No one can fix anyone else. Development and healing is a personal journey and takes hard work and perseverance. If men want safe spaces they need to stop using violence and aggression to solve problems and get what they want, it’s safe for no one. Does “intimate connection” mean sex? No one is owed sex. There are plenty of women who remain virgins into their 30s too we just don’t hear them making a big deal out of it as they don’t feel entitled to sex.
It’s funny how we don’t see so called “low value” women crying and raging on the internet or shooting up the place because they aren’t getting enough attention and coddling.
Life isn’t fair. You might not get a trophy, you might lose a game sand you might not get a job you apply for. Same with dating. No one is owed sex and relationships.
I imagine men are even more frustrated that there are women out there happy and satisfied with their careers who are not lesbians and just choose single life because men aren’t worth the effort for sex or relationships