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| 4 | How to talk to men about money? | SORRY, NOT SORRY. | No-Koala5505 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 04:24 AM |
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| 2 | Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest?Nobody likes to share. That’s why divorced people of both genders are less desirable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest?The world doesn’t revolve around US. The birth rate in the developing world is high enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest?There’s always a choice. They can go for less attractive women, older women, poorer women etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 09:13 PM |
| 0 | Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest?Societal collapse? There’s overpopulation! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 09:12 PM |
| 4 | Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest?Okay. So in order to be not selfish I need to go ahead and spread my legs in front of random incels. Got ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest?Okay. So in order to be not selfish I need to go ahead and spread my legs in front of random incels. Got ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 08:49 PM |
| 0 | Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest?The males who are single do so by choice too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest?Sexless men can pursue other sexless men. I think that society as a whole has more important things to worry about than to babysit men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest?Who is “we” that has to do their best to make sexless men feel not lonely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest?Wait a second. The ratio of men and women is roughly 50:50. There aren’t many more single males than single females | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest?The males complaining about not having a romantic partner are suffering from male entitlement. You rarely see single women bitching about being single. It’s because we are raised differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 08:07 PM |
| 6 | Why don't more people use dating agencies?Women tend not to want to pay for these kind of services, that’s why men are charged higher fees. Another thing is that these type of agencies tend to cater to people who are looking to marry within a specific ethnicity or religion. It’s less appealing to secular people who are open to dating other races or ethnicities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 07:13 PM |
| 2 | What Are Some Unconventional Methods Or Places To Find Someone To Date?Ask your friends and family to set you up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Unmarried women, why do you think the men you want aren't asking to marry you?Me personally? Because I don’t know any men I would marry. I have met and briefly dated only two men who I would marry but they didn’t want me. One was very religious and I am not. The other guy had to travel internationally for his job and we both didn’t want a long distance relationship. But both were quality men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Why its not in your best interest as a woman to have a promiscuous past.Are you Amish? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Why its not in your best interest as a woman to have a promiscuous past.What are these mannerisms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Women: If you asked out a guy and he was nice but said “sorry, you’re just a little too fat for me” how would you respond?I don’t know. I think it’s too nuanced to have a one fits all approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Why its not in your best interest as a woman to have a promiscuous past.How would you know how many guys has she been with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Women: If you asked out a guy and he was nice but said “sorry, you’re just a little too fat for me” how would you respond?If it would happen to me I would be upset. I might even cry. But I would appreciate his honesty and the fact that he didn’t waste my time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 12:42 PM |
| 0 | Men dont have much to offer in datingI know my worth and you’re not going to convince me others. Fifties are long gone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Men dont have much to offer in datingWhat other perspectives? The ones trying to convince me to marry down? No, thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Men dont have much to offer in datingThere’s nothing wrong with solipsism. Nobody should run a charity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Men dont have much to offer in datingI believe in working hard. If I work hard enough I can earn more. Sharing things is okay if you have a good prenup, but no marriage is even safer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 04:40 AM |
| 3 | Men dont have much to offer in datingWhy do I need to share custody or assets or anything if I am totally capable to survive on my own? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Men dont have much to offer in datingI don’t think that sex is the sole purpose of relationship. I just don’t want to risk losing my assets in a divorce for very ephemeral “companionship”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Men dont have much to offer in datingYa da, ya da… it’s easier to hire someone to do the household chores and get a fuck buddy. This way you don’t risk having to split your hard earned money with anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Men dont have much to offer in datingOkay. So what can an average man provide in a modern relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleLinks please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 12:35 AM |
| 2 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleI think that in order to have a harem a man has to either be Elon Musk or aim for low iq/psycho women. The rest of women are going to see that they are being taken advantage of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 12:35 AM |
| 2 | If women are fed up with dating men, isn't it on the men to change?My comment is based on living a secular/atheist life in the United States. This might not apply to say evangelical Christians or Saudi Arabians. I think that these days it’s easier to quit dating or give up on marriage altogether. Marriage and child birth have great potential risks for both genders. So the pro’s have to outweigh the con’s by a very great margin. On the other hand, the societal pressure to marry is historically low. People on Reddit seem to think that women are bullied into marri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 05:55 PM |
| 2 | If women are fed up with dating men, isn't it on the men to change?Whose bar is low? Men’s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleWhat’s a chad harem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 10:49 PM |
| 6 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleWell, I date in order to get married. I don’t waste time dating men whom I don’t see as a future husband. So if he wants me to contribute financially more than he wants his children to have a SAHM, I move on even if I like him very much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 03:06 PM |
| 8 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleI don’t know what other women do with their dating profiles. I don’t date women. However, throughout the years I had to break up multiple relationships due to financial issues. I want to be a SAHM, but the men I met all wanted me to send my children to a daycare so that I can contribute financially. It’s not what I wanted for my family. So if something is not stated in one’s profile, it doesn’t mean it’s unimportant or won’t come up and become a dealbreaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 02:38 PM |
| 6 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleNo, being attractive is not enough. Women are expected to contribute financially etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 02:06 PM |
| 2 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleAm I missing something here? Absent wars the ratio of women and men is roughly equal. So for every lonely man there’s a single woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Why don't single men go to church to find a wife if the sex ratios in church are usually 60-40, female-male?There are women doing this too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?I did, indeed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?I only date child support ridden, beer bellied guys. Bonus point if they are red pill. No sexy time for ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?I can help you pay your child support. Your place or mine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?You are my last chance. Please be kind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 09:35 PM |
| 0 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Are you trying to hit on me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 09:27 PM |
| 6 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Why would any woman be interested in a guy who has 8 baby momas? There’s so much to unpack there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 09:00 PM |
| 0 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Please get a life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 08:47 PM |
| 4 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Single moms don’t exist in absence of single dads, unless we are talking about immaculate conception. For every single mom there is a single dad. I don’t know where the you get your statistics from , but the fathers do get affected at least financially by having children. A guy who has to pay child support and spend time with his kids is different from a childless guy. Single dads bitch and moan about women not wanting to date them. I (f) see bazillion of OLD profiles of (recently) divorced guys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 08:46 PM |
| -1 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Whatever. Don’t take it to heart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 08:37 PM |
| -1 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?This topic is just a random discussion on the internet. The same old bla bla bla. One has to be very naïve to take it to heart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 08:27 PM |
| 0 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Nobody is telling me or anyone to chase single dads. Nobody is telling men to chase single moms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?I would say it’s even | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 08:14 PM |
| 4 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?I am in NYC. I am not sure about my class affiliation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 08:09 PM |
| 9 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Believe me, single dads paying child support and having 50/50 custody are not that desirable, especially among single moms. It’s just that women don’t rant about single dads, they just don’t date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 08:00 PM |
| 10 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Well, speaking from a female perspective the same goes for single dads. How are single dads better?! Some other woman has him paying for her child and baby sit, while I would have to split bills because he spent all his money on child support? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Does your friend have some sort of a fertility problem? I know of a similar story. A 40 year old guy has had multiple unsuccessful attempts to settle down but he couldn’t father a child. He was ultimately diagnosed with male infertility. He married a single mom with one boy. She is extremely good looking and very successful in her career without any visible issues whatsoever. Fast forward the step son got addicted to drugs and severely injured (almost killed) his step dad. The step dad was alway… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Women want to date someone on their level or higher because they are turned off by sharing their RessourcesAs a female I get asked what I do for a living as one of the first questions on the dating apps. Never ever have I met a male who would mind dating a woman who makes more than him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 11:04 PM |
| 6 | Women want to date someone on their level or higher because they are turned off by sharing their RessourcesAs a female I get asked what I do for a living as one of the first questions on the dating apps. Never ever have I met a male who would mind dating a woman who makes more than him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 11:03 PM |
| 0 | Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles?If you are too scared to work go find yourself a man to provide for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles?Your dangerous jobs argument doesn’t apply to developed nations. No, men don’t risk anything by impregnating a woman. Those men who risk their lives by going to dangerous jobs made a choice when they signed up when they chose that particular job, just as women who chose dangerous jobs did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles?What does being a stay at home parent have to do with unemployment? What are you talking about? Unemployment benefits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles?In my circle (including myself) women would rather stay childless than settling for a 50/50 financial arrangement or being a single working mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles?He doesn’t need the sole provider. He can risk his life and health by carrying a pregnancy to term and breastfeeding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles?Oh my! As if modern men don’t cheat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles?There are many stay at home dads out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?There’s nothing wrong with a guy or a girl not going on many dates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?There are plenty of guys who like to spend money they earn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Bikini waxing?I do my own waxing. I could never find a salon that would satisfy my hygiene standards. I wax because with my type of body hair always bothers me. It rubs against my skin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?It has to do with the fact that men are supposed to be breadwinners. If he can’t/doesn’t want to pay now he’s not going to provide for me after children are born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 03:23 AM |
| 3 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?Tattoos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 07:43 PM |
| 0 | if you're a young woman that only dates men who earn 80k+, then you can't complain about older men dating young women.Where in the US do you live? I live in NYC and the majority of people I know earn at least 75k a year and they are under 30. I can imagine that salaries in Ohio are lower. The people in my social circle who earn low wages are undocumented immigrants, people who don’t speak English, students and people who don’t need to earn much because they live their parents rent free. Oh, I know a guy who makes zero per year because he has severe schizophrenia and he lives with mom and dad who pay for everyth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 05:49 AM |
| 0 | What do you think about men who date or have dated a Sugar Mommy ?Why would a woman want to pay you for sex if she can get it for free anytime anywhere? What is it about your personality and looks that would make her want to spend money on you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 08:08 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about men who date or have dated a Sugar Mommy ?There plenty of women who are not hot at all, terrible personalities etc. who don’t need to pay for sex at all. As a woman you can go to any dating app or a local bar and find a guy willing to have sex with you. No need to buy him anything, not even a glass of beer. I think that men don’t understand that dynamic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | When women are willing to sleep with men without commitment, do you think it makes harder for all the other women to get a long-term partner?It might be that he is having casual sex with you while looking for his one and only to start a family with. I have done that too. I am looking for a good man to start a family with while I have several booty call guys. I am sure that my friends with benefits are also looking for other women to start a family with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | When women are willing to sleep with men without commitment, do you think it makes harder for all the other women to get a long-term partner?It takes a lot more than casual sex to conceive, birth and most importantly raise children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 08:45 PM |
| 29 | Avoid using OLD to meet menOkay. So how do I meet men? My family lives in another state. My friends don’t know anyone they can set me up with. Sleeping with coworkers is a huge no to me. Social activities? My hobbies are pretty solitary. Meeting people in interest groups on social media? I feel like those are going to be the same weirdoes from OLD. Speed dating? I don’t know how that is going to work with the pandemic and stuff. I tried talking to a matchmaker, but I am not going to pay hundreds of bucks to her to send me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 03:45 PM |
| 7 | Blog: "Women Don't Pay For Dates."This was absolutely about a green card. That’s the only possible logical explanation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 02:34 PM |
| 2 | women who insist the man pays on the first date are really prostitutes committing fraudUhm… not really. I will spend my time with a guy who likes me and I like him. I have had plenty of dates where I didn’t want the guy to pay for a date or (forget about money) talk to him because I just didn’t like him. So if I don’t like a guy, I pay for my meal/drink and leave. It’s my understanding that I am sending a signal “I don’t like you” by refusing to accept anything from him. If I like a guy and he wants to split the bill, I interpret it as if he doesn’t like it and I move on. If I lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 02:45 AM |
| 2 | women who insist the man pays on the first date are really prostitutes committing fraudNot my problem at all. There are plenty of guys who like me and would gladly pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 12:26 AM |
| 2 | women who insist the man pays on the first date are really prostitutes committing fraudHow is that my problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 12:16 AM |
| 2 | women who insist the man pays on the first date are really prostitutes committing fraudWhat does this have to do with being prostitutes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 11:57 PM |
| 2 | women who insist the man pays on the first date are really prostitutes committing fraudI am always happy to know that there are smart guys out there. Power to them. I also understand that there are women who might have traumatized a guy, so now he is afraid of being used for a meal. But it’s not my problem. I don’t want to be punished for what other women did. If he isn’t over whatever situation he should be spending money on therapy, not drinks with random women. I am not his therapist nor his mom. If he doesn’t show as little interest in me by paying for a date, it’s just not me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 11:48 PM |
| 2 | women who insist the man pays on the first date are really prostitutes committing fraudIf he has money, but doesn’t want to pick up the tab, it means that he is just not that into me. So why should I sleep with someone who doesn’t like me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 11:37 PM |
| 2 | women who insist the man pays on the first date are really prostitutes committing fraudYes, it’s very normal for a woman to expect the man to spend money on her/show that he provide, if both of them are considering setting down and having children. So if a guy doesn’t have the five bucks to pay for my coffee now, why would he be able/willing to provide for me and our children while I am on my maternity leave? Very simple logic, really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 11:21 PM |
| 2 | women who insist the man pays on the first date are really prostitutes committing fraudThen ask her before the date if she wants to have sex with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 11:06 PM |
| 1 | women who insist the man pays on the first date are really prostitutes committing fraudYou also have to keep in mind that women are expected to dress up, do their nails/make up etc. for the date which is time consuming and expensive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 11:05 PM |
| 1 | women who insist the man pays on the first date are really prostitutes committing fraudAre you talking about a group of queer men? Because straight guys wouldn’t worry about sexual intercourse with another man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 11:01 PM |
| 4 | I don’t get mad at woman for their nature. Men should understand the rules of the game and play to win.Why can’t you be a SAHD? I know plenty of SAHD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | "When a woman talks to a man, she is thinking of his future (his earning potential, etc.), and when a man talks to a woman, he is thinking of her past (how old is she? her weight? her history?)." - The Book of Pook. How applicable is this statement some 20 years after Pook wrote it?Hahah. I have yet to see a man who would refuse a second income brought in by his wife. I am talking about the US now. Maybe in Saudi Arabia men don’t care for their earnings, but not in the states. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | "When a woman talks to a man, she is thinking of his future (his earning potential, etc.), and when a man talks to a woman, he is thinking of her past (how old is she? her weight? her history?)." - The Book of Pook. How applicable is this statement some 20 years after Pook wrote it?It so naive to think that men don’t think about women’s earning potential. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 04:05 AM |
| 95 | Canadian Scrote sues woman 6 years after date for "mental anguish". As if there isn't enough good reasons to vet *before* going on a date...(reposted to remove info)You can sue anyone for any reason. Winning is a completely different thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Average men never truly experience a women's love at its full extentThe average guy is doing just as fine romantically as everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Average men never truly experience a women's love at its full extentI know several guys like that living in New York City where 40k isn’t much and these guys are happily married with kids. At least in nyc it’s considered very normal for a woman to outearn a man. A female friend of mine who is a lawyer is married to a low income receptionist guy and she is only 5 years his senior. I can go on and on about “average “ guys having married/ in LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Average men never truly experience a women's love at its full extentWhat’s an average guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market?There are plenty of women who are in prison or in mental asylums and such. It evens out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 10:47 PM |
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