoys, or by getting parkinsons, but I'm not sure if that trade off is worth it to be honest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 07:41 AM |
| 0 | If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing?Oh yeah for sure being pornsick is a thing, I was just saying that if the first thing u think when a man have an erectile dysfunction is. "He must be pornsick" when your in bed with each other. Its atleast as likely that her self esteem is non existant, since there is so many different reasons to have a erectile dysfunction, many of which are probably more likely than being pornsick, or atleast is more considerate options for the man rather than just saying "u must watch too much porn" Since ya … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 07:18 AM |
| 11 | If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing?To be fair all of thoose issues can be blamed on other things too, not eating right, being depressed, being stressed, not excersising enough, smoking, etc. Just going straight for "yo. You're pornsick" is just the go to for women who have no self esteem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 07:21 AM |
| 3 | Number of partnersStopped counting when I hit 80 like 3 years ago, and I do not care about my partners number, but would prefer someone who was abit higher than 10-20. For the simple reason that I think someone who have had under 10 sexual partners troughout their life, might go "hey, he's had so many sexual experiences while I have had so few" at some point in the relationship but honestly I dont care about a potential partners "body count" unless they ask me first, since a person shouldnt ask questions that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 04:38 AM |
| 1 | What are some things that are hard to find in guys these days?Thank you for shareing your thoughts on this, and that does sound quite realistic, is there a willingness among the general population to try and do something about it? if not from the males, then atleast from the female, or are u kinda alone on some level regarding wanting theese changes to happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 04:11 AM |
| 1 | What are some things that are hard to find in guys these days?Sorry my bad, yeah a lack of thoose traits in russian men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 03:50 AM |
| 2 | What are some things that are hard to find in guys these days?So this question is coming out of pure curiousity, but what do u think are the reasons behind each of theese points? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 03:45 AM |
| 0 | There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first dateAllright, so here's a great idea for a first date. Invite her for a picnic in a area you already kinda knows. And then tell her something along the lines of "if u bring 2 cans of your favorite beverage and your favorite snack/sandwich, I'll bring the same and a blanket then we'll share it with the other" What you then have done is you've taken the lead and shows interest in going on the date with her, while you've involved her in the date, nothing have been served on a silver plate for any of yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 04:29 AM |
| 2 | TL;DR for like half of PPD discussionsNot sure if u ment to write goth or hot girl, either way. Both fits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do women still put in so much more effort in relationships instead of staying single?Oooh, I tought u simply ment it as "he works more so she can work less" kinda deal, honestly, my bad I've never understood the need for a big house, or alot of fun toys. But in general I dont get why anyone would want to live a lavish lifestyle. I just cant wrap my head around what about it speaks to so many people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Why do women still put in so much more effort in relationships instead of staying single?I cant be the only one thinking in this case where the man is makeing that much more money. Why the fuck do they not just hire a cleaning assistant for a few hours a week, sure there's still cooking, and the normal everyday cleaning associated with that. But the cleaning would be taken care off, by a third party thus eliminating most of the hardship about the problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 07:37 PM |
| 21 | Why do most men associate beauty with arousal?A mans penis can get erect without any physical or visual stimulation, its just how our biology works, and also yeah we cant really control it outside of trying to think of things that isnt attractive, but the trick doesnt work everytime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Could also be that they're in love with the idea/concept of haveing a girlfriend, and you where just around. Some people really cant tell the difference between being in love wirh a person and being in love with the concept of being in a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 06:34 AM |
| 1 | How to write strong but accurate female action/adventure characters?There's only 2 episodes of it so far but. The new hawkeye serie seems promising and interesting in the regard. Lost her dad when the kree invaded NYC, been excellent and a natural talent at martial arts since she was 5, her first enemy is some russian gangster goons in tracksuits, she falls on her heels while kicking a pistol out of a guys hand, is generally rather confused since its her first fight against so many people with guns, gets a good chunk of beatings, packs good punch too, yet the go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 12:37 AM |
| 1 | The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendshipsMy father did, trough the way he behaved in his relationship(not with my Mother, they seperated when I was 4) but my father was legit a doormat in his relationship, so I was a major doormat from 14-21 since I tought that was how a man was supposed to act in a relationship, I am however thankfull for the people around me who helped me learn how to balance the two opposites(being an asshole and being a doormat) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 05:01 AM |
| 24 | The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendshipsI totally agree with everything you've written here. My own personal problem with the original situation is that I and many other males have never been taught to do theese things to females, we have however been taught to always help females, and the classic "a real man doesnt hit a woman" and the likes. It is however not ones parents fault if one doesnt learn it past the age of 18-20 year old. Altough its still super frustrating that nobody never went "hey kiddo, you know what? If someone is on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 01:53 AM |
| – | We know that men aren’t as selective about a woman’s appearance when it comes to sex vs relationships, so why do a lot of men still only want sex from objectively attractive women but not a relationship?I don't really think a ton of men ever really wanted "relationships" I think it is more of a girl thing. I believe part of the reasoning behind this is atleast partly media's fault. Alot of "girl movies"(and Princess movies ofcourse) seem to be focused around relationships, and in general selling the whole "for a woman to be happy she needs a relationship" narrative, also most "girl toys" seem to also be heavily focused on relationships(baby dolls, Ken and Barbie dolls etc.) Kinda makes one wond… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Are men really incapable of "dressing themselves?"Well that does indeed sound like something I should consider, I dont care much about them being hot tho, aslong as they're good at their job, but It is indeed a nice bonus Yeah I guess I was just injecting my personal experience haha No worries man, I should probably have put a disclaimer first, but that's always easy to say when looking back in hindsight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 04:30 AM |
| 3 | Are men really incapable of "dressing themselves?"Yeah, I read that you had a mohawk now and was happy about it, which is awesome. Haveing a hairstyle that you like is the most important thing unless you ofcourse dont feel like you get enough attention from the opposite sex, then I'd probably suggest considering getting a new haircut, a decent haircut does really change how people perceives you. But again if your happy with what u have right now, then there's really no reason to change it. My original comment was mostly inteded for anyone readi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 04:22 AM |
| 4 | Are men really incapable of "dressing themselves?"Huh what's a good alternative to short hair if their hair doesn't grow long? I cant recommend this enough if u as a male doesnt know what to do with ur hair(or just feels like doing something different) But go see a real hairdresser/barber and ask them what they think might fit u. Like someone who actually knows and takes pride in their craft, I've always done the cheap/semi Lazy barber who almost only uses a trimmer and only really knows 3-5 haircuts(and they're usually super good at theese hai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 03:42 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.The culture thing wasnt ment as "this shit happens all the time in my culture" but more as "your talking about my experiences from a point of view that doesnt seem to take the differences in our cultures into account" but i'm danish, and as I stated in my first comment, its not all women, just enough who doesnt seem to have any problems with thoose insults think men as a social class are far more toxic than Care to elaborate on this? I cant see how men can be viewed as a social class, just by th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 05:45 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.When did I write that women are bullying men and all men are victims? I simply pointed out that theese 2 sentences was the go to insult if u want to demasculinize a man. Everything outside of that is simply u reading something into what I wrote that wasnt even there to start with Is it so hard for u to simply listen to mens experiences in life when they share them? If you never have used thoose sentences as insults, then good job. It seems like your not a misandrist. Do u want an award like some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 04:20 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.Wow thanks for completely deflecting my experiences, and I gotta hand it to ya, its really insane how you can comment on how the culture is where I am from. And now that we're being anecdotal I have heard women say virgin to men, I have heard women talking behind a man's back and calling him a virgin, I've been told and have heard women say "man up" a numerous amount of times. But yeah its totally only a bro culture thing. You're conpletely right, my own experiences isnt worth a damn, because yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 09:13 AM |
| 16 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.Virgin is however the go to word when u want to demasculinize a man, togheter with "man up". Even outside of hitting/dating virgin is often used as an insult too. Not by all, but by enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 02:21 PM |
| 0 | Western in-group vs Foreign out-groupI'm not gonna disagree with u at all. But where I'm from (Denmark) we have quite strict immigration rules, so if lets say you married a danish man, and moved to Denmark, had kids with said danish man, etc. You'll have to stay in the marriage for quite alot of years before acquireing citizenships or just being able to stay here outside of marriage. Since green card marriage can be a sort of human trafficing. In this case since she had a kid with a dane, and said kid is a citizen of Denmark, the M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Are all women polygynous?Our tendency as males to have risky behaviour is probably more because of situations like being able to fend off a wild animal, a neighbouring tribe, or searching for New hunting grounds. Sending a male out to do theese tasks is more beneficial to society than sending out the females. And in regards of fending off animals or invaders. Haveing half your tribe be ready to dive in head first to defend the rest is quite a beneficial trait to possess The human society is alot more complex than just "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 09:28 AM |
| 9 | Social media and online dating have ruined dating for menIn general just avoid social media. Its unhealthy as heck for all of our mental well beings. Also completely agree about dropping online dating. Meeting women IRL can be quite advantageous for alot of guys. The whole charm aspect of a person, can be quite hard to translate into online dating, also online dating feels like more work and energy consumption than meeting someone in a more organic setting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Question for women: How do you view the Red Pill?For sure. The problem with TRp is just that from yours and my understanding of it. The moderate will leave it since that's the healthy thing to do. Resulting in the toxic aspects just growing and radicalizes newcomers, while the moderates(which are thoose who seek out TRP need) will shrink | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 12:36 AM |
| 12 | Question for women: How do you view the Red Pill?Male here, I completely agree with your take on this. Also alot of men seem to misunderstand TRP, its not a final life philosophy to live by, its something that can help for a period of time, and should be treated at so. Its not a healthy way to look at life in a permanently setting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 10:13 PM |
| 8 | Men and Women are not nearly as evil towards each other as you people insinuateThis sub is indeed a good time killer. Dont know what to do? Come look at people getting mad at each other over some semi wonky research that have been shared about something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 07:31 AM |
| 4 | What do sexually unsuccessful people want/expect from others when they air their grievances?Its the tiktok algorythm doing its work, from my understanding the tiktok algorythm is super effecient, and very good at doing what its supposed to(keep u useing the app to watch an endless stream of videos that will keep u entertained) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Debunking the narrative that men leave their sick spouse more than women.Just gonna highjack this comment. But I have issues with how u use a research project for males with MS sclerosis to support your claims. MS sclerosis is quite common to result in men haveing trouble staying hard during intercourse(and greatly reduce sensitivity down there for both male and female) and MS sclerosis is ontop of that a very tough diagnosis to be in with a partner. You'll see, experience, and hear when random parts of their body suddenly feels numb for a number of days. Even with m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Are there men who aren’t sexually dominant?I’d like to see how every man who chokes women without consent would react if women happened to choke them without notice Most hetro men doesnt even like to get choker themselves. Sure we are a good chunk, but its the same deal as analsex and play. Most men wont even let u near their butt, it is gettint more widespread but I bet for every male you'll find who's into getting choked/stuff up their butt there's 2 more who will flat out deny the request | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 11:35 PM |
| 6 | If virginity in men is a red flag for you, after which age would you consider it a red flag and why?As much as I hate to agree with this and would love for virginity to not be a red flag, past a certain age. I kinda have to agree with it. All the women I know who were virgins past their early 20s are fucked up in some way. I have the same experience as a man, the few women I've dated who lost their virginity past the early 20's have been quite a mouthful to date, and in regards of sexuality wise, we did not match. Which ofcourse made sense given I had more years of exploring my sexuality and l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:05 AM |
| 3 | A lot of men are actually advocating for women to be more picky (you’re choosing the wrong men), while simultaneously whining that women are being too picky (80/20)I dont think the problem is the dollars. The problem is what earning that amount of dollars bring with it, and some of the stigmatisation around different job titles, humans are a social animal afterall. But women are argurably more social than men. So their subconscious will draw them towards higer earning males because of all the other things than just the monetary value. Alot of women would prefer haveing a doctor or someone who went to university for their education rather than a carpenter. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 12:31 AM |
| 4 | Are Men Incentivizing Low Birth Rates?Claiming it's infidelity is a stretch. You even acknowledge that married women have more kids. It is. Project sexus is the biggest project about sex. And According to Project Sexus 23,1% of men have cheated, and 13,8% of women but here comes the kicker. The age group with the most people who have cheated atleast once is 65-74 while the 15-24 year olds only have 8.8% for men and 5,2 for women. So the infedility doesnt seems like the cause for fewer children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 06:03 PM |
| 15 | If MGOTW was rebranded as 'Permanent Bachelors' would people still have the negative view of it?There's actually also one for 30. Pebermø/pebersvend. But instead of getting cinnamon u either get a big metal barrel, or something made out of metal barrels. Back in the day tho thoose 2 "celebrations" was for sure ways of mocking people into marriage(both male and female) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Is there any actual evidence behind the idea that women actually "like" sex?Yeah PPD kinda feels like that sometimes. I usually brush it off as "cultural differences" the different dating markets worldwide are vastly different with social norms that impacts them. Even within a small country the dating norms change quite rapidly from city to city | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 12:40 PM |
| 2 | VR Porn - "Some experts believe it makes sex so satisfying, men who find it hard to connect with women in real life, might give up completely and happily settle for VR porn as a substitute for real life experiences."More often than not that respect does get translated into the women actually wanting it, even if she wasnt looking for casual sex before, or atleast that's how it is in my experience. That's why I dont understand it since its possible to get the same end result but without being a Jerk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 10:05 AM |
| 7 | VR Porn - "Some experts believe it makes sex so satisfying, men who find it hard to connect with women in real life, might give up completely and happily settle for VR porn as a substitute for real life experiences."Hell, even if he lies to get sex it is still true This I've never understood, why not just being honest about ones intentions and let the other person decide if what your offering is what they'll want. Most of the times people will respect the honesty aslong as your not being condescending | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 10:50 PM |
| 4 | With the advent of TikTok, beauty standards are going to go up even further from where they currently areWhy do you think a handful of hotties on tiktock will actually shift things "seismicly" more than other media? I'd say the amount of time one spend looking at thoose hot people on tictoc, will influence people more than porn. Then we can ask the question, how much have porn actually changed our views on attractiveness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Has modern activism dismantled men's standards?In general in relationships(atleast the unhealthy ones we see online cuz people in healthy relationships doesnt complain about them online for obvious reasons) its seen as the mans duty to make sure his wife feels wanted, and attractive. Yet there doesnt seem to me much talk about how men also wants to feel wanted and attractive by their partner. Few men have experienced a girlfriend go up to them after a long day of work, grab their ass, Kiss them on the neck and whisper "hey sexy, I've missed/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 10:13 AM |
| 3 | How do you feel about dating someone who does OF?Not really, I'm rather promiscious myself, so I dont mind it at that stage, but when it gets serious I stop being it, so aslong as I feel we're still in the casual phase. Sure go ahead, but I would also make sure they knew what my stance was on OF in a serious relationship with me before we got more serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 11:09 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel about dating someone who does OF?If they plan to keep it as an active part of the relation then its a "no thank u, I wish u the best of luck" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 10:24 PM |
| 3 | CMV: women in relationships "setting up" their single male friends with their single female friends is complete fiction, almost never happens in reality.Single women are rare to the point where the only place I ever hear about them is online or in fiction It all comes down to where you're looking. Copenhagen for example have 10.000 more single women than men ageren 18-48 https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thelocal.dk/20150312/all-the-single-ladies-live-in-copenhagen/%3famp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 10:07 PM |
| 9 | TRP has some specks of truth to it but has largely become a money making cult for sociopathic dating/red pill coachesHow I see TRP community is that its best to be part of the community for a certain period of time. It shouldnt be the end all be all life philosophy. There is legitime dating advise which you can and should apply to your own life, but there is also a toxic shadow lurking within the community, like the dating coaches OP is talking about. TRP also serves as a place for men to vent and Bond over their experiences with dating, both negatively and positively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Unvaccinated sperm the new bitcoin?Nah, I see no reason outside od emergency money to donateing sperm. Alot of women have issues with a potential partner who have either had sex with a prostitute, donated sperm, or if their sexual orientation is bi. No need to make the size of my datingpool any smaller than it have to be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 01:42 PM |
| 4 | Why is being considered “Husband material” better than being fwb materialPersonally I interpret both "wife and husband material" as the person being obedient, semi silent, and maybe not a hot person, but good enough looking From a traditional pov a good wife is thoose things, and a good husband is also thoose things the husband will often be viewed by the females who say this as a "emotional rock" in the sense that he will have his emotions "under control" and will be able to listen to the females problems, yet they might not be able to contain and listen to his feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 12:58 AM |
| -1 | How do you think a world with significantly more women than men would play out?I wouldnt be too sure about this. Lowering the male to female ratio will also reduce the number of people working in law enforcement, lawyers etc. Leaveing more opportunities for the low percentage of men actively makeing the world feel less safe for women. A 60/40 split would probably not change that much from the world we're already living in, for either gender on that topic. It would however crumble a good chunk of our infrastructure like Electrics, houseing, clean water, emergency services, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you think a world with significantly more women than men would play out?Long Term Relationship. Almost every acronym used in this subreddit is about relationships, and dating in general. Or about value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Is it realistic for a guy like me (24m) to invest on a long term commitment with a woman and hope it works out if she is more educated, has a higher paying career, and is 3-5 years older if I meet all the standards except for those on education and income?If you and a potential partner have to think about you "not being formelly educated" its just not ment to be u 2, some women cant abstrain from the tought for various reasons, and then a good chunk have already been thinking thoose toughts and are somewhat open to the idea of dating a blue collar job man. But you'll probably have to prove you actually have abit of brains, and intellect. Work on the different kind of intellects there are, engage in diskussions and conversation with your friends w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 06:03 AM |
| 1 | If you want to date 9’s and 10’s, daygame is the way.As far as I've noticed of the whole pill movement, stacy, chad, rating systems and all that isnt actual rating systems, but more as slang words that makes the conversations and debates in here easier to have, because pretty much everyone agree's that theese terms represent a specific set of traits thus makeing everyone know wat kind of person they're reffering to right from the start instead of explaining theese traits. Is this a fair way of doing it? Probably not, but life isnt exactly fair, an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 05:23 AM |
| -1 | Pros and Cons of Marrying a Red Pill Man or “Red Pill Man”That does make sense. Like if someone didnt agree that a transman is a real man they would say that "man" in order to not so subtly hint at the fact that they dont see him as a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Do men cheat more than women even now?Aaah, I see. Was just abit of misunderstanding then. But SAHM's are very rare in Denmark too, but honestly I think you'll find the same case in almost any european country. WW2 did fuck up quite alot of countries i.e loosing alot of men(the primary work force back then) so even my grandmothers wasnt exactly SAHM's altough it was expected by them to not work full time, and my Mother did 30 hours/week when she raised me and my siblings, even when she was a single Mother with 4 Kids. Personally I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Do men cheat more than women even now?The article isnt talking about compared to the past tho, its just talking about what the reasoning behind cheating is for most women. And on a more personal level all the women(like 3 or 4) I know that have cheated was because of the "wanting to feel wanted/sexy/getting some excitement instead of their lovewise dead relationship" while males I know is doing it for some of the same reasons its just more of "my GF never wants to have sex or be intimate with me anymore" which for me to see is quite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 02:07 AM |
| 6 | Do men cheat more than women even now?I've found a danish article where they've asked Facebook users to Come with their reasoning behind it, and where they also talked about a survey done on 1200 american professinals who deals with different terapeuts, and the like. It seems like for most women its to feel wanted, sexy, they want to fall in love anew. Also 23% of women in the Facebook survey(they also took anonymous e-mail in) had cheated on their SO more than 5 times and over half of them had cheated on their SO with the same pers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 12:10 AM |
| – | Why do men see Hypergamy as a horrible evil that destroys the face of the planet?After browsing this sub for a few weeks it has become clear men really loathe it, I am trying to understand why this is viewed so negatively. Remember this sub isnt a good example for how it is in real life, the different pill movements usually draws people who in some form or another are or have been social outcasts, or people who have experienced the same negative patterns troughout their dating life, so Simply put if everything is going good and well in your life you probably wouldnt be on th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 11:05 PM |
| 4 | Men should stop trying to commit to women who don't want commitmentIt used to be common in Northern Europe and the US as well True, to some extend. Seeing as Marriage is usually a religious tradition, it does make sense that many people would opt out of marrying young as religion is getting a more secondary role in a society (as is the case for most of nothern europe) As a Scandinavian I can however tell you that many people stay in a long term relationship without gettin married or engaged(a good chunk of people Even want to just be engaged and never getting m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 09:09 PM |
| 12 | A man who demands that his partner stops using sex toys is accused of everything from being insecure about his size to being an abusive partner, yet women who police their partners use of porn are seen as reasonable, proactive, and victims in the situation. Why?Lets not Even start on the different ways society judges men with toys and women with toys Her with a dildo = in control of her sexuality and all that Him with a fleshlight = a looser Who probably couldnt get sex anywhere else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 03:54 PM |
| -1 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenesswould rather sleep with half the number of women but spend no money, The really succesfull PUA(atleast in my opinion) Will be able to get a good Chunk of women without spending any real money, like the more romantic/shows you've put in some effort dates aren't that expensive, a blanket, a semi decent wine, and a small speaker goes a long way from my experience Bonus point if you tell her to bring 2 of each of her favorite and second favorite alcoholic beverage with her on the date(and you ofcour… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Is there a "secret underworld" of sex going on all the time?I get both of you, but then again I do know some attractive people Who partake in orgies and such. Its not alot, but its enough for me to get a peek into their "reality" of it, usually its not trough public searches, but rather trough meeting friend's, friends and trough partying. Again not saying its widespread and everyone at all. But its enough they're just not as public in the same way outside of thoose circles. Where as less attractive people probably are more public about thoose wishes in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Study shows men rate feeling desired by their partners higher than what is appreciatedWe're all different on a individual level, for some expressing ones feelings works great, because they've learnt troughout the Years to handle thoose emotions that way, so its okay to have a stoic way of handling ones emotions, but its also okay to express them intensely, as a society we should be able respect both ways of handling feelings, as long as thoose ways doesnt hurt other people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Professional couples are on the rise, but it’s not increasing income inequalityWell in order to answear that question correctly I'll first have to explain the immigration situation in a TLDR format. So up untill like the 70's Danmark was like 99% white, which makes sense since we "only" transported slaves, just around 111.000 during the transatlantic slave trade, but we didnt bring them back home, so when the first people from turkey arrived, most danes have never seen a coloured person before, and it was a rather uphill battle for both sides, however it did go rather succ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Professional couples are on the rise, but it’s not increasing income inequalityI'm surprised though. Have most people on PPD only spent time in one class? From my understanding most people in here is from the US, where the social classes is very distinct from each other, I'm from Denmark, and while our social classes are quite distinctiv, and we do indeed have upper class neighbourhoods and areas, you'll also often find people mixing between social classes during School, and education(however most people in uni is people with parents who have a similair education) but due … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Question for all, what requirements do you have in a partner and do you think they are unrealistic?25 honestly just someone I click with and am comfortable for me to be around, also someone who would be considered "low maintenance" due to me not haveing a need for constant affirmation of love over text but rather get it trough by spending time with them in the same room while we're doing each our thing. Oh yeah and snuggles! And honestly, her being willing to be my jetpack as we fall asleep every now and then Nice tits and ass is a bonus, but not a recruirement Outside of that just someone I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 01:35 AM |
| 8 | Is attraction loss in a relationship alwsys inevitable?My personal belief is that too many people want that "new relationship love" all the time, or that they just simply forget that there's a numerous amount og ways to show love and affection towards another person. So when they finally realise that you wont be madly in love like at the start of the relationship forever, people get disappointed, and starts to seek different degrees of This kind of attention elsewhere and while they get that new love/attraction/attention from someone else they start… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 05:26 PM |
| 8 | Society often forces men to become the worst possible versions of themselves to have dating success, if we want this to change Women have to change their dating preferencesI 100% agree with this. The dating market is filled to the brim with egoistic selfserving people, and theese people will exploit you if you're being too submissive, and seem to be too Grateful for them wanting to spend time with you instead of Being happy and compliment each other in so many ways. And I learned This the hard way, the male models in my family while growing up was rather submissive, and now when I reflect back to thoose moments it also seemed like they were just happy that Someone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"That’s why you see in most Reddit threads is copy/paste thinking. That too, and the subconcious need for humans to fit in to their community, be that church, some sportsclub, watching sports, playing computer or just being on reddit. Being a critical thinker disturbs the harmony in said society, and are often not being given the actual time, to bring up their points, and arguments. So most people tend to not give their own critical toughts time to manifest, and evolve. Simply because they know t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 02:37 PM |
| 14 | Europeans on this subreddit. What do you think about American dating culture?In that context I'd like to show you the Danish dating market, alot of it is relaxed, and isnt uncommon that people go from FWB into LTR, atleast from what I've heard and experienced around the kingdom, we do also have a history of being more relaxed with Bodies and not hypersexualising nude bodies(they're still quite sexualiset, but not alot) and alot women likes the more relaxed atmosphere at bars(also we have a "strong" alcohol culture) ofcourse this is my personal experiences as a man in Den… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 02:35 PM |
| 1 | South Park perspective: the inflation of women's looksI belive the whole wendy giving in to the social pressure from what everyone else is doing, is to show how much we as humans want to fit in and be accepted by our social structures, and environemts which in this case is the school and by doing this betraying our own personal beliefs, opinions, and values. Just so we're not alone Or shunned from our community. But this is not exclusive to children and teenagers, adults also does this, it is however with different things but the underlying mechani… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 12:47 AM |
| 2 | The truth about "Dick is abundant and low value"Maybe it's simply a matter women have it easier in terms of rebounds but lurking around reddit you see a hell of a lot of women talking about missing their ex ONS cant really be a good substitute for the emotional dependency that people often develop in a LTR, sex can be emotionel, sex can help you. But sex isnt emotions, and if you havent really worked trough your emotions all sex does for you is a fleeting sensational feeling that hides the hurt for a short time. In my experience this is true … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 04:41 PM |
| – | Women should pursue men and then make them wait for sexWe do, most men just only know how to get that attention and validation from sex, if its a cultural, a thing from society, cultural, or a thing from movies, books and such I cannot answear Also try and compliment a random guy and see how he reacts to it, I bet he's not gonna know what to answear and feel like you're into him, since compliments to males are that rare, and he probably only recieved them when a female where into him/attracted to him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 12:53 AM |
| 4 | Men are less interested in relationships due to changing gender rolesThen the question becomes, why do males mistake validation for sex, and sex for validation? Is it because of the society around us, is it because of our upbringings, is it because male emotions often gets disregarded, by both males, and females alike? Is it because of some old social norm we as a society itsnt ready or willing to change? Is feminism able or willing to change this, is the red pill community ready or willing to change this? And is mistakeing sex and validation for each other reall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 01:24 AM |
| 6 | Men are less interested in relationships due to changing gender rolesI mean we know y'all are sex crazed. Do you mean something else? The real question to that is: is this something society have taught us, male and female alike, how much of that sexcrazed thirst is genuine, and how much of is it conditioned from growing up, movies, series, books etc. And how much of that thirst is from how other men behave around us? Humans are a social animal afterall, so our subconsciousness want us to fit in with the humans we have daily interactions with, since ya know there … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Average penis size amongst sexually active men?Nope, not my own insecurities, but I have talked with men who have small penises, and they're very self aware about their penis size. Well big and small PP energy didnt just come out of nowhere. And its not hard to find posts about men haveing a too small a penis to satisfy their partner. Granted you can have a small penis and be confident, just as a big penis doesnt mean you're not confident. But hearing stuff like "you're a great guy but your penis is just too small to satisfy me" one too many… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 01:25 PM |
| 12 | Average penis size amongst sexually active men?But men with average and big sized penises are probably more promiscious and will seek out sex more since they're more confident, both in the pleasure they can give, and just in general since society tells us a big/good sized penis is important. So from the lack of haveing a good sized penis some men wont even try and get laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 02:08 PM |
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